The 10 RULES That Made Me a BETTER Crocheter & Knitter

[@angelatalbert5114]

If I decide, after working on a project for awhile, that I don't like the project or it is boring, I force myself to pull all the yarn out and wrap it up. If I simply leave the project unfinished, it feels like a weight on my shoulders and causes me not to want to crochet.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That is excellent!! Thank you so much for sharing!! What a great way to keep projects from languishing in WIPland forever!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@lovemesomeslippers]

I just did this and you’re right. It does make a difference. I wish I’d known this sooner!

[@kathibaker1574]

That's why a good yarn winder is such a must.

[@kira6317]

I always do that many people think I'm crazy for pulling out the yarn because they know I worked hard for it, but it's even more painful leaving it unfinished😞

[@lilolmecj]

I had a wool blanket I started when I was just starting and didn’t realize I needed at least twice as much yarn. I had done really well on the stitching but it had nowhere to go. I finally frogged it. I haven’t done anything with the yarn, but it is nicely rolled waiting for use. It is a better way. I didn’t do it with intention like you described, but i can see the wisdom.

[@lyndagibson9699]

My number one rule is not to commit to making something for someone else. I pick projects that interest ME and when I’m done with it I can decide to gift it to someone or keep for myself. Committing to knit for others creates all kinds of stress for me.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Meeeee too!! I feel exactly the same way! 🧶🧶🧶

[@asianraccoon]

I had to learn it the hard way. I have started amigurumi for 1,5 month and out of all 7 projects 6 were for other ppl as a gift. The pressure of having to finish until deadline can take the joy away. Now I can finally start crocheting for myself and it feels amazing.

[@megan5614]

“Comparison is the thief of joy” well amen to that! In crochet, knitting or any other aspect in life. Great rules for sure

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

It's such a good rule to apply to every area of our lives. 🧶🧶🧶

[@annbrady6212]

I have to remind myself that I'm not knitting from need, but for my own enjoyment and to learn new things. That helped me get over the idea that I need to be fast or that ripping a project back is a failure. I don't *like* it when I screw up, but I almost always learn something, so I count it as a win. It all works out if I'm patient.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I know many people will be able to relate!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@11thShadowDragon]

1. Give instructions a light reading (or watching) through before you actually start them! It helps with avoiding bumps in the road as you come up to quirks you may not have realized were there to begin with.
2. Remember that it's ok to read patterns *slowly.* Efficiency isn't just speed, it's also getting things done correctly. It's better to go a little slower at first as you become familiar with a stitch or repeat or what have you instead of having to frog back repeatedly.
3. Accept your personal limitations but keep pushing forward when it's reasonable. It's okay if you can't do/figure out something *yet.* We all have different paces for different things. Sometimes it just ain't time yet.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

These are such good tips!! Thank you so much for sharing!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@erica9443]

Something that’s been helping me recently as I’ve started picking up a few new techniques (tatting, knitting, bobbin lace) is that mistakes are not the end of the world, they’re helping you learn. I had to completely undo and restart a bobbin lace project because I completely messed up the beginning. But now I know what I did and how to avoid it in the future! It doesn’t have to be perfect right away; give yourself the grace to make mistakes. Learning new things becomes a lot more fun that way!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Love this!! I learn more from my mistakes because I never forget those lessons! Thanks so much for sharing your experience and bobbin lace sounds ah-mazing!!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@tiernsshadow]

I love how these rules work for you! I used to keep similar rules, but a few years ago I burned out hard on knitting, partly from pushing myself too hard at it. It was only after picking up crochet and doing nothing but mindless granny squares for a long time that I found my way back to knitting. Now my number one rule is "If it's not fun, f--- it."
If I'm not enjoying a project, I don't have to finish it. If I don't like the yarn I ordered for that sweater, I can use something else. If an old WIP hanging around is making me feel guilty, I frog it. When I learn a new skill these days, it's out of joy and curiosity, not obligation. Me of 10 years ago would be HORRIFIED. XD But priorities change, and everyone needs something a little different out of their crafting. Keep the rules that help you enjoy your hobby, and leave the rest!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing what helped bring back the joy of knitting!!! I also don't work on projects that I don't love anymore. Love your attitude!!! 🥁🧶🧶

[@Siennaflower]

I like your rules! One thing I have found for myself is that I end up leaving projects unfinished for a long time, but eventually I usually get inspired to finish them, when I decide I want to wear or use them. My creative process is such that I either have 0 projects going, or 10! Working on several projects at once keeps my interest, because when I get tired of one, I can pick up another. I tend to go in phases of generating ideas, planning, and executing, so when I'm in a certain phase, I do it for several projects at once. I have too many ideas to only work on one project at a time! I also try to leave myself a lot of time if I'm making a project with a deadline, such as a birthday or holiday gift. When I was younger, I would get inspired to make a gift for someone, and then decide I had to make something for everyone else as well, which always ended up being too much. Now, I don't put that kind of pressure on myself. I don't make predictions about what I will get done when, and I don't tell people something is coming until it's done--also too much pressure. Keep 'em guessing! ❤️

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing what works for you. And I can relate to wanting to make gifts for all the people! 🧶🧶🧶

[@christineschaefer8216]

Last July I lost my wonderful husband to lung cancer. I've never had any real hobbies and didn't have people to spend my time with. Being a widow in your mid forties is very difficult. I tried jigsaw puzzles, diamond paintings, needlepoint.. then one day saw a video on UA-cam on how to crochet. I ordered a beginner kit on Amazon and became instantly addicted. I needed that thing too to keep myself busy and found it. Now I even have paid commissions, I crochet every day and am still learning... I was referred to as an artist not too long ago and almost cried! I appreciate creators like you, spreading the joy of crochet! Ive taught 2 coworkers myself because everyone should learn this craft!

[@norahbelfor1322]

Ive been crocheting for about 8 years now, I started when I was 9. And this is the only hobby that has ever stuck with me and im so proud how far ive come :))

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's wonderful!!! I wish I had started that young!! You'll be a pro when you're my age!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@norahbelfor1322]

@@EliseRoseCrochet I hope so

[@mysticmeadowshomestead6209]

I've got nothing to add. I'm on day two of beginning knitting. My daughter is teaching me to knit a tea cosy for my Betty Blue Teapot. I insisted on pink beads (the cosy is purple). I have a total of two straight needles (no idea of gauge) and I'm so thrilled. When raising my daughter I told her about one group of friends sitting around talking and how one woman in the group was just knitting away and that every now and then, she'd pop on a bead, and all the while keep talking as part of the group. So on day two of my very first time knitting, I told my daughter, (who taught herself so that she could teach me) that a lifetime goal is being achieved after 40 years! We're both so excited and happy.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

How exciting for you!!! Knitting is such a wonderful pastime!!!! You'll soon be the inspiration for someone else! 🧶🧶🧶

[@bridgetn2575]

Fantastic video! One of my rules is that if I have to walk away from a WIP for an extended period of time, then I write down the pattern name and hook size on a piece of paper and then pin it to the project. I have set aside several WIPs for a variety of reasons and have forgotten the details necessary to pick up where I left off.
I appreciate the other posters who frog projects they aren’t in love with. It has only been in the last few years that I “gave myself permission” to quit reading books that I hate, are boring, etc. I think I’ll give myself permission to frog WIPs that have been languishing for months or years! All that yarn can be used for projects I’ll enjoy more.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thanks so much for that tip!! I have a few projects that I literally have no idea what size hook I used!! 🙈🙈🙈 I've also been giving myself permission to not finish books that I don't like!! 📚📚📚

[@amandajane8227]

I just finished a project I started during covid lockdowns. I wish I had taken note of the pattern as it was very complicated and I restarted at the wrong point and had to undo that when it became obvious. That youtube video got a hammering as I worked out the pattern again.

[@camillegee9430]

Agree 1000% about the right tools. There's a lot of 'hack' videos out there with ideas to substitute tools, which is fine in a pinch but not sustainable. Same goes for your crochet hook, you don't need a fancy one but you need one that is comfortable. Your hands and wrists shouldn't hurt, ever, and if they do experiment with ergonomic hooks!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Fantastic tips! A good tool will last a really long time if well cared for! And couldn't agree more about the right crochet hook for you! 🧶🧶🧶

[@tlj1621]

I am a one project at a time person, I do not have a yarn collection. It causes stress and anxiety (a reason why I crochet and try to knit). This is a hobby for me. I learned several years ago from my grandmother, mom, and neighbor. I was lucky to have them teach me. Now, I am the only one that still does it. I’m so thankful that UA-cam exists so this craft continues. Tools are important! Like most My fist hook was what we had Susan Bates hooks. Now there are tons. I use Clover Amore and Furls Streamline Wood hooks and ChiaoGoo Knitting needles.
Enjoy your journey! You will be amazed at what you can do and learn.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! I'm so glad you found what works for you! My yarn collections inspires me, but I can see how it could cause stress for someone else! Thank so much for sharing!! 🧶💖🧶💖

[@novedekne]

This video goes well beyond crochet. I’m a programmer and many of these tips apply to programming along with many other hobbies/skills.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Couldn't agree more! So many of the skills that help you succeed with crocheting and knitting apply to so many others of life! 🧶🧶🧶

[@kazeboiii]

One major rule for me is that I no longer guilt myself for starting over on something when I don’t like how something is turning out. If I’m not satisfied with it, there’s no point in continuing as I am when I can frog what I have and start over. I will typically try to determine what it is that dissatisfies me first, then start over and try something different, even if it deviates from the pattern (if I am working from one), to see what **does** work for me.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That is such a great rule!! Thank you for sharing! Life is too short to spend it working on projects that don't bring you any joy! 🧶🧶🧶

[@audraforbes]

These are great tips that can be applied to ANYTHING! And I love Miss Olive! It’s so cute that you let her help with your video. (She’s so encouraging!)

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You are so right! And Miss Olive loves to "help"!!! 😂🧶😂🧶

[@eerenay]

Rule #8: Weaving in ends right away. I totally agree! Weaving the ends in as I knit as been a game changer for me.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

It makes the ending of the project a lot more fun if the ends are already mostly woven in! 🧶🧶🧶

[@brendaneutel6610]

I have learned that not all mistakes have to be fixed. The need for "perfection" can rob us of the satisfaction of completing a project. Somtimes I just need to keep going or the project will never get finished. I have also become a better knitter and crocheter so that I can now figure out how to "fix" the mistake on the next row instead of tearing my work out.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you for sharing that!! Couldn't agree more!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@janetramon7087]

Great tips for all. I have crocheted for 40+ years and learning amigurumi was a challenge, but, I hung in there and enjoy the process. I taught myself to knit a few years ago and making socks were a challenge. A little every day is great advice. Love your inspirational videos.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey! It's pretty amazing when we look back we can see how much we've learned! And there are still so many more projects and techniques I don't know how to do! That's what I love about it! 🧶🧶🧶

[@janetramon7087]

Yes. Always new techniques and patterns. It is a journey. Your amigurumi videos helped me immensely. Thank you.

[@dimplesMcGillicuddy]

Those bunnies! 😍😍😍
Your room is inspiring, with all the little dressed critters and the lovely kitties that are wearing their own coats. I need to learn to slow down. So many things I want to do and never enough time. I’ve been grooming pets, professionally, since 1986. I’ve had carpal tunnel surgery on my right wrist, 20 years ago. I still hurt. One of the things that I have learned is to put down a project and walk away for a few hours, a few days, or even a week! Things look a lot clearer when you pick it up again.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

How wonderful!! I bet you have a lot of fun stories from grooming animals for so many years! And I couldn't agree more about taking time off from crafting! It helps us physically and mentally!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@jessicacollins8049]

I love that you knit and crochet. One rule i have is no social media/distractions when im sitting down to work. I keep my phone on silent and deleted distracting apps. Listening to audiobooks also helps me concentrate.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you! I love being able to jump back and forth between the two! 🧶🧶

[@SparklyOne]

You are such an inspiration for me and my knitting journey of 2 1/2 years now. I have your voice of reason stuck in my head telling me to stick to one project and finish it before moving on to another one 😀🙌🏻 It’s not easy, especially as a creative, but it’s helped me keep focused a bit more. Thank you for your inspiration 🥰💖🙏 God bless you and your family 💝

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww! Thank you so much!! I'm so glad you're enjoying your creative journey and that I could play a small part in it!! 💖💖💖

[@marilynmoster7084]

While I'm taking your rules to heart, I'm also watching many videos about tips to increase my knitting and crochet skills. A rule I learned from "Watch Barbara Knit" channel is to "stop and admire". Looking back at the completed part of my project allows me to catch a mistake early, saving me a lot of frustration and keeping me excited to complete my project.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's fantastic!! Thank you so much for sharing that tip!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@lilaboss6894]

I have two things that have really helped me with my crocheting. First - I had to change my mindset that it was okay to frog. When I started crocheting I never wanted to undo my work - even if it was only several rows. I now have the attitude that if something is not quite right - it's okay "I can stitch it again.".
Second - I count my stitches - A LOT! I have gotten burned so many times by having to frog rows and rows of an item because I didn't have the right amount of stitches that I now count my stitches through most of my projects. I may skip a row now and then if it's an easy repeat pattern - but I count the next row to make sure I'm on track.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Fantastic tips! Thanks for sharing!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@janetkinne8233]

Loved these guidelines. My favorite is not to compare myself to others but instead be inspired that I, too, can reach that level if I preserve. 😅I will always keep striving to become proficient in what I decide to tackle. Thank you for these reminders!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's a great attitude to have!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@unravelledchaos]

Thank you for the tips! (And for cute the kitty cat haha)

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You're so welcome! The cats were excited to "help" me make a video!! 😂🧶😂🧶

[@unravelledchaos]

@@EliseRoseCrochet My cat is the same! I can't crochet without his supervision haha

[@jimflack9462]

You are my inspiration for amigurumi. I've been crocheting for 12 years and feel pretty confident, but when I tried amigurumi last spring, I needed HELP! There you were in UA-cam and I have watched every amigurumi video you have multiple times. If I have a question, you're my go to person for answers. Thank you for being there for many of us who need inspiration and help!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oh my goodness! Jim, thank you for your kind comments!! I appreciate your support so much! I'm so glad to have played a small part in your amigurumi journey!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@eliothowell8654]

Jim, good to see a fellow male crocheter. We're a rare breed.

[@jimflack9462]

@@eliothowell8654 I needed something creative to do after retirement and loss of my wife. I joined a class at our senior center to learn and the rest is history! 11 yrs later I'm still at it!! We are a rare breed. Yrs ago, we'd been ostracized, and thought "strange." Or worse. Glad times have changed, even a little.

[@eliothowell8654]

@@jimflack9462 Thanks for getting back Jim. In our community we have a "Stitch in Time" group. Of course, I am the only male member. Just me and the girls. My wife is jealous (not). All the best for your future projects.

[@jimflack9462]

@@eliothowell8654 our group is "Knot Just Knitters," and like you, I'm the only guy. Lol

[@richardsmith9704]

Sometimes, it really is best to take a break from a project that isn't working and coming back to it later with fresh eyes😌

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Absolutely! Great tip!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@ladymc7563]

I was nodding my head through this entire video

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! 🧶🧶🧶

[@crowdedcar]

I’m teaching myself to crochet again after years of carpal tunnel syndrome. It’s been amazing to finally start seeing things come to life.
Learning to set things down and come back when I’m feeling frustrated has saved so many projects from the WIP cemetery. 😅

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I'm so glad you're able to come back to crocheting again!! 👏👏👏

[@rosenbergbenadretti]

Nice list: I would add: only gift projects for people who appreciate a hand made gift... There's something so satisfying in gifting a personal creation than having that appreciation back at you, maybe with a cute picture or something like that. Greatest feeling!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Great tip! 🧶🧶🧶

[@marcottm25]

I went from woobles to pica pau 1 and 3. So far I've made it through the seagull and fox. Sooo challenging being that I'm new but I'm loving the struggle.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Wow!! I'm impressed!! But if you can make those projects, you can make anything!! Congratulations!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@andrealouis-visser4973]

Miss olive is very pleased with your progress as evidenced by the eye squeezes. ❤❤❤

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Yes!! She's such a sweetie! ❤️

[@carolvargas6507]

Thanks for being there with a new video every Saturday morning. I look forward to it so much! I love watching your older videos over again and again...and continue to learn from them, too.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so very much, Carol! I appreciate your support so much!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@zarac2107]

Another fabulous video Elise! I am always so impressed at how interesting and engaging you make your videos! Thank you for all of the time and effort you put into them! 😍🧶🤩

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww! Thank you so much, Zara! I'm so glad you enjoy them!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@bettyadkisson1681]

I always have at least 5 projects going at one time. I start the first row then do another one in a different color. That way it's faster for me too finish them. I've been working on the messy bun frozen hat and twisted ear warmers. And I buy x- larger zip handled bags too store all finished items. I made 10 twisted ear warmers,5 messy bun hats, baby hats, and 3 cocoons ,Santa,elf,and snowman. For granddaughter to sell for extra Christmas cash. And same for my great niece but her bag had purses not cocoons. They both have had new babies a few months old.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's wonderful!! How sweet of you to make things for them to sell. Sounds like you have been very busy!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@nancystevenson562]

Number one applies to many things! Everything!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I think so too!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@valeriehowden471]

great tips! I never think of frogging back a completed object a waste of money cause that yarn will be used in another project. waste of time, think of it as a learning experience. some are tougher than others for sure.
kitty innocently walking across the set table brought back so many memories. miss my kitty.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's such a great perspective! So sorry for your loss with your kitty. 🧶💖🧶💖

[@theLoveSucks100]

I've been feeling pretty bad lately and I don't crochet as much as I used to, but when you said "Comparison is the thief of joy" it made me feel less heavy (?). I don't know how to explain it, but what i'm trying to say is that that phrase makes so much sense and not only in crochet or knitting related topics. I think your video was suggested just so I could hear that phrase. Thank you.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's wonderful!!! That makes me so happy. There are so many lessons about crocheting and knitting that apply to other areas of life. 🧶🧶🧶

[@jholt1120]

AND I have around 5-7 projects going on at the same time. I like jumping from one to the other... it keeps me excited & I adore the planning process!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Every person finds what works best for them!! That's great!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@dolliegurl4607]

Always love to hear good advice that is applicable to any craft or project, and rule #1 really is true about anything. I only crochet and sometimes felt like my finished projects looked too simple or lacked all the fancy stitches that other crocheters added (I crochet mostly doll clothes, Barbie in particular), and it almost made me want to stop. Finally learned to make styles I like, pick colors I like, and that it was ok to make things using basic stitches. Just being able to sit down and crochet helps me relieve stress and in the long run, that was more important than making some fancy dress or outfit. I am still trying new patterns but now I feel happier with every project I start and enjoy the process much more than before. This was such a good video!!! Thank you!!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I totally understand how you used to feel. I found the same experience that if I focused on what I was doing I found joy. And that's the point! There's so much happiness to be found in crocheting and knitting! Thank you so much for sharing your experience! 🧶🧶🧶

[@eliothowell8654]

Thanks for your good advice. Excellent enthusiastic delivery.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@jholt1120]

I've been crocheting almost nonstop since Sept 6th, 2022... so I'm pretty sure I'm an advanced beginner or at beginning of intermediate & have already faced every topic/rule you touch on. I'm sticking to pretty much Amigurumi for now but I've made a baby blanket & scarf as well. Am very much enjoying the challenge & hating the frustrations BUT I'm learning SO MUCH along the way. I've cried, laughed, & felt pride in these short 7 weeks and have put in countless hours mainly because I don't sleep much & I'm physically disabled, so I'm able to put in a lot of time doing it. I have yet to allow a day go by that I don't challenge myself. Maybe I should take a day & just make ALLL easy stuff & give my expectations a break.💝
Thank you for sharing your experience, expertise, & life with us! These things help me very much on my journey with crocheting.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That is wonderful!!!! I'm so happy you've found something that you enjoy so much! My only caution is that those muscles need breaks. I was like you in the beginning and crocheted many hours every day. I ended up with a nasty case of tendinitis and it took months to heal. Repetitive motion injuries are very common in crocheters. Just make sure to take those breaks and stretch those muscles!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@corgilover2319]

One of the best tips I learned was don't throw away old magazines. without thinking. Sound ridiculous BUT throughout my years as a crocheter I have learned that my tastes change and what you feel like making can change too. So when I get a magazine I look and if there are more than 3 projects that I would make now or see myself making I keep it. Do I still sort through and get rid of some? Yes. But that rule has saved me from huge disappointments. Some magazines make deals with designers and that is the only way to get that pattern so it's worth it. That may not be for everyone, but for me, it's important.
Thank you for always sharing your tips and tricks with us.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing this tip! I actually just subscribed to three crafting magazines! I'm looking forward to the patterns and the articles!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@G-grandma_Army]

Great rules. One that I don’t do when doing stranded color work is to weave in right away. I’m fairly new to it and invariably I will see a mistake that I just can’t (won’t) let go… tearing out my work is so much harder if I have already weaved in my ends.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Yes!! You are so right! I learned not so weave in stranded colorwork right away too! Should have added that in there! Thanks for sharing!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@gabrielemalcolm3567]

You are such a "Gem", Elise. Love all that you share 🥰 enjoy your weekend 🧶

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww, thank you so much! 🧶🧶🧶 Hope you have a great weekend too! ❤️❤️❤️

[@christinejoyrodriguez4145]

I'm convinced that I can call myself a crocheter because I can relate to what you say

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You can definitely call yourself a crocheter, no matter where you are on your journey! 🧶🧶🧶

[@audraforbes]

If you have made a chain with a crochet hook and yarn, you are a crocheter! Keep practicing and you will amaze yourself. ❤

[@nancyg323]

I admire your knitting skills. As soon as I have a moment to catch my breath, I want to learn better. For now,I'm just looking for an easy blanket to crochet...I completely agree with you. Sometimes I need to do something challenging, this month is a season where I need an easy pattern.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I totally relate!! Easy projects are wonderful and have their place in our crocheting and knitting journeys! 🧶🧶🧶

[@gocanadayayyy]

I think my favourite rule is just that this whole thing is supposed to be FUN! If I'm not having fun with something, I don't HAVE to work on it (or if it's a gift, I don't have to work on it RIGHT NOW, haha). If a project doesn't appeal to me, even if it's super popular or trendy, I don't have to do it (this is why I've never done amigrumi)! The other rule is honestly... that I don't have to get better! For me crochet is just for fun and for some easy blanket gifts. It's satisfying and helps me get off my phone. It helps me appreciate that progress does eventually lead to something being done. It's a form of creative expression and a calming repetitive task for my brain. But if I never get to advanced patterns, that's okay too.
I do love the advice to take time picking yarns and colours! I get so impulsive when I want to start something that I just have 0 patience and will do whatever it takes to start NOW. But I think I would enjoy the end product more if I just took my time to find the right material.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! It is so true! This is supposed to be fun and relaxing!! Thanks for sharing!!! Great reminder! 🧶🧶🧶

[@nicoleallen6768]

Great video! My favorite rule is “learn something new” I used to only work on very simple and basic patterns when my kids were little because it was just too hard to concentrate on patterns that needed a lot of attention and counting. Now I love to work on more difficult projects. Of course this rule can be applied to almost everything in life, but I definitely love learning new knitting and crochet skills!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Totally can relate! All I could do when my kids were little was keep everyone fed and mostly clean!! 😂😂😂 Now I feel very blessed to be able to spend time learning new things!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@nyrockchicxx]

I like this rule too because I need to challenge myself more for all my years of experience.

[@rushiaj1222]

When I get in a rut I learn a new knit or crochet skill and that reinvigorates my love for the craft❤

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I totally agree! Learning something new is motivating!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@user-ms6mt7tr5h]

Thank you! I agree with every single statement. And I think your videos are very helpful and truly amazing.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! 🧶💗🧶💗

[@nancyg323]

When I feel in a slump, I get out a few of my crochet pattern books and that helps me learn a new way of doing something because each designer's approach will be slightly different.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's a great tip, Nancy! Thank you for sharing!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@hehasrizenful]

These were great tips I think for me, you hit the nail on the head, especially using the yarn that you love when you’re making a project that is so very important in following people who inspire you you are one of them for me I start crocheting amigurumi more by watching your channel I am a beginner learn a lot from you thank you ❤️

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! I'm so glad you found the information helpful! 🧶🧶🧶

[@MsJulietG]

So glad I found tour channel! I've been crocheting on and off for years now, and finding that I want to get more into it. Your videos are wonderful inspiration!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! It's so much fun to find others who are passionate about crocheting as well!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@sandimichaels2324]

I look to you for my inspiration. After watching your podcast - I want to go to my craft table and begin. Thank you for sharing

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww! Thank you! So glad you enjoyed the video!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@allinsonsherratt418]

Been knitting over 50 years - my first project was a blanket for Action Man, (I'm English, so your equivalent would be GI Joe" ? I'm female, & didn't do clothes for dolls😀). My first personal clothing item was a simple garter stitch waistcoat, which I still have.
I did a lot of mohair & intarsia knitting in the 80s - your weaving ends in comment made me laugh. I did an Xmas jumper with over 60 bobbles in a contrast colour. That was a lot of work.
Having the right tool for the job also rang a bell😄 I have had ME since 1998 & couldn't knit for over 2:years. I changed to using circular needles & haven't looked back. Although my hubby has broken so many of my needles I despair at times... I have always written down where I am in my knitting as I go. This is more important than ever now with the brain fog issues. One day a pattern is easy. Another day & it might as well be in hieroglyphics x😂 I definitely have easy things to knit, but I have learnt lace & shawl knitting mainly courtesy of the www.
I'm also not afraid to frog things if I don't wear them or they don't feel right. I don't seem to suit things knitted in the round. My biggest concern, (my #1), would be "am I finishing this project so it looks good" - this means I have a lot of WIP. Again, I have to be in the right frame of mind(ievnot foggy), to do this - bl**dy ME. As I've fallen & broken both my left hand & wrist in recent years, I like to knit daily if I can.
Colourwise I'm quite boring - I love green & orange. It used to be black,bblack & more black,so I've improved.
I'll check out your amirigurmi videos as I can basic crochet, but lack the confidence to do an animal, although I do have lots of patterns 😂😂😂 Plus I'm an ambidextrous left hander..... who can't always decide which hand to hold the hook in....
Please check out a great British designer, Claire Garland,dotpebblesknits on Etsy & Ravelry. She does the most amazing flat knitted animal patterns ever.
Love your cats too❤️ Best wishes from England

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so very much for sharing your story!!! I admire how you've pushed through obstacles to continue knitting and crocheting! I knit one of Claire's bunnies!! It turned out incredible. Her patterns are magnificent! 🐰🐰🐰

[@Mrs.Silversmith]

I would add that it's OK to change the pattern. Patterns are not gospel, if you think you can modify it to better suit your purposes, then do so. Related to that, don't get upset if an experiment fails. Even if it doesn't work out, you will still learn something in the process.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you for sharing!! It's so true, this isn't rocket science, it's ok to mess up or change things to suit yourself. It's just for fun!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@infopubs]

I'm a quilter, but almost off of these rules apply! I enjoyed seeing your super cute projects and Miss Olive is gorgeous :)

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you!! I can see how they would apply to quilting. True confession: I always wanted to be a quilter and took a few classes, but I was an utter failure at it! 🤣 Measuring is not my strong suit but I so admire people who quilt!! 🪡🧵❤️

[@rebeccaxx]

i keep making christmas gifts now already, cant stop when u love crocheting so much 😄

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's so wonderful!! I haven't even started on my Christmas list yet!!! 🎄🎄🎄

[@dorothyyoung8231]

For many projects I “weave” in my ends by crocheting over them. This doesn’t work for all projects but it works for many and it allows me to bury my ends as I go.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you for that reminder! I always forget to do that!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@mom57-54]

I started using a magic knot. Absolutely love it. I hate weaving in ends.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oh interesting! I've never heard of a magic knot before! Going to look it up! Thanks for sharing! 🧶🧶🧶

[@8SmileyLady]

Just seeing the amigurumi characters in you videos inspires me. This is great advice.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@frankomutinelli]

Thank you for this week's video Elise.😀

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You're so welcome! Thank you for watching it! 🧶🧶🧶

[@meaganm77]

#9!! Oh my goodness. I made a baby Yoda and all 3 of my kids wanted one. Well after the first two I am totally sick of it and I’ve not crocheted in MONTHS bc I promised my 3rd I would do hers next before anymore projects. She asks me almost daily when it will be ready. 😭 lesson learned: don’t promise your kids the exact same toy lol.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oh my goodness!!! This is one of the reasons I'm kind of glad I didn't discover amigurumi until my kids were older!! I would have had to make everything four times!! 😂😂😂

[@meaganm77]

@@EliseRoseCrochet this video did inspire me to just go on a finish it up so I can move on to a project I’m excited about. I’m going to work a little for the next few days and crank it out. Ha!

[@premieryarns]

Elise, once again, a very inspiring video!!! Your passion for learning as you knit, and crochet is wonderful! Thank you!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thanks so very much!! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@morgonerlenstar]

Thank you, this was very helpful. For me when I’m working on a big project I like to put it down for a short while and make a small project, like a hat. Having finished this small project gets me motivated to finish the big project. Also a lesson learned was to not pull out a nearly finished project and redo it. It’s no fun the second time around.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That is a great tip!!! Finishing something is motivating and gives us a boost to finish the big project!! And whoa!!! I can't imagine remaking every project!!!!! I'll take your advice!!! 😂

[@jordishartwich1961]

I just found you and I have just watched 10 Seconds of your video and got SO excited, because I've crocheted (?) that one blanket in the background multiple times in different colours for friends with babys! Now I am more into knitting, but it just made me so proud. :) Greetings from Germany!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That's wonderful!!! That blanket is so much fun to crochet!! I would love to make it in lots of different colors!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@BareEssentialCrochet]

These were amazing tips!! Especially learning new things in your craft and being excited about what you’re making. I learned to crochet when I was about 9 or 10 years old, didn’t quite pick it up, but then my junior year of high school I fell completely in love. I’ve crocheted nearly every single day for the last 6 years. Amigurumi mostly, but other small garments such as ear warmers, hats, scarves, and earrings. You’re absolutely right, something that I took to heart from the beginning of my journey was that I never compare myself to others.
I have a few book recommendations and pattern designers that I would love for you to check out! One that I just found at Joann’s, was “The Complete Guide to Crochet Dolls and Animals, Amigurumi techniques made easy” by the Japan Amigurumi Association. I feel like this book completely encompasses crochet in it’s entirety and not just Amigurumi. It goes over techniques, stitches, how to read patterns and diagrams, how to finish faces (including different embroidery techniques and stitches with their names), and so much more!! 100/10 would recommend for EVERYONE that creates Amigurumi to have whether you’re a beginner or you’re more advanced.
Another book is the “Crochet Master Class, Lessons and Projects from Today’s Top Crocheters” by Jean Leinhauser and Rita Weiss. This book absolutely inspired me to try different sub-categories of crochet, especially the section of woven crochet.
Finally a designer that I feel you should check out is Crafty Intentions on Ravelry and Etsy, her patterns absolutely blew my mind. I’m not sure if it’s mob mentality from having joined her Facebook group, but her patterns are just so unlike any other pattern designer I’ve found. Most of her patterns allow you to completely change out pieces to make an absolute unique creature. They are also extremely in-depth and well written, if you do end up hitting a road block then you can go to her Facebook group and Crafty Intentions herself (as well as trusted moderators) actively help people through them.
I know this was very long winded, but I admire you so much for everything you do. You are my absolute favorite UA-cam creator, I literally watch my notifications like a hawk for when you post your next video! Anyway, thank you for another amazing video and I’ll be looking forward to the next!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so very much for sharing!! I do have the amigurumi book and couldn't agree with you more about how great it is!! I will definitely be checking out the amigurumi designer!! Thank you for sharing all your wonderful tips and recommendations!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@leafletleaflet]

The story about the bunny patterns really hit me emotionally because I felt like a bad crafter for getting upset when I couldn't understand something quickly- so hearing it from someone who has a lot of skill and experience (and not just as a formative lesson) is really reassuring! Thank you for sharing these tips :)

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww, I'm so glad that it made you feel better! I've been frustrated more times than I can count. It's totally normal, you're definitely not a bad crafter. The only thing I learned was to keep pushing even when I felt frustrated (after a good break so I could cool down, lol). Keep going! 🙌

[@kaylacasco4438]

Thank you for this video and these rules!! You have a knack for making videos, you are so pleasant and encouraging to watch.
Your kitty Olive loves you so much she can't help but do that big slow blink at you!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awwww! Thank you!!! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video and that was such a sweet moment with Miss Olive! 🧶🧶🧶

[@NammyG834]

Excellent video Elise. I found it very inspiring. Thank you for sharing. I love your work

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@CSPrice]

well said. one weapon against comparison is this- only compare like with like. Comparing yourself to someone else is an apples-and-oranges scenario. My styles, abilities, and expertise are apples to their oranges, and vice versa. Even if our skill levels are similar, how I got here may differ entirely from how they got here. the same for where we're going.

[@SoxyBoo]

Thank you for all of these wonderful tips. One of mine is... When I have an unfinished project and know for a fact that I won't go back to finishing it... I'd unravel everything and start a brand new project with those yarns. Just because it's not complete, it doesn't mean I can let it just sit in a corner and collect dust. I will make something else for sure 😉👍🏽❤️

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That is awesome!! I love that idea!!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@SoxyBoo]

@@EliseRoseCrochet 💋💋❤️

[@MagnoliaZZZZ]

Love that kitty!! You are right on about all 10 rules.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much!! He's such a funny kitty cat!! 🐈🐈🐈

[@theMermaidRhonda]

One thing I do when I'm having problems figuring out a pattern is to take a break from it and work on something else for a while. I recently did that with my first attempt at tapestry crochet and when I went back to it, it was so much easier than I remembered. I think we put too much pressure on ourselves to always get something right the first time when that's just not how things always work. I've been crocheting since I was around 7 and there are times when I still have to frog something because I missed a stitch or did it completely wrong. It happens...and that's ok! We should give ourselves some grace. :)

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Love this advice so much!!! You're so right, it's ok not to "get it " the first time! We have to give ourselves some grace! ❤️❤️❤️

[@BeeWOWdbyAprilLee]

Omg #1 is so Me. I'm still working on stopping myself from doing this. I have to remember that some people doesn't work, or does work and I can't compare myself to them.
Like I see how great you knit and how short of time you learned in. I get frustrated because I'm not even knitting right now.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Exactly! It's so easy to only focus on the negatives and get down on ourselves. Comparison is such a terrible thing that I did for way too long. Thankfully I've been working really hard on focusing on what really matters and I feel so much better! 🧶❤️🧶❤️

[@nryane]

Because I tend to be on gauge, it is usually easy for me to swatch. Occasionally, I have to change up/down my hook or needles, so swatching IS important for size. Weaving in ends is SO important. I get why we do it right away!
LOVE rule #1!!! (We MUST give ourselves grace for being at a different level than someone else!)
Thanks, again, Elise. Your videos help, a lot!❤
Your rules RULE!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much!! I'm getting more comfortable with gauge r more I do it. Patricia is such an incredible teacher and has helped me so much! 🧶🧶🧶

[@nryane]

@@EliseRoseCrochet
The people in our lives are such gifts, especially the positive ones! Right?! 💕

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

@@nryane 100% So right!

[@posies_yarnworks]

10 pearls of wisdom - you’re such a gem and wealth of information ❤ Thanks again for sharing! I’m going to try to find that Jetkat pattern again, I really want to make that one, yours are so darn cute! Have a great weekend!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! Last night I checked her Instagram handle and there's a link to her patterns in English! 🐰🐰🐰

[@posies_yarnworks]

@@EliseRoseCrochet I’m there! Thank you again☺️

[@dioniciawebster9957]

I totally agree with weaving in ends as you go and choosing colors. I am terrible at choosing colors on my own. I have gotten the color wheel and researched color theory, but still I struggle. Would love a video on how you choose your colors.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thanks so much for the suggestion! 🧶🧶🧶

[@YarnSociety]

These are great rules Elise!! Number #1 is so true - it has gotten me time and time again! I love that you're learning a new knitting skill, it's absolutely gorgeous! Can't wait to see your cardigan once it's finished!🙌🏻🧶

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Number one has been so important in my crafting and real life. Comparison never ever helps, it only fears down. I can't wait to get started on the kofte!! It's probably going to be summer before it's finished, but that makes no difference to me! I can't wait to learn! 🧶🧶🧶

[@YarnSociety]

@@EliseRoseCrochet You have me motivated to pick up that tunisian hook and get over myself! Hugs!!!

[@niharikagayakwad8546]

My mother was a knitter just like her mom and I am a Crocheter. While teaching me the basics of knitting she told me to "never half ass through it and to enjoy the process of creation and not to rush towards finishing the project". She said it in Hindi (because we are Indians) but this is the gist.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

That was great advice! Thank you for sharing!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@samjones1050]

Nice to see you again and thank you for all the tips. You are such an inspiration in crocheting for me, i just love your style and waiting for videos every week.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so very much!!! I'm so glad you like the videos!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@michaeldower3041]

Hi ,you covered it learning skills, colour and yarn choice. In two years I now make beautiful dolls and it’s taught me so much.Even with those skills I am just focusing on simple keychain patterns I have a comprehensive to do list of. Though they only take 20-30 minutes I break from my focus to do one that has a fun theme. I looked at Pokémon images ,saw Gigglepuff that’s easy so I made it

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thanks so much for sharing! I would love to crochet some keychains! 💛

[@whisperingeaglelanders2339]

I want to thank you for these awesome tips. I always compare myself with other crocheters and i am very hard on myself. Your video's really help me😄

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

It's a trap so many of us get into. I've done it for too long and although I'm a work in progress, I'm much better than I used to be! 🧶🧶🧶

[@whisperingeaglelanders2339]

@@EliseRoseCrochet You're excellent at what you do!! I'm proud of you!!❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@acolley2891]

Your tips are helpful and your cat is so pretty!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! 🧶🧶🧶

[@putrescentcadaver]

This was my first time seeing a video from this channel and loved it! Very well done! Your beautiful kitty was a fun inclusion and the rules presented are logical and useful. I'm only a year into my fiber craft journey so I don't have any advice besides choose projects that bring joy to your life. For me sometimes that joy is from learning a very technical stitch and sometimes the joy is from the amazing textures and colors of the yarn and fabric. I tried once to use a yarn that i absolutely hated the texture of and I dreaded picking up the needles.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! I totally agree, the yarn is so important!! If you love it, you'll want to work with it! 🧶🧶🧶

[@shirleydtaylor6846]

You are right on spot.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

[@leeloocarson]

I needed to hear this great advice!!!! I'm always comparing my amigurumi to others. Thanks for keeping it real 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I'm so glad! I found it very freeing to stop comparing myself to everyone else. Good luck to you!! 💞

[@jamieburton8329]

Thank you. Loved the video, great advice!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You are so welcome! 🧶🧶🧶

[@freddiehighmore93]

All of this is really sound advice/wisdom. I love how you break down the points and steps to become a better crocheter/knitter. :) Your an inspiration for trying new skills and challenging yourself, which I need to do more of.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

I'm so glad you enjoyed the video! For too long I was afraid to try new things because I was always so worried that I wouldn't be good at it. Now I realize that improving those skills comes from pushing myself to do new things and practicing those skills over and over again. You can do it! 🌻

[@nataliestenning9812]

Lovely video Elise......my projects range from big to small so when I work on them it depends on the project....if i am making a mosaic crochet blanket it is about 80 hours work so I will work on this for a while and then switch to something else for a while....I also switch to sewing as well, as I love quilting, or maybe do some work on my tapestry.....I have also just started embroidery and a weekly pottery class so these are two new skills i am learning......I love learning new skills.....x

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oh how fun!!! You're always making so many amazing projects!!! Thanks so much for sharing!! 🧶🪡🧵

[@nataliestenning9812]

@@EliseRoseCrochet .....it really is my happy time....always nice to make some time for myself...I think it is very important for everyone to do this....x

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

@Natalie Stenning totally agree!

[@susanhopkins26]

This was my first video, and I was instantly hooked! Count me as a new subscriber!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Aww! Thank you so much! 🧶🧶🧶

[@gardenplots283]

While talking about whether to rip out stitches a Craftsy class instructor said "Your stitches are not precious." and it changed my attitude about fudging my work instead of ripping out stitches and fixing a mistake before continuing on. That became my mantra. Your stitches are not precious. Your stitches are not precious. That made a big change in my crocheting and while I still don't like ripping out a long section of stitches I know that when I figure out where I went wrong and I redo that section the satisfaction will have been worth it.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oooh!! I love that!!! Such a good way to think about our stitching!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@loopsandknotscrochet]

I recently found your channel and I really enjoy your content! Your dolls are amazing! I think one of the most important things to do, especially as a pattern designer, is to take notes. Take notes on hook size, yarn brand, stitch count, etc. I recently discovered a two-year-old unfinished project and had no idea what hook size I used! Please, take notes!

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Oh my goodness, this is advice I need to hear!!! In the class I'm taking from Knitography Farm, Patricia teaches everyone to keep a "knitting bag book" with all that information!! I need to do this!! Thank you for sharing!! 🧶🧶🧶

[@chriss312]

Great Video Great tips Love Mr Pickle and Miss Olive include them more

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@vivtheunicornmommy6917]

These are amazing tips!! I just found your channel recently and you're so inspiring, educational, and pleasant to watch!! Tips 2 and 1 are probably my favorites - number 1 is so important for nearly every facet of life. Thanks for sharing your knowledge! And I love Miss Olive! (My rescue kitten is my resident yarn/project checker and approver!) Have a wonderful weekend! ❤️

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Thank you so much!! And I agree that rule number one is so important for me in all every areas of my life! 💖💖💖

[@Stacy9595]

Your skin looks is amazing! It always looks so dewy and perfect!❤

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Awww! Thank you!! I think I've figured out that the lighting I have in my craft room is making me sweat a little!! 😂😂😂

[@Stacy9595]

@@EliseRoseCrochet either way your skin is beautiful!

[@willynilly7]

These tips were wonderful, along with the links! Thank you so much for sharing.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

You're so welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed it! 🧶🧶🧶