Thank you so much for this video, it was exactly what I needed. Right after watching, I went on my computer and typed up our house rules titled 'In Our Home'. 1. We NEVER hurt or hit 2. We use our inside voices 3. We make our bed each morning 4. We tidy up our toys after we have finished playing 5. We put our empty plate or bowl into the sink 6. We talk to each other using kind words 7. We listen to Daddy or Mummy the first time they tell us to do something 8. We don't purposely annoy or bother each other 9. We always tell the truth 10. We wait for our turn to talk, and don't interrupt others I am looking forward to introducing them during our morning basket time tomorrow :)
@@mirrorclesmatures1833 it’s something homeschoolers do, before starting to work on core subjects some parents choose some books , activities, bible study even board games.You can look it up on UA-cam, lots of videos about it.
thank you for this video.. i would like to ask how to implement No hitting no hurting rule with children as young as 2 especially if you have a child who is strong willed? this is something i really struggle with... really at my wits end with my youngest..
This literally is right on time! I have been so discouraged this week with my 4 kids (5 and under)…. It’s become crazy in my home and it is disturbing. It’s nice to know even your beautiful family struggles too! Thank you so much for being so open and giving wonderful advice!!! I will implement all these rules (my exact problems) this weekend! Also, I would love to see an updated video of your playroom!!! How do you manage toys with so much kids and so many gift giving holidays🙄. Stresses me out and I don’t want anymore toys!! Thank you Jady… you are a God given gift to me and my family!
Awwh, I feel you momma! We have a 10 year old and 4 age 1-6 and we homeschool! We offer coupons for good behavior! If they do good in school, finish their daily checklist or are super helpful etc...they pick from the "gold star" bag! It has coupons like "have a popsicle (then brush your teeth)", "watch one show when your stuff is done", "15 minutes of electronics", "pick a family game", "skip one checklist chore ", "skip one school subject (if you're not behind this week)" etc!!! And we also have a kindness bag. Every coupon in there encourages them to share wjatever treat they get pr to watch a show with everyone or I offer to do things for them such as "I will make your bed for you." Or "share juice with a few friends" (that means their siblings lol) when we see nice, unprompted acts of kindness to husband or I or amongst themselves. Also,, They each get ONE night a week to stay up for one hour after bedtime..they each have their OWN night to stay up so they get quality time with us or alone time to do a craft or whatever without being bothered.. but they MUST have a stay up late coupon and their checklist and school work for the day has to be complete or they go to bed as usual and have to wait until the next week. Weekends we all have family time all weekend so we get quality time but we don't always get one on one time so the stay up late coupons work wonders. They usually buy those from the treasure box (they get 2 tickets a day if their school work is completed and most treasure box items are 10 tickets and we offer a few cool dollar tree items but mostly a sugary snack or treat and coupons because they don't get the treats throughout the week very much or at all) (even the 3 year old gets tickets and can count them and has an appropriate checklist!) but they get the the stay up late coupons from the gold star bag too sometimes. Oh & They can't choose the coupons from the bags.. its a surprise to keep it fair, they can only choose the ones they buy from the treasure box. Coupons allow them to enjoy different things without us hearing "I want that too, no fair!", from everyone. They all know the coupons are earned. They don't watch any electronics or really get sweets otherwise unless it's a special occasion. Since coming up with these few systems...so much has changed. If they complete their daily checklist..they get a coupon. And it's fine if they use 2 or 3 in one day. It shows them hard work and kindness etc pays off and that the coupons actually hold value. Here is the catch though - if I have to repeat myself more than twice on anything and I KNOW they heard me...or if for they break a rule they KNOW about (like not annoying a sibling or leaving germ x out or lying about doing a checklist chore etc)..they get a tally mark on the refrigerator board. I have each day of the week written up there and each child's name on it. If they get 3 tally marks in a day...they can't use ANY electronic related coupons..and they can't stay up late if it's their night to. If they get 4 in a day they are grounded aka they can't use ANY coupons and they go to bed 30 minutes early. No spanking. Hardly any yelling (I'm not perfect, I lose my cool at times but I'm learning) and LOADS of constant improvement from the kiddos. I know this was long..but I wanted to share other options too with anyone who feels lost like I did for YEARS. I'm a step mom of two and we have 5 total...and as I said, I homeschool them all & I have the other mothers of our children in our lives to consider when it comes to discipline issues as well...but noone can deny our children are RESPECTFUL, KIND, and obedient. They get attitudes, leaves messes everywhere, are forgetful ..many days of the week. But they try their best 90% of the time and it's not stressful if IM being consistent and they will tell anyone we know that they LOVE their life and home because it's different. They tell me most every day and write me post it notes constantly. We each have mailboxes to tell each other things and they fill each others boxes up eith their own versions of kindness coupons too. Its extraordinary. And they know what it's like to EARN things they want even if it's a simple coupon. To them it's everything, especially on school days. This doesn't address things like hitting, though. That's a case by case thing but typically they lose a privilege. And if someone breaks someone else's toy on purpose they have to ask the owner of they want then to replace the toy. If the answer is yes.. theyn they have to use THEIR earned money to help us replace the toy. This has only happened once but they ALL learned a lesson from it. It may seem harsh but we only have 15-20 short years to help them become the kind of people we want in the next generation so anything we can do to help each other figure it out...is worth it me. May God Bless you on your journey. I'm sure you're doing great. After all...you cared enough to watch this video and take action!! Xoxo-Vanessa
I was struggling so much with that! I have 3 girls, 8 and under, and a newborn baby boy. and I have been watching your videos since pregnant with baby number2! Thank you so much Jady!
Please share consequences!! Especially for doing things that bother someone else (this is a big issue in our house!) and yelling/using ugly voices at others! Thanks for posting this - you have such great videos! 💙
Brilliant! This couldn’t have come at a better time as we have noticed our 4 year really pushing the boundaries lately and even our 7year old not speaking respectfully. What would your consequences be for hurting a sibling? Taking away privileges? This doesn’t seem to sink in with our 4 year old :-( Look forward to the series
Your Video is the answer from God that I never knew I needed! My husband was forced to leave us because of visa problems and I am for the first time in our marriage alone with our 3 kids! Ages 7, 4 and 1! He‘s been gone for a while now and I have been struggling so much with my kids! Our life is in total chaos right now! I have the feeling that no matter what I say my kids just don’t do. I was just about to give up when your video was suggested to me! Thank you so much for your help! God bless you 🙏🏼
Hello sister, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. God’s grace is sufficient. May He give you all the strength, endurance, encouragement, comfort and guidance needed to get through this season. God is with you and you are never alone. May His will be done. Jesus is coming back very soon, be encouraged. God bless you and your family 🙏🏼
can you take my grandson for a while. lol I'm kidding. He has had a very distraught child hood. mother not in picture and dad in jail. He is 5 and very rude and disrespectful to both grandparents and his teachers. He has been expelled from school too. I feel so bad for him.
Thank you so much for this video! I’m a kindergarten teacher, and we deal with so many poor behaviors and lack of discipline that should have been taught at home long before they ever arrive in my classroom.
Hi Jady. Hitting or touching someone in a stressful manner is unfortunately present in our house. What effective consequences do you think we should have for this please?
I look forward to implementing this tomorrow. I will write out our family rules tonight and post it in prominent areas of the home, such as the fridge and the homeschool area.
Discipline is so important for homeschoolers and non schoolers🙏. Thank you for this video and it nice hearing that we can't allow kids to do whatever they want to do. 🌸
Thanks for the video Jady! I just wanted to add that things may be completely different for teenagers because they outgrew these disciplinary years. The only thing we can do with teenagers is just strengthening our relationship with them, so they can take our advice and pray for them!
Perfect time for this video. I have a 4 year old and 2 year old and it’s getting crazy alley with the running and screaming and new attitudes and not sitting down. I’m going to start writing down rules. P.s. my 4 year old just finished both your math and lit workbooks. They were awesome . Your channel really helped me with starting pre k home schooling
Love this video, I've been taking notes and will be applying this in my home. When one of your kids are acting up in the park and you need to take them home, how do you prevent any animosity from the other siblings that were behaving well but now have to go home because of bad behavior from one child? Asking because I have 3 kids and would like to know how to communicate in that situation.
I have a 9 and 2 year old, have you tried to have the child that is acting out sit out while the others play?… Sort of like a “quiet time/time out” experience until the other children are done or until you feel he/she has learned their lesson?
I have been working on managing my daughter’s behavior…she’s a good kid but she still gets moments when she tries to control us and wants to get her way…she’s 3 and pretty smart..maybe a board like that will help,,I will give it a try…thanks for sharing..😊💕
Thank you very much Jady A. We as parents should be a mirror to our children since they emulate a lot from us. Thats what I do with my children. We parents are the first teachers.
I’ve noticed how much preparing kids ahead of time for things really helps. I stopped doing that for awhile I thought I was being too repetitive, but one of my children especially struggled when I stopped doing that.
How would you show consequences when my 4yr old gets mad with my daughter when she wants her space.. He will get so mad and yell "Im mad, mad" I try to comfort by saying "I can see you are mad you want me to play with you" he will just finish his tantrum by then Im overwhelmed at the end.
Am pleased that you made such kind of video my only DD will 5 in 3 months she ask me everything with crying, complainning and aggressive sometime am confused any help please TIA and l would like to tell you that you are a very proud mama Jay ❤from 🇬🇧😁
💖Jady I wach yout videos for ,I think,4 years now...you change my life,my parenting,everything. You are a big blessing! Kepp up with videos like this. For me it came in right time! Big hug from Serbia!!!💞
Thank you so much for this video Jady. I struggle with consequences/follow through. When my 9 & 7 year are hitting each other, that’s where I struggle with is finding the right consequence for that action. I would say I am not too consistent as a parent and not always good at following through. Have so many good intentions/ideas, just don’t do them.
Thanks you so much for very useful tips and I do have a question about it.What consequence do you apply when kids don’t behaves in others house even after you had very clear about expectations from them? And one more question is that what do you do if they get up from chair at the meal time?
Once again thank you for a great video. I have 4 children ages 2 to almost 7. I have the exact same rules in my home , but I have been struggling with the issue of no outside as a consequence..because I'd my 6 year old is not allowed to be outside, it means none of the others will either as I can't leave him inside alone, so all 4 get upset with me each time. One person's consequence ends up often to be everyone's. How do you manage that? I hope you reply to this.
Thank you so much! I have been looking for some Christian Parenting videos and they're not always easy to find. I watched one you posted in the past and implemented some of the techniques and they worked. Having set rules like this should be helpful. I don't have children but I do a lot with and homeschool my nieces and nephews who are 5 and under. It gets a bit difficult at times. My 5 year old nephew likes to talk back and constantly asks 'Why?' to everything I tell to do or not do. Any tips for this? He also doesn't know how to take 'No' for an answer. He will continue to come as close to you as possible to cry so you'd hear him and even try to brush up against you if you're ignoring him.
Oh my my my..... I am sooo thankful that I found your channel, because it has helped me understand what has probably contributed to my young adult listening to her friends instead of me. I literally cried as I listened to your video on difficult kids and thought of the mistakes I made with my difficult child. She is grown now and off to school but I know that we did not have that bond that made her want to listen to me instead of her friends now that she is a young adult (18). Thank you so very much Jada.💕
Do you think high functioning autistic children understand what they are doing wrong? I have a 7 yr old and struggle with wether or not he fully understands and if he understands the consequences. Thank you for your videos! They help so much ❤️
Every autistic kiddo is different but my 4 year old for sure understands! For him, writing out the rules isn't enough. We do visual pictures so he can understand.
Oh thank you so much for this video Jady. This is going to be so helpful for me! I have a question about jumping on beds and couches at home. Do you ever allow that at home “for fun” or is that something you suggest not be acceptable even at home so that they would not even do that at someone else’s home? Thank you I appreciate your channel so much 🥰
My kid is 5yrs when i say stop she wants to do stuff and its been a repeated process of talking and understanding. She sometimes bullies her age friend how do i help her with this. I keep explaining that its not rite or good but she says am just playing. I wonder if she s really playing or am misinterpreting it as bullying.
I'm so sorry he was bullied. Hoping it gets better. I always tell my kids not to hit unless...then I list out some emergency scenarios. They are still not to hit a bully if they can just get away first. Make sure they know "that hurt people,hurt people." There is nothing wrong with them,there is something wrong with the bully to make them act this way. I'm sure you are doing a great job mama! Hang in there!
Hello, Would you have any idea how I would teach an autistic child this? I am struggling to teach this. He is four years old, runs away, breaks items etc
I few years ago at a get together, a 4 year old was jumping from one sofa to another over a glass vase. The mother was bragging about a school the child got into for the fall. She was ignoring her child's disrespect of the lady's home.
Hello mam🙏 .I'm from india. Nd my mother tongue is bengali. Nd I can't properly speak English . That's why my pronouncing its not done . Actually Mane problem is my baby boy(3 year) his can't writing own self. How to teach him simpley Nd easy process he written Nd learn to focus on his studies. Plz sujest for me mam. Sorry for that If you any sentence cannot understand . Plz
I seen this tonight for a reason trying to raise upright and obedient children in Jesus. Homeschool mom 4 children 6,5,2, and 6 months needed this as a refresher . Thank you praise Jesus
Hello Jady.. Thanks for your Videos.. I realized how important to put rules in the house.. I only have a 5 year old girl..yet I can't handle her bad behaviours. I am a working mother and i always left may child to her nanny. That's maybe one reason I cant teach her very well. Can you help me more how to manage time for work and for disciplining my child? thanks
Great advice! If my child speaks disrespectfully, I simply say, “Try again”. If they are not sure how to correct how they’ve said it, we practice and then “try again”. We will keep trying until it is corrected. I will do that as the parent as well. If I have spoken with a bad tone, I’ll say, “I should not have used that tone.”
Thank you so much for this video, it was exactly what I needed. Right after watching, I went on my computer and typed up our house rules titled 'In Our Home'.
1. We NEVER hurt or hit
2. We use our inside voices
3. We make our bed each morning
4. We tidy up our toys after we have finished playing
5. We put our empty plate or bowl into the sink
6. We talk to each other using kind words
7. We listen to Daddy or Mummy the first time they tell us to do something
8. We don't purposely annoy or bother each other
9. We always tell the truth
10. We wait for our turn to talk, and don't interrupt others
I am looking forward to introducing them during our morning basket time tomorrow :)
love this!
Love. Whats morning basket time
@@mirrorclesmatures1833 it’s something homeschoolers do, before starting to work on core subjects some parents choose some books , activities, bible study even board games.You can look it up on UA-cam, lots of videos about it.
Great, thank you!
thank you for this video.. i would like to ask how to implement No hitting no hurting rule with children as young as 2 especially if you have a child who is strong willed? this is something i really struggle with... really at my wits end with my youngest..
Yes please. I agree. What’s the consequence for hitting?
This literally is right on time! I have been so discouraged this week with my 4 kids (5 and under)…. It’s become crazy in my home and it is disturbing. It’s nice to know even your beautiful family struggles too! Thank you so much for being so open and giving wonderful advice!!! I will implement all these rules (my exact problems) this weekend!
Also, I would love to see an updated video of your playroom!!! How do you manage toys with so much kids and so many gift giving holidays🙄. Stresses me out and I don’t want anymore toys!! Thank you Jady… you are a God given gift to me and my family!
The toys are driving me nuts too. I find that the toys quantity is equal to the behavior. More toys, worse behavior.
I wish all the toys would be replaced with books. Books are the greatest gifts❤❤❤
Awwh, I feel you momma! We have a 10 year old and 4 age 1-6 and we homeschool!
We offer coupons for good behavior! If they do good in school, finish their daily checklist or are super helpful etc...they pick from the "gold star" bag! It has coupons like "have a popsicle (then brush your teeth)", "watch one show when your stuff is done", "15 minutes of electronics", "pick a family game", "skip one checklist chore ", "skip one school subject (if you're not behind this week)" etc!!! And we also have a kindness bag.
Every coupon in there encourages them to share wjatever treat they get pr to watch a show with everyone or I offer to do things for them such as "I will make your bed for you." Or "share juice with a few friends" (that means their siblings lol) when we see nice, unprompted acts of kindness to husband or I or amongst themselves.
Also,, They each get ONE night a week to stay up for one hour after bedtime..they each have their OWN night to stay up so they get quality time with us or alone time to do a craft or whatever without being bothered.. but they MUST have a stay up late coupon and their checklist and school work for the day has to be complete or they go to bed as usual and have to wait until the next week. Weekends we all have family time all weekend so we get quality time but we don't always get one on one time so the stay up late coupons work wonders.
They usually buy those from the treasure box (they get 2 tickets a day if their school work is completed and most treasure box items are 10 tickets and we offer a few cool dollar tree items but mostly a sugary snack or treat and coupons because they don't get the treats throughout the week very much or at all) (even the 3 year old gets tickets and can count them and has an appropriate checklist!)
but they get the the stay up late coupons from the gold star bag too sometimes.
Oh & They can't choose the coupons from the bags.. its a surprise to keep it fair, they can only choose the ones they buy from the treasure box.
Coupons allow them to enjoy different things without us hearing "I want that too, no fair!", from everyone. They all know the coupons are earned. They don't watch any electronics or really get sweets otherwise unless it's a special occasion. Since coming up with these few systems...so much has changed. If they complete their daily checklist..they get a coupon. And it's fine if they use 2 or 3 in one day. It shows them hard work and kindness etc pays off and that the coupons actually hold value.
Here is the catch though - if I have to repeat myself more than twice on anything and I KNOW they heard me...or if for they break a rule they KNOW about (like not annoying a sibling or leaving germ x out or lying about doing a checklist chore etc)..they get a tally mark on the refrigerator board. I have each day of the week written up there and each child's name on it. If they get 3 tally marks in a day...they can't use ANY electronic related coupons..and they can't stay up late if it's their night to. If they get 4 in a day they are grounded aka they can't use ANY coupons and they go to bed 30 minutes early. No spanking. Hardly any yelling (I'm not perfect, I lose my cool at times but I'm learning) and LOADS of constant improvement from the kiddos.
I know this was long..but I wanted to share other options too with anyone who feels lost like I did for YEARS.
I'm a step mom of two and we have 5 total...and as I said, I homeschool them all &
I have the other mothers of our children in our lives to consider when it comes to discipline issues as well...but noone can deny our children are RESPECTFUL, KIND, and obedient. They get attitudes, leaves messes everywhere, are forgetful
..many days of the week. But they try their best 90% of the time and it's not stressful if IM being consistent and they will tell anyone we know that they LOVE their life and home because it's different. They tell me most every day and write me post it notes constantly.
We each have mailboxes to tell each other things and they fill each others boxes up eith their own versions of kindness coupons too. Its extraordinary.
And they know what it's like to EARN things they want even if it's a simple coupon. To them it's everything, especially on school days.
This doesn't address things like hitting, though. That's a case by case thing but typically they lose a privilege. And if someone breaks someone else's toy on purpose they have to ask the owner of they want then to replace the toy. If the answer is yes.. theyn they have to use THEIR earned money to help us replace the toy. This has only happened once but they ALL learned a lesson from it. It may seem harsh but we only have 15-20 short years to help them become the kind of people we want in the next generation so anything we can do to help each other figure it out...is worth it me. May God Bless you on your journey. I'm sure you're doing great. After all...you cared enough to watch this video and take action!! Xoxo-Vanessa
I was struggling so much with that!
I have 3 girls, 8 and under, and a newborn baby boy.
and I have been watching your videos since pregnant with baby number2!
Thank you so much Jady!
Did you get a new hairdo?! You look lovely as always! ❤️❤️ Yes this topic is so important, I strongly agree.
Please share consequences!! Especially for doing things that bother someone else (this is a big issue in our house!) and yelling/using ugly voices at others! Thanks for posting this - you have such great videos! 💙
yes please! i need help in the consequence area. not everything has the same one
Yess consequences! Please! Thank you, subscribed 🔥for me it’s listening comprehension
She said it's related to the offense (leave clay out, no clay) or be sent to room, no screen time, etc.
Time out . i learnt it from John gray book- children are from heaven
Hi, when my child bothers his or her siblings I give that child chores along side me. I can give them extra attention and guidance.
Brilliant! This couldn’t have come at a better time as we have noticed our 4 year really pushing the boundaries lately and even our 7year old not speaking respectfully.
What would your consequences be for hurting a sibling? Taking away privileges? This doesn’t seem to sink in with our 4 year old :-(
Look forward to the series
I'm enjoying every single video of this serie. I have older kids and will apply these advises with them. God bless you!
Your hair looks so good! And thanks for the great suggestions. 👍🏻
I also noticed the hair😍😍😍
Me too! I just commented this! ☺️
Agreed
Your Video is the answer from God that I never knew I needed! My husband was forced to leave us because of visa problems and I am for the first time in our marriage alone with our 3 kids! Ages 7, 4 and 1! He‘s been gone for a while now and I have been struggling so much with my kids! Our life is in total chaos right now! I have the feeling that no matter what I say my kids just don’t do. I was just about to give up when your video was suggested to me! Thank you so much for your help! God bless you 🙏🏼
Hello sister, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. God’s grace is sufficient. May He give you all the strength, endurance, encouragement, comfort and guidance needed to get through this season. God is with you and you are never alone. May His will be done. Jesus is coming back very soon, be encouraged. God bless you and your family 🙏🏼
can you take my grandson for a while. lol I'm kidding. He has had a very distraught child hood. mother not in picture and dad in jail. He is 5 and very rude and disrespectful to both grandparents and his teachers. He has been expelled from school too. I feel so bad for him.
Thank you so much for this video! I’m a kindergarten teacher, and we deal with so many poor behaviors and lack of discipline that should have been taught at home long before they ever arrive in my classroom.
Hi Jady. Hitting or touching someone in a stressful manner is unfortunately present in our house. What effective consequences do you think we should have for this please?
Oh how I love the phrase “falling in love with boundaries” happy Thursday sweet mama ❤️
Great video Jady! You are an inspiration God bless you for sharing all your wisdom.
I look forward to implementing this tomorrow. I will write out our family rules tonight and post it in prominent areas of the home, such as the fridge and the homeschool area.
Discipline is so important for homeschoolers and non schoolers🙏. Thank you for this video and it nice hearing that we can't allow kids to do whatever they want to do. 🌸
This came at such a good time. I really needed this
Thanks for the video Jady! I just wanted to add that things may be completely different for teenagers because they outgrew these disciplinary years. The only thing we can do with teenagers is just strengthening our relationship with them, so they can take our advice and pray for them!
Perfect time for this video. I have a 4 year old and 2 year old and it’s getting crazy alley with the running and screaming and new attitudes and not sitting down.
I’m going to start writing down rules.
P.s. my 4 year old just finished both your math and lit workbooks. They were awesome . Your channel really helped me with starting pre k home schooling
can you share what movies you guys watch
Love this video, I've been taking notes and will be applying this in my home. When one of your kids are acting up in the park and you need to take them home, how do you prevent any animosity from the other siblings that were behaving well but now have to go home because of bad behavior from one child? Asking because I have 3 kids and would like to know how to communicate in that situation.
I have a 9 and 2 year old, have you tried to have the child that is acting out sit out while the others play?… Sort of like a “quiet time/time out” experience until the other children are done or until you feel he/she has learned their lesson?
Thank you sweet lady for this very helpful video. I've shared it with my daughter to help her with my grandson.
What would you do if your child wasn’t interested in classwork at school and was behind compared to peers in academics? Please advise.
I have been working on managing my daughter’s behavior…she’s a good kid but she still gets moments when she tries to control us and wants to get her way…she’s 3 and pretty smart..maybe a board like that will help,,I will give it a try…thanks for sharing..😊💕
Thank you very much Jady A. We as parents should be a mirror to our children since they emulate a lot from us. Thats what I do with my children. We parents are the first teachers.
Thank you so much for making these videos I definitely want to see more!
Indeed they very educative
I would add...
If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all.
Thanks Jady for the suggestions♥️
I’ve noticed how much preparing kids ahead of time for things really helps. I stopped doing that for awhile I thought I was being too repetitive, but one of my children especially struggled when I stopped doing that.
How would you show consequences when my 4yr old gets mad with my daughter when she wants her space.. He will get so mad and yell "Im mad, mad" I try to comfort by saying "I can see you are mad you want me to play with you" he will just finish his tantrum by then Im overwhelmed at the end.
Am pleased that you made such kind of video my only DD will 5 in 3 months she ask me everything with crying, complainning and aggressive sometime am confused any help please TIA and l would like to tell you that you are a very proud mama Jay ❤from 🇬🇧😁
💖Jady I wach yout videos for ,I think,4 years now...you change my life,my parenting,everything. You are a big blessing! Kepp up with videos like this. For me it came in right time! Big hug from Serbia!!!💞
Thank you so much for this video Jady. I struggle with consequences/follow through. When my 9 & 7 year are hitting each other, that’s where I struggle with is finding the right consequence for that action. I would say I am not too consistent as a parent and not always good at following through. Have so many good intentions/ideas, just don’t do them.
This is very helpful Jady, thank you!
Great reminders. Thank you, Jady! Looking forward to the character development videos.
Yes. Boundaries are so important and healthy. Thank you for sharing your advice!
Thanks you so much for very useful tips and I do have a question about it.What consequence do you apply when kids don’t behaves in others house even after you had very clear about expectations from them? And one more question is that what do you do if they get up from chair at the meal time?
Wonderful content! Thanks for sharing!
Love your content, it has been a great support since we had our first baby 5 years ago. This video was confirming ty!
This may seem so basic to some BUT THIS IS SOOOOOO AMAZINGLY HELPFUL FOR OUR FAMILY!!!!
REINSTILED my faith in our homeschoolimg
Pls do more video in differnt k8ds behavoiur if you can l know you have tight schedule ❤
Once again thank you for a great video. I have 4 children ages 2 to almost 7. I have the exact same rules in my home , but I have been struggling with the issue of no outside as a consequence..because I'd my 6 year old is not allowed to be outside, it means none of the others will either as I can't leave him inside alone, so all 4 get upset with me each time. One person's consequence ends up often to be everyone's. How do you manage that? I hope you reply to this.
Thank you so much! I have been looking for some Christian Parenting videos and they're not always easy to find. I watched one you posted in the past and implemented some of the techniques and they worked. Having set rules like this should be helpful. I don't have children but I do a lot with and homeschool my nieces and nephews who are 5 and under. It gets a bit difficult at times. My 5 year old nephew likes to talk back and constantly asks 'Why?' to everything I tell to do or not do. Any tips for this? He also doesn't know how to take 'No' for an answer. He will continue to come as close to you as possible to cry so you'd hear him and even try to brush up against you if you're ignoring him.
Oh my my my..... I am sooo thankful that I found your channel, because it has helped me understand what has probably contributed to my young adult listening to her friends instead of me. I literally cried as I listened to your video on difficult kids and thought of the mistakes I made with my difficult child. She is grown now and off to school but I know that we did not have that bond that made her want to listen to me instead of her friends now that she is a young adult (18). Thank you so very much Jada.💕
Do you think high functioning autistic children understand what they are doing wrong? I have a 7 yr old and struggle with wether or not he fully understands and if he understands the consequences.
Thank you for your videos! They help so much ❤️
Every autistic kiddo is different but my 4 year old for sure understands! For him, writing out the rules isn't enough. We do visual pictures so he can understand.
@@MissMaryJack That sounds like a good idea!
Explain what, who, where, when and how with every rule.
I always watch your video ma'am. 🥰
I always look up to you for ideas regarding parenting.. I follow them too.. Thank you Jady.. love from Tamilnadu India ❤️👍👍
first, I'd have to get my husband to pick up his dinner plate...hahaha yea, right! Good stuff though.
I like ur all videos being a grandmother in India I learn so many things from u gbu dear
Hi ja. I am from Eritrea 🇪🇷 and I want to ask u one thing that is it good for discipline our children by other person like aunt uncle...?
You look younger and younger :) wish you and your family peace and love!
Love to watch your videos 😍❤️
Thank you for this. So helpful!
Hi. Thanks for your hard work. By chance, do you have any content in Spanish?
Jady, your kids are so happy having such a cleaver and loving mother. I would like to be like you for all of my children! Thank you so much!
Off topic, but where did you get the desk/chair combo from in the background?
Thank you I needed this - especially after this past week… Any suggestions for a rule board for children who can’t read yet?
When my oldest were little I had pictures of the rules.
@@JadyA thank you 🙏🏼
Discuss the sensory behavioral issues, please thanks
What if the consequences just don’t seem to matter? I can take everything away from them and then they just have nothing to loose, what do I do then?
Oh thank you so much for this video Jady. This is going to be so helpful for me! I have a question about jumping on beds and couches at home. Do you ever allow that at home “for fun” or is that something you suggest not be acceptable even at home so that they would not even do that at someone else’s home? Thank you I appreciate your channel so much 🥰
You look so pretty Jady
What do you say to your other children when you have to take off from the park because their brother misbehaved??
How to discipline a 2 year old who is ignoring direction to learn how to dress themselves, put shoes on or off?
My kid is 5yrs when i say stop she wants to do stuff and its been a repeated process of talking and understanding. She sometimes bullies her age friend how do i help her with this. I keep explaining that its not rite or good but she says am just playing. I wonder if she s really playing or am misinterpreting it as bullying.
@@sklanguage589 thank you 😊
I love these types of videos, I am wanting to build my children’s character. Thanks Jady :)
I raised my son educated and kind kid and then he was bullied in school 😭😭😭😭😭😭 i dont know if i did right... I am chaning my mind..
I'm so sorry he was bullied. Hoping it gets better. I always tell my kids not to hit unless...then I list out some emergency scenarios. They are still not to hit a bully if they can just get away first.
Make sure they know "that hurt people,hurt people." There is nothing wrong with them,there is something wrong with the bully to make them act this way. I'm sure you are doing a great job mama! Hang in there!
Thank you a million times over! You are amazing 👏 ❤️
I so needed this video. I was thinking of making a chart with rules for my 5 years old toddler but wasn't sure what to do. Thank you Jady❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
I do horrible job. I should have watched this long time ago. You are amazing.
I feel the same way.
You look so pretty! Thank you so much for this!
Thank you for sharing! This is exactly how I want to raise my children.
Eu te amo Jade
Bless you Jady
Hello,
Would you have any idea how I would teach an autistic child this? I am struggling to teach this. He is four years old, runs away, breaks items etc
Instead of only explaining the rule (what) also explain who, when, where and how. Use drawings.
@@marie-louiseweerheim4224 thank you for that. Also a great idea to use drawings I never thought about that. Thank you.
Very nice and helpful
What would a consequence be for not sitting and eating
Very infrmative thx jady
Do you allow your kids to watch TV only on the weekend?
Thank you Jady! Your videos are truly a blessing to all!
At what age did you start implementing these rules? I have a toddler
3
Indeed we are raising the next generation.
Thank só much
I few years ago at a get together, a 4 year old was jumping from one sofa to another over a glass vase. The mother was bragging about a school the child got into for the fall. She was ignoring her child's disrespect of the lady's home.
Thank you for this video!
What a blessing this is to my life. Thank you so much!
Hello mam🙏 .I'm from india. Nd my mother tongue is bengali. Nd I can't properly speak English . That's why my pronouncing its not done . Actually Mane problem is my baby boy(3 year) his can't writing own self. How to teach him simpley Nd easy process he written Nd learn to focus on his studies. Plz sujest for me mam. Sorry for that If you any sentence cannot understand . Plz
Thank you Jady, I'm Twyla Ned from the Marshall Islands. I have watching your videos, and have been learning alot from you!
Good leaders need to first learn to be led
Thank you. 😁❤🙏🏽
Great topic...
I seen this tonight for a reason trying to raise upright and obedient children in Jesus. Homeschool mom 4 children 6,5,2, and 6 months needed this as a refresher . Thank you praise Jesus
As always you been doing GREAT videos and i admire you for having such wide, clear mindset and understanding. GOD bless you and your family. Be safe.
Very nice
Simply AMAZING!!! Thank you very much for sharing❤❤❤
You are so awesome and thank you!
What movies do you watch as a family?
Hello Jady.. Thanks for your Videos.. I realized how important to put rules in the house.. I only have a 5 year old girl..yet I can't handle her bad behaviours. I am a working mother and i always left may child to her nanny. That's maybe one reason I cant teach her very well. Can you help me more how to manage time for work and for disciplining my child? thanks
Great advice! If my child speaks disrespectfully, I simply say, “Try again”. If they are not sure how to correct how they’ve said it, we practice and then “try again”. We will keep trying until it is corrected.
I will do that as the parent as well. If I have spoken with a bad tone, I’ll say, “I should not have used that tone.”