Manners All Children Should Have!

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  • @Zoe-sj7of
    @Zoe-sj7of 3 роки тому +94

    I heard someone say once "what a well mothered child." You are one of those Mother's Jada that deserve recognition! Thank you🥰

  • @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic
    @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic Рік тому +5

    Love setting expectations beforehand and discussing afterwards how to improve. Agree all this training happens at home, so much training 😂😂😂

  • @loveyaseen
    @loveyaseen Рік тому +3

    My wife shared this video with me saying, "Glad there is somebody else who's doing what we are doing." I am glad I watched and learned a couple of things we could tweak in what we are doing. Thank you, ma'am :)

  • @MommyBee1589
    @MommyBee1589 3 роки тому +57

    Jady I hope this video goes viral! I’m from NC and growing up every single manner you mention was taught to me. I teach my kids these manners as well- I sometimes feel at the grocery store I’m the only person that shows any kind of manners… I will hold the door, no thank you. I will say excuse me no “no problem” or “sure!” No kindness at all. Adults aren’t teaching kids because they don’t have them themselves. I’ve had adults interrupt me repeatedly without an “excuse me” or “pardon my interruption..” there is no value for manners anymore. I really hope people get this message especially adults so that we can restore manners!

  • @yuliawellington3005
    @yuliawellington3005 3 роки тому +26

    "Manners is what holds a society together." Jane Austen
    "Good manners are the glue of society."
    Seinfeld episode quote.
    ❤❤❤

  • @MariaPerez-ke8cx
    @MariaPerez-ke8cx 3 роки тому +44

    Now teaching PreK class, I am in shock the lack of manners some of the children have. Some parents feel that the teacher is responsible. Guess what? Parents are children's first teachers

    • @christinab.2864
      @christinab.2864 3 роки тому +1

      And this pandemic will only make it worse. I fear if I near someone in it’ll start some kind of drama like in middle school; Where the correct answer excuse me.

  • @jessicabishop2876
    @jessicabishop2876 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you
    I could cry
    I’m struggling so bad and I just found your content
    It’s been a blessing thank you
    Prayers appreciated and desperately needed

  • @julietteyork6293
    @julietteyork6293 3 роки тому +58

    You were clearly raised right and now you’re passing on these important life lessons to your own children, and to your virtual family here. Thank you and God bless you, Jady.💞

  • @289dancer
    @289dancer 2 роки тому +1

    she is so amazing she should be a speech language pathologist. this woman is the child whisperer!

  • @mom2school226
    @mom2school226 Рік тому +1

    I love you. You are my mom friend that helps me try and be better parent because parenting is hard.. atleast for me. Lol

  • @AudreyCLord
    @AudreyCLord 3 роки тому +5

    1. Greetings; acknowledge the people in your home. Good morning, good night. People you encounter when out and about.
    2. Please and thank you. The magic word! Just remind them! Also write thank you notes when you receive a gift!
    3. Holding doors and being helpful.
    4. Excuse yourself, if you bump into someone, etc.
    5. Dinner time, pray, eat once everyone is together. Stay in your seat until done eating. Excuse yourself when ready to leave. Clear your spot when done. No elbows on table. Eat with mouth closed.
    6. When at someone's house. With don't touch all their things or go in all the rooms. We don't get all comfortable as if it was our house. It is important to prepare our children. We ring the door, wait until their greet us, etc.
    7. The way the refer to other people. Over 30= Mr (Sir), Mrs (ma'am). No "yeah", yes. The way they answer matters. Use appropriate language.
    Manners matter!
    Thank you for this lovely video 🌷

  • @AnimateWithMyCats
    @AnimateWithMyCats 3 роки тому +3

    I feel like youre parenting me!!!
    God knew I needed you!!

  • @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic
    @MamaJeanMontessoriMusic Рік тому +1

    In traditional Chinese culture at the table, we wait for the elders or adults to take food first before kids take food (since we typically keep food in the center and don’t pass plates like in western culture). This is almost lost now in many families… So yes, it all requires training and repetition at home.

  • @nyarash
    @nyarash 2 роки тому +2

    I live in Portugal and here it's impressive how people greet everyone and say excuse me and sorry more than required. My son adopted this habit so well without teaching. I strongly believe that if you want to make your child a kind person it is very important for them to see you as a parent do it and we don't have to teach them they will learn by watching us. I want my son to be a person who makes this earth a better place through his kindness and good manners.

  • @aliyamazhar9631
    @aliyamazhar9631 3 роки тому +7

    Hello. Please do make a vdo on table manners

  • @jedsonjadiel
    @jedsonjadiel 3 роки тому +13

    This is great, Jady!
    Thank you for this video.
    We have 3 girls, 8 yrs and under.
    And the Lord surprised us with a baby boy, and he is 3 months now.
    You have the BEST content for parenting and homeschooling!
    Thank you!
    I became a homeschooling mother with your help and influence.
    I’ve been watching your videos for 5 years now!
    You have such a beautiful family!
    May God continue to bless you!
    Love, Achza R.

  • @claudia_christianmommy
    @claudia_christianmommy 3 роки тому +27

    Manners is so important and takes you so far in life. Being considerate and expressing it properly is just a skill that is just so underrated. Thanks for the detailed tips. My 2 and 4 yr old forget to say good morning and I try to remind them lol also my girl is sweet and kind to others but I try to encourage her to just say hello to friends and family because she struggles with saying hello.

  • @dorcaschibwe8306
    @dorcaschibwe8306 Рік тому

    This is amazing especially with God first in what we do.I will do in Zambia here.

  • @melindasalinas1821
    @melindasalinas1821 3 роки тому +6

    I absolutely believe in teaching children manners. I teach PreK and in our class we say good morning, please, thank you and we have door helpers who hold the doors for us and everyone says thank you. They say yes ma'am and excuse me. I feel so proud of them and it makes me happ to hear them be kind to one another and respectful of others. It's worth the effort and will serve them positively all their lives. Great video!

  • @joybabik2879
    @joybabik2879 3 роки тому +19

    Thanks for this Jady. One you miss is where two or more people are speaking and the child just interrupts without saying excuse me. Manners are so important. Please make that video. Blessings🙏🏾

  • @SimplyStacyL
    @SimplyStacyL 3 роки тому +16

    One of the most important things my kids have learned is to thank those who serve them in typically thankless positions. A genuine thank you to their Sunday school teacher, thanking a cashier at a store, even waving a polite thank you to the waste management workers or postal workers.

  • @ilariandre_
    @ilariandre_ 3 роки тому +2

    I think a lot of parents expect the school and teachers to teach manners, but the school is supposed to educate and I have a lot of doubts about that already. Manners should be taught at home. Great video. Thank you very much!

  • @thejillykilly
    @thejillykilly 3 роки тому +11

    More manners videos please. My son doesn’t have it in him, so I have to be explicit with every single thing. So this really helps.

  • @plantyour_seed
    @plantyour_seed 3 роки тому

    Dear Jady, thank you for being my friend since 2016😍🥰 God Bless you and your beautiful family🤗

  • @beeyouteefulwears
    @beeyouteefulwears 2 роки тому +1

    You are the kind of mom I hope to be. Thank you for being so inspiring. I love you Jady.

  • @Mev_oez92
    @Mev_oez92 3 роки тому +9

    I love that Jady doesnt have the best graphic, lightning etc. In videos. However her videos are still quality because its the content that counts for me.

  • @PinnacleTeachingResources
    @PinnacleTeachingResources 3 роки тому +15

    I absolutely love your channel on Christianity, Manners and children. I taught toddlers and you get to see different personalities. What many people don't realise is your child is an exact replicate of what happens at home and it is so easy to see. The children with manners stand out and are absolutely amazing in the class. I really love how you emphasise on the important things and always keep God at your centre of your morals. May God bless you and your family.

  • @bettyramirez77
    @bettyramirez77 11 місяців тому

    I have 3 little boys, and have been trying to teach them manners since they were babies, and to be a gentlemen, well we went out one evening to eat at a restaurant and my oldest (8 year old) opened the door for an older lady without me asking him, the lady told me “wow what an educated little boy, you don’t see that anymore” I felt so proud of him🥲❤

  • @mrsevergreentree
    @mrsevergreentree 2 роки тому +1

    I think we as parents NEED to model this behavior in order for the teaching to be effective

  • @vassilistsogkas1116
    @vassilistsogkas1116 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much, Jady! I found your channel yesterday and i have learnt so much from you as a mother and as a teacher.❤

  • @lighteninggazelle816
    @lighteninggazelle816 3 роки тому +1

    Yes talk for an hour on manners!!! Let me just tell you, God directly uses you in my life. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @victoriamichele6336
    @victoriamichele6336 3 роки тому +12

    YES please :) I would love to see everything about table manners, etc, how to teach kids those things. Expecting my first baby soon and have no idea how to do these things!!! I have almost no experience with children so your videos are a huge help to me, especially when you give very literal instructions in how to train children.

  • @ameena723
    @ameena723 3 роки тому +14

    I truly love your channel. You’re sooo appreciated💝

  • @GabyApple1
    @GabyApple1 3 роки тому +10

    Your videos are a godsend! I have learned so much to help me homeschool my grandchildren. Thank you so much, may God continue to bless and guide your and your family!

  • @greatness7012
    @greatness7012 3 роки тому +2

    I love and see these etiquette to be very essential but many adults do not possess such nor see the need for these. Please continue even if people do not reciprocate. As a subscribers, l have written them and nailed it to my wall.

  • @ameena723
    @ameena723 3 роки тому +8

    Your channel is soo appreciated 💝

  • @nd0158
    @nd0158 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Jady! Another would be teaching our children proper manners when it comes to screens and technology.

  • @moooovies1234
    @moooovies1234 3 роки тому +2

    Great Video! I want an extended version. I'm trying my best but I want to know everything! Please.

  • @angelicas.6391
    @angelicas.6391 3 роки тому +2

    I agree 100%. It’s constant work and repetition. If we don’t teach manners to our children, nobody will. We do the same as y’all do for our mornings and nights and also include hugs. It’s so special and bonds us together as a family. Keep them coming Jady🙂

  • @MilaDanceSport
    @MilaDanceSport 3 роки тому +2

    My goodness, I hope everyone sees this! Thank you for making this video. We will start taking manners more seriously in our home learning as well.

  • @damaliebeason9405
    @damaliebeason9405 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent presentation Jayda. This is a subscriber from Jamaica. Wonderful reminders and thanks for highlighting that it does help with their character building and makes a difference when they learn social graces.

  • @Quest4it
    @Quest4it 3 роки тому +6

    So glad I found this! My 2 and 4 year old grandchildren just moved in with us. They really need help in the discipline and manner department. I feel like I need assistance from super nanny.. Everything you said is spot on!

  • @ONEBLESSEDHOME
    @ONEBLESSEDHOME 3 роки тому +7

    Great video Jady! I agree and a perfect verse for this is
    "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it."
    Proverbs 22:6
    My daughter is 3 and she gets so excited to go to the stores and pick things up to show me . So I tell her that she can point 👉 to show me instead of picking things up . It has actually worked 😊.

  • @paulaglenn388
    @paulaglenn388 3 роки тому +3

    Many parents aren't always the best example of manners, so we as parents need a refresher course in manners and an effective loving sensible way to teach manners which can be applied to everything we do!!💓🌷💓🌷💓🌷💓🌷💓🌷

  • @sbdrz4729
    @sbdrz4729 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video a gentle reminder en motivation to do better. As a muslim mom i realise that most of the manners are teached by religion too. Love your channel 💙

  • @katiechamberlain1739
    @katiechamberlain1739 3 роки тому +7

    I have 5 kids and try very hard to teach them to be kind and polite, but I still appreciate reminders like this video. Life gets so busy and it's easy to get lazy in areas like manners. Great video and I would love to see a video on table manners!

  • @nurgul_for_Jesus
    @nurgul_for_Jesus 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much! Please talk more on manners!

  • @katieb9312
    @katieb9312 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for your video! I would love a table manners video that I could show my children. I truly appreciate your insight!

  • @MsVero124
    @MsVero124 3 роки тому +1

    Yes thank you i totally agree with you on this. This is very important please make another video like this one.

  • @mariebrock8841
    @mariebrock8841 3 роки тому +3

    I loved this video! We work on manners and practice play what to do often because children don’t naturally know what to do. While somethings may be picked up, they so much that can be missed. I loved seeing that we do much of the same. Please do show the dinner table video. I think it would help so many.

  • @elenapolenichkina6460
    @elenapolenichkina6460 2 роки тому

    Would love more videos like that with examples! Thank you!

  • @GatorPodSquad
    @GatorPodSquad 3 роки тому +1

    Another big thing for us parents is to lead by example!💕😊

  • @learnwithaanya6398
    @learnwithaanya6398 3 роки тому +3

    Really nice dear jade whenever I watch any video of yours I learn tons of new things very very very nice dear jade lots of love from India 🇮🇳

  • @Manyacn
    @Manyacn 3 роки тому +5

    I really needed this reminder, thank you! I love the table manners you've mentioned about their plates. I will definitely be teaching this to my toddlers.

  • @sonatagirdzijauskiene5609
    @sonatagirdzijauskiene5609 3 роки тому +1

    I want more! Much more ,please . Thank you very much Jady again !

  • @normaortega4654
    @normaortega4654 3 роки тому

    Plenty is caught than taught. Parents remember to also teach by example. Our children watch the way wet interact with others: parents, spouse, siblings, neighbors, cashier, mail carrier, pastor and elderly. Great tips Jady! Thanks.

  • @AnimateWithMyCats
    @AnimateWithMyCats 3 роки тому

    I would love a long video on manners!!!

  • @naomiblenessy4568
    @naomiblenessy4568 3 роки тому +2

    I loved this video, and yes, please show us how you teach your children manners at the table! 🤗

  • @dowhatyoulove3216
    @dowhatyoulove3216 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks jady, this is something im working really hard on right now

  • @dawnmariemills9663
    @dawnmariemills9663 3 роки тому +4

    You have been such a blessing to me since I found you a few months ago! Thank you! You were just what I needed! I have bought o e if your binder book pages and used your links for a few things! I made a nature area, hung up my bird poster and more! Oh and my morning basket! I started a board and bought the hands to point oh man almost everything!! Now this is a blessing! Thank you

  • @inezthibodeaux9915
    @inezthibodeaux9915 3 роки тому +1

    Great video. So simple but very life changing to the world if we all instill it in our little ones. One thing I try to teach my children and students is even though you accidentally bump into or hurt someone, just say sorry I didn't see you or sorry I didn't mean to. Then ask, are you ok and help them up if you knocked them down. Or help gather their things you may have made fall.(blocks/toys) It decreases alot of arguments.

  • @nightangle476
    @nightangle476 3 роки тому

    So true manners and discipline does effect your life, in particular later in life. They learn by role modelling. ❤️ My son is just 2 and half and people often tell me that he has more manners than adults. But that's how it is because we role model it for him but at the same time, when he's upset at other kids not being like him, we just tell him to accept and not to leave his kindness and being respectful.

  • @elizabethdavila491
    @elizabethdavila491 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful jady ❤🙏. Thank you. May God continue to bless you and your wonderful family !

  • @farhatalam5169
    @farhatalam5169 2 роки тому +1

    ❤Love u soooooo much dear Jady

  • @shannonm2005
    @shannonm2005 3 роки тому

    I can’t wait for your dinner, role playing video. I never grew up with family meal time. I want to set that habit for my son and build that foundation. Just need a clear example. Thank you for all that you give the world, through your example and instruction. I am grateful for you!

  • @farahwaseem6838
    @farahwaseem6838 3 роки тому +4

    Love your videos Jady! So educational yet loving & gentle

  • @milisapina6831
    @milisapina6831 3 роки тому +4

    Dear Jady, thank you so much for this toppic and I hope that you are going to make a video about the table manners as soon as possible 🥰

  • @405Lenny
    @405Lenny 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this! I am in total agreement with you. 👍👍

  • @bettytube2593
    @bettytube2593 Рік тому

    Thank you so much and God bless you

  • @shandra413
    @shandra413 3 роки тому +1

    Great video! I am encouraged that I am doing some things right as a mom. Holding the door is such a simple way to serve another person. Even my little ones (ages 2 and 4) hold the door for others. Most of the time I remind them and I may have to help them hold the door. But it is such an important, simple, kind thing to do.
    We do struggle with the kids sitting at the table and not getting up during meals.

  • @juliaa1617
    @juliaa1617 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! What an absolutely useful video! Thank you so much. Teaching manners takes time indeed but it’s so worth it. My parents always took care of that when I was growing in the family with my sister. My children also have good manners but unfortunately my grandchildren and my sister’s grandchildren are kind of slipping away by seeing not very good examples around way too often. It takes even more effort and consistency from everybody in the family now… Looking forward to watching your next videos in these series! And just while I’m here, I’d like to say that I watched many of your previous videos with teaching ideas for the young children. I admire your energy and enthusiasm as a mum to do so much with your children!!! What a great example for many of us 🙌❤️🙏💐

  • @iwannantairi9322
    @iwannantairi9322 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your videos is very helpful!🙂Please do the video with the manners in the table!! I have a huge problem with that!

  • @TheDallol
    @TheDallol 3 роки тому +1

    I was disappointed when the video ended. I wish it was a one hour video. Please do more videos on manners as they are really helpful. Thank you for all the videos. You are the best of the best mom. God bless you and your family.

  • @elic987
    @elic987 3 роки тому +6

    Hi dear Jady, I Totally agree with everything and as you say it would take another video to teach it all. I also see here in Italy , I think it's globally now, that parents think that there children will learn manners by themselves. Absolutely not!!
    When I invite my kids' friends (8and 9yrs old) they take everything out of the toys storages and leave everything on the floor, full of toys and stuff. When we are invited , (fortunately my kids don't have the habit of pulling everything out the closets or toy boxes😅) I always say let's help .. put the toys away and leave them with a clean room if you have played with their toys.
    Or here in Italy, kids have a high tone they are always yelling and I always have to remember my kids to speak quietly , adults have to be able to have a normal conversation . What is not so easy at my friends house with kids!!
    Always love your video's . I am looking forward for the character development video. A topic I especially cherish. Un abbraccio 💓💓💓

  • @narendranr3969
    @narendranr3969 3 роки тому +1

    Love to hear more from you jady....thank you for sharing all such beautiful things...you are the one wonderful soul that the God has sent for everyone....love you lot ...I love myself as a mom whenever I see you... ☺️

  • @godeniran1
    @godeniran1 3 роки тому

    I taught in public high school for 9 years…..I have three girls…. All of these things I have and will keep practicing❤️ God is truly using you as a light! Been following you for years. Keep up the good work, thank you

  • @angelicagallegos3397
    @angelicagallegos3397 3 роки тому +1

    This was so great!! Yes on the role playing please!

  • @MadlovesJ
    @MadlovesJ 3 роки тому

    Yes to all role play and example videos and do's and dont's!!🥰

  • @mahirak2017
    @mahirak2017 3 роки тому

    Very informative. I was brought up in such away and I pass it onto my kids. Offlate though especially with the last ones I think I slacked allot. Thanx for sharping my axe. I have to shape up. Thanx for the reminder me Ms. J, I learn so much from you, as a homeschooling mom myself and just being a woman in general. Thank you once again.

  • @dorcaschibwe8306
    @dorcaschibwe8306 Рік тому

    Simply the best

  • @Lidia1312
    @Lidia1312 3 роки тому +1

    This is incredibly important!!!! Thank you sis 💕 please more!! God bless you!

  • @nikolinarusev4279
    @nikolinarusev4279 3 роки тому +15

    I admit, I haven't tought my child manners. She is now almost 6. She doesn't say, hello, thank you, bye, please, doesn't answer questions. A big part of it is that we are a reserved family and she is more shy than average, and I recall I was like that. Can you direct me please on what I can do. God bless you for those videos!

    • @Monica-gu2bg
      @Monica-gu2bg 3 роки тому

      You can start modeling this behavior. Children catch up on what parents do. So start with yourself, and soon you'll her doing the same. If she does not, then explain to her why manners matter and when to apply them 🙂

    • @christinab.2864
      @christinab.2864 3 роки тому +1

      It’s never too late nor too early. For me it’s my version and routine of habits. Version: since she is only six she will have a hard time viewing herself being talked to as an adult would being called miss and ma’am it’s very strange. By the time child turn ten to eleven years old they need to get used to seeing themselves when they get older. The routines of habits thing it will take anyone two week for a manner to set in.

  • @hn8665
    @hn8665 3 роки тому

    I would like to thank you for this wonderful video and I hope it reaches millioms because it is very important for every child to learn these manners.

  • @CarsenGray
    @CarsenGray 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Jady, do you think you could provide us with a dinner time manners poster for our dining room? A list of all the manners they have to keep while sitting down for meals. I think it's a good reminder for our kids and us parents to be consistent! You have such lovely bright printables that kids really enjoy. Thank you for another great video :) God Bless

  • @marciafernandes1326
    @marciafernandes1326 3 роки тому +1

    I really love your channel. Helps me a lot. Thank you so much

  • @carinahellmann2959
    @carinahellmann2959 3 роки тому

    Very good points, thank you!
    I have 3 boys (5, 3, 1years old) and sometimes the whole „table-topic“ is so hard.

  • @elenahajda9817
    @elenahajda9817 3 роки тому

    Wonderful video. You are so amazing. Thank you for doing what you doing 💞

  • @fantasticefeefe1655
    @fantasticefeefe1655 3 роки тому

    You are one of the best mother out there, thanks for sharing sis

  • @wonderbuddies4620
    @wonderbuddies4620 5 місяців тому

    Thanks Jady this video is very helpful and educative God bless you

    • @wonderbuddies4620
      @wonderbuddies4620 5 місяців тому

      You are really amazing mom I really enjoys all the videos you always share Jady you really inspires me if you don't know and thank you for doing this to may or to the world.

  • @ivytrevizo741
    @ivytrevizo741 3 роки тому +4

    I am teaching my kids manners because I was raised that way and have always tried to be kind. My issue is that there are so many kids that don't have manners and are mean and rude to my daughter. She's still little so she doesn't understand but I am saddened at how kids are being raised today.

  • @eunicegreat-mack5907
    @eunicegreat-mack5907 3 роки тому +1

    Well done Jady A. Thanks for this video

  • @angelicap5769
    @angelicap5769 3 роки тому

    Very helpful video please post the more detailed video about manners. Thank you

  • @kassandrapintor5524
    @kassandrapintor5524 2 роки тому

    This video is so helpful I truly appreciate it ❤️☺️

  • @kingdomrootedmama
    @kingdomrootedmama 3 роки тому

    One thing that I noticed if often missed in parenting young kids is washing hands after each meal or snack, I am so happy I thought my kids from a very small age to wash hand after each eating session. And putting there shoes and coat away and putting there thing neatly at other peoples homes. And respecting other kiddos toys. Collecting or holding on of their trash. I can go on and on. Lol

  • @TheOvernightMom
    @TheOvernightMom 3 роки тому

    We can talk about manners for another hour- loved this! You're an amazing mom!! Thank you for your encouragement!

  • @diamondsapphireangel1721
    @diamondsapphireangel1721 3 роки тому

    Great video. We should teach as well as model the behavior that we wish to see in children.

  • @PinoyLifeinItaly
    @PinoyLifeinItaly 2 роки тому

    Totally Agree, in the Philippines 🇵🇭 we really teach that at the school we have a specific subject GMRC Good Manners and Right Conduct...

  • @JSCDR
    @JSCDR 3 роки тому

    Yes and Amen to this entire video! Thank you!

  • @fabyisathome1716
    @fabyisathome1716 3 роки тому +3

    One of the rules that I have for my children is that we aren't able to say that food is yuck or make faces to the food (especially if we are over someone's house)

  • @mignonbaricevic36
    @mignonbaricevic36 2 роки тому +1

    I grew up I a country where good manners were instilled at home and school and society in general. Then I moved across the world and kids were running in the hallways, touching the walls, slouching, swearing etc. It was a huge culture shock. I am now struggling to get my children to see the importance of these things. They think I'm being posh or ridiculous. I would love to see more like this especially mealtimes 🙂 I would also appreciate content dealing with teens and manners. Thank you