You're Going Bald, Confidence Is Low And You Feel Self-conscious? My Direct Message To You
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If you are having a difficult time dealing with balding, going bald, hair loss then this video is for you. I hope it speaks to you and can give you that little slice of clarity to progress you through this very common journey.
Hey man loving the content! Just wanted to give you a heads up incase you’re interested... a big UA-camr named Nathaniel Drew just put out a video shaving his head and publicizing that he’s losing his hair. Might make for an interesting reaction video.
Cheers man 👍 he’s one of the “morning routine” and productivity dudes I believe
Go do 6 'Modules' and get an HNC/HND in Counseling bro. Dont ever stop doing this, although I'd be a liar, if I didn't state, you could make a lot of Money, with a Private Practice.
Honestly mate I’m struggling with mine. I don’t have Instagram and sadly can’t dm you. I buzzed mine down but can’t decide what to do from now etc it’s driving me pretty crazy whether I should or shouldn’t.
@@cuoi2051 have you tried Minoxidil or Finasteride? Or both?
Watching a video on how to cope with hair loss and be confident being bald and I get ads for hair growth products 😕
That's Big Brother watching your search history
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@@DanTheMan221 It's because there's "bald" in the title. Nobody cares about your search history.
Nice pfp Lmao
@@timmothyjennings algorithms
Being young (21 like me) and going bald is so hard, being attractive and attracting girls dominates your mind, losing hair is like losing part of your character and image, this dude is doing an amazing thing by talking about it and being open, especially when guys like myself may not know of any others going through balding at a young age 🍻
Please stop.
Never take an advice of a married bald man.
They cannot understand state of mind of a 21 year old balding singlw man.
Take actions which will benefit you the most.
Bald look at young age is not suitable as most girls do not want to marry bald men.
I went bald many years ago now but that’s besides the point. Going and being bald will not be the reason for your failure with women unless you let it be. Period
Did you know that hair system are now existed and they are so thin which almost impossible to notice because high quality of hair system makes your hair more natural look.
@@lovelygameworld4628 yeah they’re great but they don’t last very long and they’re so expensive
This guy chats shit for views go get the transplant
Ooo boy... where do I begin? I started losing hair around 17 (I’m 22 now). I suffered through the whole hiding my balding with hats and treatments until I was 21. Parents didn’t understand what I felt, so I was on my own. Being stuck inside cause of the pandemic was when I had enough and buzzed it for the first time. Over time, I continue to buzz my hair, and the time is fast approaching for me to plunge into full baldness. This is all thanks to this channel!
I'm 21 and I'm also bald its scary situation for me also
@@surajtaru2499 my friend, I know that feeling all too well. You’re not alone in this struggle, and I hope you are able to embrace this change and take it in stride! Shaving it off is scary, so I recommend easing into it if that is what you’re planning to do. Start by buzzing it with a larger guard and work your way down slowly if and when you are comfortable doing so.
@@surajtaru2499 bro, in the photo you have very good hairs, it seems, give finasteride and minoxidil and microneedling a try,
getting bald young is kinda like cystic acne. Lots of parents have no idea of the impact it can cause on a teenager's mental health.
What people saw was me shaving my head all of a sudden, without even addressing it or any balding problem I might've had. I did it with confidence and not caring what anyone else thought.
Let's just say that behind the scenes I watched all of your videos and they helped me a lot with facing this without too many worries and showing more confidence that I actually had at that point. No one knows this but it's all thanks to you 😊
I am 22 years old and bald. I look older and I feel more insecure at times. Growing back the hair does me no justice. This video is really good for my self esteem. Thanks mate
When did you decide to shave it all?
@@AirsoftJunky74 at 21. Essentially when I noticed it was getting serious.
You got all you need man that vision just gets blurred at times which is totally normal. 🤝
I am 21 and I shave it with machine at 0 and it’s actually good not bad at all 😊
Tbf from your pic mate you look like you rock it pretty well! Keep that head high
Girls is a big issue, let me tell you, I broke up with my partner over a year ago, and recently I've found someone who I think is absolutely perfect, she doesn't give a shit that I'm bald, the right person doesn't care if you have hair or not.
Real talk
Began to lose my hair when I was 19. I had almost none left at 22 so decided to shave. I'm 30 years old now... can't believe i've been shaving my head everyday for 8 years but... if you're young and struggling with hair loss... trust me .. Shave it. It's hard to accept in the beginning but you slowly stop worrying about the hair loss part because you don't have any more hair to lose haha.... but it really feels better. Do it.
Thanks for sharing man. It is crazy to look back on from such a different perspective
@@Baldcafe Thanks to you. Your videos helped me a lot over the years.
I have noticed one thing, lately I have been doing activities and I feel much better in my life because I don't pay so much attention to the baldness.
The only way to live well with baldness is to have a good mindset. That's why I think that shaving your head is useless. You don't need to shave your head several times a week to have a good state of mind. You might as well not shave and accept yourself as you are.
@@Baldcafe Are you married? How old is your wife? Age gap between you and her?
when did you married(year)?
How bald was you when you got married?
It's true. You will get used to the new look and by the time you get in your 30's. It's just losing it in early 20's when you are just exploring new things. Bald can't be that bad if people with hair shave it. Or get SMP.
Has helped me with my balding journey ever since it started when I was 17 sophomore year in highschool. Bald cafe honestly saved me. I had no idea what good razors to use or how to take care of a bald head.
Really happy to hear it man 🤝 Wish you the very best.
Thank you for empowering us Harry, much appreciated!
Great positive vibes again man.
Great idea and channel. Thanks for the positive videos.
Dropping wisdom and experience. Great!
Thanks so much Harry, every one of your videos increases my confidence more and more. Thinking of moving from the zero guard to the razor shave sometime in the near future...
great videos mahn
Been watching your videos for a couple weeks. Today I finally got the courage. Thank you.
Thank you harry, I’m in the early stages but it has been in my mind all day for almost every day, it’s tiring but thank you for the words and the help
Thanks . You helped me a lot.
Great video, I’ve finally buzzed down to a blade one and have had nothing but nice comments from friends and family. Zero guard next !
I've not lost it quite yet but I think your channel has helped me jump the mental barrier before I'm even fully there yet at 20. My Dad went bald at 27 but Mum's side has no MPB so it's a toss up. I do have receding temples though. Foreheads always been huge.
One of the most important channels on this platform. I do hope the content here stays forever as its positive impact simply cannot be overstated. So for that, thank you. It's been an absolute relief just listening to these stories. I will be joining many others by shaving my head bald for the first time ever this week, after many years of my hairline receding and slowly losing thickness each year since about 17, I've had enough. It's time to let go. This channel has given me the confidence to make it all happen and that it'll be okay. Thank you once again
Baldcafe is the best of youtube
this is an amazing video I really appreciated it alot
Thank you very much for being there Harry. For a few months I have been fighting a depression caused by my hair loss, that's when I discovered your channel, I still don't dare to take the plunge and shave but your channel is helping me. I know I need psychological therapy, but you are a great help, I hope to get over this soon
Man your videos have really helped me a lot. I started losing my hair at the crown about 4 years ago. I was so self conscious about it and you gave me the inspiration to embrace going bald and feel comfortable and confident doing it! You’re awesome man! Thank you for the encouraging words and helping so many men that are in the same position I was in! God bless!
Wish i could like this video twice , big help thanks
I shaved my hair today, I'm only 22 years old. Continue with the channel, it's helping a lot of people out there, peace.
thank you brav!!
No worries bruv 👍
You and your channel are an inspiration for me my man. Keep up the always great work 💪🏻💪🏻
Thanks Jake I appreciate your passion in trying to help others navigate through hair loss and more also. 🙏
Excellent message !! : we gotta find others to verbalise en vent our worries &fears about our baldness; sharing in all honesty and rawness , and completely opening up about it is a massive step ! (I believe this could well be the hardest part for most men. )
i love your personality and your look so handsome
I have accepted my balding and it feels great!
@@omarthecupoftea7224 Bro just stfu if you can't accept it its your thing but don't try to make other's feel like you
@@sportler777 There is no such thing as accepting a baldness, It’s not like you have been given a choice or something!
Wow never seen a video this close to an upload. Good Message!
Hope you enjoyed it!
I wished you and technology was around some 43 years ago when I went premature bald! I applaud your video creativity !
Hi baldcafe, just wanted to say I really like your channel and admire your positive attitude. What I respect you the most is that instead of choosing the multi billion dollar hair loss prevention/hair restoration industry to make yourself a rich person (trust me mate, you got the look to be a cover boy for any top hair transplant clinic in the world), you are encouraging all men to shrug it off, accept what life has to offer gracefully and move on. I was born with a big forehead thanks to my family gene pool and I’m always self conscious of it. A full head of hair is extremely important to me. I guess there is no shame to admit this and people have the right to do what is best for themselves. BTW, if I were to have your accent and a killer jawline that looks great with or without hair. I would NOT mind either way ! :)
I'm 28, and while I still have a full head of hair, I'm starting too see early signs of what's to come down the line. I have buzzed my head for convenience's sake many times, and it feels so good to have nothing on the noggin to worry about, so when my time comes, I will embrace it. This is something I would recommend for guys who still have their luscious locks: Try the buzzcut at least once and get an idea of what you would look and feel like if/once your hair starts falling out!
Speaking about it is the best thing in the world I spoke with my girlfriend about mine she was so supportive .. not easy but it’s worth it that relief you’ve finally told some one is the best
Shes gaslighting you bro
We are so much more than our hair gentlemen.
really appreciate you getting down into the serious talk and not beating around the bush. more chats like this please, can we more walking podcasts?!
Thanks man. I enjoy just speaking out what would essentially be my reply in an email etc. I need to get back out there for more walking and talking for sure.
@@Baldcafe hi! I don't know what your name is but I'm Chris jude Gallagher & I was wondering in your network or connections how can I find someone maybe here in Ohio where I live that would shave me head perfectly & then I can decide if I like it? Especially since I have a unique situation on my scalp of scabs, acne & scar that's healed a few yrs ago. Thank you for any direction & thank you for being there where we're not alone! Much to the love!
Im gonna be honest, this is a great video. Men need this today, someone to relate to, talk to and feel at ease about their problems. I noticed i was thinning on top at the start of 2020 into the first lockdown. Used it as an excuse to buzz it all off and it rocked my confidence big time, still dealing it with it today and wear hats outdoors but its slowly growing on me, luckily i can grow a great beard to compensate. Your saving mens lives with this message, we get so wrapped up in our heads about being " good enough " and " what others want " . Ive came to terms with it slowly but we are good enough and its a test of character. Rock it Brothers. God speed.
I have noticed one thing, lately I have been doing activities and I feel much better in my life because I don't pay so much attention to the baldness.
The only way to live well with baldness is to have a good mindset. That's why I think that shaving your head is useless. You don't need to shave your head several times a week to have a good state of mind. You might as well not shave and accept yourself as you are.
@@damienoptc7222 Yeah i can totally understand why it would help you focus more on your activities, goals etc because its not a constant sourse of worry or insecurity, just acceptance. I agree, its your mindset that you have to develop and battle even if its everyday. Im luckily not as badly thinning on top but still visable from the top down. A buzz cut suits me, i shave my head 0.5 every 2 weeks and leave my beard, so im rocking it , adapting and elimating my destructive thoughts to more powerful and uplifting ones.
@@iSean91 Nice man ! that's the right way to look at it
I think its very individual issue. Not all hair loss are the same. I lost most my hair in less than 2 years because of autoimmune condition scarring alopecia lichen planopilaris. When I say lost most my hair I mean scalp hair, leg hair,underarm hair and I'm fighting to keep my eyebrows(the disease just destroys the hair). For 27 years old guy its a trauma for life. I don't think I'll ever going to overcome it. Literally scars will remain physically and mentally. Meanwhile I'm on many not so nice medications to stop the disease- isotretinoin, prednisone, Finasteride 3mg,topical steriods, steriods injections to scalp and eyebrows. I'm not going to succumb to this disease. There are moments I envy all these guys losing their hair gradually over years in MPB fashion.. I lost most mine under two years(hundreds everyday).
Well said man. I wish you the best 🙏
This video would have helped so many people who are feeling low!
I do hope so thanks. The end part is crucial in my opinion.
I like you Harry your real humble guy wish you so much luck and happiness man 👍
Right back at you Jack 🤝. I needed this comment today. Thank you
Your very welcome mate I speak the truth and the way you are must make a lot off people very happy watching and listening to your vids there full off positive energy 💪
Love this style of video chill chat about balding and food trip hehehe btw I'm also balding at the age of 21
Just want to say a huge thanks to you, and your channel. After 25 years I finally took the plunge and cut my hair.. shaved it all off and it feels so much better! I’ve had long hair for over 25 years, it had a few trims in that time, but it was always waist length or just above..It was starting to get thin and receding and I was developing a bald latch on top.. Hardly anyone in my life currently has seen me with anything but long hair, so it was a huge deal to shave it all off, but I’m so glad I did. With your videos, and watching other men go through the same, it gave me the courage to go for it. I made a video on my channel showing the moment my life changed for the better if anyone wants to see what 25 years worth of hair disappearing looks like! If I can give courage to just one other person in the same situation, it would all be worth it even more.
Well, same happened for me. I had long hair between 19 and 38, with maybe two refresh buzz cuts in between. I am 40 now and will probably go for a full shave, it is really that bad.
I shaved my head.. was thinning front and back crown. now I hate how I look. cant wait until it grows back..
Thanks for this.. I’m 36 and my hair has gotten noticeably thinner recently. I was looking into treatments but are just way to expensive. One day I saw a dude who rocked a shaved head and a big long beard.. I was thinking “I want that confidence”
u da man!
Where do I begin.... it’s was 26 when I noticed I started thinning on top and by my late twenties I was shaving my head to a low cut. It wasn’t till I stumbled onto this channel where I started to consider “should I shave it off?’ It wasn’t till I watched a video on here during Lockdown 1.0 UK where it gave me the inspiration to shave it off and see how I would look as it’s on hair and it would grow back. Once I completed shaved off my hair, I thought to myself “why didn’t I do this earlier on!” I grew a thicker, darker beard, started running and felt more confident in myself and it reflected in my professional life and personal life. If there’s anyone reading this considering shaving it off as you can see the famous horse shoe, don’t hesitate just grab that razer. I have to give a massive thanks to this channel as it gave me the courage to make that decision
Mate 👏 if only we could cheers a cheeky beer no more would need to be said. Top man 🍻
I'm 30 now and have been receding since I was like 18. I'm very self-conscoius about it at times but I have been lifting weights these past few years and that makes me feel better about myself. Recently I have also started getting greys 😁 to be honest I am happy to be healthy and have my family, that is most important. Those who really matter in your life will accept you for who you are.
@@omarthecupoftea7224 not totally bald but aggressively ceding 😄
Hi man , I have noticed one thing, lately I have been doing activities and I feel much better in my life because I don't pay so much attention to the baldness.
The only way to live well with baldness is to have a good mindset. That's why I think that shaving your head is useless. You don't need to shave your head several times a week to have a good state of mind. You might as well not shave and accept yourself as you are.
If your gonna have a complex either way, leave your hair as is and be truly natural
i agree
I just buzz my head last night and it was refreshing, i was afraid first because my head might have many bumps but well i was wrong, now my next thing to do is to quit in my job lol, because i know they will bully me here in my current work because thats what they do, pulling your self-confidence down to make themselves feel good.
Edit: too many correction in my grammar lol.
With hair shaved off completely or a number 1 if thinning you are always going to look sharp and not have to worry about styling etc. If you are a good looking guy with hair you will be a good looking guy without hair.It is what it is. Just accept it and move on and turn a negative into a positive.
I'm a cider man too , can't stand lager ! And again mate the stubble heads looking good 👊
@JeffreyJefferson lol i can't lie mate i prefer a fruity cider over lager it just dont agree with my gut
@JeffreyJefferson scrumpy Jack is nice
I've shaved my head for the last year now and will continue to do so. There are some cringy jokes I've heard though. I don't know how it's socially acceptable to mock someone who is bald.
But people should be careful what they say because the next person they mock could be going through Chemotherapy or have Alopecia.
I was 31 when it felt like overnight my hair thinned on top and it was time for it to go.
My wife was very supportive of my decision to shave it off and that's because I talked to her about it. I sat down and I said - I'm shaving my head.
So I did.
it wasn't from overnight , you had been losing hair for years and you were already thinning, you just didn't notice it until someone or you saw it
As somone who I's currently losing their hair but planning to get a transplant and fix it I still watch this chanel because it makes me feel more positive about my hairloss situation even tho I am going to fight it
You should.Stop getting misguided from others here and take action which will help you the most in personal life.
Better to do hair transplant and live happy life than surrendering and wasting time watching bald men videos later.
@@nochance3914 yet you're here
@@NECROPOLIS000 Because I haven't done hair transplant yet.Managing budget for this.Will do with in 1 year.
Because of Internet I have spoiled my life.
I could have easily done my hair transplant in 2016 but I was misguided by handsome bald men that baldness don't matter.
Facts
The baldness isn’t the thing that stops you. The saying: if you think you can or you can’t, you’re right. Has never been more true. Regardless I wish you well and I hope things improve for you after your surgery 👍
I've been balding since highschool and now at the end of my 20s it's progressing bad. I feel super self-conscious that I'm loosing something dear to me.
I took the plunge a few weeks ago. I didn’t shave it completely off, but I did shave it with no guard with my clippers. I’m still not 100% behind it, but I know it looks better then my hair. Since the pandemic has kept me at home the most anxiety inducing thought is seeing old friends again. I’m kinda nervous about their reaction lol.
Also thanks for your videos. They have helped a lot.
I guarantee they'll get used to it quickly. Give it a month or two and people will basically start to forget what you even looked like with hair.
I’m going bald and I don’t look bad at all, but a lot of people do. Cherry picking the good ones isn’t the way to go. I understand why some people want a little hair even if they’re clearly balding.
This life isn’t a cookie cutter.
Thank you. This is something Bald Cafe will obviously ignore though because it goes against his fantasy that everyone who shaves their head will be an alpha bro. It's kind of sinister when I think about it. It makes me think a part of him wants people to join his misery.
Bald is bold and bald is beautiful! I prefer it even for those who have a full head of hair.
Watched ur Vid and I shaved my hair off... and I look good 😁
First beginner bald here
Really hope this video helped you
Welcome to the other side, Wes
You are fucking awesome man
Hallo, what do you think about scalp micropigmentation?
Would, be a interesting argument for a new discussion🤔
without beard you look clean fresh young.. but one thing, do you shave your eyebrows ? I think a slight more darker eyebrows would make you even more charming...since you have blue eyes, darker eyebrows would be pretty ..but oh well
You look very good with the light beard 💪
Best advice i can tell someone is the solution is not shaving, hair transplant or hair fibers, the solution is finding self love in your character, as you will come to find out its the only long lasting virtuous thing in your life.
If you are going bald and your self confidence is low GET ON FINASTERIDE and if you are quite far gone then get on minoxidil as well, DONT JUST SHAVE IT UNTIL YOU HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING
Why bother? You will just have to deal with accepting it when you eventually stop or the drugs don't work anymore. Much better to accept and deal with it now and then be content for the rest of your life rather than spending the next 50 years neurotically obsessing about it
@@George-nv1ri because some people value their appearance like their hair???? Duh
@@George-nv1ri Why "just shave it" ? You don't need to shave to accept yourself. Let your hair grow. Accept yourself
@@TS-co9pm But even fin or Minox has a useful life span even if you get a few years out of it you're still going to have to face reality eventually you're simply delaying the inevitable. Best to face it head on like a man than to live in denial like some vain soy boy. You can still value your appearance without taking medication, I'm not arguing that you will be as attractive but that's just something you have to deal with, you'll eventually be ugly when you're old and there's nothing you can do about that and some people are born ugly and there's nothing they can do about that either. Also assuming women deep down want physical attractiveness is a weak mindset you really think a woman would not fuck Jeff bezos because he has no hair? You live in a fantasy world. At the end of the day what would you rather have, a less attractive partner who loves you for who you are or a more attractive partner who loves you for your physical appearance?
@@damienoptc7222 yes I agree acceptance is key whether you opt to shave it or not. I no longer shave mine just keep it as neat as possible as I'm around Norwood 2.5 but in some examples (full horseshoe) shaving with clippers once a week does look a lot cleaner and really takes little effort.
You made a good vid on the leaf razor but it seems to be a US based company what’s the best and most effect way to get one in the UK? On the US site it says about custom fee not included ect.
Mind if I ask the best way to get the pure skinhead look? I use the quick cut with just the blade but still have a mm or so hair on the sides
Hey, just a quick question. Did you or anybody else here had problems with CVG? I am 22 years old and I noticed that I'm going bald about two years ago. A week ago I decided to shave my head, and see how it looks like, even though I'm using Rogaine and some of my hair started to grow back, so I still have some years left until I'll be forced to shave. After I got fully bald, I finally had some peace with it, realizing that it's actually not that bad. I actually kinda like it, I even thought I might just keep shaving. But, there is a problem. My scalp is not smooth, I have some kind of waves/wrinkles. After some research, I found out that it is a condition called CVG (Cutis Verticis gyrata). After two years of feeling like the world just crushed on top of me, going through depression and losing my self-confidence, I finally felt a relief for about a minute, until I realized that its not over and now I have a new problem that I have to deal with. Anyone else experiencing this? Any advice, or treatment? I'm planning to see a doctor, but I wanted to see how common it is and how other people dealt with it. Thank you!
Great video.....most women don't give a monkeys about a bloke being bald....they find confidence attractive....so rock the shaved head and hold it high !
Love your work mate !
Confidence is not something which will always be with you.
Better to attract girl on attraction than looks.
Aussie in the spot 🙌🏻
Keep lying to yourself bro. Deep down even you don't believe that
If you think your ugly, having hair isn't gonna make you better looking.
Oh you'd be surprised.
I'm shaving my head within a few weeks. Family and friends say I still have alot left but I disagree. They have no idea. They don't see what I see when I look in the mirror and exam my hair closely. It's right before the part where the "island" forms. Been gradually receding and it's just fucking time to do it. I'll be fine. I have decent beard genetics and muscles from the gym so I could care less. My body not my family's.
Man I've been rocking the bald head for few years now and I'm only 25 years old but sometimes I still feel like ashamed in public and specifically feel like an old guy because people think I'm over 30 years old which destroys my confidence completely
There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of man. Recognize the fact that you are brave enough to even rock the shaved head in the first place man.
I'm 17 and wow I admire a bald look, maybe one day when I'm older I can shave off all of my hair
Take your time with it man but it's all good when that time comes.
Harry says "take your time", and I do agree. But the sooner you "JUMP OVER" that fence / border IN your head, the finer and stronger you will appreciate what going on ON your head.
As a long time baldy, I only can recommend, the sooner the better!
The hardest part are the first two weeks! Go for it! You will LOVE being bald!
All my best wishes to you and especially COURAGE!👍💪😃
@@hansmiller664 I have a full head of hair, balding doesn't really go on in my family but I look the asthetic of it
@@mysteriouslykind955 it looks like shit. Stop hanging out in communitys of mentally ill, delusional people.
Hi, which is for you the best head shaver to have a shaving like a blade? Thanks
I am from brazil, sorry for the bad english, i have a question, do you shave "with the hair" or "against the hair" ?
Because my hair grows so f fast, and when i shave "against", i can do it less frequently.
The only "issue" i have it's that i m not objectively a "good looking" guy so I'm afraid if i shave my head( i need to do it tho cause I'm going bald) these bad characteristics of mine are gonna stand out even more 😔😔😔
Wish I found this channel before I shaved it off. Would have done it much sooner
i wish it can help me , i am 30 only 5'5 ft long , i dont look good in bald head at all .. i keep it number 1.5 buzz cut once a weak but not sure what to do, might go for transplant in next 2 years ..
I had a hard time had People calling me names ect it really Brings you down
Yeah people are the worst! I had even friends make the odd joke. I think it's just banter though at the end of the day and they obviously think you're confident in yourself otherwise a "friend" probably wouldn't intentionally upset you.
If that's you in your picture, you actually look really normal
why wouldnt you get an HT?
Here’s my story! Over the last year or so I had two friends that didn’t know each other make comments on my thinning hair which made me open my eyes and go oh shit I really am thinning! I said screw it im not paying money just to feel good about myself and get implants or daily medicine just for hair that will eventually go missing anyways….. so I took the good old clippers to my head and I couldn’t be happier! I haven’t gone down to complete skin with a razor but I’ve been doing the 1mm buzzer and feel absolutely confident with my head. It’s funny how one little thing like hair can make us feel insecure but if anyone’s reading this just cut it! Buzz it and get back to living your best life!
Went bald at 20, 39 now so came to terms with it a long time ago. Forced me to up my fitness, clothes and confidence game to "keep up" with the hairier folk, now however they have lost their hair and I'm still fitter, better dressed and more confident then them. I have a beautiful wife who loves my baldness and wouldn't grow it back even if I could. It does take time to come to terms with losing your hair but never ever forget gents that "REAL MEN SHINE".
Anyone know how to reduce head shine?. I had taken the pledge and shaved my head a couple years ago and thought that was fine. Now...... what worries me is the shine!.
What are you using post shave? You know I’m going to say don’t fear the shine! But if it’s really getting to you try the products from MANTL I did a video on them previously and they were good (MANTL Baldcafe) should give you the video
Would like to go bald cause my hair is thinning and have a lot of white hairs but have few bumps on my head which make my head look uneven don't know where to go or what to do for these bumps.
Embrace them, you got this
Hey man, you look great with the buzz cut and no beard.You have a good jawline and the beard was ramming it. I also buzz with clip number 2, using a razor makes one looks sickly . And the beard ages us, here in China where I live for the last 10 years, if I get a beard its saying goodbye to dating...
Yeah people were hating on my beard too sometimes but I stuck with it because I liked it. Educate others that beards aren’t just reserved for 70 year old wise men. (I lived in China for 5 years) not sure if you knew that. You do you man 🤝
@@Baldcafe Thanks, man. U got your wifey, but I'm still on the dating stage so I play by the chicks rules now. They don't like bald guys and beards, as u know from living here, so I had SMP done and I use a 2 clipper and clean shaven , got better attention from them now and I like the look myself. I'm a bit skinny at 6'4 190lbs so I was going to the gym and got quite buff a few years back, but now I just embraced everything and dont bother anymore lol. Like your channel preaches being comfortable with yourself is the best thing.
Having hair,not having hair,doesn't matter at the end of the day.
Don't listen to his advice only if you have a severe hairloss but if your hair is a little bit thinning you can save it with medication and HT, don't let your hair go for no reason, hair is a part from your body and give you more confidence and self esteem, you listen to him now but 2-5-10 years later you will regret it and wish you will had saved your hair and you can't regrow it because is to late. Think twice before you take this decision.
I have noticed one thing, lately I have been doing activities and I feel much better in my life because I don't pay so much attention to the baldness.
The only way to live well with baldness is to have a good mindset. That's why I think that shaving your head is useless. You don't need to shave your head several times a week to have a good state of mind. You might as well not shave and accept yourself as you are.
You are already enough even without the cosmetic surgery. If you want it thats ok. But you are already enough without it.
If a person’s confidence and sense of self worth is attached to their hair then they’ve got some serious work to do on themselves.
@@jazza1981 I disagree. We are all born with hair. Hair is part of our identity because we grew up with it for at least 16 - 18 years
@@jazza1981 Why are you watching bald men videos then?
Don't you have life to spend time better,watching some creative thing?
People are getting rejected because of baldness and you are saying hair doesn't matter?
Do you have gf? married?If Yes,you are mocking pain of a young unmarried bald man who is getting rejected,self respect getting destroyed just because he is bald.
You pull the bald look off, good head shape, decent athletic/muscular physique, chiseled facial structure. You clearly take care of yourself and it shows with or without hair. Now would you still look better with full hair? Probably if you had a really good style. Would you look better with balding hair? No, definitely not.
I think it's important to remember that for a huge number of men the choice is between trying to hide advanced balding or embracing it. With such a choice, embracing it always looks better and adds to confidence. I think a bald man looks way more confident than a man that is hiding balding. I think most guys fear what those around them will think about them being bald, so they hide it to try to keep the status quo a little longer. I also think balding makes us feel like we have lost some of that boyhood youth too, even though a significant number of guys start balding in their 20's or early 30's which is not old at all and being bald doesn't change that. It only has to change what you let it change.
The majority of man don't pull the bald look because of bad head shape and bad features.
@Not worth the server space. But you don't have the choice between the full head of hair or bald... what's the point in this statement? You have the choice of balding or bald. Most men look better tall, why short guys didn't choose to be tall?
@@matthieudelarte3914 bad head shape or bad features is none of your business to comment on. Stay in your lane and worry about your own life.
Hii bro i am from india i am 19 now my hair is falling . starting i am so depressed but but now i dont care in 2 years i will go bald then i shave my head . i am subscribed your channel back 4 or 6 months i dont know . why i subscribed your channel because i want to be bald community member 😂 every bald men in the world dont worry bro we all are one . Sry my english is very bad dont laugh ok 😀
Bro get on fin and min asap, you don't want to end up like these losers.
just drunk the exact same beer
@baldcafe you done with the beard? Or just take a break..
Just a break for now I think. But no plans to grow it back especially soon.
You should've say Bald Rule. Do it say.
You look alpha even without a beard and a balding head.
My moms side is all bald but my dad’s side has a full head of hair. I’m scared.
@@omarthecupoftea7224 false that’s not always the case
@@omarthecupoftea7224 I agree
@@omarthecupoftea7224 The reason being is you inherit 50% of your DNA from your mother and 50% from your father. If you Google it you’ll see that’s it not just dependent on your mothers dad. By the sounds of things you inherited the baldness gene on your mothers side, hence the likelihood of things getting worse is probably inevitable, I would suggest. If you want to preserve the hair you currently have the pharmaceutical route would be the way forward. I know that’s not what bald cafe is about but I’m 20 and every male in my family (mums and dads side) is bald. I started noticing thinning and early recession about 6 months ago hence I started the pharmaceutical route a few months ago, after serious consideration and research. I won’t be doing it forever but I want to hold on to what I have for a while hopefully🤞🏻.
Alternatively, just embrace being bald! That’s exactly what bald cafe is about! I know my time will come in the future 100% that’s why I follow bald cafe. So there’s definitely options bro! 💪🏻
@@rafael50003 ~^
@@bh115 do you use something to save your hair?
I would like to know where is your accent from?
Southern England
@@Baldcafe greetings from south america