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Simplify is the ultimate sophistication. From someone with a decade of experience in the game, this has to be the best video I have ever seen. Its game wrapped up into a simple communication technique that every single guy can start using today and get INSANE results with. Todd V the OG!
Disagreeing with the girl is my favourite and most successful technique, but he did miss out the most important thing, the side effects. When you're being playfully confrontational, you will get shit tested HARD. Remember to practice passing shit tests and everything should be fine, in fact provoking shit tests and passing them just makes you look even better to her. Just be prepared and leave your ego at the door.
This is an excellent insight. I have generally approached people with the thought of, how can I be impressed by this person. Good for having a conversation, but doesn't seem to work well with flirting.
This makes sense. I was in college and at the peak of my youth I was in debate , all the girls there disagreed with me politically. And I gave them shit for it , and after we disagreed for 5 minutes I would ask questions to seek common ground . All of a sudden these chicks who I thought hated me started flirting with me and liking me a lot . I never could replicate my college results but I get it now
Good advice. I am going to a singles mixer next weekend and hopefully this method helps me meet some women who might have a good personality match for me.
*By focusing on building rapport and staying true to yourself, flirting becomes a fun and engaging way to get to know someone, rather than a high-pressure task.*
I've done this for 3 years. Assume positive response (she/they will like u and treat you like a rockstar) Aim to emotionally connect and empathise with her words, non verbals, emotions and experiences Disagree playfully and give her a hard time first 5 minutes Stop gamey language and be in the moment outside of your own thoughts after wards. Reward her qualification lightly. Still use push pulls, keep premise active, speak slow, pause a lot, aim for sexual tension Escalate and believe that anything is logistically possible, aim to pull same day, but don't push if she likes u a lot
Dearest todd I have been around game and its concepts for around 3 years but without a mentor I just now how the things should have done, and unfortunately I dont have access to coahes like you. To be honest I love your concepts and I've never missed a video, but I would like to be coached by you is there a way?
Hey Todd, i would like to say that i disagreed with everything that was said in this video for about the first 5 minutes. But after that i started agreeing.
1:41 This is complete BS. I've showered 10s with compliments and it has worked incredibly well with many of them, it really depends on the woman, some women take compliments very well and some other don't. The idea that you're putting her on a pedestal doesn't really work, a woman wants a man who admires her beauty and makes her feel beautiful, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're putting her above you. The key is in how you give the compliment, you want to make it sound as authentic and as confident as possible. I think most men fuck it up because when they give the compliment they might hesitate and that can make women fell like shit because she might feel like you're not being honest or serious with your compliment.
By many comments, IDK if the guys are wanting to flirt with you, but they sure disagree ha ha. They don't get the "in a fun, smirking, light hearted way" part. And to be fair, I'm not sure if one can disagree on EVERYTHING the first 5 minutes ha ha. But yeah, easy technique for sure, or more precisely, easy frame to act upon.
Isn't there a risk here of overdoing it with the disagreements and the girl just deciding "this guy isn't for me" and then not being able to bring it back? I am going through a similar scenario at the moment and I'm trying to figure out how to bring back the romantic interaction without walking back my disagreements.
Should manifesting the playfulness come first before the method? Or could comparison be an inhibitor to be playful? Hence, the guy "playfully" giving the girl a hard time.
playfully disagreeing for few minutes with some smirking, it comes off as confident and bold which turns them on ig, they’re used to simps who follow her frame
What if you _actually_ disagree with her on something? To me, being playful about it seems manipulative and dishonest. Does this mean one should only playfully disagree about things you don't care about? Or don't actually disagree with?
Here I mean further into the relationship. My gf sometimes playfuly disagrees with me when it's about serious topics and I really hate it and wish she would bring it up in a proper way..
Probably not a good idea to use on British chicks, some of them would probably start throwing a hissy fit or start squaring up if you disagree on the wrong thing lol
They either like you or they don’t. Nothing you say is going to change anything. If they like you they will interpret what you say in a positive way and if they don’t they will interpret everything you say in a negative way.
@@JoseMonteverde EXACTLY! I’ve seen it thousands of times. A guy could be a total doofus but if the girls like him they will find a way to spit it positively. Something like “Oh he’s such a character” or whatever.
lmfao disagree with the girl? She’ll think there is no connection because there is nothing she can relate to with you. Let’s watch you approach 5 different women where you “disagree” with them. This just all talk lol
Hope you enjoy the video. This technique really is a game-changer for most men! And if you're catching this video soon after publication, but sure to check out my BLACK FRIDAY SALE at systembytodd.com
Todd's knowledge is literally giving me the life i always wanted 😭
I have no fucking idea where I would be without it. This shit's more important than all the math bullshit we're taught in schools.
@@victor4692it isn’t. You really need both unless your okay with being mediocre in life
Simplify is the ultimate sophistication. From someone with a decade of experience in the game, this has to be the best video I have ever seen. Its game wrapped up into a simple communication technique that every single guy can start using today and get INSANE results with. Todd V the OG!
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Disagreeing with the girl is my favourite and most successful technique, but he did miss out the most important thing, the side effects. When you're being playfully confrontational, you will get shit tested HARD. Remember to practice passing shit tests and everything should be fine, in fact provoking shit tests and passing them just makes you look even better to her. Just be prepared and leave your ego at the door.
The good news is that if you're the 6.5% of men that can flirt you have no competition :)
Don't be too agreeable, push/pull and make her laugh. Easy
This is an excellent insight. I have generally approached people with the thought of, how can I be impressed by this person. Good for having a conversation, but doesn't seem to work well with flirting.
This makes sense. I was in college and at the peak of my youth I was in debate , all the girls there disagreed with me politically. And I gave them shit for it , and after we disagreed for 5 minutes I would ask questions to seek common ground . All of a sudden these chicks who I thought hated me started flirting with me and liking me a lot . I never could replicate my college results but I get it now
Yes I've had similar results! It's awesome that the universe rewards authenticity
Good advice. I am going to a singles mixer next weekend and hopefully this method helps me meet some women who might have a good personality match for me.
Thank you for the video Todd.
0:15 What? Nonsense!!
5:15 Ok, maybe you have a point...
*By focusing on building rapport and staying true to yourself, flirting becomes a fun and engaging way to get to know someone, rather than a high-pressure task.*
Great video brotha!! 😎
I've done this for 3 years.
Assume positive response (she/they will like u and treat you like a rockstar)
Aim to emotionally connect and empathise with her words, non verbals, emotions and experiences
Disagree playfully and give her a hard time first 5 minutes
Stop gamey language and be in the moment outside of your own thoughts after wards. Reward her qualification lightly.
Still use push pulls, keep premise active, speak slow, pause a lot, aim for sexual tension
Escalate and believe that anything is logistically possible, aim to pull same day, but don't push if she likes u a lot
Example of rewarding someone qualifying
@@kehbab "that's decent", "I dont dislike it, u gained a few points" "not bad, at first I didn't like u, but now, u r starting to be interesting"
Girl: Hi, nice to meet you!
Guy: No!
How can you disaagree with them if they are running away from you?
Dearest todd I have been around game and its concepts for around 3 years but without a mentor I just now how the things should have done, and unfortunately I dont have access to coahes like you. To be honest I love your concepts and I've never missed a video, but I would like to be coached by you is there a way?
toddvdating.com/coaching or systembytodd.com ... depending on your coaching budget
Where can I learn more about push and pull? I need to get better at this.
Hey Todd, i would like to say that i disagreed with everything that was said in this video for about the first 5 minutes. But after that i started agreeing.
Cool hair style Todd
cheeky ending
1:41 This is complete BS. I've showered 10s with compliments and it has worked incredibly well with many of them, it really depends on the woman, some women take compliments very well and some other don't. The idea that you're putting her on a pedestal doesn't really work, a woman wants a man who admires her beauty and makes her feel beautiful, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're putting her above you.
The key is in how you give the compliment, you want to make it sound as authentic and as confident as possible. I think most men fuck it up because when they give the compliment they might hesitate and that can make women fell like shit because she might feel like you're not being honest or serious with your compliment.
By many comments, IDK if the guys are wanting to flirt with you, but they sure disagree ha ha. They don't get the "in a fun, smirking, light hearted way" part. And to be fair, I'm not sure if one can disagree on EVERYTHING the first 5 minutes ha ha. But yeah, easy technique for sure, or more precisely, easy frame to act upon.
Isn't there a risk here of overdoing it with the disagreements and the girl just deciding "this guy isn't for me" and then not being able to bring it back? I am going through a similar scenario at the moment and I'm trying to figure out how to bring back the romantic interaction without walking back my disagreements.
Give her a 3-act movie experience
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Should manifesting the playfulness come first before the method? Or could comparison be an inhibitor to be playful? Hence, the guy "playfully" giving the girl a hard time.
And i also don't have conversations skills please Suggest ke some good books how can i talk to a girl
0:56 Well that seems like teasing to my ears, which is also a flirt
youre saying disagreeing is the same thing as flirting? i think theres a definition issue
playfully disagreeing for few minutes with some smirking, it comes off as confident and bold which turns them on ig, they’re used to simps who follow her frame
What if you _actually_ disagree with her on something? To me, being playful about it seems manipulative and dishonest.
Does this mean one should only playfully disagree about things you don't care about? Or don't actually disagree with?
Here I mean further into the relationship.
My gf sometimes playfuly disagrees with me when it's about serious topics and I really hate it and wish she would bring it up in a proper way..
For all the guys that will read, i agree that beauty privilege is a real thing but you give it too much
This is so lame
you cant cook with cold grease
As a young kid I would disagree with them on the first 5 minutes and then on the rest of the interaction should they keep saying dumb stuff. LOL
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Probably not a good idea to use on British chicks, some of them would probably start throwing a hissy fit or start squaring up if you disagree on the wrong thing lol
If that's the reaction you get, move on to another girl. Why spend time on emotionally volatile women?
English girls are the worst. Move to Asia or mainland Europe. It is MUCH easier.
Then they did not pass the vibe check broda
😂😂😂
They either like you or they don’t. Nothing you say is going to change anything. If they like you they will interpret what you say in a positive way and if they don’t they will interpret everything you say in a negative way.
Kinda like being creepy only if you’re unattractive to them
It’s 50% things you can’t control and 50% saying the right things but not the wrong things
@@JoseMonteverde EXACTLY! I’ve seen it thousands of times. A guy could be a total doofus but if the girls like him they will find a way to spit it positively. Something like “Oh he’s such a character” or whatever.
Nice cope
@thedarklordx what are the "wrong things "???
lmfao disagree with the girl? She’ll think there is no connection because there is nothing she can relate to with you. Let’s watch you approach 5 different women where you “disagree” with them. This just all talk lol
Disagreeing doesn't always work, but agreeing never works