In Todd we trust. Really appreciate Todd‘s commitment to formal pickup in a time when other PUAs wavered. There is still a big place for structure and techniques in game. Thank you Todd for really showing us how to master this craft and not make it just numbers game.
We thank our father, Father Todd. The only pick up OG still active. Realest motherfucker to walk his talk. He stayed true to the game and mastered it. After all those years he is still with us and helping us.
To Todd, The difference is that what you teach is BS. I tried yours teaching for YEARS. I got absolutely no dates at all! You are an idiot. no wonder why you got kicked out of the RSD. You score one date out of 200 cold approaches then u say " u successed" I called your bs company and submitted forms several times throughout the year but didnt get a call back; because you are a scam artist, not PUA. Enough with the edit footage, man.
quick tip for ur video editor: there's no reason for this little zoom ins and outs, throughout the whole vid pretty annoying, it's okey when u emphasize a point, sometimes less is more, don't overuse it, great content tho
These are usually used to mask pauses/cuts. Not exactly a choice in this sense. Also, WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU _ACTUALLY WATCHING_ VIDEOS?!? What a waste of time! Clean the house, take a walk or a shower while listening. Do it during the commutes. Full attention should be used for more serious stuff (like doing math, science, philosophy, accounting, push-ups...).
Hi Todd! In game, but not necessarily only in game but in other conversations in person as well, I find myself too much in my head, although when I'm alone in my thought I come up with really good conversations/things to say, but in person it comes out so badly compared to my thought. My question is, do you have an advise how to be as good in conversations as I'm in my thoughts? At one time, I was travelling and did a 10 m platform jump with an instructor, and he said the same thing to me, that I'm too much in my head thinking during the jumps, that's why I can't perfect the form, and I think that's the same scenario with me with game as well. Much appreciate your content though!
paying attention and listening i think? im not a date advisor but hey, conversations don't have to be perfect and ideal... just try not to be too unhinged cus that happens to me lol
I think most guys that get to a level where they can play the numbers game, express who they are and have some fundamentals down, you don’t need much more than that. Results after that are probably effected more by the girls type and the connection you have with her than any game tactics. Game matters a lot. But I think it’s mainly to get you from an being average guy to a guy who shows intent, is fun, and can convey attractive qualities of himself. The fundamentals. I doubt advanced game skill makes that much of a difference after that. Keep it fun, learn the fundamentals, play the numbers game, attractive women will be available to you.
It's not a science. It's an unclear skill. World class would be whoever happens to have it the most right and also happens to be naturally amazing at it. As in most things, world-class is a freak of genetics that works hard at the right time with the right info.
Todd, please make videos on what career paths might be best suitable for someone looking forward to do long term in the field! Also, what kind and discipline might be the least productive, if any? A few examples that I have in mind are STEM etc where they won't be able to dedicate full time. Others, please feel free to jump into the replies too
@@Onlyme2015 with a still nearly 50,% divorce rate in the US, and a good chunk staying in it because they are scared to leave, the percentage of "happily married" couples whose relationship you want to emulate is like 3% of experience
If you're wondering, it took me 4 years to reach advanced. What Todd mentioned about tailoring game to my style and enjoyment sounds intresting and I want to work on that, but other than that I can just game autopilot and no longer feel the urge to "improve" and have moved on to other aspects of my life.
@@DAMfoxygrampa You'll just know, there is not a distinct moment but for me, there is a key distinction, which is that you will stop using game selfishly and start being more loving and compassionate. "PUA with a golden heart" so to speak. Anyways, you will be significantly less intrested in pickup at that point, you wont care what "level" you are at.
@@Onlyme2015 Attraction (pickup) and relationship success + conflict management are two different skills. You need both for it to make it work. Thats why "chodes" have better relationships than most PUAs its because PUAs actively ignore the other aspect. Personally I'm good at both so I dont find it to be a problem.
I super appreciate your channel and it has been very beneficial to me. HOWEVER, I have seen something in a lot of guys with a f*boy past, they/we can often get so addicted to female attention and sex that they/we basically become sex addicts, which can make it more difficult to live a normal, healthy life eith normal, healthy relationships. I REALIZE not everybody will experience this at all, and I realize there might often be something deeper underneath for the people who experience this, but I cant imagine this isnt a problem a lot of guys from the game/pickup/fukboi background has ran into. SO is there any way you would consider making a video about this?
I know this will sound beyond ret*rded but I've been following this stuff for like 5 years, and yet I'm still unable to overcome stupid approach anxiety, the most I can muster is asking for innocuous stuff like directions or a quick opinion for a good store/etc, maaybe give a small compliment here or there finding a good flow of passer-by women on the streets is an issue in itself, either it's "dead" streets where I've got to walk around like an idiot for multiple minutes until I see a single woman who's worth approaching, or I'll go to one of the few hyper-busy shopping districts where it's chaos and everybody is running around bumping into each other almost, and that's not conducive either I simply can't seem to get cold-approaching to work for me, I also try stuff in jobs I've been to throughout the years -being mindful of course not to be too overt or say dumb shit since it's the workplace, just throwing some more subtle flirting when appropriate, but so far that doesn't seem to yield any results either in short I just can't seem to get the ball rolling so I could even get my foot _in the door_ of Game, forget about any results, I can't even get some rudimentary practice of any worth in to begin with, and I'm kind of lost and worried I'll remain stuck like this indefinitely... it doesn’t help that I'm never getting even the slightest indicator or hint from any woman that she could be at least a little interested, they all seem like various levels of unapproachable/busy/indifferent and you could even say cold/snobby almost, it's very disheartening. I never imagined It'd be such a struggle
I still have trouble with my approach anxiety especially with 9s and 10s, but I say you should probably pick a better venue and when you find a cute girl, just approach. Sure, you'll fail, but at least you did something.
Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.
You can almost always find an excuse to get a bit of conversation going with someone of the group. Then keep at it a bit to mingle with the rest. Then focus more on the person you're interested in.
Honestly ask an obvious question or a question and just socialize. Your focused on flirting instead of building a vibe and then asking for the number. Good luck bro 🙏
When you get that feeling of anxiety that's when you know you have to approach because you get that. It's really excitement not Anxiety. The girl exists you and you feel something and she will feel your excitement too. Women like excitement so should you. It's fun get addicted too fun Thats how I'd look at it.
@Onlyme2015 I bet he did and does. Just does it out of instincts. Alot of it is just common sense. Why you hating? What happened to you? How did you not get anything from this?
I had to lol for the first time since watching PUA content. This sounds brilliant but is utterly useless in practice. Just go with the flow and enjoy your life instead of focussing on some outcome. This is probably only relevant to experienced guys.
@@prashunpcchakraborty70 i typically go for the playful flirt angle, making it man to woman in a way that conveys "I'm being amused by this, and want to see how well you can handle the banter". As long as the hints are there, girls are more well versed in picking up on hints.
Let it become an addiction if you wish to, don't let other people tell you what is right or wrong or amoral, judge that for yourself. The world isn't black and white
@21:20 --------- I was obessed with imporving game for 5 years and got nothing from you. All BS theorical knowledge. I should SUE you for emotional distress the experience caused me. I had horrible experiences harsh, rude, and mean. I swear to God I sometimes think of suing you.
In Todd we trust.
Really appreciate Todd‘s commitment to formal pickup in a time when other PUAs wavered. There is still a big place for structure and techniques in game. Thank you Todd for really showing us how to master this craft and not make it just numbers game.
We thank our father, Father Todd. The only pick up OG still active. Realest motherfucker to walk his talk. He stayed true to the game and mastered it. After all those years he is still with us and helping us.
To Todd, The difference is that what you teach is BS. I tried yours teaching for YEARS. I got absolutely no dates at all! You are an idiot. no wonder why you got kicked out of the RSD. You score one date out of 200 cold approaches then u say " u successed" I called your bs company and submitted forms several times throughout the year but didnt get a call back; because you are a scam artist, not PUA. Enough with the edit footage, man.
@@VladislavBabbitt old enough to pull your mum to my place and get no LMR.
Not the only one, but the only one who's stayed true to teaching JUST dating
Long live Todd V! You're literally the father our generation never had
@Todd, what do you mean at 3:43 by "what are the actual steps you want to take to establish a relationship", can you tell more about this fundamental?
quick tip for ur video editor:
there's no reason for this little zoom ins and outs, throughout the whole vid pretty annoying, it's okey when u emphasize a point,
sometimes less is more, don't overuse it, great content tho
Agreed
These are usually used to mask pauses/cuts. Not exactly a choice in this sense.
Also, WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU _ACTUALLY WATCHING_ VIDEOS?!? What a waste of time! Clean the house, take a walk or a shower while listening. Do it during the commutes. Full attention should be used for more serious stuff (like doing math, science, philosophy, accounting, push-ups...).
Hi Todd!
In game, but not necessarily only in game but in other conversations in person as well, I find myself too much in my head, although when I'm alone in my thought I come up with really good conversations/things to say, but in person it comes out so badly compared to my thought. My question is, do you have an advise how to be as good in conversations as I'm in my thoughts?
At one time, I was travelling and did a 10 m platform jump with an instructor, and he said the same thing to me, that I'm too much in my head thinking during the jumps, that's why I can't perfect the form, and I think that's the same scenario with me with game as well.
Much appreciate your content though!
what works for me is having a magic word. which when i think of it. i completely stop thinking and be in the moment. it's helped me out a lot
paying attention and listening i think? im not a date advisor but hey, conversations don't have to be perfect and ideal... just try not to be too unhinged cus that happens to me lol
13 viewer here 2 min in. Good mornin boys.
good morning G
13k, just 5 days later 🔥
I think most guys that get to a level where they can play the numbers game, express who they are and have some fundamentals down, you don’t need much more than that. Results after that are probably effected more by the girls type and the connection you have with her than any game tactics.
Game matters a lot. But I think it’s mainly to get you from an being average guy to a guy who shows intent, is fun, and can convey attractive qualities of himself. The fundamentals.
I doubt advanced game skill makes that much of a difference after that.
Keep it fun, learn the fundamentals, play the numbers game, attractive women will be available to you.
It's not a science. It's an unclear skill. World class would be whoever happens to have it the most right and also happens to be naturally amazing at it. As in most things, world-class is a freak of genetics that works hard at the right time with the right info.
Todd, please make videos on what career paths might be best suitable for someone looking forward to do long term in the field!
Also, what kind and discipline might be the least productive, if any?
A few examples that I have in mind are STEM etc where they won't be able to dedicate full time.
Others, please feel free to jump into the replies too
Veterinarian. Women love animals...
@@CoachSteveJandS yeahhh!
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
@@Onlyme2015 with a still nearly 50,% divorce rate in the US, and a good chunk staying in it because they are scared to leave, the percentage of "happily married" couples whose relationship you want to emulate is like 3% of experience
Thank God somebody said it
If you're wondering, it took me 4 years to reach advanced. What Todd mentioned about tailoring game to my style and enjoyment sounds intresting and I want to work on that, but other than that I can just game autopilot and no longer feel the urge to "improve" and have moved on to other aspects of my life.
How did you know when you reached advanced?
@@DAMfoxygrampa You'll just know, there is not a distinct moment but for me, there is a key distinction, which is that you will stop using game selfishly and start being more loving and compassionate. "PUA with a golden heart" so to speak. Anyways, you will be significantly less intrested in pickup at that point, you wont care what "level" you are at.
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
@@Onlyme2015 Attraction (pickup) and relationship success + conflict management are two different skills. You need both for it to make it work. Thats why "chodes" have better relationships than most PUAs its because PUAs actively ignore the other aspect. Personally I'm good at both so I dont find it to be a problem.
I super appreciate your channel and it has been very beneficial to me. HOWEVER, I have seen something in a lot of guys with a f*boy past, they/we can often get so addicted to female attention and sex that they/we basically become sex addicts, which can make it more difficult to live a normal, healthy life eith normal, healthy relationships. I REALIZE not everybody will experience this at all, and I realize there might often be something deeper underneath for the people who experience this, but I cant imagine this isnt a problem a lot of guys from the game/pickup/fukboi background has ran into. SO is there any way you would consider making a video about this?
It breaks my heart to see the legend getting older... Todd you surely have changed a lot of lives and I thank you❤
Morning gamers
Haha it's evening in south africa
@@swaggybaconcheese1566 That's awesome. Todd ever do a bootcamp in South Africa?
I know this will sound beyond ret*rded but I've been following this stuff for like 5 years, and yet I'm still unable to overcome stupid approach anxiety, the most I can muster is asking for innocuous stuff like directions or a quick opinion for a good store/etc, maaybe give a small compliment here or there
finding a good flow of passer-by women on the streets is an issue in itself, either it's "dead" streets where I've got to walk around like an idiot for multiple minutes until I see a single woman who's worth approaching, or I'll go to one of the few hyper-busy shopping districts where it's chaos and everybody is running around bumping into each other almost, and that's not conducive either
I simply can't seem to get cold-approaching to work for me, I also try stuff in jobs I've been to throughout the years -being mindful of course not to be too overt or say dumb shit since it's the workplace, just throwing some more subtle flirting when appropriate, but so far that doesn't seem to yield any results either
in short I just can't seem to get the ball rolling so I could even get my foot _in the door_ of Game, forget about any results, I can't even get some rudimentary practice of any worth in to begin with, and I'm kind of lost and worried I'll remain stuck like this indefinitely...
it doesn’t help that I'm never getting even the slightest indicator or hint from any woman that she could be at least a little interested, they all seem like various levels of unapproachable/busy/indifferent and you could even say cold/snobby almost, it's very disheartening. I never imagined It'd be such a struggle
I still have trouble with my approach anxiety especially with 9s and 10s, but I say you should probably pick a better venue and when you find a cute girl, just approach. Sure, you'll fail, but at least you did something.
Bro Speaking My Future Into Existence lol. 🧻🧴💁♂️we got This atleast Brother !
What is DHV
Demonstration of high value
Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss.
13:34 That point right here made me (for the first time in my life) kinda agree that pickup is indeed a weird phenomenon.
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
love the new hair Todd. Its really you 👍💵
Where’s a good place to learn all these fundamentals and terminologies in one organized place?
Self mastery comes first. All about good and solid foundations to build on.
Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.
Women love Todd because he is a fucking G.
Where can I even meet women, I dont like parties, I go to bars but everyone has his her own group of friends there own "wall" ,datingsites suck.
You can almost always find an excuse to get a bit of conversation going with someone of the group. Then keep at it a bit to mingle with the rest. Then focus more on the person you're interested in.
Pull up still
Todd, many of us are afraid to approach girls because of the feminism and "me too" movement. How do we deal with that? Thank you. //Bo
Cold approach is creepy in asian countries thats the prblem todd
In Todd we trust.
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
excellent thank you Todd
I have massive approach anxiety . I did approaches for awhile , but again I got crippled . I don’t know what to do
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
Honestly ask an obvious question or a question and just socialize. Your focused on flirting instead of building a vibe and then asking for the number. Good luck bro 🙏
When you get that feeling of anxiety that's when you know you have to approach because you get that. It's really excitement not Anxiety. The girl exists you and you feel something and she will feel your excitement too. Women like excitement so should you. It's fun get addicted too fun
Thats how I'd look at it.
There goes that thicky from VGA Infield (:
This is insane, thanks!
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
It's a matter of practice the guy who practices his instrument one day a week only will never be as good as the one who practices 7 days a week
I am game developer after 4 mins i got that this is "another" game
keep pushing
90% you 10% new
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
@@Onlyme2015 what’s they say
Fab 🎉
I’m happy to see that Emilio Estevez is sharing his wisdom on how to bed a lot of women!
lol
the book that changed everything for me was Magnetic Aura from Borlest
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
Lol love the analogy to mathematics. Considering I’m a math person myself
My key take away: dating might be fun but if it's that complicted, difficult and time consuming, it's not made for me to work.
Next time you see a happily married couple, ask the husband if he ever tried any of Todd's crap. The answer will shock you.
@@Onlyme2015 haha
@Onlyme2015 I bet he did and does. Just does it out of instincts. Alot of it is just common sense. Why you hating? What happened to you? How did you not get anything from this?
To go on more dates?
I had to lol for the first time since watching PUA content. This sounds brilliant but is utterly useless in practice. Just go with the flow and enjoy your life instead of focussing on some outcome. This is probably only relevant to experienced guys.
todd what about getting blown out early sometimes i open make it man to woman or tease and the girl just wants to bail
Maybe you're coming on too strong?
@@latarzanla Hmm I suppose so but how to make it m2w in an opening few minutes in night game without being a bit too strong
@@prashunpcchakraborty70 i typically go for the playful flirt angle, making it man to woman in a way that conveys "I'm being amused by this, and want to see how well you can handle the banter". As long as the hints are there, girls are more well versed in picking up on hints.
Can you make a video on how to practice shittest with chatGPT?
did you get the girl you really wanted Todd
Iykyk
A tip from my life: get a door to door salesman job
I got VGA, Todd and this video. I can never fail
What's VGA?
@@zyroneesguerra5263 Verbal Game Academy, his program. It's amazing tbh
@@zyroneesguerra5263 Verbal Game Academy
is this stuff evil??
Amoral. It’s a fun hobby. Dont let it become an addiction tho.
Yes if you use it in a evil way. But most people just retire after they found a woman they love. It really depends how you use the skill
Femcel tiktok is evil. Learning this shit is keeping girls away from that
Let it become an addiction if you wish to, don't let other people tell you what is right or wrong or amoral, judge that for yourself. The world isn't black and white
@@bokibokicic9233 okay Mr. Crowley, do what thou wilt then say hi to Satan for me
@21:20 --------- I was obessed with imporving game for 5 years and got nothing from you. All BS theorical knowledge. I should SUE you for emotional distress the experience caused me. I had horrible experiences harsh, rude, and mean. I swear to God I sometimes think of suing you.
Don't know how you did that. You're crazy
Bad advise 😑
guys just read ebook magnetic aura from borlest and you'll never need to watch these videos again