Privet Lana! You give conflicting messages! You state that I should use pictures of my hobby and then you say don't use fishing pictures, fishing is one of my hobbies? What, women don't like fish? Or they assume guy always get drunk fishing? Poka.
Same with Gaming. Sadly there are Hobbys that women see as "childish" or "unmanly" and you are a no go when you write about them. So its "show who you really are unless you are doing hobby xy then its better you lie about it"
@@marcpaulus6291 Fishing is far from unmanly and childish! But I'm no different, if I see that a women likes opera and theather I skip ahead to the next one.
@ or find a girl who’s into a gaming herself 😁 I think women don’t like gaming at extreme levels, like 10 hours a day and spending thousands $$$ on armor and stuff
I found that it's really hard to start and even keep up a conversation online. When I texted women, they told me I'm a handsome and attractive man, and they want to flirt with me, but then stopped messaging me when I asked about their hobbies after we shared our interests with each other (completely normal interests, like music). It's really confusing sometimes. Maybe it's my fault, or not everyone looks for serious relationships, they're there either for validation, or they have fake profiles. There are also scammers, but it's easy to spot them, because they write in broken grammar.
@@TransientVoyage thanks for the comment. You really should get off the apps as soon as you made a connection, ask her number, etc. Because if you keep chatting (even for good cause to get to know them better), it often looks like you there just to message around and waste her time. Ask her number and show that you want to meet
@@LanaReech That's the problem. I didn't make a connection, we just exchanged a couple of emails. The truth is that I'm texting several other people just in case, and I'm usually staying with those that are consistent in messaging. That's just my observation about online dating so far. Really few people are honest and consistent, and want a serious relationship, and I also understand that they are also found by other men, because men hunt for women on these dating apps a lot more than women. I had a much easier time dating IRL before. Online dating is just confusing. The other problem is that I know some people need time just like IRL, but how hard it is to be honest, and just tell the other person that "Sorry, I couldn't say anything, I'm introverted, my bad, but I really want to know more about you", etc.
It's simple. They have no intention to hook up with you unless you are a 10/10 physically attractive guy. Doesn't matter if they are only a 5/10 themselves. They just use guys like you to boost their ego when they feel a bit down. There is no reason to use dating apps unless you are extremely hot stuff. And if you are, then you don't need dating apps unless you have a slow Wednesday or something. Only about 3% of guys actually get's laid using dating apps. That's from their own data. So no need to even install them if you are not in the top 3% of most handsome guys. Average Joe might get lucky once or twice in a lifetime if he's willing to date about 4 points down. But you have a better chance of winning the lottery than scoring a hook up with someone on your own level generally speaking. And don't even bother looking for a serious relationship on a dating app. Forget about dating apps or chasing women. It's a waste of time and almost never gets you the results you want. #1 Go to the gym and get yourself into shape. #2 Work on financial success. #3 Never listen to what women say they want. Judge them by their actions. #4 Never chaise women. Let them come to you. #5 If women are not chasing you, then work harder at number 1 and 2. #6 Forget about romantic love. Women are not capable of loving men the same way men love women. It's all transactional or lust.
Thats because you are only a option. Women get so flooded with messages from men daily that they cant keep up and give up to write with someone because there is always a bigger fish for them in line.
@@marcpaulus6291 Yes, and a lot of those messages are sex offers from shady men. I just wanted to point out what is the main problem with these dating apps. I even heard stories when the lady moved to the gentleman's place, they had a relationship, and the guy later found out his partner lied everything about herself. That's why you can never trust anyone you meet online even if you have known them for a month or two. Though the chances are less for this example, because the liar has to be a sociopath or something, and that's rare. I also text several other women at once, and usually I choose the one for a personal meeting who lives closer to my town, but I put in the effort to respond to everyone even if it's short, because it takes basically no time. That's what's missing from people nowadays. I hate typing too, but how long does it take? 3-5 minutes? Or even shorter if they just give a short status update. I'm not going to be an option, because the horse has left the barn for them the moment they stopped responding for days, cause I have other options too waiting in line.
Yeah, i did all of that and it didnt get me anywere. To 1: Writing that you like pc games makes you most of a time a no go for 90% of the women, so you have to leave it out or lie. 2+3 together. After a while it get really heavy to find something new for a new message and most of the time it gets you nowhere. Women get just so flooded with messages that they dont read your message in the first place. They look at your picture and when you are their type THEN they read your profile and when its matchig their goals THEN they are reading your message. And if you are not too bland they will write you back. Most of the time they write with a dozen other men and most of the time you are there as "Option" when it didnt turn out with her favorite guy. The problem with Online dating isnt that Men do it wrong. Its that there are MUCH more Men than women and Woman can comfortably choose without doing anything (besides loading up a picture, they dont even need to fill out their profile) And that many of the Woman on dating app dont even search for a partner but for somewone that humbles them and makes compliment when they feel shity.
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You neglected to mention that for dating success you need to sacrifice either a goat or a doe or a lemur to the vindictive God Tinderros. Daily. Animal sacrifices don't grow on trees you know.
The biggest problem with online dating is, doing it in the first place
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Yes leave online dating for the Chad's of the world😂😂 @@LanaReech
Privet Lana! You give conflicting messages! You state that I should use pictures of my hobby and then you say don't use fishing pictures, fishing is one of my hobbies? What, women don't like fish? Or they assume guy always get drunk fishing? Poka.
@@mossigfor @@mossig… @@mossig Thanks for the question ❤️
Same with Gaming. Sadly there are Hobbys that women see as "childish" or "unmanly" and you are a no go when you write about them. So its "show who you really are unless you are doing hobby xy then its better you lie about it"
@@marcpaulus6291 Fishing is far from unmanly and childish! But I'm no different, if I see that a women likes opera and theather I skip ahead to the next one.
@ or find a girl who’s into a gaming herself 😁 I think women don’t like gaming at extreme levels, like 10 hours a day and spending thousands $$$ on armor and stuff
Doing online dating is the biggest mistake.
I found that it's really hard to start and even keep up a conversation online. When I texted women, they told me I'm a handsome and attractive man, and they want to flirt with me, but then stopped messaging me when I asked about their hobbies after we shared our interests with each other (completely normal interests, like music). It's really confusing sometimes. Maybe it's my fault, or not everyone looks for serious relationships, they're there either for validation, or they have fake profiles. There are also scammers, but it's easy to spot them, because they write in broken grammar.
@@TransientVoyage thanks for the comment. You really should get off the apps as soon as you made a connection, ask her number, etc. Because if you keep chatting (even for good cause to get to know them better), it often looks like you there just to message around and waste her time. Ask her number and show that you want to meet
@@LanaReech That's the problem. I didn't make a connection, we just exchanged a couple of emails. The truth is that I'm texting several other people just in case, and I'm usually staying with those that are consistent in messaging. That's just my observation about online dating so far. Really few people are honest and consistent, and want a serious relationship, and I also understand that they are also found by other men, because men hunt for women on these dating apps a lot more than women. I had a much easier time dating IRL before. Online dating is just confusing. The other problem is that I know some people need time just like IRL, but how hard it is to be honest, and just tell the other person that "Sorry, I couldn't say anything, I'm introverted, my bad, but I really want to know more about you", etc.
It's simple. They have no intention to hook up with you unless you are a 10/10 physically attractive guy.
Doesn't matter if they are only a 5/10 themselves.
They just use guys like you to boost their ego when they feel a bit down.
There is no reason to use dating apps unless you are extremely hot stuff.
And if you are, then you don't need dating apps unless you have a slow Wednesday or something.
Only about 3% of guys actually get's laid using dating apps. That's from their own data.
So no need to even install them if you are not in the top 3% of most handsome guys.
Average Joe might get lucky once or twice in a lifetime if he's willing to date about 4 points down.
But you have a better chance of winning the lottery than scoring a hook up with someone on your own level generally speaking.
And don't even bother looking for a serious relationship on a dating app.
Forget about dating apps or chasing women. It's a waste of time and almost never gets you the results you want.
#1 Go to the gym and get yourself into shape.
#2 Work on financial success.
#3 Never listen to what women say they want. Judge them by their actions.
#4 Never chaise women. Let them come to you.
#5 If women are not chasing you, then work harder at number 1 and 2.
#6 Forget about romantic love. Women are not capable of loving men the same way men love women. It's all transactional or lust.
Thats because you are only a option. Women get so flooded with messages from men daily that they cant keep up and give up to write with someone because there is always a bigger fish for them in line.
@@marcpaulus6291 Yes, and a lot of those messages are sex offers from shady men. I just wanted to point out what is the main problem with these dating apps. I even heard stories when the lady moved to the gentleman's place, they had a relationship, and the guy later found out his partner lied everything about herself. That's why you can never trust anyone you meet online even if you have known them for a month or two. Though the chances are less for this example, because the liar has to be a sociopath or something, and that's rare. I also text several other women at once, and usually I choose the one for a personal meeting who lives closer to my town, but I put in the effort to respond to everyone even if it's short, because it takes basically no time. That's what's missing from people nowadays. I hate typing too, but how long does it take? 3-5 minutes? Or even shorter if they just give a short status update. I'm not going to be an option, because the horse has left the barn for them the moment they stopped responding for days, cause I have other options too waiting in line.
I reached the conclusion that unless you’re a top 1% guy, dating apps are virtually useless.
I wouldn’t completely abandon them, but I agree-it shouldn’t be the first or major source
Yeah, i did all of that and it didnt get me anywere. To 1: Writing that you like pc games makes you most of a time a no go for 90% of the women, so you have to leave it out or lie. 2+3 together. After a while it get really heavy to find something new for a new message and most of the time it gets you nowhere. Women get just so flooded with messages that they dont read your message in the first place. They look at your picture and when you are their type THEN they read your profile and when its matchig their goals THEN they are reading your message. And if you are not too bland they will write you back. Most of the time they write with a dozen other men and most of the time you are there as "Option" when it didnt turn out with her favorite guy. The problem with Online dating isnt that Men do it wrong. Its that there are MUCH more Men than women and Woman can comfortably choose without doing anything (besides loading up a picture, they dont even need to fill out their profile) And that many of the Woman on dating app dont even search for a partner but for somewone that humbles them and makes compliment when they feel shity.
I don't want to avoid ANYTHING "big" in this video! 😮
That would be a big mistake, for sure
biggest online dating mistake, IS TO START DATING ONLINE.... get off THAT SHITTY APPS, AND GO OUTSIDE AND TALK TO WO/MEN
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@@Worldwide505 thanks for suggestion! Great idea 👍
You neglected to mention that for dating success you need to sacrifice either a goat or a doe or a lemur to the vindictive God Tinderros. Daily.
Animal sacrifices don't grow on trees you know.
@@mrpopsful that’s the advanced level…