When You Grow Old: If Your Children Don’t Respect or IGNORE YOU, Stay CALM and DO THIS

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  • Опубліковано 14 січ 2025

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  • @fob1xxl
    @fob1xxl 5 годин тому +8

    I grew up in the 50s. This is some of the wisest information. We're the generation where family was a way of growing up. The Millenial and Gen Z'er generations aren't like us. They want to disconnect from us, from family, and from tradition. They blame us for everything wrong in their lives. Even the way they were brought up. We may have sacrificed a bigger home, or a new car just so they could have that college education, but all they say is, "That's was your choice, not mine!" It's a MUST that WE VALUE and RESPECT OURSELVES FIRST !

  • @kathyblanda7212
    @kathyblanda7212 17 годин тому +9

    1. Don’t react in anger. Pause and reflect.
    2. Rebuild Your Own life. Find a new purpose.
    3. Communicate your feelings wisely. I’ve been thinking about you. I miss you.
    4. Set healthy boundaries. Focus on my own well-being. Respect. Must go both ways.
    5. Lead by example. Be kind, respectful and warm. Ask about their lives. Be patient. Quiet dignity. Treat your children the way you want to be treated.
    6. Stay financially independent. Don’t become a burden on your family. Take charge of your own life.
    7. Forgive them. Stay happy and fulfilled in what brings you joy. Don’t forget your own worth.
    8. Build a new circle of companionship. Loneliness leads to emotional dependence.

    •  6 годин тому

      Thank you

    • @judijudd2129
      @judijudd2129 4 години тому +3

      You don't owe them an inheritance...

  • @patriciacestare232
    @patriciacestare232 2 години тому +3

    Its over...and it will always hurt

  • @carolynkryza5703
    @carolynkryza5703 19 годин тому +6

    Confession as a Catholic Names do hurt you but our Lord loves us and I turned to Jesus because He will always love me He knows me and my needs A good good cry helps with humility God bless you

  • @palmelaveech-favors195
    @palmelaveech-favors195 15 годин тому +3

    Thank you for this wise episode… I appreciate it .. peace to us all in 2025

  • @evafogel7738
    @evafogel7738 3 години тому +1

    You'll need to be an angel to answer kindly when you're ignored and disrespected. It's a myth !

  • @sararingadoo4128
    @sararingadoo4128 4 години тому +2

    Interesting , very gd advice.thankyou
    20:22

  • @patriciacestare232
    @patriciacestare232 2 години тому +2

    You are not allowed to defend yourself anymore

  • @robinrobinson8989
    @robinrobinson8989 Годину тому

    If my kids disrespect me or forget me - awww too bad so sad they’re out of my life

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 15 годин тому +1

    "Feeling ignored by your children? Take a deep breath. This powerful strategy will help you turn things around while staying calm and in control. You’re stronger than you think!"

  • @jackierose6449
    @jackierose6449 3 години тому +1

    Did she realize how this impacts elders who are in poverty when she says your children will respect you when they see you have financial independence ?

  • @barbarakirk3261
    @barbarakirk3261 2 дні тому +1

    5 ty 🙏✝️💜

  • @patriciacestare232
    @patriciacestare232 2 години тому +1

    It is too late....my daughter already banned me in her life.
    Blames me for everything on her life....I did reacted..yelled at her
    So its too late😢

    • @Beverly-z4t
      @Beverly-z4t 2 години тому +1

      She is your daughter. You aren't the first person in the world to yell. Or to make mistakes. Follow the advice. Never push. Make a life for yourself in the meantime. We can't make someone love us and treat us with respect.

  • @mohammedfarooque7915
    @mohammedfarooque7915 День тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mohammedfarooque7915
    @mohammedfarooque7915 День тому +2

    Thanks a lot Dear Spirit
    This is my life at SixteeenFive not 65. They are happy I my creator Happy.

    • @TranquilityWisdom
      @TranquilityWisdom  День тому +1

      Thank you so much for your beautiful words! We're so glad to hear that you're feeling happy and connected. Keep shining! ✨

    • @mohammedfarooque7915
      @mohammedfarooque7915 23 години тому

      @@TranquilityWisdom
      LiveLife
      LiveInEcstasy
      AsAnYogiGuruJaan OnPlanetEarthHeaven
      Here&Now Inshallah
      Aameen

  • @trishstuart9387
    @trishstuart9387 6 годин тому

    Theynare always complaining they need money retired we are not rich but lay for what we can for them shemos single rents wont live with is we pay for what we can for her not easy we are in our 70 s

  • @umaraghavendran1347
    @umaraghavendran1347 23 години тому

    9

  • @bronwynscott4638
    @bronwynscott4638 14 годин тому +1

    Please keep religion out of this page . Be respectful of others.

    • @marymcevoy7140
      @marymcevoy7140 9 годин тому +2

      ???

    •  6 годин тому +1

      ?????

  • @fanwelltandi8602
    @fanwelltandi8602 21 годину тому +1

    9

  • @dianneharper4489
    @dianneharper4489 20 годин тому

    9

  • @dayaprahlad6951
    @dayaprahlad6951 9 годин тому

    9

  • @rosemacalpine7496
    @rosemacalpine7496 6 годин тому

    9