Re-Parenting - Part 66 - Connection Languages
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- Опубліковано 4 тра 2023
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We talk about 5 Love Languages; but is there such a thing as Connection Languages - things that cause people to feel more connected to others and help them be present, open and vulnerable? Tim explores 10 Connection Languages.
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You’ve been such a blessing in my life, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
me too. thanks for saying it.
Tim, you really found your calling in life. You're such a natural at compassionately explaining everything with deep knowledge on what can sometimes be hard to put words to.
Always exactly what I needed to hear
Letting go of outcomes is helping , especially in the turning towards or away in bids for connecting.
To control us not to connect ❤️🩹
Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
No waaaaay! I was looking at fire pits when you mentioned fire!!
thank you Tim. Seeing how my mom does things..She is my person.My best friend. But see how the shame has been given without her realization..At 60 I see more clearly.. I can hear Sinatra singing...lol
We need videos about : Fear of intimacy & Deactivation mechanisms
Shared experience basicly
Love your videos. Please do some research on Jay Shetty and stop referring to him. He stole other people’s ideas anyway
While I enjoy many of your programs...the bit about female spies (and the "reasoning") sounds very male brain focused. It needs some backing of sources.
My understanding of female spies...was not that they use sex to get secrets (🙄), but that they wouldn't be suspected as easily (of being spies) due to being women and being able to move about without likelihood of surveillance.
Maybe sex could play a role...but would not be encouraged. It's far too dangerous, and how horrible for the woman. Yuck. No, the women used their different ways of thinking, navigating the world, far more than sex, to acquire information.
All that does is minimize the actual risk, that many female spies took, and narrowed them down to sexual tools.
I understood completely, it was a short bit about the warring sides knew too well about the psychological effect of sex. But then again, maybe I immediately understood what he meant, because Mata Hari is a distant family member of mine 😅
Edit: On a serious note, I do agree on what you write...
Why not both what he said and what you wrote? I think we can all see it working exactly like what he said in practice and it's been discussed extensively.
@@taspany please read my last paragraph.
I said “maybe sex could play a role…”
I just called out the sex aspect as the main narrative. It wasn’t the main reason.
The overarching male narrative leaves out many variables and creates a muddied version of events. This is problematic
@@taspany please read my last paragraph.
I said “maybe sex could play a role…”
I just called out the sex aspect as the main narrative. It wasn’t the main reason.
The overarching male narrative leaves out many variables and creates a muddied version of events. This is problematic
@@taspany also saying “I think we can ‘all’ see…” shows a perceptual blindness. No, not all can see it working “exactly” as he said.
That is your worldview, that all can see the same way. Having worked with thousands of people and now in neuroscience…I promise, your projected lenses onto others, are merely that, projections. When we assume that others think more closely to us, and that more of the population does, we miss our opportunities to learn, be curious, and question our own way of thinking.
I encourage you to engage in some introspection and metacognition
Tim is a genius when it comes to understanding as well as explaining what causes complex trauma in children & how it gets replicated in adult relationships ❤️🩹 his ideas about control versus connection are really important contributions to our learning about trauma & its healing as we try healthy ways of overcoming patterns ♥️ he needs to write a book that addresses this issue so that health care professionals can begin to utilize his concepts in therapy❣️