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Dan Savage in This American Life: Return to the Scene of the Crime
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- Опубліковано 23 кві 2011
- In April 2009, Dan Savage paid a visit to Ira Glass' This American Life during a special filmed episode broadcast live in HD to 430 movie theaters.
Wow! He made laugh, tear up and everything in between. He's talking about something so serious and touching and tinges it with humor in such a way that it adds rather than takes away. I'm a big fan of Dan's and this made me love him even more.
The more I see, hear, read, know of Dan Savage, the more I know myself. What a touching tribute to your mom.
This video made me cry, and when it was finished I called both my parents and my little brother.
Tears are streaming down my cheeks. Thank you for sharing this story, Dan. It sounds like your mother was extremely proud of you & the man you have become..
Seeing this in 2020 and it's still a powerful speech. So raw and open. I respect Dan so much for sharing this, and showing his pain and emotion. I'm watching this half an hour before taking my mother to hospital. It's a routine appointment but with the threat of Coronavirus this really hits home. God (or any other supreme power) bless you Dan! xXx
This was beautiful! Dan can be brutally sarcastic and funny, but he is also a great storyteller and brilliant writer.
WOW.....THAT struck a nerve! I am also a "lapsed"
Catholic, and I lost my Mother a year ago. When you
got to 11:05, I almost thought you were going to
lose it.....I almost did. My Mother was at my sister's
place, in South Carolina, when she passed away. So,
my brothers and sisters had no chance to see her,
last January (2018). I was glad that most of us were able to
see her at Christmas. But there are times, when I wish
I could call her, or see her. What I have are words of
gratitude, because she avoided the Alzheimer's my Father
got, and lived to be 98 years old. But a part of me still
regrets...if I could just have a bit more time with her.
One of my all time favorites and I still cry each and every time I hear it.
I have watched this a half-dozen times and I still choke up as I watch.
I just lost my grandmother, and it's amazing how much I identify with all of this. I hope I can be strong like Dan and continue to resist being pulled back to the church.
While I know he's probably not reading these comments: I love you, Dan Savage. Thank you for your moving honesty.
What a wonderful story! Thank you for sharing such a personal story to all of us, Dan!
i needed to cry, but didnt know until i watched this. I wish more people were like Dan
It's 11 years since this speech, and it still makes me want to give him the tightest hug. I know that pain, that sense of loss, that aching void of their absence. I first heard this speech 4 years after losing my Gram, 13 years after losing my Grampa. They raised me, taught me how to love and trust again after a childhood of abuse, they meant the world to me and facing that world without them seemed impossible. Now, in my 60th year, I know for a fact that Gram is still with me. It is never more evident than those moments when I hear her coming out of my mouth.
I want to give Dan a hug. Sorry for your loss.
well shit, I guess someone has been cutting onions in my room
All I could think of was how this related to my story. thank you Dan Savage for your bravery in speaking on this subject. Thank you.
It's been almost a year since my mother died of pulmonary fibrosis, a terrible way to go. She was an outspoken and unapologetic atheist, and yet I still miss her and remember her. I also like to think that she is out there somewhere, watching me, even though she would completely scoff at that notion. I hope someone hugged you after your talk. Thank you for your bravery.
Ariel Ocker: I know a family that has had to deal with the deaths of three of their own from pulmonary fibrosis - all within one year. You are correct. It is a terrible way to go.
I love Dan - he's one of the good ones. I can totally relate - I had to tell my own mother on her deathbed that we all loved her and it was time to go...it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. Hearing this from Dan makes me believe there's still good in the world.
Wow. That was so touching. Thank you for posting!
words are superfluous after that rendition so we just send Hugs xx
Lord, he's so well spoken. I love the man.
Wow. I can relate to this SO deeply. I cannot fake it either. Still, I lit a candle in a cathedral in Italy and so wanted my late "good Catholic", mother to see it.
The best spoken word piece in this century.
My mom and I are parallel to your story. I love you Daniel. You have always been a warrior to me.
I came out to my mother, who was raised a born again Christian. I did not ever hear a word about hell, or sin, or wrath, or shame come out of her lips. She gave me a hug. I know how much it had to worry and bother her, I saw the sadness in her eyes , the AIDS pamphlet in her purse. Not a word of judgement. She left us all twenty years ago. One of the last sentences before she died was to call me 'blessed'. She did the best she possibly could to surround me with love, when the world attacked me. .
Thank you, Dan. Your's is one of the saner voices in the world.
Dan, if you're reading this: you've helped me so much over the years; I hope you find the peace you are searching for, wherever you can :)
Oh, Dan. I'm listening to the podcast from the very beginning, and went on a search tonight for the story of what happened to your amazing mother after your break from the podcast after her loss. I am so very sorry. I love the way you share though. I just want to go back and hug you.
Beautiful work. I heard this today on NPR and it touched me. I laughed and cried. Hits really close to home. I also lost my mom way too early 23 months ago (also to a lung disease - PH). :( So sorry for your loss.
I keep coming back to this video. Having recently lost my mum, I am not sure if it's torture, or for validation that someone else went through the same things I am. All I can say though is thank you Dan Savage!
Just when I thought I couldn't love Dan Savage any more...
I remember when I heard this on the podcast. On a trip to the Rocky Point beach and loved his story.
I tried to hold it my tears back, but I exercised one of my therapy sessions of “it’s okay to griefs” so I cried silently.
I am so very very sorry about your mother. my mom still alive is on the same road though, suffering from emphysema each day we can tell its getting worse. it's hard to take and see but we must.
Sobbing. All lapsed Catholics feel this. Dan Savage, I love u!!
omg, your Mother rocks , Dan ..I see where you got your humor from. I am not gay but was raised in a Catholic school/Church and I so understand. My Mother too, was a perfect Catholic with a Irish sense of humor. R.I.P. to both our Moms.
Keep being you.
Masterful as usual. Thanks for the video!
He's awesome. How brave of him to tell this story.
Here I am at 4 am in the morning,crying my eyes out,.....Loveyou Dan
Brilliant, brilliant, and more brilliant !
What an amazing mother.
Dan Savage is brilliant!
He's a special guy !
Dan Savage is a national treasure.
The best writer, the kindest person
Good God, Dan Savage is not transphobic.
So amazing.
thank you Dan.
I love Dan Savage. This is my favorite of his contributions to TAL.
so touching .every wor; all I saw was my mother's face, each day closer to the inevitable for her too.
Oh Dan, I can feel your pain... I'm so sorry for your loss! However, I'm glad that you didn't lapse back into catholicism with all its evil preachings. And thank you for mentioning Christopher Hitchens, makes me love you even more. Keep up all the good work you do, and may peace be in your heart.
I have so much love for Dan. I wouldn't have been able to make it through that.
Wow, powerful stuff!
Such a strong individual. Feel the pain, it does ease eventually. At least you will have grieved. Religion denies that to people.
I luv dans writing,omg he is hawt too :)
this is when Dan & his bf were buff .. love all his talks
I want to hug DAN!!!
I hope someone was there to hug him when he stepped off stage.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 I watched my Mom almost die 3 times over 7 years that she wasted away from Parkinsons in a nursing home because I wasn't rich and couldn't keep her at my home with round the clock care. A BIG hunk of your heart & soul die when your Mother does if you loved her and she was a good Mother. Saying goodbye to her is HELL ON EARTH.
OMG ... i put this in my watch later list for a while just liking dan savage and storytelling. But the church he is referring to is ACROSS the street from a house I grew up in for years! Crazy
Bless Dan Savage. So moving.
so powerful!
made me laugh, made me cry. it's better than....well, almost everything
who needs therapy with genius' like Dan to put 'shit' into perspective.
thanks for posting this.
St Ignacius de Loyola said ' Give me the boy, and I will give you the man' Dan, you were that boy.
I found Dan Savage's piece particularly moving. It also made me wonder if Dan Savage had ever considered Unitarian Universalism. I'm sure I'm not the first to suggest it. But hey, Dan - if you ever find yourself in DC, come check out All Souls Church. You won't be sorry.
I routinely watch this and am always moved to tears. Shit.
great man.
those damn cutting onions ninjas! *tears*
Well...that was...killer. I admire him for sharing this. I lost my mother 4 months ago. Hard times.
If it wasn't dan savage, I really wouldn't have. But the most respectful thing you can do for Dan Savage is call a bigot out when they pop up.
Samuel Adams: But just because someone disagrees with you does not make them a bigot.
Yearning for the divine...the deepest of all human aspirations...may he find it, in whatever form it comes to him.
I cried!
Unlike his usual confrontational gay bravado (which I also like), this level of honesty is why I love Dan Savage. The biceps and cute mug don't hurt either (sorry Terry, I'm happily married too). Wish I'd had those final moments with my mom, and wish she'd jumped on the PFLAG bandwagon when I came out, but it didn't go that way. In fact, thanks to a barrage of conservative propaganda against my ilk, she passed from this life more confused and frightened by my existence than when I came out 24 years ago. Those talking points created a veritable border wall between us (the gays paid, if you're wondering) that became too high for either of us to scale. Maybe Ma Savage can explain things to her now that they're sharing space in the afterlife? Oh, I forgot. There is no afterlife. Shit.
Buddy Akin
Bob Head Yes?
MUMS LIVE ON FOREVER DAN!!! CHERISH HER MEMORY!!!
I cried with you, Dan savage
Fuck's sake, people.
Did you just watch a video about a man dealing with his faith, his love for his family, and his mother's death? I did. How about we all stop getting into little shitty snits about who's more right than everyone else?
Damn it, who's cutting onions in here?
Absolutely. But call that person out for their bigotry. Don't shit on them for being religious, because you are then shitting on all the religious people who agree with you (i.e. Dan Savage's mom).
Look at the arguments happening on this page -- it's all "religious people are stupid!" and "non-religious people are stupid!"
How about we stop calling each other stupid? The fact it's not so cut and dry is what I got from Dan's video, am I alone here?
zammerjammer: You are not alone.
Difference is HE cares he is gay. He has every right to fight for what is right.
I saw this when it showed in theaters, such an awesome show. How did you get this?!
been searchin' the interwebs for this but i cant find the whole show anywhere :( anyone know how to get it?
That was incredibly inspiring.. Also, did anyone catch Ira saying "Fred Savage" at the end? Or was I just mishearing?
The scene of the crime was at the supreme court and the supreme court committed the crime. It made a political decision, not a constitutional decision as required by the constitution. This has happed before.
@jasonsaroyan Yeah, his grade school is St. Ignatius in Chicago, but the "modernist Catholic chapel" in Seattle he referred to I think may be the Chapel of St. Ignatius at Seattle University. I thought it was funny because Seattle U is really proud of the chapel's architecture, and I agree with his assessment of it, that it looks like the Brady house with a crucifix in it. Though aspects of it are beautiful.
When I watched this, it made me think of my own Mother...also a devout Catholic...who had died. Sometimes I think the same thing.
"Shit".
I love you...
How many of us have trod this same path? Perhaps it could be addressed by... nah.
welp, I'm crying.
Those damn onions!
I was raised an Anglican (Catholic Lite) but when I evolved into an atheist I had no issue reconciling the deaths of my parents and some friends with the idea of no death after life. So I guess I dodged a bullet by not being born a catholic.
Hey, do you work out?
heartbreaking
damn i look up to this guy sfm. i know he fucked up a few time but he's still a brilliant, brilliant guy
@najtrows looks like amazon is your best bet -- if you wanna just listen, google and you can listen to the entire show for free
he's like the thinking man's david sedaris
If that's really the only sentiment you can offer after something so eloquent and humanizing, I truly feel sorry for you.
You clearly can't understand what he's saying. This is touching story about Dan's long relationship with the catholic church.
And I was there at that convention. Only about a dozen people walked out, and no one cried. The hundreds of the students who were there, most of them Christians, applauded. He was talking about how Christians can believe in gay rights.
"SHIT!" oxo
omg woah. his story about how he went from catholic to atheist is so like mine, only without the sql for future priests and change being gay for just knowing gay people, and voilla. *sigh*
his mother tho :((