Women Speak on Dating Rich Men and why they dont recommend it (compilation)

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  • @PenelopeSnowe
    @PenelopeSnowe 17 днів тому +362

    Date men who do what they say they’re going to do. Repeatedly and frequently.

    • @kaylasunshine5407
      @kaylasunshine5407 10 днів тому +6

      @@PenelopeSnowe this! This is always my answer when I’m asked. Say what you mean and mean what you say

  • @EmilyKresl
    @EmilyKresl 21 день тому +469

    Real classy guys don't go around telling everyone how much it costs to join the country club especially on a first date.

    • @blazingstar9638
      @blazingstar9638 20 днів тому +41

      People who actually have money don’t say that either 😅

    • @EmilyKresl
      @EmilyKresl 20 днів тому +31

      @@blazingstar9638 that, too. In fact people who actually have money would never use the country club as a first date either.

    • @Mini-ge9sm
      @Mini-ge9sm 19 днів тому +17

      Exactly!! Most with money keep a low key. ESP amongst people who’re not of their class!!

    • @ninairish763
      @ninairish763 10 днів тому +2

      Trust fund babies do though haha

    • @EmilyKresl
      @EmilyKresl 10 днів тому

      @@ninairish763 old money trust fund babies don't. That's some new money shite, gives the old timers something to bitch about lol

  • @LadyCharity
    @LadyCharity 9 днів тому +88

    I've dated millionaire men. Tbh, they are just men with more money. No better than anyone else. Now, I just focus on provider men who are generous. A man can have money but not be a provider. 👑

    • @Ssookawai
      @Ssookawai 2 дні тому +4

      Bingo, a generous provider is the best... someone doing his best for you, it worth all wealth on this planet.

    • @Lambsear565
      @Lambsear565 2 дні тому

      That 👌🏽

  • @ayarikiyo2178
    @ayarikiyo2178 21 день тому +525

    I’m starting to think I should just avoid all men. Rich, poor, and average. Avoid all.

    • @JiHu-d8c
      @JiHu-d8c 20 днів тому +70

      Right. That’s the conclusion I’m drawing as well 😳🤣

    • @dianavivaldi4503
      @dianavivaldi4503 20 днів тому +52

      ​@@JiHu-d8cThe right decision, they do their best to do worse everyday.

    • @sallyhemings2295
      @sallyhemings2295 20 днів тому +24

      😅Yes ALL Men🏆✌️

    • @billymoluv
      @billymoluv 20 днів тому

      Well you will never get the rich, poor is a open list and you may not get a real man so shop in the hood for a simp

    • @katherinefrank5694
      @katherinefrank5694 18 днів тому +40

      Im feeling the same. Im a MEsexual.

  • @lexii0033
    @lexii0033 21 день тому +606

    instead of wasting your energy on dates and entertaining assholes with the hope of finding the unicorn provider, invest in your education and self improvement, find a job that allows you to support yourself and not be desperate. at one point you will enter the more affluent spaces naturally and you are able to pick and choose who and what you entertain. decentering men is the key to everything !!

    • @tinachristine4573
      @tinachristine4573 21 день тому +86

      💯. If you can't move independently, even if you meet that rich guy, you'll feel like a prisoner with him. Speaking from both sides of the experience.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 21 день тому +5

      "Decentering men is the key to everything" ?? Are you saying this from experience or is just an ideology?? Because I'm a woman and I'm not even sure what DECENTERING MEN is supposed to mean?

    • @Chee235
      @Chee235 20 днів тому

      @@Naturefan354 😂 google it. It is helpful and will change your life.

    • @sainttheresetaylor2054
      @sainttheresetaylor2054 20 днів тому +56

      ​@Naturefan354 focus on your life, hobbies, aspirations and improving your physical/mental well-being instead of being obsessed with male validation and being picked. makes more sense?
      ofc no one is saying you shouldn't desire romance and companionship. but you should want...more.

    • @zora2935
      @zora2935 20 днів тому +40

      @Naturefan354 don’t make men the center of your life.

  • @sweetstorm7652
    @sweetstorm7652 16 днів тому +232

    It feels a million times better when you make your own money ladies. Rich confident men will be begging you to date them.

    • @shazamarkham
      @shazamarkham 9 днів тому +13

      Begging is a bit much😂

    • @coolandgood1010
      @coolandgood1010 7 днів тому +2

      WHat is with that profile picture?!

    • @voguehaven5154
      @voguehaven5154 6 днів тому

      100%

    • @voguehaven5154
      @voguehaven5154 6 днів тому +2

      @@shazamarkham men like money too.

    • @notThepicassoGaming
      @notThepicassoGaming 5 днів тому +2

      The thing is rich doesn't correlate with confidence. I've so called rich men deeply insecure in my presence.

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 17 днів тому +163

    Be Wise. All that glitters isn't gold.

  • @Howwwaboutthat
    @Howwwaboutthat 19 днів тому +183

    I just broke up with my ex. He wasn't rich but he is a top earner and makes over 6figures, works in manhattan. I havent started the video yet but i can guarantee its not worth it! Meet someone who treats you right regardless of status symbols or his net worth. It was a 2yr relationship and he started off charming and spending time & taking me out all in the city but then he became verbally abusive, manipulating me, gaslighting me, starting fights over trivial things. Would always tell me ill never find it good like this anywhere else, always complained that i was grateful for the few nice things he did for me because i would call out his vial behavior. Ladies !!! Regardless of how much he has in the bank always make sure this person truly cares for you and treats you the way you truly know you deserve!!!!!

    • @3xyrz
      @3xyrz 16 днів тому +14

      i broke up with mine too. he’s native and his tribe gets a lot of money every month but he was very emotionally abusive and narcissistic. i dealt with the same exact thing with the switch up it’s very hurtful.

    • @Lambsear565
      @Lambsear565 2 дні тому

      Broke abusive men also do this.

  • @LouLouLion
    @LouLouLion 21 день тому +318

    Not me. I'd rather be poor and have peace than to deal with any man and their insanely fragile ego.

    • @billymoluv
      @billymoluv 21 день тому +2

      You are and with no ring.

    • @ellasoriginalchannel9713
      @ellasoriginalchannel9713 21 день тому +8

      I am poor, single and cronicly ill, so I do not know what peace is.

    • @LouLouLion
      @LouLouLion 21 день тому +30

      @ellasoriginalchannel9713 Well, trust me throwing a fragile ego in there and a man for you to slave for won't show you what peace is either. Actually, you're closer to finding it being single. If you don't think so, you still have some things to learn.

    • @AnnAndNala
      @AnnAndNala 21 день тому +22

      @@billymoluvHa! Seriously? No that would be the "ring" to hell... no thank you.

    • @getgot3461
      @getgot3461 21 день тому +25

      ​@@billymoluv that is simply not the insult u think it is, a ring aka a shackle? No thanks

  • @Ashcinnamon
    @Ashcinnamon 21 день тому +284

    In my experience, they accuse everyone of being money obsessed users because that's what they are. They are so needy and distant. Want to solve all problems with money and then get mad thats all people expect from them. Self made rich men are the worst of the bunch.

    • @ellasoriginalchannel9713
      @ellasoriginalchannel9713 21 день тому +27

      Well said

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass 20 днів тому +32

      Yes. Gold digging is very masculine energy behaviour.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 17 днів тому +1

      @@VeeKayGreenerGrass Which is weird because most gold diggers are women.. There are multiple channels with scores of women proving it too 🤣

    • @Ms.AllSunday930
      @Ms.AllSunday930 13 днів тому +5

      My step dad exactly... Well my mom divorced him.. but ya know

    • @f.j.9391
      @f.j.9391 10 днів тому +8

      That’s because self made rich men taught themselves who not to associate with distaste which is how they got there in the first place. The biggest billionaires are some of the most corrupted people. While normal lifestyle rich men who see rich as normal just automatically dont hate or pursue women of lower class because they got no experience in common. It’s like when people who struggle dont hang out with rich people because they got a hint of vanilla in their childhood in them. Surprisingly those are the rich ppl you want not the bragging unbalanced rich business men. Especially if the rich man never got a taste of bad gold digging behavior they’re not gonna push you away just because you want money but your behavior can like if thats all you like of them. If you want money because you have poverty trauma they sense that as well. Theyre not stupid

  • @anushkamkj
    @anushkamkj 20 днів тому +134

    Dating rich guys is so weird. They actually think you're committed to them and not the other way around. That you owe them time and love ane not the other way around.

  • @AN-fg4cd
    @AN-fg4cd 19 днів тому +96

    So, the 2nd girl was a high-end call girl and her friend pimps women out to men with money. Got it.

    • @gorgeousfrazier5903
      @gorgeousfrazier5903 11 днів тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 yoooo

    • @jackinthebox3474
      @jackinthebox3474 3 дні тому +7

      Maybe not but it's was pretty reckless and dangerous what she did, like imagine is a serials killer or a psychopath that likes harming people, nah bro that's too risky

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd 2 дні тому +3

      @@jackinthebox3474 I grew up in California. What she’s describing is normal call-girl behavior.
      Which is why she could care less about the danger of it…just a normal night. Except he must’ve been her most financially well-off client/ “trick”.

  • @gramplolo7530
    @gramplolo7530 17 днів тому +92

    I just wanna add, if you're trying to date anyone worthwhile, doesn't matter who or what they are or how much they make, never, I repeat never, go so far out of your way just to meet them, especially not on the first date, or even the first ten dates. Don't be driving an hour or more to see them, don't be flying to their city for them, basically don't rearrange your life to see them, especially if they aren't doing the same for you.
    What this tells them, especially if it's just the first date, is that you don't really respect yourself, you're desperate, and he can be inconsiderate and inconvenient and you will still stay with him because you're already willing to put up with his bs.
    If it's mutual, back and forth kinda effort, then sure, both of you can drive to meet in the middle, he can visit one time and you another.
    But never stay with someone who wouldn't put in the same effort as you, cause it'll only get worse and you'll be unhappy.

    • @torey6721
      @torey6721 16 днів тому +8

      Heavyyy on not driving an hour or more to see someone, cause I made this mistake few years ago. Drove an hour to see a lady I met online. We talked for 3 months and we decided to finally meet in person. I was 5 minutes away from her house when I was pulled over, I wasn’t speeding. I never got to see her and don’t even care cause it seems she came into my life to make me realize my boundaries are not high enough. She mentioned that she couldn’t understand why such a tragic event occurred on my way to see her. My point is that, just that one mistake set my life on a whole different trajectory. 🤧

    • @nyeguono
      @nyeguono 8 днів тому +1

      @@torey6721 what happened?

    • @sarahlyd4015
      @sarahlyd4015 6 днів тому +2

      I’ll add it’s also important that you don’t give them unlimited access to you through texting/calling or meeting all the time.

  • @raya9283
    @raya9283 21 день тому +139

    Really rich guys will not talk about money.

    • @marilynmonheaux
      @marilynmonheaux 8 днів тому +7

      That’s not true at all. Many of them are corny and they have to lead with money because that’s the only way they can get laid.

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 День тому

      ​@marilynmonheaux, she's talking about people who want to be undercover. Not the overt ones who don't care about risking their lives.

  • @ViolaHGlaze
    @ViolaHGlaze 11 днів тому +50

    What the hell is wrong with young single women inviting random strangers into their homes.....

  • @aboogie797
    @aboogie797 15 днів тому +51

    2nd one coulda been trafficked..she should be more careful how she moves..

  • @Blissedx
    @Blissedx 16 днів тому +49

    We just want men that pay all the bills and give us money. No one is actively seeking a billionaire 😂

  • @amberinthebox4462
    @amberinthebox4462 21 день тому +153

    Money can make people who have never been around money act completely dofferent. Don't be like that. U are going to ruin everything. And remember....the rich people that come from old money don't live innthe same world we do. Theyre whole system is different

    • @ellasoriginalchannel9713
      @ellasoriginalchannel9713 21 день тому +32

      Yes, we are their servants. Even if not working for them directly.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 15 днів тому

      And being in the hood makes you suburban rich nerds act like hoodlums. 😂

  • @thefirstkitandkaboodle
    @thefirstkitandkaboodle 7 днів тому +11

    It’s funny how younger women think it’s a flex to go out on a date with a billionaire when men at that level don’t see you as human and will disappear you, on a whim, with their very own legal team in tow. And get away with it. You dating a billionaire is NOT a flex. You, as a woman, being a billionaire IS a flex.

  • @Takashi-mitzuya
    @Takashi-mitzuya 21 день тому +106

    When they say don't date broke guys they don't mean financially broke ... these gurls just date rich guys but they are broke 💔

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass 20 днів тому +16

      Broken

    • @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
      @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner 19 днів тому +5

      Wow interesting perspective. Is this what they mean by male loneliness?

    • @GhossupGurls
      @GhossupGurls 17 днів тому +3

      Indeed. Well said

    • @GhossupGurls
      @GhossupGurls 17 днів тому +1

      ​@@CyberSecurityFashionDesigneryeah the billionaires are lonely too. Why do you think they are so obsessed with women as much as poor guys aee!???! Look what each of them get taken down for??!! Diddy - women, Harvey weinstein -women and Jeffrey Epstein - women. The list does on.

    • @Lalaland099
      @Lalaland099 15 днів тому

      Exactly. ​@@GhossupGurls

  • @Ilikebunnies-metoo
    @Ilikebunnies-metoo 11 днів тому +25

    As the old saying goes, when people marry for money _they earn every penny_

    • @LisaSoulLevelHealing
      @LisaSoulLevelHealing 10 днів тому +2

      My only thought is how stressful searching for money is.....bruh

    • @m.s9146
      @m.s9146 День тому

      @@LisaSoulLevelHealingyou may actually run away from a wealthy man but most self made billionaires have the charm and resources to change your mind. That happened to me 14 years ago. He has proven to be faithful, kind but very tied to his work. You make choices.

  • @Pepperoni-and-cringe
    @Pepperoni-and-cringe 20 днів тому +68

    Rich guys always gave me red flag vibes

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 2 дні тому +1

      Of course cuz they not gonna ever commit in life 2 nobody & if she's the gold digger type then the rich guy ain't gonna care about her like that & she will always b the 304 playing house & being embarrassed all the time

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ 21 день тому +71

    I feel like most dating advice no matter how much money the guy has is common sense. Whether that man is rich or not, unless you're married or going towards that don't let a man just buy a lot of stuff for you like that. Have boundaries . Because a lot of them expect something back (if you know what i mean) and/or they'll just throw it in your face. Of course a normal person will be impressed by the life of a super rich person because they live a different life but dont let that blind you. Treat them like regular people, also a lot of them seem off tbh. Like there's a certain level of wealthy I don't trust. It's always those men involved in weird stuff with weird personalities. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @PoSHEmediaglobal
      @PoSHEmediaglobal 6 днів тому +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
      I was an assistant to a rich man and I never have his sons any attention . I just treated them like my superiors. Apparently girls threw themselves at them left and right

  • @rooboatdeer22yu51
    @rooboatdeer22yu51 20 днів тому +49

    I recently ghosted a friend who is dating a rich man. I thought she was more mature than me, I thought she was kind, I thought she was wise, but it turned out that she wasn't a person with integrity. I've dated a couple rich men, I'm younger than her she's almost 30, and I realized quickly that it's not a good idea to do that. The archetype of prostitution is in everyone and is in every industry. I realize that she cared a lot about money and possessions and looks, and that she would rather have money and an intellectual connection then a connection with her own soul. I felt bad about doing that but I'm going through my own time of building a soul connection and understanding what it is to be an adult, and I don't want to fight with somebody's ego who thinks they are doing a safer better form of prostitution and they should maybe teach other girls how to find Rich men too and be in her same situation. She is in a luxurious prison, and the energy of that couple is walking on eggshells, tension discomfort all the time with gold sprinkled on top.

    • @heleneplate6813
      @heleneplate6813 18 днів тому +12

      As an elderly woman I thought about my own youth, having a friend acting similar as the one you are writing about. I also watched the same later on with another friend of mine, being the victim of such women:
      Please always keep in mind: These "lady's" look for your friendship not only for teaching you their own sight of things. They also use you as a shill, a decoy for pulling the interests of men to themselves. No need for you to feel bad for ending this relationship. Of course there is mourning, for all the good times you spend together in the past. But you have cared for yourself very well by separating and should allow yourself to be a little proud about it. Well done, girl. ❤

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 17 днів тому +2

      I had a friend like that. She was 10 years older than me. We became friends while working in retail. She invited me out with a group of her friends. They were all so pretty. I soon found out they were gold diggers. I didn't hang out with her anymore.

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies 15 днів тому +14

      You should be less nosy and stop projecting yourself onto other people. Different people have different interests and different goals in a relationship. It's none of your business how she lives her life? Considering so many regular dudes are nothing worthwhile and have terrible character, it's not a bad thing that women would rather date a terrible handsome guy or terrible rich man over a terrible average dude. Just thank her for having her tastes or you'd be competing *with her* for the same men - and there's not enough good men to go around for all of us. So next time, be less patronizing bc you, yourself, sound like you have major character flaws seeing as how judgemental and nosy you are? Almost sounds controlling, too, bc you want her to live her life _your_ way.
      If you disagree with people's lifestyles there's better way to address it and worded it in a way that doesn't sound so t00xic and negative.

    • @nyeguono
      @nyeguono 13 днів тому +1

      @@LovelyLittleLilliesYour only options aren’t terrible rich men or terrible average men..
      OP said nothing, just say you’re like said friend and go

    • @Morgan24_7
      @Morgan24_7 12 днів тому +2

      A luxurious prison. That's a good way to put it.

  • @EmilyKresl
    @EmilyKresl 21 день тому +134

    So to summarize the lessons: 1. Don't be stupid. 2. Don't be not smart. 3. Don't accept gifts in the beginning or else you'll fail the secret tests. 4. Don't be a commodity 5. Don't act like it's a big deal. 6. Hold them to the same standards you'd hold regular people to. 7. Look for nice cars in parking lots of bars. 8. Don't come to the table with nothing. 9. Don't be afraid to date someone older. 10. Don't forget they're human. Got it.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 20 днів тому +17

      Don't date,court for marriage and make sure there's a third party

    • @Chawaniii
      @Chawaniii 16 днів тому +7

      Be young

    • @EmilyKresl
      @EmilyKresl 16 днів тому +9

      @AnythingGoesxo you're welcome. Oh and also don't be too desperate but also make your kids a priority OR ELSE

    • @EmilyKresl
      @EmilyKresl 16 днів тому +3

      @@Chawaniii oh yes and also be perfectly fine with accepting gifts but ONLY after you locked him in and got married after tricking him into thinking you can't be bought with tokens of affection from a billionaire's chauffeur in his stead (because of course he's so busy making money he can't do it himself)

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 14 днів тому +4

      ​@@EmilyKresl yeah as long as it's you turning down the gifts but he has to offer expensive dates and gifts. The most rich guy I dated was also the most stingy. If he's not generous, there really is no point.

  • @gorgeousfrazier5903
    @gorgeousfrazier5903 11 днів тому +20

    So you let this guy in your house that was trying to force sex on you , that was intoxicated and you have a roommate in the house and another woman! Very unsafe! All because he was a “billionaire” 😂

  • @primadonna2819
    @primadonna2819 15 днів тому +47

    As someone who's never been on a date with a rich man, they don't sound any worse than the broke losers.

    • @notThepicassoGaming
      @notThepicassoGaming 5 днів тому +2

      There's a lot of duechery with men in general regardless.

    • @MeMe-ht2hd
      @MeMe-ht2hd 2 дні тому

      Bingo! They are just like any other male except with more money 💰🤑. Just because you have money doesn't mean you are a great person.

  • @mentak2593
    @mentak2593 15 днів тому +36

    Why don’t these dudes just hire a lady of the night? Why is he so desperate as a billionaire 😅

    • @librasunaquariusmoon
      @librasunaquariusmoon 13 днів тому +5

      Because they don't be trying to pay

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 8 днів тому +5

      we women must not be the gold diggers men like to claim we are 😂😂

    • @JMo-gk7vl
      @JMo-gk7vl 5 днів тому

      Here is a shorten version of a amazing Marilyn Monroe quote "the same way men want but not need a pretty women .......is the same way women should want but not need a rich man (provider)"
      Just because you go for rich men doesn't make you a gold digger..... it makes you a women who knows exactly what it is you want your life to be like going forward and long term .
      Money isn't everything but it surely helps many things in life to go smoother such as the process of pregnancy, providing for kids, helping staff like cleaners so you don't have distractions if you decided you want to continue your education, or get a expensive hobby or start/running a business then you never having to worry if emergencies happen anywhere at anytime because you'll anyways have the money to cushion your panic with private planes to go anywhere, multiple properties in case of natural disasters, insurance on everything, excellent medical care at home or otherwise.
      My point is.....people need to stop letting modern day thinking cloud the reality of various obstacles that can happen in life and one of the best ways to combat those obstacles is money . If you don't want to get your own money or can't ....there is nothing wrong with using your love life has a means to marry into money as long as she realizes that she needs to built herself up during the marriage so weather he divorces you or not.....she and her kids will be better then fine .

    • @biblemademedoit
      @biblemademedoit День тому +3

      It's the challenge he is chasing. He wanted her because she said no, they dont like no.

  • @cooladultkidontheblock1882
    @cooladultkidontheblock1882 21 день тому +74

    I've dated rich guys and they are something else. 😂

    • @JiHu-d8c
      @JiHu-d8c 20 днів тому +26

      They’re built different mentally. There’s no use in having “boundaries”. They see that as a no, and will find someone who will be a “yes”. Not all are like that, but most are.

    • @nyeguono
      @nyeguono 13 днів тому +9

      @@JiHu-d8cthat’s what the boundaries are for, to protect u from awful ppl like that.
      I wouldn’t say there’s no use…

    • @biblemademedoit
      @biblemademedoit День тому

      ​@@JiHu-d8cOr they make a challenge of trying to get you to do what you originally agreed to not do. It's psychological warfare when they realize money does not buy you.

  • @bsantj
    @bsantj 14 днів тому +15

    Date people that work on themselves as a person while also working for their money
    No in between

  • @TreehouseLover
    @TreehouseLover 4 дні тому +8

    The second one with the strong chin and jaw is simply escorting. Let’s call a spade a spade.

    • @NicoTNN
      @NicoTNN День тому

      What is your guess on her mystery man? She says he is in his 40s/ family owns alot of land here in the USA. Flew from Ohio to LA.

  • @andrealuna6846
    @andrealuna6846 21 день тому +41

    I am not willing to pimp my smarts out just to fit in the boushie club. I'm happy shopping at my own pace, breathing at my pace and not looking over my shoulder..

  • @SoulfulNaomi
    @SoulfulNaomi 21 день тому +153

    Left a materialistic lifestyle ❤ praise God for bringing me ❤out

  • @angiemartinez8041
    @angiemartinez8041 21 день тому +29

    18:11 She's smart. We all don't fit in box, society thinks we should. A lot of people don't expect us to use proper manners or have an education. Be well rounded and travel and culturally knowledgeable. Because of the way I look.

  • @SmileyUna123
    @SmileyUna123 20 днів тому +27

    I never wanted to date or marry rich because yeah most rich people in general tend to be corrupt and dodgy so it's not surprising. When I see women talking about marrying rich I get confused like why would you want to lol

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 2 дні тому

      Rich guys r never gonna want a committed relationship he's always gonna smash other females & also if she's the gold digger type then of course the rich guy is never gonna stay committed & she will always b a 304 playing house, getting embarrassed & she's victimizing herself when she decides 2 marry a rich guy cuz she's a gold digger herself

  • @andrealuna6846
    @andrealuna6846 21 день тому +39

    Where is the love? These robotic dates are awful. You must bring your own tricks to the table.With any level of society you must be able to offer something.

    • @TheNinjapancake14
      @TheNinjapancake14 18 днів тому +2

      I don’t think that was the problem in these dates

  • @HelovesU-we4qh
    @HelovesU-we4qh 18 днів тому +19

    🤣😂🤣 that last girl was hilarious! While I do not agree with what she said. I do agree that if you are in a relationship with the wealthy man, do not leave broke!
    Learn all that you can about Investments and educate yourself become financially literate and just get money smart! Never leave a good situation broke. If you must be beautiful, learn how to do it on the cheap!

  • @DinaStrange
    @DinaStrange 20 днів тому +55

    What is wrong with wanting a man for his resources, while he wants you for your beauty or youth or body, or whatever? Let's stop glamorizing being with a loser. I'd rather be with a successful guy than a loser.

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd 19 днів тому +35

      You might want to rethink that post. You don’t have to be with a loser, just because he isn’t a wealthy man.
      Wealthy men can have mental issues, just like anyone else. The mind of a wealthy man is not easy to deal with, because it’s what made him wealthy in the first place. The ability to “not take” no for an answer is one of the reasons. Therefore, many believe they can do whatever they want…but you cannot.
      You might find yourself feeling like a pretty bird locked in a cage. Thats why many women married to wealthy men have some type of drug or substance abuse issue. I’ve yet to meet one who doesn’t. And heavy on the cocaine.

    • @bdh711
      @bdh711 17 днів тому +19

      I agree. People act like a wealthy man can’t have the looks and heart to go with it. Anyone would choose wealthy over broke, if not they are lying

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 15 днів тому +1

      ​@@bdh711people would choose to be happy and free. money only buys the materialistic version of the things i just said

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 2 дні тому

      ​@@AN-fg4cdright

    • @AN-fg4cd
      @AN-fg4cd 2 дні тому

      @@bdh711 The issue is the term “loser”. What defines “loser”?
      You can be wealthy with a good heart and not so wealthy, but with a good heart. Her post made it like money “automatically” equaled a quality life.

  • @dezinechic
    @dezinechic 14 днів тому +11

    that poor roommate. also i just knew with him "never being treated that way" he was surely going to contact her again! for the simple fact of her not caring made him want to continue.

  • @tonijackson3421
    @tonijackson3421 20 днів тому +48

    So they think they’re dating tech billionaires but really they’re dating guys who’s dads work for billionaires and have a couple hundred thousand so they think that makes them tech billionaires 😂 a real billionaire would have you sign an NDA and i doubt you’d be running your mouth on TikTok if you had secured a REAL bag from one lol

    • @tonijackson3421
      @tonijackson3421 20 днів тому +14

      Also I don’t think a BILLIONAIRE was on tinder… most have their assistants on there

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies 15 днів тому +7

      ​@@tonijackson3421 no fr - at most they're millionaires - these regular women off of the street, regardless how good they look - have no chance in hell to meet an actual billionaire. You need connections and status for that. At minimum be a celebrity.

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 14 днів тому +10

      ​@@LovelyLittleLilliesyup I went to school with these wealthy kids. They were always polite, kind and friendly but when it came to dating, they only considered the girls from their same background OK. I don't know if that was a personal preference or if their parents told them not to bring just anybody home to meet fhem😂

    • @firandcurly84
      @firandcurly84 7 днів тому

      ​@@LovelyLittleLillies what's the celebrity status of Elon musk wife or the Facebook guys wife

  • @patriciasmith812
    @patriciasmith812 20 днів тому +31

    Forget men and their money.

  • @SUNSTAREMERALDSAPPHIRE
    @SUNSTAREMERALDSAPPHIRE 17 днів тому +14

    It is interesting hearing all these narratives. I grew up around powerful men and worked with powerful rich men in the Caribbean and London, they were normal to me, showed me respect.
    I am not sure about dating sites🤔I need more time to investigate it.
    I would prefer to meet someone in person. However, when communicating with anyone, be yourself and do not put fake pictures on line, if you are involved in online dating, stay SAFE out there⚡⚡⚡

  • @bsantj
    @bsantj 14 днів тому +10

    Why marry rich when you can have peace, I thought I was going to listen to sense but this is just a master class on getting a man
    This is a waste of energy, deceptive marketing

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 2 дні тому

      My thing is don't date rich guys & don't b a gold digger very simple & don't victimize urself & don't f******* up ur mental health in the process

  • @nononsense5182
    @nononsense5182 16 днів тому +13

    That's right Sis, being educated, confident with common sense and know how to carry yourself 👌

  • @deezcheney9730
    @deezcheney9730 21 день тому +21

    I'd so rather have the money and be the sugar momma than marry/date someone who I don't necessarily like just for money. That sounds miserable.

  • @thetruthHUB853
    @thetruthHUB853 10 днів тому +11

    70 billion is definitely sniper money 😂

    • @biblemademedoit
      @biblemademedoit День тому

      Im scared for her telling his story online 😂

  • @JaneNoordpool
    @JaneNoordpool 12 днів тому +8

    Be your own billionaire.🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @thepineapple8434
    @thepineapple8434 15 днів тому +12

    Idk but just because you can afford 600$ dinners doesn’t mean you should. I mean how much worth can a plate of food be? Same for club fees. Save that 150.000 for a better cause. Go backpacking. Or rather donate it if you are bored.

    • @alnsubuga
      @alnsubuga 10 днів тому +4

      Some people can afford the fancy dinner, the club fees, the good cause donations, the backpacking holiday, and still have plenty of money left to do all of that several times over. Leave people to spend their own money in peace.

  • @crystalclear7453
    @crystalclear7453 День тому +2

    I got scared for the second girl, until I realized she probably works part time as an escort. And the first one, she's clearly reading a script to make publicity for dating apps. I can't respect these women that put themselves in danger just to get the goods and then brag about it for 20 minutes to make more money. This is why when actual victims of sexual harassment speak the truth, they are faced with disbelief. 9:50

  • @kaylasunshine5407
    @kaylasunshine5407 16 днів тому +16

    Being evenly yoked is important at every level

  • @NinaSandcastle
    @NinaSandcastle 21 день тому +19

    Who's gonna tell the joy aesthetic that shes dating a married man.

    • @candiceh6211
      @candiceh6211 20 днів тому +9

      Yeah.... that man is married and she's his sugar baby... but there's a chance she already knows this and is leaving it out because you know... gotta save face for the internet.

    • @benatiyah
      @benatiyah 19 днів тому +4

      Gurl! I could tell so quickly.

    • @rl3810
      @rl3810 12 днів тому +1

      I hope someone does...poor girl is so lost.

  • @nononsense5182
    @nononsense5182 16 днів тому +7

    I like this story about the billionaire, she's boss for standing her ground
    😃👌
    This guy couldn't accept NO!!

  • @FreemasonsStalkinMe
    @FreemasonsStalkinMe 21 день тому +32

    Second story is unbelievable.

    • @rati_lol
      @rati_lol 21 день тому +4

      like she's lying 😂😂😂"prince's in LA"

    • @Brittany_Hy
      @Brittany_Hy 21 день тому +2

      It was hilarious tho and she's a good story teller

    • @Nono38-jj1tk
      @Nono38-jj1tk 21 день тому +8

      It could very well be true. Saudi's have harems of women. There is a woman who wrote a book about her experience as a voluntary Saudi segg s worker. It is the norm for royal Saudi members to have hundreds of women in their concubine. They also have sla v3s and servant boy children,many of them. Look it up.

    • @drea3153
      @drea3153 20 днів тому +7

      For real. What happened to the driver??? Why would the driver of a billion leave. Plus, the story is told to make her look good. Not buying it

    • @Ssstellamellaaa
      @Ssstellamellaaa 17 днів тому +3

      It’s probably mostly
      True I work at a strip club and billionaires come in…. And do the most ratchet stuff 🤣. They’re billionaires sure but they’re bored they never had to work for anything or like endure anything so they purposely put themselves in crazy situations just
      To experience these things that are normal every day for us. They are so funny and absolutely crazy and do very dangerous stuff all the time they usually are so bored . Trust me I believe a lot
      Of her story but she’s leaving out the fact that she probably
      Is a worker . No shame on the game I work in the game but I’d never actually date any of these guys . but it is a important factor
      For normal girls
      Who don’t know the whole game and that whole world.

  • @Heykay34
    @Heykay34 20 днів тому +16

    Money brings out the worst in humans unfortunately. Where I dream of giving away the majority of my money if I I was ever a billionaire, for others it will never be enough.

    • @firandcurly84
      @firandcurly84 7 днів тому

      No poverty brings out the worst in people

  • @DelovelyD
    @DelovelyD 10 днів тому +5

    I’m only 22 minutes in and these women have got to be some of the saddest creatures on the planet 😞

    • @PreppyPrincess777
      @PreppyPrincess777 10 днів тому +1

      Sadly, they’re the role and not the exception.

  • @raya9283
    @raya9283 21 день тому +39

    “Dating” means what exactly to these women? Having sex for money? There used to be a different word for that.

  • @HeyItsAbb
    @HeyItsAbb 10 днів тому +5

    The amount of time, energy and thought wasted on strategising can be used to get your own money up. Personally I’d rather invest in my own capital, not the potential of someone else’s.

  • @ArletteMaotieBomahou
    @ArletteMaotieBomahou 8 днів тому +4

    These women only look for attention. If they had really dated millionaires & billionaires they wouldn't rant about it on social media. Complete load of crap!!!!!

  • @FutureBillionaire1111
    @FutureBillionaire1111 21 день тому +14

    2:48 they're eating the dogs, they're eating the cats😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @eliannaelliott7152
    @eliannaelliott7152 16 днів тому +6

    It’s astonishing to me how some women just make it their main goal to get a wealthy man. Go out in different places to get experience. Take yourself out become all rounded. It’s a bigger flex.
    when you do happen to meet a man with money you would’ve taken yourself to certain places and experience certain things. It just looks cheap when you want to get all of that through someone else.
    You don’t need a wealthy man to go to a 5 star restaurant, golfing, a few plane trips etc. Some of the women on this video were super embarrassing. It’s Important that you not only show them but you should be secure in yourself enough to know I can do for myself the same things you offer to me.
    They would just know so their approach to you and the relationship they offer you would be different compared to a women who is only placing herself in these environment for the sole purpose of getting with a rich man.

  • @Djsertraline
    @Djsertraline 21 день тому +12

    Dang. Not the millionaire coca cane heads...

  • @munchingmakenna5776
    @munchingmakenna5776 9 днів тому +4

    “There’s no way I’m going outside because they are going to kidnap me”

    “So I go outside….” ☠️

  • @layathomas8229
    @layathomas8229 17 днів тому +12

    I think the guy was prt of the Rothchilds family (owns a chunk of America). Jus my guess

  • @sellmav
    @sellmav 5 днів тому +3

    They all definitely deserve each other

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 2 дні тому

      Of course cuz if she's a gold digger then the rich guy saw that she's about that life & that's xactly y he don't care just like she ain't give him something 2 care about & also she comes off as a 304 & a leech @ the end of the day

  • @lareinadecorazones6563
    @lareinadecorazones6563 2 дні тому +1

    Im getting really confused by the let's be empowered independent men ain't shit woman to lets date focused on money pipeline 😂😂😂😂 its lowkey prostitution...

  • @bsantj
    @bsantj 14 днів тому +3

    18:08
    Just because you are working to be a rich mans wife doesn't mean all of us want that
    If you think what worked for you is going to work for others just because it was easy for you
    Some of us have dreams and aspirations rather than looking good educationally or esthetically to the male gaze
    This is not for all women, if it's your path you are free to follow but if not don't let someone on social media claiming to have their life together make you change your plans

    • @007mooo6
      @007mooo6 12 днів тому +1

      Education is just part of what we have to do to achieve our dreams, it is not for an aesthetic👏
      She just gave stupid advice, what is the point of studying for years, when you aren't going to put the degree to use.

  • @MeMe-ht2hd
    @MeMe-ht2hd 2 дні тому +1

    Thanks for this post. This has been very educational 😅

  • @moonhunter9993
    @moonhunter9993 7 днів тому +2

    Education, education, education! Not money should matter...

  • @bougiehippie
    @bougiehippie 20 днів тому +4

    44:04 this is the women you should listen to. She know what she talking about.

  • @patriciaboateng9675
    @patriciaboateng9675 5 днів тому +1

    I'm not interested in dating or marriage personally, but for the women that do...I think it's more helpful to be with a generous partner regardless of their socioeconomic status than to specifically land a wealthy mate. In other words, shackling yourself to a very rich but equally stingy, cheap, and/or cruel man seems like an exhaustingly h*llish experience to put yourself through. Whereas, being with a person of more modest means who has a provider mentality and generous spirit that genuinely desires to build with you/build you up will ultimately get you (both) a lot further.

  • @agi.kitchen
    @agi.kitchen 17 днів тому +1

    @32:00 redefining/defining correctly the role of “provider” is powerful

  • @YambouSVG
    @YambouSVG 16 днів тому +5

    The second one is too desperate - like why she didn’t leave earlier

  • @OhxPreciousPlease
    @OhxPreciousPlease 14 днів тому +3

    What’s wrong with the manager at Baskin Robins 😂😂😂 see that’s where we start fuckin up TF was that suppose to mean

  • @Curlygurly81
    @Curlygurly81 19 днів тому +8

    2:59 it's because they don't have professional escorts😂😂😂 in Ohio you have to fly to California to hook up with them

  • @gmoors89
    @gmoors89 10 днів тому +5

    18:00 so true. I grew up in the hood of course but simply because I had manners, not high grades but manners. I was considered to be or want to be white😅 my response was black only look good on me the rest of you are an embarrassment. They fought me all year them b**** 😂😂😂

  • @RoNaturalHtx
    @RoNaturalHtx 11 днів тому +2

    “Meeghan!! Your jacket, though!”

  • @rachelhall4808
    @rachelhall4808 20 днів тому +11

    17:30 “I want that for all black women.” That is a ridiculous want, because it is not possible for every single woman of any group to get the exact same thing. I want every single human being to be a millionaire…. See how dumb that sounds. That isn’t even in the realm of possibility. It’s a wish that someone wishes when they don’t live in reality.

    • @K1ngq4t
      @K1ngq4t 19 днів тому +11

      Tell me you didn't get me without telling me. Listen again before being so reactive

    • @rachelhall4808
      @rachelhall4808 19 днів тому +1

      @@K1ngq4t i quoted the person. Am I to believe that it was you? And if within this compilation, you are going through comments to see if anyone has said anything about you that you didn’t like so that you could respond and correct is quite reactionary.

    • @rachelhall4808
      @rachelhall4808 19 днів тому +2

      @@K1ngq4t it was the equivalent of beauty pageant contestants being interviewed saying wish for world peace.

    • @bdh711
      @bdh711 17 днів тому +5

      Don’t take it to heart, people say it all the time she doesn’t mean it literally. Log off and breathe 🧘‍♂️

    • @rachelhall4808
      @rachelhall4808 17 днів тому

      @@bdh711 I don’t make content for the internet. I’m merely commenting on a thing I saw. That is also ok. It’s all going to be ok. I hope you have a fantastic day!

  • @AishaBuycks
    @AishaBuycks 20 днів тому +10

    Bey wouldn't have agreed to marry Jay had he not been Jay!😂

    • @Franzifii
      @Franzifii 8 днів тому +1

      What does she see in him though? He's a weird dusty. She has money so it can't be that. She would be way better off alone.

  • @blackpilledwoman
    @blackpilledwoman 5 днів тому +2

    For that second girl with the long brown hair, I'm not sure why but the first thing to pop in my head was the Walton family that owns Walmart. I have to wonder if the guy that she went out with was a member of the Walton family.

  • @Franzifii
    @Franzifii 8 днів тому +1

    I think it is exactly what I think. I'm just watching this to confirm my suspicions.

  • @Francesca-b8z
    @Francesca-b8z 21 день тому +9

    lol do these know what a “billionaire” is. They’re describing things that a millionaire wouldn’t have the time for 😅

    • @Desmondenae_
      @Desmondenae_ 21 день тому +1

      I don't believe that, rich men are actually some of the strongest ones. They seem to be the ones involved in drugs, a lot of women or escorts because they can. It seems they do everything just because they can and they know they can get away with a lot. I'm sure some will lie but It's not that far fetched

  • @bluebutterflywellness2273
    @bluebutterflywellness2273 3 дні тому

    For some reason this came up in my feed while I was doing chores and I should've instantly switched but it was like watching a car wreck in slow motion...😮

  • @duhamousa5720
    @duhamousa5720 17 днів тому +6

    Was the billionaire story a Rockefeller kid?

  • @nazliayub4786
    @nazliayub4786 6 днів тому +1

    God this was painful to watch as if women are only gold diggers....whatever happened to be rich intellectually, passionate, having your own interests....I guess this is a whole world I know nothing about, but there's something out there for everyone.

  • @TheKriscg
    @TheKriscg 21 день тому +3

    What? Get used to what? No… no ma’am! Whipping it out in front of you? Oh no!

    • @dariowelch888
      @dariowelch888 20 днів тому +1

      Yoo that was wild but true if you do decide to deal with them short term let them get disoriented and be calculating on how you deal with them. Have a game plan.

  • @rati_lol
    @rati_lol 21 день тому +18

    4:01 some girls are lying😂

  • @agi.kitchen
    @agi.kitchen 17 днів тому +1

    @19:00 if I’d had social media when I was 20 I’d be doing exactly what she’s doing and I think she’s one of the smartest women I’ve seen on any social media EVER for sooo many reasons I’ll go into on some video some day

  • @LachelleRenness
    @LachelleRenness 6 днів тому +1

    Wow I’m from San Francisco and NEVER dated a millionaire! Met a lot but damn

  • @kamilahkaashif7759
    @kamilahkaashif7759 3 дні тому

    41:58 I’m happy for this one. I hope she continues to flourish and develop a great relationship.

  • @privateprivate5302
    @privateprivate5302 6 днів тому +1

    What these ladies are saying i"f you want a man with money, blah blah, you'll have to put up with this that"
    Other women will say,
    "Pfft, I'll make my own money. Not glamorized nor mesmerized by SOMEONE ELSE'S 💰 money"..
    To each her own.
    Live your adventures ladies.😒🤷

  • @dezinechic
    @dezinechic 14 днів тому +2

    i mean tell me you h8te yourself without saying you h8te yourself. most mahales detest themselves and i feel the rich ones even moreso do! ultimately i feel/think rich mahales are very weird!

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 11 днів тому +1

    Don’t date messy men!! Men with messy lives!! Little kids and baby mamas they are the worse.

  • @stacylove1170
    @stacylove1170 8 днів тому +2

    17:12 I feel as though real billionaires wouldn’t really need you to bring people into his life in order for him to make money or need you to have some type of qualifications to help him out in the field he’s been succeeding in he obviously wouldn’t want you to be stupid but I’m pretty sure he would want someone that could bring him outside of the whole work life some he can truly love and trust in order to feel at peace when ever he’s away from work but that’s my thoughts maybe there are some out there who are like that

  • @diabolicaldebbie
    @diabolicaldebbie День тому +1

    These women are full of shit. A billionaire or multi-millionaire could easily date a Victoria Secret model or women from their own wealthy class.

  • @agi.kitchen
    @agi.kitchen 17 днів тому +1

    @17:23 as a female who’s having to date again, same applies to males

  • @noi9425
    @noi9425 9 днів тому +1

    Sounds like y’all are dating the ones with the young buck mentality and not the old bull. They’re there just takes a lot of getting yourself together first and vigorous vetting.

  • @sparklemotion8377
    @sparklemotion8377 6 днів тому +1

    Sniper money but still takes him home drunk crawls up to the apparent ehere she left the bedroom door open while dragging the story about sniper money suddenly there was a room mate that could have open the front door.
    I doubt many people will make a Tiktok about sniper money if it was real🙄
    Most annoying humble brag.

  • @planetChristie
    @planetChristie 2 дні тому

    Let’s be real here a lot of these women are not genuinely interested in those guys. They are playing the game and the men see right through it! Real recognize real 😂

  • @Curlygurly81
    @Curlygurly81 19 днів тому +1

    6:17 I never do that I don't do that. Except for when I do😂😂😂😂😂

  • @delightfular9200
    @delightfular9200 День тому

    Sure money makes things easier but love and acceptance makes things joyful. It's worth looking for those attributes too. How does the person make you feel. Do they respect you and treat you well. Do they care about your well being and value your opionion. Do they have a vision of your future together with them. And do they see how they can get there. Do they show genuine intrest in you and the things you want to achieve. Those are such wonderful things to experiance. Nothing to do with money... js. ❤