"Getting a DNA test to see if Griffin is mine" (referred to him as the other guy") "The kids caused Farrah's cancer" "My temper is bad because the kids cause me to get angry" "Tatum met the queen, she had a great childhood" He is the worst!
Narcissistic Sociopaths NEVER take responsibility. My late older sister was exactly like this. And she ruined her relationship with our parents, our siblings and her own children because of it. Having said that, I sincerely believe she was born that way... so I learned not to hate her for it. It's like a rattlesnake. You know it's deadly, so you stay away from rattlesnakes. I knew my sister was toxic to me, so I stayed away from my sister. I hope Tatum has come to this realization and moved on...
I finally realized not only was my sister "faking nice" she truly believed everybody else was faking nice, too. Ryan clearly believes nothing he did was wrong. They just can't see anything from the outside; it's all through the lens of themselves, their wants, their motives. 🤷
People confuse people with Substance Use Disorders with Narcissists, often. There are some similar behaviors, but the underlying disorder is not the same. I’m in the treatment field. Addiction is not an indicator of ASPD. I think Tatum believes what she says about her upbringing because she’s telling the truth, from her perspective. She has never claimed she was addicted at 9-11, not in either of her books, and has said she was 18+, consistently (see Wendy Williams’ interview, for one). In Ryan’s day, people didn’t talk about these topics unless things were so out of control it was undeniable. Tatum described her early influences, and subtle emotional effects that weren’t in his vocabulary. A nurturing parent doesn’t strike back, like he does here, nor do they disrespect their children. If Tatum was delusional, it would be obvious in his mercy and gentle manner.
@@sciencenotstigma9534 I think I understand you correctly, and I wonder if you think anyone here is saying Tatum is manipulative. It's Ryan we're criticizing. He doesn't seem to have been the adult in his relationships with his children. It's behavior we recognize from relationships of our own.
@@MelissaThompson432 I wasn’t sure, from one of the comments but I think I misread the original comment, fs! I’ve been at home sick, watching YT and a bit groggy but I finally got treated and am revisiting the comments. Thanks!
This is so ridiculous and unheard of. How could these children (Griffin & Tatum) cause Farrah to develop rectal cancer. This is absurd. Ryan is not telling the whole truth about anything. He never mentions that he was mentally, emotionally and physically abusive to Farrah. Ryan is a horrid human being.
@@ColtDeehe was the adult. There’s no excuse for a parent to abuse and blame his children for his own actions. Blaming the victim is a classic lousy parent. There’s no excuse to abuse your children. The abuse excuse doesn’t fly for this horrible, narcissistic man.
My heart breaks for Tatum. Her father is a true narcissist.I watched their show when it was on, and he is a textbook narcissist, with a horrible temper. I do not doubt that he was not joking when he said he was a hands on father and that (as he laughs) he strangled them. After seeing him lose his temper on the show, he is totally capable of physical abuse. It is disgusting how he is blaming his daughter. What a coward.
When Tatum tried to slit her wrists. Ryan told her “you did it the wrong way.” Rather than get her psychological help and ask about her general well being. Ryan in several of his interviews has shown a lack of self control along with a lack of parental responsibility. Farrah loved Tatum and vice versa. Farrah very easily could have had a predisposition via her dna and family history. Nothing Tatum or her siblings did were responsible for Farrah’s predisposition to hereditary disease.
Upon seeing this, 11 years after this being posted, I would just say to Ryan, "It all starts with family and in the home!" Don't blame your kids for being wild and out of control! It was YOUR job as a father to BE A FATHER! Teach them right from wrong, teach them morals and how to behave! You were the custodial parent. You destroyed lives, including your own.
It does start with the family & home. I was an old school parent, held my kids responsible, respectful, they worked, bought their own cars, etc unlike my peers. Despite all that, one kid goes the other way at 17? It's not that simple but he could've set more boundaries like I did. Even at 17 I didn't tolerate BS!
Let's not forget about when a 12 year old Tatum slit her wrists and lay in the bathtub and this turd walked in and finds her and he responds You Did It Wrong!!🙄 He meant she cut the wrong way
The sad part is that Tatum was very careful in how she spoke about she negative aspects of her father, and he was all too willing to throw her under the bus. What’s worse that as of now, she’s STILL trying to make it work with him, in spite of a nearly fatal overdose/stroke. She said in an article as of the other day that they have met up, but he still doesn’t return her calls. She needs to let him go and focus on her recovery from her ailments/addictions. He doesn’t deserve her forgiveness.
The sad part is that Tatum doesn't get it. This is NOT about her it's about his Narcisism and ego, hate and manipulation. Tatum it's like trying to kill yourself with drugs to get accountability from a con man. AIN'T going to ever happen.
@@Omnicient.oh these terribly gently women. How dare they be careful to not say bad truths about people who’ve hurt them. 🙄 There must be an evil motive lol😂
@@Omnicient. You do realize that he was the adult right? All his children have problems, so how exactly is "he more honest?" You seem to be a lousy judge of character.
@@user-ir8mf7km6w He said, If WE had never came into her life. No, what he really means is if he alone had NEVER come into Farrha's life. By saying we he's trying to get others to take some of the harsh spotlight off his actions. Yes, he is a typical narcissists. Deep down he knows the guilt really belongs to him..
And I'm surprised at how beautiful Tatum looks; very healthy. During her crazy days, she didn't look as good as she does now. It's such an inspiration to see someone come out of an emotional hell like she experienced. I hope she stays well.
Lyndra Ski, because God/JESUS CHRIST favoured her and blessed her and will make sure she makes it to Heaven but God sic devils on people that he hated before he created the 🌎 World.
@@lauralarrabee7870 The son with Farrah is in jail now and looks, walks and acts like he’s from a holler in Kentucky. Sloppy looking man. Griffin has always had problems too, however he and Tatum both are good looking.
You hit the nail on the head. He deflects it all onto his children, he raised them and "saw them everyday" so if they're so terrible you have to take some responsibility
Watching this interview was so upsetting, and spoke volumes as to why his children were/are so troubled. Newsflash Ryan, your son with Farrah is no prize either. What a toxic & pitiful human being!
Yeah sugarcayenne seven, as if meeting the queen has anything to do with a good childhood. A celebrity lifestyle. While he was doing drugs and chasing women, he wonders why his child didn't turn out right.
Tatum, you are precious, noble, wise, and beautiful. You flourished not because of-but in spite of-your circumstances, which is an exceedingly difficult thing to do. I am proud of you for the grace and restraint with which you conducted yourself in this interview. ❤
People forget her childhood...her beautiful mother was inflicted by drugs, smoked a lot, and died when Tatum was relatively young from lung cancer, too. That's not easy to live through.
She was taken from her Mother at a young age because her and Griffin were not living in a good environment....and she was there holding her Mum's hand when she died 💔 Says a lot about the beautiful woman that she is 🙏❤️
Both of my parents are like this. This man does not like his children. He has serious issues I am so sorry that Tatum and her siblings had to deal with this. Wow.
Yup, full blown narcissist. I was married to one of these evil psycho narcissist freaks for 23 years, they are nothing but master liars and manipulating con artists
I grew up being in love with the "actor " Ryan O'Neal. To grow up and see the real man he is, is sad and disturbing. I now find him to be shallow and a narcissistic. He said Tatum had a great childhood cause she met the Queen. She would have had a greater childhood if she had his love and attention.
He is a total narcissist. He takes no responsibility for anything. I feel sorry for his kids. It’s unbelievable that he blames Tatum for Farrah’s death.
This jerk doesn't understand that parents dump all their dysfunctions into their children. Then when their children reflect those dysfunctions back to them, they blame the kids; complete denial.
Ryan O'Neal will only look in the mirror to check his hair, never to take responsibility for his actions or lack thereof. He's a gaslighting narcissist
craig Redmond is a lunatic he was recently arrested for going on a stabbing spree in california stabbing several people so hey dont even try to blame his father for the sons insane behavior these kids are druggies spoiled and anyone who ranks out his parent is garbage - he needs to take responsib ility for his own behavior hes a failure as a son
"She had a wonderful childhood, she met Queen Elizabeth" 😂 this man has NO idea what defines a wonderful childhood because he was not capable of providing it to his kids. He destroyed everyone who was unfortunate enough to be in his miserable life. Blames EVERYONE but himself. He is the true definition of a sociopathic narcissist. What a damn cruel man😡
I hope he's on an episode of Soul Crossings with Cash Peters. I'd really like to see how his experience impacts him. Such a different perspective than the Pearly Gates and St Peter. Much more realistic.
He ruined his children’s lives!! He’s a narcissist and while Farrah laid in bed dying of cancer he attempted to shoot his son Redmond in the face. Kids lead by example and Ryan brung drugs in front of his kids at a early age. He’s got so much anger and what a terrible man for taking his insecurities and putting them on his children. Tatum is almost begging for a relationship with her dad. So sad 😞 that one man can destroy so many lives. Farrahs last words she cried out for her son. He’s alone on drugs in trouble with the law and has a narcissist father.
His comment about having a DNA test done really hit home. My dad once said "maybe he's not mine" when referring to my brother, and, periodically, asks if my brother has submitted the DNA test kit I sent to him (...I bought one for each of us to find the extent of our European background). That is just as insulting to my late mom as it is to my brother. I have, repeatedly told my dad that the results would be the same as mine anyway (...which I submitted several years ago). Dad has also said (of my brother)..."maybe he'll die" and, when I push him to say something nice to my brother (...like..."I'm proud of you"), Dad's response is "why?". Not once in my brother's 66 years has my dad told him he is proud of him...it's heartbreaking!! My brother is very talented (...a great cook and painter) and Mensa-level-intelligent, and Dad seems to be jealous of him, even though he (Dad) is as intelligent and talented. Dad has said "people say he (my brother) is a good cook...I don't see it"; "people say he's intelligent...I don't see it", and on, and on. Yes, my brother has dabbled in drugs (mostly just grass), and hasn't been particularly successful financially, but instead of boosting my brother's morale by saying something nice to him, Dad would rather dismiss him. He's embarrassed by my brother's presence and doesn't see the connection with his lack of attention AT ALL. Dad has been a good provider, and we always had a home, meals, and material things. He, along with my mom, taught us to be responsible, safety-conscious, creative, caring people (the 'caring' part was more Mom), so it's confusing to hear what he says about my brother, and I feel cruddy if and/or when I reveal stuff (as mentioned above)...but it isn't fair to take his insecurities out on my brother. My relatives think my dad is so lovely, while putting my brother down as a loser...not realizing my dad puts them down when they aren't around. It's unnerving and sad.
Judith Fabian, That's really sad but I'm going to tell you it's even worst, over trillions times worst when the Creator, God that created and treated me to go to Hell and be eternally separated from him and especially when I did everything to please him. That's what's trillions times worst. I begged, pleaded, cried and wailed before God/JESUS CHRIST to Love me but he refused to come live inside of me.
Yes, Ryan is clearly emotionally abusive. I don’t care what happened…you don’t condemn your kidspublicly. Based on his behavior since Tatum wrote an entire book forgiving and expressing love and understanding of him, I think she deserves better, too. She has not said a negative thing about him in years. If he’s ego driven enough to trash his kids on TV now, I’m sure they went through a lot with him, growing up.
@@jeanmeullion6641ou have to be open to spiritual guidance to receive it. It helped me to see a counselor and find out what was blocking my faith. Now I have been able to rekindle it. I’m sure the creator loves you. You were created in his image!. Hope, healing, and blessings to you. 🙌❤️🩹😇
@@dianakidd4219 I never met a kid who easily accepted their step-parent. That’s just being a kid. Parents in our generation (Tatum’s) often expected us to be small adults, which isn’t fair. There are exceptions to any rule but, as a rule, blended families are difficult for kids to accept.
Classic behaviour for a narcissist. If it makes them look bad it didn't happen. Ryan reminds me a lot of my own father. I ended the relationship over 20 yrs ago. I realized he was never going to change and I had to save myself. He appears to be very angry with Tatum. She committed the ultimate sin in the eyes of a narcissistic parent - she talked about the abuse and exposed him for who he is. He'll never forgive her. He's resented his daughter ever since she won the oscar for, Paper Moon, and he didn't. Can u imagine how much that hurt is ego? Clearly he gave the best performance in that film (in his mind). He was wronged not getting that oscar.
@@donnaking7439 Seek Help he is the reason she is dead if not for him screwing around she would be with her son Redmann and he would not be in the mess he is in now look up his story with his kids all except Patrick Patrick's mother left Ryan and took her son far away look up HPV and how it leads to the cancer Farrah died from HPV is transferred from sexual contact Ryan was never a faithful man I was fooled too I thought they had this great love story it was a lie
Narcissists are so utterly delusional they don't even try to hide it. They have no clue it is so blatantly on show. This video should be used in psychology classes
I am in shock from the evil vibes this man gives off, sadly she will never get the remorse she needs from him to move forward, she will have to learn to finally except that daddy is to selfish to ever help his kids heal from his narcissistic parenting!
I don't get evil vibes from him, any more than I get not-so-nice vibes from her. She was already messed up from her alcoholic mother, when she went to live w/Ryan. He loved her and was nice to her. He had problems of his own, but people are that way. She's had problems from a very young age. Ryan didn't resolve them, but he didn't cause them, is how I see it. Yes, he's narcissistic, like every other actor. They all are. Even Tatum.
@@Honeycombe88 WTF is wrong with you? The man is a narcissistic woman-beater. He is a walking shitstain. He destroyed his own Hollywood career because he was so unpleasant and arrogant--not to mention violent--that no one wanted to work with him. Why in the world are you defending someone who beats women and blames his ex's death on his own child? You should be ashamed of yourself.
Sure, he has 3 kids & they all turn out to be alcoholic drug addicts. But that has nothing to do with him, it's mommy's fault. WTF? Tatum & Ryan were inseparable during & after Paper Moon. She was like his puppy dog that he took to Hollywood parties& night clubs, only she was 10. She won an Oscar for her performance but her father didn't & being the narcissistic dick that he is, he was jealous & angry. This poor child attended the Oscars & won without either of her parents there to show support or how proud they were. She became the youngest Oscar winner in a competitive category & it still stands, but for Tatum I'm sure it hurt & caused her 10 year old brain to be confused.
@@ruthdevisser2526 true that...I think he was just projecting his guilt and culpability onto me. Sad thing is that he passed last week, although I am still hurt by the things he said I know they came from a place of a place of pain. He never bothered to address his mental health issues and hurt everyone around him in the process. I'm certain that when he was standing before his maker the impact of all the things he did and said were made crystal clear.
What a jerk. I feel for Tatum. Watching this reminds me of my feelings toward my mom and how she thought she gave me such a great childhood. Is that what she calls beating the crap out of me? A great childhood? She took no responsibility for how she treated me. Never admitted to any wrongdoing. Some people have no right being parents. We hadn’t spoken for 13 years. I went to see her before she died from Pancreatic cancer because I wanted peace. We had a nice visit and I wanted to start seeing her regularly. She said fine and then she messaged me and told me not to visit anymore. At least I am at peace knowing I really tried.
Understand you completely. My mother made me feel worthless because I was a fat kid. She told me that I didn't deserve love, friends, boyfriends, new clothes or to be treated like my sisters because I was fat. I was her "shame". After they die, you find your self- worth and move on with your life...be happy.
tatum is a huge failure who wants so desperately to be in the spotlight but she is nothing no class no style no looks shes jealous of dads success and of Farrahs too
@@amberlyoness555 I doubt that. She didn't have the most stellar career, but she done well for a while. As far as her scumbag Dad, he was a Megastar. But when people heard about his personal life, his career went down in flames as he was considered box office poison in Hollywood and no one wanted to hire him. Farrah had a great career, but was dragged down by that giant shit stain of a hubby of hers and he caused her career to plummet. Tatum wasn't jealous of her father, but she hated him for years of abuse endured by the one who was supposed to love and protect her as a child.
Ripping your adult kids on tv wow. He also does this time and time again with relatives and friends.....how do you think that makes your adult kids feel. Maybe his kids had adhd, maybe they just needed you to be there. Gross
Ryan is a horrible man and a worse father. He used to beat Farrah Fawcett and Anjelica Huston when he dated them. All of Ryan's children have struggled with drug addiction and alcoholism throughout their lives. It starts at home. He takes no responsibility for introducing his children to drugs and creating a dysfunctional family. His youngest son Redmond was recently arrested for attempted murder, robbery and assault after he tried robbing a convenience store! Ryan you failed as a father.
@@tiredgirl50 Jack and Anjelica dated on and off for years. During one of their break ups in the late 70s Anjelica dated Ryan. She wrote about it in her book.
Addiction is a DISEASE ... you inherit it. You don't have to live it or see it around you, its in your genes. I have 4 kids and 1 pulled the short straw from a genetic pool from the male side. I love how people blame the parents for everything and forget that kids spend more time out of the home with peers than they do their parents. They are great manipulators and liars - parents generally only know what the kids want and allow them to know. Not saying he didn't mess up -- but I doubt he's the monster ppl are making him out to be. Also, at what point does a grown up child take responsibility for their own behaviour.
@@AndreaKollo Tatum does take responsibility, she talks about it all the time. But he IS a monster. He beat all his kids & he beat Farah & even broke her nose. So much for the crocodile tears for Farah now.
Sorry to say this but I would have to run far away if Ryan O Neal was my father. He surely messes with your head. You can just see it in this clip. What a screw head.
Holy moly. Barry Lyndon has been one of my favourite movies of all time since I first saw it 10+ years ago. Oftentimes when people ask what is my absolute #1, I'll name Lyndon over Goodfellas and Once Upon a Time in the West. I've never looked up anything about the actor, and randomly came across this. The similarity between himself and Redmond Barry is absolutely uncanny, I'm blown away. The narcissicm, the bad family relations, the blaming everyone else for their own problems.
I've always thought that's why it worked so well. With paper moon it's a similar story and even more profound because Tatum, his daughter is in the movie.
Ryan O'Neal you're a spineless weak coward, you always have been. I'm your age and I take responsibility for what I an adult did or didn't do to my family and or my children especially. Is everything absolutely perfect of course not but I believe they were born innocent children and my husband and I screwed up plenty. Some things worked out fabulous other things worked out lousy. I have done everything I know how to do to try to make it up to my children and I've been blessed with a bunch of grandkids now. And I try to be there for them in a positive way. You and your first wife have to be responsible for your children, and I'm sorry that Farrah Fawcett got cancer and passed away. I too have had cancer and I was very very blessed and lucky to survive. but when people speak of anybody that has passed on and you've always done this especially with Farrah that she was perfect she had no mistakes no failings no weaknesses no nothing wrong with her she was perfect. Well sorry that's not true either and your children did not destroy her. You're so shallow and weak and to blame your children for your mistakes your first wife's mistakes and Ferris. You need to open up your eyes and your mind if it's not too screwed up and look at the truth. To Tatum to Griffin and to Redmond you guys need to step up and take responsibility for some of your actions. And stand up and be the kind of person you want for your children don't copy your dad or your mother or anyone be who you are and take responsibilities on your lives.
yeah tatum or tantrum as she is called a dope addicted ego manic illiterate jack ass and now quite over the hill by hollywood standards so she attacks her parent to get attention - no class
I can't believe he would go on TV and place such outrageous blame on his own daughter. I'm guessing Tatum O'Neal had so many problems in her life because he was such a terrible father.
Farrah’s story mimics Jill Ireland’s. Both were more afraid of what chemo would do and HOW THEIR HUSBANDS WOULD REACT TO THE SIDE AFFECTS. Farrah, trying to save her hair, put off life saving intervention. Jill Ireland, battling breast cancer was afraid Charles Bronson wouldn’t ‘see me as a sexy woman anymore.’ Then there is the lovely husband of Anne Jillian who also hesitated having a mastectomy, but he said ‘Your breasts are now bullets aimed right at your heart. YOU are who I want to save, not the bullets.’ It’s easy to see in retrospect how the women SHOULD HAVE HAD BETTER SUPPORT AROUND THEM, and Anne is still with us and Jill and Farrah are not. Instead of facing his blinding narcissism, it becomes his children’s fault. No way I believe Farrah turned to HIS CHILDREN for advice, certainly both women KNEW what mattered most to their husbands……which is incredibly sad.
"I have a son that's been arrested 40 times. I don't mean Redmond--the other guy" ...WHO talks like that in regards to his own son?!!! Such a weirdo and a horrible, cruel man
I agree Deborah. He killed her with his narcissism. He’s the reason for all of the pain that his children tried to mask with drugs. My sons father is a narcissist...they never change. God Bless you Tatum. Much Love 💜🙏
@@ursulamullikin4723 Sadly... He DOESNT know it. Because he will NEVER "GET IT." Smh... He will always flat out DENY IT. Because, that's what Narcissists DO. Blame EVERYBODY ELSE, but themselves... Griffin, Redmond, or, Tatum. The Mailman, the garbage man...the dog, the mosquitoes... ANYONE...BUT, HIMSELF... He, is AN IDIOT. A JERK. A CREEP. A CONMAN. HE TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIS OWN DAUGHTER, TATUM, IN HIS OWN BED, WHILE HE WAS HIGH... And continues to deny it...POOR TATUM... 😞 He said he wants a DNA TEST, on his own son, who looks just like him.... RYAN IS A DISGUSTING PIG. Fyi... NO amount of therapy, can EVER CURE A NARCISSIST. Sadly...thats a known fact. 😞 I WISH that he knew he did all of this...Created this ENTIRE MESS... But, true Narcissists NEVER admit to ANYTHING BAD. Poor Farrah, Tatum, Redmond and Griffin... and ALL the rest, deserved SO MUCH MORE... 😢 I WISH, that Ryan could rot in HELL, for ETERNITY.
he said some pretty nasty things about his own kids. also, I don't think this guy had anything going for him at all accept his looks (in his younger days.) he seems to have many, many, issues. Tatum seems much smarter and much more credible than her father, no doubt.
Never liked Ryan O'Neal. He's throwing his kids under the bus to save his hide !! He blames his kids for everything -- doesn't take responsibility for anything !! I'll always remember him as a JERK !
This dude left his kids alone and moved in with Farrah. Basically he chose his needs over the needs of his kids. Tatum was 15 at the time and was left with the care of her brother Griffin. Ryan O'Neal helped raise 3 of his 4 children and the 3 that were left to his care all ended up with substance abuse issues. Can't stand the man, but love, love, love his daughter Tatum and wish for her the happiness that she so deserves.
Dar Con With that being said, it's amazing how true to life the characters and the performance was in Paper Moon of him not wanting anything to do with his daughter and forsaking her whenever some piece of ass came along and also just wanting to drop her off with her aunt so he would have no responsibility. Ryan's character didn't even want to admit she was his daughter and I'm pretty sure it was like that in real life. The writers of that movie chose the actors very wisely. It was just uncanny.
This interview clearly shows that Ryan is the problem. Ryan's children have been put through a lot as targets for his misplaced anger and blame. It appears as though Ryan sadly is the child who never grew up.
Ryan O'Neil will never make peace with Tatum. She was the adult in the room. She sounds like the voice of reason. He treated Farrah badly for years until the end! He takes no responsibility for anything. It is sad that so many broken lives are a result.
“The other guy” is how he references his son? Arrested 40xs definitely has something to do with lousy parenting. This man is unkind & cowardly for placing blame on others.
We ALL want to blame something when we are hurt. But you cannot blame anyone for cancer in another person! It is quite clear that Ryan is doing everything to excuse himself and take NO BLAME for what has happened to him and his family. Shameful and sad. He is SO self-centered, he just can NOT see anything wrong in himself!
I have had 3 kinds of cancer so far as well as recently developed Lupus and 3 other autoimmune disorders! I had narcissistic parents and a sister and my physical health is very affected as was my mental coping skills ! I have just graduated from a hospital program for people with my types of illnesses. The basis for the program is how these long term assaults on our systems affect our physical health. I had to wait 3 years to get in and it was totally worth it.
His acting skills are gone. He can no longer pretend not to be a selfish, unaccountable narcissist. Blame blame blame. Typical narcissist behavior. Blame the kids, act innocent. He is awful. I am surprised Tatum ended up so well put-together. Probably had to go through years of therapy to undo the damage he ingrained in her. She looks great, speaks articulately, and makes a lot of sense. Her journey must have been a long and painful one to get where she is now.
I am a self admitted narcissist myself...yes this guy is a true narcissist all the characteristics I have are there with him. I am trying really hard to have more empathy towards others and have come a long way...I do not see this guy ever changing.
hairyscotman Someone or maybe many, may have envied beautiful, stunning Farrah to the point they cursed & wished her to end up with a loser like him. I know cuz it happened to me. Many yrs later I discovered my first bf's mother AND also my 2nd bfs mother BOTH put a curse on me. 2nd bf was a narcissist who was also an alcoholic, drug addict & smoker. I was cursed by my 1st bfs mother to only meet & be with loser men & THAT's why I ended up with the 2nd one who was a drug addicted alcoholic. Thank God 1st wicked witch is dead but the 2nd one STILL lives at 92 & still trying to finish me off BUT IT AIN'T GOING to HAPPEN cuz I HAVE GOD ON MY SIDE! Smh
Prime example of a selfish parent. Disgusting. Maybe his daughter was a coke addict, a difficult child, etc. but that should never give you the right to blatantly blame your child for the cause of your girlfriend's cancer. She was probably hurt to see him with Farrah. That's a normal reaction for a kid to have.
Yes. someone is missing a sensitivity chip. The addictions and traumas get passed Down, not UP, jackhole. The reason he doesn't get better is because narcissists can't. They have ZERO capacity for insight. He's repellant.
"She had a wonderful childhood, she met Queen Elizabeth". WOW!! You couldn't write a more perfect movie line, if your goal was to depict a horrendous, abusive, narcissistic father--lacking, in any sort of insight or self awareness.
I was thinking the same thing who cares .Tatum made a comment on a another talk show one time he said to her you traveled the world as a child and met the Queen of England she has nothing to complain about. Really Ryan how about Not allowing drugs around your children, when they were growing up, not punching your son in the face and knocking out two of his front teeth. I remember when that happened back in the early Eighties I could go on all of your children are messed up he is a lousy excuse for a man, father, and a human being.
She wasn’t even bashing him and he was acting as if she was going off! Puts all the responsibility off on everyone else for him being a crappy person. Unbelievable!
ScattySafari 😀👍 Yep. She sure did. Tatum says in the course of that time she instigated drama between Cher and Raquel Welch. Also, as child Chas Bono was a little envious of the relationship that Cher developed with Tatum.
This guy is so full of himself, it's disgusting. Completely self-absorbed and self-righteous. It's all about him, never about the pain that his children suffered. I can spot abusive parents a mile away by the way they speak about their "parenting methods" or lack thereof.
what a sad individual, I would never trash my kids in public no matter what they said or did. And if my kids behaved badly I would hold myself responsible for having contributed to their behaviour. He cant accept any responsibility for his own mistakes! P.S Love you Tatum x
It's terrible to talk about your children in that way, Ryan has to take responsibility for his children's behavior and mostly his own. No one's perfect we all make mistakes, but it's sad to give someone vision when they are so blind. He clearly has alot of anger inside. He needs to sort himself out and start showing love and respect towards his kids
He's a terrible human being and father. Even when she won her Academy Award for Paper Moon at age 8 he couldn't be bothered to come and support her (probably out of jealousy). He should be utterly ashamed of himself.
Nat R She claims when she came home that night, he hit her, probably out of jealousy. She also said in her book that as a teenager, Melanie Griffith was her best friend. I can’t remember if there was a sleepover, but she woke up to her dad & Melanie having sex. If that’s true, even if he didn’t touch Tatum sexually, that’s considered child sexual abuse.
Nat R I am glad he did not come he would have stole her moment she was 10 not 8 when she won he was off doing a movie anyway and when she called to say she had won he was with a woman in a motel
Wow. He has this fantastic daughter... talented, beautiful, just wants his love and he cant even tell her that hes proud of her and he loves her. Very very sad.
Lambchopxoxo I guess thats one lie he is not capable of telling because he certainly does not feel those things for her the sad thing is a decade or so back in 2001 i believe when he was diagnosed with Leukemia who came to his side? Farrah? No Tatum did the daughter he treated like dirt as a child and abused and still continues to she took care of him nursed him back to health so many good men have died since then and this piece of shit is still kicking it pisses me off
Man, he must have been PISSED when she grabbed an Oscar for Paper Moon. What a narcissistic injury! Maybe the Academy knew what he was and wanted to turn the knife a wee bit?
Rainbo poor kid she was exposed to so much adult shit at the time. He was very irresponsible and selfish. Sucked in to him that she got the oscar but it probably triggered a deepseated hatred and jealousy of her from childhood. Not her fault at all...
Anita ' S I agree. Children are just projection screens of these types. They aren't even people. He is a disgusting asshole. She had a struggle and became an addict...and is sober. She's a hell of alot stronger than him. He never saw anything because HE is the only one in his world. Any real father would say, "She remembers it all differently, but I am.proud of how far she's come and I love her." They don't call her a liar and defend their narky behavior.
What brought me here was a Wendy Williams interview of Tatum. I had zero clue about their family of origin. He is projecting , when he blames the children for Farrahs death. Imagine how he must have treated her for 30 yrs. !!! He has traits of being a malignant narcissist and nobody needs a degree to see that he has wrecked every life he has entered. I have no doubt his inability to self regulate his emotions , during his life contributed to his children’s addictions and his partners early death - even tho , according to him she was the epitome of health. He just isn’t telling us about the psychological abuse she endured loving w a psychopath.
Ryan O’Neal is a malignant narcissist and that shines through so clearly in this interview. I had the pleasure of knowing Tatum for a brief time when she was going through some very hard stuff and trying to pull her life back together (which she has done, beautifully). She is an inspiration. Ryan should have been kicked out of Hollywood decades ago. I liked the show “Bones” (it was good, fun fluff for those nights I just didn’t feel up anything important like Mad Men, Breaking Bad, or any of the amazing shows of the last few decades) but every time he appeared as Bone’s (Dr. Temperance Brennan) father I could barely watch and even turned it off a few times. His character abandoned Bone’s and her brother when she was a kid, which resulted in her being raised in the foster system but as an adult he gets completely forgiven and finally gets to be the great dad (and grandfather) that Bone’s always wanted. It was just so close to his real life except the character was a good guy. He is a convincing actor. Too bad he can’t (and couldn’t) act like a good father in real life, without a script!
osofine I always think of Ryan O’Neal as my parents’ generation’s Charlie Sheen. Decent, convincing actors, but can’t convince people in real life that they’re decent humans, at least not for long. I can feel sorry for people with problems, but with some people, my compassion runs out.
While I appreciate your comments about Tatum O'Neal. your comments about television show why it's called the idiot box. You seem to take television a little too seriously, tbh.
Sweetpea no she was a real female. She started out as a model tham moved into acting. Was married when she started her affair with Ryan. It was the beginning of a roller coaster life with an alcoholic.
Ryan O'Neal was an EPICALLY negligent, horrible, awful father. Just read Tatum's book and you'll see what a miracle it is that she and her brother are even alive. The nerve of him to blame bad-mouth his children and say he was a great father.
And a veryyyyy bad cheating husband. A narcissist as a husband or as a parent is the worst. He made a whole trace of victims. Two ex wifes, Farah and all his kids , and even grandkids, are troubled and messed up. Tatums kids because she was messed up due to her dad and got on drugs. And he still blames everyone accept himself 🚩
My father won't apologize for being a selfish father even if it means estrangement from his son (me). Parents who can't take responsibility for the things they did to their kids were never cut out to be parents anyway.
My boyfriend is a narcissist. Its extremely hard to love a narcissistic person. As hard as I try, he makes it that much harder with his lack of empathy, his ego, his "never my fault" mentality. Ugh.
I'm sorry that happened to you. My verbally abusive mother had narcissistic tendencies and was/is extremely selfish and manipulative. It's rough. I'm glad you're doing okay.
"Getting a DNA test to see if Griffin is mine" (referred to him as the other guy")
"The kids caused Farrah's cancer"
"My temper is bad because the kids cause me to get angry"
"Tatum met the queen, she had a great childhood"
He is the worst!
She died from Sodomy cancer not because of her children.
Sounds like Ryan doesn’t want to take any blame for his mistakes
@@GTKJNow she died from anal cancer stupid!
@@GTKJNow lol you are nasty.
@@GTKJNow Never heard of this cancer.
Narcissistic Sociopaths NEVER take responsibility. My late older sister was exactly like this. And she ruined her relationship with our parents, our siblings and her own children because of it. Having said that, I sincerely believe she was born that way... so I learned not to hate her for it. It's like a rattlesnake. You know it's deadly, so you stay away from rattlesnakes. I knew my sister was toxic to me, so I stayed away from my sister. I hope Tatum has come to this realization and moved on...
I have a similar story with a sibling too. Same thing she ruined all her relationships and takes no accountability
I finally realized not only was my sister "faking nice" she truly believed everybody else was faking nice, too. Ryan clearly believes nothing he did was wrong. They just can't see anything from the outside; it's all through the lens of themselves, their wants, their motives. 🤷
People confuse people with Substance Use Disorders with Narcissists, often. There are some similar behaviors, but the underlying disorder is not the same. I’m in the treatment field. Addiction is not an indicator of ASPD. I think Tatum believes what she says about her upbringing because she’s telling the truth, from her perspective. She has never claimed she was addicted at 9-11, not in either of her books, and has said she was 18+, consistently (see Wendy Williams’ interview, for one). In Ryan’s day, people didn’t talk about these topics unless things were so out of control it was undeniable. Tatum described her early influences, and subtle emotional effects that weren’t in his vocabulary. A nurturing parent doesn’t strike back, like he does here, nor do they disrespect their children. If Tatum was delusional, it would be obvious in his mercy and gentle manner.
@@sciencenotstigma9534 I think I understand you correctly, and I wonder if you think anyone here is saying Tatum is manipulative. It's Ryan we're criticizing. He doesn't seem to have been the adult in his relationships with his children. It's behavior we recognize from relationships of our own.
@@MelissaThompson432 I wasn’t sure, from one of the comments but I think I misread the original comment, fs! I’ve been at home sick, watching YT and a bit groggy but I finally got treated and am revisiting the comments. Thanks!
Wow, he’s a real piece of work. My heart goes out to his children.
🤭
This is probably the nicest thing that could be said about that man, realistically.
He should be behind bars, pos
Tatum = drugs
@@brankotopal2802Tatum has struggled with addiction. Nobody =Drugs!
My heart goes out to Ryan’s adult children. On TV Ryan blames his kids for Farrah’s cancer, which is brutally abusive.
This is so ridiculous and unheard of. How could these children (Griffin & Tatum) cause Farrah to develop rectal cancer. This is absurd. Ryan is not telling the whole truth about anything. He never mentions that he was mentally, emotionally and physically abusive to Farrah. Ryan is a horrid human being.
hurt people say unnational things, who knows where the truth lies?
@@ColtDeehe was the adult. There’s no excuse for a parent to abuse and blame his children for his own actions. Blaming the victim is a classic lousy parent. There’s no excuse to abuse your children. The abuse excuse doesn’t fly for this horrible, narcissistic man.
She died from Sodomy cancer, Google it.
@@ColtDee so what you are saying is that children can cause anal cancer? What a trite and stupid response.
My heart breaks for Tatum. Her father is a true narcissist.I watched their show when it was on, and he is a textbook narcissist, with a horrible temper. I do not doubt that he was not joking when he said he was a hands on father and that (as he laughs) he strangled them. After seeing him lose his temper on the show, he is totally capable of physical abuse. It is disgusting how he is blaming his daughter. What a coward.
rhon715 its a miracle he didn’t end up killing anybody 😳 he pulled a gun on griffin and knocked his teeth out- what a monster 😡
When Tatum tried to slit her wrists. Ryan told her “you did it the wrong way.” Rather than get her psychological help and ask about her general well being. Ryan in several of his interviews has shown a lack of self control along with a lack of parental responsibility. Farrah loved Tatum and vice versa. Farrah very easily could have had a predisposition via her dna and family history. Nothing Tatum or her siblings did were responsible for Farrah’s predisposition to hereditary disease.
You are right a true narcissist. He is an evil sick man.
He was gaslighting his own daughter.. hes horrific
Your daughter would NOT say anything about you.
ARE YOU DEAF RYAN
Upon seeing this, 11 years after this being posted, I would just say to Ryan, "It all starts with family and in the home!" Don't blame your kids for being wild and out of control! It was YOUR job as a father to BE A FATHER! Teach them right from wrong, teach them morals and how to behave! You were the custodial parent. You destroyed lives, including your own.
Awful man
I can barely watch him he ooze’s nastiness
It does start with the family & home. I was an old school parent, held my kids responsible, respectful, they worked, bought their own cars, etc unlike my peers. Despite all that, one kid goes the other way at 17? It's not that simple but he could've set more boundaries like I did. Even at 17 I didn't tolerate BS!
Let's not forget about when a 12 year old Tatum slit her wrists and lay in the bathtub and this turd walked in and finds her and he responds You Did It Wrong!!🙄 He meant she cut the wrong way
Arrogant, Narcisstic, brutal ***hole!! 😡
I know Tatum. My heart goes out to her. She suffers a lot. She needs prayers not condemnation.
She has mine. Well spoken woman who seems to have pulled her life together. People fuck up. The true measure is what you do after you fuck up...
She’s had a therapist to help her, glad she fixed herself.
She is so beautiful. I remember when she was little. Poor girl. Her dad was so messed up!
I got to know Tatum this year. Truly a kind person. I pray for her often to overcome.
@Lucia C, "Her dad was so messed up" is the understatement of the century! That man had/has no business being a father!
The sad part is that Tatum was very careful in how she spoke about she negative aspects of her father, and he was all too willing to throw her under the bus. What’s worse that as of now, she’s STILL trying to make it work with him, in spite of a nearly fatal overdose/stroke. She said in an article as of the other day that they have met up, but he still doesn’t return her calls. She needs to let him go and focus on her recovery from her ailments/addictions. He doesn’t deserve her forgiveness.
The sad part is that Tatum doesn't get it.
This is NOT about her it's about his Narcisism and ego, hate and manipulation.
Tatum it's like trying to kill yourself with drugs to get accountability from a con man.
AIN'T going to ever happen.
I found her gentle approach to be manipulation in order to garner sympathy whilst Ryan seemed to be more honest.
Say NO to anal sex. She died from Sodomy cancer, Google it.
@@Omnicient.oh these terribly gently women. How dare they be careful to not say bad truths about people who’ve hurt them. 🙄 There must be an evil motive lol😂
@@Omnicient. You do realize that he was the adult right? All his children have problems, so how exactly is "he more honest?"
You seem to be a lousy judge of character.
This should be mandatory showing in all psychology classes as an actual interview with a narcissist.
But he took responsibility for causing Farrah's sickness - a Narcissist would never do this.
@@user-ir8mf7km6w he yelled at Farrah...you can't be sick...I am the sick one
Completely agreed @S Hyde ....Completely!
Cruel bastard.
@@user-ir8mf7km6w He said, If WE had never came into her life. No, what he really means is if he alone had NEVER come into Farrha's life. By saying we he's trying to get others to take some of the harsh spotlight off his actions. Yes, he is a typical narcissists. Deep down he knows the guilt really belongs to him..
With family like that you don't need any enemies. Poor Tatum :(
"Yeah I have a temper but it's my kids fault because they weren't perfect."
He disgusts me.
What an fnnnnnnn asshole ! Liar !
jealous!!!!
To quite the great Steve Martin: Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuse meeeeee!!
He is a chauvinist as well as a narcissistic bully.
"do i have a temper or did something set me off during the course of the day?"
And I'm surprised at how beautiful Tatum looks; very healthy. During her crazy days, she didn't look as good as she does now. It's such an inspiration to see someone come out of an emotional hell like she experienced. I hope she stays well.
Lyndra Ski, because God/JESUS CHRIST favoured her and blessed her and will make sure she makes it to Heaven but God sic devils on people that he hated before he created the 🌎 World.
I think Tatum caused her own, and others, emotional hell
She looks so well adjusted and happier without Ryan in her life. So does Griffin.
@@lauralarrabee7870
The son with Farrah is in jail now and looks, walks and acts like he’s from a holler in Kentucky. Sloppy looking man. Griffin has always had problems too, however he and Tatum both are good looking.
Didn’t she have a stroke from an overdose? It’s very sad
I lived with a narcissist for 14 years and they can NEVER take responsibility for anything or ever say sorry. They actually don't get it.
They get it....they are just THAT evil !!!!
You hit the nail on the head. He deflects it all onto his children, he raised them and "saw them everyday" so if they're so terrible you have to take some responsibility
@faultroy You should really seek some sort of therapy man, you're losing it!
Totally agree, I was with one for 10 years and experienced exactly that!
@faultroy You are seriously deluded, just like Ryan O'Neal. Get help NOW!!!
Watching this interview was so upsetting, and spoke volumes as to why his children were/are so troubled. Newsflash Ryan, your son with Farrah is no prize either. What a toxic & pitiful human being!
"She had a wonderful childhood, she met Queen Elizabeth"
WTF?!
😂👍
Yeah I know hes fucked up.
Right!? I thought that was hilarious!
Yeah sugarcayenne seven, as if meeting the queen has anything to do with a good childhood. A celebrity lifestyle. While he was doing drugs and chasing women, he wonders why his child didn't turn out right.
Yeah, Ha!
Tatum, you are precious, noble, wise, and beautiful. You flourished not because of-but in spite of-your circumstances, which is an exceedingly difficult thing to do. I am proud of you for the grace and restraint with which you conducted yourself in this interview. ❤
Wow! This man plays the victim so well.
Anita James not really, don’t believe him one bit
I agree.
That's a narcissist for you.
He reminds me of my dad…
He abused his kids and Farrah - blaming his daughter for her death that shows what kind of person he really is
News flash Ryan, cancer is very often caused by genetics!
@@pussycats456 Her specific cancer (anal) is almost always (91%) caused by oncogenic strains of the HPV virus.
Word is he gave her hpv and that's what led to the anal cancer.
Maybe he was thinking of that, when he felt kinda responsible ?
People forget her childhood...her beautiful mother was inflicted by drugs, smoked a lot, and died when Tatum was relatively young from lung cancer, too. That's not easy to live through.
She died in the 90s tatum was in her 30s
Yes she has lived a tough life, her mother was Joanna Moore and Tatum is just as beautiful as her mother. I pray for them all
She was taken from her Mother at a young age because her and Griffin were not living in a good environment....and she was there holding her Mum's hand when she died 💔 Says a lot about the beautiful woman that she is 🙏❤️
Both of my parents are like this. This man does not like his children. He has serious issues I am so sorry that Tatum and her siblings had to deal with this. Wow.
My dad is like this also
What a narcissist. Blaming his kids for his temper. Creep.
Yup, full blown narcissist. I was married to one of these evil psycho narcissist freaks for 23 years, they are nothing but master liars and manipulating con artists
and Farrah's cancer
It’s amazing that his children have survived him.
He takes absolutely no responsibility for being a awful person and father.
It's so easy for tatum to go on and bashing ryan. Why doesn't she leave ryan alone? He loved his beautiful farrah and tatum can't stand in.
@@loril6437O'Neal is a psychopath. He is incapable of love. The only person who matters - who has ever mattered - to Ryan O'Neal, is Ryan O'Neal.
He is a loser, fail as a parent, no career redeems you, and boy, he is one rubbish parent
@Lori L. Drugs, and Alcohol due have huge part in Ryan O Neal. Narcissism as well mental health issues.
@Lori L, You've got to be kidding?! Are you serious?? This guy(ryan o'neal) is a complete a**hole! If you can't see it I feel sorry for you!
I grew up being in love with the "actor " Ryan O'Neal. To grow up and see the real man he is, is sad and disturbing. I now find him to be shallow and a narcissistic.
He said Tatum had a great childhood cause she met the Queen. She would have had a greater childhood if she had his love and attention.
He is a total narcissist. He takes no responsibility for anything. I feel sorry for his kids. It’s unbelievable that he blames Tatum for Farrah’s death.
some people are not meant to be parents this is one example.
This jerk doesn't understand that parents dump all their dysfunctions into their children. Then when their children reflect those dysfunctions back to them, they blame the kids; complete denial.
Wizard9 excellent analysis...agree.
This man shouldn’t of had a houseplant
Ryan O'Neal will only look in the mirror to check his hair, never to take responsibility for his actions or lack thereof. He's a gaslighting narcissist
Jane Smith I don’t even think Ryan looks in the mirror to check his hair.
Jane Smith He lights gaslights all over L.A 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My sentiments exactly 💯
"I don't mean Redmond, but there's there's an other guy." He referred to his other son as "the other guy." Cold hearted parent.
craig Redmond is a lunatic he was recently arrested for going on a stabbing spree in california stabbing several people so hey dont even try to blame his father for the sons insane behavior these kids are druggies spoiled and anyone who ranks out his parent is garbage - he needs to take responsib ility for his own behavior hes a failure as a son
@@amberlyoness555 Still no excuse for calling your other son "the other guy"
I think he was trying to be kind by not naming him.
He has another son named Patrick by actress Leigh Taylor Young.
What an Asshole
"She had a wonderful childhood, she met Queen Elizabeth" 😂 this man has NO idea what defines a wonderful childhood because he was not capable of providing it to his kids. He destroyed everyone who was unfortunate enough to be in his miserable life. Blames EVERYONE but himself.
He is the true definition of a sociopathic narcissist. What a damn cruel man😡
The over dramatic croc tears for, Farrah, was pathetic. Everyone knows he didn't recognize, Tatum, at the funeral and hit on her.
@@Carol-zk3egewwwww, I didn’t! That is SO disgusting 🤢👋🏼🇨🇦
Well he’s dead now, so he will have to account for his sins as we all will
I hope he's on an episode of Soul Crossings with Cash Peters. I'd really like to see how his experience impacts him. Such a different perspective than the Pearly Gates and St Peter. Much more realistic.
Meeting Queen Elizabeth doesn't make a good childhood.
antij1 Hardly. Does anybody really care?
Sweetpea I assume that you are a homosexual then
There is Poop on my Lollipop Based on that comment , I assume you are a bald Lithuanian lumberjack with fallen arches. Gosh, this is a fun game!
Kelly Alves that is acceptable
There is Poop on my Lollipop LOL at least you can take it as well as you dish it.
Ryan O'Neal is the king of creeps!
Well said
He ruined his children’s lives!! He’s a narcissist and while Farrah laid in bed dying of cancer he attempted to shoot his son Redmond in the face. Kids lead by example and Ryan brung drugs in front of his kids at a early age. He’s got so much anger and what a terrible man for taking his insecurities and putting them on his children. Tatum is almost begging for a relationship with her dad. So sad 😞 that one man can destroy so many lives. Farrahs last words she cried out for her son. He’s alone on drugs in trouble with the law and has a narcissist father.
Can you imagine what Farrah endured living with this horrible human ? As for Tatum and her brother, I hope they have found some serenity.
HelloNancy
How are you doing today?
She wanted to be married. He would not. Ryan also cheated on Farrah.
She picked him.
@@LillyMarz777 LOL, nobody ever picks a narcissist willingly.
Wow, He is in denial and blames everyone.
He blames nobody
But he is responsible for his grown children. You are judging a book by it's cover. Ryan O'Neal is a good actor and good guy.
@@loril6437He's a good actor period.
"She had a wonderful childhood. She met Queen Elizabeth." As sad as this interview was, I had to laugh when he said this because it was so rediculous.
mother of two it definitely was an unfortunate statement.
me too.
Five years later I just quote that exact line, before seeing this post. Yep. Confirmation, it was a weird thing for a dad to say.
"ridiculous"
Yes
He's a narcissist. No insight! Blames everyone else.
His comment about having a DNA test done really hit home. My dad once said "maybe he's not mine" when referring to my brother, and, periodically, asks if my brother has submitted the DNA test kit I sent to him (...I bought one for each of us to find the extent of our European background). That is just as insulting to my late mom as it is to my brother. I have, repeatedly told my dad that the results would be the same as mine anyway (...which I submitted several years ago). Dad has also said (of my brother)..."maybe he'll die" and, when I push him to say something nice to my brother (...like..."I'm proud of you"), Dad's response is "why?". Not once in my brother's 66 years has my dad told him he is proud of him...it's heartbreaking!! My brother is very talented (...a great cook and painter) and Mensa-level-intelligent, and Dad seems to be jealous of him, even though he (Dad) is as intelligent and talented. Dad has said "people say he (my brother) is a good cook...I don't see it"; "people say he's intelligent...I don't see it", and on, and on. Yes, my brother has dabbled in drugs (mostly just grass), and hasn't been particularly successful financially, but instead of boosting my brother's morale by saying something nice to him, Dad would rather dismiss him. He's embarrassed by my brother's presence and doesn't see the connection with his lack of attention AT ALL. Dad has been a good provider, and we always had a home, meals, and material things. He, along with my mom, taught us to be responsible, safety-conscious, creative, caring people (the 'caring' part was more Mom), so it's confusing to hear what he says about my brother, and I feel cruddy if and/or when I reveal stuff (as mentioned above)...but it isn't fair to take his insecurities out on my brother. My relatives think my dad is so lovely, while putting my brother down as a loser...not realizing my dad puts them down when they aren't around. It's unnerving and sad.
Judith Fabian, That's really sad but I'm going to tell you it's even worst, over trillions times worst when the Creator, God that created and treated me to go to Hell and be eternally separated from him and especially when I did everything to please him. That's what's trillions times worst. I begged, pleaded, cried and wailed before God/JESUS CHRIST to Love me but he refused to come live inside of me.
Yes, Ryan is clearly emotionally abusive. I don’t care what happened…you don’t condemn your kidspublicly. Based on his behavior since Tatum wrote an entire book forgiving and expressing love and understanding of him, I think she deserves better, too. She has not said a negative thing about him in years. If he’s ego driven enough to trash his kids on TV now, I’m sure they went through a lot with him, growing up.
@@jeanmeullion6641ou have to be open to spiritual guidance to receive it. It helped me to see a counselor and find out what was blocking my faith. Now I have been able to rekindle it. I’m sure the creator loves you. You were created in his image!. Hope, healing, and blessings to you. 🙌❤️🩹😇
@@sciencenotstigma9534
Tatum knows exactly what she did to Farrah. Once you get bitten by a snake, leave it alone.
@@dianakidd4219 I never met a kid who easily accepted their step-parent. That’s just being a kid. Parents in our generation (Tatum’s) often expected us to be small adults, which isn’t fair. There are exceptions to any rule but, as a rule, blended families are difficult for kids to accept.
THE SICK PART IS HE ACTUALLY CANNOT SEE WHERE HE DID ANY BAD TO THOSE KIDS
Classic behaviour for a narcissist. If it makes them look bad it didn't happen. Ryan reminds me a lot of my own father. I ended the relationship over 20 yrs ago. I realized he was never going to change and I had to save myself. He appears to be very angry with Tatum. She committed the ultimate sin in the eyes of a narcissistic parent - she talked about the abuse and exposed him for who he is. He'll never forgive her. He's resented his daughter ever since she won the oscar for, Paper Moon, and he didn't. Can u imagine how much that hurt is ego? Clearly he gave the best performance in that film (in his mind). He was wronged not getting that oscar.
He seems like a very emotionally messed up guy. not healthy.
He's not happy you can see that he will die all by himself lonely I would hate to be him standing in front of God
He looks remorseful to me. Not sure what exactly all of you feel like he’s done. He clearly loves Farrah.
@@ursulamullikin4723 Ryan would argue with God that it was his kids fault
@@donnaking7439 Seek Help he is the reason she is dead if not for him screwing around she would be with her son Redmann and he would not be in the mess he is in now look up his story with his kids all except Patrick Patrick's mother left Ryan and took her son far away look up HPV and how it leads to the cancer Farrah died from HPV is transferred from sexual contact Ryan was never a faithful man I was fooled too I thought they had this great love story it was a lie
How horrible what he said about his son. That he is relieved that they don’t talk and he’s gone get a DNA. Father of the Year.
He's a disgrace.
Narcissists are so utterly delusional they don't even try to hide it. They have no clue it is so blatantly on show. This video should be used in psychology classes
Incredible. I grew up with a father so much like this, one who blamed the kids for his issues.. sickening
Wow, from watching Ryan's reaction, and expressions toward Tatum; he totally loathes her.
Yes he hates Tatum he was so Jealous when she won her Academy Award he grandparents took her to the ceremony
Agreed. I’m guessing the only reason he agreed to that reality show with her was the pay cheque.
I am in shock from the evil vibes this man gives off, sadly she will never get the remorse she needs from him to move forward, she will have to learn to finally except that daddy is to selfish to ever help his kids heal from his narcissistic parenting!
SuperBike Racer
Your right, he does give off evil vibes.
I don't get evil vibes from him, any more than I get not-so-nice vibes from her. She was already messed up from her alcoholic mother, when she went to live w/Ryan. He loved her and was nice to her. He had problems of his own, but people are that way. She's had problems from a very young age. Ryan didn't resolve them, but he didn't cause them, is how I see it. Yes, he's narcissistic, like every other actor. They all are. Even Tatum.
@@Honeycombe88 WTF is wrong with you? The man is a narcissistic woman-beater. He is a walking shitstain. He destroyed his own Hollywood career because he was so unpleasant and arrogant--not to mention violent--that no one wanted to work with him. Why in the world are you defending someone who beats women and blames his ex's death on his own child? You should be ashamed of yourself.
Sure, he has 3 kids & they all turn out to be alcoholic drug addicts. But that has nothing to do with him, it's mommy's fault. WTF?
Tatum & Ryan were inseparable during & after Paper Moon. She was like his puppy dog that he took to Hollywood parties& night clubs, only she was 10.
She won an Oscar for her performance but her father didn't & being the narcissistic dick that he is, he was jealous & angry. This poor child attended the Oscars & won without either of her parents there to show support or how proud they were. She became the youngest Oscar winner in a competitive category & it still stands, but for Tatum I'm sure it hurt & caused her 10 year old brain to be confused.
@@melw8794 He yelled at her and hit her after she won, too, because he thought he deserved it more and she was deliberately stealing his thunder.
My dad accused me of being responsible for my mom's cancer. He refuses to own up to it and it's incredibly painful. Repulsive behavior.
Maybe you should turn around and blame him .That may shut him up.Geez ,You can’t pick your family,right?
@@ruthdevisser2526 true that...I think he was just projecting his guilt and culpability onto me. Sad thing is that he passed last week, although I am still hurt by the things he said I know they came from a place of a place of pain. He never bothered to address his mental health issues and hurt everyone around him in the process. I'm certain that when he was standing before his maker the impact of all the things he did and said were made crystal clear.
I never knew what a sick , narcissistic person he is. He places blame in his kids for his life. No wonder they are so estranged from him.
Dahvie
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With his grief comes his redirected anger from a false self.
@@lindakaske5363 deep!!! Probably true.
I feel so sorry for his kids. He is a real piece of shit.
Don't judge if you havent been the parent of an adult drug addict....they will suck the life out of you.
What a jerk. I feel for Tatum. Watching this reminds me of my feelings toward my mom and how she thought she gave me such a great childhood. Is that what she calls beating the crap out of me? A great childhood? She took no responsibility for how she treated me. Never admitted to any wrongdoing. Some people have no right being parents. We hadn’t spoken for 13 years. I went to see her before she died from Pancreatic cancer because I wanted peace. We had a nice visit and I wanted to start seeing her regularly. She said fine and then she messaged me and told me not to visit anymore. At least I am at peace knowing I really tried.
❤❤❤❤❤❤. I’m sending you love and light. I know the feeling
Understand you completely. My mother made me feel worthless because I was a fat kid. She told me that I didn't deserve love, friends, boyfriends, new clothes or to be treated like my sisters because I was fat. I was her "shame". After they die, you find your self- worth and move on with your life...be happy.
Me too sending you many prayers! !
I don't care about what his daughter or any of his children said about anything, you don't have right to rip your children on national TV.
tatum is a huge failure who wants so desperately to be in the spotlight but she is nothing no class no style no looks shes jealous of dads success and of Farrahs too
He is the guy version of my mother.
he and his daughter killed her thats why i dont want stepchildren the girls r worse
@@amberlyoness555 I doubt that. She didn't have the most stellar career, but she done well for a while. As far as her scumbag Dad, he was a Megastar. But when people heard about his personal life, his career went down in flames as he was considered box office poison in Hollywood and no one wanted to hire him. Farrah had a great career, but was dragged down by that giant shit stain of a hubby of hers and he caused her career to plummet. Tatum wasn't jealous of her father, but she hated him for years of abuse endured by the one who was supposed to love and protect her as a child.
Ripping your adult kids on tv wow. He also does this time and time again with relatives and friends.....how do you think that makes your adult kids feel. Maybe his kids had adhd, maybe they just needed you to be there. Gross
He called his first born son “that other guy” smh what a piece of crap!
Ryan is a horrible man and a worse father. He used to beat Farrah Fawcett and Anjelica Huston when he dated them. All of Ryan's children have struggled with drug addiction and alcoholism throughout their lives. It starts at home. He takes no responsibility for introducing his children to drugs and creating a dysfunctional family. His youngest son Redmond was recently arrested for attempted murder, robbery and assault after he tried robbing a convenience store! Ryan you failed as a father.
I thought Jack Nicholson dated Anjelica Huston, not Ryan Oneal?
@@tiredgirl50 Jack and Anjelica dated on and off for years. During one of their break ups in the late 70s Anjelica dated Ryan. She wrote about it in her book.
Addiction is a DISEASE ... you inherit it. You don't have to live it or see it around you, its in your genes. I have 4 kids and 1 pulled the short straw from a genetic pool from the male side. I love how people blame the parents for everything and forget that kids spend more time out of the home with peers than they do their parents. They are great manipulators and liars - parents generally only know what the kids want and allow them to know. Not saying he didn't mess up -- but I doubt he's the monster ppl are making him out to be. Also, at what point does a grown up child take responsibility for their own behaviour.
Yeah that's an understatement.
@@AndreaKollo Tatum does take responsibility, she talks about it all the time. But he IS a monster. He beat all his kids & he beat Farah & even broke her nose. So much for the crocodile tears for Farah now.
Sorry to say this but I would have to run far away if Ryan O Neal was my father. He surely messes with your head. You can just see it in this clip. What a screw head.
He had three children and they're all messed up
@@ursulamullikin4723 He has a fourth child named Patrick, but fortunately he wasn't raised by Ryan so he wasn't screwed up by him.
He’s had a documented history of temper tantrums and violence towards all his wives and children. This is acting.
A very sick man
Holy moly. Barry Lyndon has been one of my favourite movies of all time since I first saw it 10+ years ago. Oftentimes when people ask what is my absolute #1, I'll name Lyndon over Goodfellas and Once Upon a Time in the West. I've never looked up anything about the actor, and randomly came across this. The similarity between himself and Redmond Barry is absolutely uncanny, I'm blown away. The narcissicm, the bad family relations, the blaming everyone else for their own problems.
I've always thought that's why it worked so well. With paper moon it's a similar story and even more profound because Tatum, his daughter is in the movie.
I don't believe you, Ryan! I believe your daughter.
100%
Ryan O'Neal you're a spineless weak coward, you always have been. I'm your age and I take responsibility for what I an adult did or didn't do to my family and or my children especially. Is everything absolutely perfect of course not but I believe they were born innocent children and my husband and I screwed up plenty. Some things worked out fabulous other things worked out lousy. I have done everything I know how to do to try to make it up to my children and I've been blessed with a bunch of grandkids now. And I try to be there for them in a positive way. You and your first wife have to be responsible for your children, and I'm sorry that Farrah Fawcett got cancer and passed away. I too have had cancer and I was very very blessed and lucky to survive. but when people speak of anybody that has passed on and you've always done this especially with Farrah that she was perfect she had no mistakes no failings no weaknesses no nothing wrong with her she was perfect. Well sorry that's not true either and your children did not destroy her. You're so shallow and weak and to blame your children for your mistakes your first wife's mistakes and Ferris. You need to open up your eyes and your mind if it's not too screwed up and look at the truth. To Tatum to Griffin and to Redmond you guys need to step up and take responsibility for some of your actions. And stand up and be the kind of person you want for your children don't copy your dad or your mother or anyone be who you are and take responsibilities on your lives.
yeah tatum or tantrum as she is called a dope addicted ego manic illiterate jack ass and now quite over the hill by hollywood standards so she attacks her parent to get attention - no class
I can't believe he would go on TV and place such outrageous blame on his own daughter. I'm guessing Tatum O'Neal had so many problems in her life because he was such a terrible father.
In her book, Tatum talks about how her father abandoned his children when he got together with Farrah. So sad for children to grow up feeling unloved.
He’s sick!
Omg, what a HORRIBLE man! I seriously cannot believe what a vile person he is! I feel so sorry for his children. 🌹
Farrah’s story mimics Jill Ireland’s. Both were more afraid of what chemo would do and HOW THEIR HUSBANDS WOULD REACT TO THE SIDE AFFECTS. Farrah, trying to save her hair, put off life saving intervention. Jill Ireland, battling breast cancer was afraid Charles Bronson wouldn’t ‘see me as a sexy woman anymore.’
Then there is the lovely husband of Anne Jillian who also hesitated having a mastectomy, but he said ‘Your breasts are now bullets aimed right at your heart. YOU are who I want to save, not the bullets.’
It’s easy to see in retrospect how the women SHOULD HAVE HAD BETTER SUPPORT AROUND THEM, and Anne is still with us and Jill and Farrah are not. Instead of facing his blinding narcissism, it becomes his children’s fault. No way I believe Farrah turned to HIS CHILDREN for advice, certainly both women KNEW what mattered most to their husbands……which is incredibly sad.
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"I have a son that's been arrested 40 times. I don't mean Redmond--the other guy" ...WHO talks like that in regards to his own son?!!! Such a weirdo and a horrible, cruel man
Ryan O 'Neal sucked the energy out of Farrah Fawcett . I believe their relationship killed her !
Yes and he knows it
I agree Deborah. He killed her with his narcissism. He’s the reason for all of the pain that his children tried to mask with drugs. My sons father is a narcissist...they never change. God Bless you Tatum. Much Love 💜🙏
@@ursulamullikin4723 Sadly... He DOESNT know it. Because he will NEVER "GET IT." Smh...
He will always flat out DENY IT. Because, that's what Narcissists DO. Blame EVERYBODY ELSE, but themselves... Griffin, Redmond, or, Tatum.
The Mailman, the garbage man...the dog, the mosquitoes... ANYONE...BUT, HIMSELF...
He, is AN IDIOT. A JERK. A CREEP. A CONMAN.
HE TRIED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIS OWN DAUGHTER, TATUM, IN HIS OWN BED, WHILE HE WAS HIGH... And continues to deny it...POOR TATUM... 😞
He said he wants a DNA TEST, on his own son, who looks just like him....
RYAN IS A DISGUSTING PIG.
Fyi... NO amount of therapy, can EVER CURE A NARCISSIST.
Sadly...thats a known fact. 😞
I WISH that he knew he did all of this...Created this ENTIRE MESS...
But, true Narcissists NEVER admit to ANYTHING BAD.
Poor Farrah, Tatum, Redmond and Griffin... and ALL the rest, deserved SO MUCH MORE... 😢
I WISH, that Ryan could rot in HELL, for ETERNITY.
He beat her all the time.
It certainly didn't help her fighting cancer
he said some pretty nasty things about his own kids. also, I don't think this guy had anything going for him at all accept his looks (in his younger days.) he seems to have many, many, issues. Tatum seems much smarter and much more credible than her father, no doubt.
One of worst acting lines of all time : Ryan O'Neal in Tough Guys Don't Dance
" OH GOD OH MAN OH GOD OH MAN OH GOD... "
" the other guy" OMG he is a psychopath
amen
Totally.
Laura troi I hope he forgot Patrick's name thats the best thing he can do for him
He is not going to change. At his age it won’t happen. I hope his kids can heal & be happy. Prayers to them. ❤️🙏🏻❤️
Never liked Ryan O'Neal. He's throwing his kids under the bus to save his hide !! He blames his kids for everything -- doesn't take responsibility for anything !! I'll always remember him as a JERK !
Deborah Bishop he looks under the influence now. Damn he couldn't brush his hair
@@ardithbard857 he still thinks he 's all that and a bag of chips ! 🤔
Deborah Bishop he's so past his days.
@@ardithbard857 ya , the only thing he has going for him is that he was married to Farrah Fawcett ! 😑
Deborah Bishop
Actually they we’re never married. But I agree she was all he had going for him. She was too good for him.
This dude left his kids alone and moved in with Farrah. Basically he chose his needs over the needs of his kids. Tatum was 15 at the time and was left with the care of her brother Griffin. Ryan O'Neal helped raise 3 of his 4 children and the 3 that were left to his care all ended up with substance abuse issues. Can't stand the man, but love, love, love his daughter Tatum and wish for her the happiness that she so deserves.
Dar Con With that being said, it's amazing how true to life the characters and the performance was in Paper Moon of him not wanting anything to do with his daughter and forsaking her whenever some piece of ass came along and also just wanting to drop her off with her aunt so he would have no responsibility. Ryan's character didn't even want to admit she was his daughter and I'm pretty sure it was like that in real life. The writers of that movie chose the actors very wisely. It was just uncanny.
Dar Con Exactly..
This interview clearly shows that Ryan is the problem. Ryan's children have been put through a lot as targets for his misplaced anger and blame. It appears as though Ryan sadly is the child who never grew up.
I agree.
Ryan O'Neil will never make peace with Tatum. She was the adult in the room. She sounds like the voice of reason. He treated Farrah badly for years until the end! He takes no responsibility for anything. It is sad that so many broken lives are a result.
“The other guy” is how he references his son? Arrested 40xs definitely has something to do with lousy parenting. This man is unkind & cowardly for placing blame on others.
He is shallow I don't see how Farrah could fall for him
Horrible person period!
WHAT ABOUT REDMOND? HE TOO HAS A LONG RAP SHEET
We ALL want to blame something when we are hurt. But you cannot blame anyone for cancer in another person! It is quite clear that Ryan is doing everything to excuse himself and take NO BLAME for what has happened to him and his family. Shameful and sad. He is SO self-centered, he just can NOT see anything wrong in himself!
He said all of them, constant stress and constant drama can cause cancer but not likely
I have had 3 kinds of cancer so far as well as recently developed Lupus and 3 other autoimmune disorders! I had narcissistic parents and a sister and my physical health is very affected as was my mental coping skills ! I have just graduated from a hospital program for people with my types of illnesses. The basis for the program is how these long term assaults on our systems affect our physical health. I had to wait 3 years to get in and it was totally worth it.
Ultimate narcissistic personality.
His acting skills are gone. He can no longer pretend not to be a selfish, unaccountable narcissist. Blame blame blame. Typical narcissist behavior. Blame the kids, act innocent. He is awful. I am surprised Tatum ended up so well put-together. Probably had to go through years of therapy to undo the damage he ingrained in her. She looks great, speaks articulately, and makes a lot of sense. Her journey must have been a long and painful one to get where she is now.
Ryan's crying. He misses Farrah's money. There's a reason why Farrah left Ryan out of her Will, and why she never married him.
Unfortunately, she would've died a lot earlier than she did had she married him.
@@texan903 We all adored Farrah and miss her, as for Ryan......jeeez man....what a loser.
Beautifulmusiclistnr: DAMN RIGHT
@@sl2608 Very True my friend!
He's loaded. You're incorrect
I am a self admitted narcissist myself...yes this guy is a true narcissist all the characteristics I have are there with him. I am trying really hard to have more empathy towards others and have come a long way...I do not see this guy ever changing.
really liked Farrah and was always so alarmed that she was with this guy....a train wreck...a sad, narcissistic train wreck....
He drove her to a lot of self-doubt, even to her saying her face and body were not attractive - years of gaslighting and infidelity.
hairyscotman Someone or maybe many, may have envied beautiful, stunning Farrah to the point they cursed & wished her to end up with a loser like him. I know cuz it happened to me. Many yrs later I discovered my first bf's mother AND also my 2nd bfs mother BOTH put a curse on me. 2nd bf was a narcissist who was also an alcoholic, drug addict & smoker. I was cursed by my 1st bfs mother to only meet & be with loser men & THAT's why I ended up with the 2nd one who was a drug addicted alcoholic. Thank God 1st wicked witch is dead but the 2nd one STILL lives at 92 & still trying to finish me off BUT IT AIN'T GOING to HAPPEN cuz I HAVE GOD ON MY SIDE! Smh
I have a lot of respect for Tatum O'Neal owning her addiction. She deserves a better father who can own his issues, as well.
Prime example of a selfish parent. Disgusting. Maybe his daughter was a coke addict, a difficult child, etc. but that should never give you the right to blatantly blame your child for the cause of your girlfriend's cancer. She was probably hurt to see him with Farrah. That's a normal reaction for a kid to have.
Tatum O'Neal said that she's dating women now. When asked if she is gay or straight,she said "I'm not one or the other." What does that mean?
it means if she wants to date a woman she will if she wants to date a man she will do not define her
Liberal narcissistic hogwash that can't commit to anything but hedonistic egotistical pleasures.
Yes. someone is missing a sensitivity chip. The addictions and traumas get passed Down, not UP, jackhole. The reason he doesn't get better is because narcissists can't. They have ZERO capacity for insight. He's repellant.
fmnak00 You think no conservatives are sexually fluid? Ha ha. Who cares what people do in the bedroom?
Truly a massive narcissist! God almighty! I KNOW, there's a few in my own family! Scary!
Kelley Chandler I’ve been married to one for 21 years . 🙄
"She had a wonderful childhood, she met Queen Elizabeth". WOW!! You couldn't write a more perfect movie line, if your goal was to depict a horrendous, abusive, narcissistic father--lacking, in any sort of insight or self awareness.
ryan tries to be a good father! he really does
What does that mean anyway? Donald Trump met the Queen.
@Gloria Vargo Right, he was well known for temper episodes before he met Farrah !
Absolutely. He is that stupid to think that is what makes a "wonderful childhood"?? What a self-serving idiot.
Lol Victoria doss. Good one. :)
Prayers to you Tatum. Keep moving forward, do the best you can like we all need to do.
❤️
" I don't know I'm going to get a DNA" Seriously? Everyone's fault but his.
What a dipshit, Griffen looks like him.
Knowing what happens to children in Hollywood this throws up a thousand red flags. Those poor kids, this man is an obvious narcissist.
"She met Queen Elizabeth " , wow..unbelievable. What a disappointment
Because forget every abuse and neglect, meeting some old royal makes up for abuse and abandonment by both parents!
Who the fuck cares? Be a good human and good dad.
Blaming the kids . What a fucker
He''s an evil fool.
I was thinking the same thing who cares .Tatum made a comment on a another talk show one time he said to her you traveled the world as a child and met the Queen of England she has nothing to complain about. Really Ryan how about Not allowing drugs around your children, when they were growing up, not punching your son in the face and knocking out two of his front teeth. I remember when that happened back in the early Eighties I could go on all of your children are messed up he is a lousy excuse for a man, father, and a human being.
She wasn’t even bashing him and he was acting as if she was going off! Puts all the responsibility off on everyone else for him being a crappy person. Unbelievable!
What a narcissist. Take some responsibility
He’s not a nice person.
He has to be one of the worst fathers in the world...... EVER
How'd he rank with Fred West?
His third child supports his father completely.
@@briancontreras9317 Are you defending him?
This man is disgusting. Horrible human in so many ways. He is always the victim. He treated anyone that tried to care for him- he abused in many ways.
Why did Tatum have to live with Cher when she was young?
Ryan lies.
Cher took her in?? I didn't know that.I love her even more now.
ScattySafari 😀👍
Yep. She sure did. Tatum says in the course of that time she instigated drama between Cher and Raquel Welch. Also, as child Chas Bono was a little envious of the relationship that Cher developed with Tatum.
Cher should have kicked his ass
This guy is so full of himself, it's disgusting. Completely self-absorbed and self-righteous. It's all about him, never about the pain that his children suffered. I can spot abusive parents a mile away by the way they speak about their "parenting methods" or lack thereof.
He's a narcissist, classic, text book narcissist.
Greg Lott who known Farrah since the 1960' when he was playing football for U.T. confronted Ryan for trying to takeover her life .
what a sad individual, I would never trash my kids in public no matter what they said or did. And if my kids behaved badly I would hold myself responsible for having contributed to their behaviour. He cant accept any responsibility for his own mistakes! P.S Love you Tatum x
E Ef i totally agree
kids are human beings as is your mother and father and etc. describe them as you see them. loyalty is fine when the human deserves it and only then.
It's terrible to talk about your children in that way, Ryan has to take responsibility for his children's behavior and mostly his own. No one's perfect we all make mistakes, but it's sad to give someone vision when they are so blind. He clearly has alot of anger inside. He needs to sort himself out and start showing love and respect towards his kids
He's a sad sad example of a parent
He's a terrible human being and father. Even when she won her Academy Award for Paper Moon at age 8 he couldn't be bothered to come and support her (probably out of jealousy). He should be utterly ashamed of himself.
Nat R She claims when she came home that night, he hit her, probably out of jealousy. She also said in her book that as a teenager, Melanie Griffith was her best friend. I can’t remember if there was a sleepover, but she woke up to her dad & Melanie having sex. If that’s true, even if he didn’t touch Tatum sexually, that’s considered child sexual abuse.
Nat R I am glad he did not come he would have stole her moment she was 10 not 8 when she won he was off doing a movie anyway and when she called to say she had won he was with a woman in a motel
Wow. He has this fantastic daughter... talented, beautiful, just wants his love and he cant even tell her that hes proud of her and he loves her. Very very sad.
Lambchopxoxo I guess thats one lie he is not capable of telling because he certainly does not feel those things for her the sad thing is a decade or so back in 2001 i believe when he was diagnosed with Leukemia who came to his side? Farrah? No Tatum did the daughter he treated like dirt as a child and abused and still continues to she took care of him nursed him back to health so many good men have died since then and this piece of shit is still kicking it pisses me off
He is a textbook abusive narcissistic father. They never admit anything and always speak badly about others esp children that they are jealous of.
Man, he must have been PISSED when she grabbed an Oscar for Paper Moon. What a narcissistic injury! Maybe the Academy knew what he was and wanted to turn the knife a wee bit?
Rainbo poor kid she was exposed to so much adult shit at the time. He was very irresponsible and selfish. Sucked in to him that she got the oscar but it probably triggered a deepseated hatred and jealousy of her from childhood. Not her fault at all...
Anita ' S I agree. Children are just projection screens of these types. They aren't even people. He is a disgusting asshole. She had a struggle and became an addict...and is sober. She's a hell of alot stronger than him. He never saw anything because HE is the only one in his world. Any real father would say, "She remembers it all differently, but I am.proud of how far she's come and I love her." They don't call her a liar and defend their narky behavior.
What brought me here was a Wendy Williams interview of Tatum. I had zero clue about their family of origin. He is projecting , when he blames the children for Farrahs death. Imagine how he must have treated her for 30 yrs. !!! He has traits of being a malignant narcissist and nobody needs a degree to see that he has wrecked every life he has entered. I have no doubt his inability to self regulate his emotions , during his life contributed to his children’s addictions and his partners early death - even tho , according to him she was the epitome of health. He just isn’t telling us about the psychological abuse she endured loving w a psychopath.
Oh my God. He really hates his own kid.
Narcissist. So disgusting
Ryan O’Neal is a malignant narcissist and that shines through so clearly in this interview. I had the pleasure of knowing Tatum for a brief time when she was going through some very hard stuff and trying to pull her life back together (which she has done, beautifully). She is an inspiration. Ryan should have been kicked out of Hollywood decades ago. I liked the show “Bones” (it was good, fun fluff for those nights I just didn’t feel up anything important like Mad Men, Breaking Bad, or any of the amazing shows of the last few decades) but every time he appeared as Bone’s (Dr. Temperance Brennan) father I could barely watch and even turned it off a few times. His character abandoned Bone’s and her brother when she was a kid, which resulted in her being raised in the foster system but as an adult he gets completely forgiven and finally gets to be the great dad (and grandfather) that Bone’s always wanted. It was just so close to his real life except the character was a good guy. He is a convincing actor. Too bad he can’t (and couldn’t) act like a good father in real life, without a script!
osofine I always think of Ryan O’Neal as my parents’ generation’s Charlie Sheen. Decent, convincing actors, but can’t convince people in real life that they’re decent humans, at least not for long. I can feel sorry for people with problems, but with some people, my compassion runs out.
While I appreciate your comments about Tatum O'Neal. your comments about television show why it's called the idiot box. You seem to take television a little too seriously, tbh.
The pos should be in the ground.
She can’t say anything right enough for him... :(
He is a total narcissist.
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Lula Earle
Ryan plays the blame game.
Sweetpea no she was a real female. She started out as a model tham moved into acting. Was married when she started her affair with Ryan. It was the beginning of a roller coaster life with an alcoholic.
You mean he's like every other Hollywood celebrity pretty much EVER? Shocking!
just awful.
Ryan O'Neal was an EPICALLY negligent, horrible, awful father. Just read Tatum's book and you'll see what a miracle it is that she and her brother are even alive. The nerve of him to blame bad-mouth his children and say he was a great father.
RYAN STOP LYING AND LEARN TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR BAD PARENTING.
And a veryyyyy bad cheating husband. A narcissist as a husband or as a parent is the worst. He made a whole trace of victims. Two ex wifes, Farah and all his kids , and even grandkids, are troubled and messed up. Tatums kids because she was messed up due to her dad and got on drugs. And he still blames everyone accept himself 🚩
I'd tell Tatum right now the she didn't have nothing to do with it and it wasn't her fault .
My mum was like this, Never took any responsibility for the things she did to us kids. I've made my peace with my own children. Its what grown ups do.
My father won't apologize for being a selfish father even if it means estrangement from his son (me). Parents who can't take responsibility for the things they did to their kids were never cut out to be parents anyway.
My boyfriend is a narcissist. Its extremely hard to love a narcissistic person. As hard as I try, he makes it that much harder with his lack of empathy, his ego, his "never my fault" mentality. Ugh.
@@pinkbubblegum143 never marry him. It gets worse...
@@pinkbubblegum143 Why are you staying with him???
I'm sorry that happened to you. My verbally abusive mother had narcissistic tendencies and was/is extremely selfish and manipulative. It's rough. I'm glad you're doing okay.
A Good Father Never Abandons His Children.He Nurtures & Loves them. He teaches them good values. If you can't do that, you're a Failure.