It start by loving yourself more than anyone or anything else . Take that love you had for someone who took you for less than ... and pour it into yourself. When I want to forget someone and move on, I just remember how bad he or she treated me and ask myself will I reward such a person with the most precious thing I have which is my love? The answer is N O and that helps. You got this Sis 👍 just do it 🙌
Yup been there and then 6 mos later the psycho started chasing me down and STILL trying 9 years later. Ended it with me & ran back to his past woman that i found out he was still dealing with. Smdh
Hello darling. Hold strong and show lots of love to yourself. Get a great support system of others who love and care for you. DO NOT LET HIM COME BACK IN YOUR LIFE. When he is bored with the mundane of his new life with her, he’ll try to be your friend and want access. You deny his access!
He had already work on this relationship with his Baby Moma he moved back in with her. I was so hurt and still however I'm working with a therapist. I see clear now it was never a priority He just wanted what I could do for him.
Yes that happened to me in my last relationship but really if I'm being honest I realized that he was "I want to eat my cake and eat it too" never fully invested a little too late when I already chose to be completely all in.He secured another relationship while he was living with me and had no remorse whatsoever.He told me that he loved me but got bored because he wasn't in love.I learned my lesson and I'm now more evolved and took time to heal and now I choose better who I invest in. You are right he just enjoyed what I did for him and how he treated me and how he left said so much about his character discard or not. Thank you for this content really love your wisdom and realness ❤🙏
So fun to be ignored in marriage…some form of discard. I have given everything, and I have put up with so much crap in this marriage, and its only been 3 years 🙄. I really know how to pick ‘em. Who’s gonna leave first I wonder?
When he crossed my boundary line. Only one in particular it was done then. But the second one was no resurrection. The second one sealed the deal of no return
He was on a date with some woman, my family saw them and they told me. I don't know how long he was see others while making me think I was the only one.
I just got discarded recently by my husband AGAIN and I found out I'm pregnant since he's been gone and I told him she he's been trying to throw me off onto my mother and sister because he left my homeless out here on n the streets getting my evicted too
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He was already securing another relationship behind her back
Coward!!!
Or he already had somebody else
Yep
Sadly
BOOM!!! EXACTLY!! 💯 💯 💯
This was my situation, Hurt people Hurt others. I've learned a lot.
For real one man's fumble is another's touchdown. 💯
That's funny
Amen
👏👏👏👏
I saw the signs he did not consider me the one, so i left him before he left me.
Exactly what im about do
Facts!
He had no emotions. Cold, dead.
And then won’t stop trying to spin the block. ACCESS DENIED‼️
@NurseBaddie good for you ! His is name Justin ?
@@RedRum207 is his name alex?
@@indy18286 what are you trying to say ?
No it’s not
I was an option...I showed him how many I have! 😊
I GAVE MY ALL TO MY GUY...I REALIZED HE WASN'T AS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP AS I WAS...I WAS JUST SOMETHING TO DO WHILE WAITING ON WHO HE REALLY WANTED!
I am there now. He acted like he truly loves me. The pain hurts and I am struggling with the pain 😢😢😢❤
Same babe
Spot on, so discarded. Having a hard time bouncing back.
It start by loving yourself more than anyone or anything else . Take that love you had for someone who took you for less than ... and pour it into yourself.
When I want to forget someone and move on, I just remember how bad he or she treated me and ask myself will I reward such a person with the most precious thing I have which is my love? The answer is N O and that helps.
You got this Sis 👍 just do it 🙌
Same 💔
Yep facts god has finally gave me closure
It is what it is! My life will go on!
Sometimes it is the person that has the problem and needs to grow up
Yep!!! I was only one showing love
People pleasers will even let ex's or just any other girl control the relationship
enough to piss you off it is
Let me take tha time and say THANK YOU 🎉🎉🎉🎉 THANK YOU 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yup been there and then 6 mos later the psycho started chasing me down and STILL trying 9 years later. Ended it with me & ran back to his past woman that i found out he was still dealing with. Smdh
It happens to a lot people .
He got married and had a child. Broke me to pieces
Same😢
SAME
he lied about his situation of already having this before meeting me 💀
Hello darling. Hold strong and show lots of love to yourself. Get a great support system of others who love and care for you. DO NOT LET HIM COME BACK IN YOUR LIFE. When he is bored with the mundane of his new life with her, he’ll try to be your friend and want access. You deny his access!
Dang, me too 😭
This occurred back in 2018/2019, and I'm JUST NOW getting to the place where it doesn't trigger me 😅🥴😞
@@xmswayzemx oh no. I hope it doesn't take that long for me
Yup I gave everything and it broke me and he discarded me like I was nothing
Thank you Derrick, this information is extremely helpful!
Ncoooh! "Don't trip Sis."❤ Thanx so much for taking care of us. But Wow u r good in this.
Yes discarded..
Yes....yes....yes....all you said
Spot on ....left me and is back w this ex .....I'm ok thou
I expressed my love to him, saw him after that about 3 times and then he disappeared…no explanation…I was ghosted, I didn’t even get a call.
It hurt when the heart want what it wants...its so hard to eatch them walk away but its about loving ourselves and putting our foot down
Going through that rn..
He had already work on this relationship with his Baby Moma he moved back in with her. I was so hurt and still however I'm working with a therapist. I see clear now it was never a priority He just wanted what I could do for him.
Yes, years ago. Healed now though.
Not only discarded me, but our 3yo.
Thank you, Derrick
great message ❤
Thanks ❤️ great video
Yes that happened to me in my last relationship but really if I'm being honest I realized that he was "I want to eat my cake and eat it too" never fully invested a little too late when I already chose to be completely all in.He secured another relationship while he was living with me and had no remorse whatsoever.He told me that he loved me but got bored because he wasn't in love.I learned my lesson and I'm now more evolved and took time to heal and now I choose better who I invest in. You are right he just enjoyed what I did for him and how he treated me and how he left said so much about his character discard or not. Thank you for this content really love your wisdom and realness ❤🙏
All he ever wanted to do was inflict pain
TRUE FACTS KING ☺🙏❤💙
SMH. 😢 the discard was soul cushing
So fun to be ignored in marriage…some form of discard. I have given everything, and I have put up with so much crap in this marriage, and its only been 3 years 🙄. I really know how to pick ‘em. Who’s gonna leave first I wonder?
Oh my that’s exactly what happened to me and I never understood what happened but now you just let me know. Thank you so much.
What about the one who juggles other relationship that he pays for in addition to those that gives him any attention??
Amen an happen to me. Yet I had been paying attention an lil Investigating an found everything. What you saying
When he crossed my boundary line. Only one in particular it was done then. But the second one was no resurrection. The second one sealed the deal of no return
Yes all true an thought was being Slick an getting away with. I even help him pack to move.
Ty for putting Us on ✊🏼
Agree 💯
Yes that’s happening to right now
All facts Big Brother this is so true!!
I currently
For real I'm not afraid to say he messed me up !
Great topic
I moved out on tha 1st in tha morning tha other girl moved in that evening on tha 1st too wow 😮
Her problem now
Yep. Discard. But 6yrs. Damn
Yup.I was!
This is a gem ❤❤
Yes Sur. I've tried to talk to the point of begging, to crying, to being Nad, and then screaming. I have no clue
I realised that I was a foundation for my husband for 18yrs.
Thank you for putting it out there, Y? A child.
You are a stepping stone
AMEN.
So true
Been there
All of it so true.
Can you make a full video about men who move on to a serious relationship immediately? Monkey branching can’t be alone?
I
Healing from an anxious/ avoidant cycle
Yes, I've been there even when you meet him on the street he pretends like he doesn't know you or he will pretends his on the call
Yes
Facts. Been there before.
I am there now with my husband of 10 years. He has done it to me twice. Last Thursday and 13 years ago.
YOU HIT THE TARGET.....!!!
Thank you. I understand more.
Yep everything you’re saying he did and it hurts
Yes I have
🙌💯🙌
💯
I done
Yes this happened to me twice . So I’m just single, do not want to experience that again.
I…….i recently just went thru this
Nothing but problems from the jump with this person. I was definitely asleep. Glad I just woke up.
He was on a date with some woman, my family saw them and they told me. I don't know how long he was see others while making me think I was the only one.
I just got discarded recently by my husband AGAIN and I found out I'm pregnant since he's been gone and I told him she he's been trying to throw me off onto my mother and sister because he left my homeless out here on n the streets getting my evicted too
Try to look for work. There is Instacart. There is dog or cat sitting to make easy cash until you get work if you’re not working.
I think a lit people has been done wrong in relationships but it gets better
Thank you
💙💙💙
Right now
Well mine was a cruel abusive type and had a boyfriend too so . ......
Mine was very cruel, abusive, controlling ,addiction issues . Found him masturbating all drugged up and he wasn't playing with his 🍆 .
So true ❤
This is appreciated. 😟
please talk more abt men jumping into relationships/rebounds after breakups.
This also applies to women too, I've learned
Yes sir!!
💜
Have been discarded
Sounds like my husband who is now deceased
How long does it take for him to realized he messed up
YES 💯
More than what he ever earned
I, no arguments, just complete ghost after 3 years.
I❤
It just happened to me