when a guy is emotional unavailable there is nothing you can do.......I speak from experience....you can try all you want but he is never going to be able to sustained a relationship......get counseling for you and your kids.
A breakup is like a death! You will feel better and look back and be so happy you made this decision you weren’t happy and you did something you are so strong most women stay no matter what. Especially because they don’t want to be alone. Men move on faster then us, he will probably have several before you find one. But you will eventually find the perfect one for you!!! ❤️
You will feel bad sad.. You are human... But give yourself time.. Surround yourself with friends.. Your family and kids.. In a few months you will be feeling way better..
The only women I know that would do such a thing is a side chick or a baby mama. They will get what is coming to them. Keep your head up your supporters have your back.
Oh! Kiara! My heart breaks for you😢 Don’t let negative people get the best of you! Like im sure you know not everyone wants the best for u n so of course people that are miserable want others to be too. So roll with punches and ignore them. Keep your head up and try to stay positive. Things will definitely get better. Family is everything and it’s obvious they have your back. Hugs 🤗 and 😘 Happy New Year 🎈🎊🎆 to you and yours.
Y'all are still married even though not in same state. Chicks need to respect that. Des will come around. We or least I'm smart enough to know why you left. He'll come around. When he does whats understood wont need to be explained. Just carry on like nothing ever happened. 🙂
Stop blaming the other women...the only one who is suppose to be committed to this woman is her husband. The other woman can only do what the MAN allows!
I've been there myself.married to a soilder,kid's,stationed at fort hood,ect...after moving with my kid's and belongings(what could fit in a minivan) back to Michigan!it was time to get back on my feet,find a job,a place,and start to regain my independence!!(I did it on my own without help from my spouse or the military)God knows I reached out to them both for help over a dozen times!! Girl,you can do it!I did and with more kid's.just take it one day at a time,healing gets better with time!#goodluck
Treat you hair with an oil conditioner 2 or 3 times a week. The iron is making your hair dryer. There's a spray you can use that shields your hair from hot iron damage. Spray it on each section of hair you're about to curl, let it dry ( literally a couple seconds) before using iron.
Use this time for your “me time” meaning focus on you. Your career. Your kids. & on KIARA! & continue to pray for your marriage. It shows that you truly love Desmond and it hurts that you’re hurting and crying.. i don’t even know you but I feel for you. I hope better days come your way love. I’ll continue praying for you love. Stay positive. You’re beautiful!!!!
Take all the time you need to heal love. It’s not easy dealing with the situation your dealing with. I admire you because you are a very strong momma! You deserve to be just as happy. God bless you and the babies. Always remember god doesn’t give us things we can not handle. For the dryness of the hair try organic coconut oil. It’s great and works for everything.
Your a strong beautiful woman. Men show their feelings differently from us. It’s ok to feel what ur feeling. Don’t lose focus of what ur doing (women wanting ur man, that’s the devil). Do what u gonna do until faith says otherwise.
Hi. Those were some disrespectful people saying stuff to Desmond about him looking fine, etc. They should be deleted immediately cuz they are obviously not for you. With that being said take the time to mourn your situation, your breakup or whatever you'd like to call it. You are strong, beautiful and a great mom, daughter, sister, etc. You will be able to get through one day at a time. If it's meant for you to get back together in the new year, so be it, and if it's not then again, take it slow and pray, reflect and take care of yourself and those beautiful babies of yours. God bless you and Happy and a Healthy New Year to you and your family!!! Love ya!!
Hello Kiara, keep your head up, just because you are not together right now doesn't mean that you won't get back together. Kalia is getting so big she is growing up so fast. Stay Strong.
You are gorgeous that man is a fool to lose you..but have faith cause this to shall pass..your a strong woman ..God bless you..and para lante like my mom would say!! 😘
People are really crazy and have too much time on their hands smh. Live your life girl, don't let no stranger or any other creep ruin anything for you! ugh
You and the children need to be safe first and foremost. You're crying because you are grieving a loss. Stop pushing yourself to be done. God controls the world all the way down the breaths we take. You are on a journey to the next step in your life. As far as your hair, stop using heat on your hair. Mayo is good for your hair. Wash your hair with a good moisturizing shampoo towel dry. Add mayo to your ends and as far up as your hair is dry. Put on a plastic cap wrap your head in a towel and do not rinse it out until morning. Once a week do this. Stress and hormones are doing this. God Bless you and the babies.
Try using deep conditioner for your hair, add some oil, do a keratin treatment, and use pomade on your curls after. I think you should just cut your hair. It would match you and you will feel so much better.
Been there where u are its. It's like men are so selfish and tell us after we invested everything and all of ourselves when they been feeling like that for awhile.... my husband did him while we were seperated shit hurts but no one is perfect and we are back together like 8 mos later so maybe yall just need space he will see what he is missing. It's a phase but I will say I learned to put myself first during the break me and my kids are priority. Praying for u and your peace and happiness I had alot of sleepless nights worrying and wondering about him each day it will get easier. Enjoy the new beginning that's coming.
Of coarse you think of him everyday, he is your husband and the father of your kids! Keep your mind busy, believe me it helps, I too have been their. I love your family!
Stay strong girl just keep on move forward,,you are a beautiful woman Kiara and you deserve respect from your mate take care of your self and your babies and may God Bless you all.
Iv watched some of your videos , and honestly you shouldn’t even put on here that you are feeling insecure/ jealous about that video Desmond posted , cause that’s how your feeling and it’s very natural to feel . But don’t put something like that on here again , I understand you want to keep it real but from a woman point of view you will jus make Desmond happy your feeling jealous that’s what he wants . He only made that video with grills and shit on to make you feel jealous . Guys will be guys . Never let a man , your husband , your boyfriend , you partner . Whatever make you feel like they are better than you . My mom always told me that . To be honest you are way more beautiful than he is handsome . Trust me girl . Your very pretty ! When it comes to appearance you are on a higher level . ! But I understand how you feel . Any woman will feel jealous ! He acting like hes happy on purpose . I’m sure he misses you like crazy !
Did you find out who wrote that on your IG??? I could have sworn there was some female commenting on one of your live videos saying the exact same words like that IG comment. 🤔🤔🤔 DUST OFF those haters boo!!! 😘😘😘 Glad you still have your other IG.
Sis dont you worry in the beginning it felt forever like when are you gonna heal am I gonna be happy and let me answer that yes you will heal in time and first sure you will be happier . It may look like he is moved on n happy but girl its not true . He will realize what he had will be to late . Its okay to cry n vent it makes the heart stronger . So when you wanna cry , scream , vent do it never hold them in . We all ❤ u remember that
buy 2 picnic chairs you will need them in the summer and you will have a place to sit for the mean time. love you girl and the apartment will come along little by little
i always cry with you as i watch your videos. it makes me so sad cuz im in a bad position and i stay to keep my family together but im so tired of being sick and tired i hope one day i have the courage you had to walk away like you did
I know how this feels girl I left my husband for a couple months he is also in the army and acts a lot like Desmond and I felt a lot like you and it hurts some days more than others all the People hating obviously don’t have a heart to understand how it feels to go through this
Your "Real supporters" 👋😂 know and understand that u only did it to protect your children.. no one want to have to leave in constant fear of losing their kids over petty drama knowing that Kiara works super hard to make sure Her babies don't go without.. and who ever creates that account shouldn't be calling no one "Lazy" wen she the one creating fake accounts just to bash other people, shows who's the "Lazy" one really is. 🤷♀️ ijs lol btw Congratulations on your new apartment.. Happy New Year's!!
Stay strong kiara time heals trust in the Lord I've been thru it and trust that he will make it alright for you and your kids Happy New Year 2019🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊❤🎊🙏
Give your self a break you are so beautiful , I love u to bunches. You are so much more than tears . Your are the pearl in the sky . It's your time to shine . I wish I had , have someone just like you. U do more and beyond your share . You are a power house . You should invest in your/ stocks ...BC your Worth a billion. You are priceless. Kiara u you bring joy to my life. You are cut from a different cloth. You shine like a diamond , you bossed up. You are a power house. I don't like to see you get mistreated. I once was to afraid to live in far-Rockaway. You might comment back or not just know I wish I had the courage to do UA-cam . I feel I wouldn't get the love , support . Half of love you've gotten. I love your family & Love shown ... My family is truly dis -functional . I would love to see you buy a RV , and a serious love your self road trip , or the UA-cam office , all things pink. Missing your cooking. You are a c.e.o power house. I've been on the other side of a relationship where as to it ended and he got married his dream wife and children , karma is real , etc ..... Put u r heart in a treasure box . And wear your hear on your sleeve . Or vise versa. I just hate to see a beautiful woman cry. You are your own champion. You already have the pedal , medals. I would love to send you a card. Your daughter is so beautiful . You have been my Constance. Y.T FRIEND 🤗😎🕵️👸🙇💃.
U are so strong women lucha por ll ke kieres tu tienes una linda familia no agas caso siempre ahie personas ke va decierte cosas desagradable Dios los bendiga tu lucha no agas casos siempre va ver personas desagradable para fastidiarte tu vida.cuidate y no agas caso tu sabes ke kieres tu Happy New Year 2019
I have been here since wayyyy before all this game and you was just a little subscriber. I’m praying for your marriage and happiness and also for Desmond too. He reminds me so much of my husband. I love ya girl!
Girl you do what you need to do . Take the the time to heal emotionally and spiritually. Things happen for a reason , you did what was best for you and and the kids. Remember that people in the end will show their true colors . So be happy and continue to be you and do you .love you and the kids 😘Happy New Year 🥰
Men really don’t understand us single moms do so much while they go head and don’t have to worry about a thing when they wake up smh it’s stressful. I love your channel kiara you really inspire me and I look up to you beautiful.
Oh gosh Kiara! hang in there sweet girl, I went though a divorce after 10 years of marriage with 3 small kids, It sucks so much I felt like I couldn't make it through some days, I did meet a man later that I am still marred to 30 years now and have a total of 7 children. Just do what you your heart feels is right, I'm with you I have been there, Hang in there all of us viewers are here for you Love you we all do...
Girllll. Had to pause the video. Do not get numbing gel for Kalia. That stuff is bad news! Try a cold or frozen wash cloth or teething rings. Or get one of those mesh feeders and put frozen fruit in it.
Came to comment the same thing. It numbs their throats as well. It’s best just to get teething rings. My son LOVES the ones from target. They are hard and soft. And they have different shapes. He has a Fox
The sad truth is in any relationship or marriage there's always one that loves more and hurts more you were vlogging first which means they are thirsty because in order to follow him they were following you first, and it's not Petty to say something because that's how you feel you are being honest about how you felt and the shit hurts but you will get through it you deserve to be loved so much more he's always seemed so cold and calculating like he doesn't know how to show emotion or he doesn't know how to love properly in my opinion, stay strong mama, and if he does move on soon that shows how he really felt from the beginning no matter how much it hurts he shouldn't be entertaining those hoes period
Oh No Kiara! Why was I crying with u? Please don't cry... I feel ur pain. I separated after 11 years. I never ever thought I would say this, but baaae baaae let me tell u, the best way to get over one love is to find better love! When u finally do get treated the way u deserve, ur gonna ask ur self why u put up with not always being treated the way ur new love is treating u like the queen u are!! Trust me girl D is gonna regret losing u! U are freaking gorgeous!
*DON'T CRYYYY!!!* I understand. It's different for me because I want my husband to be happy with or without me. I don't want the responsibility to make sure he's happy. Nor do I want to make him obligated to make me happy. I hope you are able to find peace and happiness alone and if you do find your way back to him (which I'm secretly hoping for) that you are in a different headspace to where you don't need him to make you happy.
Sometimes we stay in relationships past it’s expiration date. Just remember that sometimes loving someone means you have to let them go . It is ok to move on. You will get stronger , you will feel better soon. Don’t stay stuck do what’s best for you and your children.
I understand how you feel .like i said before im going through the same thing.but the more i cried.the stronger i became.yes it hurts.but cry as much as you need too .cuz its going to make you stronger.you are focused on your kids and they will make you even more stronger.you got this kyara...i think you should straighten your hair.that will look nice too.
OMG! I promise this is my playlist when I'm getting ready! Lol great taste of music. I'm praying for you and your family that God's will be done and that He gives you the strength to get through this. You can do it. Stay positive... Love and Light to you :-)
I saw the comments on his Instagram video and I was honestly disgusted. I'm so saddened by all that you are going through, but the best thing is that you are surrounded by people who love you and have your back. Change is hard, but you will start to feel better soon, I just know it. The 2019 glow up will be strong!
Girl why do you still follow him on any social media. If you want to move on then you need to allow yourself to heal. Men like that CAN"T be alone so all this new clothes and "GRILLS" is for show. Why doesn't he use that money to buy his kid a bed..I'm sorry I'm just being REAL. Actions speak louder than words and nothing he is doing or has done the entire time I've followed your channel has shown him to be a supportive husband. He downgraded you everytime he had a chance.. Kiara I'm sorry but that is a form of abuse. He isn't happy, he is seeking validation and YOU nor your kids need this. Make YOU HAPPY!! and when you see he will still be in the same shit as he is right now
Hey girl! Ok for the curls and your dry hair it starts with good products. Don’t use drugstore products cuz they have lots of alcohol and waxes in them. Kerastase has amazing products for your hair. Start with the Bain Magistral. Always use a heat protectant and also a diffuser when drying. Good luck!☺️
I saw the video 2 n kinda thought the same thing, sumtimes change n space is necessary 4 those involved to realize wuts wut... i think he's tryin to cope with u bein gone while u try 2 figure the future out, no madda wut time heals...
But thats your husband and these dumb broads are gunna want to leave these thirsty comments to get under your skin......stay strong!! Girl your doing it!!!!
When I tell you I am feeling everything you are right now...its so real...but its a new year and im praying by the end of the year we will both be happy again...hugs!
You are beautiful inside & out❤️ After a rainstorm there is always a rainbow. Keep your faith & everything meant to be will find its way & fall into place. Well wishes😘
Kiara, leaving a marriage is one of the hardest decisions anyone can make, especially when you have kids. How you feel is completely normal and it’s gonna be many days of crying, it’s part of the grieving process. Some days you may not want to get out of bed but do it anyway. Surround yourself with friends and family for support, and if you want to vent on your channel do unapologetically. You gonna encounter trolls and may even realize you have a fan club which is flattering. But when the sun come out you will have discovered so much about yourself and will be a better version of yourself but it’s a process, trust it. Yes your husband may look good but under all that he still aloud you to walk away without a fight and that’s more telling then his looks, and just know you look just a good as he do actually you are a gorgeous woman and one day God will bless you with someone who appreciate not only your beauty but the most flaud parts of you as well. ❤️❤️
Girl just remember everything happens for a reason and it's going to get rough but take it one day at a time also there is going to be talking shit cuz they can't bare to see someone happy... Just keep up with your awesome positive vibes and amazing personality ....
I’m praying for you Kiara ... I know how it feels to go through this pain . Time heals all things . Much love from my family ❤️ we support you ! We love you so much !!!
Kiara you are blessed beyond means you have two beautiful children a loving supporting family I have been in your shoes and gone thru a separation and divorce and it seemed like hell for a little while then I started living for me God has a different blessing in store for you God bless honey sending you much love from my family to yours..
Hi Kiara I went to Instagram after you mentioned this and saw your pics and old workouts videos and videos on UA-cam dont do you justice,girl your gorgeous.
I wish you posted more! I know life can get in the way of course with kids & just life itself, but you are a very motivating person! I just turned 18 and I have been watching you for a couple months now & everytime life gets in the way for me, I jump onto your channel and start rewatching videos. Stay strong girly!❤️❤️
You can’t let what these crazy people do get to you, Kiara we know you didn’t wanna leave but you did what you had to do. My prayers are with the both of you whether y’all get back together or not, I hate that y’all aren’t together. But as long as y’all are happy
Even if he is hurt (by the separation) he will never admit it. That’s just how he is. He will pretend he is in complete control of the situation and his emotions. That doesn’t mean he has no doubts or regrets. However his pride will not let him admit it. Unless he actually is willing to work on himself (which he is not) he will NEVER change. He makes no effort whatsoever to fix things. That being said you need to move on. It will be hard but you will make it.
I got teary eyed watching this. Really appreciate you saying what you did, shows you are keeping it real and being up front. I know it's a tough time, but remember you have loyal followers. Team Cassell all the way because you both deserve happiness!
when a guy is emotional unavailable there is nothing you can do.......I speak from experience....you can try all you want but he is never going to be able to sustained a relationship......get counseling for you and your kids.
I agree, I realized that years ago myself.
Well said
That part
Exactly.. My ex husband was the same way and was in the Army. 11 long yrs I waited and tried but you can't change anyone..
A breakup is like a death! You will feel better and look back and be so happy you made this decision you weren’t happy and you did something you are so strong most women stay no matter what. Especially because they don’t want to be alone. Men move on faster then us, he will probably have several before you find one. But you will eventually find the perfect one for you!!! ❤️
Well said
Melissa Sparks so tru I’m goin sem ting
You will feel bad sad.. You are human... But give yourself time.. Surround yourself with friends.. Your family and kids.. In a few months you will be feeling way better..
The only women I know that would do such a thing is a side chick or a baby mama. They will get what is coming to them. Keep your head up your supporters have your back.
I would buy the beds and couch first. Then get the rest as you see fit. Take it one day at a time mama 💕
Oh! Kiara! My heart breaks for you😢 Don’t let negative people get the best of you! Like im sure you know not everyone wants the best for u n so of course people that are miserable want others to be too. So roll with punches and ignore them. Keep your head up and try to stay positive. Things will definitely get better. Family is everything and it’s obvious they have your back. Hugs 🤗 and 😘 Happy New Year 🎈🎊🎆 to you and yours.
Y'all are still married even though not in same state. Chicks need to respect that. Des will come around. We or least I'm smart enough to know why you left. He'll come around. When he does whats understood wont need to be explained. Just carry on like nothing ever happened. 🙂
Stop blaming the other women...the only one who is suppose to be committed to this woman is her husband. The other woman can only do what the MAN allows!
I've been there myself.married to a soilder,kid's,stationed at fort hood,ect...after moving with my kid's and belongings(what could fit in a minivan) back to Michigan!it was time to get back on my feet,find a job,a place,and start to regain my independence!!(I did it on my own without help from my spouse or the military)God knows I reached out to them both for help over a dozen times!! Girl,you can do it!I did and with more kid's.just take it one day at a time,healing gets better with time!#goodluck
Treat you hair with an oil conditioner 2 or 3 times a week. The iron is making your hair dryer. There's a spray you can use that shields your hair from hot iron damage. Spray it on each section of hair you're about to curl, let it dry ( literally a couple seconds) before using iron.
You look so happy doing your morning routine. When it’s real love it hurts I’m praying you guys get back together 💕
Use this time for your “me time” meaning focus on you. Your career. Your kids. & on KIARA! & continue to pray for your marriage. It shows that you truly love Desmond and it hurts that you’re hurting and crying.. i don’t even know you but I feel for you. I hope better days come your way love. I’ll continue praying for you love. Stay positive. You’re beautiful!!!!
Your dad is awesome it’s great that he has stepped up ❤️
Take all the time you need to heal love. It’s not easy dealing with the situation your dealing with. I admire you because you are a very strong momma! You deserve to be just as happy. God bless you and the babies. Always remember god doesn’t give us things we can not handle. For the dryness of the hair try organic coconut oil. It’s great and works for everything.
Your a strong beautiful woman. Men show their feelings differently from us. It’s ok to feel what ur feeling. Don’t lose focus of what ur doing (women wanting ur man, that’s the devil). Do what u gonna do until faith says otherwise.
Go to the dollar tree for hanger and cleaning supplies and stuff like that! And u can even do a glam diy from there
Hi. Those were some disrespectful people saying stuff to Desmond about him looking fine, etc. They should be deleted immediately cuz they are obviously not for you. With that being said take the time to mourn your situation, your breakup or whatever you'd like to call it. You are strong, beautiful and a great mom, daughter, sister, etc. You will be able to get through one day at a time. If it's meant for you to get back together in the new year, so be it, and if it's not then again, take it slow and pray, reflect and take care of yourself and those beautiful babies of yours.
God bless you and Happy and a Healthy New Year to you and your family!!! Love ya!!
Hello Kiara, keep your head up, just because you are not together right now doesn't mean that you won't get back together. Kalia is getting so big she is growing up so fast. Stay Strong.
You are gorgeous that man is a fool to lose you..but have faith cause this to shall pass..your a strong woman ..God bless you..and para lante like my mom would say!! 😘
People are really crazy and have too much time on their hands smh. Live your life girl, don't let no stranger or any other creep ruin anything for you! ugh
Are you going post a video of Dez and Corey visiting you and the kids? So happy he is there visiting. Love you guys❤❤❤
Stay strong girly!💖💖💖
You and the children need to be safe first and foremost. You're crying because you are grieving a loss. Stop pushing yourself to be done. God controls the world all the way down the breaths we take. You are on a journey to the next step in your life.
As far as your hair, stop using heat on your hair. Mayo is good for your hair. Wash your hair with a good moisturizing shampoo towel dry. Add mayo to your ends and as far up as your hair is dry. Put on a plastic cap wrap your head in a towel and do not rinse it out until morning. Once a week do this. Stress and hormones are doing this. God Bless you and the babies.
Happy New Year! Tell Kalia "level up" will be playing soon! Lol
That beakup playlist tho 😌 I feel u boo
I wish the best for you and Desmond always! Whether its tall being separated or together! I love you guys!
Try using deep conditioner for your hair, add some oil, do a keratin treatment, and use pomade on your curls after.
I think you should just cut your hair. It would match you and you will feel so much better.
Been there where u are its. It's like men are so selfish and tell us after we invested everything and all of ourselves when they been feeling like that for awhile.... my husband did him while we were seperated shit hurts but no one is perfect and we are back together like 8 mos later so maybe yall just need space he will see what he is missing. It's a phase but I will say I learned to put myself first during the break me and my kids are priority. Praying for u and your peace and happiness I had alot of sleepless nights worrying and wondering about him each day it will get easier. Enjoy the new beginning that's coming.
Of coarse you think of him everyday, he is your husband and the father of your kids! Keep your mind busy, believe me it helps, I too have been their. I love your family!
Stay strong girl just keep on move forward,,you are a beautiful woman Kiara and you deserve respect from your mate take care of your self and your babies and may God Bless you all.
Iv watched some of your videos , and honestly you shouldn’t even put on here that you are feeling insecure/ jealous about that video Desmond posted , cause that’s how your feeling and it’s very natural to feel . But don’t put something like that on here again , I understand you want to keep it real but from a woman point of view you will jus make Desmond happy your feeling jealous that’s what he wants . He only made that video with grills and shit on to make you feel jealous . Guys will be guys . Never let a man , your husband , your boyfriend , you partner . Whatever make you feel like they are better than you . My mom always told me that . To be honest you are way more beautiful than he is handsome . Trust me girl . Your very pretty ! When it comes to appearance you are on a higher level . ! But I understand how you feel . Any woman will feel jealous ! He acting like hes happy on purpose . I’m sure he misses you like crazy !
My heart hurts for you I know exactly how you feel ! You'll get through it 💕
😓omg Kiara i just had a baby so seeing you cry just breaks my heart. I hope you get through this and be strong
You look beautiful, Kiara. Keep your chip up, buttercup. 💕
It reminds me of that song Let him fly.
Did you find out who wrote that on your IG??? I could have sworn there was some female commenting on one of your live videos saying the exact same words like that IG comment. 🤔🤔🤔 DUST OFF those haters boo!!! 😘😘😘 Glad you still have your other IG.
Sis dont you worry in the beginning it felt forever like when are you gonna heal am I gonna be happy and let me answer that yes you will heal in time and first sure you will be happier . It may look like he is moved on n happy but girl its not true . He will realize what he had will be to late . Its okay to cry n vent it makes the heart stronger . So when you wanna cry , scream , vent do it never hold them in . We all ❤ u remember that
buy 2 picnic chairs you will need them in the summer and you will have a place to sit for the mean time. love you girl and the apartment will come along little by little
i always cry with you as i watch your videos. it makes me so sad cuz im in a bad position and i stay to keep my family together but im so tired of being sick and tired i hope one day i have the courage you had to walk away like you did
I know how this feels girl I left my husband for a couple months he is also in the army and acts a lot like Desmond and I felt a lot like you and it hurts some days more than others all the People hating obviously don’t have a heart to understand how it feels to go through this
Sending love and blessings your way momma! ❤️❤️
Your "Real supporters" 👋😂 know and understand that u only did it to protect your children.. no one want to have to leave in constant fear of losing their kids over petty drama knowing that Kiara works super hard to make sure Her babies don't go without.. and who ever creates that account shouldn't be calling no one "Lazy" wen she the one creating fake accounts just to bash other people, shows who's the "Lazy" one really is. 🤷♀️ ijs lol btw Congratulations on your new apartment.. Happy New Year's!!
One of My favorite song is 10,000 hours to Kiara!!! Well I love all of the ones in the vlog..lol❤ praying for you love bug!!!
I hope and your baby gets back together soon 😘💛
Love you stay strong 💝
God give his strongest battles to his strongest soldiers you got this not only for you but for your kids ❤️
Stay strong kiara time heals trust in the Lord I've been thru it and trust that he will make it alright for you and your kids Happy New Year 2019🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊❤🎊🙏
Give your self a break you are so beautiful , I love u to bunches. You are so much more than tears . Your are the pearl in the sky . It's your time to shine . I wish I had , have someone just like you. U do more and beyond your share . You are a power house . You should invest in your/ stocks ...BC your Worth a billion. You are priceless. Kiara u you bring joy to my life. You are cut from a different cloth. You shine like a diamond , you bossed up. You are a power house. I don't like to see you get mistreated. I once was to afraid to live in far-Rockaway. You might comment back or not just know I wish I had the courage to do UA-cam . I feel I wouldn't get the love , support . Half of love you've gotten. I love your family & Love shown ... My family is truly dis -functional . I would love to see you buy a RV , and a serious love your self road trip , or the UA-cam office , all things pink. Missing your cooking. You are a c.e.o power house. I've been on the other side of a relationship where as to it ended and he got married his dream wife and children , karma is real , etc ..... Put u r heart in a treasure box . And wear your hear on your sleeve . Or vise versa. I just hate to see a beautiful woman cry. You are your own champion. You already have the pedal , medals. I would love to send you a card. Your daughter is so beautiful . You have been my Constance. Y.T FRIEND 🤗😎🕵️👸🙇💃.
Everything takes time .. just pray and let God.
kiara keep ur head up 😊😊😊 u have god & ur family that loves you, you will be fine ok you god bless love you girl
Do what's best for your children and for yourself... stay strong and if you really feel like you need timw from social media go ahead..
Stay strong. Your mental health cones first
I have that same shower curtain
Yes 💙1 stay strong for your babies
U are so strong women lucha por ll ke kieres tu tienes una linda familia no agas caso siempre ahie personas ke va decierte cosas desagradable Dios los bendiga tu lucha no agas casos siempre va ver personas desagradable para fastidiarte tu vida.cuidate y no agas caso tu sabes ke kieres tu Happy New Year 2019
Oh kiara I'm in tears with you I can feel your hurt..
I have the same bed set your laying on lol.
Kiara it’s not easy getting over someone and you just have to take 1 day at a time.
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I feel ur hurt I've been there but please stay focus you going to be alright 🙏🏾😇💖
Awww i am so happy you are happy and doing well
😟😟😥💔 Praying for you & your kids...
Trust me Kiara, Desmond is NOT happy. He is far from it.
I have been here since wayyyy before all this game and you was just a little subscriber. I’m praying for your marriage and happiness and also for Desmond too. He reminds me so much of my husband. I love ya girl!
Our crAzy Life exactly. Men love to put up a show
Girl you do what you need to do . Take the the time to heal emotionally and spiritually. Things happen for a reason , you did what was best for you and and the kids. Remember that people in the end will show their true colors . So be happy and continue to be you and do you .love you and the kids 😘Happy New Year 🥰
Kiara, girl! Your skin is FLAWLESS! Two Snaps for that Hunty!
Men really don’t understand us single moms do so much while they go head and don’t have to worry about a thing when they wake up smh it’s stressful. I love your channel kiara you really inspire me and I look up to you beautiful.
You got this girl! I ❤️ You and those beautiful babies! 2019 is going to be a great year! ❤️👍💋😘
Oh gosh Kiara! hang in there sweet girl, I went though a divorce after 10 years of marriage with 3 small kids, It sucks so much I felt like I couldn't make it through some days, I did meet a man later that I am still marred to 30 years now and have a total of 7 children. Just do what you your heart feels is right, I'm with you I have been there, Hang in there all of us viewers are here for you Love you we all do...
You did the right thing by putting your children FIRST. THAT'S proof enough that you're an AWESOME mom!
Your the beautiful one honey hes not at your level babe
I wish I knew what really happened! You can tell she still loves him. 💜
Wow . Your tears just breaks my heart. One day at a time love.
It did to me too i feel for her so much dito
Seeing her cry really broke my heart breakups are never easy especially when you have little ones .😞😟
Girllll. Had to pause the video. Do not get numbing gel for Kalia. That stuff is bad news! Try a cold or frozen wash cloth or teething rings. Or get one of those mesh feeders and put frozen fruit in it.
Came to comment the same thing. It numbs their throats as well. It’s best just to get teething rings. My son LOVES the ones from target. They are hard and soft. And they have different shapes. He has a Fox
The sad truth is in any relationship or marriage there's always one that loves more and hurts more you were vlogging first which means they are thirsty because in order to follow him they were following you first, and it's not Petty to say something because that's how you feel you are being honest about how you felt and the shit hurts but you will get through it you deserve to be loved so much more he's always seemed so cold and calculating like he doesn't know how to show emotion or he doesn't know how to love properly in my opinion, stay strong mama, and if he does move on soon that shows how he really felt from the beginning no matter how much it hurts he shouldn't be entertaining those hoes period
Oh No Kiara! Why was I crying with u? Please don't cry... I feel ur pain. I separated after 11 years. I never ever thought I would say this, but baaae baaae let me tell u, the best way to get over one love is to find better love! When u finally do get treated the way u deserve, ur gonna ask ur self why u put up with not always being treated the way ur new love is treating u like the queen u are!! Trust me girl D is gonna regret losing u! U are freaking gorgeous!
*DON'T CRYYYY!!!* I understand. It's different for me because I want my husband to be happy with or without me. I don't want the responsibility to make sure he's happy. Nor do I want to make him obligated to make me happy. I hope you are able to find peace and happiness alone and if you do find your way back to him (which I'm secretly hoping for) that you are in a different headspace to where you don't need him to make you happy.
Sometimes we stay in relationships past it’s expiration date. Just remember that sometimes loving someone means you have to let them go . It is ok to move on. You will get stronger , you will feel better soon. Don’t stay stuck do what’s best for you and your children.
I understand how you feel .like i said before im going through the same thing.but the more i cried.the stronger i became.yes it hurts.but cry as much as you need too .cuz its going to make you stronger.you are focused on your kids and they will make you even more stronger.you got this kyara...i think you should straighten your hair.that will look nice too.
Men just don’t understand. Do what’s best for you. Life is to short. Find your happiness!💓
OMG! I promise this is my playlist when I'm getting ready! Lol great taste of music. I'm praying for you and your family that God's will be done and that He gives you the strength to get through this. You can do it. Stay positive... Love and Light to you :-)
I saw the comments on his Instagram video and I was honestly disgusted. I'm so saddened by all that you are going through, but the best thing is that you are surrounded by people who love you and have your back. Change is hard, but you will start to feel better soon, I just know it. The 2019 glow up will be strong!
Girl why do you still follow him on any social media. If you want to move on then you need to allow yourself to heal. Men like that CAN"T be alone so all this new clothes and "GRILLS" is for show. Why doesn't he use that money to buy his kid a bed..I'm sorry I'm just being REAL. Actions speak louder than words and nothing he is doing or has done the entire time I've followed your channel has shown him to be a supportive husband. He downgraded you everytime he had a chance.. Kiara I'm sorry but that is a form of abuse. He isn't happy, he is seeking validation and YOU nor your kids need this. Make YOU HAPPY!! and when you see he will still be in the same shit as he is right now
Hey girl! Ok for the curls and your dry hair it starts with good products. Don’t use drugstore products cuz they have lots of alcohol and waxes in them. Kerastase has amazing products for your hair. Start with the Bain Magistral. Always use a heat protectant and also a diffuser when drying. Good luck!☺️
I saw the video 2 n kinda thought the same thing, sumtimes change n space is necessary 4 those involved to realize wuts wut... i think he's tryin to cope with u bein gone while u try 2 figure the future out, no madda wut time heals...
I'm praying for you stay strong it will all work out in the end, sending love 💖
But thats your husband and these dumb broads are gunna want to leave these thirsty comments to get under your skin......stay strong!! Girl your doing it!!!!
When I tell you I am feeling everything you are right now...its so real...but its a new year and im praying by the end of the year we will both be happy again...hugs!
Sending prayers from this Island girl. I hope you all the best of everything. GB
I haven't watched your channel in a while but just be strong things always fall in their place I love you and your family you guys are beautiful❤
You are beautiful inside & out❤️ After a rainstorm there is always a rainbow. Keep your faith & everything meant to be will find its way & fall into place. Well wishes😘
Kiara, leaving a marriage is one of the hardest decisions anyone can make, especially when you have kids. How you feel is completely normal and it’s gonna be many days of crying, it’s part of the grieving process. Some days you may not want to get out of bed but do it anyway. Surround yourself with friends and family for support, and if you want to vent on your channel do unapologetically. You gonna encounter trolls and may even realize you have a fan club which is flattering. But when the sun come out you will have discovered so much about yourself and will be a better version of yourself but it’s a process, trust it. Yes your husband may look good but under all that he still aloud you to walk away without a fight and that’s more telling then his looks, and just know you look just a good as he do actually you are a gorgeous woman and one day God will bless you with someone who appreciate not only your beauty but the most flaud parts of you as well. ❤️❤️
amen to that
You just need to stay focused on your goals and everything else will fall into place ❤️
Kiara stay strong baby girl I'm praying for you and your family. God will work it out.
stay positive mamas everything happens for a reason... you are one strong woman XoXO
Girl just remember everything happens for a reason and it's going to get rough but take it one day at a time also there is going to be talking shit cuz they can't bare to see someone happy... Just keep up with your awesome positive vibes and amazing personality ....
I’m praying for you Kiara ... I know how it feels to go through this pain . Time heals all things . Much love from my family ❤️ we support you ! We love you so much !!!
Kiara you are blessed beyond means you have two beautiful children a loving supporting family I have been in your shoes and gone thru a separation and divorce and it seemed like hell for a little while then I started living for me God has a different blessing in store for you God bless honey sending you much love from my family to yours..
I love you Kiara!!! Keep your head up ❤️You have so many people that support you and love you
Congrats on 90k!
Hi Kiara I went to Instagram after you mentioned this and saw your pics and old workouts videos and videos on UA-cam dont do you justice,girl your gorgeous.
One day at a time sis 🙏🏾
Yes... one day at a time.
I wish you posted more! I know life can get in the way of course with kids & just life itself, but you are a very motivating person! I just turned 18 and I have been watching you for a couple months now & everytime life gets in the way for me, I jump onto your channel and start rewatching videos. Stay strong girly!❤️❤️
You can’t let what these crazy people do get to you, Kiara we know you didn’t wanna leave but you did what you had to do. My prayers are with the both of you whether y’all get back together or not, I hate that y’all aren’t together. But as long as y’all are happy
Even if he is hurt (by the separation) he will never admit it. That’s just how he is. He will pretend he is in complete control of the situation and his emotions. That doesn’t mean he has no doubts or regrets. However his pride will not let him admit it.
Unless he actually is willing to work on himself (which he is not) he will NEVER change.
He makes no effort whatsoever to fix things.
That being said you need to move on. It will be hard but you will make it.
I got teary eyed watching this. Really appreciate you saying what you did, shows you are keeping it real and being up front. I know it's a tough time, but remember you have loyal followers. Team Cassell all the way because you both deserve happiness!