Officially separated with my Husband. He just let us leave…. Road trip to V.A
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- #divorce #breakingup #separation
email: thelifeofkiara7@gmail.com
IG: @thelifeof.kiara
@kayemohh @tetris757
KARLA AND SIMONS CHANNEL: / @allaboutthealarcons4797
Some things should remain private like your marriage issues cause now when you go back to work things out your going to have the whole internet judging you..... marriage is for better or worse....
That’s cool but honestly if for whatever reason we end up back together months or years from now then that is OUR business. I will never let people who I don’t know dictate my life EVER. If I want to record my life whether it’s the good , the bad or the ugly then I’m going to do that(which I do) . Because it is my life and this is REAL LIFE. I’m not going sugar coat shit If I don’t want to
Kiara i think what u do is your buisness and people are always going to talk/judge so whatever forget them and keep sharing with us your a strong woman!!
Kiara’s Life just because you think your keeping it what you so call is “real” and not sugar coating anything. Does not mean it’s right which may be the first problem in your marriage eventually as you grow older and mature a little more you will realize that social media and real life (your marriage problems) should be separated. Your right it is YOUR life and YOUR MARRIAGE but when you put it on social media that lets everyone have an opinion on it as well. I been watching... you since y’all was fighting for Kory.... wish y’all the best...
Lucas Park far from that... but hey that’s your opinion 🤷🏽♀️
Love yourself to walk away when something is not right for you or your children.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👑👑👑
I was gonna say.... this is technically your channel.
TRUEEE. I said this too
Love u ARMY BARBIE.....
Army Barbie Hey 👋 my friend 😘l
Happiness looks good on u!!! Things r just gonna keep gettin better!!! Proud of u
thanks so much
I was in a very similar situation, in starting completely over after 15 years of being with someone, 7 years married and 2 kids. Leaving was the best decision I could have ever made. I'm finally really happy
You look so peaceful and happy , sometimes we don't know we weren't happy with our lives until we experience true happiness :) wishing you and the family the best !
You're a strong woman..some women would just stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the kids but I admire your boldness and courageness to just leave! Hopefully he'll realize what he lost but if not be bless on your new adventure of life!💜💜💜💜
God bless your sister and her husband for coming through for you in such a big way! Cross country w 2 little ones and the dog could have been so crazy for you alone! Praying everything continues going smoothly for you and the kiddies. You got this mama!! 🙌🏼❤️
Wow the kids behaved so good during the road trip ❤️ can’t wait to see you on your new journey
they did amazing. Im glad you're excited!! I am too!
@@TheLifeofKiara my kids do to.its insane how much they cry just for a 10mun ride lol
Before I watch this I just wanna say I’ve been praying for you and the kids. Sending love your way!
Thank you sooo much
🤗🤗I want to wish you all well..😘...when a women gets sick and tired of being sick and tired (ESPECIALLY when her babies are at stake) she’s going to get out..😍😍GOODLUCK 😘
Thr babies did so good which was good bcuz it helps while ur riding... I love live ur sister & brother-in-law they love u very much I have a lot of respect for them for all the support u needed & deserve... I'm sure u already know bcuz I'm not the only 1 who tells u but u have done a huge accomplishment & proud of ur goals & for keeping strong...
You got this boo!!
Thanks girl!
😓this is so hard for me to watch because it’s like watching my parents break up but i will be praying for you and your family. You’re a very strong woman and don’t ever give up on that strength you have
It's sad that you are going through this. I pray for you Kiara,Desmond, Corey, Jericho and Kalia through this new chapter of your lives. God will see you through and you will be stronger. Thank God for your sister Karla and Simon. You have an amazing support system. There will be good and bad days, but with God all is possible. He is giving you peace through it all Kiara. 🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🤗💞
So glad you did not drive alone.
So glad you all arrived safely.
...M❄M of 5
I’m not defending him at all but Maybe he didn’t want to do or say anything while u were filming or in front of ur sister and her hubby. That he didn’t want to show his weakness? (I’m speaking from my own experience.) I pray for u and the kids. Stay strong.
Kristina Jockel I believe that as well bcuz he’s already PRIDEFUL
Nope definitely not... he knows I do this for a living and he always encourages me to record literally everything.
This is just how he is
Yes Brenda he definitely had A LOT of off camera time. we only vlog 10-20 mins of our lives.
Kiara’s Life I was hoping maybe it was the case for ur sake. That’s how my husband was when we separated. Wouldn’t talk if anyone was around. I do know what it’s like not to feel like ur not wanted, appreciated or loved. I’m so sorry u are going thru this. But u are so strong and have so much love around u to support and encourage u thru this! Xo
MISHA ASMR/MUKBANG I do agree with u!! That’s the same outlook I have but not everybody does unfortunately. She’s worth fighting for and so is their family! She’s a great catch! So much love is in her heart!
I really wish my Ex and I wudve done a trial separation...Maybe things wudve turned out differently for us...but anger...resent...and pride ruined our marriage. I needed more from him...but after so many years of dealing with his constant neglect, i just walked...it wasnt too hard to move on bc i was already used to being alone and being on my own..but i cant help but to wonder if a separation cud have saved a 20 yr marriage.
I pray you both take this time to figure out what ur hearts truly want..dont let pride interfere with that decision. Be true to yourselves.
Yes yes yaaaas I am so happy for you!!!! I am so happy karla and Simon where with you on the drive. I am so happy your around family💜
I love at the end karla has kalia in your little pouch and holding her everywhere you guys walked around towards the end. I am nervous for his video.. I cant wait for your update.i also loved when karla said kiara makes moves lol. She's true. This is a journey !! Love you guys xoxo
Am just starting to watch but have to say Kiara you are so strong girl ...ive been praying for you and the kids..you are an amazing woman and mom..dont let anyone make u feel different or any less..we 💖 you girl 🙏💖💜 #KIARASLIFE
Your a strong women and mother I really admire your strength. Send love and blessings your way❤️
I have been waiting for this all day. I'm so glad you're all okay 😊
This stranger is VERY proud of you young lady. Keep looking forward towards happiness. You're doing great!
My sisters would do the same thing especially if I tell them I'm serious. Nothing like family! 🙌💯
I wish I had a sister! 🙄 enjoy this season of your life❤
My heart breaks for you having to go through such a difficult moment in your life. Speaking from experience pray, pray, pray, and pray some more that you see this as a step that you needed to get passed to get closer to where you need to be. IMO just because he can’t love you how you want to be loved and vice versa does that mean you guys are terrible people, you now know your worth a lot more than the day you met each other. Stay blessed....GOOD VIBES YOUR WAY!!!
Foolish Pride! He's acting like it doesn't bother him because that would show weakness! You can guarantee that soon he will realize how foolish his pride was! All to many times we don't realize what we have until it's gone!
A lot of people are saying “ you all need to work it out.”
GOD have everything planned out. This time away going to make you stronger and better!!!! I love ❤️ you Kiara and proud of you!
So excited to see what new videos you’re going to bring us. Especially with the new place.
Swiry i am still here praying to God to enlighten you, guide your path and give you peace that surpassed human understanding. I am proud of you for sticking up for Kiara!!! Keep going dear
Everything is gonna work out.i tell myself that same thing.but. to all the women thats going through this situation including myself.women are very strong.and everything does happen for a reason...
Wishing you guys the marriage ain't easy me and my hubby been together for nine years married for 6 we have our ups and downs but at the end of the day he fights for me and I fight for him praying for y'all love you girl
My heart just breaks for you and those little ones. Gosh I pray this is salvageable. But I get where Kiara is coming from...you can't fight alone for your marriage! Pride is a mutha and will stick it to you everytime. Smh
Damn girl, your brother is hela cute... god will give you strength to move forward
First, l want to Thank You for sharing your life with us. The bad, good and the ugly. Sometime when you love someone so much. You'll give them your all, even if they don't deserve it. I'm glad you put yourself first. I also have a question... Will Corey visit you in VA?
Wish u all the best its really sad that it had to end this way but if he's not willing to fight for his family what can u do
I know all about starting over after a breakup. I wish you luck babe...you got this💪🏾
Awww.. Im so happy for u.. Yaya..💞 mii & my sisters r the same way lucky 2 have family that got ur back.. Apt looks beautiful..
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Suerte en todo lo que agas kiara.cuida mucho a tus niños 😍😘😘
DAMNNNNN 26 HOURS n
I thought driving to GA from NY by myself with four kids was looong smh
I’m happy that you’re taking time apart. You need this time to get back to yourself. I’m still wishing for a positive outcome for your marriage though.
Love you Kiara and the Kids💕
So what's happening with the dogs who gets what dog
So proud of you look at you now 😊 love your vlogs.❤
So glad u guys made it to your destination safely.
Have yall thought about maybe doing a trial separation for like 6 months? See how yall feel in 6 months. I know when yall left he acted like he didnt care but he looked like he wanted to say dont go stay but he was afraid to say it .
So since u nd desmond split up r u still gonna be able to see corey
Hey mama you are going to be just fine and the kids , let him miss you
Heck yeah🙌🏽
Best wishes Kiara 😘💕👍
Glad you guys made it safely!
Happy that you all made it there safe
Aww girl you literally drove right by my exit on i20 about 45 min before y'all seen the capitol with the gold roof in atl
Que Dios te Bendiga en todo lo que Dios tenga para tu vida, que te de muchas Bendiciones para ti y tus hijos!!
It’s gonna hit him when he don’t see you everyday
It's going to hit him when he realizes he can't match any woman that's like Kiara... A person has to change his ways it takes 2 & Kiara changed her life for him & the kids... I agree with u it will hit him & it will be to late to get back what he had... Which she is a awesome smart beautiful ordinary unique woman...
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank God!!! You deserve so much better. Desmond I'm extremely disappointed with you .
The biggest mistake he made was letting a strong down ass woman who was with him thru thick n thin go. He will never find another chick that was there like u, now a days chicks are selfish or they dont want a man with baggage. Stay strong you got this girl keep ur head up.
Absolutely!
I almost don’t even care to see what Desmond has to say....step up and be a real man and enough with the disrespect! I hope he doesn’t hurt you any further. You are caring for two of his children now on your own so I hope he doesn’t start acting like he doesn’t have any responsibilities and starts getting involved with other women right away! Think of the kids Des and have some respect!
Your going to grow so much mentally emotionally and even your channel is going to boom! Sometimes we have to loose what we love in order to grow and become better people
WOW! I'm a grown ass man and this still feels like my parents are breaking up and I can't do anything about it. Especially when Kiara said she hopes Desmond finds someone else, and I'm like I want him to keep you, this is crazy. I know I shouldn't be this wrapped up in other peoples lives like this but I've been following them since almost the beginning and they've become like family to me in real life and I never saw this coming. I'm still praying this is a prank and Desmond and Corey will come up there for Christmas when Corey gets out for Christmas break. If it is a prank I will laugh, wow I guess Kiara has to do what makes her happy and if this is it then I'll have to adjust, great video.
Sisters are everything they will come to your rescue whenever and however 🙏🏻
Girl!!! Making Kiara Moves!! I love how positive you are!!! Keeping you all in prayer!❤❤❤
Kara I would like to say you dont realise how strong of a woman you really are.I spent my twenties n bad relationships that I wish I would have left when I knew it wouldn't work...Thats time i can never get back....now that I'm older n wiser now I know better...You are taking your power back😊💪I'm so proud of you! You are definitely an inspiration too many..Hod bless you n your family💜.
I wish I had a sister bond like you guys😢
Me too....
Dang he could’ve showed a lil bit of interest or something :/
Being around family during a break up or separation is the BEST!!!
it definitely has been good. I have been away from family for 5 years... yeah I see them from time to time but I used to see them all the time and then I was away which was okay because I had my husband and my little family but then sooo much started happening and I felt like I didn't have anyone to just cheer me up when I was super stressed....
Just remember everything happens for a reason girlfriend. You’re a strong beautiful woman and mom.
Omg kiara I'm so excited for you! You have beautiful things coming your way and I feel it in my soul...your energy is so positive and I love you and get ready for the best of your life!!! LOVE YOU
This video breaks my heart he has no heart letting you struggle doing all that with the car driving and everything with the baby :( BUT your such a strong mom you have a lot of self respect I love it you are inspiring best of luck if he ever wants to come back I advice you to make him try SOOOO HARD MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT TO PROCE HIMSELF !!
Yes you definitely need someone better that’s going to show you affection and love you the way you need to be loved and want to be. Love you girl and always be a good mom like you’ve been doing and keep your head up at all times. We’re all here to motivate you and keep you on your toes! Much love to you and goodluck with the single mom life!😘
Aww that was sad 😢 you’re a good woman , I believe everything will be alright for you on your next journey/future 🦋🧚🏽♀️❤️
Being a army wife you know what I’m talking about at times they can be so cold hearted for real the army shows them not to feel and at times they don’t know how to separate there job from there home life it’s sad but true my husband can get like that but I’m not one ☝️ check your self before walking through the door but anyway God has a plan for your life he always do he never fails us
I'm so happy for you for being you for being a strong mommy for your kids and for letting us women know that men dont always have to be in a girls life we as women can do it as well as men sometimes even better ! 😘 Nothing but positive vibes for you and I'm all here for you girl love yall bunches 😘😘😘
Definitely !! so true and thanks so much
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I would fear driving this long with my two kids lol your kids rocked ! Miss your videos glad your trying your best love!
This literally breaks my heart. But if God is willing, everything will fall back in place and your family will be 1 again. LOVE YOU GIRL
Kiara you got this seems to me Desmond don't care if you leave didn't even give you a kiss praying for you and the kids.
How can he give her a kiss when she wouldnt even look at him? He was looking at her and talking in the car and she acted liked she couldnt care less. Js
@@cherrypath1702 i saw this too, she was being shifty with no eye contact. it sucks cuz i felt how he really just wanted to say something but held back. hopefully they can come back, there's still love. 😭
@@edithgunter9312 maybe he still wouldnt have but he came over to her, looked at her, spoke to her and she didnt look is way, smh. I feel bad for the kids. Im sure they love eachother but sometimes it isnt enough.
@@dcovarrubiasxo How was she being shitty she uprooting her and her Kid's from her family. She been trying and trying!
@@candacemaxton1485 i said shifty, not shitty. As in movement, behaviorism. kinda like when you want to brush someone off.
Keep your head up sister and stay positive! I have been where you are and it does not feel good. But it looks as if you have a good support system. Concentrate on you and bettering yourself for your kids. Everything will work out for the Best!
Been following your channel for a while,never saw this coming
I really hope and pray you and Dez could fix whatever the situation
rather then just letting it go down the drain.Maybe all you both need is a Little time
To let each other rehabilitate on a mental level. You both are amazing parents ,I pray for a reconciliation
Between you both.
P.S.-->Mr. Dez let go of your pride a little you know you did not want your wife and children to leave,
Your body language showed your pride,But in your heart is love. God Bless!!
I already gave my input on marriage in a previous video of yours. I hope all works out in the end and that you both can be happy whether it's together or not. Maybe the separation will being back the love and create a new love and respect for eachother. 😚
Desmond reminds me so much of my ex husband who also was in Army. I too always had too walk around on eggshells and he showed no emotion. Your so strong Keria! You got this!
Always remember that you are resilient...I'm proud of you
A new year is coming with new beginnings 💖💝💖 Can’t wait to see how you’re going to kill 2019! Much love Kiara 💕💖💕💖
It’s crazy because I got out of a 5 year relationship and everything you are feeling I’m currently feeling. You are strong and keep positive! Your doing amazing 😘😘😘 maybe see a therapist. I am and it helps sooo much! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 keep your head up
Omg I’m cracking up when y’all tried getting that fountain sodas lol sunflower seeds is the trick to staying awake while driving so good job lol
Goodluck with the move sweetie and you done ran into all this va snow 🤦🏽♀️lol. your a strong woman and you have to focus on yourself and your kids and you know what your doing and your handling things great its a break for now i hope yall can fix it Desmond need to man up because aint nothing wrong with putting your pride to the side for you wife not girlfriend but wife Desmond fix this shit man she is good to you and you know it 👌🏽❤
I love the relationship that you and your sista have. # my sista died a month ago and it's been hard and at her funeral the pastor said husband come and go but family is always there! ❤❤ Will be praying for you!
Hey love your channel girl I'm a new youtuber I'm learning from you girl your awsome and a awsome mom !!! I made a channel my daughter have down syndrome and is battling with seizures so I created a channel to show everyone my life as a special needs mother !!! So keep doing the great work girl love ya your awsome!!❣❣
Welcome to my hometown I’m a va girl... I love it here . If you ever do a meet up in va please hit me up...best of luck to you.
I’m sad that’s its come to this point. But I know you’ve been wanting to have you time aside from mommy time. I’m glad you are finding yourself! During this time I’m praying that Corey and Desmond. Really everyone needs to heal. Also hoping that it all stays civil. And Corey if you ever read this none of this is your fault!
Plus I’m glad kiara has a sister and bro in law that’s ride or die 😎
Bless your family for being so caring and considered in helping you, wishing you all the best to you and the kids god bless❣️
You guys should have tape the key under the hood of the car glad you got there safe don't stress yourself out take care of them kids because when you get a loan I know you going to have a meltdown so be strong in this process God will fix it after while don't worry be happy love you girl Miss Vernell
I love watching you and I wish you and your family the best.
But GIRL... how are you a Herbalife coach condoning a healthy lifestyle and weight loss journey and you’re eating fried chicken with dressing (or whatever that is) ?? I know no ones perfect and you’re going through a hard time, but don’t gain all the weight right back just because you’re going through something...
You’re making it seem like Herbalife is a scam and you’re scheming all these people for their money. I think you should take weight loss more serious or stop selling Herbalife.
Not trying to be a hater I’m just saying what it looks like.
This was maybe my 4th or 5th time watching you back then. Damn we been through it!!! Still not divorced but this year si Dios quiere🙏🏽 The future so bright you gotta wear shades😎💚
So disappointed in Desmond he ain’t even half a man ! I’m glad kiara left and moved on with her life because he’s mentally abusive to her and she doesn’t deserve his treatment.
I watched one video of theirs where he talked extra mean and ugly to Kiara like she wasn’t shit and I’ve never really cared for him since .
This man is either cheating on her or just a idiot for letting his family walk out right before his eyes and don’t even make an attempt to fight for his marriage.
Girl go on with your life and find someone that going to truly love you !
Kiara you deserve so much better .
Although I understand that you wanted to stay with him regardless because he’s still your husband but Desmond is not willing to fight for the marriage and it takes two to make a thing go right !
Good luck and blessings to you and your kids and take the rest of your life one minute at a time .
Look Forward to the Future baby girl and not backwards at the Past ❤️
I love how Simon and Karla have always been with you and your brother in law is a real one! Love how you and Des are getting along love the Co parenting you guys are now awesome as a family even though y’all are not husband and wife any more y’all are an awesome team!
I am so glad that you all made it safely. I want to say thank you as well to your sister and her husband for helping you make the move. That is what you need in your life, people who love and care for you. God was already preparing you for this move by putting Herbalife into your life when He did. Keep trusting the Lord, and He will direct your path. Learning to love yourself and like yourself are the first steps in your healing. We should never allow ourselves to learn to function in any dysfunction. You are brave, strong, beautiful and caring. May God continue to guide your sails. Sending much love, prayers, and well wishes to you all. I pray that you and your husband whether together or not find the peace you need, and stay very civil like you have been throughout this process.
So glad you all made it safely. We just got back from a road trip to GA and it was quite ride lol.
Hello sweetie 💗. I'm glad you are leaving his sorry ass after what you been through with his sorry ass and his baby mama dramas, girl get your life together and your kids don't even bother asking him when he gonna see his kids. When you don't bother with him he will be looking for you, I been through this and now the father wants to be around the kids and trying to get me back. Now I have a new man who wants to be with me and my kids. His lost 😀. Many blessing to you and yours babies.
Stay strong girl! There is a lot of blessings headed your way real soon. Your happiness has started. Where ever God leads you, whether it be in Virginia or Texas, your a smart girl and I know you'll do whats best for you and your kids.
Not to far from 100k love u kiara ❤️
Kiara’s Life ❤️
I see Birmingham! yeahh 205! Sending love from Alabama
Y'all should of got tag number of that truck just in case the wood chips caused damage to your truck. Glad y'all made it safely
This whole break up reminds me of me & my husband just over 2 yrs ago, but he was cheating & I found out, we were together 16years but only married 16months before it all ended x
Frances Sumner wow. I'm sorry.
Way he was standing in door he acted like he didn’t want you leave or he wanted say something or for you have different reaction but seem like you was giving him cold shoulder and wouldn’t even look his way