Seeing Jericho cry when he hugged Corey goodbye made me cry 😭. The moment that you were in the car and Dez told you to text him whenever... at that moment, I just wanted him to grab you , hold you ... SOMETHING! How you let her just leave like that Dez? I’m heartbroken for your family but You will be ok Kiara.
I think dez is hurting he just need some more time as I can see he love his family's daily with all his heart. Sometimes we lady's does say the hurtful things sometimes.but faith is the answer to the key love you very much
@Caramel Delight yep. I was in a similar situation where my ex wanted us to have some "space" and i gave him that. I moved on with my child and let him have all the space that he needed.
Girl you got this!! You look so content with your decision!! And this means you know what KIARA needs. Sometimes you have to fall apart before you can fall back together... the lord knows what he has planned for your little family.. keeping your family close in prayer.
I have respect for Des but I am with ur sister he knew Jericho was leaving with you WHY THE F*** WAS HE NOT SPENDING EVERY LAST MIN WITH HIM. That mess makes me pissed at him.
Praying for you and your family. Bring that I saw first hand my parents breakup and advised my mom to leave when I was in the 4th grade to being in a marriage now with my husband for 12 years and married for almost 2. We have had our ups and downs but we vowed to make it work regardless of the struggles. Relationships are difficult period whether it is marriage or friendship. Every situation is different. God had to be with you both and must figure out a way to communicate and sometimes one had to be the bigger person yes its hard but you have to figure out what works. I pray that you both figure it out not only for yourselves but for the children as well. As a child this was the same move except we moved to Connecticut and were gone for a year my mom stayed and family stayed broken and I believe she wishes that she stayed and attempted to work it out. So with that said each situation is different he most likely showed his pride at the end of the day when you left but he came to the door most likely when he received the bye from you gabe he took it as not to bother you so he did not attempt to show affection men are different. I see both sides cause my husband and I used to do this all the time. Its not easy and no marriage again or relationship is. Try to find counseling for yourself and as a unit. Praying you all can become one again. One love. 😘🙏☝
NO COMMUNICATION = NO ONE GETS HEARD... PRIDE KILLS THE RELATIONSHIP... LOOKING AT THE PERSON IN THE MIRROR IS NOT AN IMPOSSIBLE TASK... TRUST GOD HE WILL GUIDE YOU... KEEP YOUR HEAD TO THE SKY!!!
Honestly I don't even care why y'all split the main thing is you are HAPPY I've never seen you so genuinely consistently happy before. You & your babies deserve to be a happy mumma ❤❤
Kiara, Sweet lady, I don't think I have written to you ever. I admire what you are doing for yourself and your children. It is very difficult to leave when it is one person You're leaving with two small children. I am very proud of you. I am old enough to be your mother or grandmother. I'm 61. You have family around you to help you. It seemed your husband stepped out of the marriage a while back and you were carrying the whole load. You love this man your babies were conceived in love. You are so right it is time to put you at the top of your love list. God Bless you and everything you do.
I literally turned into Niagra Falls the moment my Jericho started crying saying goodbye to Corey. I’m so sorry that you are going through this guys. Kiara I completely and totally understand your frustration and point of view. Praying for healing for you all and love you all.
U are so right...he will regret this big time but for some reason I get the filling that he will be calling and pleading for your return sooner that what u think...stay blessed....
I'm sorry but his upbringing plays a huge role in this. Just the way his mom spoke of u...showed me that she thought u were weak minded & her son wuz superior. He has that superior attitude & he's NEVER gonna be happy wit any1 that challenges that. U gettin ya life rite & becomin happy challenged that & now u guys r done. I don't doubt he luvs u but he truly can't handle a woman of strength. I keep u both in my prayers durin this hard transition. My heart goes out 2 the babies. God will comfort & guide u guys...just trust in him.
Man Simon is the best uncle ever, as well as a good father. Dang I haven’t watched any of these vlogs because to me it was sad to see. Glad your doing better now. And it’s awesome how Karla is being awesome with the situation. She’s very sweet for having your back but still respecting Des. Aww I’m sure Corey and Jericho’s good bye made a lot of people cry. That was so sweet.
Awww seeing Jericho cry when he was saying bye to Cory broke my heart. Keep being strong & do what you have to do. Maybe in time, things will get better but right now, emotions are so high so you both have to just move onto the next step. This separation might be exactly what you both need in order to fully understand what you both want for yourselves, your kids, & your marriage. You got this!!
You took the words right out of my mouth... so he does nothing? His pride wouldn't let him say or do anything. He will take his stance and say you're the one who chose to leave. I hope it all works out... for the kids sake at least.
Every time I tell my men about how I feel it’s always me to blame even when we fight but men don’t realize they are the ones that be the reason it all started
That car ride was chocked full of the most well articulated explanation of what things have looked like from the outside looking in. You singing thank you next just made me so happy for and proud of you!
That shit hurt when a man tries to act all hard like he doesnt care....but in a couple of days its going to hit him sometimes men let their pride get in they way of relaying the message of how they really feel when its come to relationships and women we are more intune with our emotions and most of the time we mean well I really hope that in the end you both find your way back to one another cause to see that baby cry when he hugged his brother broke my ❤.....God....Spouse....Kids.... and in that order....
Omg, i promise U Kiara, ur walkin in my past footsteps, too coincidental, i blame the Army 4 tha way my husband has turned out, the up's and tha downs, the lack of communication, the silent treatment, CPS involvement bcuz of his child, wow, i wish we culda actually met b4 u bounced- u will inspire others!
It's crazy how you, I and so many other wives are going through the same thing wirh our disconnected and disrespectful husbands. Keep your head up momma, adjust your crown and walk in your purpose ❤️
Girl go get happy, trust me he will see once your gone and it will be too late. You deserve someone that will appreciate you and that’s that. Don’t ever settle ❣️❣️❣️
He looked like he wanted to tell you something or even give you a kiss but you give him a cold shoulder I hope y’all work this out cuz y’all really look like y’all love each other will keep y’all in my prayers 🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing this with us, every day I try reminding myself that I need to love myself under the circumstances & this made me realize that sometimes it’s okay to let go even if you have children with that certain someone, if it’s not working we can’t force it.
Never Cried so much watching a video. My heart hurted just wanted to jump into the screen and tell Des to grab you hold you tight and not let you go.. but things happen for the better. May god bless both your hearts.
Hey girl Listen we was woman want the men to chase us down. But you cant expect him to hug and kiss you when you're ready to leave him, fully packed and your sissy and man came from a different state to come and help.you move. You made your decision and he's respecting it. I knoww that's not what you wanted but babygirl we gotta be realistic sometimes. Dont worry be strong and like you said if its meant to be y'all will happen regardless of time and space. We here for you.
This video literally broke my heart and I’m literally in tears that once again that the devil has come in and broken up a family. Jesus did it pls, Lord pls bring this family back together! Lord we know that you honor marriage and family. Lord Jesus pls help this family and bring them back together stronger then ever! In the mighty mighty name of Jesus I pray Amen Amen AMEN!
People don't write songs for the hell or fun of it. It's real life inspiration that creates a song girl! Yesss you keep your head up with your happiness and concentrating on you! Self love Is what's important 💕
Thats sad that des doesnt show his emotions like he dont care move on God is a healer and provider Des have alot of Pride God dont like ppl that strong on pride you have to worry about you be happy you need peace and joy to
I hope he’s just going through a phase in his life where he needs that time to figure himself out & what he wants!! I literally went through this exact same thing & worse a year ago with my kids father! & a year later (today, real time) we’re trying to work things out once again & everything is going smooth so far... we’re looking on moving back again together beginning the new year God willing!! If it’s meant to be it will be!! You’re going to hurt & so is your baby boy, but everything will be alright!! Always have Faith!’ Stay strong mama!
Girl you are awesome and showing women even when it’s hard you have to put yourself first. A man who don’t appreciate you can’t love or cherish you. You’re very pretty and have a good personality God will bless you with a man that loves you beyond questioning. Someone that respects and is whiling to change their bad habits to keep you instead of using this as an Excuse to be rude to you.
I guess to some degree this is therapy in a sense that you're coming clean about what's going on and how it's effecting the household. However, do we as a public, really to see your family imploding from the inside out. It's heart breaking and I do hope the kids can find some comfort going through this family turmoil maybe there's been counseling or will be but I truly pray they won't have to endure this separation sadness for to much longer. I pray you, your sons and your ex have the strength to endure all of this. 🙏🙏🙏
This is going to be a journey I tell ya...I see so much change in you Kiara...May my heavenly father allow U to see your true path...the end to something but a opportunity awaits you..use this time wisely...Because I believe your marriage is not leading to divorce...this is a test for your family...pray BIG baby....go get your BLESSINGS 🌟 THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WORLD WITH US...YOU WILL INSPIRE SO MANY WOMAN... BIG HUGS
This entire situation is heart breaking. I broke down when Jericho said goodbye to Cory and when Cory said goodby to Kalia. I hope everything works out for you all.
Your son broke my heart when he said good by to his brother 😭 your daughter felt that she was fine till she got in the car but you a strong women and I know you will be just fine with your kids happy holidays might not be the way you pictured your holidays but be happy you healthy you have two beautiful kids and you are beautiful inside and out
Seeing this completely broke my heart. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are strong brave amazing woman! I pray both of you get the healing you need! ❤️
Wow your son crying broke me and Corey is so aware and mature about everything that’s going on. Sometimes people just need separation to realize what they have!
Omg Kiara I’m so sorry. I went through this same thing in January with my husband(also in the military). I went home thinking it would scare him but he actually was happy and begin moving on with others and also when I left gave me false hope by giving me my ring back and telling me he still had hope just for a month to go by and say “my sergeant said I need to get a divorce” I’m like nigga what??? And then it became I WANT A DIVORCE” He enjoyed the space. It’s a very hurtful thing and no one can tell you what’s right for you. On one end I wanted to tell you to stay because of what happened to me but on the other end if someone isn’t treating you right and not making you feel appreciated then so be it, you know. But it does feel like a waste of damn time and sacrifices( on a whole other level as a milispouse and stepmom )but I still have hope for you and Dez as long as he didn’t step out(like mine did). I will be praying for your heart ❤️
My heart....💔. This was definitely hard to watch. I pray that he works on himself while you’re away and that he fights for his family. Thank you for being so transparent and strong. Love you
Girl you’re so strong!!!! ❤️ you’re beautiful inside and out, please don’t ever settle for anything less!! You deserved some hugs and tears when you were leaving 😢😢
So sad - I hope yall pull thru. I seen regret alll in his face smh. Pride is a mofo. When my husband and I were separated I prayed and sent scriptures from time to time. There is a way to separate, take care of you and not be cold to des. I love that your being strong. Got to for them babies!
You are beautiful! I have been through a divorce. I know it is not fun. But you will get through,you are so strong! if that is what you all decide. Prayers for you and your family.
i am truly sorry you are hurting and going through this. i’m glad you are going to put yourself first. what a great example of strength and independence you are showing to your children. xoxoxoxo
I do hope that things work out its not easy being separated and you guys need to see this from a mature perspective and grow up pray with each other and for each other God Bless!!
Seeing Jericho say goodbye broke my heart. This will affect the kids forever. My son has been affected tremendously. I hope some time away will help y’all figure things out. I wish I would’ve given things a better shot. Just my 2 cents.
Omg this is so heartbreaking, than Justice walks in the moment the boys was saying bye..u know we emotional😢.. Imma pray that all works out for the best...whatever that may turnout to be🙏
I have read most of the comments and it seems mostly everyone wants to bash the husband and said what he should and could have done to stop Kiara's leaving him. No one has even mentioned the text messages that was sent and stated that he made a decision based on emotions etc. If their wedding vows meant anything to the both of them....work it out...dont make up excuses as to why you are leaving....NEWS Flash: if DFCS wanted to remove your children they would have done so on the first visit or went to court to received a court order to remove the children because the allegations were true but they were not. When CPS comes into your home they try to disprove the allegations and to also assess the home to see if the children are in imminent danger and they were not. So where was the rush to leave...Oh by the way I work for a state agency....Department of Family and Children Services....Kiara you seem to be very happy because you are leaving...I am sorry but I have to say this you are putting your needs ahead of your children and marriage. Being married is NOT an easy ride!!! But you have really went on the opinions of others and their perceptions to leave your husband. You wanted him to react in a way that was simply not him....he reached out to you...we only see a few minutes of your life and not what really happened....NEWS flash again....previous spouses and baby mothers call DFCS to cause trouble for the current spouse or significant other.....get used to it...there was a way you could have reached out to a military family advocate to help you but you never did or it was not mentioned.....I am sorry but this was wrong what you did...
Finally someone said everything I been wanting to say all of this is blaming the husband and she isn't sharing the blame she's selfishness and the other son mom abandoned him now his stepmom is doing the same they are one in the same Desmond has kids by two selfish ass women they both need to grow up a marriage isn't a fairy tale this whole situation is sad I feel sorry for the kids
I think there was just more to it than we all were privy to see. No woman just packs up to leave a happy home... Please let's not play like woman have a tenancy to hide and cover our partners flaws and indiscretions and our pain and hurt in our situations until we can't any longer. I just wish them well I have no judgment for any party in the situation. People do what they feel they need to do at the moment and I think she didn't want him to let them leave.... It was a last ditch effort for him to fight for them and he didn't. Pride and ego is a motherfucker smh
Seeing Jericho and Corey say good bye...I can’t. 💔 My heart literally hurt and a lump developed in my throat. I’m praying for this family. May HE fix and mend the broken pieces to make this family whole again. 🙏🏽
I'm proud of you for taking a stand and removing yourself that toxic situation. It's time to start over to a new beginning. No looking back only forward life is too short to waste precious moments that can't be retrieved.
The last chapter for this book has ended. I was in tears. But it is time to open a whole new book and create a whole new story with your loved ones!. God bless you and stay strong girl.
I swear when I hear your feelings and everything your going through ... I feel your talking about my life . I don’t like seeing you go through this but I stay watching not cause I’m 👃 but because this makes me know and feel like I’m not the only one feeling what I do .
Jericho crying hugging his brother made me start bawling, dez looked blank he should have been crying hugging his kids bye!! Your doing the right thing.... And all will be ok just a little time and working out details and getting in a new routine, everything is going to be ok and probably better then u could have imagined!!!
God bless you and your family girl 🙏🏼 this brought back so many memories for me it is one of the hardest things that we as women will probably have to go through😔 I might be wrong it kind of seems to me like he’s got his attention on something else and you don’t need that. . you’ll get through this keep your head up🙏🏼
This was sad to watch. Des demeanor was completely different like a completely different person. He was even different with Karla and Simon. Sometimes space is what is needed. In the meantime both of y'all work on yourselves to be better for one another or better parents. Hoping everything works how out you both want it. 🙂
This entire vid just made me feel so bad for your entire family. I know how you feel and I am soooooo sorry that you are having to go through this. Maybe this unfortunate break will make Dez more appreciative to what he has to lose. I pray really hard that things get better for your family to be whole again.
This breaks my heart seeing the kids cry. Made me cry but you will be okay it pays off in the end. A happier and peaceful life ! your a strong woman you can do this.
Awww I cried when Jericho was saying goodbye to Corey and when you were talking to Rockie,SOOO sad I wish and PRAY THAT Des will put his pride aside and y'all work thing's out,I ALWAYS HATE to see marriages fall apart, I wish nothing but the very best FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, MUCH LOVE❣❣❣
im crying my eyes out!!! when Jericho said bye to Corey.... :( im still crying... He really did love his brother so much... this really touched my heart so much.
Seeing Jericho cry when he hugged Corey goodbye made me cry 😭. The moment that you were in the car and Dez told you to text him whenever... at that moment, I just wanted him to grab you , hold you ... SOMETHING! How you let her just leave like that Dez? I’m heartbroken for your family but You will be ok Kiara.
I cried too 😭😭😭 ND I thought the same thing abt Dez 💔
That was heartbreaking for her. I felt so bad for her
I think dez is hurting he just need some more time as I can see he love his family's daily with all his heart. Sometimes we lady's does say the hurtful things sometimes.but faith is the answer to the key love you very much
Cynthia Cordova yess!!! Seeing that I was like Dez wtf are you doing!!!?? Don’t let her goooo! 😫
You took the words right out of my mouth, girl!
It sounds like desmon doesnt give a damn anymore. Honestly i think desmon just wants to be alone.
@Caramel Delight yep. I was in a similar situation where my ex wanted us to have some "space" and i gave him that. I moved on with my child and let him have all the space that he needed.
And it’s called gaslighting , when they try and make you feel like you are insecure and not validating how you feel.
Dezy Moorer my husband loves to try me with that shit. Ugh!!
OMG!!! I cried when Jericho started crying. Girl you are so strong. Praying for you and your family!!
Wow he’s so calm n nonchalant smh just proves you did the right thing kiara
Right!!
AWWW SEEING THE KIDS CRYING WAS SOOO SAD 😢😢.... these types of situations are so hard 🙁
Heartbreaking
I ugly cried forreal
Wtf what kind of man let’s his wife and kids leave when it’s not that serious?!?!
I wish she could tell the whole story,separating kids is heartbreaking
Micki T. She probably will once she fully settled
Maybe it is that serious.
That guy is an asshole.
A man that don’t want to let his pride down
Them babies crying got my heart shattered! I'm praying for yall honey. The devil is a liar. Gods plan will prevail in the end.❣
Omg you have me crying watching the children say goodbye to each other 🙏🏾
Aw man seeing Jericho cry when it was time to leave made me tear up 😞. I'm praying things will smooth over . I'm praying for you and the kiddos
Girl you got this!! You look so content with your decision!! And this means you know what KIARA needs. Sometimes you have to fall apart before you can fall back together... the lord knows what he has planned for your little family.. keeping your family close in prayer.
OMG I started crying as soon as I saw Jaricho crying. May god bless you all..
Me too! That broke my heart!
Me too I was 😭😭😭😭😭
I have respect for Des but I am with ur sister he knew Jericho was leaving with you WHY THE F*** WAS HE NOT SPENDING EVERY LAST MIN WITH HIM. That mess makes me pissed at him.
Exactly
I totally agree
Yeah that is messed up
Girl i get it, im ending a 15yr marriage it's hard af but we have to put us first. Stay strong we can do this. I'll pray for u
Nicole Jones ABSOLUTELY 💯💯
Praying for you and your family. Bring that I saw first hand my parents breakup and advised my mom to leave when I was in the 4th grade to being in a marriage now with my husband for 12 years and married for almost 2. We have had our ups and downs but we vowed to make it work regardless of the struggles. Relationships are difficult period whether it is marriage or friendship. Every situation is different. God had to be with you both and must figure out a way to communicate and sometimes one had to be the bigger person yes its hard but you have to figure out what works. I pray that you both figure it out not only for yourselves but for the children as well. As a child this was the same move except we moved to Connecticut and were gone for a year my mom stayed and family stayed broken and I believe she wishes that she stayed and attempted to work it out. So with that said each situation is different he most likely showed his pride at the end of the day when you left but he came to the door most likely when he received the bye from you gabe he took it as not to bother you so he did not attempt to show affection men are different. I see both sides cause my husband and I used to do this all the time. Its not easy and no marriage again or relationship is. Try to find counseling for yourself and as a unit. Praying you all can become one again. One love. 😘🙏☝
NO COMMUNICATION = NO ONE GETS HEARD... PRIDE KILLS THE RELATIONSHIP... LOOKING AT THE PERSON IN THE MIRROR IS NOT AN IMPOSSIBLE TASK... TRUST GOD HE WILL GUIDE YOU... KEEP YOUR HEAD TO THE SKY!!!
Honestly I don't even care why y'all split the main thing is you are HAPPY I've never seen you so genuinely consistently happy before. You & your babies deserve to be a happy mumma ❤❤
Kiara, Sweet lady, I don't think I have written to you ever. I admire what you are doing for yourself and your children. It is very difficult to leave when it is one person You're leaving with two small children. I am very proud of you. I am old enough to be your mother or grandmother. I'm 61. You have family around you to help you. It seemed your husband stepped out of the marriage a while back and you were carrying the whole load. You love this man your babies were conceived in love. You are so right it is time to put you at the top of your love list. God Bless you and everything you do.
I literally turned into Niagra Falls the moment my Jericho started crying saying goodbye to Corey. I’m so sorry that you are going through this guys. Kiara I completely and totally understand your frustration and point of view. Praying for healing for you all and love you all.
How could he just watch his world walk away and not do anything to stop it.
That part 👏👏
Holding back tears watching Jericho cry 😢. I pray this “break” will bring you guys back together and have a stronger relationship.
You go girl never beg a man
U are so right...he will regret this big time but for some reason I get the filling that he will be calling and pleading for your return sooner that what u think...stay blessed....
I'm sorry but his upbringing plays a huge role in this. Just the way his mom spoke of u...showed me that she thought u were weak minded & her son wuz superior. He has that superior attitude & he's NEVER gonna be happy wit any1 that challenges that. U gettin ya life rite & becomin happy challenged that & now u guys r done. I don't doubt he luvs u but he truly can't handle a woman of strength. I keep u both in my prayers durin this hard transition. My heart goes out 2 the babies. God will comfort & guide u guys...just trust in him.
Tantalizing Tyasha is it another video where his mom talks about her? Do you remember which one?
Tantalizing Tyasha I really thought I was the only one that noticed this 👍🏼
Man Simon is the best uncle ever, as well as a good father. Dang I haven’t watched any of these vlogs because to me it was sad to see. Glad your doing better now. And it’s awesome how Karla is being awesome with the situation. She’s very sweet for having your back but still respecting Des. Aww I’m sure Corey and Jericho’s good bye made a lot of people cry. That was so sweet.
Kiara keep your head up you are a strong mommy and person in general . 🙏🏽❤️
Awww seeing Jericho cry when he was saying bye to Cory broke my heart. Keep being strong & do what you have to do. Maybe in time, things will get better but right now, emotions are so high so you both have to just move onto the next step. This separation might be exactly what you both need in order to fully understand what you both want for yourselves, your kids, & your marriage. You got this!!
So know that it's over and move on sis, he will have to face everything that he has put you through
Yes and crazy thing is he got two child support payments to pay so he really gonna have to do
You took the words right out of my mouth... so he does nothing? His pride wouldn't let him say or do anything. He will take his stance and say you're the one who chose to leave. I hope it all works out... for the kids sake at least.
Sometimes you have to do what's best for you and your life, not what's best for everyone else.
Every time I tell my men about how I feel it’s always me to blame even when we fight but men don’t realize they are the ones that be the reason it all started
Beauty Star Bc he is deflecting
Yes yes exactly
Kiara it’s not a waste you have Jericho and Kalia. You deserve better. I really don’t think you are the problem. Love to you all🤗😘
That car ride was chocked full of the most well articulated explanation of what things have looked like from the outside looking in. You singing thank you next just made me so happy for and proud of you!
That shit hurt when a man tries to act all hard like he doesnt care....but in a couple of days its going to hit him sometimes men let their pride get in they way of relaying the message of how they really feel when its come to relationships and women we are more intune with our emotions and most of the time we mean well I really hope that in the end you both find your way back to one another cause to see that baby cry when he hugged his brother broke my ❤.....God....Spouse....Kids.... and in that order....
Omg, i promise U Kiara, ur walkin in my past footsteps, too coincidental, i blame the Army 4 tha way my husband has turned out, the up's and tha downs, the lack of communication, the silent treatment, CPS involvement bcuz of his child, wow, i wish we culda actually met b4 u bounced- u will inspire others!
He’s clearly been wanting this for awhile... keep your head up you’re a strong woman
It's crazy how you, I and so many other wives are going through the same thing wirh our disconnected and disrespectful husbands. Keep your head up momma, adjust your crown and walk in your purpose ❤️
Dear Mr.Cassell🙏 💔🙏 hoping you'll get on the next ✈& go get your family
Girl go get happy, trust me he will see once your gone and it will be too late. You deserve someone that will appreciate you and that’s that. Don’t ever settle ❣️❣️❣️
He looked like he wanted to tell you something or even give you a kiss but you give him a cold shoulder I hope y’all work this out cuz y’all really look like y’all love each other will keep y’all in my prayers 🙏🙏
I thought the same
Thank you for sharing this with us, every day I try reminding myself that I need to love myself under the circumstances & this made me realize that sometimes it’s okay to let go even if you have children with that certain someone, if it’s not working we can’t force it.
The part where the kids hugged and he started crying... broke me . 💔
Never Cried so much watching a video. My heart hurted just wanted to jump into the screen and tell Des to grab you hold you tight and not let you go.. but things happen for the better. May god bless both your hearts.
Hey girl Listen we was woman want the men to chase us down. But you cant expect him to hug and kiss you when you're ready to leave him, fully packed and your sissy and man came from a different state to come and help.you move. You made your decision and he's respecting it. I knoww that's not what you wanted but babygirl we gotta be realistic sometimes. Dont worry be strong and like you said if its meant to be y'all will happen regardless of time and space. We here for you.
I'm glad you decided to love yourself first. And to make you happy first!
Your not crying because you're relieved.❤
This video literally broke my heart and I’m literally in tears that once again that the devil has come in and broken up a family. Jesus did it pls, Lord pls bring this family back together! Lord we know that you honor marriage and family. Lord Jesus pls help this family and bring them back together stronger then ever! In the mighty mighty name of Jesus I pray Amen Amen AMEN!
People don't write songs for the hell or fun of it. It's real life inspiration that creates a song girl! Yesss you keep your head up with your happiness and concentrating on you! Self love Is what's important 💕
Thats sad that des doesnt show his emotions like he dont care move on God is a healer and provider Des have alot of Pride God dont like ppl that strong on pride you have to worry about you be happy you need peace and joy to
My heart SANK when Jericho cried giving a hug to Corey. 😥😥😥😥
I hope he’s just going through a phase in his life where he needs that time to figure himself out & what he wants!! I literally went through this exact same thing & worse a year ago with my kids father! & a year later (today, real time) we’re trying to work things out once again & everything is going smooth so far... we’re looking on moving back again together beginning the new year God willing!! If it’s meant to be it will be!! You’re going to hurt & so is your baby boy, but everything will be alright!! Always have Faith!’ Stay strong mama!
Girl you are awesome and showing women even when it’s hard you have to put yourself first. A man who don’t appreciate you can’t love or cherish you. You’re very pretty and have a good personality God will bless you with a man that loves you beyond questioning. Someone that respects and is whiling to change their bad habits to keep you instead of using this as an Excuse to be rude to you.
OH MY GOSH.... thats so sad. To see Jericho crying... OMG!!!! Im crying....
I guess to some degree this is therapy in a sense that you're coming clean about what's going on and how it's effecting the household. However, do we as a public, really to see your family imploding from the inside out. It's heart breaking and I do hope the kids can find some comfort going through this family turmoil maybe there's been counseling or will be but I truly pray they won't have to endure this separation sadness for to much longer. I pray you, your sons and your ex have the strength to endure all of this. 🙏🙏🙏
This is going to be a journey I tell ya...I see so much change in you Kiara...May my heavenly father allow U to see your true path...the end to something but a opportunity awaits you..use this time wisely...Because I believe your marriage is not leading to divorce...this is a test for your family...pray BIG baby....go get your BLESSINGS 🌟 THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WORLD WITH US...YOU WILL INSPIRE SO MANY WOMAN... BIG HUGS
This entire situation is heart breaking. I broke down when Jericho said goodbye to Cory and when Cory said goodby to Kalia. I hope everything works out for you all.
Your son broke my heart when he said good by to his brother 😭 your daughter felt that she was fine till she got in the car but you a strong women and I know you will be just fine with your kids happy holidays might not be the way you pictured your holidays but be happy you healthy you have two beautiful kids and you are beautiful inside and out
Seeing this completely broke my heart. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are strong brave amazing woman! I pray both of you get the healing you need! ❤️
I'm praying for your marriage. Dont give up on it. I can tell he didn't want you to go and I know you didn't want to leave.
Jericho crying made me cry. Love you guys so much and glad you all made it safe!
Wow your son crying broke me and Corey is so aware and mature about everything that’s going on. Sometimes people just need separation to realize what they have!
Yes girl. Please keep your head up and find yourself again.
Proud Of You For Finally Choosing You & Putting Yourself & Your Happiness First 👏🏼💪🏼
Omg Kiara I’m so sorry. I went through this same thing in January with my husband(also in the military). I went home thinking it would scare him but he actually was happy and begin moving on with others and also when I left gave me false hope by giving me my ring back and telling me he still had hope just for a month to go by and say “my sergeant said I need to get a divorce” I’m like nigga what??? And then it became I WANT A DIVORCE” He enjoyed the space. It’s a very hurtful thing and no one can tell you what’s right for you. On one end I wanted to tell you to stay because of what happened to me but on the other end if someone isn’t treating you right and not making you feel appreciated then so be it, you know. But it does feel like a waste of damn time and sacrifices( on a whole other level as a milispouse and stepmom )but I still have hope for you and Dez as long as he didn’t step out(like mine did). I will be praying for your heart ❤️
I totally get what your saying about whole other level of sacrafice. I'm a mil spouse too. I just shared my first video today on my channel
Dezy Moorer I feel you so hard on that
My heart....💔. This was definitely hard to watch. I pray that he works on himself while you’re away and that he fights for his family. Thank you for being so transparent and strong. Love you
I'm crying happy tears for you Kiara I'm so proud of you! Now I'm just going to sit back and watch you shine hon! 😍 You deserve that and more!!!
Baby boy crying broke my heart but I'm so freaking proud of you for loving yourself enough to walk away when you're heart tells you to.
Girl you’re so strong!!!! ❤️ you’re beautiful inside and out, please don’t ever settle for anything less!! You deserved some hugs and tears when you were leaving 😢😢
So sad - I hope yall pull thru. I seen regret alll in his face smh. Pride is a mofo. When my husband and I were separated I prayed and sent scriptures from time to time. There is a way to separate, take care of you and not be cold to des. I love that your being strong. Got to for them babies!
Omg this is soo heartbreaking, when jericho hugged corey i lost it he is gonna moss him soo much. Wish you guys nothing but the best ❤
I cried when Jericho cried saying bye to Corey. So real, so sad but it’s for the best. You’re a strong women, you and your kids will be fine!
You are beautiful! I have been through a divorce. I know it is not fun. But you will get through,you are so strong! if that is what you all decide. Prayers for you and your family.
i am truly sorry you are hurting and going through this. i’m glad you are going to put yourself first. what a great example of strength and independence you are showing to your children.
xoxoxoxo
I do hope that things work out its not easy being separated and you guys need to see this from a mature perspective and grow up pray with each other and for each other
God Bless!!
Amen
Wow! this really broke my heart. I’m praying for your family and you. I can’t imagine what you all are going through.
Awww made me sad t ok see Jericho cry. But hope all is well! Cnt wait for next vlog! 🤪
I can relate to this sooo much ! Time will reveal you made a good decision. Continue to put you first
Seeing Jericho say goodbye broke my heart. This will affect the kids forever. My son has been affected tremendously. I hope some time away will help y’all figure things out. I wish I would’ve given things a better shot. Just my 2 cents.
Been worried about you 😔. Everything will be ok , it’s a new start hun
Praying for you through this tough time. Troubles don’t last always though. There is sunshine after the rain
The kids are the ones affected the most
Omg this is so heartbreaking, than Justice walks in the moment the boys was saying bye..u know we emotional😢.. Imma pray that all works out for the best...whatever that may turnout to be🙏
I have read most of the comments and it seems mostly everyone wants to bash the husband and said what he should and could have done to stop Kiara's leaving him. No one has even mentioned the text messages that was sent and stated that he made a decision based on emotions etc. If their wedding vows meant anything to the both of them....work it out...dont make up excuses as to why you are leaving....NEWS Flash: if DFCS wanted to remove your children they would have done so on the first visit or went to court to received a court order to remove the children because the allegations were true but they were not. When CPS comes into your home they try to disprove the allegations and to also assess the home to see if the children are in imminent danger and they were not. So where was the rush to leave...Oh by the way I work for a state agency....Department of Family and Children Services....Kiara you seem to be very happy because you are leaving...I am sorry but I have to say this you are putting your needs ahead of your children and marriage. Being married is NOT an easy ride!!! But you have really went on the opinions of others and their perceptions to leave your husband. You wanted him to react in a way that was simply not him....he reached out to you...we only see a few minutes of your life and not what really happened....NEWS flash again....previous spouses and baby mothers call DFCS to cause trouble for the current spouse or significant other.....get used to it...there was a way you could have reached out to a military family advocate to help you but you never did or it was not mentioned.....I am sorry but this was wrong what you did...
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Finally someone said everything I been wanting to say all of this is blaming the husband and she isn't sharing the blame she's selfishness and the other son mom abandoned him now his stepmom is doing the same they are one in the same Desmond has kids by two selfish ass women they both need to grow up a marriage isn't a fairy tale this whole situation is sad I feel sorry for the kids
What was he doing beating the kids?????? I haven't watch the channel in a year.
I think there was just more to it than we all were privy to see. No woman just packs up to leave a happy home... Please let's not play like woman have a tenancy to hide and cover our partners flaws and indiscretions and our pain and hurt in our situations until we can't any longer. I just wish them well I have no judgment for any party in the situation. People do what they feel they need to do at the moment and I think she didn't want him to let them leave.... It was a last ditch effort for him to fight for them and he didn't. Pride and ego is a motherfucker smh
Yassss! 9:39 Let that hurt make you greater sis! You have two beautiful kids just focus on y’all and everything else will fall into place. ☝🏾🙏🏾
Seeing Jericho and Corey say good bye...I can’t. 💔 My heart literally hurt and a lump developed in my throat. I’m praying for this family. May HE fix and mend the broken pieces to make this family whole again. 🙏🏽
Awww Kiara, this broke my heart. I hate that you all gotta go through all of this💔 I am praying things work out for you all.
I'm proud of you for taking a stand and removing yourself that toxic situation. It's time to start over to a new beginning. No looking back only forward life is too short to waste precious moments that can't be retrieved.
Such a sad video. I couldn’t hold back the tears when Jericho started crying. I hope nothing but the best for both of you.
The last chapter for this book has ended. I was in tears. But it is time to open a whole new book and create a whole new story with your loved ones!. God bless you and stay strong girl.
China and The Guys Ok 👌🏻
I swear when I hear your feelings and everything your going through ... I feel your talking about my life . I don’t like seeing you go through this but I stay watching not cause I’m 👃 but because this makes me know and feel like I’m not the only one feeling what I do .
Jericho crying hugging his brother made me start bawling, dez looked blank he should have been crying hugging his kids bye!! Your doing the right thing.... And all will be ok just a little time and working out details and getting in a new routine, everything is going to be ok and probably better then u could have imagined!!!
Omg 😭😭😭😭 it broke my heart to see Jericho cry for his brother like that. I pray everything works out for your family love.
God bless you and your family girl 🙏🏼 this brought back so many memories for me it is one of the hardest things that we as women will probably have to go through😔 I might be wrong it kind of seems to me like he’s got his attention on something else and you don’t need that. . you’ll get through this keep your head up🙏🏼
This was sad to watch. Des demeanor was completely different like a completely different person. He was even different with Karla and Simon. Sometimes space is what is needed. In the meantime both of y'all work on yourselves to be better for one another or better parents. Hoping everything works how out you both want it. 🙂
Omg seeing the kids cry made me cry. You are strong and smart and beautiful . Stay strong and continue to build u up
U never know what goes on behind doors... they seemed perfectly fine. Ive watched some vlogs and i just cant believe it. Your strong girl❤️❤️❤️
This entire vid just made me feel so bad for your entire family. I know how you feel and I am soooooo sorry that you are having to go through this. Maybe this unfortunate break will make Dez more appreciative to what he has to lose. I pray really hard that things get better for your family to be whole again.
This breaks my heart seeing the kids cry. Made me cry but you will be okay it pays off in the end. A happier and peaceful life ! your a strong woman you can do this.
You’re so strong, you’re making the right choice for yourself.
I just bursted into the biggest years when Jericho gave Corey a hug 😭💔 Keep your head up Kiara ❤️
Awww I cried when Jericho was saying goodbye to Corey and when you were talking to Rockie,SOOO sad I wish and PRAY THAT Des will put his pride aside and y'all work thing's out,I ALWAYS HATE to see marriages fall apart, I wish nothing but the very best FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, MUCH LOVE❣❣❣
im crying my eyes out!!! when Jericho said bye to Corey.... :( im still crying... He really did love his brother so much... this really touched my heart so much.