Officially Separated w my husband | Packing, Driving & Moving to Virginia...😔

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  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2018
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  • @Cync982
    @Cync982 5 років тому +250

    Seeing Jericho cry when he hugged Corey goodbye made me cry 😭. The moment that you were in the car and Dez told you to text him whenever... at that moment, I just wanted him to grab you , hold you ... SOMETHING! How you let her just leave like that Dez? I’m heartbroken for your family but You will be ok Kiara.

    • @jennyrios805
      @jennyrios805 5 років тому

      I cried too 😭😭😭 ND I thought the same thing abt Dez 💔

    • @gina8546
      @gina8546 5 років тому

      That was heartbreaking for her. I felt so bad for her

    • @vanessapope9379
      @vanessapope9379 5 років тому +1

      I think dez is hurting he just need some more time as I can see he love his family's daily with all his heart. Sometimes we lady's does say the hurtful things sometimes.but faith is the answer to the key love you very much

    • @jelissachristopher5024
      @jelissachristopher5024 5 років тому

      Cynthia Cordova yess!!! Seeing that I was like Dez wtf are you doing!!!?? Don’t let her goooo! 😫

    • @BGreco1230
      @BGreco1230 5 років тому

      You took the words right out of my mouth, girl!

  • @RVSD1984
    @RVSD1984 4 місяці тому +1

    Man Simon is the best uncle ever, as well as a good father. Dang I haven’t watched any of these vlogs because to me it was sad to see. Glad your doing better now. And it’s awesome how Karla is being awesome with the situation. She’s very sweet for having your back but still respecting Des. Aww I’m sure Corey and Jericho’s good bye made a lot of people cry. That was so sweet.

  • @drealmizzhayreli5943
    @drealmizzhayreli5943 5 років тому +145

    It sounds like desmon doesnt give a damn anymore. Honestly i think desmon just wants to be alone.

    • @drealmizzhayreli5943
      @drealmizzhayreli5943 5 років тому +2

      @Caramel Delight yep. I was in a similar situation where my ex wanted us to have some "space" and i gave him that. I moved on with my child and let him have all the space that he needed.

  • @betsymedinaify
    @betsymedinaify 5 років тому +84

    Wow he’s so calm n nonchalant smh just proves you did the right thing kiara

  • @dezymoorer3180
    @dezymoorer3180 5 років тому +119

    And it’s called gaslighting , when they try and make you feel like you are insecure and not validating how you feel.

    • @shaniklmosley
      @shaniklmosley 5 років тому

      Dezy Moorer my husband loves to try me with that shit. Ugh!!

  • @ItsJustNiaTV
    @ItsJustNiaTV 5 років тому +169

    AWWW SEEING THE KIDS CRYING WAS SOOO SAD 😢😢.... these types of situations are so hard 🙁

  • @abigailg5802
    @abigailg5802 5 років тому +82

    Them babies crying got my heart shattered! I'm praying for yall honey. The devil is a liar. Gods plan will prevail in the end.❣

  • @LivingLifeWithJen
    @LivingLifeWithJen 5 років тому +85

    OMG I started crying as soon as I saw Jaricho crying. May god bless you all..

  • @sandraand3guys897
    @sandraand3guys897 5 років тому +30

    Girl you got this!! You look so content with your decision!! And this means you know what KIARA needs. Sometimes you have to fall apart before you can fall back together... the lord knows what he has planned for your little family.. keeping your family close in prayer.

  • @b.rose.a.7338
    @b.rose.a.7338 5 років тому +65

    NO COMMUNICATION = NO ONE GETS HEARD... PRIDE KILLS THE RELATIONSHIP... LOOKING AT THE PERSON IN THE MIRROR IS NOT AN IMPOSSIBLE TASK... TRUST GOD HE WILL GUIDE YOU... KEEP YOUR HEAD TO THE SKY!!!

  • @melissas9743
    @melissas9743 5 років тому +234

    Wtf what kind of man let’s his wife and kids leave when it’s not that serious?!?!

    • @mickit.9450
      @mickit.9450 5 років тому +20

      I wish she could tell the whole story,separating kids is heartbreaking

    • @FLUFFY4891
      @FLUFFY4891 5 років тому +6

      Micki T. She probably will once she fully settled

    • @cherrypath1702
      @cherrypath1702 5 років тому

      Maybe it is that serious.

    • @CosmoMakeupgurl
      @CosmoMakeupgurl 5 років тому +1

      That guy is an asshole.

    • @amjustafreespirtl4806
      @amjustafreespirtl4806 5 років тому +1

      A man that don’t want to let his pride down

  • @reinabbm1
    @reinabbm1 5 років тому +30

    I literally turned into Niagra Falls the moment my Jericho started crying saying goodbye to Corey. I’m so sorry that you are going through this guys. Kiara I completely and totally understand your frustration and point of view. Praying for healing for you all and love you all.

  • @claudmares2780
    @claudmares2780 5 років тому +46

    How could he just watch his world walk away and not do anything to stop it.

  • @nubiangoddess9999
    @nubiangoddess9999 5 років тому +59

    Girl i get it, im ending a 15yr marriage it's hard af but we have to put us first. Stay strong we can do this. I'll pray for u

    • @ItsJustNiaTV
      @ItsJustNiaTV 5 років тому

      Nicole Jones ABSOLUTELY 💯💯

    • @MissMocha1000
      @MissMocha1000 5 років тому

      Praying for you and your family. Bring that I saw first hand my parents breakup and advised my mom to leave when I was in the 4th grade to being in a marriage now with my husband for 12 years and married for almost 2. We have had our ups and downs but we vowed to make it work regardless of the struggles. Relationships are difficult period whether it is marriage or friendship. Every situation is different. God had to be with you both and must figure out a way to communicate and sometimes one had to be the bigger person yes its hard but you have to figure out what works. I pray that you both figure it out not only for yourselves but for the children as well. As a child this was the same move except we moved to Connecticut and were gone for a year my mom stayed and family stayed broken and I believe she wishes that she stayed and attempted to work it out. So with that said each situation is different he most likely showed his pride at the end of the day when you left but he came to the door most likely when he received the bye from you gabe he took it as not to bother you so he did not attempt to show affection men are different. I see both sides cause my husband and I used to do this all the time. Its not easy and no marriage again or relationship is. Try to find counseling for yourself and as a unit. Praying you all can become one again. One love. 😘🙏☝

  • @leanalou6711
    @leanalou6711 5 років тому +29

    Honestly I don't even care why y'all split the main thing is you are HAPPY I've never seen you so genuinely consistently happy before. You & your babies deserve to be a happy mumma ❤❤

  • @L3xibabygirl10
    @L3xibabygirl10 5 років тому +65

    I have respect for Des but I am with ur sister he knew Jericho was leaving with you WHY THE F*** WAS HE NOT SPENDING EVERY LAST MIN WITH HIM. That mess makes me pissed at him.

  • @jeanellea7388
    @jeanellea7388 5 років тому +17

    Holding back tears watching Jericho cry 😢. I pray this “break” will bring you guys back together and have a stronger relationship.

  • @floridagirltalk
    @floridagirltalk 5 років тому +8

    OMG watching Jericho give Corey a hug & cry broke my heart into a million pieces!! And then everyone hugging. I can’t stop crying.

  • @tyashadixon1059
    @tyashadixon1059 5 років тому +26

    I'm sorry but his upbringing plays a huge role in this. Just the way his mom spoke of u...showed me that she thought u were weak minded & her son wuz superior. He has that superior attitude & he's NEVER gonna be happy wit any1 that challenges that. U gettin ya life rite & becomin happy challenged that & now u guys r done. I don't doubt he luvs u but he truly can't handle a woman of strength. I keep u both in my prayers durin this hard transition. My heart goes out 2 the babies. God will comfort & guide u guys...just trust in him.

    • @courtneyfink5880
      @courtneyfink5880 5 років тому

      Tantalizing Tyasha is it another video where his mom talks about her? Do you remember which one?

    • @chasityalago1440
      @chasityalago1440 5 років тому

      Tantalizing Tyasha I really thought I was the only one that noticed this 👍🏼

  • @janthomlaw1407
    @janthomlaw1407 5 років тому +45

    You took the words right out of my mouth... so he does nothing? His pride wouldn't let him say or do anything. He will take his stance and say you're the one who chose to leave. I hope it all works out... for the kids sake at least.

  • @LusciousQueenBeeBW
    @LusciousQueenBeeBW 5 років тому +25

    Kiara, Sweet lady, I don't think I have written to you ever. I admire what you are doing for yourself and your children. It is very difficult to leave when it is one person You're leaving with two small children. I am very proud of you. I am old enough to be your mother or grandmother. I'm 61. You have family around you to help you. It seemed your husband stepped out of the marriage a while back and you were carrying the whole load. You love this man your babies were conceived in love. You are so right it is time to put you at the top of your love list. God Bless you and everything you do.

  • @mexzacatecana
    @mexzacatecana 5 років тому +118

    You go girl never beg a man

  • @barbieegal4448
    @barbieegal4448 5 років тому +26

    Every time I tell my men about how I feel it’s always me to blame even when we fight but men don’t realize they are the ones that be the reason it all started

  • @lisaolalde422
    @lisaolalde422 5 років тому +13

    He looked like he wanted to tell you something or even give you a kiss but you give him a cold shoulder I hope y’all work this out cuz y’all really look like y’all love each other will keep y’all in my prayers 🙏🙏

  • @mspassionate91
    @mspassionate91 5 років тому +23

    The part where the kids hugged and he started crying... broke me . 💔

  • @dominiquesadetorres1355
    @dominiquesadetorres1355 5 років тому +27

    So know that it's over and move on sis, he will have to face everything that he has put you through

    • @FLUFFY4891
      @FLUFFY4891 5 років тому +1

      Yes and crazy thing is he got two child support payments to pay so he really gonna have to do

  • @marywoods3146
    @marywoods3146 5 років тому +38

    Sometimes you have to do what's best for you and your life, not what's best for everyone else.

  • @loubranch2999
    @loubranch2999 5 років тому +20

    U are so right...he will regret this big time but for some reason I get the filling that he will be calling and pleading for your return sooner that what u think...stay blessed....

  • @Decarl00
    @Decarl00 5 років тому +10

    Your son broke my heart when he said good by to his brother 😭 your daughter felt that she was fine till she got in the car but you a strong women and I know you will be just fine with your kids happy holidays might not be the way you pictured your holidays but be happy you healthy you have two beautiful kids and you are beautiful inside and out

  • @MyJazzyLife
    @MyJazzyLife 5 років тому +106

    Kiara keep your head up you are a strong mommy and person in general . 🙏🏽❤️

    • @TinaRoxanne
      @TinaRoxanne 5 років тому

      Awww seeing Jericho cry when he was saying bye to Cory broke my heart. Keep being strong & do what you have to do. Maybe in time, things will get better but right now, emotions are so high so you both have to just move onto the next step. This separation might be exactly what you both need in order to fully understand what you both want for yourselves, your kids, & your marriage. You got this!!

  • @Scifi-eh8fw
    @Scifi-eh8fw 5 років тому +10

    Kiara it’s not a waste you have Jericho and Kalia. You deserve better. I really don’t think you are the problem. Love to you all🤗😘

  • @user-st4nw3zq3p
    @user-st4nw3zq3p 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this with us, every day I try reminding myself that I need to love myself under the circumstances & this made me realize that sometimes it’s okay to let go even if you have children with that certain someone, if it’s not working we can’t force it.

  • @mieshasimon7388
    @mieshasimon7388 5 років тому +20

    That shit hurt when a man tries to act all hard like he doesnt care....but in a couple of days its going to hit him sometimes men let their pride get in they way of relaying the message of how they really feel when its come to relationships and women we are more intune with our emotions and most of the time we mean well I really hope that in the end you both find your way back to one another cause to see that baby cry when he hugged his brother broke my ❤.....God....Spouse....Kids.... and in that order....

  • @bettyboo8
    @bettyboo8 5 років тому +10

    Never Cried so much watching a video. My heart hurted just wanted to jump into the screen and tell Des to grab you hold you tight and not let you go.. but things happen for the better. May god bless both your hearts.

  • @Mykidsaremylife87
    @Mykidsaremylife87 5 років тому +6

    You are beautiful! I have been through a divorce. I know it is not fun. But you will get through,you are so strong! if that is what you all decide. Prayers for you and your family.

  • @victorialilley7548
    @victorialilley7548 5 років тому +4

    So happy you uploaded. You inspire me so much and I look up to you. Praying for you and the babies 💙

  • @nastashia6186
    @nastashia6186 5 років тому +8

    Been worried about you 😔. Everything will be ok , it’s a new start hun

  • @ynotkym4057
    @ynotkym4057 5 років тому +2

    Wow your son crying broke me and Corey is so aware and mature about everything that’s going on. Sometimes people just need separation to realize what they have!

  • @maniefaith8419
    @maniefaith8419 5 років тому +5

    I literally just cried for you!! Cause this hurts so much. I am praying for your strength!!

  • @cierra87
    @cierra87 5 років тому +8

    Awww Kiara, this broke my heart. I hate that you all gotta go through all of this💔 I am praying things work out for you all.

  • @cariejai4480
    @cariejai4480 5 років тому +2

    This entire situation is heart breaking. I broke down when Jericho said goodbye to Cory and when Cory said goodby to Kalia. I hope everything works out for you all.

  • @MommyTheeStallion
    @MommyTheeStallion 5 років тому +1

    That car ride was chocked full of the most well articulated explanation of what things have looked like from the outside looking in. You singing thank you next just made me so happy for and proud of you!

  • @calimami23
    @calimami23 5 років тому +64

    Omg, i promise U Kiara, ur walkin in my past footsteps, too coincidental, i blame the Army 4 tha way my husband has turned out, the up's and tha downs, the lack of communication, the silent treatment, CPS involvement bcuz of his child, wow, i wish we culda actually met b4 u bounced- u will inspire others!

  • @mayragonzalez3919
    @mayragonzalez3919 5 років тому +3

    I hope he’s just going through a phase in his life where he needs that time to figure himself out & what he wants!! I literally went through this exact same thing & worse a year ago with my kids father! & a year later (today, real time) we’re trying to work things out once again & everything is going smooth so far... we’re looking on moving back again together beginning the new year God willing!! If it’s meant to be it will be!! You’re going to hurt & so is your baby boy, but everything will be alright!! Always have Faith!’ Stay strong mama!

  • @dianaslife5722
    @dianaslife5722 5 років тому +6

    Yes girl. Please keep your head up and find yourself again.

  • @mexzacatecana
    @mexzacatecana 5 років тому +7

    I do hope that things work out its not easy being separated and you guys need to see this from a mature perspective and grow up pray with each other and for each other
    God Bless!!

  • @janellypizarro8405
    @janellypizarro8405 5 років тому

    Seeing this completely broke my heart. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You are strong brave amazing woman! I pray both of you get the healing you need! ❤️

  • @MiscellaneousMichelle
    @MiscellaneousMichelle 5 років тому

    Omg you have me crying watching the children say goodbye to each other 🙏🏾

  • @crownofcurls82
    @crownofcurls82 5 років тому +2

    Jericho crying made me cry. Love you guys so much and glad you all made it safe!

  • @jwnation6903
    @jwnation6903 5 років тому

    I am so sorry that you guys are going through this... But I wish you all the best, and so excited to see what God had in store for you and your kids. Everything will work itself out Kiara. Btw, love the ponytail swinging, during the singing! 😜😄

  • @margiemargie8798
    @margiemargie8798 5 років тому +4

    I’m so proud of you.. Keep doing you. Yes focus on you and the kids. Love you girl.. You got this. You a strong women.

  • @twllms9
    @twllms9 5 років тому +23

    This video literally broke my heart and I’m literally in tears that once again that the devil has come in and broken up a family. Jesus did it pls, Lord pls bring this family back together! Lord we know that you honor marriage and family. Lord Jesus pls help this family and bring them back together stronger then ever! In the mighty mighty name of Jesus I pray Amen Amen AMEN!

  • @lillinsey100
    @lillinsey100 5 років тому

    i am truly sorry you are hurting and going through this. i’m glad you are going to put yourself first. what a great example of strength and independence you are showing to your children.
    xoxoxoxo

  • @Afroniquelybeautifulc
    @Afroniquelybeautifulc 5 років тому +3

    My heart SANK when Jericho cried giving a hug to Corey. 😥😥😥😥

  • @garciatowns7240
    @garciatowns7240 5 років тому +9

    Dear Mr.Cassell🙏 💔🙏 hoping you'll get on the next ✈& go get your family

  • @kimjohnson3481
    @kimjohnson3481 5 років тому +1

    You are right I feel for the kidz but better days are ahead!!! Loving you guys and praying for the whole situation!!!

  • @ciaraofcourse1
    @ciaraofcourse1 5 років тому +12

    Praying for you through this tough time. Troubles don’t last always though. There is sunshine after the rain

  • @LifeAsMaribel
    @LifeAsMaribel 5 років тому

    Girl you’re so strong!!!! ❤️ you’re beautiful inside and out, please don’t ever settle for anything less!! You deserved some hugs and tears when you were leaving 😢😢

  • @thesecretworldofalba6627
    @thesecretworldofalba6627 5 років тому +27

    I'm glad you decided to love yourself first. And to make you happy first!

  • @AlexisAriess
    @AlexisAriess 5 років тому

    Aw man seeing Jericho cry when it was time to leave made me tear up 😞. I'm praying things will smooth over . I'm praying for you and the kiddos

  • @BajaChick
    @BajaChick 5 років тому

    I swear when I hear your feelings and everything your going through ... I feel your talking about my life . I don’t like seeing you go through this but I stay watching not cause I’m 👃 but because this makes me know and feel like I’m not the only one feeling what I do .

  • @chanelslounge
    @chanelslounge 5 років тому +4

    Omg 😭😭😭😭 it broke my heart to see Jericho cry for his brother like that. I pray everything works out for your family love.

  • @Tiffany-ki3rr
    @Tiffany-ki3rr 5 років тому +3

    Tears came out of nowhere when Jericho told corey bye... omg such as sad situation. Esp during the holidays

  • @AndreaThomasMemories
    @AndreaThomasMemories 5 років тому

    Yassss! 9:39 Let that hurt make you greater sis! You have two beautiful kids just focus on y’all and everything else will fall into place. ☝🏾🙏🏾

  • @mimiaug09
    @mimiaug09 5 років тому +2

    Awww I cried when Jericho was saying goodbye to Corey and when you were talking to Rockie,SOOO sad I wish and PRAY THAT Des will put his pride aside and y'all work thing's out,I ALWAYS HATE to see marriages fall apart, I wish nothing but the very best FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, MUCH LOVE❣❣❣

  • @Justsayyes88
    @Justsayyes88 5 років тому +3

    Im so sorry!!!... Just keep doing what your heart is telling you to do!

  • @ItzTiffNicole
    @ItzTiffNicole 5 років тому +28

    He’s clearly been wanting this for awhile... keep your head up you’re a strong woman

  • @LaurenMCCRAYCRAY
    @LaurenMCCRAYCRAY 5 років тому +1

    Ugh this made me so sad 😢 glad you are with family. Hoping things change for the better and he gets his act together. You deserve more but it’s just so sad to see you leaving your beautiful home and doggies 😭

  • @asheliehooks3586
    @asheliehooks3586 5 років тому

    I am so sorry that you are going through this. But I appreciate the fact that you are sharing it with us.
    It is helping me because I am literally going through the samething! Just had our daughter 5 months ago as of today.
    Keep your head up you are a great mommy. And I wish the best for you and your babies.

  • @tonimariesantistevan2956
    @tonimariesantistevan2956 5 років тому +1

    I'm glad your strong girl you got this love u n your fam til the end keep up the good work kiara im so proud the way you handled everything props to u always love n respect girl you got this proud of you

  • @genuinelynesha
    @genuinelynesha 5 років тому

    Sweetie everything will be ok. Keep praying 🙏 and leave it up to God honey,for only he knows best. I’m going to keep y’all in my prayers.

  • @queenchuckys2002
    @queenchuckys2002 5 років тому

    Omg this is so heartbreaking, than Justice walks in the moment the boys was saying bye..u know we emotional😢.. Imma pray that all works out for the best...whatever that may turnout to be🙏

  • @ANABOO17
    @ANABOO17 5 років тому +1

    Wow! this really broke my heart. I’m praying for your family and you. I can’t imagine what you all are going through.

  • @bounc3rsladyalways
    @bounc3rsladyalways 5 років тому +2

    OMG I woke up and seen u uploaded, I clicked so fast and had my husband watch because we have been watching your vlogs since your first house in Alaska, I cried soooo much when Jericho was saying bye to Corey, I know everyone else was, Desmond is so ignorant IM SO SORRY KIARA, YOUR BETTER OFF ENJOYING YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR TWO BABIES I'm Praying for you three and Desmond.

  • @SweetNina
    @SweetNina 5 років тому

    This entire vid just made me feel so bad for your entire family. I know how you feel and I am soooooo sorry that you are having to go through this. Maybe this unfortunate break will make Dez more appreciative to what he has to lose. I pray really hard that things get better for your family to be whole again.

  • @staceydunn6094
    @staceydunn6094 5 років тому +1

    Stay strong girl! Praying for all of you!!

  • @adayinthelifeofthesmiths8848
    @adayinthelifeofthesmiths8848 5 років тому +17

    Seeing Jericho say goodbye broke my heart. This will affect the kids forever. My son has been affected tremendously. I hope some time away will help y’all figure things out. I wish I would’ve given things a better shot. Just my 2 cents.

  • @keiladiaz3045
    @keiladiaz3045 5 років тому +6

    Kiara keep being strong. You can do this👍❤

  • @blatantlybillie
    @blatantlybillie 5 років тому

    Jericho crying hugging his brother made me start bawling, dez looked blank he should have been crying hugging his kids bye!! Your doing the right thing.... And all will be ok just a little time and working out details and getting in a new routine, everything is going to be ok and probably better then u could have imagined!!!

  • @tiffanyvera5103
    @tiffanyvera5103 5 років тому

    Always try to find the positive in everything! Something good will come from this. You are a strong woman and you deserve nothing but truly happiness! I was really hope you got the big hug and the whisper in your ear”I love you & we going to be alright” like you wanted I’m sorry it didn’t happen.Wishing you nothing but the best for you and your babies!! Love ya 💪🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼💕❤️

  • @mzz.clesha2u314
    @mzz.clesha2u314 5 років тому +5

    OMG.. I was not ready for Jericho's goodbye to Cory broke my heart

  • @amois7842
    @amois7842 5 років тому +5

    Omg baby girl was crying like she know something was wrong 😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @DeedraBoodram
    @DeedraBoodram 5 років тому

    OMG!!! I cried when Jericho started crying. Girl you are so strong. Praying for you and your family!!

  • @KatrinaSignature
    @KatrinaSignature 5 років тому

    I broke down when the babies started crying thats a hard situation to deal with and trust he wanted to grab you and hug and kiss you but it was his pride that stopped him and you could have said something as well instead of no were good bye your pride got in the way as well. But im praying for you guys marriage i am a military spouse as well and im located in Fort Hood Texas also so if you do come back and u need a friend im here. I can tell u are a very strong woman and ur babies are gonna need u to continue to be strong especailly when they start missing their dad and brother. Yall gotta commuincate and put your pride to the side love watching you guys.

  • @serenity8378
    @serenity8378 5 років тому

    I’m sorry Kiara that this is going on, I’m praying for you and the kids. I know this can be hard, I’ve been here since I’ve been subscribed to you and I will continue to watch and support you.

  • @latanyakitchenscreations6222
    @latanyakitchenscreations6222 5 років тому

    I'm proud of you for taking a stand and removing yourself that toxic situation. It's time to start over to a new beginning. No looking back only forward life is too short to waste precious moments that can't be retrieved.

  • @charmingcutie5277
    @charmingcutie5277 5 років тому +2

    I guess to some degree this is therapy in a sense that you're coming clean about what's going on and how it's effecting the household. However, do we as a public, really to see your family imploding from the inside out. It's heart breaking and I do hope the kids can find some comfort going through this family turmoil maybe there's been counseling or will be but I truly pray they won't have to endure this separation sadness for to much longer. I pray you, your sons and your ex have the strength to endure all of this. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @priscillarivera7680
    @priscillarivera7680 5 років тому +2

    God bless you and your family girl 🙏🏼 this brought back so many memories for me it is one of the hardest things that we as women will probably have to go through😔 I might be wrong it kind of seems to me like he’s got his attention on something else and you don’t need that. . you’ll get through this keep your head up🙏🏼

  • @karendelaney7456
    @karendelaney7456 5 років тому

    Oh Lord its to early in the morning this is freakin breaking my heart. I hope and pray you guys make it through this be strong and pray girl pray it's powerful God no drought will get you through this sending love. Safe journey.

  • @DeonkaCurlsNLipstickSKing
    @DeonkaCurlsNLipstickSKing 5 років тому

    I’m praying for y’all, everything will work out for the best.

  • @minniegonzalez2251
    @minniegonzalez2251 5 років тому +3

    The last chapter for this book has ended. I was in tears. But it is time to open a whole new book and create a whole new story with your loved ones!. God bless you and stay strong girl.

  • @samanthah1474
    @samanthah1474 5 років тому +4

    My heart is 💔 got me crying prayers go out to y'all

  • @shancc2011
    @shancc2011 5 років тому

    Continue to be strong! Praying for yall, this is so sad

  • @DS-ru1fx
    @DS-ru1fx 5 років тому +1

    My heart....💔. This was definitely hard to watch. I pray that he works on himself while you’re away and that he fights for his family. Thank you for being so transparent and strong. Love you

  • @taurusr.8475
    @taurusr.8475 5 років тому

    This is emotional to watch, I can only imagine how it is for you and your family. Thank you for sharing this. Be strengthened

  • @cassandrahampton1841
    @cassandrahampton1841 5 років тому

    I'm here for you girl you can do anything you put your mind to🙌💖 your better off!

  • @iamDonareen
    @iamDonareen 5 років тому

    YOU ARE AMAZING!!! Living for your singing sessions!!! Ayyyyy!!!!!!!

  • @nickihendrix8772
    @nickihendrix8772 5 років тому

    Omg! The boys broke my heart. I literally cried when they were saying goodbye. I’m honestly hurt for the children. But they will be ok as long as you two are. It’s a difficult time but things will get better.

  • @75skittles18
    @75skittles18 5 років тому +2

    I liked your vlog cause I support you. Everything happens for a reason. Your a strong woman. ❤

  • @ms.bluedarkness7108
    @ms.bluedarkness7108 5 років тому +20

    I have read most of the comments and it seems mostly everyone wants to bash the husband and said what he should and could have done to stop Kiara's leaving him. No one has even mentioned the text messages that was sent and stated that he made a decision based on emotions etc. If their wedding vows meant anything to the both of them....work it out...dont make up excuses as to why you are leaving....NEWS Flash: if DFCS wanted to remove your children they would have done so on the first visit or went to court to received a court order to remove the children because the allegations were true but they were not. When CPS comes into your home they try to disprove the allegations and to also assess the home to see if the children are in imminent danger and they were not. So where was the rush to leave...Oh by the way I work for a state agency....Department of Family and Children Services....Kiara you seem to be very happy because you are leaving...I am sorry but I have to say this you are putting your needs ahead of your children and marriage. Being married is NOT an easy ride!!! But you have really went on the opinions of others and their perceptions to leave your husband. You wanted him to react in a way that was simply not him....he reached out to you...we only see a few minutes of your life and not what really happened....NEWS flash again....previous spouses and baby mothers call DFCS to cause trouble for the current spouse or significant other.....get used to it...there was a way you could have reached out to a military family advocate to help you but you never did or it was not mentioned.....I am sorry but this was wrong what you did...

    • @cherrypath1702
      @cherrypath1702 5 років тому +1

      💯💯

    • @MartinCrew15
      @MartinCrew15 5 років тому +2

      Finally someone said everything I been wanting to say all of this is blaming the husband and she isn't sharing the blame she's selfishness and the other son mom abandoned him now his stepmom is doing the same they are one in the same Desmond has kids by two selfish ass women they both need to grow up a marriage isn't a fairy tale this whole situation is sad I feel sorry for the kids

    • @SkyandQuill
      @SkyandQuill 5 років тому

      What was he doing beating the kids?????? I haven't watch the channel in a year.

    • @atrailofsparkles
      @atrailofsparkles 5 років тому +2

      I think there was just more to it than we all were privy to see. No woman just packs up to leave a happy home... Please let's not play like woman have a tenancy to hide and cover our partners flaws and indiscretions and our pain and hurt in our situations until we can't any longer. I just wish them well I have no judgment for any party in the situation. People do what they feel they need to do at the moment and I think she didn't want him to let them leave.... It was a last ditch effort for him to fight for them and he didn't. Pride and ego is a motherfucker smh