Myths About Street Violence

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  • @bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24
    @bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24 22 години тому +19

    The biggest problem with the UK legal system is that many prosecutors and judges are upper class toffs who've no idea how violence works in reality. You can easily end up in prison for something that was entirely reasonable because someone with only a Hollywood understanding of violence thought your actions were "unfair"
    I know a girl who ended up prosecuted, she was the victim. She hit her much bigger (female) attacker with a glass bottle after already taking a serious beating and being knocked to the ground. Unfortunately her attacker suffered a fairly bad injury from the bottle and it was deemed unreasonable force because the (bigger,stronger) attacker wasn't armed herself. Absolutely ridiculous.

  • @robertscheinost179
    @robertscheinost179 22 години тому +10

    The gypsy con "we are taking up a collection so we can bury my young child who just died" made the rounds in big cities in the USA a few years back. These are organized shakedowns with up to 60 people on intersections across an area of a city. I have no problems buying a cup of iced coffee for someone on a hot day or flipping a few Dollars to someone in need on an "one time only" basis. I live in a small town (18,000 people) so it's relatively easy to spot the people in need from the "professional" beggars. All of the points in your video were spot on. Thanks. Cheers!

    • @pauliesk.7102
      @pauliesk.7102 Хвилина тому

      In the UK it's usually, "We need money for baby-milk". I'm sure you've heard that one before too.

  • @joshyaks
    @joshyaks 23 години тому +34

    As a paramedic I've dealt with the horrific and sometimes deadly aftermath of violence on many occasions, but in my personal life I've found it remarkably easy to not get in fights with people. Even though I'm a 48 year old punk rock fan who has been in hundreds of mosh pits at hundreds of punk shows, there's only been 1 time that I smacked a guy who needed to be brought into line and 1 other time I stepped between 2 guys who were fighting, but other than that if you're paying attention to your surroundings, it's not hard to avoid trouble. (My broken noses were the result of standard mosh pit fun, not violence!) The real problems usually start when dudes mix the false bravado of alcohol with the fragile ego of low self esteem.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  23 години тому +15

      Which is all discussed at length in the previous videos in this series. Rule 1 - avoid.

    • @joshyaks
      @joshyaks 22 години тому +8

      @@thatgearguy Absolutely! I appreciate that you keep hammering that point and give practical advice for how to do it, because it's the most important one.

    • @plumduff3303
      @plumduff3303 18 годин тому +1

      ❤❤❤😊

    • @eminemfann1000
      @eminemfann1000 7 годин тому

      Tbh it's more people are super hypocritical imo. Prosecution is a gamble as well, a guy not far from me got a £400 fine for pulling a dude out of a car and assaulting a guy but no "actual" repercussions legally. It's fucked.

  • @DickGozinya-zl2bd
    @DickGozinya-zl2bd 23 години тому +9

    When it comes to fighting on the street, "Win if you can, lose if you must but, ALWAYS cheat!" & If you know the turd you're beefing with is going to attack you, ABSOLUTELY throw the first punch. Not only does it cause the first damage but, it can give your attacker a mental disadvantage because he thought he was targeting a weak Bych but, got poped in the mouth before he could find his balls & launch his intended attack.

  • @Robertarcher2035
    @Robertarcher2035 23 години тому +9

    All your life advice ( and views ) output is essential for those that that haven’t had life experience yet and bolsterers up those of us that have had a bit . You’re a public service.
    It all fits in well with gear reviews too . 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  23 години тому +1

      @@Robertarcher2035 Thank you and glad you like the content!

  • @flyer617
    @flyer617 22 години тому +4

    Have good situational awareness, trust your gut, and get away from any situation that feels wrong. This served me well working in New York City and the nightlife there for decades. Don't engage people who come up to you. No cigarette, no you can't have the time, or "spare change" or use my phone. Emergency? I'll call 911 for you. Yeah, I didn't think so.

  • @jamesatkinson7691
    @jamesatkinson7691 8 годин тому +4

    "Never hit a man when he's down ........... because he might get up" Sir Harry Flashman.

  • @plumduff3303
    @plumduff3303 День тому +8

    Great film pal...ive faced bullies both individuals and groups ...be prepared and run if you can. Peace and love to all ❤

  • @dodge8366
    @dodge8366 15 годин тому +1

    Another excellent video your point about bullies congregating in groups around one dominant person who is always front of house in any confrontation is spot on.

  • @justletmesigninokthx
    @justletmesigninokthx День тому +7

    in school, i remember this kid getting bullied by all the evil kids. Even his 'friend' ended up bullying him. One time in a geography class the kid got up slowly and calmly walked towards the front of the class and then suddenly smashed his 'friend' right in the face with a sucker punch, completely uninpeeded. All this in front of the quiet classroom. He could not get bullied much more so fuck it. Im not sure he even got in trouble for it from teachers. The whole system was a failure at keeping kids safe.

    • @sonsoffalstaff2600
      @sonsoffalstaff2600 23 години тому +1

      The best lesson in life a child can learn in school is that 'Authority' (Teachers, Police, Governments) are not going to provide a 'safe space'.
      From ten years old I fought my way through school often. Bullies are everywhere and 'Grown ups' are not going to protect you.
      Look at society now. Do you think the Police protect you? The Courts are fair and there is justice?
      Children must learn to protect themselves and, if possible, the weak who can't.
      No one is coming to help you.

    • @letsdothis9063
      @letsdothis9063 23 години тому +1

      I met my best friend, by saving him from bullies. I ended up being friends with the bullies as well (after I beat them up).
      I was a nerd, but I grew up in a tough neighborhood. I had been in several fights and jumped twice by the time I was in middle school.
      I never considered myself a tough guy, but I hated bullies.
      I was taken to the principal's office a few times for fighting.
      The principal always told the other guy, "if you got Charlie mad enough to hit you, then you probably deserved it" 😅
      Mr. Morrison was good guy.

  • @b11nladen
    @b11nladen День тому +2

    When I was about thirteen, this coach of ours said "Has he been listening to his mother!", and this is what he was talking about.

    • @b11nladen
      @b11nladen 23 години тому

      Great comment about the charities. My initial impression of you was that you're OK. That tipped me into a much higher degree of assuredness of this.
      A lot of the people doing outwardly similar videos aren't legit. They're bullshitting liars. There seems to be a kind of magnetic attraction to bullshitter bully people by weak males and to a lesser extent females, but I've never liked it. Anyone who thinks that in a normal life (not in some kind of captivity) that it's good for people to be scared of you. Anyone who enjoys being scared of you's not going to be good for you. If it's a woman she's a scumbag and if it's a man, then they're on some kind of homoerotic kick.

  • @drc1247
    @drc1247 22 години тому +4

    Great advice as usual. You asked us about myths we've heard.
    One of many I've heard is that drunk people are easier to fight back against. Sure, if they're completely legless, but if someone is just plain drunk it doesn't mean they're harmless. They just feel less pain and are more volatile.
    Another is a topic of one of your recent videos. Women and violence. When I worked in a club in the Medway towns 20 years back the women were just, if not more, as brutal as the men. What they lacked in strength they made up for in objects to hand. Bottles, high heels, glass ash trays (before the smoking ban) etc. Brutal.
    Here's a topic idea unless I've missed it. Can you give us advice on home security? What would you advise to prevent and deter would be burglars.
    Thanks. 👍

  • @dirid
    @dirid Годину тому +1

    Thanks for the regular uploads, it always make my day to hear some stories and life lessons from you. Still waiting for travel stories about Poland, I think it's quite unique place nowadays, it was destroyed by wars and communists and during last 30 years it became a great place to live. Cheers!

  • @troyonplanet
    @troyonplanet 19 годин тому

    Another excellent video. One issue that always still amazes me in fights is when one clown thinks it’s wise to get right up and be virtually nose to nose to his opponent as a show of aggression that they hope will intimidate the other person - that’s a wonderful way to cop either a head butt, uppercut or right hook and end up knocked out and it’s game over - I’ve always trained to keep distance and given I’m 6’3” I always used front or side kicks to keep people back - especially since I have no idea if they’re possibly carrying a blade. Situational awareness is so key to keeping yourself safe and so many people either aren’t intuitive to such things or they get quite drunk and thus lose that awareness of what’s happening near them - an especially dangerous scenario for women who can then fall victim to male sexual predators.

  • @jamescarter1088
    @jamescarter1088 21 годину тому +1

    "Have you got the time?" Had that once in an alley way. Immediately replied "If you've got the money" whilst putting my hand in my coat pocket. Kid ran off luckily, he was up to no good trying to rob me. Dont try this in a ruff area just leg it 😂😂😂

  • @plumduff3303
    @plumduff3303 12 годин тому +2

    I once got attacked by 4 lads coming out a railway station attacked for no reason..out the blue..lost a tooth in that one...came from nowhere i was carrying a rucksack grabbed from behind.. got mistaken for a soldier...trust no one

  • @ExAnimoPortugal
    @ExAnimoPortugal 13 годин тому +1

    When I went to Rome, many scammers approached me.
    They even tried speaking to me in different languages.
    I just played dumb and ignored them.
    I am a polite person, but I don't owe my politeness to random people who engage with me in public.

  • @Niko132
    @Niko132 23 години тому +2

    Love your vids man. If you ever have any free time, pick up Tank Abbots book "Bar Brawler", just some good ol fashion stories of his bar & streets fights leaving bullies in pools of their own blood. Tank at times was a bully himself but it's a great read, great part about getting older is you pick and chose your battles wisely. And yes, violence and mma are too different things (crazy how people think mma is fighting, in the street it's anything but that..)

  • @simonsharpe1352
    @simonsharpe1352 13 годин тому +1

    I would recommend the managing violence podcast series with Joe Saunders and his latest guest Matt Thornton, talking about his book, the gift of violence

  • @classictraditionsfurnture9813
    @classictraditionsfurnture9813 8 годин тому +1

    Yes good advice I've run into many a bully is when I was younger
    thinking back I could have avoided them.
    Never had any problem with them when their pals weren't there.

  • @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise
    @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise День тому +1

    My favourite channel on UA-cam, even though I have negative experiences with doormen u seem solid and fair

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  День тому +1

      I also had negative experiences with doormen! Thanks for watching.

    • @b11nladen
      @b11nladen День тому

      Bald and Bankrupt's probably the best for fun videos.
      "Pretending to be Gay to get in the Sleepover",
      on *AGC ANDY*'s channel, which I've just found.

  • @sonsoffalstaff2600
    @sonsoffalstaff2600 23 години тому +6

    Battle of Maldon 991AD. The Saxons had the Vikings at a disadvantage on the other end of a causeway. The Vikings asked the Saxons to do the ' decent thing' and allow them across to fight 'fairly'.
    The Saxons let them across.
    Guess who lost!

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  23 години тому +2

      The Vikings had a rep for being fair players. 😅

    • @sonsoffalstaff2600
      @sonsoffalstaff2600 23 години тому +3

      @@thatgearguy The 'Nice Guys' of the Dark Ages.

  • @waynerhodes360
    @waynerhodes360 23 години тому +2

    As always lad , looking forward to another one of your UA-cam uploads ! Keep up the good work 👏 love from new Zealand 🇳🇿

  • @smokescreenhustle1912
    @smokescreenhustle1912 16 годин тому

    Over the last 4 years, it's been a constant battle with overzealous supermarket security.

  • @nathansmith5373
    @nathansmith5373 9 годин тому +1

    Aussie, same age as you. Bounced in clubs in QLD and VIC for 20+ years. Seen quite a few things. What you say about violence is mostly pretty much spot on IMO. Met all the same characters, and all the same stories pretty much. We don't have Gypsies in Oz, but we do have other 'groups' that can do a lot of damage. Id say on average people here are a bit fitter, and a bit tougher in general. Just the outdoors lifestyle though. Not much knife play, just fists, pool cues and chairs.

  • @PaulRaymond-fd4hx
    @PaulRaymond-fd4hx 21 годину тому +2

    Excellent advice! Allot of what you said in that one not only rings bells but, it's my own personal experience! I grew up in East London back in the 80's so yeah, I know the deal of how rough things can get! I then moved to South London in the 90's I still live there even to this very day and it too is rough where violence is concerned more predominantly with guns and gang crime. I get news reports from the Net mostly everyday from across the City of London. Stabbings are prolific. Gun crime spontaneous and unpredictable. All this with the oversight of Law and Order. Times have changed since the end of the last Great War in this Country. This multicultural Cosmopolitan that We all now live in could turn into a complete Hell Hole if something really bad should happen and suddenly everyone was left in the dark due to the power being cut off for a protracted period of time due to the event of War, CME Event/s Sabotage by Foreign Enemy Actors i.e. Russia EMP disruption etc. etc. Situations and scenarios that We all in these forever increasing uncertain times should be considering. Sometimes, it keeps me up at night, especially with the recent events currently transpiring in the Middle East right now! It is possible that these happenings could not only escalate to a wider, more regional conflict, but, could even spark a more serious, Global one. Putin is also a concern, it seems that he is intent on attacking the UK at some point in the mere future. Just two weeks ago he sent ships through the English Channel accompanied with bombers in response to Blinken and Lamys visit to Ukraine. it went grossly unprepared by our News Network at the time but, I get regular bulletins from the Net all the time and is very appraised. The British Government are currently very concerned of the potential of an attack with the use of hypersonic missiles from Russia. It is believed that one of the Russians primary targets would be Our power generation infrastructure. If that happens, it won't be governments and our world leaders I personally will be worried about, it will be our own General Public! With no power for a protracted time or even indefinitely. Cities such as London would tear itself apart. Food Riots would ensue and when the food finally ran out, that civilized Cosmopolitan Folk out there will eat each other. I do sincerely hope that this message reaches you without interference from that dammed machine and it's algerythim. --- (Very Scary.) End.

    • @CharlesRyan-f3j
      @CharlesRyan-f3j 6 годин тому

      Without a firearm, you can only hide if society goes down the tubes. A sharp edge weapon requires close contact, and if your assailants are that close, you will need pure luck to survive.

    • @PaulRaymond-fd4hx
      @PaulRaymond-fd4hx 5 годин тому +1

      @@CharlesRyan-f3j Yes! I know all of this! That's why I'm in possession of so many weapons! Am skilled in martial arts and have had combat training. I am also a very skilled archer and marksman. I also possess vast knowledge on tactics, explosives, chemistry, bushcraft and survivalist skills! The Police are fully aware of these facts and they really, really don't like it! My fear, is that in a minute We will need all the weapons we can get our hands on and the government are currently in the process of disarming the population turning everyone everywhere into Slaves! If one half of the population are allowed weapons and the other half are prohibited, then those individuals are and become subject to the other. Just another posh way of saying the word Slave the same difference between a Pirate and a Privateer it's all the same thing. I think, that the people of the UK are being set up! Set up for a big fall in the not too distant future! End.

    • @CharlesRyan-f3j
      @CharlesRyan-f3j 5 годин тому +1

      @@PaulRaymond-fd4hx Yes, you are correct.

  • @kevintse2870
    @kevintse2870 23 години тому +3

    In America unfortunately, pre-emptively attacking a stalker didn’t go well for Trayvon Martin.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  23 години тому +4

      Not really compareable. There is always a slim chance a lunatic will shoot you anywhere in the world. It is highly unusual hence the huge press coverage. If I am in a country where folk are carrying then I would be to. Dont bring a fist to a gunfight..

    • @kevintse2870
      @kevintse2870 23 години тому +1

      @@thatgearguy true

  • @justtango4741
    @justtango4741 23 години тому +2

    I witnessed this aggressive drunk guy attack a guy walking home for no reason (had been thrown out of a venue) and he got ko'd by the guy he started on. Then his two mates ran over and pretended to play peace makers like they were apologising for their aggressive mate. As soon as the guy was up again all three of them battered this guy. I guess the two other guys wouldn't do anything without their main guy? But I remember thinking at the time if only the attacked guy followed up while he had the upper hand!

  • @Anza_34832
    @Anza_34832 23 години тому +1

    You often refer to the military using unfair tactics: that's where I was taught the difference between "hurting" and "maiming"...

  • @rwvids1
    @rwvids1 23 години тому +2

    Hi, im loving your videos, always a great watch. Could you do one on the workout program that you followed to achieve your heaviest lifts?

  • @matthewweinle8639
    @matthewweinle8639 6 годин тому +1

    The last bit on politeness and charities really hits home with me, unfortunately the charity muggers appearing on my doorstep are becoming increasingly sneaky. Why is there not a law against this?

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  5 годин тому +1

      @@matthewweinle8639 There should be. Imagine how many vulnerable people are conned into donating. And the charities claim to be helping vulnerable people.. Perverse!!

  • @markwhite4491
    @markwhite4491 21 годину тому +1

    Well said, well done

  • @neilo2323
    @neilo2323 9 годин тому +1

    “Trained fighters or real tough guys don’t cause trouble as they have nothing to prove” is another myth. Plenty of people who start fights are very skilled fighters which gives them the confidence to start a fight.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  9 годин тому +1

      For sure. I have seen plenty of pro fighters get drunk and go crazy!

  • @slipslider9048
    @slipslider9048 10 годин тому

    Great video dude.. I agree with you especially on homeless types who approach me in Brighton. I immediately tell them where to go with confidence.. Would be great to hear some tips from you on weightlifting. I’m currently bench pressing 36kg dumbbells and want to up the weight but also don’t wanna injure myself! Maybe you can talk about heavy vs light weights etc? Training tips and routines 👍

  • @rangerwhite7091
    @rangerwhite7091 10 годин тому +1

    Remember. A wallet or watch can be replaced. You can’t.

  • @BuddyLee23
    @BuddyLee23 9 годин тому +2

    It would be really interesting to see the collective training & experience of the commenters here, as it seems like most people mention or imply they are relatively savvy about this stuff. I am sure this video will reach some entirely novice people, but it’s strange just how many folks gravitate to this content which already seem to be ahead of most.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  7 годин тому +1

      There will be some with training and experience and others who believe watching action films is training and experience.

    • @plumduff3303
      @plumduff3303 2 години тому +2

      I'm a retired cop saw more than enough violence to last my lifetime but I really enjoy these films.

  • @michaelzygouras531
    @michaelzygouras531 22 години тому +1

    And snipes in ww2 were considered "dirty" and often disliked by their own troops.

  • @twistedassisted3474
    @twistedassisted3474 13 годин тому

    Great video Paul, thanks for sharing your wisdom.

  • @babatundeswana9361
    @babatundeswana9361 5 годин тому +1

    There's no rules in a street fight. Avoid street fights . But if you have to fight show no mercy no rules. I train muaythai

  • @johnrockwell5834
    @johnrockwell5834 14 годин тому

    The notion that "Good prevails over evil" just doesn't work on the Individual level but on a group level it makes a group strong enough to overpower it's enemies in the long run.
    As individuals being Good isn't synonymous with Combat Competence.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  14 годин тому

      Not so sure about that. Look at Afghan. Nobody conquered evil there and plenty had a good go..

  • @nklin6
    @nklin6 12 годин тому

    Not sure how i ended up on your channel but very glad i did!

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  12 годин тому +1

      Thanks! I guess I can thank youtube for recommending me!

    • @nklin6
      @nklin6 12 годин тому +1

      @thatgearguy your subject matter isnt generally what I would search for but you're a great speaker and i find your content very interesting

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  12 годин тому +1

      @@nklin6 That is really great to hear. Thank you, I appreciate you taking time to listen.

  • @tedhike6279
    @tedhike6279 18 годин тому

    Thank you

  • @bougeac
    @bougeac 13 годин тому

    Yep, myths like “the bigger they are, the harder they fall”. Substitute “fall” with “hit”…

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  13 годин тому +1

      That is a good one. I rarely saw bigger guys losing to much smaller opponents unless there was a significant skill/experience gap.

  • @stevo728822
    @stevo728822 14 годин тому

    Talking of sneaky military tricks. During the War Of The Roses there was a battle in England between two armies. Both armies had longbowmen. Both armies knew the longbow had a max range of about 200 yards. One army lined themselves up with the wind behind them. The opposing army fired their longbow. But because of the wind they were facing the arrows fell short. The other army then picked up those arrows and fired them back at their opponent. I forget the rest of the details.

  • @66numero
    @66numero 13 годин тому +1

    Hi, toyr videos are always very interesting. I haven't seen al of them. But have you already addressed the group behaviour? Your friend seems to let you down if you lose a fight, and the opposite, they tend to give cheap shots at your opponents if you win, or join an already won fight. The fact rhat your friends will defend you, no matter the cost, is a well established myth in my opinion.

    • @thatgearguy
      @thatgearguy  13 годин тому +1

      Agree. When younger I was beaten badly by a much older guy. 8 of my friends stood and watched, frozen by fear.

  • @kremamorasses6194
    @kremamorasses6194 23 години тому +1

    Yeaa

  • @forwardprogressonly
    @forwardprogressonly 14 годин тому +1

    Mate 😂 get f away from me 😂 always solid advice. I always keep at arms distance to avoid cheap shots where possible

  • @stevo728822
    @stevo728822 14 годин тому

    In the 90's I walked out of a nightclub in Boscombe at closing time. I'm not joking, there were six fights going on all at the same time on the street outside the club. They all involved several people and reminded me of the rucks when I played rugby. Two of them were between women. No police in sight even though there were plenty of street cameras. The bouncers just watched on. It was all taking place on the street so not their problem. Sort of thing you'd video and post on social media these days.

  • @cjackfly
    @cjackfly 11 годин тому

    Don't smoke, walk away and if you're small... Well, you're the problem if you're drinking. Large men are NOT the problem. We can handle our shit.