I'm feel not complete I'm married for 35 year's but All this year's he keeps hurting me mentally and physically my love disappeared to him and now I'm searching true love and if I found this love I promise to my self I will leave him now if I do this what will happen is this a sin actually I feel to my self to my heart it's not complete I need to be happy and not living like this my children want me to find the right man for me so I can be happy in life and leave they're father is this a sin to Allah
I’m sorry you’re going through this and it’s understandable that you would want a better husband. However, you have chosen to remain married to him, so it would be wrong to search for someone else right now. You don’t want to be a cheating wife, do you? First you need to get your divorce, and then search for someone else. It won’t be easy but if you do things in the right way, Allah will help you.
Allah never said for our husbands to abuse us mentally or physically. 😢. A light touch was all Prophet said. Talk to your Imam immediately & leave. 35 years is too long. The prophet in a hadith if there was 1 last core of food left, the husband should feed his wife.
I've had mental abuse from my husband of 20yrs. even more so recently since his younger brother 27yrs came to uk on carer visa dependant on his wife. They argued so much after coming to England as they had a haram relationship beforehand and never lived with each other and then they stayed separately here her at her cousin and him in my house. many tines my husband would leave his brother alone with me at home but I was uncomfortable with it, I said hey he's not my mahram don't leave. but he thought I was a dirty minded woman that his brother after marriage is apparently my brother too. I said no I went to an islamic school, I know he is not my mahram. But now he remains angry with me as he wishes to work while should look after his brother alone, he is mentally abusive for not taking care of his little brother like his mother in Bangladesh. I feel I hate him now. let's pray for each other and I think islamically it will be better for you sister to leave your husband first then find another man. insha'Allah you will find happiness. I am considering now too. I have 4 children and married 20yrs now. He is OK normally but very evil to me when it comes to his little brother whom his family in Bangladesh spoilt.
Masha'ALLAH a very good strong message, this brother is honest with his word's not like some people probably would be unfair Alhamdulillah 😊🙂🙂🙂🌟👍🤲
Only love the lifestyle of Muhammad PBUH in each and every way automatically leads peaceful day to day of a person nothing is possible without this
Subhan Allah
I'm feel not complete I'm married for 35 year's but All this year's he keeps hurting me mentally and physically my love disappeared to him and now I'm searching true love and if I found this love I promise to my self I will leave him now if I do this what will happen is this a sin actually I feel to my self to my heart it's not complete I need to be happy and not living like this my children want me to find the right man for me so I can be happy in life and leave they're father is this a sin to Allah
I’m sorry you’re going through this and it’s understandable that you would want a better husband.
However, you have chosen to remain married to him, so it would be wrong to search for someone else right now. You don’t want to be a cheating wife, do you?
First you need to get your divorce, and then search for someone else. It won’t be easy but if you do things in the right way, Allah will help you.
You do you boo and live a more prosperous life.
Allah never said for our husbands to abuse us mentally or physically. 😢. A light touch was all Prophet said. Talk to your Imam immediately & leave. 35 years is too long. The prophet in a hadith if there was 1 last core of food left, the husband should feed his wife.
I've had mental abuse from my husband of 20yrs. even more so recently since his younger brother 27yrs came to uk on carer visa dependant on his wife. They argued so much after coming to England as they had a haram relationship beforehand and never lived with each other and then they stayed separately here her at her cousin and him in my house. many tines my husband would leave his brother alone with me at home but I was uncomfortable with it, I said hey he's not my mahram don't leave. but he thought I was a dirty minded woman that his brother after marriage is apparently my brother too. I said no I went to an islamic school, I know he is not my mahram. But now he remains angry with me as he wishes to work while should look after his brother alone, he is mentally abusive for not taking care of his little brother like his mother in Bangladesh. I feel I hate him now. let's pray for each other and I think islamically it will be better for you sister to leave your husband first then find another man. insha'Allah you will find happiness. I am considering now too. I have 4 children and married 20yrs now. He is OK normally but very evil to me when it comes to his little brother whom his family in Bangladesh spoilt.