Congratulations on becoming dumb. Now live by the thinking of seventh century standards. Do not question anything, blindly follow the mullahs. All the best!!
@@truthbringspeace9798 Actually Islam frowns on those that follow blindly...that's why it is incumbent on every muslim to seek knowledge and the teacher needs to provide proof from the Holy Quran and Hadith (Actions/sayings of the prophet). May the Creator of guide you and all of us to the straight path. Amen
Maasha-Allah sister, Mufti Menk is a great source of inspiration and I hope you have a good islamic support system so that you can learn more everyday. Remember Islam is perfect, muslims are not....we strive to be as laid out in the islamic way of life.
Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of love and happiness, because it is rather selfish to focus so much on oneself and one's own happiness especially when that happiness is a mirage and is truly not real happiness. Let’s not encourage others to become obsessed with the idea of love and relationships when the world is suffering and those helpless people need every bit of help, we can give with our body heart and soul. Having sex non stop is not part of Deen, because in those black sites, Moslems who were tortured and released never complain about not being able to have enough sex anymore.
Beautiful lecture... The beauty of Islam is we always have a lot to learn... Thank you Mufti Menk for remind us about what really matters... We cannot neglect a moment about learning and being close to Allah!!! Jazakallah!!!!!
Mr Mufti Menk has brought me so close to Islam... I don't show off how religious I am but it stays between me and Allah... I am not a Saint I don't pray religiously but I feel extremely miserable... May Allah Talah forgive me and all of the believers... I have understood that our religion does elevate the status of women... We have all the rights that men have , our religion is so simple , liberal and peaceful but some people have literally molded the real image of it... I love islam...
Subhan Allah, alhumdulillah, may Allah make us focus towards our akhira and protect us from each and every saghira and kabeera sins. May Allah make us piety so that when death comes we would be leaving our uniform (body) with a wide smile on our face with fragrant souls. Ameen ya rabbul alameen.
Good Muslims don't brag that's narcissism that will really damage ur marriage value and sorry sister no men would want to spend the rest of his life with u with that attitude
Plz pray for me that I'll get a loving devoted husband who will be a source of getting us both in jannah InshaAllah Ameen May you all have this lovely, sacred & beautiful relationship as well Ameen
When you find him hold onto him and be his comfort. Nowadays holding on to religion is like holding ash in your hand. So he will need peace the way Allah wants in his house so he can get his dirtied armor shiny again and get back out and deal with the fitnah of the world. And you will have peace and protecting under his lead. And push him and make him get the best out of him by being a mirror to him.
Be a good Muslima Sister. Be pious even if your husband marries four wives. Listen to him and do not lecture him, you do know that he is allowed to hit you. Ensure your place in Jannah by being pious, Jannah is a great place millions of people have gone there and have came back to describe how great it is. Jazakallah sister.
Will I remain a woman in Jannah or will I become a Man. Will I be made a hoor for the Jihadis in Jannah or will I be made into a man and hoors will come to me and what if I am not attracted to the hoors?
The mu'meenah, her focus is on jannah and the pleasure of Allah taala, believe that any taqdeer is the best thing Allah wants to grant you even if the taqdeer u go through now is with turbulence.
All these are nice to hear but marriage is big responsibility with difficult challenges. Saying don't focus on dunya is abit odd, we woman are living through these challenges every single day in this dunya, suppressing ourselves to keep the marriage for the sake of Allah is tough. Make sure you choose your spouse wisely. Putting Allah first is the best way to be the best wife.
When we put Allah first in everything we need not to worry, just let go and let Allah have his way in our lives. He will make a way for us in every aspect of our lives. Remember he already knows what's in our hearts what we desires, so just trust Allah. Allhumdullilah🌹
Master eman nangita ko kanang patas ang love, kanang walay daya, una ako nahigugma super, pagwala nako ayha pa sya nahigugma daya na, pasayluon lang ko ni father GOD ALLAH bless always AMEN ❤❤❤
Allahs pleasure is your sole focus. death is unpredictable must be prepared. Pure in all aspects (doesn’t swear). **ask yourself what is your focus continuously. Believes in the Qadr of Allah. She’s not enslaved by the societal trends -> she’s original and authentic.
Assalamulaikum brother could you pls provide more and more lectures about activities of a Muslim woman, encourage woman to fallow Islamic way of life. Teach children Islam . How women can increase Iman. If you could give me the link of your lectures it will be great help for me. Thanks a lot.
Good video. Mufti menk is doing great to educate Muslims and describe the rules and regulations of ISLAM. Some evil minded idol worshippers can't tolerate the truth. These wife swappers will feel the reality once they go to Hell.
May Allah grant you the strenght. Honestly, I include no second wife in my duas, you should also. But if it were to happen, try your best to be patient and if that makes you really crazy, then you will have to take a decision. I have seen many men take second wives, realise how valuable their first wife is, finally divorced and never did it again. It hurts but at the end of the day, what does not kill you makes stronger. Do not stress yourself with what you do not have control over and trust your own resilience. May Allah give you the best. Be happy, anyway :-)
Assalam aleykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh, didn't get really,was the title wrong on this lecture or my understanding is wrong,coz as far I'm concerned the title is best wife...yet did not hearer a word how's the best wife should deal or interact with her husband!!??
Mufti was taking about how a true believer should be and added that a muslim woman/wife should be very pure like that. So yeah this was about imaan not how to act with the husband,i have some videos if youre interested in that.
@@nadiaamadu7307As Salaam Wa Alaikum sister, I know it's been too long since your comment but I couldn't find any video regarding being a good or great wife from Sheikh Mufti Menk as he has only talked about marriage itself and how to be a good husband in various ways. Have you found any regarding being a good wife or husband by mufti menk?
The title of this video is incorrect. It says nothing about wives. The focus is on female, hardly any mention about religious duties of wife for her husband. Change the title of this video.
I Stay in different country . But MIL expects me to call her after every 3-4 days(which i do) though She never calls me to ask about my wellbeing but only when i call her. Didn't call me to wish on first eid after my marriage only texted.Then She wished only my husband on call and told him why she(i.e me) didn't call her to which i got annoyed since she should be the one to wish me bcoz it was eid in our country not theirs how illogical is this!. Next day we woke up a bit late and it was eid in my in laws country so she called me in morning and i didnt pick the call i was in bathroom then she called n shouted my husband that why we didnt wish her they argued then she cut the call. Then bit later when i called her she declined my call 2 times. Then in evening she called my husband and talked to him nicely but didn't talk to me. She just only wants me to call her ask her about wellbeing and doesn't bother to call me i also away from my own parents and country. she even told my husband that should i bow down to ur wife(i.e me) she thinks if shes calling me shes bowing down my feet How narrow-minded and arrogant!
THE BIGGEST THING THAT THESE MUSLIM MEN DEMAND IS A VERY YOUNG FAIR COMPLEXION WOMAN , THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY 99% MUSLIM FAMILIES LIVE A PAINFUL LIFE BECAUSE THEY FOCUS ON OUTER PHYSICAL BEAUTY WITH NO CONCERN ABSOLUTELY REGARDING THE QUALITIES AND EDUCATION OF THE WOMAN. WHAT A BLOODY SHAME.
Why muslims stress so much on marriage at early age. These days men and women live so protective environment that they are not mature. Their mothers cook food for them. These kids wake up late and has no higher goals for future . Just having a high school degree in hand , how much a man or woman can earn. Most may be 11 to 12 dollars per hour. In this how can you make your rent . One bedroom apt can easily cost you $1500 , then utilities, food , car payment , diapers and formula for children. Thats where the argument starts. In muslim families unfortunately there are more cultural values then religious values. Then we raise our men and women very differently. Usually women are raised in very very protective environments where they dont have any idea about outside world. Where as man are allowed to go outside at night and meet with women from different cultures. By the time they get married to a “pure” woman then they dont want that woman not to give any answer, because they have seen unfortunately women whi used their confidence in a wrong way. Hazrat khadija was a businesswoman, and brave and strong woman. Prophet Muhammed pbuh was a simple man , did most of his work by himself and was working. Then on top of it muslim families wants to have big families. And by mistake if the first 4 are girls they would keep on having children till they have a boy. We need to stress on quality versus quantity. It is hard to provide higher education and basic needs to huge families. Then if they get married early and depends on the mans family money or his father money. Then there is interference from man side of family . Then they want things go their ways . This again bring problems in the family , whether they are depending on wifes family money or husband family money. Also there is some notion that the only way to avoid haram in life is to get married. If both man or woman are so immature that they cannot control their nafs, then dont get married. Finish your higher education, go into profession, start a small business, volunteer, these years from age 16 to 25 are very very important. Till 16 make a goal and learn religion with school studies. The coming years are going to be hard. Till 25 one should be financially established. Families are important if they are not creating fitna. Ideally if younger children go to any grandma or aunts or uncle they can learn religion, cooking skills,, and how to take care of elderly. Now there are families who will have negative competition and will create reasons for arguments in family. Unfortunately our children in many families didn’t see healthy families where they are healthy physically, mentally, emotionally , financially. Many times they see their parents as role models as to how they deal with crisis , by arguing or by talking and good communication skills. In the end just like when you buy a car or buy a house , you see so many before you do an investment. Marriage is also an investment. It is also the responsibility of the imams, khateebs , community scholars to discuss the realistic expectations. Right now all muslim ummah is in crisis because parents are not willing to change with time, and youth is confused. Unfortunately we are seeing so many muslim divorced women with young children. Now we are not different from western culture. Mercy is just not present in the community.
Assalamu alaikum hujur I need your help to clear my doubts. What does Quran say about polygamy? Some of sheikh they present it like it’s fard. I don’t want my husband accept second wife. I always pray for it. So is that sin?
Gosh 😶😶😶its definitely not fardh never heard of that one!!! If it was fardh ur dad my dad our gran parents wpuldve had multiple wives!! Also i think the first wife needs to agree on her husband marrying another woman if the wife says no then no! Thats what i heard but idk any authentic sourse i dont learn hadiths😭😭
I don't think it's a sin because emotions are normal on this subject. Maybe talk to him about it? but i doubt your husband will marry someone else if he has never brought it up. Also it's not fard to marry more than one women. It's optional.
@@xxwildxx4805 Assalamu alaikum. Please remember me in your prayers. I don’t want to share my husband with another woman. I have a baby boy. Allah give me more baby . And I want to die on my husband arms.
But my wife is so aggressive in talking to me now days as me not having job and I can’t give her money so always she is cursing me now and then. So money is that much importance that much she hates me.
Yes; But nowadays as We Modernize it; Woman sometimes watch " Way too much TV" And Gossiping " Well ; That is not good About neighbours or things; Be Aware of so girls friends of college time Undergoing " HARAM" Tarot card reading or Ouija board" It is A Portal for Entities or Some ...Djiin feeding then on Your Wife; She changes; I signed for divorce " She doesn't want; I will keep my 2 boys 1 Daughter and My House. Brothers , Never give too much on Your wife to go out ; And practice card Tarot is Haram" Her Father feels ashamed
Masallah I will like them to preach about someone who is about to marry a girl and the family have agreed and the boy is ask to visit the girl at home and the boy started touching the girls breasts and hugging once is their marriage considered halal
Ma shaa Allaah I just convert to islam and day by day I get to learn more from the deen and you do enlighten me
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Congratulations on becoming dumb. Now live by the thinking of seventh century standards. Do not question anything, blindly follow the mullahs. All the best!!
May Allah make it easy for you. Congratulations
@@truthbringspeace9798 Actually Islam frowns on those that follow blindly...that's why it is incumbent on every muslim to seek knowledge and the teacher needs to provide proof from the Holy Quran and Hadith (Actions/sayings of the prophet). May the Creator of guide you and all of us to the straight path. Amen
Maasha-Allah sister, Mufti Menk is a great source of inspiration and I hope you have a good islamic support system so that you can learn more everyday. Remember Islam is perfect, muslims are not....we strive to be as laid out in the islamic way of life.
Here to become a better wife insha Allah 🤲
Make dua for our new marriage life ...may Allah bless us all
I agree 💯
May Allah forgive married women who have the love of this dunya and not their deen and guide them.
May Allah forgive us all.
Ameen
May Allah guide as well and not just forgive
Please make dua for me to find the best husband who loves Allah, loves Rasulullah s.a.w and loves me.
Inshallah I hope you found that guy...
Alhamdulillah...real eye opener.may Allah keep us focused on life hereafter.
Ameen
Ameen Inshallah
Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. We must be focused on Islam, and following the real path of Sunnah. So let everyone be religious, without focusing on love for spouses and obsession with happiness in this life. We were created for the afterlife. Not for finding happiness and love here in this world. The obsession with love for humans is sometimes the reason many women and men become completely broken both emotionally and physically. We came to this world to love our creator and serve those people who are helpless and in far more worse situations than us. We came to this world to help every orphan, heal the sick and ease the pain of refugees and poor people and to serve humanity. Our purpose of life shouldn’t be marriage, love, money, degrees, fame etc. so let preach the real purpose of this life to everyone instead of deluding ourselves with hopes of love and happiness, because it is rather selfish to focus so much on oneself and one's own happiness especially when that happiness is a mirage and is truly not real happiness. Let’s not encourage others to become obsessed with the idea of love and relationships when the world is suffering and those helpless people need every bit of help, we can give with our body heart and soul. Having sex non stop is not part of Deen, because in those black sites, Moslems who were tortured and released never complain about not being able to have enough sex anymore.
Allahu'Akbar you have embarked on a straight path insha'allah Wa Alaikum Mus salaam
Beautiful lecture... The beauty of Islam is we always have a lot to learn... Thank you Mufti Menk for remind us about what really matters... We cannot neglect a moment about learning and being close to Allah!!! Jazakallah!!!!!
Barak Allah feek. Thank you for watching.
This is so inspiring video the lecture is so powerful Jazakallah khair all your lectures make me so blessed to hear it
Mr Mufti Menk has brought me so close to Islam... I don't show off how religious I am but it stays between me and Allah... I am not a Saint I don't pray religiously but I feel extremely miserable... May Allah Talah forgive me and all of the believers... I have understood that our religion does elevate the status of women... We have all the rights that men have , our religion is so simple , liberal and peaceful but some people have literally molded the real image of it... I love islam...
Oullah I really get you!!!!! In a way u couldn’t understand, only Allah! May Allah swt forgive us and our umah inshallah.
Is it still the same religion you believe in if the way it is reinterpreted isn't correct?? Not being sarcastic
Subhan Allah, alhumdulillah, may Allah make us focus towards our akhira and protect us from each and every saghira and kabeera sins. May Allah make us piety so that when death comes we would be leaving our uniform (body) with a wide smile on our face with fragrant souls. Ameen ya rabbul alameen.
Ameen
Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen
May Allah grant us the spouse n offsprings who will be comfort of our eye's.. Aameen❤
An honest, faithful, respectful, pious convert woman with a solid career and good heart is 10000 times better than born Muslim women who barely pray.
@@Foxyexrn sister I am a Muslim sister too. Can you discuss your situation with me?
@@Foxyexrn I don't known if I can do this things aswearugad
Good Muslims don't brag that's narcissism that will really damage ur marriage value and sorry sister no men would want to spend the rest of his life with u with that attitude
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Any woman that prays is better then one that doesn't.
May Allah forgive us and grant us jannah ameen 🙏
Plz pray for me that I'll get a loving devoted husband who will be a source of getting us both in jannah InshaAllah
Ameen
May you all have this lovely, sacred & beautiful relationship as well
Ameen
ameen
Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen
I listen to one of lecture of Ustaz Nouman Ali Khan, he mention, "fix your relationship with Allah, He will send good men to you. He will seek you."
May Allah grant you your heart desires
When you find him hold onto him and be his comfort. Nowadays holding on to religion is like holding ash in your hand. So he will need peace the way Allah wants in his house so he can get his dirtied armor shiny again and get back out and deal with the fitnah of the world. And you will have peace and protecting under his lead. And push him and make him get the best out of him by being a mirror to him.
So impressive and convincing...jazakAllah.Allah bless you
Barak Allah feek. Thank you for watching. Like - Share - Earn reward
Be a good Muslima Sister. Be pious even if your husband marries four wives. Listen to him and do not lecture him, you do know that he is allowed to hit you. Ensure your place in Jannah by being pious, Jannah is a great place millions of people have gone there and have came back to describe how great it is.
Jazakallah sister.
A good female questions everything. so also a good male.
I am not an active muslim but this spoke to me, great words!
Thank you So much Mufti Menk❤️
MashAllah so inspirational may Allah grant you jannah yarabi
Men get hoors in Jannah, what do women get in Jannah? Do they become hoors or they also become men and are offered hoors?
Ameen
Focused pious wife on Akhirah! SubhanaAllah !
Awesome, even if he marry 4 you should be pious. If you protest, he is allowed to hit you. SubhanaAllah !
@@truthbringspeace9798 no he is NOT allowed to hit a woman.
Mashallah ❤I learned slowly about Islam.
5times a day we pray allah is the greatest have you heard of isreal and gaza
May Allah have mercy on us all🙏🙏
Inshallah for all of our umah Amin inshallah ❤️
Ameen
Very gd motivation for broken heart ladies
May Allah forgive us and Grant us jannatul Ameen ya rabbi 🤲🤲
Bismillah
Subhanallah
We are happy when others happy
Everyone has his or her rizq...
Jealousy will burn the reward of our good deeds...
May Allah make us practising muslimah. Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
One of the best lectures ❤❤❤
Sister what is Jannah? Why do you want to go there?
Masha’Allah brilliant speech may Allah make us all act open Allah commands 🤲🏻Ameen
Will I remain a woman in Jannah or will I become a Man. Will I be made a hoor for the Jihadis in Jannah or will I be made into a man and hoors will come to me and what if I am not attracted to the hoors?
The mu'meenah, her focus is on jannah and the pleasure of Allah taala, believe that any taqdeer is the best thing Allah wants to grant you even if the taqdeer u go through now is with turbulence.
All these are nice to hear but marriage is big responsibility with difficult challenges. Saying don't focus on dunya is abit odd, we woman are living through these challenges every single day in this dunya, suppressing ourselves to keep the marriage for the sake of Allah is tough. Make sure you choose your spouse wisely. Putting Allah first is the best way to be the best wife.
When we put Allah first in everything we need not to worry, just let go and let Allah have his way in our lives. He will make a way for us in every aspect of our lives.
Remember he already knows what's in our hearts what we desires, so just trust Allah.
Allhumdullilah🌹
Alhamdulilah ❤❤❤❤
جزاک اللہ خیر
Masha Allah. Thank you for watching.
Ma shallah❤
SubhanAllahi Wabihamdihi SubhanAllahi Azeem🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Masha Allah ❤❤
Master eman nangita ko kanang patas ang love, kanang walay daya, una ako nahigugma super, pagwala nako ayha pa sya nahigugma daya na, pasayluon lang ko ni father GOD ALLAH bless always AMEN ❤❤❤
jazak Allah Khayr this was very nice
MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️
Alhamdulilah. Very inspiring
Allahs pleasure is your sole focus. death is unpredictable must be prepared.
Pure in all aspects (doesn’t swear).
**ask yourself what is your focus continuously.
Believes in the Qadr of Allah.
She’s not enslaved by the societal trends -> she’s original and authentic.
May allah bless you sheikh
Assalamulaikum brother could you pls provide more and more lectures about activities of a Muslim woman, encourage woman to fallow Islamic way of life. Teach children Islam . How women can increase Iman. If you could give me the link of your lectures it will be great help for me.
Thanks a lot.
Read the book
The happiest woman in the world.
Find a halaqa at your local masjid.
Masha Allah
Barak Allah feek
Maghulat lang ko kanang matinud anon ug magpakita sa ako ALLAH BLESS always AMEN ❤
JakhAllah khayra
My goal is to earn jannah, but my future husband lost somewhere😅
I'm still waiting for him, maybe his lost somewhere else
mashallah how are you being havize so fast and every thing you say wow i am a muslim how do you learn so quickly❤❤🙏🙏🙏🤲🏻🤲🏻
Jazaak Allah
Good video. Mufti menk is doing great to educate Muslims and describe the rules and regulations of ISLAM. Some evil minded idol worshippers can't tolerate the truth. These wife swappers will feel the reality once they go to Hell.
I dream to be good wife but i dont have any Muslim man. I am new Muslim kha. 😅
thank you, very hekpful.
My husband wants to take another wife and I can't afford the pain please advice me and pray for me
May Allah grant you the strenght. Honestly, I include no second wife in my duas, you should also. But if it were to happen, try your best to be patient and if that makes you really crazy, then you will have to take a decision. I have seen many men take second wives, realise how valuable their first wife is, finally divorced and never did it again. It hurts but at the end of the day, what does not kill you makes stronger. Do not stress yourself with what you do not have control over and trust your own resilience. May Allah give you the best. Be happy, anyway :-)
Assalam aleykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh, didn't get really,was the title wrong on this lecture or my understanding is wrong,coz as far I'm concerned the title is best wife...yet did not hearer a word how's the best wife should deal or interact with her husband!!??
Mufti was taking about how a true believer should be and added that a muslim woman/wife should be very pure like that. So yeah this was about imaan not how to act with the husband,i have some videos if youre interested in that.
@@nadiaamadu7307As Salaam Wa Alaikum sister, I know it's been too long since your comment but I couldn't find any video regarding being a good or great wife from Sheikh Mufti Menk as he has only talked about marriage itself and how to be a good husband in various ways. Have you found any regarding being a good wife or husband by mufti menk?
The title of this video is incorrect. It says nothing about wives. The focus is on female, hardly any mention about religious duties of wife for her husband. Change the title of this video.
Did sheikh delivered this speech in Bahrain 🇧🇭? ❤
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Ramadan Mubarak
I Stay in different country . But MIL expects me to call her after every 3-4 days(which i do) though She never calls me to ask about my wellbeing but only when i call her. Didn't call me to wish on first eid after my marriage only texted.Then She wished only my husband on call and told him why she(i.e me) didn't call her to which i got annoyed since she should be the one to wish me bcoz it was eid in our country not theirs how illogical is this!.
Next day we woke up a bit late and it was eid in my in laws country so she called me in morning and i didnt pick the call i was in bathroom then she called n shouted my husband that why we didnt wish her they argued then she cut the call. Then bit later when i called her she declined my call 2 times. Then in evening she called my husband and talked to him nicely but didn't talk to me. She just only wants me to call her ask her about wellbeing and doesn't bother to call me i also away from my own parents and country. she even told my husband that should i bow down to ur wife(i.e me) she thinks if shes calling me shes bowing down my feet How narrow-minded and arrogant!
Focus
Yess oky
THE BIGGEST THING THAT THESE MUSLIM MEN DEMAND IS A VERY YOUNG FAIR COMPLEXION WOMAN , THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY 99% MUSLIM FAMILIES LIVE A PAINFUL LIFE BECAUSE THEY FOCUS ON OUTER PHYSICAL BEAUTY WITH NO CONCERN ABSOLUTELY REGARDING THE QUALITIES AND EDUCATION OF THE WOMAN. WHAT A BLOODY SHAME.
Why muslims stress so much on marriage at early age. These days men and women live so protective environment that they are not mature. Their mothers cook food for them. These kids wake up late and has no higher goals for future . Just having a high school degree in hand , how much a man or woman can earn. Most may be 11 to 12 dollars per hour. In this how can you make your rent . One bedroom apt can easily cost you $1500 , then utilities, food , car payment , diapers and formula for children. Thats where the argument starts. In muslim families unfortunately there are more cultural values then religious values. Then we raise our men and women very differently. Usually women are raised in very very protective environments where they dont have any idea about outside world. Where as man are allowed to go outside at night and meet with women from different cultures. By the time they get married to a “pure” woman then they dont want that woman not to give any answer, because they have seen unfortunately women whi used their confidence in a wrong way. Hazrat khadija was a businesswoman, and brave and strong woman. Prophet Muhammed pbuh was a simple man , did most of his work by himself and was working. Then on top of it muslim families wants to have big families. And by mistake if the first 4 are girls they would keep on having children till they have a boy. We need to stress on quality versus quantity. It is hard to provide higher education and basic needs to huge families.
Then if they get married early and depends on the mans family money or his father money. Then there is interference from man side of family . Then they want things go their ways . This again bring problems in the family , whether they are depending on wifes family money or husband family money.
Also there is some notion that the only way to avoid haram in life is to get married. If both man or woman are so immature that they cannot control their nafs, then dont get married. Finish your higher education, go into profession, start a small business, volunteer, these years from age 16 to 25 are very very important. Till 16 make a goal and learn religion with school studies. The coming years are going to be hard. Till 25 one should be financially established.
Families are important if they are not creating fitna. Ideally if younger children go to any grandma or aunts or uncle they can learn religion, cooking skills,, and how to take care of elderly.
Now there are families who will have negative competition and will create reasons for arguments in family. Unfortunately our children in many families didn’t see healthy families where they are healthy physically, mentally, emotionally , financially. Many times they see their parents as role models as to how they deal with crisis , by arguing or by talking and good communication skills.
In the end just like when you buy a car or buy a house , you see so many before you do an investment. Marriage is also an investment.
It is also the responsibility of the imams, khateebs , community scholars to discuss the realistic expectations. Right now all muslim ummah is in crisis because parents are not willing to change with time, and youth is confused. Unfortunately we are seeing so many muslim divorced women with young children. Now we are not different from western culture. Mercy is just not present in the community.
Al mautu babun wa kolo nasi dakhiluhu
Assalamu alaikum hujur
I need your help to clear my doubts. What does Quran say about polygamy? Some of sheikh they present it like it’s fard. I don’t want my husband accept second wife. I always pray for it. So is that sin?
Gosh 😶😶😶its definitely not fardh never heard of that one!!! If it was fardh ur dad my dad our gran parents wpuldve had multiple wives!! Also i think the first wife needs to agree on her husband marrying another woman if the wife says no then no! Thats what i heard but idk any authentic sourse i dont learn hadiths😭😭
I don't think it's a sin because emotions are normal on this subject. Maybe talk to him about it? but i doubt your husband will marry someone else if he has never brought it up. Also it's not fard to marry more than one women. It's optional.
@@xxwildxx4805 Assalamu alaikum. Please remember me in your prayers. I don’t want to share my husband with another woman. I have a baby boy. Allah give me more baby . And I want to die on my husband arms.
But my wife is so aggressive in talking to me now days as me not having job and I can’t give her money so always she is cursing me now and then. So money is that much importance that much she hates me.
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Yes; But nowadays as We Modernize it; Woman sometimes watch " Way too much TV" And Gossiping " Well ; That is not good About neighbours or things; Be Aware of so girls friends of college time Undergoing " HARAM" Tarot card reading or Ouija board" It is A Portal for Entities or Some ...Djiin feeding then on Your Wife; She changes; I signed for divorce " She doesn't want; I will keep my 2 boys 1 Daughter and My House. Brothers , Never give too much on Your wife to go out ; And practice card Tarot is Haram" Her Father feels ashamed
I knew JESUS wasn't real here we go again 😊
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Asalamualykum waramatullahi wabarakatu sheikh what should I do if my husband not prying and drinking alcohol he is very bad to me
@@gulalaisadat9819 this is not his channel. His channel is Mufti Menk on UA-cam. He has an email you can contact him on. May Allah help you
Masallah I will like them to preach about someone who is about to marry a girl and the family have agreed and the boy is ask to visit the girl at home and the boy started touching the girls breasts and hugging once is their marriage considered halal
once in marriage yes but not before the paper is signed
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Ok i will pray for Israel. May Allah curse and destroy the state of Israel
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