I CHANGED MY LIFE in my 50s (and you can too!)
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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I made some major life changes in my 50s. Most were positive, or were eventually positive. They were freeing. Many of my old friends are not my current friends and I have encountered some peculiar hostility toward me for the changes I made in my life. I have only a few good friends now, but am much happier with myself. I look back at the past now as a former life. I am not that person anymore and am happier for it. I have more freedom personally and financially, despite an expensive divorce. I went through two major career changes where I thought I might not recover, but I have climbed back up the ladder and make more money now than I ever have. I am not rich, but comfortable now. Fear, is my greatest challenge. Fear of change. I had to learn that bad things can happen, but I will be okay. Because of that, I am a better version of myself. I am 62 now. My fifties were a decade of change. I have learned to look forward to this new decade.
thanks for sharing your story and your thoughts with me and the whole community here, your words are so meaningful ❤️
@@Daphna. Thank you.
You are amazing and an inspiration! I trained to be a chef at 55!! I was older than every culinary student and instructor.
Wonderful! That’s the spirit!
That is SO inspiring!
@williamclarke2020 Congrats ! Well done.
@@tia904 Much Thanks, my Friend.
Some great advice...
You are right there is no perfect time....I've battled that myself.
So glad to see you took the leap of faith and took on the new lifes adventure.
I'm in my 50's and doing the same....I'm not happy in the US and haven't been for over 14 years. I've enjoyed many countries over extensive long term travels of 14 years.
l leave to Southeast Asia in a little less than 4 weeks to work on where I want to move to.
Looking forward to seeing where you settle in. Of course no hurry...enjoy your journey.
Thank you for sharing your journeyץ. May you find the perfect adventures and happiness 😊
So inspiring. I am the constant course taker, learning everything I can about whatever but not executing. Fear and comparison are the thieves of joy and you’ve inspired me to figure out what I want to do in this next chapter of life and go for it. Thank you Daphna❤
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You give me hope and inspiration your beautiful and brilliant and vibrant x
sending you lots of love from Portugal Xxx
Congratulations, Daphna 🌼 and thank you, it is really inspiring seeing a woman going towards her dreams 🌷☘️🍒🌞
oh I'm so happy you got inspired ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for inspiring me. ❤ I too trying to go beyond traditional expectations of my local situation in an island in Indian ocean . Yes, we are living the best life ahead .
This video speaks to my soul right now, thank you❤
This is my first visit to your channel! Great. Love your energy and your adventure😊
I have this crazy idea to move to Portugal as well. Did not figured it out where in Portugal. I love the Portugues people
This is beautiful . Your spirit is shining
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Words of wisdom!
You are so on point and so inspiring. Thank you❤
oh I'm so happy you got inspired ❤️❤️❤️
So much inspiration.. Thank you 🙏
Thanks Keren😘
Daphna I am a new subscriber. I feel S you do and am enc to follow my gut and seek my happiness.
thanks Daphna, Your video is really very motivating
It's always great to hear that my videos are helping people to achieve their goals.
I'm always looking for ways to improve my videos, so if you have any feedback, please share it. Best of luck with your plans.
@@Daphna. sure. My pleasure
hi daphna, after thinking and research, i think if u focus more about specifically india and south asia in general, you may get more followers
Hey girl GOOD on you and you are so amazing and your honesty blows me away l also believe you RIGHT l start Scuba diving when I was 65 IN THE Philippines the next 5 year's i scuba dive around the world Allen B Australian ps Thanks for the message and 😎😎😍😇😇😇😇💪💪💪💓💓🗺🗺🌏🌎🌍
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story
Same Same 😎
GO DO IT LIFE
I just found you on yt and this is exactly what I needed to hear ❤️ what town do you recommend for living in Portugal? Which is the most friendly for expats? Best ❤️ Agna
Iit really depends on your preferences. Places like Lisbon, Porto and Cascais are popular among expats. Each has its charm, so it's a good idea to explore and see which one resonates with you the most.❤️🌟
you are my hero :)
thank you so much for being here and for your support❤️ ❤️
Yeah...the most difficult challenging moments travelling as a solo woman are now my most precious memories and a source that boosts my self-esteem(and hilarious stories for my friends and students😂😂😂) .Never said to anyone of that time in London in 2000:just arrived in my new flat studio:I remained stuck in hotpants and bra closed in a small room and in front of me a window and behind that window a bunch of hot,horny,sexy African immigrants (later i found it was a social centre for immigranti and refugees) who started catcalling and do appreciations and i only wanted to disappear and bury myself.After 30 long minutes my new roommate came back home and saved me from the shame and the embarassement😂😂😂
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I love your videos, and this is a great one! You're right, things are really changing fast these days. But can we not mention AI ? It's overhyped. And I really don't care about it. Bevcause it's not going to be quite what people think it will. Take all the jobs? No. It's not going to be quite like that. But yes, we need to adapt.
Im 40 i want to do the same already ❤
Why not
I am planning Thialand or maybe Spain for next year just the heat for the dogs
Look at Israel now - great move!!!
It is unbelievably sad
@@Daphna. it really is unbelievable sad to see war and innocent pple being hurt
Life calls to Life. Over the edge - our Freedom. Mazzeltov. The door is Open (not only in A dam).
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You sparked an insight. It's amazing how life's symbolism can be so powerful. I realized the door that needed to be forcefully opened from the outside, was such a symbolic thing that happened just as I was trying to break through and to open a door to a new life. So thank you for that.
May the doors open for you too 🌟🚪✨
I know many people are perfectly happy living and dying in the place they were born in. But im so glad I have this need to keep moving. It has made me experience so many cultures and mindsets and changed me to become open-minded and tolerant. I agree with everything you say, except that for me change is not scary, just essential for my well-being.
I relate yet how do you not let the judgement of those who stay in one place not shake you? They ask questions and make comments as though it will catch up with me one day. Yet I'm 52 and fine so far. I worry maybe at 62 I'll wish I banked the money, yet my mother died in a car accident in her 50s and I don't want to die never having experiences either. Can you share how you overcome the judgement (if you get judged)? Thank you
@@emocean582 I suppose people can sense not to judge me, maybe because my life is so obviously so much more exciting and I kept getting better and better-paying jobs whilst becoming super-skilled. Also, I'm the one who's financially free while they'll work til 65 at the very least. Actually, my friends and family want their daughters to emulate me!
@@ilsevanheerden4976thank you for answering. I am lacking the confidence it is the right thing to do for me and I must give off the vibe "they could be right, I'm making a mistake" yet as I mentioned before, my mom was killed in a car accident and to live a "safer" life according to them promises nothing!! Thank YOU 🪷🌿
❤ Thank you for vocalizing your adventure of doing new things, following your dreams, steping out of your comfort zone, processing fear while preparing and living the advetures so clear.
I have just came from 10 day tango learning adventure in Buenos Aires, organisung, traveling there alone.
I feel so greatfull, more confident in myself and trusting the universe more.
I experienced that when you make good preparation, process the fear, have the courage and belif that you would manage to ovetcome all unexpected chalanges, the universe rewards you for having courage and even the magic can hapen.🤗Polonca, Slovenia,
The universe rewards you for having courage, thats exactly it👌 Keep going 😘
"The fact that it's difficult doesn't mean it's not the right thing to do." So well said! It's wonderful to see so many others like you, here in the comments who are making big changes. I am finding my people! Have been an expat in Mexico for almost 14 years and researching where to live next in Europe for my next chapter.
I really needed this push to get out of my comfort zone and take a trip I keep putting off to eventually move to Puerto Vallarta! Thanks!
I'm so glad the video resonated with you! Best of luck on your journey 😊🌴
Better check residency requirements first
I admire you for pushing your life for yourself. I was never for myself. I am responsible for that. I missed out. I thought I was obligated to everyone but myself. 61 years old and no family, no nothing. I took care of my father for 9 years until he passed and now am retiring, so I can move to be near my mom. The last few years she's pushing me to retire and be near her so I'm going in 6 weeks. Watching your video helps me to think more for myself. I'll be there for my mom but hopefully can create some counterbalance to that.
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I just discovered you/your channel. Im going to turn 60 in june and about to make a drastic change. It's super scary, but i am actually thrilled to start over and do new things...synchronicity is a wonderful thing. Thank you for your message ❤
Synchronicity indeed. Lean in and life will show you the way. Best of luck on your journey
What change are you making? Im like you coming up to 60
Oh wow … I so resonate with the points you’ve raised in your video. Thank you.
Dear Daphna, keep it up! Thanks a lot for inspiration and supportive thoughts ❤
You look great Daphna and look younger than some in their 30’s! Congratulations on not letting age limit you! People have preconceived notions of what their life should be like at 60 that aren’t healthy.
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You are inspiring. I plan to semi retire from my FT job in 10 months to do something else for work that I enjoy. Living in Europe is in my near future also.
Thankyou so much for sharing your journey & being honest about it all. Really appreciate the encouraging and inspiring words, they are so helpful. ❤
What a heartwarming message. Please share what inspired/helped ?
You had me engaged until you quoted Oprah Winfrey but you have a good spirit end it is possible that vc pode falar português também. Moro no Brasil e eu sou Americano. We have to live with intention and not be held captive by the zeitgeist in which one is born.
Where to moved in Portugal, could you recommend places or villages?
Will do
See her video on the move to Portugal. Depending on your likes and interests, Lisbon and Porto are both marvelous. The Alagrve region and specifically Lagos is an excellent area of beaches and smaller town charm. All these are good places to start, but there are so many places to see and explore.
Madeira is beautiful too
Thank you for this video it definitely resonates to me...I would love to move to Italy one day and I feel inspired...plus I am so bad at getting out of my comfort zone.
You can do it
I am not happy here in the US with all the violence and political discord. I also realized that I just can't afford to live in America anymore. I have wanted to go to the UK for a few years and have been afraid. In August I will have an empty nest, and I am a widow. You have inspired me to get my passport and make a plan. What am I waiting for!?
oh I'm so happy you got inspired ❤️❤️❤️
I needed this after my divorce from 23 year relationship. Thank you so much, please continue doing these type of content. ❤
more content coming, and I'm sooo excited to see what you think
thank you for being so encouraging!!!
thanks for writing this and for being here ❤️ ❤️
Thank you for this video, your wise words and your positive spirit.
Your kind words mean a lot
SAY NO TO AI AND YES TO REAL PE❤PLE
❤😊 !!! ,seen now all your UA-cam videos, with growing respect/appreciation ...
Thank you so much for your kind words and appreciation❤️ It means a lot to me
I love your videos. I'm in my mid 40s and it's great to hear about your adventures and go-getter life
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Daphna, did you do all these things alone or did you have a partner to help?
By myself 🤷♀️
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I want it for years, but i think i am to old now 😢61
Absolutely not , I’m nearly 61yo and I’m scared but I’m starting anyway ….start smaller or closer to home.
Age is just a number, your journey can start at any moment, and it's about what makes you happy. Believe in yourself and take that leap of faith
61 is young!