Excellent video Jeremy. Thank you for your thoughts & sharing. This is yet again more very valuable & experienced information which will help so many other travellers, holidaymakers etc. Merry Christmas to you. G p.s For anyone just watching this channel for the first time, Jeremy gives very valuable information, information that is based on experience. Subscribing to his channel has helped me tremendously.
Very good and useful video which should have more views. There are literally hundreds of things to be aware about when traveling or retiring in Asia. For me top of the list (besides finances), be humble and kind, respect local culture and people at all times, be patient even if things drive you mad sometimes.
Spot on! One of your best videos I've seen. We must ways keep in mind that we are in someone else's country and to abide by their rules and customs or be booted!
You are grounded & real, as we both know most out there these days are so full of self important's & self indulgence its sad. Your solid advice will help me when i live in Thailand. Yoga & meditation i hope will help me gel with how chilled & peaceful the thai people are. I can be a hot head even at 50, time to relax & enjoy life.
spot on again bro. this is a great place to be, but a person must exhibit kindness. maybe it is because I was born in NYC, this is a piece of cake for me, but I see plenty guys here that do not understand this very simple concept. In many ways, think conflict resolution, conflict avoidance, we are guests here.
Thanks My friend for this advice. You know I always waitlists visit SE Asia but didn’t know what to expect, and with this advice I can put myself in a better position.
This was easily one of the best videos I've watched on UA-cam. Words to live by not only in Thailand, but in any other corner of our world. Cheers, and thank you for words of wisdom during a time of "ego is all that matters".
That's very true, Jeremy: I totally agree. Many people in Philippines or Thailand can even die because they do not have money for hospital. And I have seen they accept that and let themselves die with an extraordinary acceptance of their own destiny, even if young in age. I heard many of them saying with humility that without work they die, without hospital they die. And they still smile. That moved me a lot. They deserve absolute respect and we have to forget the nature of our ego. Happy to know you are such a man of compassion. Thank you for your video and have a great time.
There Needs to be more people like you SIR Jeremy Clodfelter.. The reason why I call you SIR Jeremy as its used as a title before the forename of a knighted man .. your wisdom and humility is priceless! Hope your having a wonderful day!
Franz Captain Clipboard I totally agree Franz Travelling without any knowledge (& an ego as J says) can bring about many pitfalls. Without people like Jeremy mentioning these pitfalls, many travellers & even holidaymakers would be far worse off. Bringing much of it live & current as Jeremy does, is priceless to many.
Great video. Yes, please, listen to Jeremy and check your ego before travelling abroad. Learn languages, be open, if you want to travel and live abroad. I've been to thailand and know how things work there for expats (or wannabe expats), Now I'm in South America, two months ago I started to teach english in a University to locals, and english is my third language, along with french. Go figure!
Thanks again for this very helpful video. I always enjoy and learn from you. Your humble attitude is one that I will try to emulate. As for S.E.A. vs U.S.A. there does seem to be a misconception that services are great back home and are terrible in S.E.A. and I find that attitude by some expats to be appallingly wrong. I have never had real good service at any government agency in the U.S. and I always have to wait my turn... so I would expect to wait my turn anywhere else. As far as medical service I know that people in the P.I. do die if they cannot afford to pay....terrible and sad but that is life for those very kind and hospitable folks. Anyway thanks again and DO More Life.
Great advice and the same advice in the USA . Where else in the world can you live on 600$ a month ? If you read the news you see the us economy is going to hell . Respect the people and the laws of wherever you are don’t be a jerk and you can live here or anywhere in Southeast Asia . I find the people here a lot friendlier then in the USA
Jez wishing you a merry xmas and happy new year , enjoy your xmas in sunny land lol also wishing your family back home the same , probably enjoying a shivering white xmas.
This was your best video yet Jeremy. Common sense and respect anywhere are good traits to have. Every human should be treated with respect no matter where you are. There are great people everywhere and they're also not so great people. I'm sure this is just as true in Thailand as it is in the US. If only the US would strengthen it's control over who is in our country and are they respecting our society and our rules. The problem with the US is that many people here believe that we should be accepting of everything from everyone. And the truth is it seems like from your videos that Thailand guards their national identity religiously, as they should. The one thing that is consistent throughout all your videos is that should always have a back-up plan. I have always believed in that and always have a plan B and a fallback position. I'm not sure if you've done this type of video but maybe you should talk about the negatives? I doubt any place is heaven on Earth.
Tell them Jeremy , no room for egos" in Thailand . Best policy stay a tourist ,don't get involved in their lives . It's ALL about place and face , and a FARANG'S place is being a tourist , stay there and enjoy , that's why you went there in the first place , so stay in that space . Very fragile/sensitive ego's Thais . Outwardly very polite ,disciplined in the Asian way ,BUT, you offend them publicly , embarrass them , make them lose face ??,Jeremy you have it right , it's time to move on or you are in a heap of trouble , some dumb Farangs' can't even see it coming . Another thing don't get a Thai male deliberately drunk , another trouble situation and don't talk down to them like an Imperial Westerner , you are on their turf , it's their country and they know it and they won't take kindly to your rudeness and bad behaviour , you would be seriously out of place by Thai and Asian standards ,they aren't outwardly loud and out of place the way we are , far far more disciplined / reserved. So the golden rule , when in Thailand do as the Thais do , keep everything happy and nice ,no ego tantrums, don't get caught up in their private affairs or politics , remember your place is as a tourist $$$$, that's how they see you , your place if you like , there to pay and enjoy . Don't for a minute think these people are Western especially in the Red light tourist area . Behind the scenes , they are very very Thai , don't forget that , easily done . They will carry on like Westerners' to give you a good time , to get your money ,it's business,it's their job . Some girls will push to move in with you , be a Thai "mia", wife for rent as long as you keep paying it's an Asian thing and she will stay for as long as she can and provide her services for the money , they are after the money, she won't offend you and do as you wish give you a good time till you move on , she isn't your lover or girlfriend , she is providing an Asian / Thai cultural service but she expects to get paid . If you don't want the service , stop it before it starts because once she is in your place it's not going to be easy to get her out , getting the good money you are paying her, she can't get working in the bar . Behind that facade they are really really Thai , move away from the golden rules , get involved in their lives , p!ss them off , no winners there , you will be on a trajectory for losing financially , emotionally or will encounter down right trouble , a lot you can't repair depending how stupid you are and how deep you get involved , been there done that , trust me I know .
Another great video. And also a good point to refer viewers to validate information supplied by Thailand bloggers. You and others always point out it’s just your point of view, taken from your experiences. It’s not gospel! Anyway well done. Loved it
Love the new name! Humility goes a long way in most countries including the US. Are there any single woman who live in Thailand? I'm married and hubby is 15 years older, so I guess we would fit right in LOL. Just wondering because I doubt I would want to move back if I outlive him.
There a lot of single women.... most I met had already been married and were enjoying the single life.... course I only hung out in the tourist areas....lol
Dentists are cheap so you might want to see several to get it all looked at. I just had a a check and two small cavaties, but it left me tinking that maybe she missed something. Cheap to find out. too quick.
Some excellent advice and sadly the majority of foreigners in Thailand tourists and expats don,t get it. We are GUESTS in THEIR country. You are are unwilling or capable of respecting their culture its time for your to either change your mindset or leave. Also excellent advice about other UA-cam channels.
I have found I can come to a S.E. Asian country, be respectful and be fairly open-minded for a while but I am easily irritated. I cannot stay in any of those countries for more than a couple months at a time. The longer I stay in the Philippines for example, the more frustrated I get about almost everything there and if I don't leave soon enough I eventually can't just "bite my lip" anymore & I snap..often publically and often hurting someones pride. I love to travel, I just cannot extend my stay beyond my politeness limits or be a long-term expat in ANY of the Asian countries. My culture is just too different from theirs. I spent 40 years speaking my mind, not hiding my feelings and thoughts & being truthful, even if that truth hurts others.. Asians grew up doing just the opposite. IMO they are an entire population of hundreds of millions of snowflakes incapable of handling even constructive critisizm. For my own self preservation I no longer stay beyond 2 months... Due to trial and error I now know my limitations & I get out before the shit hits the fan.
To be truthful with you I have found that people that think that they must speak their mind as you say you must are in fact people that enjoy hurting others especially those that they think cannot or will not hold them accountable. S E Asians are actually a lot like people in the USA were from a couple of generations back. Polite, good mannered, hard working and honest. Since you have such a low opinion of the SEA culture why not just stay home?
Good advice again for the pricks that come there w/ big egos and thinking they're superior. The saving face aspect sux though, for sure; it's sad when a person can't admit they F'ed up or just don't know. Oh well, such life, no place is perfect...let the good times roll.
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Excellent video Jeremy.
Thank you for your thoughts & sharing.
This is yet again more very valuable & experienced information which will help so many other travellers, holidaymakers etc.
Merry Christmas to you.
G
p.s
For anyone just watching this channel for the first time, Jeremy gives very valuable information, information that is based on experience. Subscribing to his channel has helped me tremendously.
Thanks so much G! I truly appreciate this comment!
AMEN .. Jeremy is the Man!!!
Jeremy is a true asset to all Travelers.. like a yogi, philosopher for travellers
Very good and useful video which should have more views. There are literally hundreds of things to be aware about when traveling or retiring in Asia. For me top of the list (besides finances), be humble and kind, respect local culture and people at all times, be patient even if things drive you mad sometimes.
Totally agree. Thanks for the comment!
From a US born, 1st gen, Thai American - Great message and thank you!
Spot on! One of your best videos I've seen. We must ways keep in mind that we are in someone else's country and to abide by their rules and customs or be booted!
Agreed. Thanks for the comment Neil!
You are grounded & real, as we both know most out there these days are so full of self important's & self indulgence its sad. Your solid advice will help me when i live in Thailand. Yoga & meditation i hope will help me gel with how chilled & peaceful the thai people are. I can be a hot head even at 50, time to relax & enjoy life.
Thanks again Peter. Your comment is very much appreciated. I’m glad you find value in my content. Thank you for the comment.
spot on again bro. this is a great place to be, but a person must exhibit kindness. maybe it is because I was born in NYC, this is a piece of cake for me, but I see plenty guys here that do not understand this very simple concept. In many ways, think conflict resolution, conflict avoidance, we are guests here.
Respect is paramount. Great job.
I agree Patrick. Thanks for the comment.
Thanks My friend for this advice. You know I always waitlists visit SE Asia but didn’t know what to expect, and with this advice I can put myself in a better position.
Awesome! Glad it was helpful.
Solid info and a good wake-up call to anyone with arrogance. All the best brother 😎👍
Thanks James! Merry Christmas to you!
This was easily one of the best videos I've watched on UA-cam. Words to live by not only in Thailand, but in any other corner of our world. Cheers, and thank you for words of wisdom during a time of "ego is all that matters".
Thanks so much for the comment Erran! It is much appreciated. Ego is something I personally have to keep in check.
That's very true, Jeremy: I totally agree. Many people in Philippines or Thailand can even die because they do not have money for hospital. And I have seen they accept that and let themselves die with an extraordinary acceptance of their own destiny, even if young in age. I heard many of them saying with humility that without work they die, without hospital they die. And they still smile. That moved me a lot. They deserve absolute respect and we have to forget the nature of our ego. Happy to know you are such a man of compassion. Thank you for your video and have a great time.
Thank you for the comment and the insight.
Love the hat!
Loved the video. One of your best yet!
This was one your best videos. Thank you 🖒🖒🖒
Thanks Pete! Much appreciated.
There Needs to be more people like you SIR Jeremy Clodfelter..
The reason why I call you SIR Jeremy as its used as a title before the forename of a knighted man .. your wisdom and humility is priceless! Hope your having a wonderful day!
Thanks so much for that Franz! I really appreciate your support!
Franz Captain Clipboard
I totally agree Franz
Travelling without any knowledge (& an ego as J says) can bring about many pitfalls.
Without people like Jeremy mentioning these pitfalls, many travellers & even holidaymakers would be far worse off.
Bringing much of it live & current as Jeremy does, is priceless to many.
This guy is a true Philosopher whom says it from the heart .. though extremely logical and precise
Thanks Jeremy! Timeless advice even 2 yrs later.
Most welcome
One of the best videos of this type i have seen. Thank you Jeremy
Awesome!
Great video. Yes, please, listen to Jeremy and check your ego before travelling abroad. Learn languages, be open, if you want to travel and live abroad. I've been to thailand and know how things work there for expats (or wannabe expats), Now I'm in South America, two months ago I started to teach english in a University to locals, and english is my third language, along with french. Go figure!
Thanks for the comment Altre!
So true!! Just left Thailand. Had to be humble and patient while there.
Thanks again for this very helpful video. I always enjoy and learn from you. Your humble attitude is one that I will try to emulate. As for S.E.A. vs U.S.A. there does seem to be a misconception that services are great back home and are terrible in S.E.A. and I find that attitude by some expats to be appallingly wrong. I have never had real good service at any government agency in the U.S. and I always have to wait my turn... so I would expect to wait my turn anywhere else.
As far as medical service I know that people in the P.I. do die if they cannot afford to pay....terrible and sad but that is life for those very kind and hospitable folks.
Anyway thanks again and DO More Life.
Thanks for the commonsense comment Paul!
Its a good education listening too you my friend.
Thanks Peter. I really appreciate the comment.
Awesome video Jeremy 👍
Thanks George!
Thank you for the heads up
Welcome Robert!
Great advice and the same advice in the USA . Where else in the world can you live on 600$ a month ? If you read the news you see the us economy is going to hell . Respect the people and the laws of wherever you are don’t be a jerk and you can live here or anywhere in Southeast Asia . I find the people here a lot friendlier then in the USA
I’m inclined to agree with you Sedona. Friendliness, in my experience, is easier to come by in SEA. Thanks for the comment!
Jez wishing you a merry xmas and happy new year , enjoy your xmas in sunny land lol also wishing your family back home the same , probably enjoying a shivering white xmas.
Thanks Bobbie, and a very merry Christmas to you and your family as well!
This was your best video yet Jeremy. Common sense and respect anywhere are good traits to have. Every human should be treated with respect no matter where you are. There are great people everywhere and they're also not so great people. I'm sure this is just as true in Thailand as it is in the US. If only the US would strengthen it's control over who is in our country and are they respecting our society and our rules. The problem with the US is that many people here believe that we should be accepting of everything from everyone. And the truth is it seems like from your videos that Thailand guards their national identity religiously, as they should. The one thing that is consistent throughout all your videos is that should always have a back-up plan. I have always believed in that and always have a plan B and a fallback position. I'm not sure if you've done this type of video but maybe you should talk about the negatives? I doubt any place is heaven on Earth.
I literally could not have said it better! Thanks for the insightful comment.
@@JeremyClodfelter thank you Jeremy and you're welcome.
Excellent video JC. Much appreciated
Thank you!
Tell them Jeremy , no room for egos" in Thailand .
Best policy stay a tourist ,don't get involved in their lives .
It's ALL about place and face , and a FARANG'S place is being a tourist , stay there and enjoy , that's why you went there in the first place , so stay in that space .
Very fragile/sensitive ego's Thais .
Outwardly very polite ,disciplined in the Asian way ,BUT, you offend them publicly , embarrass them , make them lose face ??,Jeremy you have it right , it's time to move on or you are in a heap of trouble , some dumb Farangs' can't even see it coming .
Another thing don't get a Thai male deliberately drunk , another trouble situation and don't talk down to them
like an Imperial Westerner , you are on their turf , it's their country and they know it and they won't take kindly to your rudeness and bad behaviour , you would be seriously out of place by Thai and Asian standards ,they aren't outwardly loud and out of place the way we are , far far more disciplined / reserved.
So the golden rule , when in Thailand do as the Thais do , keep everything happy and nice ,no ego tantrums, don't get caught up in their private affairs or politics , remember your place is as a tourist $$$$, that's how they see you , your place if you like , there to pay and enjoy .
Don't for a minute think these people are Western especially in the Red light tourist area .
Behind the scenes , they are very very Thai , don't forget that , easily done .
They will carry on like Westerners' to give you a good time , to get your money ,it's business,it's their job .
Some girls will push to move in with you , be a Thai "mia", wife for rent as long as you keep paying it's an Asian thing and she will stay for as long as she can and provide her services for the money , they are after the money, she won't offend you and do as you wish give you a good time till you move on , she isn't your lover or girlfriend , she is providing an Asian / Thai cultural service but she expects to get paid .
If you don't want the service , stop it before it starts because once she is in your place it's not going to be easy to get her out , getting the good money you are paying her, she can't get working in the bar .
Behind that facade they are really really Thai , move away from the golden rules , get involved in their lives , p!ss them off , no winners there , you will be on a trajectory for losing financially , emotionally or will encounter down right trouble , a lot you can't repair depending how stupid you are and how deep you get involved , been there done that , trust me I know .
Thanks for the comment. You make some good points.
Another great video. And also a good point to refer viewers to validate information supplied by Thailand bloggers. You and others always point out it’s just your point of view, taken from your experiences. It’s not gospel! Anyway well done. Loved it
Thanks so much Tony!
Brilliant info, thank you
regards joe
Thanks Joe! I appreciate the comment!
Love going to experience different cultures. Embraces the mind and senses! Very addictive
Very true Franz!
Learn to speak, read and write Thai. Language offers a window into culture and characteristics of a society.
"As fake as a psychic with a caller ID" Ha ha! That's brilliant... never heard that one before.
Lol. That line came from an old movie. I just can’t remember which one.
Very simply, live by the golden rule. Ego is bad anywhere..
Agreed!
very true jeremy
Love the new name! Humility goes a long way in most countries including the US. Are there any single woman who live in Thailand? I'm married and hubby is 15 years older, so I guess we would fit right in LOL. Just wondering because I doubt I would want to move back if I outlive him.
Thank you! I’m very happy to have the original name back! There are many single women over here. Merry Christmas!
There a lot of single women.... most I met had already been married and were enjoying the single life.... course I only hung out in the tourist areas....lol
Thanks alot. This is valuable information. Thanks for sharing.
Very welcome!
Good thoughts.
Good advice Jeremy, it is my perception too. Behave, be a good guy, obey the rules, and you will have a wonderful time😊
Thanks for the comment Raymond! Right on point.
Wise Words Indeed, Very Sound Advice For Anyone Visiting Thailand, Excellent Content Jeremy, Merry Xmas To Everyone.
Thank you! Much appreciated. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
This was a great video I want to thank you for your very eye-opening understanding of being a foreigner in another country cool beans
You are very welcome Wayne! Thanks for the comment!
Dentists are cheap so you might want to see several to get it all looked at. I just had a a check and two small cavaties, but it left me tinking that maybe she missed something. Cheap to find out. too quick.
Already had the work done, but thanks!
True story, Asia culture is very differently. Asian has a face culture. Western people just never understand.
True!
Family is number 1 in Thailand
Agreed
Some excellent advice and sadly the majority of foreigners in Thailand tourists and expats don,t get it. We are GUESTS in THEIR country. You are are unwilling or capable of respecting their culture its time for your to either change your mindset or leave. Also excellent advice about other UA-cam channels.
Thanks James!
Preach brother preach. Happy Holidays
Thanks Dean. Happy holidays to you as well.
Merry Christmas..
Same to you Willy!
Very good video
Thanks so much Joseph!
I have found I can come to a S.E. Asian country, be respectful and be fairly open-minded for a while but I am easily irritated. I cannot stay in any of those countries for more than a couple months at a time. The longer I stay in the Philippines for example, the more frustrated I get about almost everything there and if I don't leave soon enough I eventually can't just "bite my lip" anymore & I snap..often publically and often hurting someones pride. I love to travel, I just cannot extend my stay beyond my politeness limits or be a long-term expat in ANY of the Asian countries. My culture is just too different from theirs. I spent 40 years speaking my mind, not hiding my feelings and thoughts & being truthful, even if that truth hurts others.. Asians grew up doing just the opposite. IMO they are an entire population of hundreds of millions of snowflakes incapable of handling even constructive critisizm. For my own self preservation I no longer stay beyond 2 months... Due to trial and error I now know my limitations & I get out before the shit hits the fan.
To be truthful with you I have found that people that think that they must speak their mind as you say you must are in fact people that enjoy hurting others especially those that they think cannot or will not hold them accountable.
S E Asians are actually a lot like people in the USA were from a couple of generations back. Polite, good mannered, hard working and honest.
Since you have such a low opinion of the SEA culture why not just stay home?
Funny dude! Yeah, I'm quite a bit like you.
Great video.. the truth will set you free and put you striaght .
Thx
Welcome, and thanks for the comment Peter!
Ego is poison
Absolutely!
Good vlog mate
Thanks Cam!
Well done.
Thank you Daniel! Merry Christmas to you.
@@JeremyClodfelter back at ya bud
Good advice again for the pricks that come there w/ big egos and thinking they're superior. The saving face aspect sux though, for sure; it's sad when a person can't admit they F'ed up or just don't know. Oh well, such life, no place is perfect...let the good times roll.
I agree Rod. Thanks for the comment!
Thai Visa Thanks I'll look it up
Welcome Ed! Merry Christmas to you!
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Internet crime is a strong branch of cybercrime. Identity theft, Internet scams and cyberstalking are the primary types of Internet crime. Because Internet crimes usually engage people from various geographic areas, finding and penalizing guilty participants is complicated.
Internet crimes, such as the Nigerian 419 fraud ring, are a constant threat to Internet users. The U.S. Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) and Federal Trade Commission (FCC) have dedicated and appointed IT and law enforcement experts charged with ending the far-reaching and damaging effects of Internet crime.
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U.S. Computer Fraud and Abuse Act, Section 1030: Amended in 2001 through the U.S. Patriot ActCAN SPAM Act of 2003Preventing Real Online Threats to Economic Creativity and Theft of Intellectual Property Act of 2011
Cyberbullying and harassmentFinancial extortionClassified global security data theftPassword traffickingEnterprise trade secret theftPersonally data hackingCopyright violations, such as software piracyCounterfeit trademarksCredit card theft and fraudEmail phishingDomain name hijackingVirus spreading
We could take a few lessons in immigration from the Thai....just sayin'
I agree Randall