Hats off to OP for seeing the signs and acting accordingly to protect her children, guaranteed they were planning to kidnap her daughter. Astrid and Morton should go for therapy as they obviously have unresolved trauma due to losing their children. I'm glad OP and her family got out safely and she's doing what she should to keep her family safe and her husband is also doing the right thing.
Oh absolutely. They 100% planned on kidnapping the daughter, and possibly the baby, and just run off into the wind as a family of 7 🤢😖 so glad that op's family is safe, and that she kept her distance from astrid and morton... those two need freaking help
It seems like they're the community's golden power couple; charming, charismatic, involved with the community. People think that they can do no wrong because everything that they do is wholesome all the meanwhile they're Satan's ambassadors (hyperboliclly speaking) on earth. They hide in every church, city council and police department.
Are you kidding me, that women took your child off of your property against your wishes. That's kidnapping where I come from. Get a legal letter against them harassing you. This entire situation is out of control with these people harassing you. They are trying to gain custody of one or all of your girls. Red flags are flying.
Wellllll, in a normal civilized country without nepotism you’d be right. Notice how the ex of the teacher, who is friends with the weird couple, handled and dismissed the reporting at the police station? Sounds like a smaller town with lots of „connections“ that cover each other. Look how long it took for the teacher to back off. This is not normal; while most neighbours weren’t, a ton of people covered for those weirdos. If it was their own child, most people would have screamed „estrangement“ and „attempted kidnapping“, but they still covered for those weirdos.
@@TheGosgosh thats when i would have been blasting everywhere that the two people are pedophiles and they are way too invested in your kids publically. Pedos deserve zero privacy.
@@KNY_and_Marionetta well, yes. But try reporting that to some idiots who are best buddies with the kidnappers 🙃 works for the US just the same as for the rest of the world; there is never no corruption. And unless you are the way bigger fish, there’s nothing you can really do about it except record and report it to the next higher place. Hate it.
Why the heck did them taking her child & another off of her property & into someone else's house not count as kidnapping? It was quite obvious that there was no "misunderstanding"!!!
Talk about creeps. Picking kids up, then the whole ring of the teacher and the cop ex boyfriend. OP was super civilized and I am so relieved that she and all her family are safe now.
5:10 I agree its not a good look for Morton to have a police report filed on him for harassing children given his volunteering work, so why he decided to put himself in that position is anyone's guess. Also not a good look for you either teacher.
I think they’re just grieving their kid badly however I will mention that people with disorders that caused them to be attracted to children are more likely to work or volunteer in fields that a parent would tell their child to trust like a coach so even more reason to be suspicious
I knew exactly where this was going after the “We look exactly alike, as if I could have her pass as my child” I immediately thought “they’re gonna kidnap that baby ain’t they.”
Somehow I knew it was Norway. They where definetly acting creepy(stating the obvious) culture here is generally more reserved and we tend to mind our own business, so they where definetly planning something nefarious. I can't say for certain but most likely CPS wouldn't do much at all and are generally too lax in some cases (speaking from personal experience unfortunately(
I kept thinking they want to kidnap OP‘s daughter. They already tried to do so once when they took her off of OP‘s property and onto theirs or when Morton tried to claim the daughter ran on the streets.
I have close friends who lost a child, and I pray I never know that pain. The neighbors are definitely grieving, however, their actions are wildly inappropriate. They need some intense mental healthcare. This mom is 100% in the right for protecting her family
Oh Good for OP. She really needed to get her kids out of there. The neighbors are creepily obsessed with her daughter. I kept thinking they want to kidnap her.
NTA, but your neighbours need help, they are in dire need of psychiatric treatment, no doubt they are grieving the loss of their children but their obsession with your daughter is definitely a matter of concern, and your daughter’s teacher need to be arrested and prosecuted because she is mixing her personal and professional life by showing unnecessary loyalty towards your neighbour and going against your orders about your daughter, her teacher is more dangerous than her neighbour, but hats off to you as a mother to for protecting your children from these kind of people
I have physically intimidated people who look at my daughter or try and touch her hair or anything when she was younger. these people, despite being connected, should have had a TRO on them... too damncreepy
As a Scandinavian I find it hard to believe that a teacher would act like Astrids friend. That would be a violation of many laws. Even a constitutional law, and that is super serious. And you can’t just cancel police reports. Also Morton is not a Scandinavian first name.
Most of these stories don't use people's actual names for anonymity reasons. Also, I dunno, are thing different in Norway? And a Norwegian smallish town?
@@JM221b are u stupid? The names arent the real names, OP said it at the beginning. You do realized its a small town? And in small towns things like this are not uncommon? Seems to me u are one of the crazy couple who lost their daughter and will never have her back.
Oh my goodness that was one of the scariest posts that I’ve read. They kidnapped her child! Those people are dangerous! They were grooming her child and were determined to take possession of her child. And the fact that the teacher was helping is and the police thought it was no big deal is ridiculous! I’m so happy she didn’t wait for her husband and fled to her parents in another country!😱
👏🏻She👏🏻is not👏🏻your👏🏻daughter!👏🏻 If they are grieving, then don’t project your daughter onto someone else’s daughter. That’s so unhealthy for everybody. Constantly acting like they are her parents, going against boundaries (they don’t celebrate Halloween so they forced it onto her daughter anyhow), touching/grabbing her daughter like they are close, acting like friends to manipulate feelings of the family and others, and stalking are all red flags! I would have gone crazy mode on those two adults and said “who are you TO MY KIDS that you can override my authority in her life, go behind my back with your school friend to give her personal gifts, and touching her like you have a right to her?! We just moved here (number of months ago), I barely know you! And currently, I don’t want to unless you back the (freak) off! You’re an adult- talk to me- I’m an adult, not my children. More importantly, not my daughter you keep trying to say is your son’s twin. At this point after I asked you to stop multiple times it’s getting creepy and extremely inappropriate. And stop knocking on my door because I will not answer to you until you get a grip on yourselves.” I don’t even know OP and I’m ready to throw words with these people lol.
5:00 "There was no need for that" dude... they blatantly kidnapped OP's daughter. Idgaf what explanation they have. They took her out of the parent's yard (while playing with SOMEONE ELSE) and brought her to their own house. Honestly, not even halfway through the video, and they deserve prison. OH MY GOD all the times they mentioned them touching OP's kids got my blood boiling, and I don't even have kids. That's so uncomfortable and disgusting.
It’s giving they want her daughter to be their daughter and it’s sick because they are literally getting mad bold with each attempt and it’s like it’s disgusting
At best they were trying to alienate the daughter from her family and somehow get her to join their family. When persuasion failed it kept ramping up with no signs of stopping. The teacher being an accomplice turned this into a full blown horror movie
As someone from Germany everything they say is bullsh it and if anyone is this pushy with stranger kid would have very fast an restriction order and other legal issiued on their neck so yeah those are creeps and i don't want to know what harm they will do to this little girl in future
Everything is already messed up but the fact that after literally police report police was not taking any action like wtf seriously i was so frustrated as i read all this. What if they took her like they already did it once oh my fing god what’s the use of police
I'd have been adding that teacher to the charges being filed as she admitted to helping them when they literally kidnapped her child. Doesn't matter that she wasn't harmed. Doesn't matter that they took her to a public event. They stole that child out of her yard without her mother's permission. I'd have also demanded the head of that police department since the ex of the teacher was obviously not an impartial person, and the others seemed too happy to let it all slide.
I don't understand. It's easier for them to project their daughter upon the daughter of someone else, a daughter who already has parents and is happy chil, and wanting to potentially take away that little daughter away from her real parents just so they can have a daughter, instead of adopting a child who basically has no parents out there? I mean I understand grieve is hard and sometimes people act insanely due to grief, but if you're willing to love a kid who already has parents why not go adopt a kid who really needs parents? I mean in either case both kids are not biologically theirs if that mattered to them (like the bio aspect). Btw, I am not excusing what they're doing to this mother and her daughter. OP should move towns or countries. I am also not saying that they should a adopt a daughter just to project their dead daughter on her. If they adopt then they should love the kid for who it is and let the kid be an unique individual on their own. Just saying how some people are ready to creep on someone else's daughter and wanting to raise someone else's daughter so badly, while maybe adopting a chiod in need could help them heal. And grief or not, just because someone is grieving that doesn't excuse them of anything and doesn't mean they should be forgiven for everything. Is this lady supposed to give up her daughter just because a couple is grieving? Absolutely not! Why would she when parents who grieve can go and adopt children who are in need and who don't have parents? Insane.
Yea I can understand that creepy crap happening there. Nothing against the people there local cops likely won't help foreigners against other locals. "Oh it's just a misunderstanding" "you probably don't understand the culture here." I've never seen a country where any of that stuff is considered okay.
No she's being pushy and weird! U cannot pick up someone else's child especially when u specifically told them not to touch her she wasn't allowed to go!
Bro the police in that country are absolutely worthless! Her child got kidnapped multiple times and she was harassed and they did nothing? I’m glad OP got out of there because good god that’s horrible.
That’s why I don’t talk to neighbors because you are acting weird about ppl just being friendly and nice to you when you are just crazy. Yes you overreact to nice ppl welcoming you to the neighborhood.
Yeah you got that weird creepy vibe from them but it kind of sounded like they were desperately trying to be friends with you and desperately trying to get their kids and your kids to be friends because they looked exactly like the kid that they lost at one point and we're just grieving in a very bad way and you didn't let them grieve
Hats off to OP for seeing the signs and acting accordingly to protect her children, guaranteed they were planning to kidnap her daughter. Astrid and Morton should go for therapy as they obviously have unresolved trauma due to losing their children. I'm glad OP and her family got out safely and she's doing what she should to keep her family safe and her husband is also doing the right thing.
Oh absolutely. They 100% planned on kidnapping the daughter, and possibly the baby, and just run off into the wind as a family of 7 🤢😖 so glad that op's family is safe, and that she kept her distance from astrid and morton... those two need freaking help
@@dekrus i dunno if norway has mental asylums but op desperately needed to call the men in white coats to pick up her neighbors.
6:50 the message here was fucking horrifying, its literally a threat :(
It was weird that the teacher who is supposed to make a child is safe was trying to justify and help Astrid like. Wtf
Small towns where everybody knows each other tend to me awfully forgiven and put the blame on "weird city people".
Hope that teacher gets her teaching license revoked for aiding kidnappers
It seems like they're the community's golden power couple; charming, charismatic, involved with the community. People think that they can do no wrong because everything that they do is wholesome all the meanwhile they're Satan's ambassadors (hyperboliclly speaking) on earth. They hide in every church, city council and police department.
@@karaiko 100% won't. Just "The foreign lady doesn't understand us" crap they will pull.
Are you kidding me, that women took your child off of your property against your wishes. That's kidnapping where I come from. Get a legal letter against them harassing you. This entire situation is out of control with these people harassing you. They are trying to gain custody of one or all of your girls. Red flags are flying.
Wellllll, in a normal civilized country without nepotism you’d be right.
Notice how the ex of the teacher, who is friends with the weird couple, handled and dismissed the reporting at the police station? Sounds like a smaller town with lots of „connections“ that cover each other.
Look how long it took for the teacher to back off. This is not normal; while most neighbours weren’t, a ton of people covered for those weirdos. If it was their own child, most people would have screamed „estrangement“ and „attempted kidnapping“, but they still covered for those weirdos.
@@TheGosgosh thats when i would have been blasting everywhere that the two people are pedophiles and they are way too invested in your kids publically. Pedos deserve zero privacy.
In the us that IS KIDNAPPING
@@KNY_and_Marionetta well, yes. But try reporting that to some idiots who are best buddies with the kidnappers 🙃 works for the US just the same as for the rest of the world; there is never no corruption.
And unless you are the way bigger fish, there’s nothing you can really do about it except record and report it to the next higher place.
Hate it.
I was so uncomfortable with the teacher's behavior too. This is wild.
Why the heck did them taking her child & another off of her property & into someone else's house not count as kidnapping? It was quite obvious that there was no "misunderstanding"!!!
Talk about creeps. Picking kids up, then the whole ring of the teacher and the cop ex boyfriend. OP was super civilized and I am so relieved that she and all her family are safe now.
‘Why wouldn’t I let my daughter go to a party?“
BECAUSE SHE WASNT GOING TO A PARTY?
5:10 I agree its not a good look for Morton to have a police report filed on him for harassing children given his volunteering work, so why he decided to put himself in that position is anyone's guess.
Also not a good look for you either teacher.
Right? The appropriate response to that comment is "then I guess Morton and his wife shouldn't have kidnapped a child".
I think they’re just grieving their kid badly however I will mention that people with disorders that caused them to be attracted to children are more likely to work or volunteer in fields that a parent would tell their child to trust like a coach so even more reason to be suspicious
I knew exactly where this was going after the “We look exactly alike, as if I could have her pass as my child”
I immediately thought “they’re gonna kidnap that baby ain’t they.”
Agreed
People are messed tf up seriously
Somehow I knew it was Norway. They where definetly acting creepy(stating the obvious) culture here is generally more reserved and we tend to mind our own business, so they where definetly planning something nefarious. I can't say for certain but most likely CPS wouldn't do much at all and are generally too lax in some cases (speaking from personal experience unfortunately(
I kept thinking they want to kidnap OP‘s daughter. They already tried to do so once when they took her off of OP‘s property and onto theirs or when Morton tried to claim the daughter ran on the streets.
@@Starberry7 definitely, they where so creepy. I'm glad op and their family ended up being alright
I have close friends who lost a child, and I pray I never know that pain. The neighbors are definitely grieving, however, their actions are wildly inappropriate. They need some intense mental healthcare. This mom is 100% in the right for protecting her family
Oh Good for OP. She really needed to get her kids out of there. The neighbors are creepily obsessed with her daughter. I kept thinking they want to kidnap her.
NTA, but your neighbours need help, they are in dire need of psychiatric treatment, no doubt they are grieving the loss of their children but their obsession with your daughter is definitely a matter of concern, and your daughter’s teacher need to be arrested and prosecuted because she is mixing her personal and professional life by showing unnecessary loyalty towards your neighbour and going against your orders about your daughter, her teacher is more dangerous than her neighbour, but hats off to you as a mother to for protecting your children from these kind of people
They need be in jail not help
I have physically intimidated people who look at my daughter or try and touch her hair or anything when she was younger. these people, despite being connected, should have had a TRO on them... too damncreepy
That is so creepy. Are any of those children even really theirs?
Holy blessed. Well done. That is horrible and scary. They should be arrested for kidnapping, stalking and harrassment. Ugh.
As a Scandinavian I find it hard to believe that a teacher would act like Astrids friend. That would be a violation of many laws. Even a constitutional law, and that is super serious. And you can’t just cancel police reports. Also Morton is not a Scandinavian first name.
Most of these stories don't use people's actual names for anonymity reasons. Also, I dunno, are thing different in Norway? And a Norwegian smallish town?
There does seem something off about this story. While it could be real, I think there's a good chance it's fake too.
@@JM221b are u stupid? The names arent the real names, OP said it at the beginning. You do realized its a small town? And in small towns things like this are not uncommon? Seems to me u are one of the crazy couple who lost their daughter and will never have her back.
Keep your children close if their this obsessed and they don’t get their way or even you try moving away they may try and kidnap your child
This cannot be the United States. I work in a school and when the kid is over the age of 4 we do not change them
I know right plus why is the teacher getting so involved
Op metioned in between, that the friends were Norwegian, so the country might be Norway.
OP mentioned it was in Norway. The Internet does not revolve around the US
Oh my goodness that was one of the scariest posts that I’ve read. They kidnapped her child!
Those people are dangerous! They were grooming her child and were determined to take possession of her child. And the fact that the teacher was helping is and the police thought it was no big deal is ridiculous!
I’m so happy she didn’t wait for her husband and fled to her parents in another country!😱
👏🏻She👏🏻is not👏🏻your👏🏻daughter!👏🏻
If they are grieving, then don’t project your daughter onto someone else’s daughter. That’s so unhealthy for everybody. Constantly acting like they are her parents, going against boundaries (they don’t celebrate Halloween so they forced it onto her daughter anyhow), touching/grabbing her daughter like they are close, acting like friends to manipulate feelings of the family and others, and stalking are all red flags! I would have gone crazy mode on those two adults and said “who are you TO MY KIDS that you can override my authority in her life, go behind my back with your school friend to give her personal gifts, and touching her like you have a right to her?! We just moved here (number of months ago), I barely know you! And currently, I don’t want to unless you back the (freak) off! You’re an adult- talk to me- I’m an adult, not my children. More importantly, not my daughter you keep trying to say is your son’s twin. At this point after I asked you to stop multiple times it’s getting creepy and extremely inappropriate. And stop knocking on my door because I will not answer to you until you get a grip on yourselves.” I don’t even know OP and I’m ready to throw words with these people lol.
Omg that is scary! Good on her for holding her boundaries despite some very ignorant parties (teacher being one).
Nope. OP is right. Teacher is a groomer.
It's a literal horror story. I would've packed up and ran away after they took the kid while she was playing. That was literal kidnapping.
5:00 "There was no need for that" dude... they blatantly kidnapped OP's daughter. Idgaf what explanation they have. They took her out of the parent's yard (while playing with SOMEONE ELSE) and brought her to their own house. Honestly, not even halfway through the video, and they deserve prison.
OH MY GOD all the times they mentioned them touching OP's kids got my blood boiling, and I don't even have kids. That's so uncomfortable and disgusting.
It’s giving they want her daughter to be their daughter and it’s sick because they are literally getting mad bold with each attempt and it’s like it’s disgusting
Astrid need learn not to touch op kids
That must have been terrifying! Nothing about any of their behavior was normal.
At best they were trying to alienate the daughter from her family and somehow get her to join their family. When persuasion failed it kept ramping up with no signs of stopping. The teacher being an accomplice turned this into a full blown horror movie
Move away. They seem like creeps and you won't find peace till you get away from them
It’s like a plot of a horror movie where their all against you 😢
After the first incident the kid was still going out unsupervised......
Exactly the problem
As someone from Germany everything they say is bullsh it and if anyone is this pushy with stranger kid would have very fast an restriction order and other legal issiued on their neck so yeah those are creeps and i don't want to know what harm they will do to this little girl in future
Everything is already messed up but the fact that after literally police report police was not taking any action like wtf seriously i was so frustrated as i read all this. What if they took her like they already did it once oh my fing god what’s the use of police
I'd have been adding that teacher to the charges being filed as she admitted to helping them when they literally kidnapped her child. Doesn't matter that she wasn't harmed. Doesn't matter that they took her to a public event. They stole that child out of her yard without her mother's permission. I'd have also demanded the head of that police department since the ex of the teacher was obviously not an impartial person, and the others seemed too happy to let it all slide.
I don't understand. It's easier for them to project their daughter upon the daughter of someone else, a daughter who already has parents and is happy chil, and wanting to potentially take away that little daughter away from her real parents just so they can have a daughter, instead of adopting a child who basically has no parents out there? I mean I understand grieve is hard and sometimes people act insanely due to grief, but if you're willing to love a kid who already has parents why not go adopt a kid who really needs parents? I mean in either case both kids are not biologically theirs if that mattered to them (like the bio aspect).
Btw, I am not excusing what they're doing to this mother and her daughter. OP should move towns or countries. I am also not saying that they should a adopt a daughter just to project their dead daughter on her. If they adopt then they should love the kid for who it is and let the kid be an unique individual on their own. Just saying how some people are ready to creep on someone else's daughter and wanting to raise someone else's daughter so badly, while maybe adopting a chiod in need could help them heal. And grief or not, just because someone is grieving that doesn't excuse them of anything and doesn't mean they should be forgiven for everything. Is this lady supposed to give up her daughter just because a couple is grieving? Absolutely not! Why would she when parents who grieve can go and adopt children who are in need and who don't have parents? Insane.
Not the teacher gaslighting her all the time 💀💀💀
Yea I can understand that creepy crap happening there. Nothing against the people there local cops likely won't help foreigners against other locals. "Oh it's just a misunderstanding" "you probably don't understand the culture here." I've never seen a country where any of that stuff is considered okay.
No she's being pushy and weird! U cannot pick up someone else's child especially when u specifically told them not to touch her she wasn't allowed to go!
Good job op
Bro the police in that country are absolutely worthless! Her child got kidnapped multiple times and she was harassed and they did nothing? I’m glad OP got out of there because good god that’s horrible.
OMG i would sue the teacher & these weird ppl
I’m from Norway and that’s definitely not things we do
I would have gone after the teacher helping with kidnapping my child and the cops
I was scared for op.
Sounds very German
STOP LEAVING YOUR KID IN THE GARDEN!
In a place where you have your own garden you should be able to read your kids in your garden without them being harassed.
It’s basically the back yard where parents should be able to. What is she supposed to do pick her kind in the house?
wow
At first it seemed like they wanted to be welcoming and then they got really pushy. Kinda kreepy
That’s why I don’t talk to neighbors because you are acting weird about ppl just being friendly and nice to you when you are just crazy. Yes you overreact to nice ppl welcoming you to the neighborhood.
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Ig I’ll say I’m first kids cry lmfao
wao i am early
Yeah you got that weird creepy vibe from them but it kind of sounded like they were desperately trying to be friends with you and desperately trying to get their kids and your kids to be friends because they looked exactly like the kid that they lost at one point and we're just grieving in a very bad way and you didn't let them grieve
It's their job to get therapy, not use somebody else's kids to grieve
You don't celebrate Halloween..... YTA 😂😂😂 jk jk
Ok but it’s YOUR FAULT for leaving her alone all those times outside
You do realize norway is one of the safest fucking countries