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In a sane world OP would get full custody, and she would get supervised visits at best, because she is clearly unstable, and at this point I wouldn't dismiss the possibility that she's a danger to the daughter. Saw another story where a wife had a complete mental breakdown and tried to take their kid with her right before she drove into a tree to end herself. Luckily that OP didn't let her, or he would've lost his daughter. The wife in this story already threatened self end, and seeing as she's clearly mentally unwell, it is believable.

Humans aren't asexual. There's an underlying cause.

Well, he's settled for an incomplete package, his choice, but it's also just as valid to say that's called being swindled. You had sex aplenty prior to marriage, then poof, she's asexual? And not only that, she hides behind that while degrading and belittling you too her friends and she then adds to the fire by stating the reason is things aren't well in the relationship.... Yea, no, absolutely not.

Leave her. This is a crazy red flag and he's making all justifications in the world for it. It's not about the sex, it's about how she would drink him through the mud like that and allow her friends to say those things to him. No no no no no

lets start with the 2nd issue he wants a son , so is he going to guarantee the baby is going to be a boy ? no he ain’t cos he cant , the sex of a child is not down to the mother its the fathers and if he don’t know that he’s the asshole , blaming you for losing a baby makes him worse than an asshole , good your dropping the jerk . getting to your mother over the treatment of your brother being gay , it’s not your brothers fault he’s gay but your parents most of all your fathers as i said the fathers xy factor decides the sex of the child not the mothers , sorry didn’t mean to offend on that last bit as none was intended . Good luck with the triplets and i feel sorry for your brother and he’s husband being there be 5 females in the home lol , i know how that feels being a father of 5 daughters but buying pretty dresses for girls is much better than buying t shirts and jeans for boys , my youngest 2 babies are 26 and 23 and i still have baby dress suits that was only worn once beside a photo shoot each , hey buy pretty dresses or wake up with hang over lol i chose there dresses

How long has your husband known her? Since she was 8-13yrs? Bc he may be a groomer. Doesn’t alleviate the sitter’s responsibility bc she should have either brought this to your attn or took a step back. Install cameras if you continue to allow her to babysit; can’t let her go on the basis of a few texts (I mean you can but it’s best to be safe than …) don’t hide the reasons for the separation and possible divorce from family and friends. If it was a grooming situation then notify the parents so they can recommend therapy to their child

At least Joe isn’t spineless. I feel like at the initial viewing of the jewelry he was in his emotions and don’t fully take in what Lily had said. But applauds to him that he isn’t hemming and hawing

No it's the persom from the Poly couple offering a good time for me, that has to be the funniest and out of pocket thing to come out of the story 😂 Polyamorous people are epic

Well I do not blame you: Id kick him out. He's treating you like you were no more than a incubator and your son as replaceable.. Do not let him have 50/50 custody.. He will spoil your daughter so badly, it'll be a nightmare to set down rules for when you have her.. Plus, he needs to go back to work.. He honestly thought you'd support him so he could stay at home without even talking to you about it??

My god, marriage is just a god awful idea😂😂😂

Its 100% low libido, most people can get their hormones checked, and through some healthy hormone therapy and physical exercise, the lack of want surdently disappears.

"Don't tell no lies bout me, and I won't tell no truths bout you" type energy

Imagine if the sexes were reversed. A bunch of dudes are hanging out. One says he doesn’t remember the last time his wife gave him oral. Then all the guys gang up on the wife and guilt trip her into doing it. Suddenly it seems pretty messed up, right?

What's this idiot planning on doing at the park: letting the baby go down the slide by herself? Dropping her off the swing? This woman is crazy, evil and dangerous. Report her to the police. Also talk to the parents of the kids who laughed for a while before rescuing your daughter. And tell your mother, boyfriend and whoever else to go pound sand.

Op you are the AHOLE! Clear and simple!

Nta, your son is a mild idiot and boy, the new wife is entitled every one wants free money you gave him the same opportunity he made bad choices it is not your problem

Your fiance is delulu and needs to respect your decisions or stay single

She sounds like a horrible person who has horrible friends. Cut your losses and move on.

People often say they love their kids equally (bio, step, adopted), but I was told by many therapists that the love a parent feels for their bio children is often different just from the aspect of being there from conception vs meeting a child later in their childhood. HOWEVERRR, it is another thing entirely when it’s noticeable to the kids. The biggest rule is “you may *feel* different, but it’s not a child’s fault and you certainly don’t *treat* them differently. That is flat out wrong.” The fact this dad has lost the fucking plot and is refusing to let his wife even breastfeed… stating “you had your turn (with your son), now it’s my turn…” is so insane, I just cannot wrap my head around it. Mentally, something has shifted for this man that he needs serious therapy for. His daughter is not his property and If he doesn’t start addressing his treatment and view of her now, it’s not only going to seriously negatively affect her life, it’s going to push her away as fast as she can run as soon as she’s afforded the chance. I selfishly really want updates on this one… this whole scenario is fucking crazy. And no… OP, you’re trying to be a good mom by refusing to let him exclude you from your own child’s very important first few months of life and bonding. NTA 🤍

I am also with a woman who ended up being asexual after we were already together. It is a terrible feeling. Ive also taken the path of the OP in the video and don't even want to have sex with someone who doesn't want it.

I really hope yall know this story is fake thats why it doesnt make sense.

Huh

give her one more chance only 1, she was manipulated but also didnt care about your opinion directly and only listened to your half sister

The amount of mental gymnastics pulled to try and blame the husband for this is a nice reminder of why im staying single.

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Men in the west really don't have the ability to stand up for themselves huh... Firstly, remember when not having a sex drive was treated like the illness it is instead of pretending it was a sexuality. You realise biologically the only function of any organism is to reproduce right, if you're not able to do that you've essentially failed the main function of life. I swear these so called psychologists are focused more on indoctrination than treating anything. Manipulation of vulnerable people by those supposed to help them, a particularly disgusting act. Secondly before we even get into her throwing him under the bus, let's discuss the absolute betrayal of marrying a man under false pretences and then denying him one of the most fundamental parts of a relationship. If he had any spine (or testosterone) left he would have left her as soon as she started that crap. Also I wonder if she'd be okay with him sleeping with other women, since she doesn't care about sex right, but I'm guessing based on what a conceited b she is, she wouldn't like that idea. I'm also guessing her asexuality would dissappear real quick once she met Tyrone, if that hasn't already happened And finally of course any woman who would alow their husband to be disrespected like that in front of anyone for something that is completely her fault is pretty worthless imo (not just being asexual but also having such shitty friends and going to such low class "parties") Only solution I see is immediate divorce (although I'm guessing he's going to be screwed financially if he does that, so tough luck being a man in the west, shouldn't have gotten married 😂)

OP is like there is more to a marriage than sex. Yes that is tru. But you cant have one without the other. Its like living in a house without a roof. Yes its a house but its going to be bad when it rains

Her telling others that her brother might be a predator is not a serious accusation? Both brother and sister need their head checked.

Shitty wife, shitty friends. You don't throw your partner under the bus just because you're too embarrassed to admit something about yourself. That's asshole behaviour. Don't let other people suffer for your own insecurities. And you definitely don't get pissy at them when your partner finally gets fed up and defends themselves. If you don't want that to happen then don't put them in that situation to begin with.

Betrayal is betrayal. She let others trash her man without sticking up for him and even continued being friends with them. I would feel alienated and betrayed if it happened to me and likely would end things if a spouse participated in trashing me even as a silent observer. I would never air dirty laundry about my Gf/wife and I expect the same in return. It turns friends completely against your other half even though you are just idly bitching about daily minor annoyances.

You do you bub. But if there's little to no sex in the relationship, you don't have a wife, you have a roommate. I agree there's more to a marriage than sex, however it's still a necessary part of the relationship.

I know what it is like to go years without intimacy I know my marriage is non-existent. I have no suspicion of infidelity. Literally did investigate that a few times and Nada zip zero issues. I have heard a dozen reasons that fail the test. Ie she needs to get something fixed but then does nothing to fix the issue she claims as why no intimacy. My adult children know I am done and only finances stop me from leaving. I work she does not. One day I will get so desperate for the love I need to feel valued that I will break my vows, mind you I am not being cherished etc

Dude is so delusional.

Something cringe about this stepsister, and than her entitlement is another red flag

those friends are not your friends they dont want good for ya'll they just mean and selfish ...drop them

So your parents failed as parents, and you are failing as a sibling. Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

girl she doesn't see her step brothers as step brothers or brothers 🤮🤮

Do you have the original post and a link?

Asexual people should just not get married period

“Asexuality is a spectrum” how is that different than saying “some people have higher sex drives than others”? Like if this was happening before the term “asexual” existed this wouldn’t be a problem because the wife and the guy would both just accept that she had a fairly low sex drive and that would be the end of it. I blame the wife for complicating things with an arbitrary label.

I think it's delusional to stay in a marriage where one person outright says: I don't desire you". They don't seem to have kids so what tf are they pretending to be married for? Time is running out, don't stay in situations that fundamentally don't work for you.

Crunchy means re*arded.

I think OP could try to look at this as his wife offering him a massage, only a more intimate one. The one giving the massage to someone they care about or like isnt exactly doing it because they specifically like the feel of giving massages, they're doing it because it makes the person they care about happy, and that makes them happy or they find it pleasing to feel like theyve made the person they care about happy.

She's such a loser to lie to her friends like that at the expense of her husband

Update ?

"Some momentary discomfort" YOU caused it though. Like, you can lie and say "oh he's great at oral" and boom: No problem. He shouldn't have outed you, but you are the reason he's in this situation. You put him there

Everyone sucks here, other than the friends, who are awesome

something I gotta say: don't look at intercourse from a maitinence perspective, but as a favor or gift for your partner; as a romantic thing rather than a sexual thing. I mean, what could be more romantic than giving yourself to your partner and recieving them in return? just something that might help those aesexuals who still want a partner and aren't ADVERSE to the deed.

Poor OP, I hope she can move back to her grandparents, away from that creep and her b of a mother

OP needs to get out of that house and press charges. That type of behavior is only going to get worse