THE UGLY FACE OF VANLIFE KNOCKS ON OUR DOOR !!!! | PEAK DISTRICT | VAN LIFE UK
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2024
- We head off for a weekend in the Peak District. It doesn't go quite as planned when the NASTY side of van life knocks on our door.
How would handle a situation like this?
Van life in the Peak District is great, surrounded by amazing views and lovely little towns and villages to visit. We had a lovely time apart from the knock.
0:00 The Intro
04:45 Buxton
10:00 Into the Goyt Valley
12:34 The beginning of the Nasty
15:10 The Wife
15:52 The NASTY
19:52 The morning after
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Let us know how you would have handled the situation? I try to handle things differently most of the time. My guard was already up after the Wife had confronted Maximus with the dog - He doesn't comprehend half of the things she was saying and definitely didn't know how to reply. That upset him to start off with. Then once the guy bounced up to the window like he did and the right into my face I found it hard to keep my composure. I asked him normally twice to move back, Maximus was scared behind me and when he wouldn't move My voice changed. You can hear it break a little as the adrenalin kicks in as I enter fight or flight mode.
Editing this was very hard to be honest, it turned my stomach. There was a lot more to the confrontation but it would upset Maximus if I included it all. They would move away, they wouldn't leave. I kept trying to back them up away from the van and Maximus. In the end Michelle came out as well.
I don't understand why people have to be like that...
Please let us know your thought below?
I would have done the same and moved on afterwards.
Just ruins it all. People are vile and shouldn't behave like that. However, they do. Hopefully, you'll not be put off by that experience, guys.
Looks like you had a lovely time regardless. Well done
Yes that was awful with your family there. If you go to north Wales, things can in my experience take an even nastier turn and I'd recommend avoiding the place.
I was on Anglesey within the last couple of years, alone and fishing a night tide, and could hear some banging and shouting in the car park.
Got into the car park as they were driving away. Couldn't get the reg number and it was dark so I couldn't even tell what sort of car it was.
I got a broken front windscreen, dents down the side and trim torn off the back. Well over £1000 of damage.
Over the years we spent thousands in Wales on holidays with the kids. After that experience I'll never spend another coin there and neither do any of our friends and relatives. I assume that counts as a win for the Welsh.
It has to be said, the explosion of van ownership and "wild camping" this last year or two has changed things for the worse, and certainly in Wales its probably safer for visitors to avoid isolated places. If indeed there is still anywhere left without height bars.
Sorry to hear you had that experience, it is a sad world we live in when people think it's okay to do that to someone else.
We love Wales and have spent much of our time away in various parts. In a recent trip ( Our first in the Van to Wales) we didn't have any problems. I had read a lot about Anglesey and although we visited during the day - we made the decision to not stay the night.
We stayed a couple of nights on Llanwrst library carpark, once on the way in and again on the way back out. Llanwrst and the surrounding area are some of our favourite spots. It does look like every where has become no overnight now in and around Snowdonia. The vlog is to come but we looked for spots in Wales that it seems acceptable and there was still plenty of space. We didn't feel like having the confrontation in a wild spot.
Thanks for watching and commenting :-)
Thanks Terry, we still had a great time - it took a while to settle and reassure Maximus that night that he hadn't done anything wrong and they were just not nice people. With his developmental delay he has the social understanding of a 3-4 year old, so he need support and reassurance. This is the thing with disabilities that can't be seen, people just don't understand. Thankfully he woke up happy and the neighbours we had were lovely with him and let him ask his 100's of questions (usually the same ones over again). They let him explore their van and that helped restore his confidence.
He has been away again since and Loves his van - he is looking forward to heading north in search of snow after Christmas :-)
I think you handled very well telling him it was escalating and he had to move out of your personal space. You were defending your wife and child against an intimidation. I think it is very normal to have those emotions kick in. After all, you chose to stand your ground and not pick a fight but move. That set a good example if you ask me.
I had a guy attack me while I was night fishing, giving the billy big, he spat at me.I’m 6 foot 5 and 17 stone. Watching the colour drain from his face and then the thud as his nose connected to my right hand. Funnily enough he disappeared whimpering and I went back to sleep. I don’t suffer fools gladly, but you did the right thing mate 👍
Oh wow!! What absolute horrible human spitting in your face. He must have gotten a terrible shock when you defended yourself. He will think twice about doing that again.
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No worries mate and take care, us Millwall are tough bunch 😉
@@davidgarratt5518 I love the song you Millwall lads sing its quality. We are Leek Town nobody likes us at the moment only because we are top of the League
@@MrTerryb1956 Well good luck for the season, a lot of teams use it nowadays but it’s ours and always will be NOLUWDC 🦁
Oh why oh why weren't we there to witness the fist nose connection?. You could have sold tickets and ended up rich.
We are all going there soon hope they like 30 army boys camping out there
I don't even think he will come near but please let us know if he does. 🙂
I have come to the conclusion that there are some people in this world that make it their life mission to go out every day and piss people off for no reason whatsoever and it's probably because they are just very unhappy and miserable people that don't want to see others enjoying their lives.
Keep living your best lives and ignore the saddos 💕
Thank you 😊
Well said 👍
Or more likley, they're rich, out of touch land owning toffs who shreek at the very presence of the less advantaged.
bloody right on.
Yep, agree!
Ive dealt with these types before, best thing to do is to open the door as hard and fast as you can whilst they are stood there (use your foot to create momentum) they usual end up on the floor at which point you can jump out and determine whether or not further force is required to protect yourself and your family from potential harm..... if someone comes banging on your van in the night, deal first and ask questions later..
Well that's definitely one way 😀. Thanks for commenting
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Would not be able for that in the middle of the night... As soon as they knocked I would be fuming I am not a people person. Only a fool would cross the line to knock on a man's door late at night.
i always carry chilli spray
The guy is lucky he knocked on a van owned by someone as calm as you
They should definitely not be going about doing what they did. They were old too and unfortunately, like you mentioned he may knock on someone's van that isn't so calm.
Unfortunately he'd come across that person if that were me as well lol. Old or not I don't like intimidating behaviour, fools or being spat at lol. I'm with the 6'7 fella. I'm 6'4 and being spat at is a huge no no...Can take being called all sorts of names and insults bit spit at me and I'm willing to get arrested for smacking a knocked lol gotta deal instant justice with some people imo. Fair play for not lumping them tbh haha
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New subscriber and van dweller. As a doorman of 22 years experience.. In no way did I see you losing your cool. I thought it was a measured response setting clear boundaries to protect your family and your personal space from an aggressor..simple. In my experience anyone who steps back and folds their arms had violence as intent as is literally restraining themself by doing so.
Looking forward to checking out your back catalogue and new travels :) Namaste.
Thank you for you comment and the benefit of your experience. I felt the same when he folded his arms and that's why I continued to attempt to make space between him and my boy who was sat right behind me. I feel like I did loose my cool a little when the adrenaline kicked in, I try to show Maximus a way with words. He is on the Autistic Spectrum and has developmental delay and anxiety. His emotional develop meant is around 4 years old, even though he looks like a "neurotypical" boy things can effect him.
It was definitely a balance of trying to give a measured response and trying to show Maximus the right way. In that I definitely feel I lost my cool a little.
Still nice to hear from someone who has had to deal with these things day in day it, my gut reactions were inline with the situation a you saw it.
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@@traveling-taylors Thankyou for the response..much appreciated :)
I've also worked as a peer based councilor and simply wanted to say that Maximus seems a charming young man and I appreciate his sensitivities and also your desire to set a good example as his protector when faced with emotional volatility from another.
I thought you did a Sterling job of balancing your response to the aggression you all experienced in an isolated environment...
Bullies only tend to respond to perceived negative consequences for them and it's worth considering how it may have escalated had you not 'lost your cool' as you perceive it.
Perhaps go easy on yourself..we are good men..not superman ;)
Thanks you for that, I do replay and think what could I have done better for him as a dad.
@@traveling-taylors You will dude thats perfectly normal and expected. It was a traumatic experience for all of you and your obviously empathic nature will attempt to discern with hindsight how it (you) could have been 'better'.
You did what you did in the moment and it worked out the best it could have when it could have been so much worse...it's obviously not in your nature to have to talk to people that way and it isn't sitting comfortably with you...that's on him and his wife...not you. Let's put responsibility for this situation where it belongs.
Thanks again, it's a funny one UA-cam. I was in two minds whether to even include it in the video. It is what happened and that's what this is supposed to be about - our travels.
Doesn't sit well though even now.
It also opens us up to peoples thoughts and opinions and although most see it for what we did there are always those that see it differently and reply with abuse - even if then don't realise that's what they are doing.
Thankfully only one so far
Thanks again for your comments
I'd have shown them on camera! If they want to be confrontational, lets watch them and let their neighbours and family watch them!
We thought long and hard about showing their faces but we wouldn't want to be the cause of them getting abuse of any kind.
I agree I would have shown their faces
@MrTerryb1956 Hi, thanks so much for your comment. We wouldn't want them to come to any harm due to us exposing their faces
Yep! You should have shown their faces, they have no right to privacy when out in public.
Let's go back in group. Should be interesting 😅
You're a good family man... don't let this experience get you down...
What a lovely family
Keep camping!!!
Thank you so much 🙂 We will keep on camping
I could tell by the way your voice was breaking that you were scared during the encounter, but you manned up anyway to protect your family and got the bully away from you all. A brave man is not one who does not get scared, but one who does what he has to do in spite of being scared. Kudos to you, mate.
Thank you. Yep, you got to protect the family. Thanks for your comment and support
Pathetic both of you, I guess your friends they were an elderly couple man up!
I interpreted it by the voice wobble that this fine gent was just at the point of losing his rag and unleashing terror onto the intruder. No scared of the intruder, but scared that he might take the intruders head off for threatening his family.
@@traveling-taylors 100% support from all of us.
That wasn’t fear, that was adrenaline.
You are guilty of nothing , how you kept your cool was amazing.
Thank you so much 🙂
Wouldn’t have handled that as calmly as you did so well done. Still, got the location for some bants in the summer with my fishing buddies.
Thanks.
I was talking to the fishing lads. It is a club water, can't remember the name - was a big club though with a lot of waters.
Day tickets available though 🙂
Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, which is unfortunate. But from what I took in from the scene, you handled it well. As a parent with a child with additional needs I will do anything and everything to protect my family, as you did there. I would be exactly the same playing it over and over again in my head, just the way some of us are made. The positive comments say it all 👍
Thanks, it is hard to watch someone accosting my child when it is clear once he talks back he has the communication level of a 4 year old. This didn't stop the wife and I had to place myself between them and get Maximus in the Van. I wish I had the audio but I still had the externalics plugged in and not switched on. I tried to communicate as pleasantly as possible with her that she was verbaly attacking and intimidating ( with the Shep )a child with additional needs. She didn't like that, but I just said there are now signs only the public footpath and no public access on the water works. She left saying she was going to call the police.
Then he bounced at the window and into the Van. Another person commented they heard my voice break and I was scared, I was to be fair - I was affraid I was going to have to do something in front of my son that I didn't want to do. I was afraid I would loose my cool. The adrenaline kicks in at the point my voice breaks and that is where rational thought normally leaves and fight or flight kicks in. I didn't want to fight in front of my son, but there was no other option than to push forward and get him out of the space. He clearly looked like he wanted to fight and that was not acceptable.
Even now I play it over and over again. The positive response has backed my own thought process, I am not going to lie though. My body and mind had a trauma response both to my own situation and to what Maximus had been exposed to. He is so young in his emotional and social development and things like this can leave an impression. We don't let him watch fighting or play games with fighting in. He is still more interested in Peppa pig. Some people just don't get it. He has violent outbursts towards us though and we know how hard he can hit. He is the size of a small man 😊 with the development age of a toddler. He doesn't yet understand how to control those emotions or feelings.
Sorry for the war and peace reaponse.
Best wishes to you and your family and thanks again for watching and commenting 🙂
@@traveling-taylors absolutely no need to apologise for the long reply. You absolutely hit a raw nerve with her. The reason she probably didn’t back down and was more aggressive was because she knew she’d messed up.
You were perfect with him, forced him to move away from the van. You handled it well 👌
Your son is a big unit! 😂😂 that is a problem (especially if he’s kicking off 😢) as a lot of people have no idea. Open their mouth first, before thinking.
There is that, you really don’t know how it impact the kids, episodes like that. Thankfully not an everyday occurrence.
Try and put it to bed (says me replying 😂😂).
Looking forward to your next upload and adventure. Take care. 👍
Good on you for showing this. Too many people show only the rosy side of life on social media. Hopefully Mrs and Mrs Old Codger see this and pull their heads in. I don't think you overreacted. It's just a shame you felt you had to move.
I would rather not be showing it, but it is real and what happened. Thank for watching and taking the time to comment 🙂
My favourite site in the peaks is the one next to the top of Stanage Edge on the road from Ringinglow on the back road to Hathersage. A bit windy but it ensures a peaceful night's sleep from human interruptions. I have a brilliant system in my van. It's an ex-tesco delivery van and was fitted with a 4-camera system with recorder. i managed to get it to work independently off the house battery system. So if I hear a 'worrying' noise in the night I can fire up the recording system and check all the cameras on my viewing screen while still in my warm bed!
We did debate whether to head back to the Roman road and just sleep there, but decided to have tea and park down by the walk to have a look in the morning. As you can see from the drone footage it is pretty impressive in its design. It didn't work out that way. The cameras are a great idea, Tim was saying the same - we need to get some :-)
@@traveling-taylorscameras definitely mean you can see what's happening without showing your face. Sometimes you want to just drive away without interacting.
Wow, even when you guys argue, you still have like a very gentle and polite way of speaking 😊
Thank you, we just try to show Maximus a way with words and try and stay Calm. That was hard to do in that situation 🤯. Thanks for watching and commenting 🙂
Go straight to the police mate who do they think they are the absolute idiots , hope you and your family are ok and big hugs to maximus
Thanks Russell, in the end it came down to is it worth that much of our time and they just weren't.
Maximus is happy and has enjoyed another adventure in the van since. He is really looking forward to heading for Scotland and finding snow after Christmas 🙂
@@traveling-taylors it is very much worth it why should people think they can talk to you and your son like that
@@traveling-taylorsit's for the common good if not for yourself, they'll do it again if they're not told with absolute clarity where the boundaries are.
Yeah, I get what you are saying there. He could lash out or worse someone could lash out at him in defence and then be in trouble.
I would have moved after the interaction with the woman. Unfortunately, we don't get the abuse for who we are and how we act, we get it for all the previous van dwellers who have parked there before. I don't stay in places just because I'm entitled to and it's legal, I stay in places that are safe and that is my priority. Packing up and driving 20 minutes to a back up spot is far less hassle than dealing with 'the knock'.
It was so very quiet and safe we didn't expect the knock. We don't park anywhere just because we have rights but we won't be intimidated by people telling us we have no rights either. We just want a quiet, peaceful life, hence why being responsible and respectful citizens. Unfortunately for the guy that wanted to fight with Graham, he will knock on the wrong door one day and will be met with somebody less restrained. I hope that doesn't happen but inevitably it will. People know their rights nowadays and don't take kindly to bully boy tactics. We did move on though and find somewhere else that was peaceful.
Please keep on showing content like this, life isn't daffodils and daisies and this repairs people for the real world of vanlife and overlanding.
Sorry, repairs should be prepares, autocorrect got hold of it and I didn't notice 😅
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I am so proud of how you handled this. Honestly, this was good, even if it doesnt feel like you handled it well. Those folks weren't looking to solve a problem, they were looking to make a problem. I appreciated how strong (not aggressive!) you were for your family. You folks are exceptional (the care, the gentleness but also the protectiveness and strength)
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Just subscribed to your channel 😎 You handled the situation really well and being assertive towards unknowns at night is definitely the way to handle this sort of situation 😎
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Graham's Assertiveness definitely payed off as they did back off eventually
Sorry this happened to you and your family☹️ Glad you had a lovely weekend.
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You are such a lovely family❤ well done calmness is key , horrible people!! thankyou loved watching your tours and keep it up x
Thank you so much. We are just back from another trip today. Thanks for the lovely comment and supporting our little channel
I think you stayed very calm, I can’t imagine my husband greeting such people so calmly! 😂 Hope your lad was okay though! Whether you were in the right or wrong for staying there, there was no need for their aggression. Just a polite word to advise that the road was private (if this was the case) & to ask that you kindly move on…perhaps even pointing out another spot for you to stay, as they’d know the area! People are just too quick to speak to each other so disgustingly; we are all just trying to live our lives and have some joy! 😊
Thank you so much for your comment. Our son was quite distressed as the woman had accosted him with her German shepherd and was awful to him. He was just sat outside the van talking to his robot. Graham told her to step away from our boy and asked Max to come back in the van. Then the man opened our van door aggressively and luckily Graham managed to shut the door and tell him to step away.
They weren't very nice people and unfortunately for them they will come across somebody less patient than Graham.
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@@traveling-taylors ah I’m so sorry to hear that your boy was distressed! To do that to any child as an adult, is disgusting. Just glad you were all safe in the end and I hope that you never encounter such vile humans again! X
Thank you so much. Had it just been Graham and I we would have just called the police but we had to remove Max from the situation. It was a very unpleasant experience but we managed to enjoy the rest of our adventures.
Thanks again for your lovely, supportive comments 🙂🙂
Mate proper Respect to you keeping your shit real I've been to prison for violence twice i snapped and put the aggressive starters in there place in the end but i got punished for standing my ground against the feeble Karen's trying to take away our freedom but you Kept your shit real God bless you mate🙏
Thank you - sorry to hear you went through that for standing your ground. That is always a concern with any incident like that. As Maximus has developmental delay he only has the emotional age of a 4 year old and just going through that was traumatic enough for him without seeing his dad fighting with a guy.
He was right up in my face and my main thought was just to get him out of the space a Maximus was directly behind me. Thankfully I managed to move him out of the door without it escalating. There was a moment though when I worried it would become something more when he didn't move back immediately.
Thanks again for watching and commenting :-)
In 4 years of off grid campervanning, 12 months of the year, we have NEVER had an issue, we 90% use park4night too.
Glad you have never had to experience anything like it - it's not nice and wouldn't like to have it happen again, especially with Maximus sat behind me.
Thank you for sharing your time in India it's been amazing most of us will never get to see what you have shown us. Today's video at the borders. Was incredible you have experienced and captured your memories forever on film. even though it's colder.you look relaxed. Brilliant thanks guys
Thanks for commenting, I think you got the wrong video though :-)
I live in a van (t6).
Always park facing my exit, straight wheels, 3ft gap to the rear of the van so as to reduce becoming blocked.
First bit of perceived trouble, l always move to my second choice pre- chosen, as it reduces confusion in that moment.
In a back handed way, the old couple did all of you a favour, Maximus woke up in a location he liked, you got the best footage from the trip, and as a family you all shrugged it off.
( You have an incredible wife, who has a great personality, with a real strength, ( in kindness).👍
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Hi, I have just seen this video and OMG I can't believe somepeople.
Me and my partner work and climb in the Peak District all the time, and we haven't had anything like this.
Please keep coming back as we are not all like the aggressors in your video.
Happy travels and adventures.
Thank you, we love it all around the Peak District, most people we meet are lovely, like anywhere there are always a couple. We won't let it put us off.
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I sometimes sleep in the back of my ford connect for work and pocket the hotel money,I actually prefer it to a cheap hotel.It’s amazing how often someone tries the door handles
Freya normally barks if anyone comes that near, although on our last adventure we have 5 or 6 cars outside. When I went out they were just kids and didn't realise it was a camper. You never know though, so we have been looking at external cameras.
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How nice to come across this video with everything wonderful a yank hopes to find over in the UK. We have many posters of camper van adventures over here and many seem to show travelers in what appears to be the end stage of their fascination with the lifestyle. As a first time viewer I'll now search for more of your adventures with those lovely vistas you've brought to light. Safe travels to all of you from Atlanta.
Thank you :-) hope you enjoy some more of our .... Less eventful adventures
That greenhouse is so beautiful 😍
Wow, that was intense. I think you can guess my reaction G. I'm so very sorry you having to go through this. I realistically agree you handled it legally and you had Maximus to think of but they had already traumatized him so they already did the damage. If that had been our Harley or Mikey they would have gone into full blown meltdown as I am sur Maximus probably did. I know for sure our Harley would probably never have got in the van again. I hope it hasnt upset Maximus badly and put him off going in Wooflie again. That would be a tragedy that would be heart breaking and destroy everything you are trying to build for a life for him. I think he was a pompous up himself prat filled with his own self importance and was darned lucky he hadnt done that to someone who would have given both of them instant flying lessons with no yoga experience needed.
This has just upset me so much. Its the first time ever from following you guys and supporting the channel that I have been so upset for you all. I dont think I'll forget the emotion in your voice ever, G. You are a top top man and I am so darned proud of you for defendng your family from knuckle dragging idiots. Chin up. its one event out of lots of memories and thankfully baloons like those two are rare. Dont let them taint using woolfie or make you second guess using him. He's brilliant. You are all brilliant and its a brilliant life affirming channel. I'll tell you in person one of these days when we meet and I can tell you about my amazing nephews.
Much love- Kenny
and I'm so sorry that I was so upset I didnt comment on the best part of the video cos you filmed some stunning scenery.
Thanks Kenny, Maximus was really upset. They just didn't understand why we were asking the to leave and move away. Only when Maximus was already crying and rocking from the incident with the wife. I didn't show it as he doesn't want to see it again. I always ask him what he would like in the videos. It is only fair. They didn't go away proper till he was screaming and pressing the horn for long periods.
Thankfully our boy is well supported and loved and we took the time after the incident to reassure him he did nothing wrong and that they were not very nice people. His innocence and trusting of other people is still there and he still loves his Wolfie. We talked to him about what he wanted to do after that situation, about moving or going home - which ever he chose we would follow his wishes. He chose to stay and wanted to move away from the nasty people. He wanted to stay his one more night of his holiday. We moved and reassured him again and settled him down.
Thankfully he woke up happy and the people next to us were lovely with him, we spent an hour talking to them and he explored in their van and asked a million questions. They definitely helped him forget about what the night before had brought. I probably sound like I was having a moan about them - when in reality I have no problem with what they were doing. They left no trace and turned everything down at a reasonable time. We had just had a fill and wanted calm, part of the reason we seek out places of solitude to camp in the first place
Maximus has had another adventure since in Wolfie and is looking forward to his next after Christmas. He is midering me everyday to do the jobs that need doing for the colder weather 😊
@@traveling-taylors this has made me happy 🙂
In nine years of full timing I 've only had one very strange incident with older Frecnhman who decided my vintage motorhome was smoking too much as I waited for the air brakes to prime on a winter morning . After a few choice French swear words he came at me with a hammer , but stopped when I didn't move an inch and pointed my finger straight at him shouting " ARRET " !😂 Luckily the age difference made it more slapstick than anything and he seemed to realise he'd lost the plot . slinking back to his own motorhome and slamming the door . I appreciate your incident was far more serious and you handled it well . Good strong response that made it clear you wouldn't be intimidated . People can be very unpredictable though so moving on after the event was the sensible thing to do !!
Thanks so much for your comment and my imagination conjured up all sorts of images with an old French man with a hammer in his hand and you not moving 😂 an inch.
Nowt so strange as folk 🙂
This is right in my back yard I have had nights like this travelling in France and Spain and the UK when something kicks off then you can't sleep .but this is something you will laugh about in the future
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Wow. Crazies are everwhere. You handled that very well. Good grief. He popped up like something from The Wicker Man. That aside. Lovely family and Van. ❤😊
they certainly are 🤯 Thank you for your lovely comment :-)
Having lived in vans and Trucks for years ive had to square up to idiots like these for years, take thd fight to them, i always had a an axe handy as i had a woodburning stove , a good bright LED torch on pulse mode in a persons face at night is v.disorienting, some people just need a good slap to makd them rethink their behaviour, fit external led lights high up on van roof to see whose about.
We have the big light bar on the front, but my thought was to pick up the camera and have a record for the police dbf. I didn't even know if I would include it in the video, but it was real and sadly it is what can happen. I have just said to John in another comment " In a way we were lucky that they were not very nice but backed down" I also said I can definitely understand why people feel the need to have some form of protection.
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You responded appropriately .... don't feel bad. You were a lot cooler headed than what I would have been. I have about 75% APACHE Native American blood running through my veins and I would have been a little more pro active than you were so don't feel bad for protecting the ones that you love! Good job and keep bringing the viewers more cool content on your camping adventures.
Thank you, we have quite a few adventures on our little Channel now. did daily vlogs from Scotland on our Winter Road trip.
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@@traveling-taylors no worries 👍. I couldn't ever fault a Man just trying to protect his loved ones .... you're a good Man and keep up the good and entertaining content and I will keep watching! I don't like flying so videos like yours lets me see how other far off places that I will bever get to see in person look.😉😊👍
Good on u being as calm you were A lotta people woulda bashed their heads right in lol. Ima visit there this summer
I thought you handled it very well. Grew tall and very firm and consistent. What a shame people feel the need to dump their negativity on others. Well done! Dont let em grind you down.
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Been living in this van for around 3x years, Think I've only had 1x knock when parked at a RSPB but I could hear his friends saying "But he's got a right to park here", another occasion I was parked in a public road on the edge of a Castle Estate, I had the local security stop in front of my van flashing light, I've got a bulkhead and no windows only 2x sky lights so was hardly aware, they passed the following morning, we chatted and all was OK. My worst one was when I was parked down a country lane on a Saturday evening at a spot I've stayed at many times, was aware of a commotion outside turned out to be 5-6 Police cars with lights flashing but no sirens, clearly they were looking for someone or something, I knew that if I opened my door they would try to do me for something, but as they hadn't knocked and had no reason to I didn't open the door, they left after a few minutes but left one car with WPC's possibly Plastic cops, they tried intimidating me by saying "This is Really Suspicious, clearly up to no good"' followed by "We've called the locksmith who said he'll rip my door off in seconds so we can make an arrest", I continued to watch Star Trek with headphones on one ear, a few minutes later they said "OK a tow truck is on its way"' but then they drove off LoL.
I'm sure you do what most van folk do as in be polite and pick up rubbish etc. Hope thats your first and last knock, you can't help what others think or do, clearly their world must be pretty sad in order to chose to interfere with others rather than live and let live.
I truly believe that most people are good but they are definitely some that are not so nice and have had their closed minds convinced that vanlifers leave mess and make noise, when in reality most of us pick up rubbish from spots we stay in that locals have left. In this week's video you can see us picking up litter that we didn't leave.
All we can do is just continue doing good, keep ourselves to ourselves and be free 🙂🙂
What Trek, Unpopular opinion but DS9 is probably my Favourite. Saying that though I enjoyed the nostalgia of the final series of Picard :-)
It was earlier this summer so can’t quite recall but I usually enjoy them all.
Wow you were so chilled I’d have been so scared 😱
Same thing happened to me in Essex. IGNORE THE BULLIES
Interesting encounter ... knock on door... always disturbing. We are yet to have this encounter.. You handled it well. thumbs up there mate.. regards Jaunti Van Life South Africa🚐
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Piles of old or opshop towels needed in van at all times. A collapsible crate with layers of towel. Top layer can be washed or thrown away.
You’re a great father and husband! I would have lost my cool. This video have taught me that I really need to work on my anger. You definitely handled that well 👏🏾👏🏾
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Me to short fuse.😊
Too be honest Guys my brother was disabled. And i wouldn't of stood for that for sure . Being the way those horrible people was with you. I would kept it calmly, then i would of said how you said mate get away from my space.
Lucky for me mate. We have a good CCTV on our van. Id definitely get one yours selves as an extra percussion.
Some nasty people out there...
Was a lovely adventure you showed us and explored. Amazing drone. And great footage. I flew my drone once in high winds in sport mode it was no problem lol. Even had trouble to land it . Would you believe. It was my phantom pro 4. I lower d it to head height.
And took it by hand and turned the motors off manually...
So sorry you had to go through this horrible ordeal with nasty people out there.
Weldone Maximus for starting wolfie...❤❤❤
Thanks Tim, the newer bigger drones have a better wind rating. The little Mini 2 gets us some great shots for now.
Maximus loves starting the Van, it makes his day sometimes :-)
You got any new adventures planned?
I think you handled it well and piloting your drone back to you..
@traveling-taylors on about going back to whitby and going maybe where you went lake district. I've had to get a better fridge freezer as solar not as good lol. Battery amazing though.
The Lake District has had some amazing snow fall. The van just isn't quite ready for the cold yet. Been doing a bit but the weather isn't helping
@traveling-taylors what sort of problems mate. You mean mechanical or inside etc
Cattle Prodder Rechargeable Prod - 9000V Electric Shock with 71cm Shaft
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New subscriber I work in retail and deal with people like this on a daily basis at no point did you lose control and remained calm. Sadly in life people love a confrontation
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Glad you didn’t let the incident ruin your experience 💪🏻
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I've had a few similar incidents. In this case, I can sort of see their perspective up to the point where she and he realized you were a family, not a group of destructive hooligans. The last guy that tried that with me regretted it, no details necessary...suffice it to say, I have not seen that fella in the area of the river since.
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Rule number one in life is: 1. Never, ever, ever give in to bullies of any kind...
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You handled that well. Very difficult in those situations.
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Such a polite confrontation.
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I’m so sorry to hear you all went through this, in the moment it’s bloody terrifying…. Myself and friend were in a similar position….a man didn’t like her dog (15 months old poodle).. so he kicked the dog and then came at us when we tried protecting the dog… he was nose to nose, bright red, veins popping, spitting as he shouted his diatribe (hates campers it seems)… I put my arm out and instructed him to “back off, step back” he took that really badly, he went to hit me 😮… he completely lost it…. Luckily I was able to move side on and he hit past me….. my dad taught all of his daughters well, Iv done BUJ, MMA and boxing for over 25 years…. I had trained my whole life for that interaction…. I wrapped myself around him like a snake, took his back and rear naked choke until he dozed off… then I lifted his legs to help him come around and suggested again “back off” he tried one last attack and again missed his target, at that point I hit him and we left…. He was shouting “I will get you next time”…. There are some dreadful people about… he was an angry drunk little man…. Everyone should learn self defence on some level…. I think it saved us…. Once your limbic system kicks in, it’s really hard to think outside of frames, so the more you practice the more natural it is…. Meet them with the same level of violence they meet you and if they do go nose to nose, exceed their level of violence, he really underestimated his marks that night
You handled it beautifully, clear instructions and you held your own, bloody scary
Thank you so much for your comment. I can't believe some horrible human kicked your dog 😢 and then went nose to nose with you. He definitely picked on the wrong person when he chose you though and good for you for defending yourself properly 👍
Hopefully you taught him a tough lesson that he cannot go around behaving in that way.
Thank goodness you are adept at handling yourself.
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I'm so sorry that your family had such an uncomfortable situation. Staying calm and collected is the best way imo😊
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It happens everywhere, sadly. Enjoyed the video. I miss travelling in England.
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You did the right thing with the drone in high winds if you get stuck just decrease the altitude not too low to water though as this can cause sensor issues :) put it in sports mode & bring it back home again :)
Thanks for watching, yeah the drone was a bit sketchy for a minute. As I Brough it down the wind seemed to get stronger as it came up and over the dam. Got it back though and happy with that result :-)
Gutted for you guys. We just watched and enjoyed your vlog. We found you by accident just one of those videos that autoplay when you don't stop the last one you are watching. So glad we found you, we have subscribed. We do a little UA-cam but more on Facebook.
Were the women and the old guy related? They were bang out of order. So unnecessary to speak to anyone like that what ever their problem. Well done for handling it so well, not sure I could have done.
It is because of people like that we couldn't wait to get over to Europe for the winter.
Hope to see you down the road and if we do please say hello. Douglas would love to meet you and especially Maximus.
Thank you, yeah they are husband and wife. She confronted Maximus whilst he was alone, as a child on the Spectrum he has developmental delay so he is around 4 in his social understanding. She didn't know that of course so she was getting more angry with him not understanding her ( not that ehat she was saying was correc) she was holding her dog to try and intimidate him. When I moved between them and gor Maximus back in the van she came at me. I pointed out it where it stated public access and no public access. She left and then the husband came at me like he did.
Maximus also has anxiety and that left him very upset. We moved because he didn't want to stay. No need for any of it.
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If someone comes up to your van for whatever reason & if they’ve negative in any way always leave soon after don’t bother hanging around thinking nothing more of it it’s the same thing as when you park somewhere but you get a gut feeling something not right so you move on
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Having a Neurodiverse child can be the hardest job in the world. You acted perfectly in that situation and Maximus is lucky to have you as a role model and a father.
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You handled it well mate. I wish I could do the same in situations. I would have lost it , which is not clever. Don’t let it put you off
Thank you. We haven't let it stop us at all - had several adventures since - without any issues for the most part.
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I travel on my own with 2 Jack Russell dogs. Thankfully I’ve never had anything like this happen to me. I’m not sure what the problem was as you didn’t show why these idiots felt the need to harass you but I’m presuming they did not like you being there even though you were legally parked and not causing a nuisance. You were very respectful from the footage shown and you were calmer than I would have been. Don’t let it put you off, there are lots of nice people out there that I have bumped into on my travels.
We were just minding our own business, not making any noise. They just didn't want us there and felt they had a right to tell us so 🤷
I think that you handled that like most people would have. The old feller may do that to the wrong person one day!!
I assume they lived nearby and didn’t like the fact that you was parked there?
It’s unfortunate that there really are some horrible people around.
The kind of place we would likely park up, we prefer to be parked alone for the peacefulness.
Happy Travels 😊
Yeah he is local and works at the water treatment plant that was close to where we parked.
Unfortunately he really is going to come across somebody who will not be as controlled as Graham was.
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At the end of the day you are human and anybody in your position I am sure would have acted in the same way? Those people were gunning for a fight as it is obvious they do not like children, dogs or human beings enjoying our beautiful country! Please don’t get upset over this as this is the life we live in now unfortunately!!
Loved your vlog! Xxx
Thank you :-) I don't think you are wrong about them - a couple of people have said in the comments they are known locally and are just not very nice.
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People like that hate themselves, so they hate others.
Lots of respect mate you handled that really well. Im in the Peak District quite often if you ever fancy going back give us a shout and we could arrange a meet up.
Thanks, just trying to show Maximus a way with words. It's so important with his developmental delay, he is so young and impressionable in his development and already so big :-)
Been round your neck of the woods over the past few days for half term. Stayed at Chevin Forest last night, it was misty when we went up to the tops this morning - still a great view.
A meet up could always be a possibility :-) Thanks for watching and commenting.
when he said "can i help u" u should have said "yeah if u wouldnt mind id like a pack of crisps and an apple, thanks for offering me help"
I'm sure that would have been amusing. Thanks for watching :-)
A man/woman has every right to protect himself and his family no matter where they live.
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It is a sad unfortunate thing that as camper van owners we have to deal frequently with entitled people. Who believe that the road or land that you are parked on is theirs and that they have a right to bang on your doors, window side of van anytime they want to. I think that they want that confrontation to get you to their level. At least you got it on camera...Ray
It is definitely sad that people feel the need to do that. Unfortunately there are folk out there who think they own everything
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I think you were protecting your family that’s all . There behaviour was disgusting and unacceptable sadly to many of types today. Your were a dad . He is lucky you dident properly put him in the picture. 👍
Thanks, that was the basic instinct.
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Happened to me a few times . I can go from calm to hyper aggresion in a millisecond . They will always back off... I am also a petty git & if I know their address I will order a 12yd skip from every skip hire company in the area.
This has made me chuckle. I can just imagine somebody coming home from work to unwanted skips dotted about the place. 😂
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You dealt with that really well. Hope you're all ok.
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What's wrong with these sad people. Thought you were very restrained. They need to seek help!
I agree, they do need to seek help as they may come across somebody who isn't quite as restrained.
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I have a cunning plan.
Let’s all stay down that PUBLIC road.
Put the ‘what three words’ location and we’ll stay there….
We’ll happily remind them of their folly..
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Brilliant 😂
What a lovely family by the way. X.
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Well handled, I'd say. We've all met these people and unless you fancy a spell in prison, there's no good way to deal with them.
If nothing else, he earned you a new sub! Cheers for the vid!
thanks for watching, commenting and the Sub.I just tried to stay as calm as possible with Maximus sat there :-)
Hello and congratulations you just met a Karen and her husband. it's hard to calm down after the adrenaline kicks in, I'm not sure about the UK but in the US the last thing you want to do is call a cop they can only make a situation worse, so carry on my good man you and your family enjoy life.
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@@traveling-taylors thanks for responding to my comment, I just subscribed to your channel, hope that helps.
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The UK cops aren't as bad as the US ones. They're not brilliant but not the worst.
Bullies, she had a pop at your lad, thinking he was an easy target.
Notice how the man absolutely wilts, when you say "don't start".
You just have to set these types right from the off. Firmly let them know, mouthing off isn't ever going to work.
I have delivered a sharp, sobering, open-handed slap to violent aggressors if there was no other option.
Obviously this can escalate, and these types are looking to goad you, then get the police. As opposed to raking you on themselves.
Yeah, the wife wasn't nice.
I do try to show Maximus a way with words. It wouldn't be good for him to see me slapping someone, Although I can def understand that response. Thankfully it didn't come to that :-)
His voice was breaking from the anger& adrenaline- not fear my friend. I know because when i get so angry, the adrenaline causes me to shake along with my voice. But fear is the farthest thing from my mind at that time. Its full anger, me trying to control myself& keep composure as to not go to jail mostly lol!
There was fear :-) I had a very real fear - I had a very real fear of possibly having to fight infant of Maximus. We just try to show him a way with words and with him being on the spectrum and having developmental delay he has the social and emotional understand of around 4. This means he lashes out when he get frustrated or upset. He is a big lad too and going to only get bigger. I really didn't want to have to fight in front of him and there was a point when he would not move back I thought it would come to that. Lots of anger and a little fear at that thought.
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@traveling-taylors I completely understand that. I think the other commenter was meaning you were afraid of the old man, I was very doubtful of that lol.
Hi, you did the right thing, you stood your ground and the last thing you want is your son to see is his his Dad fighting, a phone call to the police can sometimes work wonders, especially if you have footage, good luck on your travels 🙏
Thank you. I have just said to someone else who said to get a pipe and jump out screaming and waving my arms. That's not what I want to show my son, especially since he has developmental delay and the emotional understanding of a 4 year old when it comes to stuff like that.
I had fear that I might have to fight in front of my son and I just don't want that for him.
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I have next door neighbours that are worse than that at least you can just start the engine and move, wish I focking could.
Oh no, I'm sorry you have awful neighbours, that must be really hard
I had a similar experience once. I keep a super high lumen flashlight with a strobe button. He went from seeing red to seeing stars in less than two seconds, and he was unable to see for enough time for me to put some distance between us. Might be worth investing in. Glad to hear your boy was alright after that daftness 👍
Thanks for watching and commenting. That's a good one. Someone else suggested just using the fire extinguisher and letting them have a little blast :-)
@@traveling-taylors haha! One good way of stopping an incendiary situation 😋
We all have to protect our families, that's perhaps one of the oldest of human instincts. Here in the US, these type of encounters unfortunately escalate fairly quickly, but I have always counselled my husband to refrain from violence if at all possible. We have so many mental health issues that can easily escalate, and most people don't want to harm a mentally ill individual if at all possible. We are finishing the years long task of raising 2 special need granddaughters, and hope to go on our own "vanlife" adventures in another year, but based on the fact it will be in the US, we will have protection stashed against the worst case scenarios...
Thanks for watching and commenting. I don't envy you guys in the US. I'm so glad guns were banned in the UK. Still knife attacks are on the rise. I agree though an outcome without violence (especially when Maximus is involved) is the best resolution 🙂
If that’s you losing your cool… you’ve done better than I would have. I think you were amazingly restrained given your wife and son were with you. I would have reported that behaviour. Hope Maximus is ok ❤
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Firstly can I say how well you handled the situation, if it was me an that stupid moron of a man put his head in my van mmmm let's just say he would have been in some pain pronto .
I've never watched a vanlife video and been so sick to my stomach, they really are a vile couple, you shouldn't have blurred anyone out shame those pathetic excuses. I'd seriously consider showing the police the video as using a dog to intimidate a child really is a vile act of intimidation , what lunatic does that 🙈.
Nice one for getting the drone back 👍🏻 I didn't have so much luck a few months ago 🙈 a seagull took a dislike to my DJI mini and it ended up in the sea, last I heard it was doing the back stroke 🙈😂.
You are a beautiful family and it shines through your videos and we thank you for letting us into your adventures, good or bad your videos are great and we hope we see you on the black tar rivers one day, you truly are an inspirational family, sending love peace and good energy always ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you, it turned my stomach editing it. I don't want to show their face as that is just not us. I have said a couple of times I didn't know weather to include it, we do try to keep it all positive, probably to the detriment of views and such as UA-cam seems to thrive from controversy. I think this is the first time in 123 videos we have had something like this. It was real though and what happened - so it was part of our travels.
We said we would call the police and they replied with we know them all, like it gave them the right to behave as they did. 🤯
As for the drone, there is around 5 minutes of footage of it fighting against the updraft from that dam. I had a little bit of a sweat on thinking it was going to drop and that would be it. The battery light came on and wind warnings, return to home couldn't work cause it was stuck. I was so happy when I got it out of the main wind and could get it back to us. :-)
The back stroke made me chuckle 🤣
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@@traveling-taylors you upload or not whatever you want 👍🏻 as I totally know what you mean about UA-cam (sadly) the world's definitely getting a mad place and these platforms prefer that 🤯. You've just given us a chuckle imagining you with a sweat on getting the drone back 😂 (know the feeling) all ended well though 🙏🏻👍🏻. You know as well as we do this was just two complete idiots and a one off bonkers incident, karma will not take kindly to what happened. Look forward to more adventures from you (still showing people your van extention videos 👍🏻) love, peace and good energy ❤️🙏🏻
:-) drones - great bits of kit, cause some worry though.
Yes unfortunately drama sells - Maximus watches every video we make, he loves to talk about his adventures. So we don't like drama, we like the videos to display his good behaviour and create positive reinforcement. That's why we don't include his meltdowns or go into to much detail in the videos. Would you believe we get thumbs down on episodes where we don't include those things, for some macabre reason people want to see our child at his lowest. We just don't oblige. This was real though and it highlights other peoples behaviour towards him and towards people who decide to travel in their vans, whether that be full time or just as we do when we can.
It's sad really as people use the term freeloaders a lot, personally before we had a child with additional needs and before that as a single person I worked for some big companies and gave them blood. 6 in the morning till 10 a night with travel either side of that. Yes I made some decent money, I also paid some ridiculous amounts in tax. When I had my own business even more in tax. As everyone who has a bricks and mortar setup up does, we pay council TAX. As anyone anywhere who shops, we pay value added TAX on everything. Our vehicle we pay road TAX and TAX on fuel. No one in this country who wants to eat and live is a "free loader"
It sickens me the way everything is geared in the UK to make you think less of your fellow human being and to question ever single penny your neighbour may or may not get. All the while our Social services and when I say that I mean things a population has basic needs for eg: GAS, ELECTRIC, WATER, PUBLIC TRANSPORT, NHS. All these things have been or are being sold so they can make billions for share holders whilst the infrastructure is crippled and left to rot. The system is skewed so people focus on benefit payment that cost a few million in comparison to tax evasion's that cost trillions. It's a sad state of affairs in the UK and across the wider world.
Wow, I got off on a tangent then, back to the point - people are brainwashed to think anyone that doesn't comply to the norm and feed the corruption in the system is somehow their enemy and needs to be confronted. In doing so it legitimises behaviour like we experienced as have countless others.
I wish their was a lot more love and peace and good energy, we wish you the same and thank you for yours 🙏
@@traveling-taylorsif he's saying he knows all the Police (& not lying) that means they're condoning his behaviour so the Police need to be reported too, to their County Police, to the elected Commissioner, to the Ombudsman & above all to both your MP & theirs.
If the situation is left it *_will_* escalate, eventually to a situation like Oliver Twist or like Palestine. _I_ certainly don't want our country taking that route & I doubt many do. That's why the Police were invented in the first place.
@@brettnbeckvalleyvanit certainly didn't _look_ like a one-off incident, it looked like he'd had plenty of practice.
Need a nice long strong broom handle, cheap and effective for keeping a distance while giving a thrusting poke. Oh and yes you should show faces, why protect them...it was their choice, show everyone who they are..
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What people.I think you did the right thing.Real sad people.Lets hope it didn’t spoil your holiday.Thankyou for the video.
Thank you. We didn't let them spoil our holiday 🙂
You did nothing wrong bro just protecting your family, why can't people just leave campers alone.
There's always some Nimby W ⚓ who think they own the place. If you act calmly you can explain it's a public road and you're within your rights. If they try to act aggressively and intimidate you - I tend to go full on wild and they back off quick. If they call the law the law won't do owt.
If they are civil I just ask why they thought they needed to approach a vehicle if they didn't know if it'd be safe. Put the onus on them. Also make sure you know it's public land or a public road, that tends to put them off when you know all the facts. Coming to the door with a dog like that was obviously an intimidation tactic - I'd say : "if you don't want your dog gassed move him away - I have the right to protect myself by law". But I don't have a young child with me. Don't raise your voice look them square in the eyes and tell them to back off for their own safety.
Sorry you had to deal with the village morons - You did right to move on. They tend to try and get help when you send them off and some don't have the brains to get off and keep their noses out. I use strong language but I don't lose my temper and I don't shout in fact I lower my voice and look right at them, they back off fast.
These two were a law unto themselves. Had Max not been with us we would have called the police as they were using threatening behaviour and like you said intimidation tactics 🙄
Next time they behave like this it may not work out so well for them.
@@traveling-taylors - I mean idiots if you had been up to no good in the back cutting up dead bodies they could've been next - some folk don't have the brains they were born wi'. Glad you're safe though.
He was an old man and he knew he wouldn’t able to fight, that’s why he folded his arms. He was comforting himself because there was nowt he could do and he’d lost the fight
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Poor lad, I hope he is ok. Some people are just hateful, they seem us living the dream and are jealous. I've lived in my van 5 years now and had a few things like this, it's very troubling but finally I have a farmers field to live on, finally I can sleep in peace
He did very well and he loves the Van. We look for quiet places to give him a little independence. Unfortunately some people are just not nice.
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Worse than victor meldrew the jealous begrudgingly people of the world.They hate to see happy people out enjoying themselves as the song says"Dont let the Bastards get you down "do your best to move on from that horrible incident.These people dont deserve any time for your thoughts.
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Your a better man than i am 😂
He is definitely going to get himself into a spot of bother.🥴
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Makes me concerned about travelling solo to races or meet ups. All you want to do is break up a journey or enjoy a sunset get a good rest & get off early.
These idiots with ‘percieved’ rights both local and visiting need to be a more respectful and considerate to sharing natures beauty spots and we’ll all run along nicely.
I don't know how you kept it together???? I'll definitely remember the phrase & coach hubby to reach for ‘please step back from my door and out of my personal space’ rather than a bat 😆!
Thanks for sharing. Solid effort for control! You & the Mrs. x
I wouldn't be to worried, we have done 44 nights in the van now since we first went out at the end of summer hols last year and that is the only incident we have had. They are apparently known locally for being not very nice and that's to the local folk. The rest of the time we have met really nice people and found some really lovely spots. We are just planning now for easter :-)
All I could think was I don't want to have to fight in front of Maximus, nor did I want to swear or shout if possible. He did swear and put his face right in mine. There was a time in my life when the reaction would have been very different, now though I just keep remembering Maximus ( although he looks 15 ) is 12 with the social and emotional understanding of a 4 year old. When he goes into meltdown he can hit out at us. We try so hard to explain and show that is not the way. You can hear the adrenalin in my voice trying to not move into full on fight, I was scared I would have to when he didn't move back.
Thankfully in the end they left and we had to move as Maximus was already upset and would not have settled there.
Thank for watching and commenting, hopefully you will enjoy a few more. Take a look at the village in Northumberland from the summer, that one will make you feel better about everything :-)
Our NC500 went without a hitch mixing up campsites, overnight paid stays in the carpark & stealth in laybys when tired and too dark to know the mountainous roads to be safe driving.
I love my 10-14 days away exploring and short overnighters but mainly long weekends doing the sports I love and hanging with friends.
More people are finding car camping accessibleso hopefully less restrictions and more facilities opening up year around like pubs, car parks & camping spots plus surf beaches, lakeside access, forests and nature reserves. Viva la van life!!!
He would get the full Mr Miyagi experience if he came to our van. Thank God everyday for my trained Silat warrior. The winner is always the one who chooses not to fight, raise voice etc.
But self defence is next level if they attack!
MATE THERE IS ALWAYS THAT TYPE OF BONE-HEAD AROUND SOMEWHERE!!--THEY ARE THE SHIT-SIDE OF LIFE.--I ALWAYS CARRY A "BASE-BALL BAT"--WHEN TALKING JUST FAILS--PROTECT YOU WIFE &KID AT ALL COSTS !!
Thanks for commenting, whilst I always try and show Maximus a way with words - I can definitely understand why people would feed the need to have something to protect themselves with. In a way we were lucky that they were not very nice but backed down. It's a sad state of affairs, that was my main thought though - move him away from my boy and his space.
GOOD ON YOU MATE 11@@traveling-taylors
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I am an instant fan. What a lovely family. I have a son with autism and i couldn't imagine that happening to us. I was heart broken to see such nasty people treating your beautiful boy like that. They should be ashamed of themselves. God bless you all 🙏❤️
Thank you for the lovely comment, made me smile :-) Thanks for watching
Hello from Bastrop Texas USA. Enjoy the scenery much. There is no excuse for rude people. You really did a good job maintaining yourself. Here in Texas he would have probably been pepper sprayed in his eyes if he wouldn't back up. Enjoy your travels. Where are you in this video?
Thanks - we were in the Peak District not far from Buxton :-) Thanks for watching and commenting
I have seen videos of these two before. Im not to sure of the womans nickname by the locals but the alfa male is known by the name ted bundy. He can be a real menace.
Really?? 😬 He was definitely a menace that evening