They both really evolved. He recognized his wrongdoing, his selfishness stemming from being totally out of touch and she’s learned to recognize her value, what she’s willing to accept.
Not really. It's pretty evident that he didn't truly reflect on his actions by the way he keeps trying to get her back, and by acting as though him cheating "didn't mean anything". Like it was an accident and wasn't a big deal
@@yes2527 well, they slept together the day before…and both said they’re not exactly sure what they’re doing. He also expressed regret, and that’s not the same as trying to get her back as much as admitting he blew it. He didn’t say that the cheating meant nothing, he meant the relationship with the person he cheated with meant nothing…obviously it mattered but he’s alluding to the fact he cheated and didn’t carry on an emotionally intimate relationship with the other person.
@@KateCarew maybe, but that's not the impression I got from this video. I mean, the "it didn't mean anything to me" is a line so many cheaters use. And yet, most cheaters are repeat offenders. "It didn't mean anything" isn't relevant information in a genuine apology, it's really just a manipulation tactic. Also, there were so many things wrong the whole line about "I don't even remember her name". Saying it proudly as if it made it any better, saying cheating on her was one of his biggest regrets and yet he can't even remember his biggest regrets name? And let's say he actually didn't remember her name. That just showed how absolutely little reguard he actually had for his fiance. To throw away his entire relationship for someone he can even remember.
Respect to this man. He accepts his flaws and knows what he did wrong, he doesn't try to blame her for anything. He knows he did her wrong. I respect that so much
Loved this. They were frank, honest, and mature. There was no passive aggressiveness. I am sorry that they went through all that, but I am happy to see they can still treat each other with love and respect.
"I still love you. I still want you to be happy. I don't know if that's going to be with me or if that will be with somebody else in the future. If it's with somebody else, I hope you treat them much better than the way you treated me." This punched me in my heart and instantly brought tears to my eyes.
@@spongebobislyfe5906 it's pretty evident that he didn't grow up from watching this video. The way he keeps trying to win her back, and act like him cheating on his fiance was some accident that didn't mean anything and wasn't a big deal.
@@yes2527 I'm not saying that he's a saint, but finding out that you're the problem is the first step in fixing it. A lot of people don't even get that far. Also didn't he say that her reaction of not trusting him was understandable? And didn't he make a skeptical sound for the question of them getting back together?
Banging each other the day before, one longing to be together, the other using him for sex because he’s familiar to her. Really mature and respectful. They have a mature way of portraying themselves, though.
The body language on this is so interesting. His body language is anxious/open/reaching out. By the end he is practically jumping out of his seat across the table to get to her. On the other hand, her body language matches the temperature of her language. Very calm, collected. You can tell that he wasn't done in the relationship when they broke up, but that she was much more at peace with it. She obviously went through more mourning emotionally before the actual breakup part of the relationship.
He's definitely improved as a person but she defooo resents him for what he did, and fair enough really. Quicker they go separate ways the better for them, i reckon
Of course it came from you. This is disgusting he is WAYYYY old enough to know what he did and he is okay with admitting it and laughing and gloating like he’s a fuck boy look like that ? Lol
As someone who gave their ex multiple chances, the ex is ALWAYS on their “best behavior” when they are trying to win someone back. “I’m in therapy now, I don’t do x,y and z anymore. I’ve changed!” The real change comes 6 months-2 years post getting back together. Tread with caution always.
I know for a fact Maria is not getting back together with him, she is too good so she treats him with respect but I think now she values her self respect more. ❤✨
I agree that it's unlikely but it's certainly not a fact 😂 if she's "too good" she wouldn't have said that they have sex because he's essentially a safe option. I'm also not sure on the whole self respect thing...... majority of us wouldn't go back to someone in any capacity if they cheated
@Jacob Naylor I may not know the couple at all and have no business with what they want to do with their lives but I know what self respect is and that's not how it works. She should respect and love herself more than keeping a cheater around to use her until they eventually 'figure things out'.
You can see that there is a lot of hurt and a lot of love between them - I really hope that they’ll find their way to be happy whether it be with someone else or with one another
No not one another. He is toxic. And cheated. Don’t romanticize this situation just cus of the way he acts in this video. She needs to move on and find someone way more mature for her and that actually respects and loves hers. Don’t let women stuck to lower men like this .
I would like to thank you for suggesting this movie. I'm going through something similar as the couple in the cut video. Immense regret. Not wanting to let go. Her letting go. I only have hope. I find myself not being able to forget the memories I had of her and watching this movie made me realize that it's okay to cling to these memories because I'm human. I can't forget her. All I can do is remember the good times we had with each other and learn from the pitfalls we had. I love her. I feel like I always will.
I agreed until she said she literally actively tried to cheat too.. Like.. What kind of relationship is what they have. Still hope they both somehow turn out happy eone or the other way but like..?? I will never get cheating.
@WhatNonsense but she still didn’t cheat. he did. He’s the one who treated her like a trophy and wasn’t great with communicating with her. his words not mine.
@WhatNonsense that's not true. I agree that she cheated in the sense that if the other person had said yes she would have gone through with it, but we can all have stray thoughts. Actions do count.
@WhatNonsense Your statement dismisses the complexity of human thought and emotions. Just because some people react a certain way to love/desire doesn't mean everybody will be same.
I mean he kind of does. "It didn't mean anything" "I don't even remember her name" really makes it seem like he's trying to downplay his actions. Make it seem like it wasn't a big deal. Almost every cheater acts like he does. And almost all cheaters are repeat offenders
@@yes2527 It doesn’t necessarily seem like he’s trying to downplay his actions. What he stated could very well be the case. It could’ve meant nothing and he could remember nothing about her especially since it was a one night stand. There’s many single people who don’t remember or even know the names of the people they’ve had a one night stand with. It honestly seems like he’s saying it in regards of her. Meaning that it didn’t amount to anything because he truly loves her and realized he screwed up his relationship.
@@yes2527 you completely missed why he added those for context. He’s not saying those in that it was harmless and means nothing in the end, quite the opposite. The cheating was so meaningless to him that it wasn’t even worth it and makes it worse in the long run. He threw everything away for one night of meaningless sex. The gratification he sought he never realized, and instead received guilt and shame. That’s not an excuse. That’s recognizing the situation for what it was.
@@yes2527 Seems like someone cheated on you in the past you are very bitter. I am not saying you don't have reasons for being bitter but it does feel like that it is a problem for you.
@@philipbloomquist1580 not really, I've just seen this manipulation tactic over, and over again, and it's been tiring seeing people applaud this man for his obvious ruse
Unpopular opinion but lowkey I think she’s still holding on to him and keeping him close so he won’t go away. I think she likes he is still trying to get back with her. It’s toxic but I understand she probably feels like he deserves to grovel for a bit and that she deserves to feel wanted and loved. At the end of the day she wouldn’t feel this way if he didn’t cheat and treated her better though.
Sad because in the end, she’s still the one losing here. She should move on because he’s clearly playing a game here. Saying whatever sounds good for sex and not commitment. He hit her with the “ I don’t know wtf we’re doing right now” 😂 that’s guys game 101. He would do anything if he really wanted her lol. Oh well… it’s a mean game but it sure works for men.. When the woman falls for it.. I hope she can move onto something better!
honestly, they probably shouldn't be hooking up, just confuses shit. I also believe that he is genuinely contrite but that still doesn't mean they belong together.
@@___erika she's allowed to "talk down on him" after he cheated on her lmao. although i didn't pick up on her talking down on him at all, like nothing was off topic of the prompts.
They're both capable of having meaningless sex. She slept around in college, he cheated with someone he doesn't remember. (I'm not saying they're equivalent actions, just that this shows they don't need a deep relationship to have sex with someone) Idk if what they're doing is healthy or not.
It’s wrong but it’s understandable she said it’s because he’s a person she’s comfortable with and she obviously can see he’s trying to do his best to change I don’t think it’s a sense of value thing because she definitely values herself however she also values what they have/had for example families loving eachother and being close and the fact that they clearly love eachother still
@resurgingflame I mean both deserve each other, she said she'd risk it all for his bro and they were flirting in thr texts when they were together lol. He cheated, she would have cheated.
Nope and too many people in this comment section is falling for it. He's still benefitting from their failed relationship since she doesn't want to stop sleeping with him. He's probably lying about not remembering the broad's name he cheated on her with too.
@@nicoleelbin9701 yo I see you in this comment section and I'm glad there's someone else who isn't a idiot and sees this due ain't genuine and still a cheater that doesn't deserve her he's just saying he regrets it to get pity
Exactly!! It's amazing how many people will forgive a man who cheats when he feign remorse or says all the right things. Even if he did try to heal, there's no saying he won't do it again. She is the one who was cheated on yet the sympathy seems directed towards him?! Imagine the response if she was the one who cheated...
@@nicoleelbin9701 hell yeah then he said it "didn't mean anything" when asked why he didn't remember the person he cheated with on her like that makes it any better if he didn't care about the person he cheated on and it meant nothing why even cheat you cheated on a person you claimed to love with a meaningless person
All I see from this video that she is actually a gem of a person. Yes she may have some shortcomings but she is the kind of person who will work on it. And overall she is a good positive person.
How much maturity does it really take to admit that you treated someone badly in a relationship and cheated on them? He doesn't deserve a medal for that.
You know your society has low standards when we applaud a cheater for doing the bare minimum. Maybe if she was the cheater, the comments wouldn't be so forgiving
Maria if you see this please don’t go back to this man, you deserve someone better. All this comments praising him on how “grown”, and how “oh he accepts his flaws” like y’all don’t see the lack off accountability, if someone really loves you they wouldn’t do this shit to you. Smh.
You really dont knew everything that happened. She doesn't need your help. Kassandra, i know you got cheated on and your mad at every man now. Let these grown ups make their own decisions. Im not saying to forgive him, he made a mistake. He will have to live with his choices.
@@Bee-rs5oq yeah i think it's just phrasing, the person probably meant "nothing romantically commited" like monogamous but feelings in general definitely stay present in this type of situation i think
I’m not sure about friends with benefits, it’s very difficult to have “benefits” with an ex because people start to fall back into old habits and the intimacy makes it become very complicated.
So he didn't want to marry you? Didn't treat you right? Cheated on you? But still sleeping with him? Wow, some self-love and morals. Leave the past to the past....only hurting yourself in the end.
haha why does this describe me and my ex? 🤣 so relatable. would never date him again but the sex is good and it's comfortable and i rather have sex with someone i know than randoms from apps. would never get back with him though. haha
You really got the impression they were over each other when they were first introduced? He was leaning in really close to her and she was giggling uncontrollably. It made total sense when she revealed they'd just recently had sex.
I was very impress with the young lady. Both showed great maturity in answering the questions, but most of all displayed great respect towards each other; when one considers the emotional trip they took together.....
This was truly enlightening and so refreshing to watch two mature persons despite the manner in which they'd broken up, can sit and tell all(well, most) and know that there's still something wrong that needs to be resolved before entirely moving on. Also, just because she's still sleeping with him, doesn't mean that she lacks self-respect. Even if she wanted it more than him, they were engaged. So there's a certain level of comfort and normalcy they provide each other that others might not be able to do for quite some time. Who knows what the future hold for them both. At least, we know that she wants nothing but happiness for him and I'd suspect it's the same with him for her. No one's praising him for admitting that he's the one to blame for their breakout. What we're admitting is that we're glad to see that he acknowledges it which is so hard for many, especially men to do on the whole.
I feel like he doesn't want to put any of the work into rebuilding her trust and is just waiting for her to forgive him which just demeans their entire relationship because he's acting like she is the roadblock when it's him who did something wrong.
@@Ashley-jx7sw Spot on lol it’s crazy how many people are commenting and pretending to understand exactly what’s going on here but still get it wrong lol. This is like a breath of fresh air after reading all these comments
I love how real, honest and raw they are! He talks about lack of communication but if they talked before the way the do now. They honestly seem great as friends and shouldn’t go any further than friends with benefits.
it's funny how some people in the comment can say i "RESPECT" him for owning up, like BRO ???? 😭🤚 HE CHEATED. he SHOULD owned up to it, if he doesn't then he'll be the biggest asshole than he already is. RESPECT for the girl for how patience she is and still decided to be friends with him after what he have done.
That description of being treated like a trophy, put back in and back out of the shelf sounds horrible. I appreciate he makes no excuses for his mistakes but I don't know if it's because he has grown or just because he's just not that sorry tbh. Like, he was unhappy in the relationship and didn't know himself enough to realize it, so he treated her poorly and cheated. He strikes me as feeling for her about the same as he felt for the person he cheated with: nothing or close to nothing. Probably just sorry she's not as available to stroke his ego anymore. If they got back together for real, it's likely he would lose basically all respect he has left for her and treat her even worst.
At first I thought he was still super into her because he was leaning in really close, but then she revealed that they'd just recently had sex and it made sense. I completely agree that he's interested in her right now because she's available to him, but he doesn't have any intentions of being better for her, and I think she is fully aware of that. Sex makes us stupid, it's the hormones. We can really know someone and still love them but not like who they are at all, and I think that's where she's at. Sometimes the asshole who will never change and knowing what to expect is easier than risking getting to know someone knew and finding out all over again that you never really knew them. She at least has a choice this way if she gets hurt again. He's just agreeing because he's getting laid.
its crazy we are at a point in life where we dont expect people to be mature and honest, so that we get amazed when someone actually is a decent human being
Oh same! Don't even speak my name.. Unfortunately, the signs were there, she just didn't want to see it because she was blinded by the idea of an upcoming wedding. I feel so bad for her because she really thought he was going to be her person and all the while he isn't happy, isn't expressing it to her and decides that sticking it in someone else would give him the dopamine he desperately needed.
I just feel like once a cheater always a cheater. It’s great that’s he grown but they both in general seem very smart and self aware. And that trust man. Once it’s broken it’ll never be the same ever again even if you can get past the hurt and betrayal. He knows he fucked up big time but does recognizing what he did make up for the consequences of his actions? Or is that the bare minimum?
How do you think someone can make up for cheating? How do you feel people should grow from betraying someone like that? How do you know when someone has truly learned and can make different choices when the same feelings that led to cheating arise again? I think we can only see what they're doing, how we feel, and decide if we can trust them again. If you can't, that's fine, but I don't think it's wrong to trust again if you trust because of changed actions and mentality. Trust is always going to be partially blind.
@@Uberpopsicle11 I agree. At the end of the day unfortunately(and fortunately) you have to allow yourself to be willing to get hurt by them again. Bc fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. The only way to truly know if you can trust them again is by allowing them in your life again and seeing if it’ll work. But a lot of people don’t like that bc they’ve built walls and their mind and body are telling them they aren’t safe with this person bc of what happened before where they were actually hurt by said person. And so, the only way out is through. You have to be willing to acknowledge the pain, recognize it but understand that your desire to be with this person and trusting them is stronger then the fear of getting hurt. Which is why I guess people like her are figuring it out. Bc if he didn’t cheat they’d probably be together. So it’s like, am I going to let what happen just be and move on or am I going to let it create whatever it creates as a protection for myself. Only time will tell if BOTH people have grown is enough.
This looks like it's headed for disaster. She should cut things with him asap. He looks genuinely sorry for cheating, but it doesn't look like they'd make for a good and healthy couple
@@351voltage same! I do it all the time, not when I’m anxious haha
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The fact that she agreed that the hurt would never go away is why she is still sleeping with him now… ugh girl he couldn’t wait to say they screwed the day before … he’s proud
He's talking to a person he hurt in the past and is owning up to it without trying to say anything trigerring lmaoo. Gosh is that wat you took from this??! Damn smh
@@AiringThoughts *eye roll* The “owning up to it” part is what makes me laugh. If he took all or no responsibility he still did something to hurt her intentionally. 🙄
@@genericchannel126 you can't ever look like the good guy when you're a cheater though. The good guy is the one who was cheated on. Nobody would ever hear anything they say and think "oh yeah, the one who didn't do anything wrong is actually the bad guy." The only time anything like that happens is when the cheater is telling twisted stories to their friends without the one they cheated on around to defend themselves or call them out on their lies, which isn't even close to the situation in the video.
this video made me cry so much. i can see all the care and love they have for each other. but i know that the past cant be changed.. wish each of them all the love they deserve
Honestly, seeing a guy own up and admit he is wrong and she didn't deserve to be treated like that is where i respect the growth and change of a person. I wish i got these answers from my ex.
As much as he messed up, you can respect him cuz you can tell he's been putting thought into what he did wrong. And in that, he's done something very right. Seeing this communication between 2 people who have so much history and love for each other is very refreshing.
if you’re adding subtitles they aren’t currently working on any of the videos i’ve watched of you guys lately ^^ just wanted to let you know cuz they’re working on every other video i watch & just thought i’d say something:)
i heard a while back that youtube was getting rid of subtitles in the future. heard it from the deaf community but idk if that's what's going on with their vids or not
I can totally get her feelings too tho. Like she is terrified of starting ALL OVER again with someone completely new who is just as likely to cheat on her. Everyone can cheat. Many people do it once and never share it with their partner and live a perfectly healthy life after that. Cheating doesn't seem to be the main problem in their relationship. He treated her like a toy because he wasn't mentally ready for the commitment. That's totally fixable. Cheating will always happen.
Idk. I wouldn’t go back w someone who cheated. I could never trust them again.. the whole “I’ll do everything to win you back” thing lasts a certain amount of time.. and after that their behaviour will most definitely go back to “why don’t you trust me!!??” “You’re crazy jealous” or whatever. It’s never healthy again. Once one of you took a big shit over your relationship, there’s no cleaning that.
And this man is an example on why I think we shouldn’t forever demonize someone who has cheated. What he did was wrong and shitty to do but he acknowledges it accepts it and clearly feels guilty about it. But is still shown to be a pretty decent guy even she seems to realize it which is why she’s not continuing to call him out trusting him to explain the situation truly and honestly which he did and overall treating with the same respect he treats her with the entire video. In short just become someone cheats doesn’t mean they are forever a bad person or don’t deserve to have somebody to love
If you are willing to cheat on your partner that means you are refusing to communicate with your partner. If you are not satisfied tell them. Simple. I've been cheated on even though I was THE BEST partner anyone could ask for. It hurt and I moved on. Now I'm with someone who does nothing but spoil me because they've been waiting for someone like me 🥰 Move on girl. If he can't recognize your beauty and love the first time, then he doesn't deserve you for a second time 💁♀️
I'm honestly not disagreeing . I just want to learn... How were you the best partner anyone could ask for? I mean, please could you say the things you did that made you the best partner he could ask for ?
I disagree that she has self respect, if she does she wouldn't still sleeping with him, a man who hurt her so badly yet she still let him take advantage in her.
I could watch a whole series with these two. Its refreshing how honest they were with one another and not just wanting to take shots the whole time to get out of a question
I went to therapy and tried to figure out why I did that (everyone in the comments ) wow so mature and self aware god you all have low expectations I hope you all find alittle more within yourself and hold people to the same standard
Harsh truth take: he wants to get back together, she still resents him for cheating but will eventually take him back unless a better choice comes along (such as her 'crush').
" They sent you Christmas gifts, you ding-dong"
-Wise man, 2021
@@AxxLAfriku you weird af lol
@@AxxLAfriku good one
What's wrong with that?
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They both really evolved.
He recognized his wrongdoing, his selfishness stemming from being totally out of touch and she’s learned to recognize her value, what she’s willing to accept.
Matured*
Not really. It's pretty evident that he didn't truly reflect on his actions by the way he keeps trying to get her back, and by acting as though him cheating "didn't mean anything". Like it was an accident and wasn't a big deal
@@SkillzKillzBR that too! Maturation doesn’t always come with wisdom though :/
@@yes2527 well, they slept together the day before…and both said they’re not exactly sure what they’re doing.
He also expressed regret, and that’s not the same as trying to get her back as much as admitting he blew it.
He didn’t say that the cheating meant nothing, he meant the relationship with the person he cheated with meant nothing…obviously it mattered but he’s alluding to the fact he cheated and didn’t carry on an emotionally intimate relationship with the other person.
@@KateCarew maybe, but that's not the impression I got from this video. I mean, the "it didn't mean anything to me" is a line so many cheaters use. And yet, most cheaters are repeat offenders. "It didn't mean anything" isn't relevant information in a genuine apology, it's really just a manipulation tactic. Also, there were so many things wrong the whole line about "I don't even remember her name". Saying it proudly as if it made it any better, saying cheating on her was one of his biggest regrets and yet he can't even remember his biggest regrets name? And let's say he actually didn't remember her name. That just showed how absolutely little reguard he actually had for his fiance. To throw away his entire relationship for someone he can even remember.
Respect to this man. He accepts his flaws and knows what he did wrong, he doesn't try to blame her for anything. He knows he did her wrong. I respect that so much
I think it would be more respectful if he didn't try to get back and still be sexually involved with her but that's just opinion
@@m.k.12 but i guess that is her choice as well, because she is willing to have relations to him! so maybe that aint so bad right?
Nah he's just tryna win her back.
Reverse psychology.
@@Papi_21 right
Been through, done that, so sometimes, you just got to let it go.
Ahhh so this is what a mature and respectful relationship with your ex looks like....
😂😂😂😂😂
Craig would you do this with your ex?😱
@@maggieasteroid7774 I would but there is zero chance of her coming on with me.
When you coming back?
@@harjeetdhillon4946 When ever they need another awkward middle aged white guy I guess.
Loved this. They were frank, honest, and mature. There was no passive aggressiveness. I am sorry that they went through all that, but I am happy to see they can still treat each other with love and respect.
And casual sex :D
My ex and I are like that. Minus the sex. Lol
He deserves no respect lmao
Really...? She said one of his bros was her crush and she would’ve risked it all 😅 4:17
The girl was passive aggressive at some points but not to bad overall
"I still love you. I still want you to be happy. I don't know if that's going to be with me or if that will be with somebody else in the future. If it's with somebody else, I hope you treat them much better than the way you treated me." This punched me in my heart and instantly brought tears to my eyes.
SAMEEE
I doubt he will
@@pinkahboo925 stfu why not, huh? go show ur ego elsewhere
And this is why this girl had so many bangs in college
The last thing I said to my ex
I love how mature he is, the way he accepts that he messed up
i’d argue that cheating makes him pretty damn childish
@@ang3699 People change, they can be immature idiots in the past, but then grow up
@@spongebobislyfe5906 it's pretty evident that he didn't grow up from watching this video. The way he keeps trying to win her back, and act like him cheating on his fiance was some accident that didn't mean anything and wasn't a big deal.
@@yes2527 I'm not saying that he's a saint, but finding out that you're the problem is the first step in fixing it. A lot of people don't even get that far.
Also didn't he say that her reaction of not trusting him was understandable? And didn't he make a skeptical sound for the question of them getting back together?
Where did he own it?
This was really a breath of fresh air. Good to see how mature they went about their separation.
Banging each other the day before, one longing to be together, the other using him for sex because he’s familiar to her. Really mature and respectful. They have a mature way of portraying themselves, though.
I like how they are both evolving from this.. the one starting therapy, the other growing from that..such a mature conversation!
Yea great! I good she loves on from this toxic man !
The body language on this is so interesting. His body language is anxious/open/reaching out. By the end he is practically jumping out of his seat across the table to get to her. On the other hand, her body language matches the temperature of her language. Very calm, collected. You can tell that he wasn't done in the relationship when they broke up, but that she was much more at peace with it. She obviously went through more mourning emotionally before the actual breakup part of the relationship.
Yeah, I definitely see everything you described in both of their body languages. I feel like he definitely feels a pull towards her.
He's definitely improved as a person but she defooo resents him for what he did, and fair enough really. Quicker they go separate ways the better for them, i reckon
I hope he remains single until he is safe to be in a relationship with
Of course it came from you. This is disgusting he is WAYYYY old enough to know what he did and he is okay with admitting it and laughing and gloating like he’s a fuck boy look like that ? Lol
As someone who gave their ex multiple chances, the ex is ALWAYS on their “best behavior” when they are trying to win someone back. “I’m in therapy now, I don’t do x,y and z anymore. I’ve changed!”
The real change comes 6 months-2 years post getting back together. Tread with caution always.
I know for a fact Maria is not getting back together with him, she is too good so she treats him with respect but I think now she values her self respect more. ❤✨
I agree that it's unlikely but it's certainly not a fact 😂 if she's "too good" she wouldn't have said that they have sex because he's essentially a safe option. I'm also not sure on the whole self respect thing...... majority of us wouldn't go back to someone in any capacity if they cheated
You don't know "for a fact" anything about anyone else on this planet. Grow up
If she had self respect, she wouldn't be sleeping with him and giving him the pleasure of still having a hold of her
Do people like you actually know what true forgiveness is?
@Jacob Naylor I may not know the couple at all and have no business with what they want to do with their lives but I know what self respect is and that's not how it works. She should respect and love herself more than keeping a cheater around to use her until they eventually 'figure things out'.
You can see that there is a lot of hurt and a lot of love between them - I really hope that they’ll find their way to be happy whether it be with someone else or with one another
No not one another. He is toxic. And cheated. Don’t romanticize this situation just cus of the way he acts in this video. She needs to move on and find someone way more mature for her and that actually respects and loves hers. Don’t let women stuck to lower men like this .
I love how *vulnerable* yet entertaining this series is!!
This was so sad. I hope they don't get back together again, I think she needs someone with more warmth and someone she can trust.
Nope, he did, she didn't, there's a world of difference there. But really, putting aside the cheating issue, I don't think they're compatible.
"What would it take for use to get back together?"
A machine like in: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
loved that movie
best movie ever.
I would like to thank you for suggesting this movie. I'm going through something similar as the couple in the cut video. Immense regret. Not wanting to let go. Her letting go. I only have hope. I find myself not being able to forget the memories I had of her and watching this movie made me realize that it's okay to cling to these memories because I'm human. I can't forget her. All I can do is remember the good times we had with each other and learn from the pitfalls we had. I love her. I feel like I always will.
I don’t care if he’s respectful and self aware now. He put her through shit and hurt her and she deserves someone who would never do that.
Agreed. I can’t believe people are praising him like this.
exactly, the comments are pissing me off.
I agreed until she said she literally actively tried to cheat too.. Like.. What kind of relationship is what they have. Still hope they both somehow turn out happy eone or the other way but like..?? I will never get cheating.
Just because he's respectful and self aware doesn't mean they should go back together, few comments think they should. It's just nice to see that.
Then she should never date ever
Im glad she left him. She deserves far more than what he can offer her. She needs to find her courage and move on
@WhatNonsense but she still didn’t cheat. he did. He’s the one who treated her like a trophy and wasn’t great with communicating with her. his words not mine.
@WhatNonsense that's not true. I agree that she cheated in the sense that if the other person had said yes she would have gone through with it, but we can all have stray thoughts. Actions do count.
@WhatNonsense Your statement dismisses the complexity of human thought and emotions. Just because some people react a certain way to love/desire doesn't mean everybody will be same.
@WhatNonsense childish answer, but you do you.🙂
@WhatNonsense Because of your black and white take on fairly complex human behavior.
Honestly he seems that he's grown and doesn't make excuses
I mean he kind of does. "It didn't mean anything" "I don't even remember her name" really makes it seem like he's trying to downplay his actions. Make it seem like it wasn't a big deal. Almost every cheater acts like he does. And almost all cheaters are repeat offenders
@@yes2527 It doesn’t necessarily seem like he’s trying to downplay his actions. What he stated could very well be the case. It could’ve meant nothing and he could remember nothing about her especially since it was a one night stand. There’s many single people who don’t remember or even know the names of the people they’ve had a one night stand with. It honestly seems like he’s saying it in regards of her. Meaning that it didn’t amount to anything because he truly loves her and realized he screwed up his relationship.
@@yes2527 you completely missed why he added those for context. He’s not saying those in that it was harmless and means nothing in the end, quite the opposite. The cheating was so meaningless to him that it wasn’t even worth it and makes it worse in the long run. He threw everything away for one night of meaningless sex. The gratification he sought he never realized, and instead received guilt and shame. That’s not an excuse. That’s recognizing the situation for what it was.
@@yes2527 Seems like someone cheated on you in the past you are very bitter. I am not saying you don't have reasons for being bitter but it does feel like that it is a problem for you.
@@philipbloomquist1580 not really, I've just seen this manipulation tactic over, and over again, and it's been tiring seeing people applaud this man for his obvious ruse
I really love the way she communicates. She is super mature and honest, love her thought process and how she handled this whole thing. What a woman!
This man made me want to go to therapy and work on myself. Sheesh.
Literally my exact thoughts.
You should follow that thought through. Therapy has been awesome this past year during the pandemic, I'm amazed I didn't start it sooner
do it!
if you're anything like him you probably should
Unpopular opinion but lowkey I think she’s still holding on to him and keeping him close so he won’t go away. I think she likes he is still trying to get back with her. It’s toxic but I understand she probably feels like he deserves to grovel for a bit and that she deserves to feel wanted and loved. At the end of the day she wouldn’t feel this way if he didn’t cheat and treated her better though.
Yep
completely agree. It's lowkey toxic
I completely agree. I felt like sum was off and I'm glad som1 could put it into words lol
Sad because in the end, she’s still the one losing here. She should move on because he’s clearly playing a game here. Saying whatever sounds good for sex and not commitment. He hit her with the “ I don’t know wtf we’re doing right now” 😂 that’s guys game 101. He would do anything if he really wanted her lol. Oh well… it’s a mean game but it sure works for men.. When the woman falls for it.. I hope she can move onto something better!
Yes She Said The Had Sex The Day Before They Did This Video So , Toxic Love Fasho 😂😂❤️
honestly, they probably shouldn't be hooking up, just confuses shit. I also believe that he is genuinely contrite but that still doesn't mean they belong together.
Yeah she was all talking down on him and then surprise, they’re fucking the day before. How cringe is that?
@@___erika she's allowed to "talk down on him" after he cheated on her lmao. although i didn't pick up on her talking down on him at all, like nothing was off topic of the prompts.
She’s sleeping with him because she’s still in love. If he said yes to going out with her again, willing to bet she would drop everything and say yes.
Contrite - feeling or expressing remorse or penitence; affected by guilt.
They're both capable of having meaningless sex. She slept around in college, he cheated with someone he doesn't remember. (I'm not saying they're equivalent actions, just that this shows they don't need a deep relationship to have sex with someone)
Idk if what they're doing is healthy or not.
The fact that she is still sleeping with him means that, like a lot of us, she has a lot of work to do to build her sense of value and worth up!
It’s wrong but it’s understandable she said it’s because he’s a person she’s comfortable with and she obviously can see he’s trying to do his best to change I don’t think it’s a sense of value thing because she definitely values herself however she also values what they have/had for example families loving eachother and being close and the fact that they clearly love eachother still
Oh she definitely has build her self value lol. Her still having sex with him has nothing to do with that. Open ur ears & listen to her reasoning.
Yeah I do think it's weird to sleep with the person who cheated on you
@resurgingflame I mean both deserve each other, she said she'd risk it all for his bro and they were flirting in thr texts when they were together lol. He cheated, she would have cheated.
I feel like he is playing the long game and saying all the right things, is he genuine? Who knows
Nope and too many people in this comment section is falling for it. He's still benefitting from their failed relationship since she doesn't want to stop sleeping with him. He's probably lying about not remembering the broad's name he cheated on her with too.
@@nicoleelbin9701 yo I see you in this comment section and I'm glad there's someone else who isn't a idiot and sees this due ain't genuine and still a cheater that doesn't deserve her he's just saying he regrets it to get pity
Exactly!! It's amazing how many people will forgive a man who cheats when he feign remorse or says all the right things. Even if he did try to heal, there's no saying he won't do it again. She is the one who was cheated on yet the sympathy seems directed towards him?! Imagine the response if she was the one who cheated...
@@nicoleelbin9701 hell yeah then he said it "didn't mean anything" when asked why he didn't remember the person he cheated with on her like that makes it any better if he didn't care about the person he cheated on and it meant nothing why even cheat you cheated on a person you claimed to love with a meaningless person
@@karmarogue7284 exactly. People really give men standing ovations for doing (in this case less than) the bare minimum
This was brutally, yet beautifully, honest ✨
All I see from this video that she is actually a gem of a person. Yes she may have some shortcomings but she is the kind of person who will work on it. And overall she is a good positive person.
How much maturity does it really take to admit that you treated someone badly in a relationship and cheated on them? He doesn't deserve a medal for that.
You know the bar for men is low when he’s getting praised so hard for accepting his fuck ups
You know your society has low standards when we applaud a cheater for doing the bare minimum. Maybe if she was the cheater, the comments wouldn't be so forgiving
How...? Where's the difference between a female and male cheater?
@@j.v.f.1423 usually demonized more so from my experience
@@hazeplaze9556 correct
yep, all the males who's defending him in the comments are the same males who would tear down a woman for doing the same thing.
You hit the nail in the head. Idk why the comments are so nice to this guy, but maybe it’s cause he’s a dude
Maria if you see this please don’t go back to this man, you deserve someone better. All this comments praising him on how “grown”, and how “oh he accepts his flaws” like y’all don’t see the lack off accountability, if someone really loves you they wouldn’t do this shit to you. Smh.
You really dont knew everything that happened. She doesn't need your help. Kassandra, i know you got cheated on and your mad at every man now. Let these grown ups make their own decisions. Im not saying to forgive him, he made a mistake. He will have to live with his choices.
@@robertohernandez-os3hm lol, cheating isn't a mistake. He made a CHOICE, not a mistake. People know exactly what they're doing. 😌☝🏽
@@robertohernandez-os3hm i love how all the males are defending the cheater
@@youreapunkishthing9438 lol, right? You *know* these comments would be very different if the shoe was on the other foot.
@@ellieh8156 2 years later but....mistakes ARE CHOICES haha that's kind of the whole point. You can make a wrong choice.
they seem like they could be friends/friends with benefits but like nothing emotional attached to it
It would start that way but they’d probably give it another go down the line
@@supreme_zeeyus it seems pretty doubtful since she’s still emotionally hurt that trust might never come back, but there could be a chance
honestly i dont think nothing emotional is possible in their situation
@@Bee-rs5oq yeah i think it's just phrasing, the person probably meant "nothing romantically commited" like monogamous but feelings in general definitely stay present in this type of situation i think
I’m not sure about friends with benefits, it’s very difficult to have “benefits” with an ex because people start to fall back into old habits and the intimacy makes it become very complicated.
So he didn't want to marry you? Didn't treat you right? Cheated on you? But still sleeping with him? Wow, some self-love and morals. Leave the past to the past....only hurting yourself in the end.
I can’t believe she slept with him after he cheated on her. Yikes 😬
@@scottrogue946 No self-worth. Unbelievable. 🤦🏾♀️
They both have had meaningless sex is the past. It makes sense why, idk if it's healthy tho.
@@PriusRaj def not healthy
Omg she is so sweet. I love her! She’s forgiving and cool with a touch of boss and revenge!
At first it seemed like they were over each other... but " surprise surprise" they're still plowing!
haha why does this describe me and my ex? 🤣 so relatable. would never date him again but the sex is good and it's comfortable and i rather have sex with someone i know than randoms from apps. would never get back with him though. haha
@@skeleton5459 Some relationships end in an absolute train wreck; covert plowing is not an option.
You really got the impression they were over each other when they were first introduced? He was leaning in really close to her and she was giggling uncontrollably. It made total sense when she revealed they'd just recently had sex.
So he CHOSE to throw it all away for someone he doesn’t even REMEMBER??? Lmao it’s not helping your case buddy
We dont know the fine details, but at least he's trying to improve
You missed the point which is that he's admitting how empty of an action it really was. He's admitting his mistake and you're judging him for it.
@@miipmiipmiip glad he admitted his mistakes but he’s still a shitty ass person for cheating on someone 😐
@@alx123094 yeah glad he is I guess 😐
tbh i think he didn’t want to be in the relationship but wasn’t mature enough to leave or change it, so he cheated and blew it up instead
I was very impress with the young lady. Both showed great maturity in answering the questions, but most of all displayed great respect towards each other; when one considers the emotional trip they took together.....
This was truly enlightening and so refreshing to watch two mature persons despite the manner in which they'd broken up, can sit and tell all(well, most) and know that there's still something wrong that needs to be resolved before entirely moving on. Also, just because she's still sleeping with him, doesn't mean that she lacks self-respect. Even if she wanted it more than him, they were engaged. So there's a certain level of comfort and normalcy they provide each other that others might not be able to do for quite some time. Who knows what the future hold for them both. At least, we know that she wants nothing but happiness for him and I'd suspect it's the same with him for her. No one's praising him for admitting that he's the one to blame for their breakout. What we're admitting is that we're glad to see that he acknowledges it which is so hard for many, especially men to do on the whole.
How I start my day: Breakfast + Cut video
Same, lol
Lol yep, was drinking my breakfast while watching this, cut videos are usually the perfect length
I feel like he doesn't want to put any of the work into rebuilding her trust and is just waiting for her to forgive him which just demeans their entire relationship because he's acting like she is the roadblock when it's him who did something wrong.
"I know who you are, and that's a comfort in that" is my spirit animal quote.
Why are they still sleeping together? That should probably end like immediately.
Same thing I thought.
Because she’s still in love with him. The only thing stopping them from dating again is him. He doesn’t want her. She definitely would take him back
@@baconbenjidestroyer finally someone who sees it lol
@@Ashley-jx7sw Spot on lol it’s crazy how many people are commenting and pretending to understand exactly what’s going on here but still get it wrong lol. This is like a breath of fresh air after reading all these comments
@@matnice5045 I’ve been there and done that with exes. A girl will only agree to hook up with their ex is if she’s still in love lol
I love how real, honest and raw they are! He talks about lack of communication but if they talked before the way the do now. They honestly seem great as friends and shouldn’t go any further than friends with benefits.
She loves him, she got that angry, accountable love. He was honest but she wants more...
Nah she wants to move on, he hurt her.
@@crogg8889 we don't disagree, I just have experience with situations like this
not everybody praising him for accepting his shit-
fr "it didn't mean anything" if it didn't mean anything then why did you cheat?
@@tyxnl3286 well he's also apologetic for it. It isn't lile he's downplaying his mistake.
@@tyxnl3286 because sex is what gets dudes off
It doesn’t mean cheating is good it just means it didn’t matter to him personally
Is it bad to praise someone for accepting and acknowledging their mistake and trying to grow and be better? Genuine question.
This was literally what I needed to get over my ex. Honesty. This guy deserves props for doing that and hopefully actually trying
it's funny how some people in the comment can say i "RESPECT" him for owning up, like BRO ???? 😭🤚 HE CHEATED. he SHOULD owned up to it, if he doesn't then he'll be the biggest asshole than he already is. RESPECT for the girl for how patience she is and still decided to be friends with him after what he have done.
But also a little less respect for still having sex with him just because he's familiar and convenient.
I must have watched a different video. She is definitely manipulating and gaslighting him. I think he dodged a bullet
@@danieljenkins7951 Agreed. She's awful
That description of being treated like a trophy, put back in and back out of the shelf sounds horrible.
I appreciate he makes no excuses for his mistakes but I don't know if it's because he has grown or just because he's just not that sorry tbh. Like, he was unhappy in the relationship and didn't know himself enough to realize it, so he treated her poorly and cheated.
He strikes me as feeling for her about the same as he felt for the person he cheated with: nothing or close to nothing. Probably just sorry she's not as available to stroke his ego anymore. If they got back together for real, it's likely he would lose basically all respect he has left for her and treat her even worst.
At first I thought he was still super into her because he was leaning in really close, but then she revealed that they'd just recently had sex and it made sense. I completely agree that he's interested in her right now because she's available to him, but he doesn't have any intentions of being better for her, and I think she is fully aware of that. Sex makes us stupid, it's the hormones. We can really know someone and still love them but not like who they are at all, and I think that's where she's at. Sometimes the asshole who will never change and knowing what to expect is easier than risking getting to know someone knew and finding out all over again that you never really knew them. She at least has a choice this way if she gets hurt again. He's just agreeing because he's getting laid.
its crazy we are at a point in life where we dont expect people to be mature and honest, so that we get amazed when someone actually is a decent human being
i wanna add "after not having been a decent human being just before"
Admitting to being a scumbag doesn't make someone a decent human being lol
She is way more merciful than I am because if my fiancé did that to me then cheated, I would've been like eat shit and die. Never speak to me again.
Oh same! Don't even speak my name.. Unfortunately, the signs were there, she just didn't want to see it because she was blinded by the idea of an upcoming wedding. I feel so bad for her because she really thought he was going to be her person and all the while he isn't happy, isn't expressing it to her and decides that sticking it in someone else would give him the dopamine he desperately needed.
I just feel like once a cheater always a cheater. It’s great that’s he grown but they both in general seem very smart and self aware. And that trust man. Once it’s broken it’ll never be the same ever again even if you can get past the hurt and betrayal. He knows he fucked up big time but does recognizing what he did make up for the consequences of his actions? Or is that the bare minimum?
How do you think someone can make up for cheating? How do you feel people should grow from betraying someone like that? How do you know when someone has truly learned and can make different choices when the same feelings that led to cheating arise again? I think we can only see what they're doing, how we feel, and decide if we can trust them again. If you can't, that's fine, but I don't think it's wrong to trust again if you trust because of changed actions and mentality. Trust is always going to be partially blind.
@@Uberpopsicle11 I agree. At the end of the day unfortunately(and fortunately) you have to allow yourself to be willing to get hurt by them again. Bc fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. The only way to truly know if you can trust them again is by allowing them in your life again and seeing if it’ll work. But a lot of people don’t like that bc they’ve built walls and their mind and body are telling them they aren’t safe with this person bc of what happened before where they were actually hurt by said person. And so, the only way out is through. You have to be willing to acknowledge the pain, recognize it but understand that your desire to be with this person and trusting them is stronger then the fear of getting hurt. Which is why I guess people like her are figuring it out. Bc if he didn’t cheat they’d probably be together. So it’s like, am I going to let what happen just be and move on or am I going to let it create whatever it creates as a protection for myself. Only time will tell if BOTH people have grown is enough.
This looks like it's headed for disaster. She should cut things with him asap. He looks genuinely sorry for cheating, but it doesn't look like they'd make for a good and healthy couple
Facts
I don’t think they intend on getting back together
people don’t always sleep with each other with the intent to become a couple
@@1107Kobe exactly. But they were engaged, so there's lots of emotional baggage there
This was painful. Even if it's projected in a light, nonchalant conversation. I still cried. They're both really hurt. I'm so sorry that it happened.
That guy was shaking his leg all the time.... anxious 😰
Nope. Some people are just leg shakers. I do the same, even when not in an intense situation.
@@351voltage same! I do it all the time, not when I’m anxious haha
The fact that she agreed that the hurt would never go away is why she is still sleeping with him now… ugh girl he couldn’t wait to say they screwed the day before … he’s proud
Not y’all calling him mature 🤚🏽 man is continuously downplaying his cheating
LITERALLY the bar is so low
He's talking to a person he hurt in the past and is owning up to it without trying to say anything trigerring lmaoo. Gosh is that wat you took from this??! Damn smh
LITERALLY!!!
@@AiringThoughts *eye roll* The “owning up to it” part is what makes me laugh. If he took all or no responsibility he still did something to hurt her intentionally. 🙄
I think mature would be to not cheat in the first place
This is why couples should communicate more with each other.
I love how people cheat and pretend it was another person who did it. Like they were possessed by a parasite that told them to do it. SMH
"That's not who I am anymore." Sure pal.
@@mydogeatspuke they say everything to try look like the good guy 😂
@@genericchannel126 you can't ever look like the good guy when you're a cheater though. The good guy is the one who was cheated on. Nobody would ever hear anything they say and think "oh yeah, the one who didn't do anything wrong is actually the bad guy." The only time anything like that happens is when the cheater is telling twisted stories to their friends without the one they cheated on around to defend themselves or call them out on their lies, which isn't even close to the situation in the video.
this video made me cry so much. i can see all the care and love they have for each other. but i know that the past cant be changed.. wish each of them all the love they deserve
Honestly, seeing a guy own up and admit he is wrong and she didn't deserve to be treated like that is where i respect the growth and change of a person. I wish i got these answers from my ex.
How is everyone applauding his “growth”. When he said, “I don’t remember that person because it didn’t mean anything.” YEAH RIGHTTT
You can tell that they are not right for each other. Two very different people, personality wise, one is more into the other.
As much as he messed up, you can respect him cuz you can tell he's been putting thought into what he did wrong. And in that, he's done something very right. Seeing this communication between 2 people who have so much history and love for each other is very refreshing.
The fact that their still sleeping together is so unhealthy...
not necessarily. only 90% likely
very unhealthy especially since they still got feelings, it’ll never go away
Yeah, I was like wow such a nice ex couple till they said they are still having sex, it's like playing with fire
*they’re
How is that unhealthy they’re allowed to sleep with whoever they want
Aww I wanna see an update on these two. I hope they continue to grow and sort what relationship they have now.
if you’re adding subtitles they aren’t currently working on any of the videos i’ve watched of you guys lately ^^ just wanted to let you know cuz they’re working on every other video i watch & just thought i’d say something:)
i heard a while back that youtube was getting rid of subtitles in the future. heard it from the deaf community but idk if that's what's going on with their vids or not
@@blazereho811 that’s so fucked up & i think they work they just keep shutting off
Thank you, because I was wondering why they weren’t working lol
He is totally in love with her still, and she loves in, but not in love with him. I hope whatever they decide, they end up happy
Damn. As an ex-fiancée myself, a LOT of this was relatable. Very similar story to theirs.
This is so much deeper than all the other videos these guys make and should have required a different or no background music at all.
I can totally get her feelings too tho. Like she is terrified of starting ALL OVER again with someone completely new who is just as likely to cheat on her. Everyone can cheat. Many people do it once and never share it with their partner and live a perfectly healthy life after that. Cheating doesn't seem to be the main problem in their relationship. He treated her like a toy because he wasn't mentally ready for the commitment. That's totally fixable. Cheating will always happen.
She seems like a very happy person even though she is still hurt
I will never understand cheating. I've been gutted by it. Ive never done it in my life
So RAW and HONEST - i freaked the fuck out several times in this video but it was FANTASTIC :D
Idk. I wouldn’t go back w someone who cheated. I could never trust them again.. the whole “I’ll do everything to win you back” thing lasts a certain amount of time.. and after that their behaviour will most definitely go back to “why don’t you trust me!!??” “You’re crazy jealous” or whatever. It’s never healthy again. Once one of you took a big shit over your relationship, there’s no cleaning that.
Big salute to this guy! Taking therapies is a good thing regarding of any situations.
That was a tough one! Love how she loves and respects herself. Love how he could recognize dropping the ball... That's living and learning.
Both mature and honest to each other 👌🏿💯
I live that he accepts what he did and he really looks like he grew up
Nah if he did it once he'll do it again and he's still sleeping with her too. He's just playing the long game.
He's manipulating her. Almost all cheaters say exactly what he said. And almost all cheaters are repeat offenders
People are so easy to please wth....
You love that he can say out loud that he cheated? That's such a low bar.
Their grown, mature interaction actually blew my mind. 🤯
Yesterday?! Lmaoo talk about a reunion
Wow this guy's honesty is awesome
And this man is an example on why I think we shouldn’t forever demonize someone who has cheated. What he did was wrong and shitty to do but he acknowledges it accepts it and clearly feels guilty about it. But is still shown to be a pretty decent guy even she seems to realize it which is why she’s not continuing to call him out trusting him to explain the situation truly and honestly which he did and overall treating with the same respect he treats her with the entire video. In short just become someone cheats doesn’t mean they are forever a bad person or don’t deserve to have somebody to love
Don't judge a guy from 6 minutes man. Once a cheat always a cheat.
@@_Azeem_ that’s a no more juvenile saying then the term late to school late to work people can grow and be better
@@spiderrocket8367 you a cheater or cheatee?
@@_Azeem_ he looks like he has ADHD, and they are prone to cheating
@@greenmango7646 is that a stereotype or something? After I read your comment, I realized that 3 of the 4 people I knew who had ADHD were cheaters 🤣
Wait he treated her bad, cheated on her and she is still choosing him for comfort. I think she has to redefine her definition of comfort.
Omg Maria did a phone call with Grant in the “100 people say if they had a threesome” video 💀
aww, I love you two! You both remind me of my wife and I and I truly know you two will stay long friends if anything
If you are willing to cheat on your partner that means you are refusing to communicate with your partner. If you are not satisfied tell them. Simple. I've been cheated on even though I was THE BEST partner anyone could ask for. It hurt and I moved on. Now I'm with someone who does nothing but spoil me because they've been waiting for someone like me 🥰
Move on girl. If he can't recognize your beauty and love the first time, then he doesn't deserve you for a second time 💁♀️
I'm honestly not disagreeing . I just want to learn...
How were you the best partner anyone could ask for? I mean, please could you say the things you did that made you the best partner he could ask for ?
"It was yesterday" 😂😂😂😂 AHHHHH
Let's hope they "ffffffffigure it out" 😉 He's contrite, she's willing to be intimate and his parents still send her 🎁. So sweet 😍
They're fucking, that's not intimacy
Her: “I thought they didn’t like me since I broke up with you”
Him: “they sent u Christmas gifts, ding dong
They got me dying😂😂
I disagree that she has self respect, if she does she wouldn't still sleeping with him, a man who hurt her so badly yet she still let him take advantage in her.
I could watch a whole series with these two. Its refreshing how honest they were with one another and not just wanting to take shots the whole time to get out of a question
He looks like the bad guy from Sherlock
M
He actually does looks like Moriarty.
He even sounds a little like him
Wow this was a very well put together video, kudos for the growth on both sides
lovely pair, mature and sensible
I went to therapy and tried to figure out why I did that (everyone in the comments ) wow so mature and self aware god you all have low expectations I hope you all find alittle more within yourself and hold people to the same standard
He cant remember with whom he cheated cause it „didnt mean anything“ Yea BULLSHIT. Gurl pass him and find you hubby material 💕
aw sad about their story but happy they're both understanding and are able to be cool with one another. I hope for the best for both in the future 💕💕
This was a really good one! They both seemed mature and intelligent.
They were so honest I like that ,nothing fake in this so I like that
Harsh truth take: he wants to get back together, she still resents him for cheating but will eventually take him back unless a better choice comes along (such as her 'crush').