I can relate to her story, same thing happened to me, only difference in my case it was my elder brother, I never told anyone, It affect everything of me, I grew up making wrong decisions, allowing man to take advantage of me, choosing wrong man who abused me, My whole life was a mess, In and out of rubbish relationships, and I think It's because of what my brother did to me when I was a child.
@@GaolatlheMonnanyana , No I never did, this secret has been bothering me all my life, It's almost like this heavy burden hanging over me, for years I've been hiding this dirty secret, wondering If he did it to his own daughter too.
Please speak up , tell your mom or just someone you trust or u can even go for counseling… Speaking out will free the burden, it’s really not fair on yourself to still be carrying the burden. Proud of you for this comment, it’s the 1st step towards healing ❤…
She is an amazing woman! I can tell she's overcome because of the calm way she told about her situation. Plus, she has resolve in her voice not bitterness and hatred. She is a blessing to everyone who has been sexually abused. A truly courageous overcomer!
I’ve listened to this story before but every single time I listen to it I cry because what a horrible man who puts his daughter through so much pain and trauma. I’m happy you carry your story with so much grace and you didn’t let it kill you sisi❤️ you’re so brave
So happy you didn't let whatever happened to destroy you, wasn't your fault precious,may God continue to strengthen you and guide you always, the plant that the lord has planted can flourish even in the midst of the drought, love you so much, angel ❤❤❤❤
Mmmm Zizo I can't explain the pain I feel right now after listening to your story, may the lord bless you and give you all you want in life, you are strong girl and I love you for that ❤
So so painful but Zizo you are so strong❤. THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL SINGLE MOMS NOT TO TRUST DADDIES WITH THE LIFE OF THEIR KIDS. THANK GOD FOR MAKING YOU THIS STRONG AND HEALED YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT TODAY WE HEAR SUCH PAINFUL JOURNEY OF YOUR LIFE. JUSTICE IS JUST A WORD IN SOUTH AFRICA.... ONLY JUSTICE AVAILABLE IS CRIMINALS TO COMMIT MORE CRIMES AND THAT BE IT
@@universalenterprises6552 I was not saying it in a bad way actually if you ready correct I was embracing her that she's very strong, and to show that she has healed she doesn't share a tears, she made peace, before you come for people seek for understanding please.
I don't understand how can a father have sexual feelings for his daughter,,,iam a young father same hight with my daughter looking at me and her we like siblings ,,she is 16 yrs doing grade 12 she chose to stay with me ,, it's only the two of us ,,,I hug her every day kiss her on her forehead ,,I have never ever have a sexual feelings for her ,,she is my blood , she is me , so how can I have a sexual feelings with me ,,,,??? Some fathers are not human , they are demons crual more than animals ,,,
I struggle to understand what goes through their minds. I have 2 daughters whom I love and adore they practically daddy's little girls 1 is 12 the other is 4 I bath my kids I don't have any sexual feelings for them they my blood how sick is this world
The family should have never allow the father to take her, remember initially she said that she did not know him up until she was 4 years when she was introduced to him because bekamphikile esemncane then he came back sekana 4, so nje this is a lesson to us women that a man who denies his child can never be a good father
@@nokwandasibongile5730 that's was a big problem ,,,as she said he dined her ,,so he was just seeing her as a girl friend ,,,but even though how can you get erection for a seven year old child ,,,
The interviewer's approach to this story was disappointingly insensitive. He consistently asked inappropriate questions, prioritizing the perpetrator's perspective over Zizo's experiences and the impact on her life. To improve, I suggest he conducts thorough research on sensitive topics like this or reconsider interviewing women altogether, as he currently lacks the ability to create a safe and supportive space for their stories.
A lot of people talk about healing from such trauma but I honestly don’t think someone ever fully recovers or heals I think they just learn to leave with it…
When my son and daughter was 2; they knew no one is to touch them in a way mommy doesn't. Their father never bathe them, i always made sure i did that. I never trusted anyone.
A 7 yr old daughter nkos😢kanjan to your own daughter?Ppl r evil.May God heal your hurt cc uye for therapy .You r one strong lady❤God iswith you.Thanks for sharing
You speak perfect English and are very eloquent. I admire your courage and wish I can be strong like you. You are a strong woman and keep living your life.
all you care is good English she speaks, are you serious. if speaking English is what you want to achieve make some efforts, go to UA-cam and learn ways to speak English.
I am also a victim here my dad defiled, rape and abuse me sexually. I was 15 years when this started I try to speak up but no one was really ready to believe me. Instead they comforted him and he denied it. He will later beat me with cutlass and big fire woods I mean he tried to kills me. This is really affecting me now mentally, emotionally and my sex life as well.
Every one are not the same. My father had 3 daughters I and my siblings. And sometimes I slept next to my daddy on bed without fear . My father was caring father He struggled for us He used to bought me sanitary pad for my circle every month He’s the one who open my spiritual life, he let me know what they called life DADDY I Love ❤️ u Rip 🪦 💐 💐 ❤
Not every person deserves to have children, because how evil can you be to do this to a child or human being. To violate someone so deeply and continue with life as if it's normal. These stories make me realise there's humans who have no sense of empathy or humanity, their behaviour is more closer to an animal than a human.
The interviewer handled this interview so poorly. These are not the type of questions you ask a rape survivor. "Do you think he was possessed"? is a crazy question to ask a survivor. Otherwise, Zizo's ability to tell this traumatic story is so admirable. May the Lord continue to warp you in his arms of complete healing.
A jail sentence is too easy, this is a death sentence crime as I see it. Her father was and is a paedophile, and unremorseful, he is out and about, and a serious danger to all young children he'll come in contact with. Can't imagine how many prior children over the past years have gone through hell and ruined lives because of this wicked man. Unfortunately, so much of this goes on around the world. This saddens me deeply, and I daily pray for children going through abusive situations, though I may not know them. Plus I'm looking to see what positive practical help can be given to help those facing such trauma. I'm so glad Zizo has healed and chose to forgive to live in order to free herself so that the perpetrator not become a monkey on her back and that she can move forward to reach her purpose in life. Only God can bring such forgiveness about in such personal challenges. I wish Zizo all the very best for the future and pray that God will not only heal her spiritually, emotionally and physically but also continue to bless her, strengthen her, sustain her and grant her joy on her life journey
This interviewer is so insensitive, repeatedly asking irrelevant questions, some of which have been answered before. Also how is the victim supposed to know what was happening in the perpetrator’s mind, especially at that you age 😢
He's comfortable listening to the gory taboo details of a father to the child of seven years old . Mr interviewer you are mean and insensitive causing this woman say too much abominable picture...She has told you she felt it was a normal secret experience not knowing it was wrong.
99 % of mothers never accept or listen to their girl child if they tell them that they are abused by their fathers.Only now is good because the schools teach them about this and thus they can report themselves or tell their teachers.BE strong girl!!
To the host: Your content is healing lives, brother. Keep up the good work. Try to be present with your guests & be more attentive so that you create the necessary safe space they require.
My little sister and I was abandoned by our parents and we ended up staying here and there with the relatives. No one was keeping an eye on us. We ended up doing sexual things. I was 8 she was 6. It went on and on until I was 11 and I realized that were growing and this can't keep on happening. I started regretting it and decided to leave home and separate from her since then. Today I am 30 and I still regret every bit of it and I hate my self for it. I did apologize to my sister on my early 20s and she said she forgave me a long time ago coz she understands that I was a kid but it still eats me till this day. I wish one day I can break free from these chains the devil hung me on
@@gixoupa4898 Please free yourself from regret and guilt associated to what happened when you were a child. Nobody could ever blame you for the choices you were forced to make under such traumatic circumstances. Both you and your sister should have been loved and protected by the adults who cared for you, especially your parents. Those adults who neglected and abused you are the ones to blame for everything. You could write a letter to the child in you, who went through all those horrible things but survived. Include every detail of what happened that still haunts you. Pray over everything and ask God to release you from it, then burn it. The fire will symbolise getting rid of the old and starting a new life. Love, happiness and light to you.
Maybe also look for Professional and spiritual counseling. You will heal and take her with you. It takes acknowledgement to start a journey of correction and healing
If she has forgiven you please forgive yourself and seek counseling to talk about it. I also grow up hard you know staying here and there with people and I was accused of things and one of those things was that I groomed a young boy sexually but I had no remembrance of those things. But I understand because a lot happened when I was young but I'm never going to feel guilt for something that happened when I was a minor that knew no right from wrong. forgive yourself you were both kids
Eish i know her mom and her family i wish you can heal zizo that was not your fault baby girl sendin love to you ❤❤❤❤ .ukhohlakele lomfana wase Mqanduli seissss maarn
Step dad's the worst I was molested from 11 to 15. I told my mom and she didn't believe me. It made me like older men with money for a long time. It made me over protective of my kids. I didn't trust no one with them with out me. I'm glad I didn't turn to drugs or the streets but it makes u have different issues especially trust. So many of us American girls have the same story smh
I never saw my dad’s private parts growing up, until he had a stroke. That time I was already married with 4 kids, I had to clean him. I thought that situation killed him faster, cause he was a very private person.
Zizo! You are Heroic, a Winner! I feel your brilliance and smartness; be a force to reckon with, a voice the world cherish to hear and become a resounding success in your chosen field of study/practice. Trust me, God is definitely with you. Gone are the years when such events would silence or stigmatise the victims. Now, society knows better and must appropriately present sexual facts/ awareness to our innocent kids! Well done, girl! Grace upon Grace. Blessings. Amen. 🙌
I saw the episode coming up two weeks ago and since ive been trying to gain courage to watch it. 😢 it breaks my heart at the same time i admire her courage to speak up. People are soo heartless i know personally i strugle to share my r*pe experience because i chose to terminate for my own sanity and I was called a liar . Uphole mntase you're more than your pain. Stay blessed❤❤
Zizo Thank you for speaking in order to help a little girl, a young girl or a little boy to be able to talk without fear, so that justice is done... I salute the strength, your courage, the peace, with which God clothes you... May God continue to bless, strengthen & equip you for the work you do... To God be all the glory...
Same thing my uncle did to me for months, i didn't realize he was doing something wrong to me up untill i grew up to start knowing what life is all about,i hate speaking about it I don't want to hate my uncle but i feel heart pain whenever i remember and I haven't seen him for more than 10yrs now and i don't wish to ever see him till i hear his dead.
My wife was also raped for 3 years by her cousin when she was 14 till she turned 16,she kept it a secret until 1day she decides to voice up,it really destroyed me emotionally,i get angry and cry Everytime i think about it😢
I'm so sorry to hear of this. My cousin did this to me also from the age of 4 to 7. The only reason it stopped is because my parents moved us to another state. Years later, while I was in high school, we found out that he was arrested for abusing children at a school near his home. His own sister then came to our house to tell my parents what he did to both of us for so long. We ended up testifying against him in court. He received 15 years. When my parents asked why I didn't say anything sooner, my reply was, "I couldn't stand to see the pain in your eyes. And I was so afraid that my dad would snap and end up in prison." My poor dad was never the same again. He felt like a failure even though it's not true. My dad was a blessing to me.❤
Sorry my baby for going through such Your dad is a pervert I'm proud of you, you're very strong some people commit suicide for minor things not judging them wena you didn't let the situation to put you down 😢😢God is great askies babygirl
I wishes my story can be so open I was 9 yrs and my mom and uncle was in control of my life and family kept this a secret why 😢😢😢😢its still hurting my uncle was abused me hitting me and my mother said nothing why I know I didn't look like my own siblings 😢😢😢😢 now finding out I've got other siblings and it's my mom's cousin why I've been getting hurting all the time this woman talked it's brings bad moments back my mouth closes and the uncle on top of me I've got 3 children of my uncle 😢😢😢😢God helps me out now my mom passed and biological dad stepped dad passed away also now there's no older family members only in Australia auntie who know and cousins 😢😢😢😢wow this woman is brave 😢😢😢😢 I'm a granny but it hurts too😢😢😢😢😢from cape Town I thought it was my fault 😢😢😢😢
Thank you for uploading this episode some men out there are so evil how can he do this to her beautiful daughter eish this world has come to an end serious
She's an extremely beautiful, intelligent and above all BRAVE young woman; that's all l will say. God has her and her power remains in her VOICE🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
As I listened to her painful story, I picked up a lot of number 7 pattern. She was 7 years old, it started at 2007, it happened for 7 years, she was allowed to testify in court only when she was 17 years old, her Dad was arrested from 2016 - 2023, that's 7 years in prison.
It's a sorrowful story. Our justice system is exposed every day. I applaud you for choosing forgiveness and letting go of all bitterness. I pray that you get healed even more. May all your dreams come to pass. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Let your success comfort you.
He wasn’t possessed , he was a disgusting paedophile that should not have been let anywhere near kids. To this young lady, may your healing be complete . Please live your life fully and well and do not give this monster another opportunity to steal your life❤️
My dear you are such a brave young woman,you are loved and iam happy you are healed,all the best and may the good Lord carry you through and bless you,God is your strength 💪
Such a brave woman, even after facing such a trauma she still spoke about it, in order to help others who are going through similar problem of child abuse, to stand up & defend oneself when you understand what’s happening to you is wrong & what she has gone thru was worst, once own father abusing you making you pregnant. He was such a Devil who was a mentally sick person. He should not have been given few years of Prison but severe punishment, life sentence. So that he repented each day in Prison for his guilt. Forgive, Accept & Let go even though very difficult for a person especially whose been hurt so much its the only way to get back your own Peace of mind & continue living the rest of your life without suffering, sadness & blaming oneself for the wrong done by someone else to you.
May God keep strengthening you with lots of joy and peace of mind throughout the rest of your life and relationship my dear, you're indeed a strong woman...
I truly understand her deeply. My biological father molested me, but I wasn’t 7 years of age. I was 18. I didn’t start living with him until I was 17 and when I turned 18 he stated that he had to get use to having another woman in the house. My years was horrible . I’m able to talk about it now and I'm 55... 😥😥
Sometimes people don't seem to realise that children don't remain young. They grow up and one day they will face that offender boldly, demanding answers.
My step dad used to wash me and buy everything i needed i even thought he was my biological dad until my toxic mom spilled it off but i thank God for having a wonderful father figure
These happens and sadly even in this era still happens. We need as parents to teach our kids about sex education from age 5 or 6. Obviously it should be age appropriate. We should never think it will never happen to your children. Teach them to speak up to you or to someone they trust like a teacher. Big Ups to you Zizo for speaking up about this even that you have gone through this. A whole lot of woman went through this and even today can’t speak because of various circumstances. Your story is a brave journey of healing and will heal others as well. Sometimes the perpetrators also went through some sort of abuse that they never healed from and end up doing the same if not worse. However this doesn’t justify what they did in anyway. Hence healing is critical as it has a good chance to break the circle. I respect you so much my sister for being vocal and public about your journey. And God bless your mom for standing by you when she learned of your ordeal.
So very sorry you had to endure such horrificordeal with your father. He's a very sick man. May God grant you continued strength and mental peace.... God bless you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you for sharing your story. I cannot fathom the pain you’ve been through; you speak with so much grace and tranquility. I am in awe of your strength and I pray for your ongoing healing x
I just wanna use this opportunity to let you people know that it can happen to little boy. Though I'm 46years old man now but It happened to me when I was 5 or 6 years old whereby our house help will rape me uncountable times when my parents is not around. Though the incident happened about 40years ago. This particular video has thought me the reason why I have been struggling to keep a relationship. I never knew that it will have an ugly impact in life as I'm growing older. I have been struggling with panic attacks and short tempered. Always getting angry with every little thing's 😢😢. I have to live with it and make peace with myself by God grace
@@OkeyNgene-v1b yes people tense to forget, it can happen to male has well. So sorry to hear about what happened to you. Keep praying for accepting things u cannot change. Bless up x
My husband once shared with me in his drunk state that he was raped by a family member while he’s young. We never spoke of this again as he’s someone who’s very closed off. How do I help him without seeming insensitive? Bcs I can see it’s affecting him as an adult he’s not fully affectionate
I just came across this channel now and I can say this 8s a good platform for people to empty that which they hold in their hearts and as well educate the masses on what is happening in our lives.
Bro how the heck can you ask if anything was wrong with him…if he was possessed… so you’re basically trying to justify his actions??? That’s so low bro! I’m disgusted
My 16 year old niece is carrying her father's child. I was so hurt when i found out the truth, I will always blame my sister for living her daughter with her father for 16 years, not checking on her nakhona she was called by the neighbors that her daughter is being abused. alone to find the child is impregnated by father 😭😭😭😭
@@pinkyndlovu6621 Sometimes we just need to point fingers at the devil. There is no rule which says a dad can not stay with his daughter. Some did it very well, so this brother in-law of yours was just evil. He is also a parent just like your sister.
Wrong person to conduct such a sensitive interview, I only continued to watch because of her, to hear out her story. Like my brother, no man, do better please. Zizo, Sis. You are an amazing being, the path of healing is a continuous journey, so keep on healing and living in your purpose. Love and Light ❤
He is absolutely clueless and insensitive when it comes to rape. I have seen how he behaves around the topic. He will laugh and say inappropriate thing. Maybe he’s nervous around the topic but really he’s the worst person for these topics
I honestly felt the same, he shouldnt be asking most of the questions, how do you ask someone " did you try to run away"? She was 7 and scared and confused,she did say she thought it was what fathers do to their daughters. These kind of questions come across as if he i saying she didn't do enough to get away from the situation. In my opinion.
I guess our stories are the same... Mine is my brother.who raped me at a very early i lost my virginity through that process en when i told my house people what he did no body believed me cus i was young, en that was the most painful part of my life no mom no dad to stand by me no body at all i was just alone. the same time i got pregnant but i myself don't know that i was pregnant even tho i saw changes in my body i just feel like it's a normal thing when the pregnancy was about two months old a neighbor called me en was questioning me i told her everything that happened she asked me if i knew my parents i said know she told me do you know that you are pregnant i told her am not she was like okay tomorrow in the evening you come to my house would take you to the pharmacy for a PT which is the pregnancy test.... I did the test it came out positive before i do the test the pregnancy was already 3 months old heading to 4 months wanted to keep the pregnancy but having the stress of not been able to afford my needs with my unborn child... May her soul rest in perfect peace.. I made the decision of aborting the pregnancy cus no one at home believed that my brother raped me... The lady that took me to do the PT was trying to convince me but when i told her everything she understood en buy the medicine for me... After the abortion i was no longer myself, like I'm someone who love to make people smile but after the incident i find it difficult to talk or even do somethings with people.. I always want to be alone in a very quiet place crying for taking away the life of an innocent child 😢 .... Since then still now people look at me en say you are very difficult to cope with... All because of what i pass through still now i find it difficult to trust most especially men😔
What a beautiful, brilliant, eloquent female. Zizo is greatness. I'm so hurt, but she has decided that this situation will not break her. Love & light always Queen!
Tnk u cc for ur bravery it’s only God who helps us to heal and to learn to forgive bcoz without forgiveness moving forward is an impossibility. May God help others with the same misfortune to find a way to heal completely so their lives may move forward
Forgive, accept and let go- Zizo am so touched by your compassion and your vulnerability . God will surely restore to you the years the locusts have eaten
so evil oh my god. i thank god for the father and male relatives i have . never would do such evil act. they were so protective of us growing up. i feel so sorry for her 😢 god will punish your dad
I apologize as a man and as a father to beautiful kids and I'm saying this from the bottom of my heart, you are 1 strong lady even more stronger as a young Zizo and I thank God and your ancestors for taking care of you through your difficult times..I hope you become a pillar and strength of all the girls around the world I hope your sad story really makes women stronger so to speak out loud and expose every rubbish man who still does it to other kids..I'm so sorry nana. He almost destroyed you😢
I am a father of 4 girls and I will never look at my girls as sex subjects actually it is disgusting to even think of such atrocities.😢
@@GoodmanBaloyi-v5z o ntate wa sebele reya leboha
Incest is demonic
@@GoodmanBaloyi-v5z all fathers say this yet girl children get raped by their fathers🙄
My parents have four daughters, too. People are scary out there! 🙏🏻
It is very disgusting
I can relate to her story, same thing happened to me, only difference in my case it was my elder brother, I never told anyone, It affect everything of me, I grew up making wrong decisions, allowing man to take advantage of me, choosing wrong man who abused me, My whole life was a mess, In and out of rubbish relationships, and I think It's because of what my brother did to me when I was a child.
😢💔So sorry you had to go through that, did you eventually tell someone?
@@GaolatlheMonnanyana , No I never did, this secret has been bothering me all my life, It's almost like this heavy burden hanging over me, for years I've been hiding this dirty secret, wondering If he did it to his own daughter too.
So sad 😢😢
This is said 💔 your brother he is a cruel man😭
Please speak up , tell your mom or just someone you trust or u can even go for counseling… Speaking out will free the burden, it’s really not fair on yourself to still be carrying the burden. Proud of you for this comment, it’s the 1st step towards healing ❤…
She is so intelligent, so articulate. I admire her strength and I'm happy that she seems to have experienced healing.
😢😢this is painful 😢😢
Thank you ❤
She is an amazing woman! I can tell she's overcome because of the calm way she told about her situation. Plus, she has resolve in her voice not bitterness and hatred. She is a blessing to everyone who has been sexually abused. A truly courageous overcomer!
That man is a vampire
I’ve listened to this story before but every single time I listen to it I cry because what a horrible man who puts his daughter through so much pain and trauma. I’m happy you carry your story with so much grace and you didn’t let it kill you sisi❤️ you’re so brave
What a warm and lovely comment. God bless you your heart
So happy you didn't let whatever happened to destroy you, wasn't your fault precious,may God continue to strengthen you and guide you always, the plant that the lord has planted can flourish even in the midst of the drought, love you so much, angel ❤❤❤❤
This is traumatizing being crying since I started
You are such a beautiful person.
God will deal with him
Yes. Let go and let God
Mmmm Zizo I can't explain the pain I feel right now after listening to your story, may the lord bless you and give you all you want in life, you are strong girl and I love you for that ❤
So so painful but Zizo you are so strong❤. THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL SINGLE MOMS NOT TO TRUST DADDIES WITH THE LIFE OF THEIR KIDS. THANK GOD FOR MAKING YOU THIS STRONG AND HEALED YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT TODAY WE HEAR SUCH PAINFUL JOURNEY OF YOUR LIFE.
JUSTICE IS JUST A WORD IN SOUTH AFRICA.... ONLY JUSTICE AVAILABLE IS CRIMINALS TO COMMIT MORE CRIMES AND THAT BE IT
This is the person who healed, speaking fluently without sharing a tear😢
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You do you love seeing others shading tears.....we have gone through things and healed so mean we should cry all our lives.....shame on you
@@universalenterprises6552 I was not saying it in a bad way actually if you ready correct I was embracing her that she's very strong, and to show that she has healed she doesn't share a tears, she made peace, before you come for people seek for understanding please.
@@universalenterprises6552Why are you bitter . please heal.
@@AffanKhan-zb6bm I don't remember that reply being sent to you coz actually the person I sent too understood and 4replied accordingly......
I don't understand how can a father have sexual feelings for his daughter,,,iam a young father same hight with my daughter looking at me and her we like siblings ,,she is 16 yrs doing grade 12 she chose to stay with me ,, it's only the two of us ,,,I hug her every day kiss her on her forehead ,,I have never ever have a sexual feelings for her ,,she is my blood , she is me , so how can I have a sexual feelings with me ,,,,??? Some fathers are not human , they are demons crual more than animals ,,,
May god bless you
I struggle to understand what goes through their minds. I have 2 daughters whom I love and adore they practically daddy's little girls 1 is 12 the other is 4 I bath my kids I don't have any sexual feelings for them they my blood how sick is this world
Demon possession is real.
The family should have never allow the father to take her, remember initially she said that she did not know him up until she was 4 years when she was introduced to him because bekamphikile esemncane then he came back sekana 4, so nje this is a lesson to us women that a man who denies his child can never be a good father
@@nokwandasibongile5730 that's was a big problem ,,,as she said he dined her ,,so he was just seeing her as a girl friend ,,,but even though how can you get erection for a seven year old child ,,,
The interviewer's approach to this story was disappointingly insensitive. He consistently asked inappropriate questions, prioritizing the perpetrator's perspective over Zizo's experiences and the impact on her life. To improve, I suggest he conducts thorough research on sensitive topics like this or reconsider interviewing women altogether, as he currently lacks the ability to create a safe and supportive space for their stories.
Yeah he low key seems too excited about the details.
A lot of people talk about healing from such trauma but I honestly don’t think someone ever fully recovers or heals I think they just learn to leave with it…
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Is only God who heals that problem
People are different some are strong some are weak
You can't heal, that's the truth
No healing people just hold themselves to strength and assume things are ok while burning inwardly 😢@@sifisodube4686
As a father, I have chills. Im struggling to process this
Scarry 😮
Sad to watch 😢
Stop lying
I can't belive you have healed so much that you even able to speak about this and I see no tears in your eyes 😢.. .you are so brave mylove .
The universe will punish him. Stay strong sweetheart, you the most calm and sweetest person ive seen.
Of course he will be punished 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Palesasera-b8u AMEN AMEN AMEN,I #Hope So🙏♥️
@@nomalungelongcete5875 AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🙏 ❤️ 🙌 👏 ♥️ 💖
Watching this from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪. I pray for you dear. May God bless you and help you heal
When my son and daughter was 2; they knew no one is to touch them in a way mommy doesn't. Their father never bathe them, i always made sure i did that. I never trusted anyone.
Crazy world
I just want to hug the little 7 year old Zizo❤. I'm sorry mntase, I have no words.
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❤❤@@zizoizabelozamapleni7221
Me too
A 7 yr old daughter nkos😢kanjan to your own daughter?Ppl r evil.May God heal your hurt cc uye for therapy .You r one strong lady❤God iswith you.Thanks for sharing
The man just appears to her father but not biological father because spiritually biological father never have a desire for that sorry
😂😂🎉😢@@markcaa2942
God bless you Sisi! There is nothing impossible with God! Just pray for yourself to heal well!!😘🤗
You speak perfect English and are very eloquent. I admire your courage and wish I can be strong like you. You are a strong woman and keep living your life.
all you care is good English she speaks, are you serious. if speaking English is what you want to achieve make some efforts, go to UA-cam and learn ways to speak English.
She's so charming shame. She's definitely has a bright future
@@LESEDIMARVELLOUSShe's already also eloquent also. I think she's just impressed by how intelligent she sounds
Non-black person comment for sure.
I am also a victim here my dad defiled, rape and abuse me sexually. I was 15 years when this started I try to speak up but no one was really ready to believe me. Instead they comforted him and he denied it. He will later beat me with cutlass and big fire woods I mean he tried to kills me. This is really affecting me now mentally, emotionally and my sex life as well.
Sorry lv yooo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m so sorry love ❤
That is shocking, did you go to the Police?
Call police immediately and escape asap
God
Every one are not the same. My father had 3 daughters I and my siblings. And sometimes I slept next to my daddy on bed without fear . My father was caring father
He struggled for us
He used to bought me sanitary pad for my circle every month
He’s the one who open my spiritual life, he let me know what they called life DADDY I Love ❤️ u
Rip 🪦 💐 💐 ❤
Not every person deserves to have children, because how evil can you be to do this to a child or human being. To violate someone so deeply and continue with life as if it's normal. These stories make me realise there's humans who have no sense of empathy or humanity, their behaviour is more closer to an animal than a human.
Comador
The interviewer handled this interview so poorly. These are not the type of questions you ask a rape survivor. "Do you think he was possessed"? is a crazy question to ask a survivor. Otherwise, Zizo's ability to tell this traumatic story is so admirable. May the Lord continue to warp you in his arms of complete healing.
I came straight to the comments when I heard that question cause no way I’m the only who felt that way
He is such a horrible interviewer! All his interviews he asks the most insensitive questions!
He can't even do a simple calculation 😢
Very bad interviewing skills. Responding to someone's trauma by saying "that's crazy" a bit insensitive in my opinion. There's room for improvement.
I agree, I also came looking for this comment. I don’t recall him asking how she feels or what it took for her to recover and so on.
The guy deserves life sentence in jail
A jail sentence is too easy, this is a death sentence crime as I see it. Her father was and is a paedophile, and unremorseful, he is out and about, and a serious danger to all young children he'll come in contact with. Can't imagine how many prior children over the past years have gone through hell and ruined lives because of this wicked man. Unfortunately, so much of this goes on around the world. This saddens me deeply, and I daily pray for children going through abusive situations, though I may not know them. Plus I'm looking to see what positive practical help can be given to help those facing such trauma. I'm so glad Zizo has healed and chose to forgive to live in order to free herself so that the perpetrator not become a monkey on her back and that she can move forward to reach her purpose in life. Only God can bring such forgiveness about in such personal challenges. I wish Zizo all the very best for the future and pray that God will not only heal her spiritually, emotionally and physically but also continue to bless her, strengthen her, sustain her and grant her joy on her life journey
This interviewer is so insensitive, repeatedly asking irrelevant questions, some of which have been answered before. Also how is the victim supposed to know what was happening in the perpetrator’s mind, especially at that you age 😢
Agreed. He had no questions prepared and spoke as though it’s a story on a soapie and not someone’s life.
Exactly, especially when he asked if she thinks her father was possessed. Extremely insensitive and lack of empathy.
He’s so wired with the questions
Very annoying. Interviewing for gossip instead of information, education and empathy. So unprofessional
He's comfortable listening to the gory taboo details of a father to the child of seven years old . Mr interviewer you are mean and insensitive causing this woman say too much abominable picture...She has told you she felt it was a normal secret experience not knowing it was wrong.
99 % of mothers never accept or listen to their girl child if they tell them that they are abused by their fathers.Only now is good because the schools teach them about this and thus they can report themselves or tell their teachers.BE strong girl!!
To the host:
Your content is healing lives, brother. Keep up the good work. Try to be present with your guests & be more attentive so that you create the necessary safe space they require.
Thank God that you are completely healed dear.
You are loved this side!!!❤❤❤
My little sister and I was abandoned by our parents and we ended up staying here and there with the relatives. No one was keeping an eye on us. We ended up doing sexual things. I was 8 she was 6. It went on and on until I was 11 and I realized that were growing and this can't keep on happening. I started regretting it and decided to leave home and separate from her since then. Today I am 30 and I still regret every bit of it and I hate my self for it. I did apologize to my sister on my early 20s and she said she forgave me a long time ago coz she understands that I was a kid but it still eats me till this day. I wish one day I can break free from these chains the devil hung me on
@@gixoupa4898 Please free yourself from regret and guilt associated to what happened when you were a child. Nobody could ever blame you for the choices you were forced to make under such traumatic circumstances. Both you and your sister should have been loved and protected by the adults who cared for you, especially your parents. Those adults who neglected and abused you are the ones to blame for everything. You could write a letter to the child in you, who went through all those horrible things but survived. Include every detail of what happened that still haunts you. Pray over everything and ask God to release you from it, then burn it. The fire will symbolise getting rid of the old and starting a new life. Love, happiness and light to you.
Maybe also look for Professional and spiritual counseling. You will heal and take her with you. It takes acknowledgement to start a journey of correction and healing
If she has forgiven you please forgive yourself and seek counseling to talk about it. I also grow up hard you know staying here and there with people and I was accused of things and one of those things was that I groomed a young boy sexually but I had no remembrance of those things. But I understand because a lot happened when I was young but I'm never going to feel guilt for something that happened when I was a minor that knew no right from wrong. forgive yourself you were both kids
You are a good person, if u were evil u were not going to see anything wrong
Find peace brother......it's well the lord checks the heart if you are truly remorseful from the depth of your heart he has forgiven you
Eish i know her mom and her family i wish you can heal zizo that was not your fault baby girl sendin love to you ❤❤❤❤ .ukhohlakele lomfana wase Mqanduli seissss maarn
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May God touch you with complete healing. Praying for you @@zizoizabelozamapleni7221
@@zizoizabelozamapleni7221light and love kuwe sis❤️❤️
Step dad's the worst I was molested from 11 to 15. I told my mom and she didn't believe me. It made me like older men with money for a long time. It made me over protective of my kids. I didn't trust no one with them with out me. I'm glad I didn't turn to drugs or the streets but it makes u have different issues especially trust.
So many of us American girls have the same story smh
I never saw my dad’s private parts growing up, until he had a stroke. That time I was already married with 4 kids, I had to clean him. I thought that situation killed him faster, cause he was a very private person.
Ow sorry 😔😔😔
It's a pity. May his soul rest in peace
You still think about it don’t you?
May he rest in peace
Zizo! You are Heroic, a Winner! I feel your brilliance and smartness; be a force to reckon with, a voice the world cherish to hear and become a resounding success in your chosen field of study/practice.
Trust me, God is definitely with you.
Gone are the years when such events would silence or stigmatise the victims. Now, society knows better and must appropriately present sexual facts/ awareness to our innocent kids!
Well done, girl!
Grace upon Grace. Blessings. Amen. 🙌
What an evil man
May God bless you and give you peace
You are very beautiful and strong 😂❤
Ohhhhhh Zizo I remember listening to your story kuMhlobo Wenene 😢😢😢
I'm happy you are healed and strong
I saw the episode coming up two weeks ago and since ive been trying to gain courage to watch it. 😢 it breaks my heart at the same time i admire her courage to speak up. People are soo heartless i know personally i strugle to share my r*pe experience because i chose to terminate for my own sanity and I was called a liar . Uphole mntase you're more than your pain. Stay blessed❤❤
Zizo Thank you for speaking in order to help a little girl, a young girl or a little boy to be able to talk without fear, so that justice is done... I salute the strength, your courage, the peace, with which God clothes you... May God continue to bless, strengthen & equip you for the work you do... To God be all the glory...
Same thing my uncle did to me for months, i didn't realize he was doing something wrong to me up untill i grew up to start knowing what life is all about,i hate speaking about it
I don't want to hate my uncle but i feel heart pain whenever i remember and I haven't seen him for more than 10yrs now and i don't wish to ever see him till i hear his dead.
take it easy on yourself dear, you didnt do anything wrong. It was not your fault
You will be surprised that your not the only member in the family he is doing it to. Hmmmm it is well.
My wife was also raped for 3 years by her cousin when she was 14 till she turned 16,she kept it a secret until 1day she decides to voice up,it really destroyed me emotionally,i get angry and cry Everytime i think about it😢
@@CasiousManala I'm so sorry about what happened to your wife my bro I hope she did find help bcoz she needs it 🥰
I'm so sorry to hear of this. My cousin did this to me also from the age of 4 to 7. The only reason it stopped is because my parents moved us to another state. Years later, while I was in high school, we found out that he was arrested for abusing children at a school near his home.
His own sister then came to our house to tell my parents what he did to both of us for so long.
We ended up testifying against him in court.
He received 15 years.
When my parents asked why I didn't say anything sooner, my reply was, "I couldn't stand to see the pain in your eyes. And I was so afraid that my dad would snap and end up in prison."
My poor dad was never the same again. He felt like a failure even though it's not true. My dad was a blessing to me.❤
@@natahliak7691 I'm so about what happened to you may find help and healed sending you hugs love,♥️♥️♥️may the Lord strengthen you🙏
Sorry my baby for going through such Your dad is a pervert I'm proud of you, you're very strong some people commit suicide for minor things not judging them wena you didn't let the situation to put you down 😢😢God is great askies babygirl
@@VivianneZakhali-fw8yyreally
Absolute horror and disgust of the highest level. Damn! This woman is a true soldier. Hats off to her truly.
I wishes my story can be so open I was 9 yrs and my mom and uncle was in control of my life and family kept this a secret why 😢😢😢😢its still hurting my uncle was abused me hitting me and my mother said nothing why I know I didn't look like my own siblings 😢😢😢😢 now finding out I've got other siblings and it's my mom's cousin why I've been getting hurting all the time this woman talked it's brings bad moments back my mouth closes and the uncle on top of me I've got 3 children of my uncle 😢😢😢😢God helps me out now my mom passed and biological dad stepped dad passed away also now there's no older family members only in Australia auntie who know and cousins 😢😢😢😢wow this woman is brave 😢😢😢😢 I'm a granny but it hurts too😢😢😢😢😢from cape Town I thought it was my fault 😢😢😢😢
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@charmainecharmystelemundok3882 Lord Have Mercy 🙏 🥺 😫 😩 😪 😭 🙏 Sister, I'm Sooooooo #Sorry🙏
Be strong beautiful lady,prayers for your healing, am sorry.
I'm so sorry ❤💞💫💖
Sorry my baby girl,already God has healed you in Jesus name 🙌🙌🙌🙌
What i find upseting is how his family refuses to believe her
Maybe they all did that to their kids, why would they support such behaviour.
Maybe they think it will go away,if they are in denial
You are amazing and the Lord will continue to bless you.
What an incredible human being may she be blessed from now on..
❤❤
Thank you so much 😊
Thank you for uploading this episode some men out there are so evil how can he do this to her beautiful daughter eish this world has come to an end serious
I love your answer about forgiveness ,thank you girl ❤
She's an extremely beautiful, intelligent and above all BRAVE young woman; that's all l will say. God has her and her power remains in her VOICE🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
So where was god when her father was violating her, he just got her after the fact🙄
Very sad story and this type of rape happens in plenty families but they rather keep it silent.Thanks for sharing.
So true. God help the victims.
I hope he's rotting in jail right now. Disgusting what he did to his own daughter.
He is out now unfortunately 😢
@@brendadickson9583 whaaaat
In jail? Did you listen to her
@@tl3482 of course not. I don't have the stomach for this. Didn't even make it 10 minutes in.
@GnA_000 The man is out walking with no remorse and absolutely no guilt. He also gave a speech on how she has ruined his life like really?
As I listened to her painful story, I picked up a lot of number 7 pattern. She was 7 years old, it started at 2007, it happened for 7 years, she was allowed to testify in court only when she was 17 years old, her Dad was arrested from 2016 - 2023, that's 7 years in prison.
It's a sorrowful story. Our justice system is exposed every day. I applaud you for choosing forgiveness and letting go of all bitterness. I pray that you get healed even more. May all your dreams come to pass. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Let your success comfort you.
He wasn’t possessed , he was a disgusting paedophile that should not have been let anywhere near kids. To this young lady, may your healing be complete . Please live your life fully and well and do not give this monster another opportunity to steal your life❤️
True 💯
What a cruel man 😢😢
Selfish dad how can he do such things
He was #BOTH🎉
Yes you are right friend
Girl you are so strong, forgiveness it's not for him it's for yourself that's where you are because of you have forgiven. I love you stay strong.
thank you for sharing sis Zizo, strength, love and light to you
My dear you are such a brave young woman,you are loved and iam happy you are healed,all the best and may the good Lord carry you through and bless you,God is your strength 💪
Such a brave woman, even after facing such a trauma she still spoke about it, in order to help others who are going through similar problem of child abuse, to stand up & defend oneself when you understand what’s happening to you is wrong & what she has gone thru was worst, once own father abusing you making you pregnant. He was such a Devil who was a mentally sick person. He should not have been given few years of Prison but severe punishment, life sentence. So that he repented each day in Prison for his guilt. Forgive, Accept & Let go even though very difficult for a person especially whose been hurt so much its the only way to get back your own Peace of mind & continue living the rest of your life without suffering, sadness & blaming oneself for the wrong done by someone else to you.
May God keep strengthening you with lots of joy and peace of mind throughout the rest of your life and relationship my dear, you're indeed a strong woman...
I truly understand her deeply. My biological father molested me, but I wasn’t 7 years of age. I was 18. I didn’t start living with him until I was 17 and when I turned 18 he stated that he had to get use to having another woman in the house. My years was horrible . I’m able to talk about it now and I'm 55... 😥😥
That is terrible did you go to the Police?
Wow
I don't understand how a father can feel sexually active with his daughter it's really bizarre and creepy. Some men's souls have left their bodies.
Sadly a lot of girls pass through this but they keep it a secret 💔 70% of girls 💔 but they can't speak up it be secret forever
All because of society and culture.
Sometimes people don't seem to realise that children don't remain young. They grow up and one day they will face that offender boldly, demanding answers.
It's a wake up call to most ladies...never give a child to a stranger..it is not save at all.
@kgalalelomakgana634 it's the #BIOLOGICAL father..Alot of this is going on..I #Know some ♥️
Yho 😢😢😢n he was in jail for only 8 years after what he put you through, there's no justice here ,Zizo am sorry for everything 😢 you went through
You're a very courageous woman!May Yah continue to strengthen and heal your mind,body,soul and spirit in Jesus name!❤
My step dad used to wash me and buy everything i needed i even thought he was my biological dad until my toxic mom spilled it off but i thank God for having a wonderful father figure
These happens and sadly even in this era still happens.
We need as parents to teach our kids about sex education from age 5 or 6. Obviously it should be age appropriate.
We should never think it will never happen to your children. Teach them to speak up to you or to someone they trust like a teacher.
Big Ups to you Zizo for speaking up about this even that you have gone through this. A whole lot of woman went through this and even today can’t speak because of various circumstances.
Your story is a brave journey of healing and will heal others as well.
Sometimes the perpetrators also went through some sort of abuse that they never healed from and end up doing the same if not worse. However this doesn’t justify what they did in anyway. Hence healing is critical as it has a good chance to break the circle.
I respect you so much my sister for being vocal and public about your journey. And God bless your mom for standing by you when she learned of your ordeal.
So very sorry you had to endure such horrificordeal with your father. He's a very sick man. May God grant you continued strength and mental peace.... God bless you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
God bless you for sharing your story. I cannot fathom the pain you’ve been through; you speak with so much grace and tranquility. I am in awe of your strength and I pray for your ongoing healing x
This is INSANE. Your dad should have spent more time in jail. That monster!! Stay strong.❤
Sad story. And she is genuine in her revelations.
We need to protect our woman 😔😔😔😔
Indeed 😢
i know Zizo from Centtwins Podcast
such a humble yet scarred hearted ♥️
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I just wanna use this opportunity to let you people know that it can happen to little boy. Though I'm 46years old man now but It happened to me when I was 5 or 6 years old whereby our house help will rape me uncountable times when my parents is not around. Though the incident happened about 40years ago. This particular video has thought me the reason why I have been struggling to keep a relationship. I never knew that it will have an ugly impact in life as I'm growing older. I have been struggling with panic attacks and short tempered. Always getting angry with every little thing's 😢😢. I have to live with it and make peace with myself by God grace
@@OkeyNgene-v1b yes people tense to forget, it can happen to male has well. So sorry to hear about what happened to you. Keep praying for accepting things u cannot change. Bless up x
@@barbaranewell3838so sorry may you continue walking under the Lord's wings
Thank you for your testimony. Prayers going up to help you with your trauma🙏❤️🙏
My husband once shared with me in his drunk state that he was raped by a family member while he’s young. We never spoke of this again as he’s someone who’s very closed off. How do I help him without seeming insensitive? Bcs I can see it’s affecting him as an adult he’s not fully affectionate
@@barbaranewell3838 Thank you 🙏. God is in control
May Karma deal with such fathers.... instead of protecting your very own daughter...you mess up her life.. disgusting 😢
You are so well spoken, poised and very well articulated. Love from Cameroon.
So you allowed this ? Or accepted the out come?
I just came across this channel now and I can say this 8s a good platform for people to empty that which they hold in their hearts and as well educate the masses on what is happening in our lives.
I can never get tired of listening to you sis, knew about you on Relebogile show ❤️
Same❤
Same here
Thank you so much ❤😊
Praise God she is Jesus daughter and she is victorious 🎉🎉🎉❤ demons are defeated by her action to forgive.. she is one of a chosen people of God❤
Thanks your story will help other people to protect their children
Thanks
May God blesses her and give her a forgiving heart.. Holy Spirit will protect her now Amen
Bro how the heck can you ask if anything was wrong with him…if he was possessed… so you’re basically trying to justify his actions??? That’s so low bro! I’m disgusted
He's is trying to get sisters' opinions on what she thinks about her dad's doing. Like the route course
Am so pissed, he tried to cry but the fakes tears didnt come mxm
@@ngqaphelindwandwe9452he is asking the wrong person, how the hell should one know why he rape?
😂😂😂@@poeletjosebata9480
I hated that too 😢
7 years bantu, eish 💔 😭😭😭what a monster
My 16 year old niece is carrying her father's child. I was so hurt when i found out the truth, I will always blame my sister for living her daughter with her father for 16 years, not checking on her nakhona she was called by the neighbors that her daughter is being abused. alone to find the child is impregnated by father 😭😭😭😭
Yoh😢😢
What did you do with your father after the incident?
Hope is he arrested now
@@pinkyndlovu6621 Sometimes we just need to point fingers at the devil. There is no rule which says a dad can not stay with his daughter. Some did it very well, so this brother in-law of yours was just evil. He is also a parent just like your sister.
You all need to inform the police what is happening to that child
Zizo you are so beautiful inside out.Your voice Your aura.
Your story will heal so many women and children.
Love you❤
Thank you so much ❤😊
U r so strong, n compassionate, thnx for sharing, may God bless u
I forgiveness angekhe aybone from me shame I'd rather find other ways to heal.. than forgive him for this unotshe. 💔😭
Yhoooo, so beautiful may God gives you a good bright future and produce children ❤
I don't have words to speak here.l mean no words enough to express how i am feeling about this as a mother of now 2 daughters.
Mens it it's high time to restore our dignity,and hold self control with high esteem
Wrong person to conduct such a sensitive interview, I only continued to watch because of her, to hear out her story. Like my brother, no man, do better please.
Zizo, Sis. You are an amazing being, the path of healing is a continuous journey, so keep on healing and living in your purpose. Love and Light ❤
He is absolutely clueless and insensitive when it comes to rape. I have seen how he behaves around the topic. He will laugh and say inappropriate thing. Maybe he’s nervous around the topic but really he’s the worst person for these topics
Totally agree, zero tact in handling such sensitive matters...
Zizo is amazing though strong, bold, self aware. Keep healing sis
I honestly felt the same, he shouldnt be asking most of the questions, how do you ask someone " did you try to run away"? She was 7 and scared and confused,she did say she thought it was what fathers do to their daughters. These kind of questions come across as if he i saying she didn't do enough to get away from the situation. In my opinion.
I agree with you the interviewer is clueless
I guess our stories are the same... Mine is my brother.who raped me at a very early i lost my virginity through that process en when i told my house people what he did no body believed me cus i was young, en that was the most painful part of my life no mom no dad to stand by me no body at all i was just alone. the same time i got pregnant but i myself don't know that i was pregnant even tho i saw changes in my body i just feel like it's a normal thing when the pregnancy was about two months old a neighbor called me en was questioning me i told her everything that happened she asked me if i knew my parents i said know she told me do you know that you are pregnant i told her am not she was like okay tomorrow in the evening you come to my house would take you to the pharmacy for a PT which is the pregnancy test.... I did the test it came out positive before i do the test the pregnancy was already 3 months old heading to 4 months wanted to keep the pregnancy but having the stress of not been able to afford my needs with my unborn child... May her soul rest in perfect peace.. I made the decision of aborting the pregnancy cus no one at home believed that my brother raped me... The lady that took me to do the PT was trying to convince me but when i told her everything she understood en buy the medicine for me... After the abortion i was no longer myself, like I'm someone who love to make people smile but after the incident i find it difficult to talk or even do somethings with people.. I always want to be alone in a very quiet place crying for taking away the life of an innocent child 😢 .... Since then still now people look at me en say you are very difficult to cope with... All because of what i pass through still now i find it difficult to trust most especially men😔
Your story is powerful. may God heal you…thanks for sharing
What a beautiful, brilliant, eloquent female. Zizo is greatness. I'm so hurt, but she has decided that this situation will not break her. Love & light always Queen!
God bless you young lady ! Your story is so touching !
What a brave and beautiful soul! Wishing you joy and love Sisi ❤️🙏🏾
I relate to that too,but my father wasn't possessed.He was doing this for his own interests with the help of dagger.
Tnk u cc for ur bravery it’s only God who helps us to heal and to learn to forgive bcoz without forgiveness moving forward is an impossibility. May God help others with the same misfortune to find a way to heal completely so their lives may move forward
Her voice is still shaking thou..
I don think anyone can heal emotionally 💯 from this..This is
crazy
Forgive, accept and let go- Zizo am so touched by your compassion and your vulnerability . God will surely restore to you the years the locusts have eaten
God is the main judge. He still has his punishment to come.
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@KM-oy5yh1
Damn man that's evil
so evil oh my god. i thank god for the father and male relatives i have . never would do such evil act. they were so protective of us growing up. i feel so sorry for her 😢 god will punish your dad
Such an intelligent young lady..sorry for your past
I apologize as a man and as a father to beautiful kids and I'm saying this from the bottom of my heart, you are 1 strong lady even more stronger as a young Zizo and I thank God and your ancestors for taking care of you through your difficult times..I hope you become a pillar and strength of all the girls around the world I hope your sad story really makes women stronger so to speak out loud and expose every rubbish man who still does it to other kids..I'm so sorry nana. He almost destroyed you😢
Nxese mntanami uNkulunkulu uzokupha konke okufisayo...Phephisa amazwi ayaphela...Syakuthanda❤