Ep. 26 | uMngani wami, ungikhiphe emshadwen wathath iNdoda yam | My BEST friend finished my MARRIAGE

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  • @thabanistdlamini
    @thabanistdlamini  8 місяців тому +60

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    • @ThandekaMzangwa
      @ThandekaMzangwa 8 місяців тому +1

      2;2

    • @DuduMngadi
      @DuduMngadi 8 місяців тому +1

      Please take your time, God will show you the way, just put yr trust in Him

    • @mbalenhlembelu6359
      @mbalenhlembelu6359 7 місяців тому +2

      Mina owami Myeni ulala nomakhelwane nami. Uthandana no gogo Ona 70 mina 36 yena he is 37

    • @NcengileMabuza-dj1dp
      @NcengileMabuza-dj1dp 7 місяців тому +5

      please don't bring your phone to the show

    • @motshabiphora6130
      @motshabiphora6130 6 місяців тому

      you have a strong personality cc
      God bless you

  • @phindilemakhathini7738
    @phindilemakhathini7738 8 місяців тому +248

    South Africa ngicela sishayeleni ucc izandla uyimbokodo cc Nkulunkulu aze abe nawe okuhle ngawe kuyeza❤

    • @christinenxumalo6082
      @christinenxumalo6082 8 місяців тому +4

      She is a diamond this man has lost

    • @musomuhleradebe
      @musomuhleradebe 8 місяців тому +3

      Yoh she’s phenomenal 👌✨

    • @robertharrington9845
      @robertharrington9845 8 місяців тому +2

      Pick yourself up, chin up! No looking bk
      Your way is clear and bright!
      Good luck❤

    • @MAPASEKAANGELMOKOENA
      @MAPASEKAANGELMOKOENA 8 місяців тому

      Yoh sisi ngifunde likhulu from your story ngifisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angiphe isibindi onaso

    • @Goodman676
      @Goodman676 8 місяців тому

      Ey ahlanzela abenamabhodwe impela

  • @nancyzinisibisi5024
    @nancyzinisibisi5024 8 місяців тому +171

    Oh kodwa Nosipho ulunge kangaka sisi. I know you from the time useyingane and you've always been a respectful child. Sorry my baby but God will answer❤

    • @nobuhlendlovuleta9860
      @nobuhlendlovuleta9860 8 місяців тому +7

      Aww Jehova yazi uyambona nje ukuthi inhlonipho isegazini❤

    • @Zee0126
      @Zee0126 8 місяців тому

      ULunge kwaze kweqa😢😢😢.And She was young easily get manipulated😢​@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860

    • @lungisanimkhize4836
      @lungisanimkhize4836 8 місяців тому +4

      Waze wangidumaza uBhuti - uyambona nje bakithi uzilungele nje uNosipho. Karma will find lo Bhuti

    • @SelloLebea-yd2pq
      @SelloLebea-yd2pq 2 місяці тому

      Karma will find no one,, if you think she is good date her then

    • @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq
      @SibusisoHlophe-dp5lq Місяць тому

      ​@@SelloLebea-yd2pqstop masturbating... Repent.

  • @abelmatabologa5179
    @abelmatabologa5179 6 місяців тому +25

    This woman is super humble. I never seen someone as humble and loving as this one. The guy lost here😢😢

  • @simsngema9088
    @simsngema9088 8 місяців тому +267

    The way she is so calm. She seems like shes a good person. Ubhuti lost a diamond la

    • @akho2304
      @akho2304 8 місяців тому +22

      One man's trash is another man's treasure, ukuwa kwenye ukuvuka kwenye

    • @Ethel-q6g
      @Ethel-q6g 8 місяців тому +7

      God will give you Gold but still you are looking around wasting your own time

    • @ZiyandaNgwane-uo6dg
      @ZiyandaNgwane-uo6dg 8 місяців тому +3

      Could not have said it better❤

    • @hildakgodu5796
      @hildakgodu5796 8 місяців тому +9

      True and u Jehova uzophendula kulu mgani wakhe , wow abantu bakhohlakele emhlabeni 🙌🏽

    • @Mfundini07
      @Mfundini07 8 місяців тому +7

      Ubogada ke lapho. Abaningi baba bahle babukeke kahle emva kokwenza amaphutha empilweni. 😂

  • @sibongilenkosi3394
    @sibongilenkosi3394 8 місяців тому +138

    Hleze ngisho ayikho into ekuthiwa umngani

    • @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
      @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 8 місяців тому

    • @mhlengimbokazi4106
      @mhlengimbokazi4106 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299ey ongakaboni usenkimgeni

    • @sethembilengidi3495
      @sethembilengidi3495 7 місяців тому +1

      Nami ngihleli ngisho
      Umgani uhlekani nomyeni Wakho
      Even ukuvakasha nje ekhaya lakho
      Umgani Akangazi lutho ngomendo wakho😢😢

    • @sizekankomo8430
      @sizekankomo8430 7 місяців тому +5

      As long as you speak about men like they are kids nisazonya. Why is this only about uMngani? Why is the husband not implicated? Anibhadlanga gqithi

    • @sithokozilenyoni2483
      @sithokozilenyoni2483 7 місяців тому

      I always say the same l don't have a space in my heart for umngane.

  • @sarahmmoni8777
    @sarahmmoni8777 8 місяців тому +74

    Their relationship will never work, only time will tell, there is a God In heaven

    • @Elvis-Dube-ny
      @Elvis-Dube-ny 7 місяців тому +1

      True 🤞 uyova kutsi khona lobulele lomunye

    • @kushkronicles8011
      @kushkronicles8011 6 місяців тому

      That's exactly how these situations end...let's just watch & see. ​@@Elvis-Dube-ny

    • @owamiwilliams574
      @owamiwilliams574 28 днів тому

      I can attest on that it wont last uNkulunkulu ngabe akekho

  • @dipuomangope8424
    @dipuomangope8424 8 місяців тому +25

    She's the most beautiful and calm person ever .❤May God give her strength and bless her.

  • @charitymlilo7511
    @charitymlilo7511 8 місяців тому +41

    You only 31 my dear....you are still young. Take time to heal....around 35- 40 you will find a good, Godly man and forget about this ungrateful thing❤❤

    • @NelisiweNgubane-jd4ps
      @NelisiweNgubane-jd4ps 6 місяців тому

      ❤❤Wow mfethu u Qinisile

    • @Divine-v7i
      @Divine-v7i 2 місяці тому

      Lithini izwi kanti ngomshado nedivorce, asibe kuKristu ngakho konke hhayi ukucabanga kwethu
      We need not to be carnally minded if sithi siyakholwa

    • @charitymlilo7511
      @charitymlilo7511 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Divine-v7i I don't like divorce just like my Father God, He hates divorce. Kodwa once adultery is involved biblically you can leave. Then common sense should tell you ukuthi ubaleke nempilo yakho cz there are incurable diseases out there, you can't sit around and expose yourself. If there are kids involved wena as the non cheating party must choose life so that kids have a surviving parent if the other parent decides to kill themselves with promiscuity.

    • @mandisimelaneschaal9823
      @mandisimelaneschaal9823 2 місяці тому

      @@Divine-v7iithi ukholwa kodwa ungakhohlwa ukungabi selective in your knowledge yezwi lika Nkulunkulu in your quest to be a judgmental know-it-all. There was adultery involved kulomshado

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 8 місяців тому +110

    Am im the only one crying. I helped him meet his soulmate.
    She says 😭😭😭😭.
    May God restore, not the marriage but her.

    • @LettyMakhati
      @LettyMakhati 8 місяців тому +4

      For her to leave the house just like that it takes a strong person to do that she's a good person indeed..The nerve that this guy has brought his people to chase her out joo sad. However God wouldn't allow His child to bring no satani together. I'm sure there were red flags from the start just that she was to young and naive to see them.

    • @mandy7168
      @mandy7168 8 місяців тому

      That was deep I felt it

    • @mandy7168
      @mandy7168 8 місяців тому +2

      @@LettyMakhatiyou do honey I did for peace sake and mungasafuni nawe she was going to even die for the house do u know the feeling of being in a place where u not wanted yooh it’s hurts

    • @gabisilenkosi8322
      @gabisilenkosi8322 8 місяців тому

      Exactly! Otherwise these types of men do not stop. People shouldn't be fighting for such rubbish, honestly. A marriage is about two people, not one person fighting for a useless marriage

    • @mabukimtyoki1787
      @mabukimtyoki1787 7 місяців тому +1

      I salute you cc uyimbikodo

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 8 місяців тому +83

    I fought for my marriage physically, spiritually and mentally. I thank God that I didn't get admitted for depression.

    • @edithmatsane2932
      @edithmatsane2932 8 місяців тому

      Are you still there?

    • @pulengphatedi8153
      @pulengphatedi8153 8 місяців тому +3

      @@edithmatsane2932 , no we got divorced.

    • @edithmatsane2932
      @edithmatsane2932 8 місяців тому

      Man🤨😏...you are strong girl ❤️❤️

    • @sheronsnethembancube2693
      @sheronsnethembancube2693 8 місяців тому

      Story of my life. Eventually got kicked out and I thank God I'm well and alive great peace of mind

  • @lindiwengwane311
    @lindiwengwane311 7 місяців тому +14

    Ngaze ngamthanda ucc, ukube bengiyi nsizwa bengizozi thathela yena🤞her voice👌, her humbleness. Lo bhuti ulahlekelwe igolide while he was busy collecting stones.

    • @Elvis-Dube-ny
      @Elvis-Dube-ny 7 місяців тому +1

      True🤞 eih Kona iyathandeka ingane bakithi

  • @phumzilengwenya7825
    @phumzilengwenya7825 8 місяців тому +16

    Mzukulu you are a true Christian may God keep you, bless you and shine His face to you, your parents and your children are blessed to have you, you're a GIFT.

    • @thandintlaka2779
      @thandintlaka2779 8 місяців тому +1

      A gift and example of a good wife and Christian... Your God will fight for you cc wam.

  • @ZukileAyanda
    @ZukileAyanda 7 місяців тому +6

    Ngifisa ngabe nginamandla ndikwenzele into enkulu kakhulu entle , enzele uphole nathi siphole ngoba nathi silimele God bless you sisi wethu

  • @musawenkosiinnocent4185
    @musawenkosiinnocent4185 8 місяців тому +66

    Ngivamile ukubuka lezindaba zemishado.I'm the Pastor,so ngifunda izinto eziningi kakhulu.Ubufebe bubi kakhulu.Lomoya uhleze ufuna into entsha.Nakuloyo akahleli ngiyakuthembisa.It's a spirit behind him,but not him exactly.And his future is already destroyed.Uzokufuna lapho ungakhona,but kuzobe seku late.Into engiyifundayo kulezinhlelo,amadoda angamaqili kakhulu ayahluleka ukubamba isimilo.Kulula ukubona omunye umuntu wesifazane ngisho phakathi enkonzweni nihamba nonke.Ibe nezinqumo ngaye.Abantu besifazane bavamile ukuba ama victims ezinto ezinjena,babekezele,omunye agcine afe ngenxa yalobunuku.Be strong in the LORD.Ame .

    • @nwabisasuthu8537
      @nwabisasuthu8537 8 місяців тому +5

      Elam ke mfundisi ndinesicelo ndicela abantu abango tata mabakhe babe ne weekend out bengotata kuphela babonisane ukuba amakhaya okhiwa njani amakhosikazi aphathwa njani emitshatweni ....Futhi otata badeala njani nezikete abadibana nazo imihla nezolo ngoba sihleli nje singomama singomama sitshatile serhalela amadoda abantu phofu side silale nawo amadoda kuse ekuseni sicule uAmen enkozweni phambi kwebandla please mfundisi wam ndiyacela

    • @LindizwiLeonard-nq8vr
      @LindizwiLeonard-nq8vr 7 місяців тому +1

      ENGATHI NKOSI INGAKUSIZA UFUNDE UKUTHANDAZA KUZE UNGAFUNDI NGEZINKINGA UPHELELE LAPHO IBA NOKUQONDA SATHANE UYAWUZONDA UMSHADO AND TARGET ABANTU ABASEBENZELA UTHIXO UKUZE BABE AMA REJECT BANGABI NAWO AMANDLA OKUMA SATHANE UYAZULAZULA UYABHONGA NJENGEBHUBESI EFUNA AZOBAGWINYA

    • @NelisiweNgubane-jd4ps
      @NelisiweNgubane-jd4ps 6 місяців тому

      😢mmmmmh Pastor Kunzima manje

  • @confyConfy-m4q
    @confyConfy-m4q 3 місяці тому +11

    Can you please try to conduct interviews without your phone, it is so disturbing to some of us and a sign of disrespect to the quest.

  • @JeSsIcA_MAD
    @JeSsIcA_MAD 8 місяців тому +15

    She got married at approximately 19-20 years old, the same age as that girl. She lost herself when she got married, but when she met that girl, she discovered her inner child in her and that's what drew her to her. She felt compelled to help her, hence hearing her mention, "I used to pick her up and drop her off at home." This is because her inner child is in need of healing, as she is broken and vulnerable. Ladies, it is crucial to prioritize attending therapy and to engage in continuous healing.

  • @zamambhele242
    @zamambhele242 8 місяців тому +30

    I love how she thinks and also find ways to motivates herself to let go and start over and trust God

  • @phumzilengcobo7050
    @phumzilengcobo7050 6 місяців тому +3

    Ngaze ngasaba mhla izinto mhla zimjikela lo cc ....cc battle is not yours God is with you

  • @BusisiweZondi-ki7vz
    @BusisiweZondi-ki7vz 8 місяців тому +9

    Nkulunkulu uzokupha amandla cc wami lobhuti usazovuna nje uzokulwela Nkulunkulu 😢

  • @nokuphiwamadikizela2511
    @nokuphiwamadikizela2511 8 місяців тому +5

    This woman taught me something yazi. Ukuthula plus ukuvumela isimo kuletha i peace shame nokulapheka okusheshayo

  • @KoliweNongauza
    @KoliweNongauza 8 місяців тому +3

    A very wise woman indeed...uxolo ngako konke odlule konke empilweni..at least you are still alive❤

  • @rosegold6209
    @rosegold6209 8 місяців тому +86

    This man is going to REGRET doing this to this humble soul who still remained submissive through this pain!

    • @nobuhlendlovuleta9860
      @nobuhlendlovuleta9860 8 місяців тому +1

      Abasekho abafana naye. Unkulunkule engathi angamnikeza umuntu ozomthanda ngokwanele

    • @nontlemabotja2655
      @nontlemabotja2655 8 місяців тому

      Nd he is going to regret shame

    • @Elvis-Dube-ny
      @Elvis-Dube-ny 7 місяців тому

      True🤞 and yobe sekungana chance yokuphindela emuva.

    • @KwinBee6064
      @KwinBee6064 7 місяців тому

      @@Elvis-Dube-nyI’m sure he misses her everyday.

    • @Elvis-Dube-ny
      @Elvis-Dube-ny 7 місяців тому

      @@KwinBee6064 very true

  • @Tee-mz9nu
    @Tee-mz9nu 5 місяців тому +7

    I have never seen someone so humble, calm and respectful like this young woman. Not once did she speak badly about the husband or the friend, not even a single bad word. May God heal and bless her, may she find peace, love, good health and joy

  • @Nonhlanhla-f1f
    @Nonhlanhla-f1f 8 місяців тому +136

    The parents were wrong to marry this pretty young woman to such an older man.

    • @nobuhlendlovuleta9860
      @nobuhlendlovuleta9860 8 місяців тому +2

      Precisely dear, manje yini so

    • @Nonhlanhla-f1f
      @Nonhlanhla-f1f 8 місяців тому

      @@nobuhlendlovuleta9860 ngezwa ubuhlungu uyazi so better to waste time waiting kuloku jaha izinto so.

    • @gospelallthewaymlilo5783
      @gospelallthewaymlilo5783 8 місяців тому +4

      The guy wasn't toooooooooo old just a different of 16 years

    • @gabisilengwenya-mu7gi
      @gabisilengwenya-mu7gi 8 місяців тому

      ​@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783🫢😳

    • @_theerealnono_7694
      @_theerealnono_7694 8 місяців тому +13

      ​​@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783Nah, she was still young and he was older and more experienced than her. She said it herself that she was still young and didn't know what she was doing. A sixteen-year age gap was still substantial.

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 8 місяців тому +52

    You guys must sell the house and get both your share. 😮 Go get what you worked for. This guy and your friend must go build their house. 😮

    • @mandlagama76
      @mandlagama76 7 місяців тому +3

      Don't even bother yourself with the house. You have gone through a lot already. Ungagcina usuyifela and it's not worth it. God will bless you with a better and bigger house.

  • @zandilesokhela1578
    @zandilesokhela1578 8 місяців тому +11

    ❤ This is what I call the real beauty!Beauty from inside out!Her mindset!Okuhle kodwa dear empilweni yakho!

  • @businzama6939
    @businzama6939 8 місяців тому +15

    Phephisa sis wami ngicabanga ukuthi awusophinde uthembe umngani 💔💔💔uNkulunkulu uzokuthwala esimeni sonke kahle…kahle ayikho into ewumngani la emhlabeni

  • @zipolandzela2647
    @zipolandzela2647 8 місяців тому +71

    Oh I love how uBhuti listens to his guest sana 👌👌👌

    • @oratilemoyawa2936
      @oratilemoyawa2936 8 місяців тому +3

      Yeah he is a good interviewer

    • @amazetimbane
      @amazetimbane 8 місяців тому +13

      But the phone iyaphazamisa...the guy is not even concentrating that's why anga disturb
      ....

    • @lindenisikakane9906
      @lindenisikakane9906 8 місяців тому +5

      What is it that he's busy with on the phone I'm very disturbed

    • @nobuhlendlovuleta9860
      @nobuhlendlovuleta9860 8 місяців тому

      Yazi calmly... no chipping in whatsoever!

    • @gospelallthewaymlilo5783
      @gospelallthewaymlilo5783 8 місяців тому

      ​@@amazetimbanekakhulu

  • @lyndmudimba2269
    @lyndmudimba2269 7 місяців тому +6

    The man has lost the diamond and pick the ston this lady she so humble 🎉sending lots of love sis uJohova akwenzele okuhle ngani ungathola indonda ezokuhlonipha.

  • @muziwokuthulasinukela3061
    @muziwokuthulasinukela3061 6 місяців тому +1

    I don't think bakhona abesifazane abayoke bafane nawe.You are one of the few abavphilayo kulomhlaba GOD bless you forever and ever.Konke okukulahlekelile kubuyebkuphindiwev💯💯💯.

  • @sinethembamkhize1905
    @sinethembamkhize1905 8 місяців тому +16

    She’s so pretty 🥺🥰 uthobekile loSisi uyambona nje umuntu ozilungele. Angifune kwisa aide of the husband idlale ngengane yabantu🥺 even noma simphoxile she still talks of him kahle and she’s still blushing🥺 you will find your soulmate/husband.

  • @bonganidladla9477
    @bonganidladla9477 8 місяців тому +88

    Kudos to the host for not disturbing the lady. ❤

    • @NdumiMacDermott
      @NdumiMacDermott 8 місяців тому +4

      Coz u busy ngephone yakhe

    • @simie9038
      @simie9038 8 місяців тому

      ​@@NdumiMacDermott😂 yall always have something negative

    • @zanelenombika8804
      @zanelenombika8804 8 місяців тому

      Sbonga kona loko…asbongi phone

    • @lekoaneanastacia8617
      @lekoaneanastacia8617 8 місяців тому

      Lmaoooo 😂😂😂​@@zanelenombika8804

    • @zananasolombela4721
      @zananasolombela4721 7 місяців тому

      Big ups to the guy he is a good listener

  • @OkaMkhabela
    @OkaMkhabela 8 місяців тому +20

    Yoo I love this lady,she’s so calm.
    Ngeke u last loyo mshado wabo ushiye umfazi.

    • @thandintlaka2779
      @thandintlaka2779 8 місяців тому +1

      That marriage won't last forever... Naye uzothathwa kuye njegoba u friend enzile ku Nosipho

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 8 місяців тому +24

    Yoh this lady is me 😢 I experienced this too

  • @nontobekomajola4049
    @nontobekomajola4049 5 місяців тому +3

    This story is similar to mine & sis Nosipho you are mature cc for your age. Ngaphuma nezingane eziy 4 kulowamshado 🤦🏽‍♀️ ngaze ngamdabukela ubhuti obeshade no sisi coz zisazomunetha uhlukumeza umuntu o mature & calm like this

  • @Ethel-q6g
    @Ethel-q6g 8 місяців тому +21

    Ustrong cc , kudlaliwe ngeskhathi sakho but God was preparing you for smthing big.God of restoration will restore you in every area

  • @lungisanimkhize4836
    @lungisanimkhize4836 8 місяців тому +6

    Waze wangidumaza uBhuti😢😢 - same situation I found myself in through uMnganii. I respect you sis and you will make it. Umuhle kabi wena.

  • @musomuhleradebe
    @musomuhleradebe 8 місяців тому +19

    What a calm but strong woman you are MaNjilo❤, You are one phenomenal woman in a million sis, awuve ukhulile enqondweni wow 👏God is with u always🙏.

  • @94069
    @94069 8 місяців тому +36

    I love this girl. You are so matured sisi. This fight is not yours and you accepted it. Let God fight for you. There are not many women like you my dear. Umoya wakho😍 ngiyawuthanda. May God bless you with a good husband and honest, loving friends

  • @asie_dudula
    @asie_dudula 3 місяці тому +3

    She must come back and give us an update on the new couple in a few years

  • @peace2008
    @peace2008 6 місяців тому +1

    This made me cry especially ekugcineni...your strength,wisdom and courage mmh

  • @zifikilekunene3301
    @zifikilekunene3301 8 місяців тому +9

    What a woman!!! I pray God blesses you in every aspect of your life, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH.

  • @Shorts37527
    @Shorts37527 8 місяців тому +19

    Islima sendoda ai

  • @gcogcocarelse
    @gcogcocarelse 8 місяців тому +13

    Lord Jesus thank you for keeping her safe, thank u for the heart that you have given her....qhubekeka cc to trust God with your life umtshato yinkonzo ka Nkulunkullu believe me you are still your husband's wife your friend will never replace you mark my words.Your friend is just helping you to raise your kids , relax do not rush , wait in the Lordcand allow Him to make you to be what He wants you to be .The battle is not yours continue to forgive both of them and may the peace of God continue to be with you and remain humble and put your trust to God uzazakubeka endaweni ebanzi....oh how I love you and God loves you more🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤ you are a rare Gift (Nosipho).

  • @ntombididi3077
    @ntombididi3077 3 місяці тому +1

    I love you dear God has a purpose in everything.your friend will never last dear and your husband will remember you. It will be late by that time ..uyimbokodo cc

  • @rosegold6209
    @rosegold6209 8 місяців тому +12

    The level of patience, I cant...😢
    But they say silence and being still speaks volumes...when you react thats when they know they got you where it hurts!
    God is no fool, thw friend will see flames!

  • @sihledlomo9864
    @sihledlomo9864 8 місяців тому +12

    What a strong woman

  • @khanyamvane
    @khanyamvane 8 місяців тому +20

    I feel sorry for the friend not uNosipho . Ngoba unosipho is Blessed.
    The friend is very stupid to think she has won . I pray God answers and honors this humble Lady’s prayer.

  • @ameliamandisa9082
    @ameliamandisa9082 8 місяців тому +13

    Such a humble soul

  • @Zee0126
    @Zee0126 8 місяців тому +4

    Nosipho ulunge kwaze Kweqa.Like An angel on earth 😢😢😢😢.

  • @dalisudlamini9175
    @dalisudlamini9175 8 місяців тому +4

    Wow this lady is beautiful in and out.Uyazi uNkunkulu uzokusula izinyembezi.wait for one or three years things will turn around.mark my words

  • @mosesbongani8221
    @mosesbongani8221 8 місяців тому +10

    That man had been bewitched by that fake n evil friend. How can he says he still loves uNosipho while serving her with divorce papers! Wow, kazi lobabe lomdzala kangaka walobola ngemamillion kuze bazali batsengise ngalosisi amncane kanganga! May God restore this humble n beautiful woman multiple times!

  • @Tshoanelo-178
    @Tshoanelo-178 6 місяців тому +2

    Nosipho keep on being such a humble person. God sent, some of little issues managed ro have a home run.

  • @thatsbahle443
    @thatsbahle443 8 місяців тому +17

    This woman is so young for having endured such ayibo, the first red flag was her having to leave her job, I hope she finds peace and healing she's such a good person😠

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 8 місяців тому +4

      As a woman never allow yourself to be pushed to leaving your job. No matter how rich your man is, go to work or do business and save money. Think about the future engekho because besides them cheating or leaving unexpectedly, death may come much sooner than you expect!😢

    • @_theerealnono_7694
      @_theerealnono_7694 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@spm9130True, never rely on them to that extent. Only God deserves that kind of trust in him. Humans are fallible.

  • @usabelowakwasimelane4632
    @usabelowakwasimelane4632 8 місяців тому +27

    35 and 19 hhe eh I blame abazali. I am 35 and unmarried but I can never marry a 19 year old haibo ukuhlakaniphela ingane engingayizala😳

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 8 місяців тому +8

      Mina I am even disturbed by indlela ayi funa ngayo ingane engayazi nokuyazi. He's disgusting nje. He hunted this child. Angazi Lo mama wavuma kanjani. Iskhohlakali sendoda.

    • @usabelowakwasimelane4632
      @usabelowakwasimelane4632 8 місяців тому

      @@Lungelo911 ungcoliiiiiileeee lomfo🚮🚮🚮

    • @nombewu33
      @nombewu33 8 місяців тому +1

      Yabona nje nendlela awamfuna ngayo ivele yandidika. How could her mother allow that? As if she was advertising her.🤧🤧

    • @patiencemankayi8213
      @patiencemankayi8213 7 місяців тому +1

      Sad 😢

    • @carolinekubayi1430
      @carolinekubayi1430 7 місяців тому

      ❤​@@nombewu33

  • @Nonhlanhla-f1f
    @Nonhlanhla-f1f 8 місяців тому +17

    A beautiful woman like this bakithi Thixo, l believe God will see you through.

  • @herbertmabena
    @herbertmabena 7 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤yo sheim I know her beshadele ngasekhaya she is a good person umuntu ohlezi ezihlekela bakithi unkulunkulu abenawe cc

  • @thabangmokwana6678
    @thabangmokwana6678 4 місяці тому +1

    that was a painful story yoh...MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH MORE IN YOUR WISHES

  • @LethukwenamaZwane
    @LethukwenamaZwane 8 місяців тому +2

    Dankie my sister ngithanda umoya wakho ophansi Man of God zokupha icebo lokuphila kanye nabantwana bakho.ngyabonga ukusisherela istory sakho ngifunde lukhulu ngomngani

    • @thulanintuli-lh9zp
      @thulanintuli-lh9zp 8 місяців тому

      Iyoooooh ngaze ngakuzwela dadewethu, but trust me God will answer your prayers and He will heal and restore you life

  • @PolenaEsther
    @PolenaEsther 8 місяців тому +11

    God will fight your battle sister, don't worry

  • @NolizwiNgcobo
    @NolizwiNgcobo 6 місяців тому +1

    Waylahlalaphoke cc kuth uvume azokusiza ekben counsela eseshilo

  • @nwabisa2196
    @nwabisa2196 8 місяців тому +4

    Nosipho kuzolunga God Loves ❤ ❤❤ you standwa umuhle

  • @NonhlanhlaMsibi-w6x
    @NonhlanhlaMsibi-w6x 8 місяців тому +9

    Ngabuzwa ubuhlungu mara unkulunkulu uhlale anamacebo amahle ngathi god bless you cc umuhle❤❤❤

  • @vuyonkomo2871
    @vuyonkomo2871 8 місяців тому +5

    Very humble....grace will locate you baby girl, you are still very young.

  • @zandilegloria2769
    @zandilegloria2769 8 місяців тому +1

    Eysh Nosipho u r so humble,ababaningi abanjengawe noma bekholwa,uThixo akukhulise cc ,akubusise ngoMkhenyana ofanele wena wakho wedwa,ukhohlwe osekudlule,I salute u

  • @nobhalamagagula6222
    @nobhalamagagula6222 8 місяців тому +2

    Cha, ngiyakwesaba sisi inhliziyo onaya. Ngiyakuhlonipha nangendlela uphathe loludaba kwakho olubuhlu ngu ngalendlela.
    May God bless you, ukhulise izingane zakho kahle. Okunye ukubeke eNkosini.
    Okubuhlungu ngendaba yakho umfo lo ukusukele useyingàne aphi de adlale ngawe.
    Yena uzokukhumbulà nakanjani
    Ngiyabonga

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 8 місяців тому +35

    But the man was too old for her from the beginning

    • @Simphiwesitoto
      @Simphiwesitoto 8 місяців тому +1

      Sorry there is no age eluthandweni just that guy ayinangqondo bcz she still love but him and those people cll friends r so dangerous came with evil nalosis didn't see anything wrong ekutshateni ubhuti this teach us couldn't trust anyone accept our lord Jesus 🤞

    • @_theerealnono_7694
      @_theerealnono_7694 8 місяців тому +3

      ​​​@@SimphiwesitotoWhat do you mean when you say, "there's no age in love"? Older men can be predatory and controlling. Do you mean you'd allow some old geezer to marry your minor daughter that's still in high school, all because "there's no age in love"?

    • @johnmash327
      @johnmash327 8 місяців тому +1

      Age and maturity are different concepts. It seems this lady is more mature than even the ex, sometimes you'll find a 50yr old man acting 30 and feel embarrassed on his behalf. Maturity is bit more complicated

  • @mandy7168
    @mandy7168 8 місяців тому +7

    Such a soul indeed people they do take advantage for people like this I’m one of them nami bangigila but uzokukhumbula shame

  • @lindenisikakane9906
    @lindenisikakane9906 8 місяців тому +7

    Shes so calm and humble bakithi and u could tell she's been a good wife

  • @zandilekumalo
    @zandilekumalo 8 місяців тому +13

    Kuningi cc unkulunkulu akubekele kona izinyembezi zakho zincane kakhulu kunenjabulo ezayo kuwena ngikufisela konke okuhle uwena

  • @nomgqijoy5175
    @nomgqijoy5175 8 місяців тому +5

    He is a huge hurt breaker and abused so vividly 😮kodwa uzavuna akutshalile kuwena my sweet 😢

  • @luckytlou6712
    @luckytlou6712 8 місяців тому +10

    Woooow such a calm cool and collected woman,wish I can have here for myself she deserves more love and care seriously ❤❤❤

  • @duduzilenyawo2531
    @duduzilenyawo2531 8 місяців тому +10

    Ey you are such a humble Beautiful woman ❤. I love you so much 💗

  • @BiplopKahan
    @BiplopKahan 6 місяців тому +1

    Uyabona ma kuthiwa uthole umakoti oqotho empilwen nguyena lo, umoya wakhe uphansi upholile uyakwaz ukuchaza iqiniso afundise nabanye empilwen. Ubhuti ngbona walahla isitsha esihle kakhulu esicwebezelayo. cc khula kakhulu ungashintshi lokho oyikho khona nonkulunkulu abenaye ambusise ozokthola n thanx to Mr presenter my name 💪

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 8 місяців тому +31

    Hayi Ndicela i number ka Nosipho ngeke i need her calmness

    • @AneleNgcobo-v2p
      @AneleNgcobo-v2p 8 місяців тому

      Udalwe kahle mina ngangiyolwa ibhadi😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @zandilesokhela1578
      @zandilesokhela1578 8 місяців тому +1

      Nami I need her as my friend❤❤❤ she's therapy

  • @LindiweCele-t1d
    @LindiweCele-t1d 4 місяці тому

    Nosipho kuzodlula cc futhi isazodlala ifilim nakubona.zikhulisele abantwana bakho .ukhona uJehova

  • @lu_DaughterOfAKing
    @lu_DaughterOfAKing 3 місяці тому +1

    Yaze yadelela indonda!! ikhehla elaqoqobela ingane !! jike futhi uyayilaxaza ulande enye futhi ingane!! This guy is a predator and he is extremely immature. What do you discuss with a 20 year old as a 40 something year old man!? IHLAZO. Nosipho, you are a good woman and you deserve better. I love your calm, humble spirit and how optimistic you are. May God heal you and shower you with peace always.

  • @NompiloMaphanga
    @NompiloMaphanga 8 місяців тому +4

    So much wisdom on sis Nosipho and God may bless her

  • @nokulunganjilo2574
    @nokulunganjilo2574 8 місяців тому +7

    Myb wayezokbulala mtase but Nkululunkulu zange avume ngawe,wayengezanga ukuzobheka ukuth uhlel noban mhhhh life😭

  • @thembelanindaba830
    @thembelanindaba830 8 місяців тому +4

    To find a woman like this is painfully rare. This guy fumbled kubuhlungu 😢

  • @sakhisizwesakhindovela1503
    @sakhisizwesakhindovela1503 8 місяців тому +4

    This is touching, the strong women are still there this is what is called IMBOKODO

  • @AlexanderMdlongwa
    @AlexanderMdlongwa 8 місяців тому +4

    You are blessed my Sis,uzophila kuze kubephakathi.

  • @ntokomazungus789
    @ntokomazungus789 6 місяців тому

    Jhoooo cc mina kwenzeke kanjl nakumi..ngangina 18.nami ngahlal 13 yrs. Ngihlukumezek..kodwa u Jesu engazinikela kuyo .nokho.lm strong now..and nendoda seyashona phezu kokungi devoza.ngingazi..jhoooo ayi cha..ngicelakubuz nami ngingatjula yini olwam.udaba

  • @sebentilezanini1085
    @sebentilezanini1085 8 місяців тому +2

    😢😢😢😢 ay no...uhambo lwaba buhlungu...
    Eyokuthi usazoshada yaziwa uMdali...isimo adlule kusona sidinga full healing and deliverance....

  • @SbusisobigboyNkunaahh
    @SbusisobigboyNkunaahh 5 місяців тому

    Ngiyaqlq futhi ngiyagcina umfazi ostrong ngalendlela imbokodo nesisekel 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐⭐⭐

  • @NokwaziMvelase-p8u
    @NokwaziMvelase-p8u 8 місяців тому +4

    Wayalwa kahle kini cc wami i love you❤ uzomtola omunye ukhwenyana dadewethu

  • @PinkieJam-Jam
    @PinkieJam-Jam 6 місяців тому

    Hayi bandla strong girl uyazi ngifundile kukhulume kuwe

  • @NcobileTsela
    @NcobileTsela 6 місяців тому

    Oh my cc Nosipho God of heaven will help you to be healed and provide with right man watching at Eswati

  • @SibongileMathaba-zw2qk
    @SibongileMathaba-zw2qk 6 місяців тому

    Into eyaba rong la ukuthi ucc washada eseyngane
    Mhlampe khona okunye ayengakeazi ukukwenza njrngoba esho njr ukuthi nokupheka wakufinda khona kanti ubhuti ubemdala kakhulu so okuhle u cc ufundile okuningi mhlampe inkulu ubemtreyna for another marriage uzophumelela umshado wakhe ukhulile manje and she is so humble

  • @nosipho_ncips21ntombela14
    @nosipho_ncips21ntombela14 8 місяців тому +12

    I hope the son does not grow up to be like his dad ohh My goshh. He better not groom another monster. Also this ladies calmness wow I pray for this❤

  • @kgomotsomohapi3258
    @kgomotsomohapi3258 5 місяців тому +1

    My sister ur still young beautiful God bless you again seven times don't ever ever trust a friend again actually I don't like the word best friend

  • @gezanichauke4122
    @gezanichauke4122 8 місяців тому +3

    Waw lendoda yalahlekelwa yiGold engine iphinde iythothole .Uyimbokodo girls ❤noma lkubuhlungu usazokhala lomfana ngyakbongela ngoba akakbulalanga trust in God kuyeza okwakho okuhle ngikufisela iNHLANHLA❤❤❤.Khulisa izingane zakho.Basazohlukana laba very soon.Phola sthandwa sam❤❤❤iNkosi ayphinde ikbusise.

  • @No2HeartStoppingClotShots
    @No2HeartStoppingClotShots 8 місяців тому +10

    sisi, may king Jesus bless and keep you with your children! you don't need that unstable man in your life and how can his family believe him, ababoni ukuthi akekho right ekhanda? good riddens and bayafanelana yena no ex friend wakho....they deserve each other. We will continue to pray for you💖

  • @boitumelodilapiso2294
    @boitumelodilapiso2294 8 місяців тому +4

    Great interview hope man and woman we wll learn from ths interview, I can't wait part2🎉🎉she humble I have respect for her

  • @ConstanceMthanti-wo3wr
    @ConstanceMthanti-wo3wr 8 місяців тому +26

    The only thing I learned from cellphone messages is to forward everything to my number as a proof

  • @ntombehlubinelani8781
    @ntombehlubinelani8781 8 місяців тому +27

    Let me tell you something. La relationship will never last trust me . Your X is not happy in that relationship. God will never forsaken you. The devil uhleli se ngawe phambi kwe enemies zakho but God uzakukuhlekisa one day . This was your journey In order to be where you are.

    • @ncedisakhewu
      @ncedisakhewu 8 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @NeneShabangu
      @NeneShabangu 8 місяців тому +7

      ​@@ncedisakhewumanje wena uhlekani? Or are you this man okukhulunywa ngaye?

    • @natashamtshali3774
      @natashamtshali3774 8 місяців тому

      @@NeneShabangu im sure its him

    • @mubveleli7204
      @mubveleli7204 8 місяців тому

      Life is not nigerian movies

  • @SakhileMlambo-c3x
    @SakhileMlambo-c3x 7 місяців тому +2

    Usazophumelela Sisi you were born with your own blessings don't worry

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley 8 місяців тому +4

    Love bomb, devalue and discard. The phases remain constant. Sadly tbe friend's days are coming to an end soon too.

    • @vuvutshemese4364
      @vuvutshemese4364 8 місяців тому +3

      You nailed it, she is discarded and the friend is love bombed. Her day will come and be discarded too.

  • @SiyethembaShezi
    @SiyethembaShezi 8 місяців тому +4

    But the purpose you were meant to serve is highly impossible to accept.
    Only few human beings can be as strong as you are, not even myself😮😮😮