Ep. 26 | uMngani wami, ungikhiphe emshadwen wathath iNdoda yam | My BEST friend finished my MARRIAGE
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- Опубліковано 15 кві 2024
- Conversing with Ms Nosipho Njilo who's friend took over her marriage and her husband married her friend and they moved in together
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Peace be with you all
😊😊
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Please take your time, God will show you the way, just put yr trust in Him
Mina owami Myeni ulala nomakhelwane nami. Uthandana no gogo Ona 70 mina 36 yena he is 37
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South Africa ngicela sishayeleni ucc izandla uyimbokodo cc Nkulunkulu aze abe nawe okuhle ngawe kuyeza❤
She is a diamond this man has lost
Yoh she’s phenomenal 👌✨
Pick yourself up, chin up! No looking bk
Your way is clear and bright!
Good luck❤
Yoh sisi ngifunde likhulu from your story ngifisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu angiphe isibindi onaso
Ey ahlanzela abenamabhodwe impela
Oh kodwa Nosipho ulunge kangaka sisi. I know you from the time useyingane and you've always been a respectful child. Sorry my baby but God will answer❤
Aww Jehova yazi uyambona nje ukuthi inhlonipho isegazini❤
ULunge kwaze kweqa😢😢😢.And She was young easily get manipulated😢@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti - uyambona nje bakithi uzilungele nje uNosipho. Karma will find lo Bhuti
You only 31 my dear....you are still young. Take time to heal....around 35- 40 you will find a good, Godly man and forget about this ungrateful thing❤❤
The way she is so calm. She seems like shes a good person. Ubhuti lost a diamond la
One man's trash is another man's treasure, ukuwa kwenye ukuvuka kwenye
God will give you Gold but still you are looking around wasting your own time
Could not have said it better❤
True and u Jehova uzophendula kulu mgani wakhe , wow abantu bakhohlakele emhlabeni 🙌🏽
Ubogada ke lapho. Abaningi baba bahle babukeke kahle emva kokwenza amaphutha empilweni. 😂
Their relationship will never work, only time will tell, there is a God In heaven
True 🤞 uyova kutsi khona lobulele lomunye
Hleze ngisho ayikho into ekuthiwa umngani
@@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299ey ongakaboni usenkimgeni
Nami ngihleli ngisho
Umgani uhlekani nomyeni Wakho
Even ukuvakasha nje ekhaya lakho
Umgani Akangazi lutho ngomendo wakho😢😢
As long as you speak about men like they are kids nisazonya. Why is this only about uMngani? Why is the husband not implicated? Anibhadlanga gqithi
I always say the same l don't have a space in my heart for umngane.
She's the most beautiful and calm person ever .❤May God give her strength and bless her.
The parents were wrong to marry this pretty young woman to such an older man.
Precisely dear, manje yini so
@@nobuhlendlovuleta9860 ngezwa ubuhlungu uyazi so better to waste time waiting kuloku jaha izinto so.
The guy wasn't toooooooooo old just a different of 16 years
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783🫢😳
@@gospelallthewaymlilo5783Nah, she was still young and he was older and more experienced than her. She said it herself that she was still young and didn't know what she was doing. A sixteen-year age gap was still substantial.
Am im the only one crying. I helped him meet his soulmate.
She says 😭😭😭😭.
May God restore, not the marriage but her.
For her to leave the house just like that it takes a strong person to do that she's a good person indeed..The nerve that this guy has brought his people to chase her out joo sad. However God wouldn't allow His child to bring no satani together. I'm sure there were red flags from the start just that she was to young and naive to see them.
That was deep I felt it
@@user-bw1vx7yi4uyou do honey I did for peace sake and mungasafuni nawe she was going to even die for the house do u know the feeling of being in a place where u not wanted yooh it’s hurts
Exactly! Otherwise these types of men do not stop. People shouldn't be fighting for such rubbish, honestly. A marriage is about two people, not one person fighting for a useless marriage
I salute you cc uyimbikodo
I fought for my marriage physically, spiritually and mentally. I thank God that I didn't get admitted for depression.
Are you still there?
@@edithmatsane2932 , no we got divorced.
Man🤨😏...you are strong girl ❤️❤️
Story of my life. Eventually got kicked out and I thank God I'm well and alive great peace of mind
Ngivamile ukubuka lezindaba zemishado.I'm the Pastor,so ngifunda izinto eziningi kakhulu.Ubufebe bubi kakhulu.Lomoya uhleze ufuna into entsha.Nakuloyo akahleli ngiyakuthembisa.It's a spirit behind him,but not him exactly.And his future is already destroyed.Uzokufuna lapho ungakhona,but kuzobe seku late.Into engiyifundayo kulezinhlelo,amadoda angamaqili kakhulu ayahluleka ukubamba isimilo.Kulula ukubona omunye umuntu wesifazane ngisho phakathi enkonzweni nihamba nonke.Ibe nezinqumo ngaye.Abantu besifazane bavamile ukuba ama victims ezinto ezinjena,babekezele,omunye agcine afe ngenxa yalobunuku.Be strong in the LORD.Ame .
Elam ke mfundisi ndinesicelo ndicela abantu abango tata mabakhe babe ne weekend out bengotata kuphela babonisane ukuba amakhaya okhiwa njani amakhosikazi aphathwa njani emitshatweni ....Futhi otata badeala njani nezikete abadibana nazo imihla nezolo ngoba sihleli nje singomama singomama sitshatile serhalela amadoda abantu phofu side silale nawo amadoda kuse ekuseni sicule uAmen enkozweni phambi kwebandla please mfundisi wam ndiyacela
ENGATHI NKOSI INGAKUSIZA UFUNDE UKUTHANDAZA KUZE UNGAFUNDI NGEZINKINGA UPHELELE LAPHO IBA NOKUQONDA SATHANE UYAWUZONDA UMSHADO AND TARGET ABANTU ABASEBENZELA UTHIXO UKUZE BABE AMA REJECT BANGABI NAWO AMANDLA OKUMA SATHANE UYAZULAZULA UYABHONGA NJENGEBHUBESI EFUNA AZOBAGWINYA
This man is going to REGRET doing this to this humble soul who still remained submissive through this pain!
Abasekho abafana naye. Unkulunkule engathi angamnikeza umuntu ozomthanda ngokwanele
Nd he is going to regret shame
True🤞 and yobe sekungana chance yokuphindela emuva.
@@Elvis-Dube-nyI’m sure he misses her everyday.
Kudos to the host for not disturbing the lady. ❤
Coz u busy ngephone yakhe
@@user-tw1pe5ez3w😂 yall always have something negative
Sbonga kona loko…asbongi phone
Lmaoooo 😂😂😂@@zanelenombika8804
Big ups to the guy he is a good listener
You guys must sell the house and get both your share. 😮 Go get what you worked for. This guy and your friend must go build their house. 😮
Don't even bother yourself with the house. You have gone through a lot already. Ungagcina usuyifela and it's not worth it. God will bless you with a better and bigger house.
Oh I love how uBhuti listens to his guest sana 👌👌👌
Yeah he is a good interviewer
But the phone iyaphazamisa...the guy is not even concentrating that's why anga disturb
....
What is it that he's busy with on the phone I'm very disturbed
Yazi calmly... no chipping in whatsoever!
@@amazetimbanekakhulu
Ngaze ngamthanda ucc, ukube bengiyi nsizwa bengizozi thathela yena🤞her voice👌, her humbleness. Lo bhuti ulahlekelwe igolide while he was busy collecting stones.
True🤞 eih Kona iyathandeka ingane bakithi
❤ This is what I call the real beauty!Beauty from inside out!Her mindset!Okuhle kodwa dear empilweni yakho!
She got married at approximately 19-20 years old, the same age as that girl. She lost herself when she got married, but when she met that girl, she discovered her inner child in her and that's what drew her to her. She felt compelled to help her, hence hearing her mention, "I used to pick her up and drop her off at home." This is because her inner child is in need of healing, as she is broken and vulnerable. Ladies, it is crucial to prioritize attending therapy and to engage in continuous healing.
I love how she thinks and also find ways to motivates herself to let go and start over and trust God
I feel sorry for the friend not uNosipho . Ngoba unosipho is Blessed.
The friend is very stupid to think she has won . I pray God answers and honors this humble Lady’s prayer.
The only thing I learned from cellphone messages is to forward everything to my number as a proof
Yoo I love this lady,she’s so calm.
Ngeke u last loyo mshado wabo ushiye umfazi.
That marriage won't last forever... Naye uzothathwa kuye njegoba u friend enzile ku Nosipho
The interviewer 😮😮 why are you busy with your phone when interviewing someone? Its so distracting hai
It’s annoying 😮 me
It's really disturbing, he looked like he wasn't even paying attention.
Disrespectful
He writes his questions on the phone guys.
Yoh this lady is me 😢 I experienced this too
The man has lost the diamond and pick the ston this lady she so humble 🎉sending lots of love sis uJohova akwenzele okuhle ngani ungathola indonda ezokuhlonipha.
Ustrong cc , kudlaliwe ngeskhathi sakho but God was preparing you for smthing big.God of restoration will restore you in every area
Mzukulu you are a true Christian may God keep you, bless you and shine His face to you, your parents and your children are blessed to have you, you're a GIFT.
A gift and example of a good wife and Christian... Your God will fight for you cc wam.
She’s so pretty 🥺🥰 uthobekile loSisi uyambona nje umuntu ozilungele. Angifune kwisa aide of the husband idlale ngengane yabantu🥺 even noma simphoxile she still talks of him kahle and she’s still blushing🥺 you will find your soulmate/husband.
35 and 19 hhe eh I blame abazali. I am 35 and unmarried but I can never marry a 19 year old haibo ukuhlakaniphela ingane engingayizala😳
Mina I am even disturbed by indlela ayi funa ngayo ingane engayazi nokuyazi. He's disgusting nje. He hunted this child. Angazi Lo mama wavuma kanjani. Iskhohlakali sendoda.
@@lungelolamula7075 ungcoliiiiiileeee lomfo🚮🚮🚮
Yabona nje nendlela awamfuna ngayo ivele yandidika. How could her mother allow that? As if she was advertising her.🤧🤧
Sad 😢
❤@@nombewu33
What a calm but strong woman you are MaNjilo❤, You are one phenomenal woman in a million sis, awuve ukhulile enqondweni wow 👏God is with u always🙏.
I love this girl. You are so matured sisi. This fight is not yours and you accepted it. Let God fight for you. There are not many women like you my dear. Umoya wakho😍 ngiyawuthanda. May God bless you with a good husband and honest, loving friends
He is a huge hurt breaker and abused so vividly 😮kodwa uzavuna akutshalile kuwena my sweet 😢
A beautiful woman like this bakithi Thixo, l believe God will see you through.
That man had been bewitched by that fake n evil friend. How can he says he still loves uNosipho while serving her with divorce papers! Wow, kazi lobabe lomdzala kangaka walobola ngemamillion kuze bazali batsengise ngalosisi amncane kanganga! May God restore this humble n beautiful woman multiple times!
Lord Jesus thank you for keeping her safe, thank u for the heart that you have given her....qhubekeka cc to trust God with your life umtshato yinkonzo ka Nkulunkullu believe me you are still your husband's wife your friend will never replace you mark my words.Your friend is just helping you to raise your kids , relax do not rush , wait in the Lordcand allow Him to make you to be what He wants you to be .The battle is not yours continue to forgive both of them and may the peace of God continue to be with you and remain humble and put your trust to God uzazakubeka endaweni ebanzi....oh how I love you and God loves you more🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤ you are a rare Gift (Nosipho).
Ngifisa ngabe nginamandla ndikwenzele into enkulu kakhulu entle , enzele uphole nathi siphole ngoba nathi silimele God bless you sisi wethu
But the man was too old for her from the beginning
Sorry there is no age eluthandweni just that guy ayinangqondo bcz she still love but him and those people cll friends r so dangerous came with evil nalosis didn't see anything wrong ekutshateni ubhuti this teach us couldn't trust anyone accept our lord Jesus 🤞
@@user-xo3wj5rv8rWhat do you mean when you say, "there's no age in love"? Older men can be predatory and controlling. Do you mean you'd allow some old geezer to marry your minor daughter that's still in high school, all because "there's no age in love"?
Age and maturity are different concepts. It seems this lady is more mature than even the ex, sometimes you'll find a 50yr old man acting 30 and feel embarrassed on his behalf. Maturity is bit more complicated
He is a narcissistic, he manipulated her into marrying him and i am shocked her family allowed a 35 year-old man to marry their 19 year- old daughter . Futsi akukho ne message lengenile efonini yasesi it was just his plan to get rid of her
That was the first red flag, the problem our parents put imishado on a pedistal which is wrong she was a child and needed to concetrate in school
Yes he was very manipulative on how he married her, and uqinisile ukuth there was no message it was really his way of getting rid of her such a vile man
You just hit the nail with this comment👏👏👏
Exactly. He knew he was not good enough for women around his age, even those 10 years younger than him!
What a woman!!! I pray God blesses you in every aspect of your life, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH.
Shame nxese...
The level of patience, I cant...😢
But they say silence and being still speaks volumes...when you react thats when they know they got you where it hurts!
God is no fool, thw friend will see flames!
Kuningi cc unkulunkulu akubekele kona izinyembezi zakho zincane kakhulu kunenjabulo ezayo kuwena ngikufisela konke okuhle uwena
This woman is so young for having endured such ayibo, the first red flag was her having to leave her job, I hope she finds peace and healing she's such a good person😠
As a woman never allow yourself to be pushed to leaving your job. No matter how rich your man is, go to work or do business and save money. Think about the future engekho because besides them cheating or leaving unexpectedly, death may come much sooner than you expect!😢
@@spm9130True, never rely on them to that extent. Only God deserves that kind of trust in him. Humans are fallible.
Phephisa sis wami ngicabanga ukuthi awusophinde uthembe umngani 💔💔💔uNkulunkulu uzokuthwala esimeni sonke kahle…kahle ayikho into ewumngani la emhlabeni
Let me tell you something. La relationship will never last trust me . Your X is not happy in that relationship. God will never forsaken you. The devil uhleli se ngawe phambi kwe enemies zakho but God uzakukuhlekisa one day . This was your journey In order to be where you are.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@ncedisakhewumanje wena uhlekani? Or are you this man okukhulunywa ngaye?
@@NeneShabangu im sure its him
Life is not nigerian movies
I hope the son does not grow up to be like his dad ohh My goshh. He better not groom another monster. Also this ladies calmness wow I pray for this❤
Usazophumelela Sisi you were born with your own blessings don't worry
Woooow such a calm cool and collected woman,wish I can have here for myself she deserves more love and care seriously ❤❤❤
sisi, may king Jesus bless and keep you with your children! you don't need that unstable man in your life and how can his family believe him, ababoni ukuthi akekho right ekhanda? good riddens and bayafanelana yena no ex friend wakho....they deserve each other. We will continue to pray for you💖
Wow this lady is beautiful in and out.Uyazi uNkunkulu uzokusula izinyembezi.wait for one or three years things will turn around.mark my words
Waze wangidumaza uBhuti😢😢 - same situation I found myself in through uMnganii. I respect you sis and you will make it. Umuhle kabi wena.
Shes so calm and humble bakithi and u could tell she's been a good wife
Hayi Ndicela i number ka Nosipho ngeke i need her calmness
Udalwe kahle mina ngangiyolwa ibhadi😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
Nami I need her as my friend❤❤❤ she's therapy
That was not meant to be your husband cc abazali bethu sometimes abekho right ukusithathela amadecition ngithanda ukuzithoba kwakho hlalethembeni cc wami be strong.
Very humble....grace will locate you baby girl, you are still very young.
Ngabuzwa ubuhlungu mara unkulunkulu uhlale anamacebo amahle ngathi god bless you cc umuhle❤❤❤
This was a good wife for that blind man he will regret she is a good woman but all teas driped on ground floor uncesters could figure out this pain story the man will cry and for sure the man is not loyalty your friends will cry again I 🤞😢👁️
To find a woman like this is painfully rare. This guy fumbled kubuhlungu 😢
Nkulunkulu uzokupha amandla cc wami lobhuti usazovuna nje uzokulwela Nkulunkulu 😢
Myb wayezokbulala mtase but Nkululunkulu zange avume ngawe,wayengezanga ukuzobheka ukuth uhlel noban mhhhh life😭
God will fight your battle sister, don't worry
The calmness of this woman is scary, never trust a calm woman, she scares me, the way she handled knowing about the relationship and keeping quiet 😂😂
Maybe the guy faked about the mssage accusation so he could be able to cheat on you.
Not maybe he faked the massage that's how they start to cheat..he is a lunatic shame he will never find peace
Exactly what I thought because she did not even see the message and who sent it.
Hayi Nosipho cc its not normal to be so cool. May God give you strength and bring your husband back in Jesus Mighty Name. 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
Oh my god 🙏 the calm in this woman,she is a perfect example of wat I call a super woman
You're yet to meet your soul mate no worries sisi,my first marriage was a disaster and I met my now husband 7yrs ago i couldn't be happier ❤️ I'm loved,spoiled and prioritized😍
Wow. Faithful wives are so scares like an albino. God will bless you Mama and He will fight all the battles for you. Your ex husband has planted a seed and he will reap at the appointed time. Stay blessed always.
This man uzozisola kabuhlungu. 😢
Such a soul indeed people they do take advantage for people like this I’m one of them nami bangigila but uzokukhumbula shame
Nosipho ulunge kwaze Kweqa.Like An angel on earth 😢😢😢😢.
Yo ngiyamsaba mina bengiyothithiza ngitatazele ngife
This woman taught me something yazi. Ukuthula plus ukuvumela isimo kuletha i peace shame nokulapheka okusheshayo
This could never be me....i envy iCalmness ne maturity ka sisi...hope God has bigger plans for her...but it could never be me...ngangingeke nje ngiphume kwami soze
Unfortunately you would die my sister! Asiphumi ngoba sifuna, but we do so to save our lives and those of our children. Besides, no institution is worth dying for!
Love bomb, devalue and discard. The phases remain constant. Sadly tbe friend's days are coming to an end soon too.
You nailed it, she is discarded and the friend is love bombed. Her day will come and be discarded too.
What a strong woman
This is touching, the strong women are still there this is what is called IMBOKODO
Iyooh this cuts so deep
This man lost a gem. Ngisola umuthi kodwa
This girl dodged a bullet. Bright bayafanelana bobanili. This guy was a classic manipulator. Maybe there was no messenge. Maybe it was his way of coursing drama n the go say he doesn't trust her
I think even that "message" does not exist. Could have been an excuse to cheat🙄
That guy was an narcissist 😢
There was no message ..🤞
Eysh Nosipho u r so humble,ababaningi abanjengawe noma bekholwa,uThixo akukhulise cc ,akubusise ngoMkhenyana ofanele wena wakho wedwa,ukhohlwe osekudlule,I salute u
Ey you are such a humble Beautiful woman ❤. I love you so much 💗
❤❤❤yo sheim I know her beshadele ngasekhaya she is a good person umuntu ohlezi ezihlekela bakithi unkulunkulu abenawe cc
But the purpose you were meant to serve is highly impossible to accept.
Only few human beings can be as strong as you are, not even myself😮😮😮
Usisi wakusebenzisela isichitho Sisi enomona,but ngeke luze Lu lasted uThando lwabo ngoba kunezinto ezenziwe,forgive your husband Sisi ,umngani wayengakujabuleli emendweni wakho
Islima sendoda ai
Vele yizilima yaz lezi
Cha, ngiyakwesaba sisi inhliziyo onaya. Ngiyakuhlonipha nangendlela uphathe loludaba kwakho olubuhlu ngu ngalendlela.
May God bless you, ukhulise izingane zakho kahle. Okunye ukubeke eNkosini.
Okubuhlungu ngendaba yakho umfo lo ukusukele useyingàne aphi de adlale ngawe.
Yena uzokukhumbulà nakanjani
Ngiyabonga
So much wisdom on sis Nosipho and God may bless her
Waze wamncane usudlule ezintweni ezingaka. Kuningi esikufundile odabeni lwakho and as strong and calm as you come across but you are also very realistic in that you do indicate that you fell apart and went into depression but took a journey to healing. There will still be triggers but take it one day at the time.
Kulula ukuthi kwakumele wenze lokho noma likhuya but ' Matters of the heart are very complicated yikho kuye kubukeke engathi umuntu naye ulunge lokhu okungenangqondo but kusuke kusenempi phakathi kwengqondo nenhliziyo.
UNkulunkulu aqhubeke akuphe ukuthula nakho konke akuhlelele kona. Uqhubeke uphilise abanye. Many women needed your story for their own healing journey. You will be surprised that some men will learn from the comments besuke ezindleleni zabo zokuhlukumeza. God Bless you Nosipho
Hay losisi shame engake angiphe indlela ahandlisha ngayo izimo kube imina lowo. Her calmness is her superpower.
Ngyafisa nam Yaz
No cc mine ya understand indzaba yakho from the start, ubhuti anizange nasithola sikhatsi sekutsi nijole nibukana kutsi impilo beyinibhekisaphi, truly speaking ubhuti wakucinela ngoba usemncane and even nebazali bakho kwakumele baniphe isikhashana before akushade ubhuti .
Sometimes sathane uyakhona kuletsa intfo nibone ngatsi ngiyo kani idimoni litobhlidlita..but kee cc never give up UNkulunkulu usatokwentela umusa longaphezulu nawe uyotimanga batsi lo baba lesikhondzayo uvala iminyango ngoba ayibona kutsi umntfwanakhe akusiuona eyakhe..Wakho usatovuleka my ssta so soon dont worry keep on praying he knows your story Amen.
Even after everything you've been through you still protecting his dignity, I quote " I will not mention his name bcoz most people know him " again I quote " I will not disclose the financial difficulties that he had "...Woman I applaud you, you are indeed a woman of vertue full of wisdom...❤❤❤
this woman is way too calm ! 😂😂
Hayi ingathi uyagula, this type of calmness is not normal
Such a beautiful soul, May god have mercy on your journey.
Such a humble soul
Ñtanga wam nezingan ezu3 njengam and ziyalingan nobulil buyefan nomoya wakh uyefan nowam engath uyitwin lam❤😂
Waw lendoda yalahlekelwa yiGold engine iphinde iythothole .Uyimbokodo girls ❤noma lkubuhlungu usazokhala lomfana ngyakbongela ngoba akakbulalanga trust in God kuyeza okwakho okuhle ngikufisela iNHLANHLA❤❤❤.Khulisa izingane zakho.Basazohlukana laba very soon.Phola sthandwa sam❤❤❤iNkosi ayphinde ikbusise.
😢😢😢😢 ay no...uhambo lwaba buhlungu...
Eyokuthi usazoshada yaziwa uMdali...isimo adlule kusona sidinga full healing and deliverance....
Yo ngaze ngizwe ubuhlungu ngath ucc wami lona . 😢😢 engath inkosi ingaba nawe cc ukubusise
Molwen
u girl uzoyitho la induku yakhe naye kuzomfica wenze kahle sisi ukhombisile ukuthi ukhuliswe kahle❤❤❤
Ncoooh mngani you strong and ngyazi umoyawakho omuhle uzokubeka la kumele ubekhona❤
Uyiqhawe mumy kodwa usemncanane Jehovah abe nawe kukho konke❤❤