HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF ❤️‍🔥

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  • Опубліковано 28 сер 2024

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  • @cHeRri_bLo3Som
    @cHeRri_bLo3Som 2 роки тому +519

    To whoever’s reading this, you are loved, appreciated and an awesome person! You deserve all the good things coming your way!

  • @robloxadventures9791
    @robloxadventures9791 Рік тому +98

    To whoever searched this, I'm telling you it's gonna be okay, you are perfect and you are a miracle. You are the most important thing to people, you are on the planet meaning that you are chosen to be here. YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU BELONG HERE. YOU ARE 1 IN A MILLION! ❤❤

    • @addison_lynn08
      @addison_lynn08 7 місяців тому +2

      thank you so much this made me cry.

    • @Freeze_Your-Brainn
      @Freeze_Your-Brainn 7 місяців тому

      sorry, not trying to be that guy. I think it's technically like 1 in 400 trillion. because chances for you to be born

    • @joelenehopkins1564
      @joelenehopkins1564 7 місяців тому +2

      💋💋💋💋💋💋🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️

    • @avomanny8906
      @avomanny8906 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you Mr roblox. Means alot jokes aside

    • @Mae-slaysssss
      @Mae-slaysssss 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much I needed this I’m gonna cry I have been kinda starving myself for the past 2 weeks and it’s awful I hate my body and myself so I really needed this tysm❤❤❤❤❤

  • @GodLovesyou11843
    @GodLovesyou11843 15 днів тому +4

    Whoever needs this❤ you are and have always been a beautiful piece of Gods creation❤

  • @hearts2brianna
    @hearts2brianna Місяць тому +3

    I AM BEAUTIFUL, THERE IS NO ONE LIKE ME, AND I AM WONDERFULLY AND FEARFULLY MADE BY GOD ❤

  • @christoferdrewrocks1
    @christoferdrewrocks1 2 роки тому +182

    I’ve never had self love, I could never think of anything that I loved about myself. I’ve always hated myself. Everyone I met in my life would only put me down and say negative things about me. I did end up meeting someone who saw me as a Diamond, someone who could list 50 amazing things about me when I couldn’t even list one:

    • @hearthappyvibes391
      @hearthappyvibes391 2 роки тому +21

      The world is your mirror. When you change how you feel inside your world will shift. Look up self concept

    • @afrodrift2
      @afrodrift2 Рік тому +7

      Even tho people tell me I'm amazing I still hate everything about myself. Especially that I can't see what everyone else sees

    • @eeevara
      @eeevara Рік тому +1

      ​​@@afrodrift2 you see what you see not other person can see your way. so you're unique. what's there to hate? cheer up don't compare 😭❤️

  • @sunnylanexoxo
    @sunnylanexoxo Місяць тому +3

    For someone who needs to hear this.
    I love your hair or lack of
    I love your forehead
    I love eyebrows or lack of
    I love your eyelashes or lack of
    I love your eyes
    I love your ears
    I love your nose
    I love your cheeks
    I love your mouth
    I love your laugh
    I love your teeth or lack of
    I love your chin
    I love your neck
    I love your shoulders
    I love your chest
    I love your arms
    I love your hands
    I love your tummy
    I love your hips
    I love your thighs
    I love your knees
    I love your shins
    I love your feet (Not in that way.)
    I love your moles/marks
    I love your scars
    I love your voice
    I love what you do
    I love your personality
    I love you on your good days
    I love you on your bad days
    I love you when you wear makeup
    I love you when you dont wear makeup
    I love your skin
    I love you when you're sad
    I love you when you're mad
    I love you when you're happy
    I love you when you hate me
    I love you when you love me
    I love you when you forget about me
    I'm proud of you for getting some sleep
    I'm proud of you for trying to sleep
    I'm proud of you for waking up
    I'm proud of you for getting up
    I'm proud of you for brushing your teeth
    I'm proud of you for tending towards your braces
    I'm proud of you for doing your hair
    I'm proud of you for washing your face
    I'm proud of you for doing skin care
    I love you for doing your makeup (if you wear it)
    I'm proud of you that you got out of your room
    I'm proud of you for getting dressed
    I'n proud of you for TRYING to eat breakfast.
    I'm proud of you for being clean
    I'm proud of you for trying to be clean
    I'm proud of you for being alive
    I'm proud of you for being a good friend
    I'm proud of you for trying to be a good friend
    I won't judge you for your looks
    I won't judge you from your race
    I won't judge you for your life
    I won't judge you for your family
    I won't judge you for your past/childhood
    I won't judge you for your body
    I won't judge you for your tears
    I won't judge you for your age
    I won't judge you for your sexual orientation
    I won't judge you for your gender
    I won't judge you for your money
    I won't judge you for where you come from
    I won't judge you for your language
    You aren't ugly
    You aren't too fat
    You aren't too skinny
    You aren't annoying
    You aren't mean
    You aren't evil
    You aren't crazy
    You aren't weird
    You aren't worthless
    You aren't scary
    You aren't selfish
    You aren't too feminine
    You aren't too masculine
    You aren't too young
    You aren't too old
    You aren't disgusting
    You aren't a doormat
    You aren't a toy
    You aren't a monster
    You aren't too short
    You aren't too tall
    You are beautiful
    You are pretty
    You are handsome
    You are kind
    You are cool
    You are everything you want to be
    You aren't perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes. We're all equal.
    I won't judge you for anything
    Im so proud of you
    You probably are like this is not true but I promise you are beautiful ️
    I love you. Now its your turn to share this message

  • @florencephoebe
    @florencephoebe Рік тому +33

    You're a diamond yourself love.. Keep your head held high💪🏼♥️

  • @catherinedavis9278
    @catherinedavis9278 Рік тому +4

    Recovering from betrayal and ruining my current relationship. Thanks needed to hear this

  • @CanIgetsubswithoutpostinganyth
    @CanIgetsubswithoutpostinganyth 2 роки тому +310

    Have you ever looked through the comments and thought-
    *I should have wrote that-*

  • @addison_lynn08
    @addison_lynn08 7 місяців тому +7

    i've never had self love and this video genuinely made me so happy. thank you so much you literally don't know how much this means to me.

  • @Dasheens
    @Dasheens 11 місяців тому +5

    Thank you Niki this so simple and true !!! You are diamond 💝 too

  • @Peekaboo123-o9z
    @Peekaboo123-o9z 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m crying rn🤘🏼 Ty I needed that

  • @badwitch9420
    @badwitch9420 Рік тому +18

    My older self would never believe that one day she’s gonna come to such a point of life that she needs to search ‘’How to love myself☺️💔💔’’

  • @welovekobebryant7452
    @welovekobebryant7452 2 роки тому +52

    Her advice helps my day

  • @urfavfloss
    @urfavfloss 8 місяців тому +8

    Thank you so much. I really needed this. My classmates talk about me when I’m right there. They say that I have elf ears, or my forehead is too big. I have dental issues, and I always have. I had to get an expander and sometimes when I talk I accidentally spit on people. They act like I did it on purpose and that I meant to do it. I will NEVER hurt people. But I don’t think that people(and me) deserve this. So, LOVE YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DONT LISTEN TO WHAT ANYONE SAYS!

  • @floratype54
    @floratype54 Рік тому +1

    I learned to love myself to bring light to myself and how i survived?loving yourself isn't that Easy ,Is hard and painful and hurts somethings ,i haved many childhood traumas in my life ,but..i learned to love myself ,because i noticed that i am not alone ,so Many people including my family didn't believed in me that i was gonna be an amazing ', artist"or to be famous and loved they telled me that i was a "Peace of shit" or nobody loved me" i grow up listening people talking Bad and shits in my Back, and telling me that "i wasn't good enough"people telling me that "i never gonna be happy " that i never gonna be a Star" and my dreams can't comes true ", they all didn't believed in me, they all hated on me just for Little and stupid things , they maked me hate myself ,i suffer from eating disorders and have to confront a abusive family who confront AND fight everyday i haved to confront the bullying That i was living in School ,i cried every night ,i cried in Silence when my heart was dying my mind was drained AND having breakdowns and getting mad for no reason ,trying to cut my skin but couldn't do it ,even if they hated me ,i still loved them , it's hurts to remember when they Hited me, when i did just childhish things like ¿I was a fucking Child ?but they didn't notice they we're making me insecurities ,looking myself disgusted about myself ,crying in the bathroom ,crying in secret in my room,i was empty ,i hated myself my whole live,having social anxiety, i was down and depressed i wanted to die,i tried to kill myself Many times but i couldn't because i noticed that my dad even if he was so far away and i noticed that i still have a family and even if they used me AND manipulated me,i never hated them
    :( but Now..i learned to love my Body to love myself and Now i am a free butterlfy ,so love yourself maybe Is hard but i can say that" you can do it"(and sorry for this entire Bible 😂) that's how i learned to love myself so if i could do it you can too ,i love you 💜 beautiful person ❤️i hope you heal for whatever you have AND be happy ^^😊

    • @blakemore42
      @blakemore42 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience 🥰
      I'm so happy for you 🫂

  • @Lowkeygreenbean252
    @Lowkeygreenbean252 2 місяці тому

    I’ve recently have not loved myself for months and I started crying watching this thanks❤

    • @LeadingLady1.
      @LeadingLady1. Місяць тому

      You are loved. God loves you, Jesus loves you, I love you 😊🎉😊

  • @transformation2424
    @transformation2424 Рік тому +3

    For the person reading this, I just want you to know you are already a very rare diamond 💎
    And they don't have to recognize that only we do

  • @Aesthetic_Hope
    @Aesthetic_Hope 2 роки тому +18

    Thank you
    I really needed this 😞
    Not me tearing up rn 💔

  • @Zeros_Abode
    @Zeros_Abode 2 роки тому +21

    This is… positive.

  • @dakotajones3400
    @dakotajones3400 2 роки тому +14

    I just had low self esteem hit me today and this is very good advice

  • @kaonvaj
    @kaonvaj 23 дні тому

    Thank you. I really needed this tonight

  • @hearthappyvibes391
    @hearthappyvibes391 2 роки тому +4

    You’re a sweetheart love your energy

  • @user-yt5ng1ko7c
    @user-yt5ng1ko7c 6 місяців тому +1

    thank you so much I really needed this

  • @bookswithkeyanna4415
    @bookswithkeyanna4415 2 роки тому +7

    I love this. Thanks girl. 😊

  • @Random_idiot0G
    @Random_idiot0G Рік тому +3

    How I love myself: You dont need to be skinny to be pretty you dont have to wear makeup to make your self pretty you dont have to be strong to help you just need to help you're perfect the way you are and if your crush says "oh you need to work out" "get slim lose weight" "you need more makeup to be pretty" "youre so fat"🙄flip them you deserve better ❤ I wish I could have realized sooner that you shouldnt want to change your self to fit into someone else's fairytell if they dont like you find a better person that doesn't tell you how you should look😕

  • @bushlemon3971
    @bushlemon3971 19 днів тому

    Dude I literally cried. A diamond? 😭🙏

  • @chseylver4180
    @chseylver4180 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this message. 😌💕

  • @bearberryyy
    @bearberryyy Рік тому +3

    Y’all insecure people rlly need to know thats your body, personality, your looks are all unique. Just bc someone or a group said smh abt you doesn’t mean that its true! They just want a reaction!
    LOVE YOURSELF!

  • @Sisterhoodchronicles874
    @Sisterhoodchronicles874 6 місяців тому

    loving yourself is the greatest gift you would ever get yourself💗✨ You are a diamond!

  • @IndiphileManentsa-yf5ph
    @IndiphileManentsa-yf5ph 7 місяців тому

    Exactly love this❤❤❤❤

  • @oki_on_pawz17
    @oki_on_pawz17 Місяць тому

    wow thank you so much this makes me feel way better

  • @Mae-slaysssss
    @Mae-slaysssss 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much I have been hating myself and my body lately it really helped❤❤

  • @user-tb4bs9rl3l
    @user-tb4bs9rl3l 19 днів тому

    thank you this helped me alot

  • @shea5542
    @shea5542 2 роки тому +3

    That’s beautiful. Thank you.

  • @Mar_917
    @Mar_917 5 місяців тому +1

    I found this video at 5:55 pm ❤️

  • @dakowskisworld504
    @dakowskisworld504 Рік тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @pryncessy
    @pryncessy 2 місяці тому +1

    1.your skin is not a paper, so dont cut it
    2. Your neck is not a coat, so dont hang it
    3. Your body is not a book, so dont judge it
    4. Your heart is not a door, so dont lock it
    5. Your life is not a movie, so dont end it
    Remember to always love yourself because your a freaking star

  • @dorixyz
    @dorixyz 8 місяців тому

    Made me cry fr

  • @goldenstandard187
    @goldenstandard187 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @peanutbutterandjelly6464
    @peanutbutterandjelly6464 2 роки тому +5

    Ty:)

  • @athithiyanrajan5671
    @athithiyanrajan5671 Рік тому

    she smiles so much. its so beautiiiiiiful. this made the day for me :)))))

  • @primrosew.3986
    @primrosew.3986 2 роки тому +1

    When already beautiful and attractive people talk about how to love yourself, I just don't feel them talking genuinely and I'm like damn girl/boy you wouldn't really understand how I feel about myself..

    • @hearthappyvibes391
      @hearthappyvibes391 2 роки тому +1

      Self love has nothing to do with looks. Having self comes from with in. You have to change your mindset. Look up self concept… There’s plenty of conventionally beautiful people who have low self esteem. We all have to do the inner work because the world will only mirror how you feel about yourself.

    • @grim1044
      @grim1044 Рік тому

      @@hearthappyvibes391 looks do have a lot to do with it. The example she gave was literally about a diamond. Which is a generally accepted as quite pretty, if you are very attractive its much easier to love yourself than someone who is ugly.

    • @0utWorId
      @0utWorId Рік тому

      Nah im attractive , but when i dont get a lot eye stares , and nervousness when i look at em back, it makes me feel like i came to school ugly

  • @PERSON-77275
    @PERSON-77275 2 місяці тому

    I needed this ty

  • @margaritamalic3974
    @margaritamalic3974 Рік тому

    Luv this!!!❤

  • @Jannah217
    @Jannah217 Рік тому

    Aww thank u ❤

  • @ambraiezzi5037
    @ambraiezzi5037 Рік тому

    I love it. 💙

  • @savantcrystian2686
    @savantcrystian2686 11 місяців тому

    Just gained a new subscriber with this short

  • @joelenehopkins1564
    @joelenehopkins1564 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for making this video!💋💋💋💋💋💋💋🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @michelledressel8471
    @michelledressel8471 Рік тому

    I love her energy

  • @ethancosen2033
    @ethancosen2033 Рік тому +1

    💎 thank you I needed, that 🙏🏽

  • @taylormadev
    @taylormadev Рік тому

    Love this ❤

  • @cammontgomery
    @cammontgomery Рік тому

    Dude your awesome for this one

  • @OfficiallAiHistory
    @OfficiallAiHistory Рік тому

    Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @eeevara
    @eeevara Рік тому

    loving yourself ACTUALLY MEANS exceptiing the way you are... and admiring yourself, your existence and everything about YOU, the way you're build. but accepting yourself is the first step towards loving yourself

  • @tand6845
    @tand6845 Рік тому +3

    Now please make a video on how to make yourself believe that you are a diamond. Thank you. 😭

  • @JuanMFlores97
    @JuanMFlores97 Рік тому

    Your the best 😉!♥️

  • @LeadingLady1.
    @LeadingLady1. Місяць тому

    I'm a diamond!!! 💎💎💎

  • @littlelifegoaster
    @littlelifegoaster Рік тому

    That made me cry thx 🙏🎶💅💜🩵🩶🤎🤍🤭🫠

  • @shivafoods007
    @shivafoods007 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, great words

  • @Tay-wd3iv
    @Tay-wd3iv 3 місяці тому

    Such a sweetheart 💙😂

  • @priyathomas9609
    @priyathomas9609 Рік тому

    That’s so Beautiful! Thank you!!💎🤗💕

  • @samanthab8807
    @samanthab8807 Рік тому

    Excellent metaphor. Great lesson for the day and forever to be remembered.

  • @TheErikapal20
    @TheErikapal20 Рік тому

    This made me cry

  • @gregopalka377
    @gregopalka377 2 роки тому +1

    thank you

  • @chidalumichelle3009
    @chidalumichelle3009 Рік тому

    This is beautiful ❤🥺

  • @user-bl2wy2qc3c
    @user-bl2wy2qc3c 2 роки тому +2

    THIS IS SO GOOD🤩🤩

  • @sunoberashraf9775
    @sunoberashraf9775 Рік тому

    Talk to yourself once in a day otherwise you may miss meeting an excellent person in this world..

  • @MeganWhamGMfan
    @MeganWhamGMfan Рік тому

    I wish I could see myself the way the people who are in my life do but I don’t

  • @missd2939
    @missd2939 Рік тому

    Thank you 😢

  • @TheErikapal20
    @TheErikapal20 Рік тому

    I was thinking about the same thing but I used a beautiful painting inside a 4000 year old tomb
    Just because no one is around to appreciate it
    It’s still a beautiful painting

  • @tealquartz
    @tealquartz Рік тому

    Wow. That's heartbreaking.
    Has anyone figured out the answer to happiness? I've never needed it more. Seriously. 😢

  • @izjaaabi
    @izjaaabi Рік тому

    gosh this just helped me so much

  • @nested9301
    @nested9301 Рік тому

    Thank u 😢

  • @lisa-dj3tf
    @lisa-dj3tf 8 місяців тому +1

    Self love is essebtial youll always be a diamond selfworth isbt from others uts from sekf talk to ursekf giod treat yiyrself good diaminds deserve that !😮😂❤

  • @namritasingh4183
    @namritasingh4183 Рік тому +3

    A diamond wouldn't have had any value if no one would have found it. A diamond is otherwise just carbon. Just a rock. You cant self love if you haven't experienced love before. Thats why such people look for love so that they can finally feel they are worth something. I am not talking about material world, that you dont need anyone to flourish and all you can do it all by yourself, ofcourse, yes you can, you will if you put your heart and soul into it. But what feeds your heart and soul. Love. Whether self love or love from someone else. Its just love. But unfortunately the prerequisite to self love, as we grow and understand.. depends on the love you have received as you grew up! The ones who grew up in violence will find it extremely difficult to love themselves, those living in survival mode find it hard too. Self love is difficult. People are like, you should have self love.. but no one tells me how?? What if you are doing everything that once fed your soul and now nothing works. How else do you give yourself that self love, in that moment, very few are lucky to have some one to rescue them.. everyone needs a pick me up some times, right? So the question is How?

    • @GCJuzDoIt
      @GCJuzDoIt Рік тому

      Diamond is just a piece of carbon unless it's given a proper shape by a human. Just like a dimond, humans need shaping and carving too which we call motivation, love, guidance. But the difference is that a diamond doesn't have a soul, consciousness. We do. We can keep looking for that motivation, love, guidance. If you don't get it from one place, move to the next. But that movement from one place to another is important. Staying at a dead place or giving up on the hopes that you won't find what you need is wrong.
      Now to answer your question on self love as in how to love yourself - it's as simple as loving others. What do you do when you love someone? Try to do things that make them happy, be there for them all the time. So you start by doing what makes you happy. You wanna go watch a movie for a break, go watch it! You feel like eating something? Treat yourself! Don't wait up for someone to do these things for you. I know, motivation is important too, but one realisation is very important : no one is gonna stick around forever. People will leave for numerous reasons, maybe they cease to exist, maybe they are going through something that they need to give time to. So if you don't find anyone around and if you're determined enough to get out of a bad phase in life, you can also motivate yourself too. Eventually when you see how far you've come, how much improvement you've shown, will help you to be happy and love yourself.

  • @Comingintoglory
    @Comingintoglory Рік тому

    First off ur skin is absolutely fucking gorgeous!!! Ur so beautiful and the soul seems to match

  • @sarahramos5587
    @sarahramos5587 Рік тому

    Dannnnngggggg Daniel. Oh my gosh. This was actually really beautiful thank you

  • @DiamondMeraz
    @DiamondMeraz 6 місяців тому

    It sucks because my husband nicknamed me diamond and doesn't treat me like one 😢 but I'm glad u said that and I'm going to try to apply it

  • @OfficiallAiHistory
    @OfficiallAiHistory Рік тому

    This made me smile
    Thank you
    I can now sleep in peace

  • @rosievarriale33
    @rosievarriale33 Рік тому

    Thank you 🥺❤️

  • @ananyakumar8088
    @ananyakumar8088 Рік тому

    thank you ❤️ i was feeling really sad rn

  • @nihow9071
    @nihow9071 Рік тому

    I always cry because I hate myself I’m skinny short … and everyone keeps saying negative things and bullying me

  • @user-nl3yo4yw3f
    @user-nl3yo4yw3f Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @JuneWentToSki
    @JuneWentToSki Рік тому

    I needed this

  • @andonb7481
    @andonb7481 Рік тому

    Very well said

  • @paulsgamingacdeamia
    @paulsgamingacdeamia Рік тому

    I love you.❤❤❤

  • @ShahidaBegum-ux2cd
    @ShahidaBegum-ux2cd Рік тому

    Ok so basically,once I looked in the mirror and looked at myself and went like 'im so ugly,no wonder why I'm left out on my group and my cousin are rude to me'and the next day my bullies told me im so so ugly so I went home and I was so insecure about my face,but the next day my friend group told me 'ur beautiful don't change anything'and I came home and said'ur beautiful no matter what!'
    Ur a diamond
    Ur a miracle to ur family ur not a mistake
    God made u like this,he made u like this because he thought it was very nice that's why
    He helps u through everything
    Yk how glass can break easily,ur heart can break easily
    U need to have self confidence
    Glasses are useful right?ur wayyyyy more useful,ur family wanted to have u and u made ur family happy
    When u were born,a star was born.

  • @ImJonasCortez
    @ImJonasCortez 8 місяців тому

    To add to this metaphor. People will look at themselves and see rock, think it’s boring and ugly, so they build a strong diamond shaped container made from glass plates around of it saying “Look I’m a diamond”. If only they’d drop the glass fake diamond and let the friction of life erode their so called “ugly rock”, they’d find they were already a true diamond all along. A diamond when you first pull it out of a cave looks like any other rock because it’s still submerged :)

  • @Cloud-zk2wr
    @Cloud-zk2wr Рік тому

    I think no make up or plastic surgery will ever make me look pretty i think the worst of my self people judge me for every little thing and those comments hurt every time i look in the mirror those words come to mind.

  • @martajakobson5638
    @martajakobson5638 Рік тому

    I was listening "Try" and I started crying

  • @aprileve411
    @aprileve411 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @celeste2329
    @celeste2329 Рік тому

    periodddd bars

  • @naviecard5439
    @naviecard5439 Рік тому

    Ooooo that's amazing reflection there! 😍...thanks ^^

  • @Thespaceforme
    @Thespaceforme Рік тому

    Tru a diamond ain't need anyone's words, it's like yuh I'm a diamond roar

  • @Mercury2731
    @Mercury2731 2 місяці тому

    Im actually so fucking done i fucking hate myself i literally have no friends and my life is so boring i hate my body and just myself in general i wish so bad that i could be someone else im so stupid and i can never do anything right and my mom always says im a rain cloud on our family i want to love myself so badly but i just cant i dont want to keep being like this anymore i just want to actually like myself

  • @johnsonsimba_
    @johnsonsimba_ 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @andyoh5633
    @andyoh5633 5 місяців тому

    I thought to myself a diamond is diamond but carbon is also carbon

  • @ngusintep6131
    @ngusintep6131 2 роки тому +1

    Does anyone know the title of the background music??🥺

  • @JeenniNiemi-Nikkola
    @JeenniNiemi-Nikkola Рік тому

    pretty