Sometimes I feel lazy and I don't make it effort to dress nice and that's when I see a nice person it's hard work to put in the effort to look great every single time we step out the house 🏡
@@FollowingJesus17 all you have to do is keep it simple but cute there's a few video's on how to do that like how to look polished even when going to the grocery store
I am dating myself and I love it. I am an introvert and if I have to wait for people to go out and enjoy life, i will end up spending my whole life waiting. Most of the things i like doing can be done alone anyways. Its fun to do it with people but its not things i cannot do alone. I am never at home. Always out enjoying life. Be it at concerts, adventure races, yoga class, travelling, museums, hiking, running errands etc. I just live....
@@kf4395 same! For me Traveling, chilling at home, and living life to the fullest do not require another person. Yes it would be nice but even if I am single my whole life, why should it be any less vibrant and joyful? Take advantage of not having so much responsibility while you can.
When Tony described what a woman does after work and on the weekends and then he said “ well maybe he’s a ups delivery guy” I died lollll He described Me 100% I feel attacked 🤣🙄🙊🤦🏻♀️ I work from home and never leave this house ! On top of that I’m like the most introverted person. Goodness gracious! What am I doing?
$#@&*HEY, TONY..PULEASE do some videos for folks my age (45). Married 17 years; now divorced for 5. Idk who, how, when, where to find the one@#$/()!!!@
Sis i be finding your comments under random faith based channels I watch. Every time I do I smile. ❤️ I cover the works of your hands with the blood of Jesus lovely! Amen 🙏🏾
Sitting on the bench “you gotchya lil cupcake”… omg 🤣 this video just made my day. Thank you Tony for reminding us that true honorable funny men still do exist and that positioning can put any dating app to shame. Truly helpful❤
Me too!!!! Thats all I’ve been doing, along with Instagram reels .😂Men see us wherever we are anyway. Im not worried about it. Content and peaceful is more enticing right now. 🙌🙏🏻
All jokes aside, this is a really good video! Tony, you may feel a little bit silly about the fact that you even have to speak on these kinds of topics at times, but you are helping more people than you know with these videos… myself included! I learned a lot from this one! Thank you 🙏🏾
I used to say that these men were scared to approach us until I made myself approachable. smile, be inviting, energy is everything. I've been tore up, running errands, but as long as I was inviting and smiling, men approached. The ones who approach you when you're unapproachable are usually the worst ones.
I'm 20 minutes in. For the women living in fear, my advice to you is to take some self defense classes. When you know how to physically defend yourself you will feel protected everywhere you go🤗
Girl.... how's that gonna work against 2 guys with a gun. 1st guy is the driver, 2nd is the kidnapper. Yall are too naive. It's common for a woman to feel unsafe. These guys blaming women for feeling unsafe and gaslighting them to think theyre crazy when they themselves sit down right away as soon as they see a taller/stronger man. Also, the wouldn't call their daughters crazy at all. As a matter of fact, they'd be the overprotective ones. Men are hypocrites.
We also gotta be prepared that every situation just is not going to go our way. I gotta remember to keep my options OPEN & don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I can’t stop watching this videos I feel like I’m more prepared every day 🫶🏾
Tony ain't lying tho... my brother(45) told me that I need to go & sit at the sports bar & buy myself a drink and an appetizer & watch the game & men will see me. Just sit & be pretty. Lol...its crazy & I never thought of that but he said sit at the BAR not a table. Its simple but true
I feel like good guys have a routine and that’s usually going to consist of working out or maybe at a nice restaurant, church, etc. I’ve ran into some great men walking the trails at my local park and even on some of my solo dates to my favorite restaurant.BUT I definitely suggest staying away from the dating apps 😂
Exactly it's horrible yes some ppl have met their husbands off certain apps but some women really don't know how to use discernment and that could get them in bad trouble on dating apps
@@loismartin9634 not saying that you can’t meet a good guy off of a dating app however a lot of men on there (based on personal experience) have not always been who they say they are or they just want more of a casual hook up. You really have to sift through to find good ones...but that’s just my opinion and experience. I actually have a good friend who met her husband off of Tinder so it is very possible.
Wow! This is me! Friday night (watching your videos) Saturday night (watching your videos) Sunday- online church and watching your videos! LOL! I'm going to create an outdoor schedule right now., lol.
I go out by myself all the time! It’s like quality time and a break from work! I am super approachable and just overall happy! I am waiting on God to make me aware of my husband/ send me my husband. I don’t see many God fearing men out. I do not date at all. 30, with no kids and all I get in the DMV area is the ghost affect, I am too different (not aggressive, mean, checking the phones, things I like to do etc.) I am a chef so I can cook my butt off and would love to have a family! I try to go out throughout the week to different places. I do not do clubs and lounges! Maybe I will run into him in the grocery store ( my second home)! Thank you Tony for your advise!
The breeze way of the malls, walking in high end malls in up scale neighborhoods. Sport bars, Home improvement stores, 🐕 parks, High end car dealerships, Barber shops in high end neighborhoods to get hair trimmed, Look and act like you are already married but relaxed and friendly. Love your insights Mr. Gaskins. You are on point 💯!
My biggest takeaway from this vid is that I gotta position myself and create an outing schedule.👏🏾 Tony' example: *Friday night 6pm to 9pm: social event downtown *Saturday 7am to 9am: Gym 9am to noon: Starbucks Noon to 2 : lunch and walk in the mall *Sunday church Lunch at downtown area
Hi Tony I just started a new hobby roller skating thanks to my 12 year old daughter! I saw so many adults different races, men and women young and old! and it made feel like a kids again. Its so much fun!☺️
This guy is all the way funny!! I was a Lil depressed when I found this video but now I'm cracking up like I'm at a comedy show🤣 ...but he is so on point. But too too funny.!!
The DRAMATICS throughout the Entire VIdeo had me on the floor laughing!!!!!!! Yall better give that man a check!!! Hahahaaa. Thanks for the advice Tony!
I went to a downtown concert and outdoor shopping/bars district by myself last weekend. I saw lots of nice looking men by themselves that I would have talked to. At one point I was sitting on an outdoor patio and 2 men also sitting there separately but by themselves that I gave eye contact to and neither said anything to me. The whole time I was out, there were so many men staring at me but not one even said hi. I know that I’m a nice looking women, but I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong that a man won’t even speak. Do they want to be pursued? At the end of the night a man did approach me and we had a nice conversation and he asked for my number. He is not even someone I would normally be interested in but I respect the fact that he approached me and showed interest. I’m confused and definitely not about to pursue a man. Are men that afraid to approach women? I’m tired of the dating scene and haven’t even started dating yet🙄
You sound like you was out there looking into peoples souls! Lol. Them men ain’t know what to think. Jk. But you see somebody came to talk! Keep going out!
@@TonyGaskins 😂. Just trying not to look standoffish and closed off. Not the creepy eye contact, the subtle type. I’ll keep trying! Thanks for blessing us TG! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I definitely can relate..the other weekend I went out alone and 1 guy did approach me..but it's so rare when it happens..I starting to think I'm hanging out in the wrong areas.
I hardly ever get approached my random men who are actually *decent* men while out and about. It is always at social events, Meetup’s, places where a group is already socializing with me, because then it is obviously easier for them. Not that it will not happen but this is just the trend I have seen.
Dear Tony , thank you for this video . I am single and I have been dating myself for quite sometime . I do go out by myself to town areas or malls most of the time . But this video put into perspective things I have been doing wrong . I look dishelved when I go out and also unfortunately now I'm working and studying as well as battling with chronic illness so I know it's not time for me to find a husband . I trust Gods timing is the best for me .
I go out by myself ALL the time! But I'm always in my head , with my to do list etc& very goals driven.I'm introverted , may have to try the laps, round the mall when I don't have a to do list.!!Sounds like a good social experiment.
I went to a fraternity's Conclave this past weekend. I have never been around that many single, successful black men before. There were some that were there who were married and wanted to "play", but of course I pay those types no mind. All I had to do was like cute and be approachable and I was approached. Very good conversations. I even learned more about stocks and investing from one man. And I have two dates next week 😋
This is the most practical advice I’ve heard on UA-cam yet on this subject! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspective. AND you are funny as all get out!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
OMG!! I lost it on “that creepy van” 😂😂😂😂 I love your depictions and when you get into character with your stories 😂😂😂. But seriously, greatly appreciate all your wisdom. God bless you.
I went out on a date with a guy who's grill on the front of his truck was messed up from hitting a deer , it didn't bother me because I'm not hung up on material things plus he said he could fix anytime if he wanted to, but I looked at how he treated me and where his head was plus I made plenty of jokes about his truck and we just laughed about it each time, but the reason it didn't work out was because I wasn't emotionally ready at the time we met, I was freshly out of a situation and I wasn't emotionally available for him, he was very persistent but I needed more time to heal for myself personally before I could be with him or any other guy whole heartedly . We just parted ways. Maybe one day I will meet a great guy again,until then I'll just continue working on self and evolving.
Tony, I just found your videos. Where have you been??? First, I love the fact that your videos have no intro, you go straight to the topic. Second, not only you are funny but you are wiser!!!! Thank you so much for all the tips🙏🏼. In this video, it was all about me 🙈
Lol this is me, on a Friday night snuggled in bed (working on one of my 3 B's--brand) and watching Tony's videos 🤣. But thanks to binge watching Tony's videos for over a week now, I've been put on to game and am doing the work to heal and change. I elevate my mindset the more I listen and am getting my life back on track, everything in divine order. I've graduated from the Grown Boy University Playlist, watched Single and Healing, Single and Ready, and Independent Women's University. I am starting to take myself out on dates again while I believe God has me in protective custody until divine timing to meet my man. I am elevating my standards, strengthening my boundaries, and taking immense care of my brain and body. I also just bought A Woman's Influence by Sheri & Tony! Thank you for all of the life-changing brotherly advice I've needed my whole life. All of this amazing free information online is a blessing. God Bless You! 🙏✝🌹
Same; and I love cafes! Need to find one near me and set a schedule. I used to go and be super focused on my work( job searching, projects) but maybe if you are just chilling you will look more approachable…
Tony Retired from match making 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You Killing mi softly 🤣🤣🤣✨️✨️ I'm British looking to relocate to the USA 🇺🇸 I love my own company I'm dope...I can eat out, go to the movies all on my own & enjoy ME 😉😊✨️🤝🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Minute 19:33 is me 🤣🤣 hahaha oh my goodness. Aside from that, thank you so much for all the good advice. It is incredibly good wow! Thanks a lot, this is godly awakening for me. Glory to God, I needed to obtain this wisdom. 🤲🏻
I’m so embarrassed because I literally work from home & go to church on Sunday & be expecting to meet my husband somehow😭😂😂😂😂 Thank you Tony cus I must’ve lost my mind
She did this things and she was the one to approach people by saying I love those shoes, that tie, that color looks good on you and so on...they smiled and kept going. I was learning to be free. Who said I couldn't speak to them? 💯😇💯 What I learned years ago was that my man was not in my country? This why my vision wasn't seen but I was in a society that allowed people to use all kinds of thoughts and opinions about how to be "It was going to take a miracle to make me love someone new" Denise Williams Today, I got the man of may dreams and he loves me for me even though I have became a little bit of the mess of this society. "I'm a beautiful mess" always transforming the way to be honest and will keep it up with all the things that are different from what I know about self love and guidance on the words of my life.
Tony you are so funny as do your antics and examples of women's responses. But I really appreciate and respect the info you share with us single women. For women in their 60's like me it is even harder to meet available, decent men. Thanks for caring & sharing your dating tips, and the reality of trying to date in this season. It's a lot of work. I sometimes want to give up but willing to get myself out there after I do some much needed "maintenance on self. God Bless You & Your family. And I just love how you love, respect & cherish your wife. You don't see that too much in your age group 😄
Yes tony it’s best to go alone period because friends will block that blessing also don’t bring yuor kids when I’m with my son he’s a teenager I don’t get guys approach me I’m alone pretty much I enjoy my time out there
You have to keep going out and not expecting to meet a man and don't look for him. I was going about my business when I met my boyfriend when his construction company that he works for was assigned to do a job at my place of employment. Before I met him was happy rather I met a man or not
I have meet and talk to so many men at the skating rink. All different ages. Just nice casual, friendly conversation w/some laughter. Either they are starting to skate again - which is me because it's a great workout or they have been skating for awhile. And when you fall, they help you up - 😂😂. Good music, fun and conversation.
You've also got to be careful if going out with a friend with a Jezebel spirit. That will attract the wrong kind of energy/attention. And you've got my after work weekend schedule down to the T!!! Hahaha🤣🤣 I'll do better.
Thank you I just scheduled my day tomorrow to go on a date alone in a cafè after my lessons . And yes i don't have any gym 30 close to where i live because i live in sudan 😂 but I'm full of hope that i meet someone great here . Lastly i like how you mention Muslims every now and then , being a Muslim i love to hear that . Thank you again.
Tony Gaskins what about 55 + men. What do you think their mindset is about dating marriage & what they may expect or desire to have in females. Is there a difference because seems your videos cater to a younger audience. Love the videos & I've always thought if a woman has questions about men , ask a man.
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That’s why you should always look presentable and be friendly. Anytime, anywhere you could meet Mr. Right.
Sometimes I feel lazy and I don't make it effort to dress nice and that's when I see a nice person it's hard work to put in the effort to look great every single time we step out the house 🏡
@@FollowingJesus17 all you have to do is keep it simple but cute there's a few video's on how to do that like how to look polished even when going to the grocery store
Great comment!
Stop watching them "news" !!
Stop falling asleep to Lifetime!!!
Scurred frfr SMH
This true
" Don't be afraid to date yourself " TG. Being an introvert can be good thing.
True! I go out salsa dancing and I am always alone. Guys always notice this.
I am dating myself and I love it. I am an introvert and if I have to wait for people to go out and enjoy life, i will end up spending my whole life waiting. Most of the things i like doing can be done alone anyways. Its fun to do it with people but its not things i cannot do alone. I am never at home. Always out enjoying life. Be it at concerts, adventure races, yoga class, travelling, museums, hiking, running errands etc. I just live....
@@kf4395 same! For me Traveling, chilling at home, and living life to the fullest do not require another person. Yes it would be nice but even if I am single my whole life, why should it be any less vibrant and joyful? Take advantage of not having so much responsibility while you can.
@@kf4395 same here 😀
Amen!!! I'm doing it now and loving myself 😊 and traveling with myself!
I know Tony is trying to help us, but his acting cracks me up! 🤣🤣🤣
Mad funny
Huhlarious!!!🤣🤣🤣
Yes lmaooo
The acting is spot on.
😆👌🏾
Right😂🤣! Tony got Game in this video😉!!
I'm an introverted and quiet guy, and that would be the perfect setup for me at the mall. I'm not afraid to strike up a convo in the right setting.
I so agree. It just has to be the right time and place! 🌻
If you’re one of the good guys Tony speaks of, good to see a guy chiming in and co-signing his teaching tonight.
That’s right!!!!
I say go for it!!! Just AlwayS be alert....and mindful..but Yeah..GO FOR IT 💯
I agree with Jacqueline 😉 shoot your shot!!
Where are the men who say "hi my name is so and so, you are beautiful may have a moment of your time"... it's literally that easy.
Aww right? A young drive-through guy told me my eyes were beautiful while I was pulling through Taco Bell. Made me feel so good!
@@jenniferthompson5146 I can so relate. If only they knew.
@@jenniferthompson5146 very
Lol on the contrary, I feel like that is the dumbest question ever. They already have the moment if I stopped to listen 🤌🏾🤦🏾♀️
@@frankysuzanne1049 ok I will get back to u. Lol
When Tony described what a woman does after work and on the weekends and then he said “ well maybe he’s a ups delivery guy” I died lollll He described Me 100% I feel attacked 🤣🙄🙊🤦🏻♀️ I work from home and never leave this house ! On top of that I’m like the most introverted person. Goodness gracious! What am I doing?
You should try meetup groups at least!
As an older woman (45) I feel the "downtown area" is NOT the scene for people my age. It's all college kids.
$#@&*HEY, TONY..PULEASE do some videos for folks my age (45). Married 17 years; now divorced for 5. Idk who, how, when, where to find the one@#$/()!!!@
Theee most introverted 🙋🏾♀️ 💯 😭
Me too I work from home. When I worked for the hospital men would approach all the time but I wasn’t ready but now that I’m open I just sit at home 😒😂
“If you scary you need to pray” pahaha 😂😂😂😂
Hey Breeny happy to see you here ❤
Sis i be finding your comments under random faith based channels I watch. Every time I do I smile. ❤️ I cover the works of your hands with the blood of Jesus lovely! Amen 🙏🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂😔
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"I'm afraid to go out by myself, then you are afraid to date." TG
Facts
People like me,,,afraid to go out alone
I’m also afraid but it’s due to panic attack I recently had . I however go to my local cafes alone but if I go further I have to meet someone.
Sitting on the bench “you gotchya lil cupcake”… omg 🤣 this video just made my day. Thank you Tony for reminding us that true honorable funny men still do exist and that positioning can put any dating app to shame. Truly helpful❤
At this point I'm much more content sitting at home watching Tony's videos than actually going out on a date!
Me too!!!! Thats all I’ve been doing, along with Instagram reels .😂Men see us wherever we are anyway. Im not worried about it. Content and peaceful is more enticing right now. 🙌🙏🏻
Now don’t get me wrong. I like Tony and all but I don’t mind going on a date with a normal man.
I feel u 😁
So, Tony was talking about y’all staying home watching his videos? 🤣🤣🤣
All jokes aside, this is a really good video! Tony, you may feel a little bit silly about the fact that you even have to speak on these kinds of topics at times, but you are helping more people than you know with these videos… myself included! I learned a lot from this one! Thank you 🙏🏾
Ok ok lol....why i feel thi man talking bout me
Ditto!!!
Tony and his impressions of women is Hilarious!!! The discoloration of the butt cheeks took me out😂😂😂😂
I used to say that these men were scared to approach us until I made myself approachable. smile, be inviting, energy is everything.
I've been tore up, running errands, but as long as I was inviting and smiling, men approached. The ones who approach you when you're unapproachable are usually the worst ones.
I could seriously listen to Tony all day, even if it’s been said before. He’s truly heaven sent🙏🙏
9:24 -9:35 TONY!! 🗣The shade lol!! That darn butt discoloration is a struggle though 😪😂
Lol shoot!!!! Shot aha
Ok. That made me mad like why are you looking so hard bruh 🤨
ikr!
😂
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Thank you Tony Gaskin for posting consistently and providing this God given content for free. You’re saving so many women. Thank you! 🙌🏾
He & his wife are great blessings to us today 🙏 very much needed as God long sense knew we wanted & needed now!!!
I'm 20 minutes in.
For the women living in fear, my advice to you is to take some self defense classes. When you know how to physically defend yourself you will feel protected everywhere you go🤗
Thanks
I got the blicky lol
@@TheBullyAvenger send me one
No woman can take a guy, no matter how many self-defense classes she has take.
Girl.... how's that gonna work against 2 guys with a gun.
1st guy is the driver, 2nd is the kidnapper. Yall are too naive.
It's common for a woman to feel unsafe. These guys blaming women for feeling unsafe and gaslighting them to think theyre crazy when they themselves sit down right away as soon as they see a taller/stronger man.
Also, the wouldn't call their daughters crazy at all. As a matter of fact, they'd be the overprotective ones. Men are hypocrites.
Pro tip: Get OUT of the house!!
We also gotta be prepared that every situation just is not going to go our way. I gotta remember to keep my options OPEN & don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I can’t stop watching this videos I feel like I’m more prepared every day 🫶🏾
Comfortable
Cute &
Classy
I'll keep that in mind, before stepping out the door.
Big city girl here. I moved to small one traffic light town a few years ago. You are soo right. Small town is no place to roam and search for men.
Tony ain't lying tho... my brother(45) told me that I need to go & sit at the sports bar & buy myself a drink and an appetizer & watch the game & men will see me. Just sit & be pretty. Lol...its crazy & I never thought of that but he said sit at the BAR not a table. Its simple but true
“I did not want my life to come to this”. Lol 😂
I fully understand... I've always had so many men after me. I don't even know what happened now. Lol
I agree Tony. Your shoe game got to be on point.
The shoes are important. They make or break an outfit
‘You a diamond now, but you keep putting on that brown bag outfit!’ 🤣🤣😂 You are too much Tony!! So real! 👏🏽
“To where dat little bit of discoloration be..” I just hollered!!! 🤣🤣🤣
"Like a little Yorkie" 🤣you are such a comedian I could not stop laughing this whole video (A++ advice btw)
I feel like good guys have a routine and that’s usually going to consist of working out or maybe at a nice restaurant, church, etc. I’ve ran into some great men walking the trails at my local park and even on some of my solo dates to my favorite restaurant.BUT I definitely suggest staying away from the dating apps 😂
Exactly it's horrible yes some ppl have met their husbands off certain apps but some women really don't know how to use discernment and that could get them in bad trouble on dating apps
@@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves that part lol
So what's wrong with dating apps?
@@loismartin9634 not saying that you can’t meet a good guy off of a dating app however a lot of men on there (based on personal experience) have not always been who they say they are or they just want more of a casual hook up. You really have to sift through to find good ones...but that’s just my opinion and experience. I actually have a good friend who met her husband off of Tinder so it is very possible.
@@missjadabeta I feel you. And yes, we do have to be very careful but that's with dating period in today's world. Have a blessed evening sis 😄
This is another sign that I need to go out and be seen.
Same..😏
Me too 😩
🤣I had to comment again...I laughed so much in this video
We are in the same boat Ashleen… I thought I was tripping
That means you have a good sense of humor! Bless y’all!
He is too dang funny! 😅🤣
“This a WHOLE dissertation nih…somebody gimme a doctorate…” 😆😂🤣…gotta love TG…LOL.
Guys have always called me cute instead of hot.. I use to think it was a bad thing.. But now I'm content with that 😊
Cute means your face is more child like it's not a downgrade by any means
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Wow! This is me! Friday night (watching your videos) Saturday night (watching your videos) Sunday- online church and watching your videos! LOL! I'm going to create an outdoor schedule right now., lol.
Big brother Tony, you definitely deserve a doctorate! I appreciate your selflessness
I done dropped my phone laughing at you Tony 🤣 Got me cackling at midnight
Truth!!!
I know right
I go out by myself all the time! It’s like quality time and a break from work! I am super approachable and just overall happy! I am waiting on God to make me aware of my husband/ send me my husband. I don’t see many God fearing men out. I do not date at all. 30, with no kids and all I get in the DMV area is the ghost affect, I am too different (not aggressive, mean, checking the phones, things I like to do etc.) I am a chef so I can cook my butt off and would love to have a family! I try to go out throughout the week to different places. I do not do clubs and lounges! Maybe I will run into him in the grocery store ( my second home)! Thank you Tony for your advise!
😂😂 "The last little bit of bootie cheek hanging out!" I cannnnn NOT!
"You're a diamond but you keep wearing that brown bag outfit." 🤣🤣🤣
14:13...not like a lil Yorkie!!! Dead...the growl is everything.🤣🤣🤣🤪🤪🤪♥️♥️♥️
The breeze way of the malls, walking in high end malls in up scale neighborhoods. Sport bars, Home improvement stores, 🐕 parks, High end car dealerships, Barber shops in high end neighborhoods to get hair trimmed, Look and act like you are already married but relaxed and friendly. Love your insights Mr. Gaskins. You are on point 💯!
My biggest takeaway from this vid is that I gotta position myself and create an outing schedule.👏🏾 Tony' example:
*Friday night
6pm to 9pm: social event downtown
*Saturday
7am to 9am: Gym
9am to noon: Starbucks
Noon to 2 : lunch and walk in the mall
*Sunday
church
Lunch at downtown area
True. I need to leave the house unless I want to date the UPS man
Hi Tony I just started a new hobby roller skating thanks to my 12 year old daughter! I saw so many adults different races, men and women young and old! and it made feel like a kids again. Its so much fun!☺️
This guy is all the way funny!! I was a Lil depressed when I found this video but now I'm cracking up like I'm at a comedy show🤣 ...but he is so on point. But too too funny.!!
The DRAMATICS throughout the Entire VIdeo had me on the floor laughing!!!!!!! Yall better give that man a check!!! Hahahaaa. Thanks for the advice Tony!
This man has me cracking up all the time. I swear I tune in for the comedy.
I went to a downtown concert and outdoor shopping/bars district by myself last weekend. I saw lots of nice looking men by themselves that I would have talked to. At one point I was sitting on an outdoor patio and 2 men also sitting there separately but by themselves that I gave eye contact to and neither said anything to me. The whole time I was out, there were so many men staring at me but not one even said hi. I know that I’m a nice looking women, but I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong that a man won’t even speak. Do they want to be pursued? At the end of the night a man did approach me and we had a nice conversation and he asked for my number. He is not even someone I would normally be interested in but I respect the fact that he approached me and showed interest. I’m confused and definitely not about to pursue a man. Are men that afraid to approach women? I’m tired of the dating scene and haven’t even started dating yet🙄
You sound like you was out there looking into peoples souls! Lol. Them men ain’t know what to think. Jk. But you see somebody came to talk! Keep going out!
@@TonyGaskins 😂. Just trying not to look standoffish and closed off. Not the creepy eye contact, the subtle type. I’ll keep trying! Thanks for blessing us TG! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I definitely can relate..the other weekend I went out alone and 1 guy did approach me..but it's so rare when it happens..I starting to think I'm hanging out in the wrong areas.
@@Shayvideos1 I don’t get it. 🤦🏽♀️
I hardly ever get approached my random men who are actually *decent* men while out and about. It is always at social events, Meetup’s, places where a group is already socializing with me, because then it is obviously easier for them. Not that it will not happen but this is just the trend I have seen.
Tony is always right on time
I can’t take it!!!! I’m on the floor Tony!!! 🤣😂😂😂 “Don’t take your guard dog!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dear Tony , thank you for this video . I am single and I have been dating myself for quite sometime . I do go out by myself to town areas or malls most of the time . But this video put into perspective things I have been doing wrong . I look dishelved when I go out and also unfortunately now I'm working and studying as well as battling with chronic illness so I know it's not time for me to find a husband . I trust Gods timing is the best for me .
This Message is Powerful!!!
I sure needed to hear this!!! Not the Brown Bag Outfit!! I like that!! Can't meet a gentleman at the house🙏🙏❤
I go out by myself ALL the time! But I'm always in my head , with my to do list etc& very goals driven.I'm introverted , may have to try the laps, round the mall when I don't have a to do list.!!Sounds like a good social experiment.
I went to a fraternity's Conclave this past weekend. I have never been around that many single, successful black men before. There were some that were there who were married and wanted to "play", but of course I pay those types no mind. All I had to do was like cute and be approachable and I was approached. Very good conversations. I even learned more about stocks and investing from one man. And I have two dates next week 😋
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Rock that sis & be blessed!!!!
Give us an update!
10months later here, Update plsssss💜💜
This 3yrs later but I'm crying when you did the guard dog friend bit 😂
This was hilarious!!! Tony said "He didn't want his life to come to this" to have to answer this question!!!
"...did we call you?..." 😂😂😂 I had a friend like that, till I realized she was toxic.
That part was so funny!
Yup! Sounds like a joke but it’s an actual anecdote! 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Lol. Read this as he said it🤣🤣🤣
14:16 like a lil Yorkie took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
The lifetime, pink key chain with the pepper spray that’s so me, jokes have me rolling 😂. Mr/Mrs Gaskins at my wedding 🥳🍾
It’s the orthopedic shoe leaning to the side for me 😂
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Ikr 🤣🤣🤣 Bro Tony is to funny
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This is the most practical advice I’ve heard on UA-cam yet on this subject! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspective. AND you are funny as all get out!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
This video made my day! It's so full of wisdom and what makes it even better is the humor 😂 ...so accurate!
OMG!! I lost it on “that creepy van” 😂😂😂😂 I love your depictions and when you get into character with your stories 😂😂😂. But seriously, greatly appreciate all your wisdom. God bless you.
Don't know where to start brother Tony you have me cracking up 😁😁😁🤣 your talking facts tho
Tony you are hilarious!
Ingrid said it best!!! I’m rolling 😂🤣
Without even trying 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
I went out on a date with a guy who's grill on the front of his truck was messed up from hitting a deer , it didn't bother me because I'm not hung up on material things plus he said he could fix anytime if he wanted to, but I looked at how he treated me and where his head was plus I made plenty of jokes about his truck and we just laughed about it each time, but the reason it didn't work out was because I wasn't emotionally ready at the time we met, I was freshly out of a situation and I wasn't emotionally available for him, he was very persistent but I needed more time to heal for myself personally before I could be with him or any other guy whole heartedly . We just parted ways. Maybe one day I will meet a great guy again,until then I'll just continue working on self and evolving.
Could you go out with me
“ is that what they called?” Sprinkles send me a check! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony, I just found your videos. Where have you been??? First, I love the fact that your videos have no intro, you go straight to the topic. Second, not only you are funny but you are wiser!!!! Thank you so much for all the tips🙏🏼. In this video, it was all about me 🙈
“To God be the glory” I love it!
“What is he saying, Donkey?” 😂…I love Dunk lows, they are cute & comfortable! Thank you Tony for the added “fashion sense” . I’m taking heed!! 👏🏾💯
Tony know he can tell a story! Teaching and preaching! Love him!!💕😂
Looking all dehydrated, not thirsty 😂🤣
A little parched there huh? Lol funny
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I was dying 😂😂 he really is so funny
Lol this is me, on a Friday night snuggled in bed (working on one of my 3 B's--brand) and watching Tony's videos 🤣. But thanks to binge watching Tony's videos for over a week now, I've been put on to game and am doing the work to heal and change. I elevate my mindset the more I listen and am getting my life back on track, everything in divine order. I've graduated from the Grown Boy University Playlist, watched Single and Healing, Single and Ready, and Independent Women's University. I am starting to take myself out on dates again while I believe God has me in protective custody until divine timing to meet my man. I am elevating my standards, strengthening my boundaries, and taking immense care of my brain and body. I also just bought A Woman's Influence by Sheri & Tony! Thank you for all of the life-changing brotherly advice I've needed my whole life. All of this amazing free information online is a blessing. God Bless You! 🙏✝🌹
I think I must be going to the wrong Starbucks 🤣
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I heard that Lady!!!! Me too
Me too! 😄
My problem is I always go to the drive thru. I don't want to go in.😩😩🤦♀️
Same; and I love cafes! Need to find one near me and set a schedule. I used to go and be super focused on my work( job searching, projects) but maybe if you are just chilling you will look more approachable…
I just love your truth..and how you act out the different scenarios 😂
This was so informative yet so light hearted and funny. Really love your content Tony.
Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
That ‘one traffic light city’🚦 took me out y’all❣️🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
This video literally just made me realize how much I stay at home.
Tony Retired from match making 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You Killing mi softly 🤣🤣🤣✨️✨️ I'm British looking to relocate to the USA 🇺🇸 I love my own company I'm dope...I can eat out, go to the movies all on my own & enjoy ME 😉😊✨️🤝🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Minute 19:33 is me 🤣🤣 hahaha oh my goodness. Aside from that, thank you so much for all the good advice. It is incredibly good wow! Thanks a lot, this is godly awakening for me. Glory to God, I needed to obtain this wisdom. 🤲🏻
I’m so embarrassed because I literally work from home & go to church on Sunday & be expecting to meet my husband somehow😭😂😂😂😂 Thank you Tony cus I must’ve lost my mind
Thank you Tony for what you do ! You are teaching us ladies what we truly need to know. God bless!
She did this things and she was the one to approach people by saying I love those shoes, that tie, that color looks good on you and so on...they smiled and kept going. I was learning to be free. Who said I couldn't speak to them? 💯😇💯
What I learned years ago was that my man was not in my country? This why my vision wasn't seen but I was in a society that allowed people to use all kinds of thoughts and opinions about how to be "It was going to take a miracle to make me love someone new" Denise Williams Today, I got the man of may dreams and he loves me for me even though I have became a little bit of the mess of this society. "I'm a beautiful mess" always transforming the way to be honest and will keep it up with all the things that are different from what I know about self love and guidance on the words of my life.
We have a christian cafe here in my town so guess what I'm doing every Friday! okay now I'm excited LOL
Tony you so funny! 😂 My goodness!! “The hairdos with the bumps curls under”… tears 😭 laughing 😂 at this commentary!!😆 I’m sooooo weak!😂😂😂😂
"My mama used to wear that in '95!" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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"I'm here to change lives and help people navigate life and dating a little easier" this is true
Tony you are so funny as do your antics and examples of women's responses. But I really appreciate and respect the info you share with us single women. For women in their 60's like me it is even harder to meet available, decent men. Thanks for caring & sharing your dating tips, and the reality of trying to date in this season. It's a lot of work. I sometimes want to give up but willing to get myself out there after I do some much needed "maintenance on self. God Bless You & Your family. And I just love how you love, respect & cherish your wife. You don't see that too much in your age group 😄
Seriously Tony is good for your Soul!!! Havent watched his videos in a few months. At least I've been working on my business for my daughter & myself💖
Yes tony it’s best to go alone period because friends will block that blessing also don’t bring yuor kids when I’m with my son he’s a teenager I don’t get guys approach me I’m alone pretty much I enjoy my time out there
You have to keep going out and not expecting to meet a man and don't look for him. I was going about my business when I met my boyfriend when his construction company that he works for was assigned to do a job at my place of employment. Before I met him was happy rather I met a man or not
Exactly people are so caught up with the idea and stressing themselves out. Enjoy life as you go
I have meet and talk to so many men at the skating rink. All different ages. Just nice casual, friendly conversation w/some laughter. Either they are starting to skate again - which is me because it's a great workout or they have been skating for awhile. And when you fall, they help you up - 😂😂. Good music, fun and conversation.
You've also got to be careful if going out with a friend with a Jezebel spirit. That will attract the wrong kind of energy/attention. And you've got my after work weekend schedule down to the T!!! Hahaha🤣🤣 I'll do better.
@@LA-wv7gf yes!!!!!!! I think we all know someone like that. I be like that's them, that's not me. Lol. I don't want to have to explain.
Tony lol 😆 I laughed and laughed, great job on this one 👏
Learning and laughing, you are the best Tony
Bro Tony this video is so hilarious but so much Truth at hand, you so on point with thoes friends blocking your blessings. Am loving this video . 🤗
Thank you
I just scheduled my day tomorrow to go on a date alone in a cafè after my lessons . And yes i don't have any gym 30 close to where i live because i live in sudan 😂 but I'm full of hope that i meet someone great here .
Lastly i like how you mention Muslims every now and then , being a Muslim i love to hear that .
Thank you again.
Mr. Gaskins you are so funny.. hilarious!!! This is truly a positive message with great humor and examples.
Such a refreshing video. Mr Gaskin's energy is definitely lighter after the vacation. This is so beautiful 🤎
🤣🤣😂😂 Not the fillers and the bootey cheeks 🤣😂 I’m laughing so much. The advice sounds pretty common sense to me. Maybe I’m old school, that’s why. 😊
I trust God for that too. Patient. Much-Love.
Tony Gaskins what about 55 + men. What do you think their mindset is about dating marriage & what they may expect or desire to have in females. Is there a difference because seems your videos cater to a younger audience. Love the videos & I've always thought if a woman has questions about men , ask a man.
I wasn’t in the greatest mood this morning. When Tony started growling at @14:13, it made me laugh for real! Thanks for that. 😂😆🤣