Yes being thin or fit is a huge advantage that lots of women underestimate. You can be any size and get a man but if you can be disciplined and work on your body the natural way the world is your oyster. Dating is A LOT easier as a fit/fine girl especially if you are a woman over 35. Most women let their bodies go around that time. You have ALL the options after 35 if you keep it tight. When you go to the 5-Star resorts all you see are fit women of all ages with their rich men. 💕💕
So so true. If there’s one thing women should do it’s maintain their bodies. As long as their fit and healthy mental and emotional improves dramatically and you’ll have men tripping over each other to get to know you.
@@edema2274 Fit women are number one in line. You can have a cute face but if you are chubby it’s a no go. Take it from me I am married to a wealthy white man and I know their MO. They will support you if you are trim and cute and non problematic (the latter so).
I promise ya'll. Listening to Shera while text messaging guys or while online dating. Also while getting ready for dates and driving to dates and before phone calls or video chats with guys. The energy of shera gives you the confidence like no other. It's like a magnet to to the male gaze. Oh, her points only work for the correct target. Dusties, weak, cheap, insecure, user males crumble under these guidelines.
most definitely doing this while getting ready for a date, or just to go out and be cute and feel seen... the boost of confidence I get watching her videos 😋
heavy on crumble. tried my new standards on my ex-dusty and he became unrecognizably angry. standards are a handheld mirror to men with nothing to offer
Girl I decided I was done about 3 years ago when I was 33. My boyfriend was 60. I haven’t worked since, he bought me a house and multiple cars. I don’t work, he pays all of the bills. Just discovered your channel the other day and everything you’re saying is facts. I know because I’ve lived by this law and I will never look back. #SprinkleMFSprinkle.
Old men are so hard to deal with. Not only do they look disgusting, have poor manners and dress like hell but the entitlement they have for young women is unbelievable. I met up with this 62 year old man for wine/lunch and he burped and farted TWICE during the date. I had to leave and blocked him I was so disgusted.
He felt you were entitled to smells his fart, slurps and burps and then take it all in. He is definitely closer to where he is going, if you get my drift.This was so funny it made my day.
I also believe in no cursing. In not cursing, I inadvertently communicate to men that I value careful communication. I would never want a man to believe he could be overly familiar, or overly casual with me. I want to avoid men rushing me or making the situation awkward. I think that is important and Shera is right, he knows I am an elegant woman💕
@@barbaramay9288 better to be too uptight than to be too loose tbh and if they see you not cursing to be too uptight then they’re just wanting you to lower your standards so that they are more comfortable, not considering that you would then be uncomfortable when lowering them.
Ladies, the concept of men ordering for you in restaurants doesn’t have to mean he chooses what you eat. When on a date, look over the menu, then before the waiter comes you simply tell him what you’re going to order, for example, “The Chilean sea bass sounds really good. I’ll have that and a side of asparagus”. Then, what typically happens is, when the waiter comes he just verbally conveys what you said you’ll have to the waiter, “She will have the Chilean sea bass and….”. ❤️💫🌍
One guy told me I didn’t order enough, and told the waiter what I ordered would be our shared appetizer and then chose something completely different for my entree. So controlling..
No cursing, smoking or drinking. If you must drink, drink champagne. Don‘t interrupt him, present your opinions with a smile and wit. Just like Shera 🤩 She got a high value man, so will you
Yes! Emphasis on the no smoking, ladies smoking anything will give you wrinkles and bad breath. If you MUST have weed do the edible option and for the cigarette smokers please stop, you’re nasty lol
Lmaooo sad life, having to live with a man you are neither attracted to or even love. No thanks. Anybody can get money now. Women can get their own money now. Why must I sacrifice an attractive man and love
@@vickyperez213Black and grays are men colors. Once I started exercising for a year 5 days a week eating clean and meditation raised my vibration and inter peace and ease where my feminine energy flowed out of me attracting high value men left and right. I started wearing neon colors orange green pink whites.
I determine them by their actions as early as meeting before the 1st date. Men think they're the only ones categorizing women and putting them in boxes, but us women do it too. Lol. I know who's gonna be in the friendzone right from the first interaction. Ciao.
Posture, pronunciation, a positive attitude each is very attractive to an upper class man. Taking classes, running a small non-profit, writing books will impress men.🌹
@@nenisguevaragomez8122 Whatever you want to learn more about. How to start a business! Computers. Another language. Get a BA or Masters, in a subject that fascinates you. Make a goal and achieve that goal. Think.
@@nenisguevaragomez8122 just… have hobbies. Do workshops accordingly. What are YOU interested in? Or what is the archetype of man who you’re seeking interested in? Golf class, horseback riding lessons, figure skating/barre, ?? Idk 🧠 if at the very least you dont know what you like, think abr what things are appealing to men you like.
As an African woman who was raised seeing struggle love, single mothers and then married to a diagnosed narcissist, I had no chance. I was a masculine, competitive albeit extremely successful woman who could out do myself and most men. When my most recent relationship failed, I realised something had to give. I had been conned to do it all! Thankfully I dress extremely well and feminine and have repeatedly reinvented myself so this time I am being a soft woman. I am lucky I can get the men easily so now to find a husband. Recently I went to a work event and left early and didn't drink to match my male colleagues which used to be standard procedure and is in banking. Baby steps but I got this. Thank you Shera. ❤️
I couldn’t get a man in my small town. I went somewhere else and got game. Everyone was getting everyone pregnant in my town. I didn’t have time for the shenanigans. And I stay away from online. I would rather meet someone in person, and I did that by moving.
Preach on this I have already seen the difference in how men treat me from losing weight , you get treated wayyy better having a pretty face is a bonus once the weight goes , I now workout four to five times a week , I have watched you and had tremendous improvements in my life please take care of your body
Here because i work two jobs and I’m tired and tired of being approached by trash when i work too hard. Upgraded my living situation Keeping up with my monthly facials, hair appointments, nails etc. Let go of toxic friends and family
been binging your vids heavy the last 2 weeks. i feel like a new woman!!! already scaring the dusties away! babbbbbyyyy i have never felt more beautiful & more feminine. Thank you for your wisdom.
Ladies YOU determine your worth! Men simply look at you and sense how much you value yourself That’s why it is important to make conscious decisions in every area of your life (dresswear,health,attitude etc) so you can communicate that you are valuable Simple as that No one else tells you how much you are worth. If you don’t know who you are and what you bring, the world will undervalue you…
this is so true. no matter how long i go single, i wear sexy lingerie always and always have on high quality perfume w my nails done. i will never let this standard go for myself because it's about the value i see in me.
@@BlackberryTitties they're out changing themselves to appease men who they just admitted are psychotic and not be trusted. It baffles me. There's nothing to respect when it comes to men. What the hell are women doing?
I am 38 and thin and I attract all types because I am thin.I don't yet have wrinkles because of my skin routines.I hope that it stays this way.Not just for the men but for my health.
Listening to Shera is like a free therapy to me. Growing up being a people pleaser and a pick me without knowing, It heals me listening to you my dear. I am getting happier and feeling really validated. Sprinkle sprinkle.
I used to be embarrassed by hanging out with old unattractive men in public so I always took a friend with me (or she took me when she had someone). We also always tried to take them to the restaurants where it was the least chance of someone we knew seeing us. Now I don’t care.
I appreciate this advice but the best way to get a quality man is to stop worrying about it and focus on loving yourself. Men love when a woman is at her best. Just be your best most comfortable self and someone that actually meshes with you will be drawn to you automatically. Better than any mind trick you can play, and it'll last!
@@themarquis8716 why should it? No one belongs to you or anyone else. People are too obsessed with possession which is extremely unhealthy. No one person can truly fulfill your every need. That's why you have to have self love first, so if they leave you don't fall apart even if you break down at first. Pain is natural and time is no man's friend so just be in the moment and you might it find it to last a life time. Men respond to our energy more than anything even if they don't realize it. So even if you find the "perfect" man, y'all still might not mesh because he's not meant to be YOUR man. The fastest way into a man's mind is self care, the fastest way to the heart is respect for him but primarily yourself. Men worth keeping really dig women with boundaries. It makes her almost seem untouched when a women knows how and where to say NO regardless of your past. How do I know this stuff? I ASKED GROWN MEN, good and bad men. All of their answers were very similar even if their individual approaches were VERY different.
yep especially when men ask you out on dates. i let them suggest to see where they are at. i'm not trying to change them if they pick sub-par restaurants. i just don't go lol. the man should be choosing amazing restaurants
Shera has so much patience, answering all these dumb questions. I realize that most of us woman are the problem . Including my self but not anymore thanks to Shera 😂
Thank you for this video Shera! I wish I could have watched this in my 20s. I was a very hoity-toity high class young lady, but I lacked true self confidence so people valued me less. Self confidence was the hardest thing for me to achieve, but now that I think THE MOST HIGHLY of myself, I have returned to the life of getting everything that I want again but now I know and believe that I deserve it!
@@bibibomba4515 I started putting myself first, stay focused on my own wants & goals, and kick the negativity out of my life. I only found Shera a few months ago. She has confirmed to me that I wasn’t wrong and I need to keep pushing through. Most people who were not really for me tried to discourage me and really had me reconsidering myself but God has sent Shera to us to confirm what we already think/know and gives us many many tools to keep pushing forward and keep LEVELING UP! 💯💯
@@bibibomba4515 I wrote a long reply before but I’m just seeing that it didn’t post! 😩😩 I hope this helps! Stay steadfast to your own wants/goals. Anyone telling you different is a hater/pickme/Barbara the Builder/Dusty. Opinions from any of these people Need to go directly in the trash!
Treat yourself as a garage for expensive cars, just for Ferrari or Bentley etc,. When dusties about to park, he will see those flashy cars and will find a way out himself. 😂😂😂
Men do think this way. I know for some women it’s hard to accept. BUT it’s true and doing the things shera suggests works. I tried these things as an experiment, and got 2 proposals within 2 years. I kinda had to laugh at myself. ALSO, you do these things all while being ur true authentic self. Men can tell when you’re being real.
51:36 GOLD These gentlemen are usually professionals or retired professionals. They do NOT want any resemblance of work life while they are in the presence of a lady.
Shera, I would take advice from you because you have secured a provider male for life. That proves you know what you're doing and how to be successful.
One of the reasons guys won’t approach you at regular places is because you don’t look like a dusty can approach you! Baby when I go anywhere I’m looking my best because my husband will ask for my number because I have class on sight! They know not to come to me broke.
Everything in this is golden. I find wm look at the entire package. Some actually have been burnt by the prettiest women and look much deeper. At least in my experience.
This is the first ever SheraSeven video I've ever watched. At first I didn't know this lady I was looking at was such a phenomenal goddess lady. Didn't know that she will be my role model at that time. Thank you so much, Shera🌹💕
Shera!!! I just recently found you you're often referenced in other women's videos and they make compilations of you making your points and your SO on point and sharp and FUNNY!!! You're a beautiful woman also but so much more you're so intelligent and well spoken, I had to share your video with my younger niece I have so many nieces and 5 sisters we came from an insane family so the girls were told we had no worth growing up and abused. I've since simply ceased on the dating I've just been too traumatized it would take such a gentleman to ever consider but you lovely you know what it's about I wish I'd known you so long ago I wish I'd had a woman like you but now I do I'm 40 years old and now just kind of an observer and lover of nature I go to the woods to get away from people yes I do indeed I'm returning to my feral roots and I'm alright. But thank you so much Shera you're wonderful and advice is priceless 🙏
The eating partner??? That’s facts 😊 I lost some weight and got a gentleman of means and he fed me crème brûlée and everything else until I gained it back and then some… working that weight off now 😂😂😂😂 it’s about balance, I’ll have to make sure im careful with every meal aside from dates and that may help me next time 😂😅
She’s saying you can trick a high value man into sharing his wealth with you (securing the bag) by simply following these rules. Obviously if he’s broke don’t waste your time and keep it real. Men like to be tricked they don’t like reality.
I wouldn’t say to take advice from Latinas. Growing up in Latino culture, I would see (in parties) the women making tortillas, serving plates, while their husbands just sat around and drank beer. Instead of them hiring people to do that for us. 😂 As it should be! 😘 Like common now is a party I came to eat not to serve. 😭 Now this is not always the case. Some Latinos probably had it better. I just want better for all of us, women.🫶🏻
my friends are Latino. I sit with the guys driking my beer while my girlfriends are serving xD no way I'm gonna do the servent for them. but I can see that they still value women taking care of them
If cardi ain't above serving her man you need to pay attention.... this is how men feel loved, when their taken care of. Your doing it for your husband not a dusty, there's a difference.
Thanks "Lady "Shera-- you're truly the CLASSIEST LADY HERE MAKING THE WORLD MORE BEAUTIFUL EVERY DAY!!!!!! THANK U THANK U THANK U!! MOVING BACK HOME BECAUSE OF U!! (AND HOUSING IS ATROCIOUS HERE IN FLA!!!)
I’ve heard some men say they like some amount of drama or problems otherwise if you’re both goody goody all the time it gets boring to them or something
Shera..I'm buying your books. But really wish you were giving out this great advice in the 90's when I was sure nuff in the game. 😉. I would own a house now ..and much more!
Photography is my hobby and editing photos. Its a creative hobby, maybe it can be an inspiration for those who are trying new hobbies 😊 I would definitely try to get a better camera and lenses if i have a sugardaddy
If you want to attract a man .. or when you loose weight .. transfer to a luxury gym they gave spas & everything inside you’ll pay like 250 month but affluent rich men are @ those places .. not no 30 dollar a month gym.
Level Up Stationary
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Shera you don't talk about pregnancy.
how to wait till have sex and what can we give sexually wise ?
Wa
Don't let them know about your past. And never tell them how you were mistreated
I made that mistake before never ever again
@@xoxobutterfly They only weaponize it.
Big mistake I made
I always tell women this.
#gussl
Yes being thin or fit is a huge advantage that lots of women underestimate. You can be any size and get a man but if you can be disciplined and work on your body the natural way the world is your oyster. Dating is A LOT easier as a fit/fine girl especially if you are a woman over 35. Most women let their bodies go around that time. You have ALL the options after 35 if you keep it tight. When you go to the 5-Star resorts all you see are fit women of all ages with their rich men. 💕💕
So TRUEE & beautiful i'm 29 & iHear that from MENN all the time first from My father.
So so true. If there’s one thing women should do it’s maintain their bodies. As long as their fit and healthy mental and emotional improves dramatically and you’ll have men tripping over each other to get to know you.
Yes!!!
Yes! You hit it right on the head! Fit women are first in line when it comes to successful men.
@@edema2274 Fit women are number one in line. You can have a cute face but if you are chubby it’s a no go. Take it from me I am married to a wealthy white man and I know their MO. They will support you if you are trim and cute and non problematic (the latter so).
I promise ya'll. Listening to Shera while text messaging guys or while online dating. Also while getting ready for dates and driving to dates and before phone calls or video chats with guys. The energy of shera gives you the confidence like no other. It's like a magnet to to the male gaze. Oh, her points only work for the correct target. Dusties, weak, cheap, insecure, user males crumble under these guidelines.
Agreed !!!
most definitely doing this while getting ready for a date, or just to go out and be cute and feel seen... the boost of confidence I get watching her videos 😋
heavy on crumble. tried my new standards on my ex-dusty and he became unrecognizably angry. standards are a handheld mirror to men with nothing to offer
No fr 😂😂😂
*sprinkle sprinkle*
Girl I decided I was done about 3 years ago when I was 33. My boyfriend was 60. I haven’t worked since, he bought me a house and multiple cars. I don’t work, he pays all of the bills. Just discovered your channel the other day and everything you’re saying is facts. I know because I’ve lived by this law and I will never look back. #SprinkleMFSprinkle.
Where did you meet him? Maybe I'd go for 50 +
Please tell me where you found him?
I need one please give it to me.
I need one please give it to me.
Girl I have a rich 60 year old who’s interested in me and he’s rich and I’m very tempted. I’m 29. You think it’s ok?
Old men are so hard to deal with. Not only do they look disgusting, have poor manners and dress like hell but the entitlement they have for young women is unbelievable.
I met up with this 62 year old man for wine/lunch and he burped and farted TWICE during the date. I had to leave and blocked him I was so disgusted.
Bitch im deaaaaad omg his old ass
lol sorry that happened to you, but that's just one man. The fact that he wasn't trying to impress you is concerning.
🤣🤣🤣
He felt you were entitled to smells his fart, slurps and burps and then take it all in. He is definitely closer to where he is going, if you get my drift.This was so funny it made my day.
@@kayodudu5190 Please stop, I’m still recovering from the trauma 🤣
"What's the best job for a leveled up woman?"
Shera: "Volunteer work" 💀⚰️😂🤣😅😂🤣😅
Sprinkle sprinkle 💫💫💫
🤣😂💜
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣
Lmaoooo
I’m dyingggg at this-I leveled up and got a provider- my “job”literally is volunteering and he was attracted to that 😂
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
I also believe in no cursing. In not cursing, I inadvertently communicate to men that I value careful communication. I would never want a man to believe he could be overly familiar, or overly casual with me. I want to avoid men rushing me or making the situation awkward. I think that is important and Shera is right, he knows I am an elegant woman💕
I couldn’t agree more. ❤️
Yes! Cease the cursing, please!
Interesting.
I get told that I’m too uptight for not cursing at all
@@barbaramay9288 better to be too uptight than to be too loose tbh and if they see you not cursing to be too uptight then they’re just wanting you to lower your standards so that they are more comfortable, not considering that you would then be uncomfortable when lowering them.
Ladies, the concept of men ordering for you in restaurants doesn’t have to mean he chooses what you eat. When on a date, look over the menu, then before the waiter comes you simply tell him what you’re going to order, for example, “The Chilean sea bass sounds really good. I’ll have that and a side of asparagus”. Then, what typically happens is, when the waiter comes he just verbally conveys what you said you’ll have to the waiter, “She will have the Chilean sea bass and….”. ❤️💫🌍
Exactly!
One guy told me I didn’t order enough, and told the waiter what I ordered would be our shared appetizer and then chose something completely different for my entree. So controlling..
No, I will order my own food.
My dad has always done this. He asks me what I want then orders my meal first then his. It's chivalry. My ex did that too. They're both Jamaican.
@@grubbraw then do that. She's just explaining what it means.its ok if some women allow that too.
No cursing, smoking or drinking. If you must drink, drink champagne.
Don‘t interrupt him, present your opinions with a smile and wit. Just like Shera 🤩
She got a high value man, so will you
Yes! Emphasis on the no smoking, ladies smoking anything will give you wrinkles and bad breath. If you MUST have weed do the edible option and for the cigarette smokers please stop, you’re nasty lol
Lmaooo sad life, having to live with a man you are neither attracted to or even love. No thanks. Anybody can get money now. Women can get their own money now. Why must I sacrifice an attractive man and love
@@edema2274 Lol “you’re nasty”
@@edema2274 🎯
@@jazs2300 that took me out 🤣
Yall the way you look is everything. I started attracting a different type of men once I dyed my hair and started shopping for more beautiful clothes.
Hey there! How did you decide? Personally I bounce between brown and jet black.
@@vickyperez213 just buy stuff that you see and like and make outfits
Meanwhile they look and smell like whatever.
It happened to me when I started to put more make up. It is incredible..
@@vickyperez213Black and grays are men colors. Once I started exercising for a year 5 days a week eating clean and meditation raised my vibration and inter peace and ease where my feminine energy flowed out of me attracting high value men left and right. I started wearing neon colors orange green pink whites.
I determine them by their actions as early as meeting before the 1st date. Men think they're the only ones categorizing women and putting them in boxes, but us women do it too. Lol. I know who's gonna be in the friendzone right from the first interaction. Ciao.
Yes indeed
Hahahaha i love you
In fact,we have been doing it since ages.
Same. Always compartmentalize.
Not even friends lmao
Posture, pronunciation, a positive attitude each is very attractive to an upper class man. Taking classes, running a small non-profit, writing books will impress men.🌹
You can have all that, but how do you get rid of people so they avoid you do you?
Taking classes of what?
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns ???
@@nenisguevaragomez8122 Whatever you want to learn more about. How to start a business! Computers. Another language. Get a BA or Masters, in a subject that fascinates you. Make a goal and achieve that goal. Think.
@@nenisguevaragomez8122 just… have hobbies. Do workshops accordingly. What are YOU interested in? Or what is the archetype of man who you’re seeking interested in? Golf class, horseback riding lessons, figure skating/barre, ?? Idk 🧠 if at the very least you dont know what you like, think abr what things are appealing to men you like.
Classy, intelligent Ladies always say "please" and "thank you" proper manners never go out of style.
As an African woman who was raised seeing struggle love, single mothers and then married to a diagnosed narcissist, I had no chance. I was a masculine, competitive albeit extremely successful woman who could out do myself and most men. When my most recent relationship failed, I realised something had to give. I had been conned to do it all! Thankfully I dress extremely well and feminine and have repeatedly reinvented myself so this time I am being a soft woman. I am lucky I can get the men easily so now to find a husband. Recently I went to a work event and left early and didn't drink to match my male colleagues which used to be standard procedure and is in banking. Baby steps but I got this.
Thank you Shera. ❤️
All the best to you!
Which country are you from ?
Am Zambian
🙌🏽
@@nawagrace4903 Nigeria chile!
Wow I thought African women usually didn’t experience struggle love and single motherhood.
I couldn’t get a man in my small town. I went somewhere else and got game. Everyone was getting everyone pregnant in my town. I didn’t have time for the shenanigans. And I stay away from online. I would rather meet someone in person, and I did that by moving.
Got my first manicure at age 31 ❤ you have to start somewhere
Girl I turn 30 this year and I still haven't been to the nail salon. Ima change it.
For a relationship to really work, both parties should chose EACH OTHER at all times. That is what I read and I 1000% agree.
Preach on this I have already seen the difference in how men treat me from losing weight , you get treated wayyy better having a pretty face is a bonus once the weight goes , I now workout four to five times a week , I have watched you and had tremendous improvements in my life please take care of your body
Ex wives be like omg I can’t handle this gorgeous mamma 😂
Just make sure you're not losing muscle mass..
Im not losing any weight other than drinking more water.
Here because i work two jobs and I’m tired and tired of being approached by trash when i work too hard.
Upgraded my living situation
Keeping up with my monthly facials, hair appointments, nails etc.
Let go of toxic friends and family
keep up the effort! i'm trying to up my finances a bit so i can throw in those extra amenities" lol
been binging your vids heavy the last 2 weeks. i feel like a new woman!!! already scaring the dusties away!
babbbbbyyyy i have never felt more beautiful & more feminine. Thank you for your wisdom.
Ladies YOU determine your worth! Men simply look at you and sense how much you value yourself
That’s why it is important to make conscious decisions in every area of your life (dresswear,health,attitude etc) so you can communicate that you are valuable
Simple as that
No one else tells you how much you are worth. If you don’t know who you are and what you bring, the world will undervalue you…
🎯
Exactly, people underestimate you attract what you put out.
this is so true. no matter how long i go single, i wear sexy lingerie always and always have on high quality perfume w my nails done. i will never let this standard go for myself because it's about the value i see in me.
👏🏾👏🏾
This right here…🎉
How you allow them to shine - not correcting them, making them look good, allow them to be themselves (they shouldn’t feel stressed to be themselves)
Wow!! I hope you get paid for the job!!
😂😂😂
Y’all out here lying to men to keep them!!
@@BlackberryTitties they're out changing themselves to appease men who they just admitted are psychotic and not be trusted. It baffles me. There's nothing to respect when it comes to men. What the hell are women doing?
I am 38 and thin and I attract all types because I am thin.I don't yet have wrinkles because of my skin routines.I hope that it stays this way.Not just for the men but for my health.
What is your skin routine 😍
do microneedling and Trentonin. I still get carded b/c I'm thin with 0 wrinkles or sagginess.
Tretinoin, chemical peels, niacinamide serum and water water water!
I'm 39.
Whaoooooo 38 with no wrinkles ❤Pls can you share your skin care routine.
Water mainly daily, living in cold climate and very little to no stress.
Listening to Shera is like a free therapy to me. Growing up being a people pleaser and a pick me without knowing, It heals me listening to you my dear. I am getting happier and feeling really validated. Sprinkle sprinkle.
I would also like a man who’s taking me out for dinner to look half decent when I’m seen out with him in public 😂lol
Very true
I used to be embarrassed by hanging out with old unattractive men in public so I always took a friend with me (or she took me when she had someone). We also always tried to take them to the restaurants where it was the least chance of someone we knew seeing us. Now I don’t care.
I appreciate this advice but the best way to get a quality man is to stop worrying about it and focus on loving yourself. Men love when a woman is at her best. Just be your best most comfortable self and someone that actually meshes with you will be drawn to you automatically. Better than any mind trick you can play, and it'll last!
Statistically speaking, women have largely realized it doesn't last.
@@themarquis8716 why should it? No one belongs to you or anyone else. People are too obsessed with possession which is extremely unhealthy. No one person can truly fulfill your every need. That's why you have to have self love first, so if they leave you don't fall apart even if you break down at first. Pain is natural and time is no man's friend so just be in the moment and you might it find it to last a life time. Men respond to our energy more than anything even if they don't realize it. So even if you find the "perfect" man, y'all still might not mesh because he's not meant to be YOUR man. The fastest way into a man's mind is self care, the fastest way to the heart is respect for him but primarily yourself. Men worth keeping really dig women with boundaries. It makes her almost seem untouched when a women knows how and where to say NO regardless of your past. How do I know this stuff? I ASKED GROWN MEN, good and bad men. All of their answers were very similar even if their individual approaches were VERY different.
Me when i gaslight myself
yep especially when men ask you out on dates. i let them suggest to see where they are at. i'm not trying to change them if they pick sub-par restaurants. i just don't go lol. the man should be choosing amazing restaurants
Amen
The amazing restaurants have the worst tasting foods..
Exactly
In shera's voice "Oh don't worry we ain't gonna rush nothing, WE NOT GOING TO RUSH INTO ANYTHING" LOL right on Shera 😂
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Shera has so much patience, answering all these dumb questions. I realize that most of us woman are the problem . Including my self but not anymore thanks to Shera 😂
Thank you for this video Shera! I wish I could have watched this in my 20s. I was a very hoity-toity high class young lady, but I lacked true self confidence so people valued me less. Self confidence was the hardest thing for me to achieve, but now that I think THE MOST HIGHLY of myself, I have returned to the life of getting everything that I want again but now I know and believe that I deserve it!
How did you achieve self confindence? Thanks in advance...
@@bibibomba4515 she did it by watching Shera7’s videos✨✨
Ditto.
@@bibibomba4515 I started putting myself first, stay focused on my own wants & goals, and kick the negativity out of my life. I only found Shera a few months ago. She has confirmed to me that I wasn’t wrong and I need to keep pushing through. Most people who were not really for me tried to discourage me and really had me reconsidering myself but God has sent Shera to us to confirm what we already think/know and gives us many many tools to keep pushing forward and keep LEVELING UP! 💯💯
@@bibibomba4515 I wrote a long reply before but I’m just seeing that it didn’t post! 😩😩 I hope this helps! Stay steadfast to your own wants/goals. Anyone telling you different is a hater/pickme/Barbara the Builder/Dusty. Opinions from any of these people Need to go directly in the trash!
Treat yourself as a garage for expensive cars, just for Ferrari or Bentley etc,. When dusties about to park, he will see those flashy cars and will find a way out himself. 😂😂😂
You have definitely helped me to increase my self-esteem the most important thing on earth in an individual!
Men do think this way. I know for some women it’s hard to accept. BUT it’s true and doing the things shera suggests works.
I tried these things as an experiment, and got 2 proposals within 2 years. I kinda had to laugh at myself.
ALSO, you do these things all while being ur true authentic self. Men can tell when you’re being real.
Once again, Shera you provide tremendous value to us ladies really looking to level up and stay there! 💗
“How many animals print are you wearing at the same time” that annoys my eyes 😂
51:36
GOLD
These gentlemen are usually professionals or retired professionals. They do NOT want any resemblance of work life while they are in the presence of a lady.
im so glad i started watching shera at a young age!
Same!
Shera, I would take advice from you because you have secured a provider male for life. That proves you know what you're doing and how to be successful.
One of the reasons guys won’t approach you at regular places is because you don’t look like a dusty can approach you! Baby when I go anywhere I’m looking my best because my husband will ask for my number because I have class on sight! They know not to come to me broke.
I'm a black woman married to an engineer and he is white and older
Me too angel :)
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I wish I could like this 100x you are doing the Lord’s work ! Thank you Shera☺️
Everything in this is golden.
I find wm look at the entire package. Some actually have been burnt by the prettiest women and look much deeper. At least in my experience.
WM like thin- maybe bigger if you’re fit with a nice shape. That’s 85% of it for them.
I’m
A nurse girl and the scrub comment is true you are speaking truth
Shera’s videos are now the soundtrack to my days these days… ❤
#Transformation
Same ❤
You are so right about exs! When I posted me in a rolls-Royce my stock went WAY UP! Lmao 🤣
I would have said it's how you look in private that matters 🤦 but that's totally wrong. It's how you look "To the Public" 💯
😂 facts
Why would how you look in private matter as much?
All about image
This is the first ever SheraSeven video I've ever watched. At first I didn't know this lady I was looking at was such a phenomenal goddess lady. Didn't know that she will be my role model at that time. Thank you so much, Shera🌹💕
This is probably the realest video I've ever seen.
"It's like a cafeteria that has jello... and Salisbury steak... and unseasoned cabbage.." 🤣🤣🤣
If by the end of the year I find a provider sheraseven I will buy your books
This is a commitment ❤
How is it going?
update?
You're message has evolved great! More realistic and mature. Great.
She was already on fire, but now she's unstoppable.
Shera you are hilarious. You said how many animal prints are you wearing. 😂 You are so right especially about those big giraffe lashes.
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I lovvve this look on you! It’s giving breakfast at Tiffany’s. Going to France for an espresso and croissant lol 💜✨
omg I am in love with your evil laugh
Shera!!! I just recently found you you're often referenced in other women's videos and they make compilations of you making your points and your SO on point and sharp and FUNNY!!! You're a beautiful woman also but so much more you're so intelligent and well spoken, I had to share your video with my younger niece I have so many nieces and 5 sisters we came from an insane family so the girls were told we had no worth growing up and abused. I've since simply ceased on the dating I've just been too traumatized it would take such a gentleman to ever consider but you lovely you know what it's about I wish I'd known you so long ago I wish I'd had a woman like you but now I do I'm 40 years old and now just kind of an observer and lover of nature I go to the woods to get away from people yes I do indeed I'm returning to my feral roots and I'm alright. But thank you so much Shera you're wonderful and advice is priceless 🙏
Great that US women think their approach is confident in most instances it can appear to be attention seeking. Quiet confidence is highly attractive.
The eating partner??? That’s facts 😊 I lost some weight and got a gentleman of means and he fed me crème brûlée and everything else until I gained it back and then some… working that weight off now 😂😂😂😂 it’s about balance, I’ll have to make sure im careful with every meal aside from dates and that may help me next time 😂😅
Eat picky. Same thing has happened to me often. I gain by letting them influence my diet. No more now!!!
I love all the great advise , But ultimately us as women determine our own Worth! No man should or can determine that.
She’s saying you can trick a high value man into sharing his wealth with you (securing the bag) by simply following these rules. Obviously if he’s broke don’t waste your time and keep it real. Men like to be tricked they don’t like reality.
@ethanelston4314 So why do they date beautiful and dumb if they like them smart 🤔
Yes! You should write a clapback book 💯🤞🏾😂🤣😅
I wouldn’t say to take advice from Latinas. Growing up in Latino culture, I would see (in parties) the women making tortillas, serving plates, while their husbands just sat around and drank beer. Instead of them hiring people to do that for us. 😂 As it should be! 😘 Like common now is a party I came to eat not to serve. 😭
Now this is not always the case. Some Latinos probably had it better. I just want better for all of us, women.🫶🏻
AS a Latina I agree.
my friends are Latino. I sit with the guys driking my beer while my girlfriends are serving xD no way I'm gonna do the servent for them. but I can see that they still value women taking care of them
If cardi ain't above serving her man you need to pay attention.... this is how men feel loved, when their taken care of. Your doing it for your husband not a dusty, there's a difference.
@@schirley1267 depends the guys be cheating on them like crazyyyyy
@9Mountains9 we can be 😭 bc of novelas we are like that
Thanks "Lady "Shera-- you're truly the CLASSIEST LADY HERE MAKING THE WORLD MORE BEAUTIFUL EVERY DAY!!!!!! THANK U THANK U THANK U!! MOVING BACK HOME BECAUSE OF U!! (AND HOUSING IS ATROCIOUS HERE IN FLA!!!)
I’ve heard some men say they like some amount of drama or problems otherwise if you’re both goody goody all the time it gets boring to them or something
Maybe mental stimulation or sass but that would be a negative trait for a man or woman to enjoy a sense of drama.
Totally unrelated, but I lost a lot of money today and I just found my way back to Shera's video cause she quietens the voice in my head
Quiets
I’m from Mexico and we all have to say please and thank you 😅… it’s in our culture
Everything you speak about actually works! Sprinkle sprinkle!
Shera..I'm buying your books. But really wish you were giving out this great advice in the 90's when I was sure nuff in the game. 😉. I would own a house now ..and much more!
Shera is doing the Lord's work ❤
Girl im from Houston too and please and thank you is just how we live here! I couldn’t imagine not saying it.
handsome men dont cheat as much as ugly guys do. They know the game now I feel like
Depends on the man tbh
@luxbeauty4952 You're kidding.? It's the nice looking one that always seem to think they can get more girls...
I’m not about to play sheraaaaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂 she said wit the blue film over they glasses good niiiiiiiite ✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿✌🏿
I wish i discover this channel before but i may not have been ready for it. Game on 😊
I'm laughing but Shera not lying about Lubys and early morning grocery run. 😂😚.
"how many animal prints are you wearing at the same time?" - Shera
I WAS LOLOLOL SO HARD
1.How u present and carry urself
2.if u allow them to shine(how u compliment them)
3.if u allow them to be themselves
4.
Talk & never ask, complement other women’s posessions & show that you want that too
Shera! You are an actress and deserves an Oscar❤
If a man tells me he doesn’t trust women because of what happened in the past, I would tell him he should date men.
this look is so cute! please! The hair & blouse & overalls!!!
I thought that's your whole house but it's just a poster😂😂 ha u got me!
I knew it was fake..
Yesss knowing what you want chances the game energetically as well
New here .. and I’m going all in. Binge watching.. SheraSeven
Looking very beautiful Shera!😍😍😍 The hair compliments the face, your makeup looks on point too!
She’s so smart, love it
1:23:30 LMFAAAOOO she’s funny af. Can’t even fill out no paperwork uh un bye😂😂😂😂😮💨
Just bought it women should support women
How you add to their image
Don’t complain a lot
Have Common sense don’t ask dumb questions all the time
The way she says Dusty is hilarious ! Nope i had one dusty and nobody believes it! That was when i was a tennager! Lol
“How many animal prints at the same time” 😂😂
Shera how do we make a man feel loved after he has spent his money & things how do we stop him from feeling used and losing interest ?
Emotional gifts and acts of service that he sees. Like a photo album of your favorite dates and moments together. And helping his mom do something. 😁🫡
@@MBeyelinelove this
girl you are hilarious ! all while dropping gems. subscribed.
I ❤ when you say sprinkle sprinkle 😂😂
Omg me too.. Sprankle Sprankle 😅
Photography is my hobby and editing photos. Its a creative hobby, maybe it can be an inspiration for those who are trying new hobbies 😊 I would definitely try to get a better camera and lenses if i have a sugardaddy
dusties approach anyone it's a numbers game for them 😂🤮
That is why you dont give everybody your number
Love this look on you so much!
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
That is soo true about other women taking her content ❤❤
GOING BACK 2 THE LA FITNESS THEN!!
Me too! I’m in Canada
If you want to attract a man .. or when you loose weight .. transfer to a luxury gym they gave spas & everything inside you’ll pay like 250 month but affluent rich men are @ those places .. not no 30 dollar a month gym.
@@Ashley50144 get skinty first though...
That lash statement……🤣🤣🤣🤣
U learned me so much things with your channel thank you💜
TAUGHT** from the verb TO TEACH*** 💜