My Daughter's Father Is A Deadbeat! | KARAMO

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  • @KaramoShow
    @KaramoShow  Рік тому +18

    Watch Karamo react to this episode in our series, Karamo's Cut: ua-cam.com/video/osdI4pwPV78/v-deo.html

  • @itskelsey5064
    @itskelsey5064 Рік тому +876

    he is the definition of a narcissist. i’m glad the little girl has somebody else who stepped up to be a father. I wouldn’t even want a relationship with that man, he’d be dead to me

    • @gaylenecromwell7782
      @gaylenecromwell7782 Рік тому

      The true definition of a dead beat ,loser, narcissist.

    • @kanyram1711
      @kanyram1711 Рік тому +30

      Exactly 💯 that daughter doesn't need that toxic trait

    • @donavon2007
      @donavon2007 Рік тому

      Yeah and the one that stepped up she said :you ain't my father,I wish u were dead:
      Don't raise Noone else's kids...been there done that...don't do it.

    • @Logantaliaferro
      @Logantaliaferro Рік тому +18

      9:13 when karamo was talking to kaylee It made me feel sad for all she went through.

    • @donnalhughes1459
      @donnalhughes1459 Рік тому

      @@kanyram1711 I watch him every e

  • @tessamarcelle9616
    @tessamarcelle9616 Рік тому +1097

    I just love Karamo for the way he dealt with that coward and I’m so glad that no one had to expose him for the deadbeat he is, HE DID IT ALL BY HIMSELF!

    • @mauricesnell5886
      @mauricesnell5886 Рік тому +1

      Agreed! Desmond is a coward and a deadbeat.

    • @ronniejackson9228
      @ronniejackson9228 Рік тому +1

      Save the extra drama.
      The man in the video is embarrassing himself on television. 📺
      S.T.F.U!!

    • @LONDONESQUE.
      @LONDONESQUE. Рік тому +24

      Yep😄...When you let people that are doing wrong speak long enough, they do expose themselves and their terrible thought processes.

    • @JBpruitt
      @JBpruitt Рік тому +5

      All show talk bro

    • @maelisaapyrtleee7259
      @maelisaapyrtleee7259 Рік тому +5

      the deadbeat is low key mad funny ngl💀💀

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Рік тому +452

    I know a man just like him: nothing is ever his fault, he blames everyone around him, and he takes no responsibility for his actions.

    • @ebonythompkins9978
      @ebonythompkins9978 Рік тому +14

      A real narcissist fool that will pay for his actions in the long run.

    • @EPHtheChemist
      @EPHtheChemist Рік тому

      He sounds like the majority of black males. NOTHING is ever their fault. It’s ALWAYS the woman or white people. Self accountability and black men is NON EXISTENT for the majority of the time.

    • @LongLeggedEmpress
      @LongLeggedEmpress Рік тому +2

      Sounds like a Virgo man 🤣

    • @carlamichelle46
      @carlamichelle46 Рік тому +2

      When did you meet my dad?!🥴🤣

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Рік тому +1

      @@carlamichelle46 so you're my long lost (Ex)stepchild!

  • @megan236
    @megan236 Рік тому +644

    This man is a COMPLETE embarrassment to all fathers. I would be so ashamed to be him or any other father who chooses to not take responsibility. Ladies, remember this man’s face and don’t ever procreate with him. He has shown what type of man he is.

    • @donavon2007
      @donavon2007 Рік тому

      And she has shown what type of woman she is.
      You didn't have to have a child with him.
      But nooooo you want to spread yr legs and get pregnant on top of that.
      You reap what u sow.

    • @IagainstI.
      @IagainstI. Рік тому

      He's an embarrassment to men, to humankind. Foolishness at it's absolute finest.

    • @JBpruitt
      @JBpruitt Рік тому +5

      We don’t know the full story this show made him look like the bad person but we don’t know what happens in close doors. And you can’t judge someone when u don’t even know them or walked in their shoes

    • @kekeboo2
      @kekeboo2 Рік тому

      @@JBpruitt we do know he’s a P.O.S. There’s no excuse. Quit

    • @xoGlamICON
      @xoGlamICON Рік тому +13

      @@JBpruitt He had the complete full chance to say his part of the story. His actions spoke very loud when he wasn’t moved about how his daughter felt about him and how she expressed his feelings were affecting her. He literally has caused her abandonment issues and doesn’t care.

  • @mkmanu4253
    @mkmanu4253 Рік тому +244

    When Karamo asked if he loved his daughter and "yes" wasn't the immediate answer...

    • @nidaelhag2918
      @nidaelhag2918 Рік тому +28

      Omggg yess I was like what other answer is there but yes!! He is the worst

    • @ablackgirlabouttown
      @ablackgirlabouttown Рік тому +14

      Right! Like that's a question you should be able to answer without even thinking. Smh

    • @kris3980
      @kris3980 Рік тому +15

      I felt that hurt ...

    • @GrievingSister
      @GrievingSister Рік тому +2

      Yes

  • @chelleave
    @chelleave Рік тому +362

    This is disgusting. He sees nothing wrong in himself smh no accountability whatsoever. I just wanna hug that babygirl because this man has no clue

    • @flatbkush6
      @flatbkush6 Рік тому +1

      *Nope, men are finally waking up. Shity women get shity treatment no matter how many babies are involved. Women spend the last 50 years forcing men into submission over children. Now we in the abandonment era. Shity women deserve shity treatment no matter how much they play victim* 👍🏿

  • @briannamccoy8751
    @briannamccoy8751 Рік тому +318

    My heart goes out to this little girl. I can relate because I’ve been that little girl and at 29 it still affects me. And my Dad still isn’t there. I’m glad she has her mom and her step dad. This is disgusting and the more sad part is his “unbothered” and “arrogance” praying for this mom and this baby🫂❤️

    • @shelbimdennis
      @shelbimdennis Рік тому +5

      You and I are the same age and my father wasn’t there. He just recently asked me if he failed as a parent and even now I’m still affected by this.

    • @briannamccoy8751
      @briannamccoy8751 Рік тому +4

      @@shelbimdennis I’m sorry you had to go through this also, it’s literally the worse feeling ever. And honestly if he has to even ask you that question like he already knows. It’s just so sad. But maybe he’s ready to apologize and move forward. I hope he does better by you admit his wrong doings so you can heal and you guys can move forward. Sending hugs❤️❤️🫂🫂

    • @flatbkush6
      @flatbkush6 Рік тому +1

      *Dealing with shity women, she has to suffer the shity consequences. Can't play victim then Leverage a baby against me for my submission. Smart man. If the mother don't want to be held accountable, the child has to suffer. I abandoned a few babies myself. Now I live a stress free life without that victim in my ear all the time* 🤣🤣

    • @blacksunflower2958
      @blacksunflower2958 Рік тому

      @@flatbkush6 disappear from this post like you disappeared from them kids that you better hope you don’t need when you’re old and raggedy that man is trifling and so are you!

    • @thechosenone547
      @thechosenone547 Рік тому +3

      @@flatbkush6Sexism. Nothing less.

  • @eugeniaboone5602
    @eugeniaboone5602 Рік тому +237

    He's gaslighting the whole reason why he not in his daughter's life. Making excuses and blame the mother. He needs to sign over parental rights and go on his business. He's a poor excuse of a " father". He'll regret what he's done when he's old and can't take care of him self. His daughter is very bright. This is very sad story.

    • @candisjeffrey1034
      @candisjeffrey1034 Рік тому +29

      He will never sign it over because this is the only bit of control he has over them and he wants it bad. You see that man demeanor he found great pleasure in this interaction. He tried to speak so eloquently but he was the biggest asshole around.

    • @brownshugakale2410
      @brownshugakale2410 Рік тому +5

      Let's try "no excuse for a father" 🎯

    • @topshelf6771
      @topshelf6771 Рік тому +4

      @@candisjeffrey1034 Yes he did talking in circles and not saying a damned thing!

    • @cristinafaley4051
      @cristinafaley4051 Рік тому +7

      @@candisjeffrey1034 Maybe he won’t, but the court could. If they took him to court he would lose his parental rights with just this video. They should go to court and ban him of being a parent again!

    • @v8tzz
      @v8tzz Рік тому

      This is funny asf

  • @nidaelhag2918
    @nidaelhag2918 Рік тому +170

    It’s so annoying that he doesn’t want to let her stepdad adopt her even though he doesn’t want to be there for her!!

    • @ramonahamm6292
      @ramonahamm6292 Рік тому +32

      Selfish narcissist.. has to be about him not what’s best for the child . I hope a judge sees this and decides other wise

    • @alonsorhea
      @alonsorhea Рік тому +19

      Facts. That girl deserves everything to have someone wants to step up and take care of her with no bad intentions

  • @Ashley-qt4qd
    @Ashley-qt4qd Рік тому +74

    I'm proud of the daughter for standing up for herself

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 Рік тому +246

    This man spoke of himself in third person and the plural pronoun “ we “. That’s extremely odd. He attempted to blame the mother numerous time. What his daughter said surprised him. He lost his temper when Karamo confronted him. Everything was about him. He doesn’t care about his daughter. This man is devoid of empathy.

    • @paolaarletty6525
      @paolaarletty6525 Рік тому +17

      Agreed! Showing clear signs of REAL narcissism, that man. Aside from that, he clearly doesn’t care or love his daughter. He was never able to answer if he did or not; deviated from a response. Yet, his ego is so large that despite not wanting anything to do with her, he did not accept the mom’s husband to adopt the child.

    • @jerrickajohnson2170
      @jerrickajohnson2170 Рік тому +10

      Not even talking 3 person bc a lot of ppl do it . He failed the whole everything when he said “ the man “ what about the FATHER ! He is not shit

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 Рік тому +13

      @@jerrickajohnson2170 Lmao. I didn’t even know what to call the verbiage he used. It was like he was talking about a man he was observing.
      I agree. He ain’t sh!t.

    • @tdcleveland09
      @tdcleveland09 Рік тому +4

      @@peacefreedom4930because he was lying and trying to manipulate us into believing he did it. “if” a man came to the station.

  • @jatayalezine2996
    @jatayalezine2996 Рік тому +206

    The emotion Karamo showed in this episode…. Whew

    • @Lilalaskins
      @Lilalaskins Рік тому +40

      He showed more care and emotions for the child than her father 🙄😩

    • @heathab...._-_
      @heathab...._-_ Рік тому +22

      Karamo seemed like he wanted to lay hands on dude he was acting like his child's feelings ain't matter

    • @jatayalezine2996
      @jatayalezine2996 Рік тому +3

      @@heathab...._-_ true

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому

      Man that dude would probably whup Karamo's ass

  • @TeeCup22
    @TeeCup22 Рік тому +27

    I just have to say, her daughter communicates SO WELL for 11 years old. ❤️ great job mom & dad

  • @courtneyrobinson6187
    @courtneyrobinson6187 Рік тому +128

    Thank you Karamo for cutting his feed because he was getting on my nerves....the IGNORANCE is very real....I wouldn't want him to EVER be a part of my childs life...

    • @Hogglemyfart
      @Hogglemyfart 6 місяців тому +2

      Top teir father ngl

    • @Chinawhite_Chun-Li
      @Chinawhite_Chun-Li 6 місяців тому +2

      But it’s not ur child?

    • @jahnoyawalker4227
      @jahnoyawalker4227 Місяць тому

      @@Chinawhite_Chun-Liit doesn’t matter. Anyone can see a dumbass from afar.

  • @katrese9151
    @katrese9151 Рік тому +99

    He don’t give a damn….Thank you for cutting him off! This was so hard to watch! That man had no emotion for his daughter but tried to tell the mom that SHE had some internal issues… 😳
    Sometimes the BEST thing you can do is let a person go. and while it may hurt like hell in the moment, the healing and PEACE that will eventually come over you will be all worth it!!

    • @refi6438
      @refi6438 Рік тому +2

      Yes he hates. The mom so in turn hates the child he has with her . And who is "the man "lol he's referring to ?? He's crazy too

  • @Nelley_Nell_507
    @Nelley_Nell_507 Рік тому +153

    That man was an embarrassment to all men. 🤦🏽‍♀️
    He talked circles around every single question and had not a care in the world about what his daughter thought of him! Disgusting.

    • @Mxrdah
      @Mxrdah Рік тому +4

      This show isn’t real

    • @_andelrxses_
      @_andelrxses_ 7 місяців тому

      @@Mxrdahprove it

  • @Mussikkienkeli
    @Mussikkienkeli Рік тому +46

    The fact that she calls her step dad “dad” should really show her bio dad what she really thinks of him. Her step dad stepped up to being the dad she really needs in her life

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 Рік тому +269

    It's so sad that 65% of kids are raised without a father present in their lives so alot of men and women grow up holding grudges against their father and take it out on their own kids or have absolutely no clue how to he a mother or father. But to neglect a child has to be the most cold-hearted thing ever. I'm raising 4 boys alone and I'm overwhelmed and tired

    • @donavon2007
      @donavon2007 Рік тому +6

      If you had them out of wedlock,then it's yr fault.
      You could've stopped at 1 but nobody.
      So if you're overwhelmed and tired too bad.

    • @swagamaia2540
      @swagamaia2540 Рік тому +16

      i was raised with my biological father in the house but he abused us and left multiple times for months.. i feel like it’s better for them to just not be there then for them to go through what i did just to have a dad in your life

    • @mermaidhev
      @mermaidhev Рік тому +24

      @@donavon2007 cool so say something about the deadbeat fathers now

    • @terry4161
      @terry4161 Рік тому +11

      Or they grow up with a an abusive monster which is far worse and does a lot more damage.

    • @kembaleo243
      @kembaleo243 Рік тому +9

      Keep your head up BEAUTIFUL! My daughter is 19,and I raised her by myself and felt overwhelmed at times. I can't imagine having 4. You are stronger 💪 than you think you are ♥. Sending you love,light and positive energy. Keep God first QUEEN. HE WILL NEVER LET YOU DOWN ♥.

  • @taniyajenai5935
    @taniyajenai5935 Рік тому +26

    i feel so bad for them. The mother and daughter deserves the world. I'm glad she has a stepfather there for her.

  • @japonicagrant4792
    @japonicagrant4792 Рік тому +764

    If narcissist was a person!

  • @KKandLex
    @KKandLex Рік тому +185

    It's so sad, to see this. He's so arrogant if he only knew what that little girl is going to have to endure getting bullied so much trauma!!
    My daughter said the same exact thing "she feels like her daddy doesn't love her" My daughter's actually receiving therapy now but you know kudos to the mom. She's doing everything in her power to help her daughter ❤️

  • @HEY_NOONIE
    @HEY_NOONIE Рік тому +107

    “Help her learn to grieve the relationship with her father she’ll never have .” Very sad and happens too often. This man is so lost and disgusting 😒

  • @brendataylor4680
    @brendataylor4680 Рік тому +25

    He is DISGUSTING as a father and as a man. He’s just a donor . This is the highest form of narcissism I’ve ever seen .
    I’m glad you cut his feed off Karamo. He doesn’t deserve that air time. Proud of the daughter for expressing her feelings and I love the way you showed the mom love and support. Glad you unleashed on him the way you did. Donor was getting on my nerves too with the excuses and deflection. He’s weak.
    Love you Karamo.❤

  • @melshelton7270
    @melshelton7270 Рік тому +49

    This man is so out of touch. He really doesn't have any love, care, or concern for his child...sitting there talking about if you walked his path. He hasn't been on a path. Ms. keep getting the help your daughter needs, so that she can be happy and productive in life without him. He isn't worth the time it took his mother to push him out into this world!

  • @winettethomas7642
    @winettethomas7642 Рік тому +36

    He is draining the most important person in her life. You are her life line Mama. Cut him off and give her all the positive energy you have to give her. His name should never be mentioned unless your daughter brings him up but, reinforce the positive in her life.♥️♥️♥️

  • @gbagman
    @gbagman Рік тому +39

    This is the first time I seen Karamo yell!! Is he the new version of Steve Wilkos?! At least he's not making him stand up and throwing chairs.😆

    • @Otto8845
      @Otto8845 Рік тому +6

      Most times, Karamo isn't as hostile as Wilkos. Karamo allows people to sit down whilst Wilkos on the other hand would make bad people stand up.

  • @kalikelly98
    @kalikelly98 Рік тому +42

    I understand Kaylee's pain. My name is Kali (Kaylee) but my donor did the same thing to my sister and I. Girls needed their father's for guidance and safety. We look to them so that as we get older we won't fall into the arms of the wrong man. I appreciate my grandfather and my uncle's for being the standup men that they are in my life and the lives of my children.

  • @dominiquejenkins5495
    @dominiquejenkins5495 Рік тому +47

    Karamo never snapped like this before

  • @kmiller6587
    @kmiller6587 Рік тому +59

    My ex is so much like this, except he’s usually the one triggered by our conversations because I don’t have emotional reactions to him anymore. Mom was in a delicate place so I get it, but her sanity will be more stable when she learns how to expect insanity from him and not feed her energy into his attempts to gaslight her and deflect accountability.
    I could write a novel on what I’ve also gone through in 11 years. Instead, I’ll pray for this sweet baby who reminds me so much of my own 😢. It’s so unfair to them 💔

  • @NpcHerb
    @NpcHerb Рік тому +16

    "No it's not, but either way" best part of the video 😂😂

  • @msveee4553
    @msveee4553 Рік тому +693

    This episode actually made my blood pressure rise; who or what is this man-child pretending to be?! Infuriating does not even express the depth of feeling I have, therefore God knows how Ariel and her daughter must feel! Sending love, strength and positivity to Ariel and her family. Whew.

    • @SavageMinnow
      @SavageMinnow Рік тому +6

      Ariel is actually the one who made my blood boil in this episode. I totally get what you are saying, and I don't disagree with you. I just feel like both of these parents are failing that poor child.
      I think that I probably have a different perspective as a foster parent, but I feel like, no matter what, it is NEVER helpful to badmouth a bio-parent or family of origin to a child. Those two (or more) people are the clay that has formed the person who that child is, and putting the bio-parent down only serves to make the child feel that they are made with subpar materials.

    • @Sabrewood13
      @Sabrewood13 Рік тому +7

      @@SavageMinnow where did she bad mouth him to her daughter?

    • @SavageMinnow
      @SavageMinnow Рік тому +2

      @@Sabrewood13 did you watch the show?

    • @nomzimasinyalela5080
      @nomzimasinyalela5080 Рік тому +20

      @@SavageMinnow telling the truth is bad mouthing the dead beat father?

    • @SavageMinnow
      @SavageMinnow Рік тому +2

      @@nomzimasinyalela5080 sometimes. Kids don't need to know the ins and outs of adults' relationships.

  • @carltoncoleman454
    @carltoncoleman454 Рік тому +46

    This is an explosive one! It would have been even more exciting if he appeared in person. Security or producers would have likely had to escort him off the stage.

  • @UmmLaycious
    @UmmLaycious Рік тому +23

    I wish I could share my story with her. I am a 46y/o Kali. My mother divorced my father when I was 2y/o. I do not know him. My stepfather raised me from the age 5. I have NEVER missed my biological father. He told my cousin we chose our stepdad over him. How? I was 5 sir. Your absence allowed room for that relationship to develop. I pray Kali's stepfather remains in her life and provide that guidance she needs. Sending love, peace and light.

  • @shemikagrimes3530
    @shemikagrimes3530 Рік тому +24

    I LOVE Karamo, he gives us real and raw. With so much fakeness we have in shows today I can appreciate what his show does to help families. I just hope they take his advice because it is ALWAYS spot on.

  • @chamrithomas1422
    @chamrithomas1422 Рік тому +23

    Your child expresses how she felt about you as a parent and you mean to tell me you feel no hurt from that??! That broke me hearing that baby say those things and you are UNBOTHERED?! unbelievable. Thanks for cutting the feed Karamo foreal !

  • @fotolocmomluv
    @fotolocmomluv Рік тому +74

    I unfortunately feel EVERYTHING this mother has experienced.

    • @gerdavandersan2018
      @gerdavandersan2018 11 місяців тому +1

      Sorry to hear that cause it's awful to experience that ,hope your in a much better place/feeling,I hope your much better now or atleast seek help take care now 💐🌹🌻🌷

  • @samonicaj325
    @samonicaj325 Рік тому +45

    I am literally at work crying 😭 😭 I don't understand why there is no urgency on his part ... Parents please work together

    • @debrar2148
      @debrar2148 Рік тому +4

      He's sicko he needs help cut him off. Focus on Your daughter love her she's got her you and her step daddy. You're a blessed woman to be married to a man who accepts your daughter as his own. Cherish your husband and your other 2 children, the Lord Jesus, who will help you and your family. You're a good mother. bless you.❤

    • @jettsett9354
      @jettsett9354 Рік тому

      Love how everyone is blaming the dude without ever wonder why he's acting this way, but when it's a woman being problematic you all find every excuse to make her look like a victim.

    • @tenii.2410
      @tenii.2410 5 місяців тому

      @@jettsett9354 for the daughter herself to say my father is a deadbeat. it is the mans fault

    • @iplayxboxbtw5401
      @iplayxboxbtw5401 4 місяці тому

      @@tenii.2410does she really know what happened though like I get all ts but I can’t be sure cause Mfs cheat lie and do stupid shi a lot too

  • @-kyleigh
    @-kyleigh Рік тому +13

    My dad actually has this side of him.. he loves us I think but how that man carried himself, how he spoke about being unbothered, I burst out in tears because I saw my dad in him. Please be grateful for your parents even if you feel like that haven’t done enough for you, some of us can’t even get the bare minimum. ❤

  • @oohjazzydiva
    @oohjazzydiva Рік тому +18

    There is nothing worst than a narcissist...mom needs to cut all ties, spend time with her daughter, love her the best she can...and never ever contact that man/child again.

  • @mimiford2
    @mimiford2 8 місяців тому +2

    My father is like this. I’m 29 years old and it still hurts. To all the fathers out there that actually try, it makes a huge difference in your child’s life.

  • @JoyeJoy
    @JoyeJoy Рік тому +71

    I'm so glad that kid has a stepfather to show her love and help raise her cause her dad is a damn joke. Also I really hope that man's guy friends see this and cuss him out, all the lies his probably been telling them now they see who this man really is

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +1

      They won’t. People like him hang around people like him.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому

      Now why should they do that, it's none of their business unless it directly involves them, and this situation doesn't..

    • @JoyeJoy
      @JoyeJoy Рік тому +3

      @@d820m if my friend was behaving like that I would hold them accountable that's why you have friends support isn't just telling you that you did a good job it's also letting them know when something isn't right

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому

      @@JoyeJoy BS.....you have friends to hang out with and party and things like that, not to dictate how they should act or tell them how to run their damn private lives, that's not for us or anyone else to determine....I don't have to "check" my friends or hold them accountable for anything...hell, that's probably why me and mines are such great friends

    • @ShayBoogie44
      @ShayBoogie44 Рік тому

      Black men barely hold themselves accountable they definitely won't hold their dusty friends accountable.

  • @ericaskinner4000
    @ericaskinner4000 Рік тому +47

    I know this feeling all too well & it’s absolutely draining Mama take your baby girl move on & forget about this a** 🕳 he’ll never change trust me your daughter will be better off without him 💯 hopefully her stepdad will continue to be there for her

  • @portiarose6914
    @portiarose6914 Рік тому +35

    i still have hope for them. i grew up with a father very similar to that. i will say my journey didn’t go without many bumps in the road, pain, and disappointment but in the end i am able to love my dad where he is and for who he is without any expectations. it takes time and healing. number 1 thing she has to really grow to learn is his actions and his response is not a reflection of her wrongdoings or her worth.

    • @deborahbell3464
      @deborahbell3464 Рік тому +3

      It will take God's Mercy to prevail, and I too have hope for them. Idid not establish a real relationship with my dad until I was grown. Growing up We were surrounded by a village of love and cheerleaders. I got to know my father as an adult. He was an amazing man, served in the US Army,he was a hard worker, and he was book smart, and gave me siblings that I love to life.Even though we are siblings by various mothers, we actually love each other and we loved our dad. We all heard the back story..it was up to us individually to accept it or not. All I know, When he made his transition... We were all there together. Portia I am a believer in hope. Our hope must be in Christ our Lord.i appreciate your testimony. Amen

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway Рік тому

      Well said

    • @nrozie01
      @nrozie01 Рік тому

      I hope they don't. He is only going to bring her more pain. It's better to grieve him now than to continue with a person like that. Its only going to mentally drain you.

    • @SweetUareDesi
      @SweetUareDesi Рік тому

      It’s a consequence of his poor self worth - simply

  • @journeywithjesus
    @journeywithjesus Рік тому +8

    I love the way Karamo dealt with this whole situation.

  • @Napptrully_Beautiful
    @Napptrully_Beautiful Рік тому +6

    I love how you protected this precious child.

  • @kimberlyshantel13
    @kimberlyshantel13 Рік тому +29

    With a boy like this you just have to forget he exists and focus on the child

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 Рік тому +34

    I would just ask him to sign off on his parental rights and never bother with him again. He clearly does not want to any to with the child. This child needs therapy to deal with absence

    • @gigga693
      @gigga693 Рік тому +3

      He’s not going to sign over his rights because it’s about control for him and making the mother suffer for not yielding to him.

    • @TheLily97232
      @TheLily97232 Рік тому +4

      He refused when the stepfather wanted to adopt his child. He's the type of man who is caught up in the status "man" aka ego, power and pride. So doing this would be admitting weakness. Men like that are a special kind of trash

  • @heathab...._-_
    @heathab...._-_ Рік тому +35

    What I can't stand about deadbeat parents is when you're a young child they don't want to be bothered with you, but when they get old an you become an adult living your life, here they come acting like they was a good parent an there for you your whole life FOH

  • @thelady71
    @thelady71 Рік тому +11

    As I told my daughter, sometimes their absence is a blessing. That child being around That man would cause more damage than his absence. I’m actually glad he doesn’t come around. That child doesn’t need that type of person in her life. Mom has to change her outlook and language. Teach her her father will never be the father they want him to be, she can still be great without him and his absence has Nothing to do with her. This is all him.

  • @maryburke7850
    @maryburke7850 Рік тому +30

    He is disgusting! I can’t stand his face! I pray this young lady find peace and has a prosperous life!

  • @lovepod2323
    @lovepod2323 Рік тому +29

    Girl..... I feel you! Watching this made me angry. He is so unbothered, so disconnected from reality, lacks empathy, narcissistic, selfish, ignorant, incompetent, poor excuse of a human being, and I bet his mother enables his behaviour. Stop trying, we are better of without them. Not that he gives a fuq.

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 Рік тому

      That man is mentally ill and probably a Kevin Samuel's follower

  • @ivoryivory5424
    @ivoryivory5424 Рік тому +5

    After hearing his daughter share her feelings about him and him saying he’s “unbothered and unmoved” about it, proves the type of man he is. Hes smug, arrogant and selfish. He couldn’t care less.

  • @spartricaknox6814
    @spartricaknox6814 Рік тому +4

    I love the way he conducted himself towards the father. So glad this little girl has a stepfather that shows up for her. Good job mom❤Definitely a fan of this show.

  • @rhondairis570
    @rhondairis570 Рік тому +28

    I honestly could never understand how someone can just up and not bother with their own children. I have more respect for those that can verbalize how they do not want to be a part of the child rearing situation. But that showing up and disappearing and ignoring mess - I can't! I watched my own relatives experience that. It does take a toll and it will mess that child up if never addressed.

  • @DreamsRgold
    @DreamsRgold Рік тому +6

    I absolutely love your show, Karamo. YOU are doing a great job. Not just beginning the healing your guests need, but leaving breadcrumbs for me and others for our healing. This is my ‘pick me up’ show. Thank you.😊

  • @donnalhughes1459
    @donnalhughes1459 Рік тому +72

    Men black men in particular need to stop (those of them who have not been in a child life) don’t realize the pain it is to raise daughters( I know I’ve done it) one of mine is in such backwards state of being because her dad denied her. It’s not easy and our men need to stop and get into their children lives

    • @taylortiwari7118
      @taylortiwari7118 Рік тому +3

      Wish you the best with your daughter. It sounds like you care a lot and have her back.

    • @donavon2007
      @donavon2007 Рік тому +1

      No women need to learn how to close their legs and stop having raw sex with these deadbeats.
      But nooooo yall gotta have it and end up pregnant..
      What happened to women's intuition to show u ahead of time that this guys a deadbeat?
      You women are a joke.

    • @lhurdle87
      @lhurdle87 Рік тому +3

      Not to mention, they leave their daughters vulnerable to bullies and predators out here. But again, they don't care because it's always about them.

    • @bougiepeaches5497
      @bougiepeaches5497 Рік тому +1

      They know, but they just don't care.

    • @robertlunderwood
      @robertlunderwood Рік тому

      57% of black men don't know the pain of raising any kids because they are childless. 51% of black men are single and childless; 6% are married and childless. 29% of black men are married with children. Stop making babies with the bottom 16%.

  • @kmiller6587
    @kmiller6587 Рік тому +14

    Whew like he tried to say mom was letting her emotions get in the way, but if she was willing to drive out to get him for their daughter’s birthday party? Clearly her feelings weren’t hindering her trying to facilitate their relationship the way he thinks they were.

  • @smoke-gl6qk
    @smoke-gl6qk 5 місяців тому +6

    “No it’s not but either way”😭😭

  • @wondercaratland8514
    @wondercaratland8514 Рік тому +12

    As someone who has a father that had done similar things, it is 100% true as to what the mother is saying. A lot of fathers dont understand how much they actually impact their daughters lives and wellbeing, my father ended up leaving my mom after we arrived back in Bk and my mom had to raise 2 kids by herself, not just 2 kids but 2 kids with special needs ontop of that and it wasnt easy . Throughout my whole elementry and middle school life I was a little troubled here and there ontop with the fact I was special needs, I still remember vividly when I had to end up going back to therapy because i was searching up ways to off myself because of the fact that i wanted a perfect family, a dad who was always gonna be there for me, the other time being that I ended up ripping my hair out due to my father as well as getting bad habits such a biting my nails. I always questioned 'Why cant i have a normal family' 'Why cant my father do this x, y, & z', I never felt so lost.

    • @wondercaratland8514
      @wondercaratland8514 Рік тому +2

      Continuation: Fast forwarding to middle school my mom had always told me this that I still till this day will remember "You shouldnt have to chase after your father for love". That being said it took me a minute to understand and to try to get over him but I slowly did even now i'm still trying to get over him and the fact that he was never really there for the rest of my life and was just in and out (mostly out). After seeing this video and thinking back to 2020 I remember getting in trouble for my mom cause of doing something bad and once I told my mom the reason on how I felt unwanted by my dad and my low self esteem and why I did it all hell broke loose and now my mom hates him literally despies him. Anyways even now in 2023 I am still learning how to move on from loving my father and honestly starting to not care about him due to the constant let downs and broken promises and its hard cause thats your bio father but its even harder knowing that they werent their to see you grow up fully as well as fixing my daddy issues due to it. I'm writing this to say that me need to stop having kids if your not gonna be there for them cause all your doing is just damaging them and causing hurt, specifcally BLACK fathers. You dont understand how much you can actually affect their life by not being there so please for the love of god dont have kids if your just gonna leave. So I honestly dont feel bad that the mother feels this way and the dad deserve all the stuff said towards him, she honestly reminds me a lot like my mother to

    • @wondercaratland8514
      @wondercaratland8514 Рік тому +1

      the little girl reminds me so much of myself, I was literally brung to tears

    • @chelseashamim9148
      @chelseashamim9148 Рік тому

      @@wondercaratland8514 😔

  • @They.fw.3mm1
    @They.fw.3mm1 6 місяців тому +3

    The “no it’s not but either way” got me💀

  • @jacquelinejackson8825
    @jacquelinejackson8825 Рік тому +20

    He had the nerve to say he’s a father NO you are a sperm donor and if ever anyone ever needed to be called a deadbeat is definitely him he’s a donor and that’s all He truly doesn’t care if that child is dead or alive 😰😰and it’s really sad,, so happy that she has a mother and a stepfather to teach her to be a strong, young lady and express of feelings and emotions because that sperm donor is really uncaring and God is going to take care of him..😡😡😡

  • @MACMinaj
    @MACMinaj Рік тому +19

    That grown boy is a straight clown! I pray the mom and the daughter find peace and let that man leave their lives for good bc he gon eat that.

  • @poptartibolisim
    @poptartibolisim 9 місяців тому +1

    The daughter reminds me of myself. I had a similar situation but i was struggling celiacs disease and my mother had cancer. No matter how many times i called my father, he was no where to be found. It hurt but me and my mom by the grace of god made it out of such a dark time. I hope her and her mom are doing great and they stay away from that disgrace of a “father”

  • @tyleetophbrown
    @tyleetophbrown Рік тому +4

    I am 25 & I have epilepsy and autoimmune disease and bullied for yrs and I have not seen my father sense I was 9. I understand EVERYTHING of how that little girl feels

    • @smack8531
      @smack8531 Рік тому

      Sending loads of love your way!

  • @komugishaxdaphine4828
    @komugishaxdaphine4828 Рік тому +3

    Am so proud of the way karamo handled this matter. Thanx alot dear.

  • @wifelife8837
    @wifelife8837 Рік тому +11

    He didn’t even care enough to show up to the show to see his little girl in the flesh. Deadbeat!

  • @JordanKeuna
    @JordanKeuna Рік тому +2

    “ that you a deadbeat “ 😂😂😂😂😂 im so dead straight to the point 😂😂😂

  • @thewriter2050
    @thewriter2050 Рік тому +9

    The fact that he wouldn't even give his daughter the courtesy of coming to the show, says a lot...He knows he is a poor excuse of a father, and why he won't just sign over his rights so that the man who ACTUALLY takes care of her, is beyond me.

  • @lhurdle87
    @lhurdle87 Рік тому +15

    I can relate to Kaylee. My father was the first man to lie to me, not show up when I needed him, especially for protection, and even choked me for telling him no when he wanted me to strip naked in front of him. He was also performative in front of my mom and her side of the family. Acting like he cared about me but never showed up for my birthdays or even Father's Day so I could celebrate him. His name isn't even on my birth certificate either. I genuinely hate his guts and deep down I pray he isn't my biological father. I even asked my mother if she's sure no one else could be a possibility. She keeps telling me no but I still have my doubts. There's no way I could be related to that selfish and dangerous coward. Luckily for Kaylee, she feels safe enough to ask her stepfather to adopt her. Unfortunately for me, I don't feel that way with mine. My stepfather mistreats my mom, me, and his own daughters too. It literally feels like there's no escape to the toxicity for me. I wish all suffering for everyone would stop.

  • @faleeshalee
    @faleeshalee Рік тому +7

    This whole situation is way too familiar to me. My heart actually aches for this baby and her mother. One of the hardest positions in the world to be in as a mother is not being able to fix it for your child. That baby girl deserves so much more.

  • @Shugah6262
    @Shugah6262 Рік тому +10

    This father here is very much in denial of not being in this young ladies life terrible. He unbothered because he got so many issue and he can't admitted it, this was like talking to a brick wall. Praying for this Queen & her beautiful daughter, give them strength,covering protection & guidance and prosperity in the name of Jesus Amen! 🙏

  • @BigQue_300C
    @BigQue_300C Рік тому +22

    I would love to put my hands on this sorry excuse of a man. Us fathers are really valuable to our children

  • @iltony21
    @iltony21 Рік тому +1

    Omg. This is an example of sometimes the Deadbeat parent DOESN'T need to be around. The crazy thing is, he said his father WAS there. I know someone like this

  • @jermainelumar1437
    @jermainelumar1437 Рік тому +6

    Much respect for Kamaro. Keep doing your thing brother. May God continue to bless you and your show. Real talk.💯💯💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥💥💥💥

  • @thejourney1192
    @thejourney1192 Рік тому +6

    This reminds me of my daughter's father, very established as a mental health consultant, trying to solve everybody elses problem yet care zero for his daughter. At 7 years old, she has never met her father. He sits in well known spaces, acting as if he is this good person, yet this man provides no sort of support for his daughter. Just imagine living in a 3rd world country with no financial support coming from the father. This father has multiple/dual citizenship for England, Canada and some country/s in African and never tries to assist his daughter in that regard. She is yearning to have a relationship with her dad. But he cares zero...

  • @sequoiajean4606
    @sequoiajean4606 Рік тому +12

    Wow my daughter is 8 and hasn’t seen her dad sense she was 10 months. He makes no effort to talk to her and she has her own phone! Smh idk what else to do, I’ve been holding the door open for him and he just calls me names and acts like I’m telling my daughter lies as if I won’t let him talk to her. Im just thankful for counseling!

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 Рік тому

      your letting that idiot block you from a wonderful husband who will take you and your daughter. let all that go, change your circle, feminity and find a HUSBAND

  • @qmsd112
    @qmsd112 Рік тому +4

    The audacity of that narcissist! I'm glad the little girl is staying as far away from him

  • @christophersims6863
    @christophersims6863 Рік тому +7

    I heard the baby say she would love to talk to mom alone and that that doesn't happen as much. Mom, that baby said that too. Please give her dedicated alone time. You are doing a good job and step-dad too! She has trauma and you being her biggest supporter, and the person she trusts most, pls listen to Karamo and release that baby from you trying to mend her biological dad and baby girl's nonrelationship.

  • @vivianaskew2723
    @vivianaskew2723 Рік тому +4

    This reminds me of my son’s father. My son is 24 and have not seen his father since he was 10. I had to get his father out of my system to be a better mom for my son. I would love to be this mom’s friend because she needs to build herself back up.

  • @oliviademetra7653
    @oliviademetra7653 Рік тому +4

    I cannot believe he heard his child express how disconnected she feels from her dad & how this is clearly affecting her self esteem and he says “I’m unbothered.” This man is bad to the bone..

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому

      Bu-bu-bu-bu-BAD!!!! (George Thorogood &the Destroyers) 🤣🤣🤣

  • @aprilharper5726
    @aprilharper5726 Рік тому +1

    The Emotion That Karamo Showed And This Show And The Dead Beat Dad About His Daughter I’m Glad That Karamo Got To Talk To This Mom About Her Daughter You Is Having A Heard Time In Her Life.

  • @jayeb4494
    @jayeb4494 Рік тому +14

    I was with that for 16 minutes and my chest was hot. He's trying to sound so intelligent while sounding dumb as hell. Any woman who would even think about giving him a chance after seeing this or even after meeting him somewhere and speaking to him...... deserves whatever she goes thru.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому +2

      Just like this one did? Just asking....

    • @jettsett9354
      @jettsett9354 Рік тому +1

      You're tellling me she met this dude, spent time talking with him and thought "yeah this is the man I wanna have a baby with"? Either there's more to this (which we might've learned about if they didn't keep interrupting him) or that woman is just as irresponsible.

    • @jayeb4494
      @jayeb4494 Рік тому

      ​@@jettsett9354must've been caught up in the heat of the moment like alot of people do

  • @anthonygardner1438
    @anthonygardner1438 Рік тому +5

    This is so unfortunate 😢 My Mother always said when the Father do not want to take care of his kids, as a Mother YOU take care of them. I now truly understand that because if dealing with a narcissistic individual who fails to exhibit ownership is what you have to deal with, trust the absent Parent will be the best thing for you and the child ❤
    *Flowers to Karamo 💐
    *Blessings to the Mother, Daughter, Stepparent and even the Father ❤

  • @jamiesmith995
    @jamiesmith995 Рік тому +15

    I don’t think I’ve ever seen a more disgusting excuse of a father and I can tell by the way Karamo reacted! He’ll never be there and he’s delusional.

  • @Armelleee
    @Armelleee Рік тому +1

    When the daughter called him a deadbeat lol ...his face. I cant wait for the day my daughter does the same with mine when she gets older.

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 Рік тому +11

    Yep stop reaching out that's what I had to do to have a peace of mind and never mention their dads in our household.

  • @MohauNtlhe
    @MohauNtlhe Рік тому +2

    This must be the most heartbreaking, rage-inducing episode of the Karamo show that I done ever seen. That man a holier than thou POS and I hope life deals him the terrible cards he deserves.

  • @Neneeee
    @Neneeee Рік тому +4

    Damn these episodes are hitting hard 😢. I’m dealing with the same exact type of person and it truly is terribly disgusting. My son just turned 10. We’ve been struggling with stability lately and no contact at all from this exact same kind of person for years; except to threaten to take my son 2 years ago. He even has other children but will not even try for my son. It’s mind blowing but I had to let go of trying to get him to be something he wasn’t. I work on helping my son to regulate and express his emotions because the fear in these type of people is ungodly. We don’t need them to provide the unconditional love our children need, and our kids don’t need the added stress of inconsistent or absent parents. Just put your all into the kid and help them understand their worth. 🤩🙌🏽💪🏽

  • @BlackExpatMom
    @BlackExpatMom Рік тому +13

    His expenses are covered, but he couldn't even attend the show.

    • @brownshugakale2410
      @brownshugakale2410 Рік тому +2

      Normal coward transactions.... pathetic...he may get by with his disgraceful actions, but he won't get away because there's something called seed and harvest...he will reap what he's sewn

    • @truthtorpedo4068
      @truthtorpedo4068 6 місяців тому

      ​@@brownshugakale2410
      There will be a reckoning for this COWARD.
      He will certainly reap what he has sowed.

  • @Djdreamstudios
    @Djdreamstudios Рік тому +8

    Wow My hearts breaks for this young lady and if I was her mother I would remove him from everything and let the step-dad be it. But I’m extremely grateful that the step dad took on the role of being a parent to a child that’s not his.

  • @moesality
    @moesality Рік тому +12

    the way people are saying she is coached is crazy!! i talked like her at 11 damn at maybe even 8 or 9. Since I was about a year old i’ve been calling my stepdad my dad. i have been screaming and crying when my biological dad would come pick me up. i have had my own brain about him since i could talk. she MAY have known the type of man he was with her mom but if he was a good father, she would not have to see her mother upset. her mother did not coach her. y’all don’t know her intellect and what mind she may have. HER MOTHER FOUND LETTERS OF HER FEELING UNLOVED BY THIS MAN. and he DOES disrespect women, HER MOTHER. she is 11 years old. she sees how he treats her mom. don’t degrade the mother saying she coached her.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Рік тому +1

      Worst coaching job since the 2008 Detroit Lions and the 2017 Cleveland Browns

    • @kandiseandrews6217
      @kandiseandrews6217 Рік тому +1

      @Darrian Mitchell well I know them personally and I promise you she is not coached. Clearly you do not have kids around you who know how to articulate their feelings.

  • @godfavored5
    @godfavored5 Рік тому +6

    That Baby is so intelligent ❤

  • @elove2.038
    @elove2.038 Рік тому +5

    I pray that GOD will come into this lil girl life & meet all her needs🙏🏾 That man gone have to answer for that.

  • @Hollywoodken88
    @Hollywoodken88 Рік тому +15

    This dude got more excuse’s then a man going to jail

  • @GaboureyHalima
    @GaboureyHalima Рік тому +2

    Me and this girl have a very similar story. I’m 13 and my biological father left when my mom was 5 months pregnant with me. And the first and only time that I have seen and talked to him was when it was my 8th birthday. After my birthday he invited me to a Easter egg hunt the next month. I went. Last time I ever talked or saw him. It hurts a lot. I feel her pain. God bless her ❤

  • @MutedSins26
    @MutedSins26 Рік тому +3

    The universe will deal with him. Let go and keep being a great mom!

  • @Kinglomami
    @Kinglomami Рік тому +2

    I need to be this chill in scenarios like him

  • @jermainelumar1437
    @jermainelumar1437 Рік тому +5

    There what you call a sorry excuse for a father and a man. My prayer goes out to the mother and child. I pray that the mother and daughter on the show will get the blessing that she deserves. Also that sorry excuse for father and a man will reap what he sow.

  • @TheDijahDiva
    @TheDijahDiva Рік тому +2

    Thank god she has a good mother and a stand up step father