Do Black Men Like Natural Hair (Hidden Gems Episode 5)

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  • Опубліковано 13 лют 2023
  • Host(s): Keith Brown and Jay Jones
    In this thought provoking episode our hosts dissect the European influence on the perception of natural hair and beauty.
    Camera and Lighting Technician: Omar Brown
    Sound Technician: Corey Ray Jackson
    Produced By: Sharna L. Brown
    Directed By: Aleshia Cowser Jackson
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  • @oliviapearson7856
    @oliviapearson7856 Рік тому +93

    I’ve gotten so many compliments from brothers about my natural hair, but they won’t talk to me. The women on their arms have long lace fronts

    • @kewan2045
      @kewan2045 10 місяців тому +12

      As a man considering settling down natural is what I’m looking for specifically. Crazy nails also a disqualifier

    • @GabrielaMeredith
      @GabrielaMeredith 9 місяців тому

      Yeah but are they marrying these women? Men will walk around with an overly done up women for 10 years and then marry a natural woman in 6 months.

    • @rdkirk3834
      @rdkirk3834 6 місяців тому +2

      Look for wedding rings.

    • @hannahdargan6079
      @hannahdargan6079 5 місяців тому +7

      I agree they do like to have the lace front women on their arm. But. The women on their arm may be there only temporarily. Apparently men like to smash the lace fronts knowing they are the easier ones because they are insecure.

    • @Hardawayfits
      @Hardawayfits 5 місяців тому +2

      So true. That's why I go where the love is at😊

  • @Mebby06
    @Mebby06 4 місяці тому +29

    I am darker skinned black women with 4a/4b hair, my hair is long but when I wear it natural black men don’t pay me no mind, it’s white and Hispanic men that gravitate towards men. When I wear a weave black men notice me.

    • @rhondadenis3469
      @rhondadenis3469 3 місяці тому +12

      That’s the sad truth. But keep rocking the natural because the natural is truly yours and it’s beautiful.

    • @robinb.4699
      @robinb.4699 2 місяці тому

      @@rhondadenis3469-❤

    • @YahsWordWarrior
      @YahsWordWarrior 2 місяці тому +2

      How odd.

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 Рік тому +44

    😂😂😂 I was dating someone and he wanted me to straighten my hair. That was the end of what could have been a relationship.
    As transition into being an elder, not only is my hair “natural” I also stopped dying my natural hair.

  • @char6201
    @char6201 11 місяців тому +37

    I stopped wearing weaves and straightening my hair 11 years ago when my daughter was 3 and said “Mommy why do you wear other people hair? She then said I like your hair better. Well I was completely convicted and I have been natural since. I reflected on the fact that as her mom I am her role model and if I don’t show her that I Love my natural self how will she learn to embrace and love her natural self. My husband absolutely adores my natural hair. Great content fellas 😊

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  11 місяців тому +4

      Thank you so much for sharing and connecting!

    • @talkytabby2878
      @talkytabby2878 8 місяців тому +2

      And everyone clapped, right

    • @ladylabyrinth6345
      @ladylabyrinth6345 2 місяці тому

      ​@@talkytabby2878 chill!

  • @WarmSun_MGM
    @WarmSun_MGM 9 місяців тому +35

    This whole video just shows how ignorant black men are when it comes to texturism and colorism. One can’t be mentioned without the other. No matter how i wear my hair as a Lightskin woman people assume it’s mine. But when a Darkskin woman even straightens her hair people assume she’s insecure. Or if she has a looser texture naturally people assume she’s altered it chemically. Black men only like natural hair on Lightskin women. And even then it can’t be the type 4’s. I get a lot of men regardless of how i wear my hair because I’m Lightskin. Not because a man thinks I’m more in tune with myself.

    • @lisa6356
      @lisa6356 7 місяців тому +3

      I try telling my husband the same thing.

    • @emptynester547
      @emptynester547 5 місяців тому

      Wow, your arrogant. Beauty does fade and skin color does get blotches.

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 4 місяці тому +4

      This comment need to be pinned ❤

    • @marcasino3117
      @marcasino3117 4 місяці тому +3

      Your trauma showing. They said what they meant in the first 5 minutes.

    • @maureenpemberton5991
      @maureenpemberton5991 7 годин тому

      Well said ! This is the actual truth. It is well observed, and it shows the double standard within the black communities. They definitely reinforce colourist and texturism / featurism, bully both light and dark skinned women. What does the black community want ????

  • @lulubean917
    @lulubean917 Рік тому +25

    Love men that embraces us black women

    • @illrizzocgg1009
      @illrizzocgg1009 9 місяців тому +2

      Bm love bw woman who embrace their natural self

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому

      ❤️❤️

  • @CA-zf5kk
    @CA-zf5kk 9 місяців тому +15

    This is the most beautiful language I’ve heard used by black men to describe our hair and beauty ❤ thank you!
    I also wanted to add that natural hair doesn’t automatically mean that she doesn’t want that $2,000 purse lol

  • @TheMsOShow
    @TheMsOShow 10 місяців тому +17

    It wasn’t until I started wearing my natural hair did my confidence, self love, self esteem and power truly come out! It’s nothing more vulnerable yet powerful than when you shed that of which you’ve been taught to believe is your beauty and you find and embrace what is! I’ve been natural for 3 years and fully wearing it out with no extensions, wigs or weaves for one year and I absolutely LOVE my hair!!! It’s wild, it’s fiery, it’s different, it’s resilient, it’s most importantly MINE!!!!! Great video guys!

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому +2

      Powerful! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @Softman264
    @Softman264 10 місяців тому +10

    These two guys have spoken so intelligently..... I appreciate you brothers.

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому +2

      We appreciate you connecting with the show 🌹

  • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
    @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому +7

    US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR.

    • @user-on6xc8dk4z
      @user-on6xc8dk4z 2 місяці тому +1

      No doubt

    • @DebbieSmith-pd9fz
      @DebbieSmith-pd9fz 23 дні тому

      You mean 🐑 wool brillo pad afro head 😂

    • @elofton777
      @elofton777 15 днів тому

      Let's be honest, not all. Some will look the other way no matter how modest we look. CHOICE

    • @elofton777
      @elofton777 15 днів тому

      It's about confidence. Men know women do not always look beautiful in their natural hair. Enhance, men are visual.

  • @learningearning8385
    @learningearning8385 5 місяців тому +5

    Blk men usually mean “real hair” as cancer causing “relaxed hair” or Spanish wavy. Anything but kinky hair. I appreciate these two for loving blk hair of all types and addressing the gaslighting.

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому

      US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR. EVEN IN THE 70,S WHEN BLACK WOMEN WAS ROCKING AFROS THEY HAD NO PROBLEM WITH GETTING A BLACK MAN.

  • @Mariamk1995
    @Mariamk1995 9 місяців тому +11

    I love this video so much. Thank you for uplifting Black women. So many men do the opposite. Thank you both.

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for connecting with us 🌹

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому

      US BLACK MEN LOVE BLAVK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR

  • @tamikabutler3829
    @tamikabutler3829 Рік тому +12

    I believe men just prefer a confident woman regardless if she displaying her natural hair or relaxed or weave I have been given more compliments since I’ve been Loc’d I believe it’s cause I became more confident rocking them

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for that insight!

    • @marcasino3117
      @marcasino3117 4 місяці тому

      How you get that from this discussion? Men of their caliber prefer women with natural hair. Lesser men may have lower standards.

  • @rharrison2386
    @rharrison2386 Рік тому +8

    I don't know why I'm typing this but Mr. Jones I'm glad to see and hear you opening up the convo on the beauty of our black queens ... you might not remember me but a couple of years ago I did some work at your residence for you and your wife and til this day yall still top my customer experiences and conversations I've had at work . Please stay blessed

  • @Hardawayfits
    @Hardawayfits 5 місяців тому +6

    My ex is mexican. He love my curly fro ponytail. When I straightened he liked it but he always wanted me to do a big afro😊

    • @xXJade_AssassinXx
      @xXJade_AssassinXx 4 місяці тому +1

      Same! My dude is latino and loves my big natural hair 😂❤

    • @Hardawayfits
      @Hardawayfits 4 місяці тому

      @@xXJade_AssassinXx I love that about Foriegn men they love brown american women when we are not wearing fake enhancements.

    • @xXJade_AssassinXx
      @xXJade_AssassinXx 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Hardawayfits Ye ye 💜

  • @Kimberlycpr2012
    @Kimberlycpr2012 Рік тому +12

    Some women wear weave for protective styles. That’s the only reason I wear braids. My hair grows long and healthy, but it does need a break from time to time.
    My husband loves my natural hair, so do I.

    • @space3555
      @space3555 Рік тому +6

      Braids are not the same as lace fronts

    • @char6201
      @char6201 11 місяців тому +5

      I still consider braids as natural

  • @feliciapena9952
    @feliciapena9952 10 місяців тому +7

    When I wear my big Afro. The YTP can’t stop 👀.

  • @Faith_mmack
    @Faith_mmack 8 місяців тому +6

    I don't think it's bad to wear a wig or box braids as a protective hairstyle because sometimes we need to give our hair a break. However, natural hair is beautiful. Find a routine that works for you and rock it with confidence.

    • @DebbieSmith-pd9fz
      @DebbieSmith-pd9fz 23 дні тому

      This protective style bs crap, protecting what ffs🙄 is an excuse for hiding the afro not showing it because of shame and let's be honest it is ugly like 🐑 wool or a brillo pad so please stop with the denial and self hate ffs 🙄

  • @neamccree7953
    @neamccree7953 6 місяців тому

    Preach Brothers!!!! Much Love to you both.

  • @lesleyannroberts4301
    @lesleyannroberts4301 Рік тому +3

    This was a great conversation!!!

    • @eyeamcinema
      @eyeamcinema  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for connecting with us 🌹

  • @sandersshameka31
    @sandersshameka31 5 місяців тому

    Straight wisdom and facts.

  • @KnijMagz
    @KnijMagz 5 місяців тому

    Nice video for sure!

  • @nomessnostress
    @nomessnostress 2 місяці тому

    Oooo these men ❤ and how they even had the examples and facts to back it up! Esp the man who wife has the buzz cut.... he is educated

  • @yoanneM
    @yoanneM День тому

    Yes we do!

  • @ashleyd2183
    @ashleyd2183 Рік тому +1

    Good content!

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida 5 місяців тому +3

    I don’t care if men hated what grew out of my head I’m still gonna rock it regardless. I don’t wear any weave.

  • @jeffreyandrews
    @jeffreyandrews Рік тому +4

    I love it and prefer it on women!

  • @KB_theauthentic
    @KB_theauthentic Рік тому +2

    Too much fun

  • @jenn6638
    @jenn6638 7 днів тому

    Full circle! Natural, change for the man, then man say they liked the natural you better in the first place. They've messed us up! 😢 STAND!

  • @rongarner3541
    @rongarner3541 Місяць тому

    YES. End of conversation.

  • @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
    @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤ In the 80s i was referred to as a " coolie". In 2024, i am still being told " u not fully black ". Our people have problems & issues. Texturism is rampant..its why the black women r in the wigs

  • @P03ticJustice
    @P03ticJustice 5 місяців тому +6

    They aint taking natural women on nice dates or paying bills. This lip service

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому

      US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR

  • @herndonchambers7328
    @herndonchambers7328 5 місяців тому

    “My Brotha”😂

  • @sharry1445
    @sharry1445 6 місяців тому +4

    They like afto hair to fewl black but they will gravitate to softer straighter hair. I tried it once in a club guys were on me with the straight weave and the next week i had short hair i felt ignored because they moved to my friend who have long hair naturally but was relaxed.
    I wear my hair for versatility. But to this day its the same. Men say they love natural hair but it brings confidence which runs them away. Unless they already wwirh their women, vut veing single and natural is crazy in the vlack community.

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому +1

      NOPE, US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR.

  • @alphapeters3474
    @alphapeters3474 8 місяців тому +1

    Big man as a black man it's not what you represent, it's what's you believe in as a tradition please, thanks to you brothers for the good work you guys are doing. We black men always believe in natural hair, finally black women need to understand that we know how God created them for us, so their is no way they can fake us with all these artificial fake stuff, no we ain't having please to all our beautiful black queen

  • @AnomalyBelleza
    @AnomalyBelleza 5 місяців тому

    Volume is low 🙁 I turned my volume all the way up.

  • @tammyporter548
    @tammyporter548 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm mixed. I have crazy hair but I rock all natural. If you don't like... that's a you problem 😂. I except you as is with beer belly and baldness. Just saying

  • @emptynester547
    @emptynester547 5 місяців тому +2

    My natural hair is a nonnegotiable in this American society

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 3 місяці тому

    Black man must foster and give the environment for black women to have the freedom to wear their crown also black man must also wear their hair like a crown.

  • @user-on6xc8dk4z
    @user-on6xc8dk4z 2 місяці тому

    Why is this even a conversation and a question?

  • @annlatson5922
    @annlatson5922 7 місяців тому +2

    The question is do they like themselves. I can care less these days.

  • @TheStamps
    @TheStamps Місяць тому

    I like y’all realness! Perfect ..great video 👍🏾
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  • @brianharnarine4760
    @brianharnarine4760 5 місяців тому

    Do you have a choice 😢

  • @Jamja87
    @Jamja87 Місяць тому

    You mean that you men think if a woman has natural hair is cheap and you don't have to spend no money .Itproves the y only like it for financial reasons not because it's her real hair.

  • @sandraharris1490
    @sandraharris1490 7 місяців тому

    Thats not true out here they run to straight hair they don't even look at us with our natural hair but me I wear my natural hair all the time and where a wig sometimes men's probably don't want to buy that hair I wear my regular hair 90% of the time

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому +1

      US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR

  • @maverick1991able
    @maverick1991able 4 місяці тому

    They don't prefer natural.hair. I was just told to put on a weave.

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому +1

      US BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN WITH 4C NATURAL HAIR

    • @user-on6xc8dk4z
      @user-on6xc8dk4z 2 місяці тому

      Somebody lied to you

    • @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER
      @MILLIONDOLLARMAKER 2 місяці тому +1

      US BLACK MEN HATE TO SEE BLACK WOMEN WEAR WIGS AND WEAVE , WE PERFER TO SEE OUR BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN ROCK THEY NATURAL 4C HAIR

  • @d_vyneblackkrown1201
    @d_vyneblackkrown1201 2 дні тому

    I don't believe black men truly love and embrace natural look anymore...it s nice to ear but ain't what we seeing
    Just saying.

  • @user-on6xc8dk4z
    @user-on6xc8dk4z 3 місяці тому

    What a foolish question

  • @DeeDaKaang1
    @DeeDaKaang1 Рік тому +3

    ​🤷🏾‍♂️ Ummmmmm.....If you're a straight woman that is looking to attract straight men, wouldn't your #1 goal be to make yourself attractive to the male gaze....If you didn't know real men of substance dislike:
    1.) 🕷 Turantula sized eyelashes
    2.) 9 inch finger 💅 nails
    3.) And crazy multi-colored wigs 👩🏿‍🦰👱🏿‍♀️👩🏿‍🦳
    4.) Short natural hair 👨🏽‍🦲
    5.) Bonnets, leggings, and slippers outside of the house/ gym

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 11 місяців тому +22

      The problem here is that you do not speak on behalf of all "men of substance"; you are speaking about YOUR personal preferences. If all "men of substance" dislike short, natural hair, despite knowing that hair length is primarily dictated by genetics, those men are not "men of substance."

    • @jeannelletillery9270
      @jeannelletillery9270 5 місяців тому

      what's wrong with short natural hair?

    • @DeeDaKaang1
      @DeeDaKaang1 5 місяців тому

      @@jeannelletillery9270 It's not for everybody, most men like women to look like women

  • @rebeccaaddison4157
    @rebeccaaddison4157 2 місяці тому

    They have same texture of hair they just cut it short