Your Therapist Is Not God with Casey Beveridge
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
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Love seeing my girls together. I think this will help people understand that seeing a therapist is not as intimidating as it might seem.😘
*Casey episodes are now my fave🥹 she’s so sweet & is such a breath of fresh air in a world where everyone & their dog is a mental health expert😭🙏🏻 also love how she flips it back on Shannon so it’s not a one sided conversation💕*
Casey is just so mature. Like that is a full adult right there. I don’t know that I’ll ever get to that level lmao.
You are mature too!! Just in a more relatable way to me- hopefully u didn’t take that the wrong way hahaha
I'm 30 and I was thinking the same thing. Neurodivergent nb lesbian. Out all 3 over a decade ago. Feel like I've had 3 kinds of puberty.
lol casey telling clients to unfollow shannon
I loved watching Casey talk about therapy. It doesn’t all have to be 100% gay. Relating to having a therapist and the dynamics of the discussions was great to watch! Thanks! Bring Casey back!
She has huuuuge therapist energy. It makes me wonder: is this who she is as a person who then became a therapist? or does therapist training and practice influence this vibe/personality
i can tell casey is a good therapist and i hope i get someone like her for my future. we could all use someone who is smart and caring to guide us to be our best self. and also work thru any queer related pains.
Casey is so well spoken and respectful. Some people say so much without really saying anything of value at all and she's the opposite. It feels like she chooses her words wisely and therefore it's enriching to listen to her.
Shannon: let's fight 😡
Casey: not today not here 😇
Props to Casey for being so open and vulnerable! It's great to know that there are therapists out there with the best intentions who are in it for the right reasons 👏
@ 1:01:09 Losing a phone in a chip bag is so ADHD coded 😂😂😂
Casey emanates this comforting and kind aura that I can't explain. She is definitely a natural people healer. 💛
y’all’s sister relationship is so sweet! more episodes with Casey she’s so well spoken. also her being so concerned about making sure it’s ethical speaks to how good a therapist she is!
The episodes in which you host your sister are some of my absolute favorite. Casey exudes a quiet confidence and is masterfully measured in her words in the most meaningful way. She's thoughtful, endearing, and incredibly compelling. This episode was such a delight, from start to finish. I'm hopeful she'll guest on your podcast more often, required she's comfortable with doing so, of course.
I think, we've become simultaneously overstimulated and under-socialized as a society. As you mentioned, despite technology advancing at the speed of light, psychologically-speaking, we just don't have the capacity to adapt as quickly to the societal "rules of engagement" technologically is constantly requiring of us. Therefore, perhaps, we have gotten into the trend of pathologizing our language as a means of compartmentalizing people, behaviors, preconceptions, etc. I think your sister nailed it when she made note of our limited capacity to socialize the "old fashioned" way. For example, our perspectives of many people often is the product of that person's ability to heavily curate their appearance, various signal(s) of self/identity, and "personality". Thus, this unintentionally places undue pressure and expectations that are really difficult to reproduce in the actual lived world and not through the lens of an app. Essentially, we no longer perceive people in the real world, we are introduced to them through a literal virtual reality, only making for more work to actually get to know people. Now, not only do we have to get to know people, we have to now unlearn our perceptions of who we thought they were, talk about social conflict.
Anywho, as always this was such an incredible episode. Many thanks to your sister for her vulnerability and guesting on your show again! :)
Casey is the best!! So great to hear her perspective on things. Thank you for being on the podcast!! ☺️
Not sure if you're still staying up around upload times but thanks for the ep and have a good sleep shannon! Goodnight!
depends on the week!! this time you caught me! thank you ❤❤❤❤
@@nowthisisliving Yess I'm so glad!! ❤❤❤❤
Casey is so comforting to just listen to. Love these eps with her professional insight on these issues, very interesting!
The respect that you have for one another is beautiful. And, clearly you are each others’ biggest fans 😊 as a future therapist, I appreciate this educational feedback!
I loved this episode. I'm a psychologist myself and even though I also have a lot of therapist friends, it is so nice and helpful to hear a new perspective! Thank you, Casey, for sharing so many thoughts about your work and therapy overall!
Great episode! Please bring her back, I'd love to hear Casey talk about absolutely anything. I appreciate the care and thoughtfulness of her observations, opinions, and responses.
i listened on spotify but just here to leave a comment for casey 🤭 i’m honestly happy you’re out there!! i like the way you think & care. truly feels like you’re using your (very broad) knowledge to do good 🫶🏼
You look like you have an amazing connection and love for one another. It’s great to see.
Shannon I’ve loved listening to you in the past, hearing different prospectives and thoughts on life. Your words remind me to be more tolerant and forgiving to myself and others.
Casey you sound so considered and eloquent, with a passion for your work in mental health which is such a breath of fresh air. I love your ethical stand to maintain the best therapy - client relationship, you see this stepped over so much these days which I feel is not the healthiest thing to do. Is nice to see that there are therapists out there with such integrity.
Your parents raised an amazing family.
Loved hearing from Casey! She is incredibly easy to listen to, passionate, and informative. Great episode!
Such a good point on the time piece causing more rumination...having to prepare for any social interaction rather than drop bys etc.
I love seeing another therapists on the pod! I’m in school right now to become a therapists, and it’s very interesting to see how others deal with social media on the professional side ✨
Loved this episode, and hearing Casey speak. Such a caring and kind presence. Please thank her for sharing and taking the time to be on podcast, even though she had some reservations.
I really enjoyed listening to this and getting a therapist's perspective on therapy and mental health. Thank you both!
hearing Casey's opinion on topics (and also from a psychological perspective) was so interesting. Could have listened to you two for hours. Loved it!
I'm so behind but I finally heard 🎉
Casey's episodes are some of my favorites, I love to hear about her perspectives on both therapy and beveridge world
Love seeing Casey on the podcast again and hear your conversations from a different angle! She seems so lovely and genuine, it's so interesting to hear her perspective ON therapy and share more about herself as well.
Casey is so smart, I always love the energy she brings and also what she brings out in Shannon
i loooved this episode! Casey’s authenticity & vulnerability was really cool to hear from someone who is an ethical, talented practicing therapist! I think a lot of the issues y’all touched on are universal to people in therapy & there are a lotta gays in therapy so it’s still a gay episode 👏🏼👏🏼
I love all your episodes, Shannon, but love this one in a different way! So insightful and relatable - I'm starting grad school to become a therapist in 2 months, and really appreciate hearing Casey talk about it all! Except I'm a person who has been very public on social media for a long time, so I'm curious what I'll learn in school about advice for disclosing and having a public presence!
Finally the second episode with Casey ❤ I was waiting for it!
it's nice to see how relaxed Shannon is "interviewing" her
I enjoyed this episode, because I love hearing Casey's perspective. And I can totally understand how she feels with regards to SM and being in her field, because I am a Registered Nurse, and there are SO many NURSE INFLUENCERS now that it makes me feel like I am not doing something right because I'm not. I've been in nursing for almost 20 years now, but I feel weird because I'm not a nurse influencer. And from what I've seen, there are nurses who do the same thing as that therapist she spoke about, where they just get into the field to become a SM star off of that. So many nurse influencers (NOT ALL) don't practice anymore because they literally will work on the floor with patients for like a year or two and then be like, "that's it, I know and have done everything I need to do with this, now I can make a Tik Tok about it and make money that way!" These are definitely strange times we live in today.
Also, you already know, because I said it the first time Casey was on, that I'd love having her as a therapist. She's got such a calming presence, but I know that she would definitely be very good and firm about getting me to identify my blocks and issues, and make sure I take accountability for the things in my life. (I say this as someone who has gone through therapy once and found it quite helpful-I'd still be doing it if it wasn't so EXPENSIVE!)I love you and all your content, but it's definitely got nothing to do with you, because I think Casey is awesome too. I hope the people who seek her help that also know you/know of you are actually doing it from a place of need, not just because she's your sister. Because if people do that then they aren't truly recognizing that a good therapist is hard to find, and they may be taking away from people who actually need her. I know Casey gets anxious being on the show because of her career, so basically I just want her to know that I think she handles the spotlight very well, and has nothing to worry about. She's always insightful and provides thought provoking commentary. Big hugs to you both!
as a therapist i say that i loooved this! casey is awesome! good job casey!!!
Great episode.
Casey sounds like a productive therapist. Cool to hear how open minded she is to in the moment sessions & how she would approach individual cases/clients.
Loved this episode and when Casey is on the pod. Questions for Casey if she comes back for another ep is 1. How does she take care of her own mental health after listening and engaging with other people’s energies/struggles? and 2. Does she ever feel like the emotional output of the job detracts from wanting to connect with people in her own life?
usually just a silent listener/follower but want to hop and say it's great to have Casey back!! Didn't expect it to end feels like it could go on forever and be just as thought stimulating. Totally understand why it would be scary though, but I think both of y'all handled the wild Wild West magnificently.
Casey is so lovely and I love episodes with her! As someone who has been in therapy for almost 20years and is alive thanks also to her therapist, I can see Casey is wonderful.
I love the Casey episodes! I selfishly would love to see more of her on the Internet. I personally think that Kati Morton, LMFT, does a good job of sharing the right amount of her personal life within her online presence; however, I’m sure Casey already knows that anybody online these days has to deal with a fair amount of trolls, false narratives and unwarranted backlash.
next time I lose my keys, i'm blaming shannon
This was a great episode Shannon & Casey! Something Casey said that reallllllly resonated with me was around dating apps and talking to someone on the app for a long time before you actually meet them. I think you're right, you can more quickly gauge who that person really is if you meet them in person, especially before you've had a chance to build them up in your head.
One thing that I've been doing since being catfished, is asking the person if they don't mind doing a little video call with me (i'm more of a caller than a texter anyways) - especially if our schedules are busy and we want to meet but we can't meet in person right away. I know that's maybe a lot to some people, but for me it relieves some of the nerves I have around safety. Most people are willing, and those who aren't screened themselves out for me.
I love Casey! She is so gentle and mindful with her words. And comes across so genuine, much like you. Listening to an emotionally intelligent conversation is always so refreshing. If you don’t ever have your own podcast together, ya’ll should make this a more regular thing.
I love the safe space this brings us into, organically created between you two sisters.
The couple therapists I've had [tried] were obviously "talk therapists". Like Shannon said, I need one who will challenge me, help me work things out, I have lots of people to talk to, and do, and I'm very self-aware, so I need someone who will help guide me out of my overthinking and second-guessing. Not one who placidly validates every feeling or thought I have. Also thinking of seeing a psychiatrist (psychologist?) as I think I may have adhd 😅 In college I trained as a financial counselor and so I observed a lot of counseling sessions behind a camera and mirror. Fun times! And we shared the center with the marriage and family therapists-in-training and they were so friendly and fun to talk to, they were very different than how I imagined a therapist to be.
I love Lori Gottileb's book "Maybe You Should Talk To Someone" and TherapyJeff.. it's free and i was able to digest these at my own pace!
hi shannon, i've been a silent listener for a while now. absolutely love listening to your podcast eps. It's nice to see Casey again, hope she's feeling good about what she shares, (if u see this Casey you're lovely!! interesting hearing your opinion on these things) anyways byee
I love how you guys interact. It’s so genuine and sweet :)
I really loved this episode!! I am currently doing my bachelor’s degree in psychology and would love more of casey’s book recommendation!
I love meeting guests, I think the back and forth conversations are really interesting and even feels like company, but I have been loving your intros and hearing things about your life so I feel like it’s definitely time to incorporate a solo ep again!!
Also Casey seems so lovely and I love the consideration she puts into her responses. She has so much knowledge in her brain!
This is one of my favorite episodes. Please feature her more often!
I love these episodes with your sister. I think your given names suit you! I like the how peaceful Casey is and I can tell she's introspective. More of these!
Love your family content! I can relate since your family dynamics have similarities to my own. Casey seems like a super genuine and smart human being. I was just curious what her focus is as a therapist and my main takeaway is that her website is super cute!! lol. I don't think my therapist has any web presence.
Rated the podcast, I watch every week, I try to like and comment on each video 🫶🏻 love this show love you and hope it helps 😊
Thank you for coming on the pod Casey! It was great to see how more comfortable you were getting throughout the episode :D
I love it when Casey is on the podcast. She really just has such a calming presence, and I can sense she's such a caring therapist.
Casey has such calming energy
Casey, if you're reading this, first: hi (it's great to see you back on the pod)! You give me hope in therapy. A good part of my job is to record workshops from therapists from North America mostly, and seeing the less "profesional" part of therapists is so refreshing. You're humans too. Anyway, I rarely comment but I hope you'll get positive things out of this podcasting experience. Take care (both of you)
First Word after 10 mn! She's such a good listner...i think a rock to rely on Shannon ! And...you look so exhausted! Missed your energy in this great episode...
you should do a youtube video with casey about ur childhood memories!! it would be fun to watch :)
Loved listening to this
such a good episode please feature Casey more :)
this episode was ONE OF MY FAVORITEEEEEES
It’s interesting to hear you guys almost had a podcast together considering people favor these so much
love episodes with casey!!! you should have a mini series with her inside your pod
I always fall asleep when I´m listening your podcast, love your voice and u💗
She did great! Very interesting to hear this type of conversation!
Casey is great! Loved the ep
Love to see Casey back!!!❤
29:21 yes, this. I don’t like the idea of labeling myself as “anxious” etc, but it’s helpful to know the concepts bc I can recognize in real time, where is this reaction coming from.
Love Casey episodes and solo Shannon episodes... hell just a fan of everything
Great convo Casey and Shannon💜
love having casey on the pod! she is sooo smart!❤️❤️
I’m always down for more episodes with Casey
Waiting for the Chappel Roan episode. Not in the way, hurry up but in the way of, there's no way this isn't happening.
YES YES YES CASEY EPISODE! The greatest gift
27:20 Mal called it “trickle down therapy” on her pod recently
I don’t know. When I was in therapy it was very important to me that my therapist was gay. I felt like that was the only way they could understand my difficulties. Now i just want them to be good at their job. Which is to help me explore and guide my personal problems. Therapy is mainly listening. And me being able to explore feelings in a safe place. I don’t understand video therapy. Although, it is the new big thing. I need to be able to read the non -verbal as well as verbal. Whole new world. i tried video nursing It was so hard Kinda like s 911 operator you have to listen for whats not being said. I love episodes with your sister. They make you think about where you stand. Not just the fluff of a regular guest 😂
More of Casey- Please! She is awesome.
We are so lucky to get Casey on the pod
I really love how Casey gives helpful insights while also caring about being ethical. Also, she's so comforting idk what it is she just looks SO KIND. PS.: yes the names don't match lol
Ope I absolutely love Wednesday mornings with Shan ❤
We love sibling love lets go Casey !
Loved the episode shannon and Casey seems so sweet❤❤
for me, i think i would want to know a little bit about my therapist's personal life just so i can gauge personality and know how to talk to them about certain life experiences. like whether they grew up in the south. do they interact with gay people or people of color. stuff like that but i don't want to see what they're cooking for dinner that week or how many pets they have or what they fight about with their partner. i think some mystery keeps the professional boundry.
I agree with this. I think we cant treat the profession of therapy as immune from subconscious bias. The really is that even therapy has not good people working in the profession and those biases can really affect their level of care. It’s just reality
Sorry Shannon gonna need to unfollow so Casey can be my life coach. jk 😂 Loved the ep!
Love Love Your Podcast Shannon ❤❤
Love a Casey ep!
People love to rag on dating apps but there are so many things you can put upfront on an app that are really awkward and weird to bring up to someone in person. Besides knowing who's single and queer, just knowing what they want, complex orientations or needs... as an acespec person it's really hard to get into with someone I don't meet on an app unless we're friends first (and that has its risks) because it's such a bit socially weird thing to talk to a stranger about your relationship to sex, the pace at which you need to take romantic relationships, areas of inexperience...
If you don’t know you’re not dating Charlie Demilio…that’s a bigger problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tired Shannon is SAVAGE 🤌🏻🔥
agree with the below comments about these episodes being my favorite 🙌thank you
I was catfished by a regular girl this past winter. It was … crazy. I was very sad because I genuinely fell for it and thought we had this deep connection. I am a smart person too… I like to think I am at least lol. It’s crazy out there.
Your sister is the sweetest!
I do prefer when you have guests for each episode
Also, my land lord told me this because im still going through my heartbreak "I can tell you are very hurt. It's very painful to share a life with someone and have it crushed like this. I hope you don't see your grief as inconveniencing others. No one is trained for things like this. Grief is the price we pay for caring and loving. It shows that it was real and meant a lot to you"
She meant a lot me and my love for her knew no bounds.
I love the episodes with Casey
solo episode is my favorite
I love the Casey episodes!
Casey has a very soothing voice