this reminds me of the time i was on a rugby team and thought i was smooth talking 2 of my teammates separately in the hopes of asking them both out at some point in the future…only to find out the 2 of them had already been dating each other for a couple months and i had no clue😩 … anyway lol love jade and mal seperately and together 🥹
@@mhgni.b6314 and then Jade had another one of my crushes on after Mal haha. Such a great conversation and I learned so much. Jade is giving all the gifts and knowledge!! I want to be like Mal with the way they carry themselves and stay calm and kind even in conflict. It sounds silly, but I’d never seen someone handle conflict the way they did on the ultimatum and ever since, I’ve been striving to be more like that. I thank them for being such a good example of how to be queer and such a kind and steady human. I’m excited for the clothing adventures they are working on! I’ve been a fan of Jade for years, even before I really admitted to myself that I was queer. I appreciate Jade so much for everything I’ve learned and all the things they’ve shared over the years with us.
I think Mal’s empathy is a testament to Afro-Caribbean upbringing. I was taught the same thing. The old saying “do onto others as you would like done to you,” was big while I was growing up…and that sense of community. My family knew everyone. Lots of empathy, lots of love, lots of compassion and community.
What was the purpose of this-feels like a dig to African Americans. You could’ve simply made this comment literally without the comparison. It was truly irrelevant-not deep.
I appreciate how Jade let's the convo flow & still keeps her direction...she's only going to grow in that...show is dope now, it's only gonna get better
Therapy does INDEED give one language & new emotional artillery to pull out. Mal's emotional intelligence is 🔥🔥🔥 Both of you hold DEPTH & empathy & it feels like this warm, gingered/lemon tea I'm enjoying while watching this. Thank you Jade Fox for existing. Simply.
“Auntie who has the same friend who comes to thanksgiving every year” is so funny. I love that we’re sharing black family commonalities that are queer coded.
This should be a podcast. I feel like my mother, but instead of Father Mbaka while cleaning on a Saturday morning, it’s Jade and Mall, amazing Saturday morning reset
To Mal’s advice about getting on the ground to handle conflict as someone in a position of power…yes. That’s a strategy I learned as a teacher & it’s very effective when working with students. Rather than towering over them when I need to provide discipline, correct behavior, or even just give feedback about their work, it’s good practice to physically get at a child’s level by sitting or kneeling before having that conversation with them. It really does change the tone & lessens that power dynamic. They’re also not having to strain their neck to look at me. Lol
the leader sitting while talking to the people - the dynamic change is actually such a powerful thing. my favorite director i worked with was like this, and he always reminded us we are a team. so important, and the fact Mal and I on that same community building wave🫶🏼 congrats Jade this is *chef kiss* impeccable content 🩵
This was so pleasant to watch . I only picked up my phone once and that was to make this comment . N that’s a miracle with my adhd self . I enjoy the soft masc vibe you all have and not afraid to show love to one another and uplift . More males and studs could learn from this . 💜💜💜💜
not you flashing the white womans face 🤣🤣🤣 you are soooo wrong for that 🤣🤣🤣 as a soft black butch this was a great convo - as a child of immigrants definitely align with what mal said about “stepping into others shoes” and it’s so interesting being soft but also masc (i also think there’s a hardness that people put on black women which is probably rooted in something racist but idk) and it’s been super important for me to show up as my whole self each day whether that be getting my nails done or clarify with partners that i like everything to feel super natural yet balanced and equal even if they’re femme, i feel like we owe it to ourselves to not let people get it twisted. cuz at the end of the day a lot of times we’re the ones that end up missing out (on being made to feel beautiful, feeling taken care of, sexual pleasure etc etc). Super important conversation, thank you both
Oh my goodness! I got chills reading this. I’m a black femme so I admittedly hadn’t thought a lot about how the masculinization of black women affects black masc women. Thank you for sharing this.
Serving looks you two yessss👏 I love this interview, just relaxed talking as friends and giving advice.✨❤️Thank you for creating this space of acceptance.
Clearly Ive been lacking!! This one and Ambers are the ones ive (only now) started with. These conversations have been touching in the right, kind hearted, places // Much love & appreciation // Keep doing what yall do, Support for more of this ANY day
Yiiiiiiiikes 😩 have we unlocked a new universally black thing? I def was not allowed to lock mine either and, like Jade, I am also factory settings black lol
my neighbor in venice worked in the kitchen at erewhaan for a minute and he said the health violations are INSANE like theyre consistently poisoning ppl 💀
jadeee, i love this show its been so lovely seeing part of the journey to get to this project from watching your vids all these years! you are a phenomenal conversationalist and you have such skill in asking questions that get the guest to go deeper and more vulnerable with you sending love!
20:00 I’m with Jade, teenagers are going to have sex, it’s definitely not disrespectful for teens to do it in their own homes. It’s hard to navigate as a parent, but I’m surprised to hear Mal talk about it the way that they did. 😮 go easy on your teenage self
😭😭😭😭👌🏽😮💨wait cause jade why is the swoop so perfect??! That bayang could be used for structural design of, say a water slide, or one of them RV wheel chokes
You’ve influenced us too much to stop 😂😂 jpjp but I love your show jade and honestly all of your jokes are fuqin gold so I had to bring one of your caliber to these here comment sections 😂
This one on one with Mal was the best I've seen out of all the ones I've watched. Jade u most definitely got a sub outta me. Can't wait to see u and ur next guest
Happy to see more people I align with speaking. As a black masc presenting non-binary person, I was called a femme in disguise by a girl who had expectations for me to be a stud 😂 People need to know we exist and are not a monolith and can be gentle and express ourselves. This weird caveman story gotta die.
I’m not a picky eater I eat more than chicken tenders when I’m at home. but I have a really hard time making decisions so if chicken tenders are on the menu at the restaurant that’s probably what I’m eating 😒😂
Thank you, I love this - just the set is soo unpersonal .. the way the plastic flowers are arranged in the background, the white room, the furniture, it somehow doesn't yet have the right vibe for these great, open, personal and inspiring conversations.
I’m with you! This is just what we’ve got to work with at the moment. Hopefully in the future, I can rent my OWN studio and set it up in a different way. Baby steps, yall ❤️
I feel like when I go into a queer setting, the masc lesbian always want a compete and I am just looking for like-minded people to build a good friendship.
Not two of my crushes talking omg!
Ino im haveing a great time
this reminds me of the time i was on a rugby team and thought i was smooth talking 2 of my teammates separately in the hopes of asking them both out at some point in the future…only to find out the 2 of them had already been dating each other for a couple months and i had no clue😩 … anyway lol love jade and mal seperately and together 🥹
You'll get caught,you're outing yourself 😂😂😂
I don’t know where to focus my attention, I can’t lie
@@mhgni.b6314 and then Jade had another one of my crushes on after Mal haha. Such a great conversation and I learned so much. Jade is giving all the gifts and knowledge!! I want to be like Mal with the way they carry themselves and stay calm and kind even in conflict. It sounds silly, but I’d never seen someone handle conflict the way they did on the ultimatum and ever since, I’ve been striving to be more like that. I thank them for being such a good example of how to be queer and such a kind and steady human. I’m excited for the clothing adventures they are working on! I’ve been a fan of Jade for years, even before I really admitted to myself that I was queer. I appreciate Jade so much for everything I’ve learned and all the things they’ve shared over the years with us.
Jade said "Factory Settings Black" 😭😭 I'm using that
Same. This is the perfect description.
I'm definitely Beginner Black
"I'M NOT HERE TO OUT-MASC ANYONE" I felt that to my core cos the struggle is real making genuine friendship connections, in London especially
"I don't feel it in my soft, warm part." Is diabolical. 😭😭💀but it gets the point across. 🤣
I think Mal’s empathy is a testament to Afro-Caribbean upbringing. I was taught the same thing. The old saying “do onto others as you would like done to you,” was big while I was growing up…and that sense of community. My family knew everyone. Lots of empathy, lots of love, lots of compassion and community.
Ah I just thought the same! We're very lucky in so many ways 🇯🇲. Definitely a lot of historical context 💚
What was the purpose of this-feels like a dig to African Americans. You could’ve simply made this comment literally without the comparison. It was truly irrelevant-not deep.
@@FashionbyNylaShe didn’t mention African-Americans so how would that be a dig to them?
I appreciate how Jade let's the convo flow & still keeps her direction...she's only going to grow in that...show is dope now, it's only gonna get better
Love me some Mal. To be so cool, calm collected and emotionally intelligent is goals you hear me! 😅 Lawd I’m work in progress.
Therapy does INDEED give one language & new emotional artillery to pull out.
Mal's emotional intelligence is 🔥🔥🔥
Both of you hold DEPTH & empathy & it feels like this warm, gingered/lemon tea I'm enjoying while watching this.
Thank you Jade Fox for existing. Simply.
“Auntie who has the same friend who comes to thanksgiving every year” is so funny. I love that we’re sharing black family commonalities that are queer coded.
This should be a podcast. I feel like my mother, but instead of Father Mbaka while cleaning on a Saturday morning, it’s Jade and Mall, amazing Saturday morning reset
Ugh. YES! This is the first episode of this series I’ve watched. So excited to binge the rest, but I would FOR SURE love more of Jade and Mal
LET'S GO JADE!!! Amazing set. What a vibe.
I wish more people held the social intelligence the way you two have. Thank you.
It's so nice to listen to a genuine convo that isn't paced like capitalism. Love an indulgent girl chat. Queerness is eclipsing.
Love Mal!! I immediately loved her on the show, and everything we've seen from her since then, has only solidified that take. Also, RIH to Mal's dad.
Not Jade saying she is factory settings black 😂❤
This sent me. I will only describe myself as factory settings black from now on.
To Mal’s advice about getting on the ground to handle conflict as someone in a position of power…yes. That’s a strategy I learned as a teacher & it’s very effective when working with students. Rather than towering over them when I need to provide discipline, correct behavior, or even just give feedback about their work, it’s good practice to physically get at a child’s level by sitting or kneeling before having that conversation with them. It really does change the tone & lessens that power dynamic. They’re also not having to strain their neck to look at me. Lol
the leader sitting while talking to the people - the dynamic change is actually such a powerful thing. my favorite director i worked with was like this, and he always reminded us we are a team. so important, and the fact Mal and I on that same community building wave🫶🏼 congrats Jade this is *chef kiss* impeccable content 🩵
mal sharing this was my favourite part of this episode!
jade, you were quite literally made for this type of content. killing it, seriously! keep it up ❤
Not Mal turning the interview on Jade and interviewing her.
Bald headed and confused in the west banks ~ a screenplay 😂❤
This was so pleasant to watch . I only picked up my phone once and that was to make this comment . N that’s a miracle with my adhd self .
I enjoy the soft masc vibe you all have and not afraid to show love to one another and uplift . More males and studs could learn from this .
💜💜💜💜
😌
Watching Jade has always been healing for me and this episode with Mel is exactly what I needed during my own transition. Thank you guys!
Jade you are not a horrible texter!!!! I feel you text when you have something to say and I love that about u!
Jade, this is a really good show. I need you to know that!
🙏🏾
not you flashing the white womans face 🤣🤣🤣 you are soooo wrong for that 🤣🤣🤣 as a soft black butch this was a great convo - as a child of immigrants definitely align with what mal said about “stepping into others shoes” and it’s so interesting being soft but also masc (i also think there’s a hardness that people put on black women which is probably rooted in something racist but idk) and it’s been super important for me to show up as my whole self each day whether that be getting my nails done or clarify with partners that i like everything to feel super natural yet balanced and equal even if they’re femme, i feel like we owe it to ourselves to not let people get it twisted. cuz at the end of the day a lot of times we’re the ones that end up missing out (on being made to feel beautiful, feeling taken care of, sexual pleasure etc etc). Super important conversation, thank you both
Oh my goodness! I got chills reading this. I’m a black femme so I admittedly hadn’t thought a lot about how the masculinization of black women affects black masc women. Thank you for sharing this.
Serving looks you two yessss👏
I love this interview, just relaxed talking as friends and giving advice.✨❤️Thank you for creating this space of acceptance.
OMG Jade and Mal talking 🔥
Also love the Virgo vibes
I’m here! I’m present! I love them 😭 i just know a link up with them is a vibeeeee. Jade is killing this show man.
“She’s a good human.”
“Yes. Great … beautiful gowns.”
I am wheezing. This was the correct answer Jade because why was she the host? 🥴
Clearly Ive been lacking!! This one and Ambers are the ones ive (only now) started with. These conversations have been touching in the right, kind hearted, places // Much love & appreciation // Keep doing what yall do, Support for more of this ANY day
I loved Mal on the show. I've been a supporter ever since. She was a definitely a standout in a positive way. Swag for days. I'm loving this series.
i love the two of y'all together. thank you for this offering
"you f^cking matter, friend" nearly made me cry
yooooooo! the sound quality is amazing!
Heavy on the "not allowed to lock my doors" I got caught the same way 😂 tough
Yiiiiiiiikes 😩 have we unlocked a new universally black thing? I def was not allowed to lock mine either and, like Jade, I am also factory settings black lol
Man this content is soooo refreshing! I'm laughing, learning, and loving all in one place-- Keep at it Jade!
Jade you such a vibe
my neighbor in venice worked in the kitchen at erewhaan for a minute and he said the health violations are INSANE like theyre consistently poisoning ppl 💀
I love this podcast Jade and this episode with Mal is spectacular
Jade, I have to say your questions have been EXCELLENT. This is the first episode I’ve watched and so excited to binge the rest
jadeee, i love this show its been so lovely seeing part of the journey to get to this project from watching your vids all these years! you are a phenomenal conversationalist and you have such skill in asking questions that get the guest to go deeper and more vulnerable with you sending love!
Long time watcher. So proud to see you on this amazing set CRUSHING IT!!!
Such a great conversation.
18:28 not the glazed donought face
Virgo’s tap in!! 🏆🏆
I’m on the cusp. lil tap tap 🏆
I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Jade for hosting and Mal for joining us.
20:00 I’m with Jade, teenagers are going to have sex, it’s definitely not disrespectful for teens to do it in their own homes. It’s hard to navigate as a parent, but I’m surprised to hear Mal talk about it the way that they did. 😮 go easy on your teenage self
“Studs got jobs”
“Picture dipped in iced tea”
lmfaooooo Some of the greatest gems 😂😂😂😂
Leo’s are really the best ❤
Loved Mal’s gentle wisdom.
Lovvvve jades new hair !!
😭😭😭😭👌🏽😮💨wait cause jade why is the swoop so perfect??! That bayang could be used for structural design of, say a water slide, or one of them RV wheel chokes
Stop this 🤣
You’ve influenced us too much to stop 😂😂 jpjp but I love your show jade and honestly all of your jokes are fuqin gold so I had to bring one of your caliber to these here comment sections 😂
Love the new set up. Great interview. Ya'll both have great chemistry as well. Couldn't tell Ya'll just recently became friends.
"It's giving friends, no?" I'm using this from now on 😂😂😂 Loved this interview!
Met Mal in Cle at the Women’s Final Four and she was so nice! She even took a picture with me, very dope person
This one on one with Mal was the best I've seen out of all the ones I've watched. Jade u most definitely got a sub outta me. Can't wait to see u and ur next guest
I'm LOVING this show. So excited when I saw this one with Mal 🥰
Gucci: girls are like buses miss one next 15 one comin 😂❤
Happy to see more people I align with speaking. As a black masc presenting non-binary person, I was called a femme in disguise by a girl who had expectations for me to be a stud 😂 People need to know we exist and are not a monolith and can be gentle and express ourselves. This weird caveman story gotta die.
I’m glad your still here!!!!😭💕
YOO.. I HAVE NEVER LAUGHED SO HARD FROM A TUBE-SHOW, THIS WAS AMAZING LOL Thank you.
I literally can't stand watching anything else but this...thats how much i enjoy jade ❤
Thank you for creating this show. Love the vibe. Good Work Jade & Mal
I love this! Definitely tuning in!
Maxine Shaw Attorney at Law... bahahahahaaa love it. I want a t-shirt of that. She's my fav character. Looooove Living Single!
The conversation at the end about wearing straps in public is just ... so many good points were made Lmao love yall ♥
Tegan and Sara!? Yes! Hayley Williams (Even though she’s straight) Yes! 🤣😂
40:48 “Billie Eilish dresses like a stud.”
“Stud aesthetics”
This aged well😂
I'm here for the elevated carabiners
Ahhhh I’ve been waiting for this one !!!!
Please add time stamps
Refreshing conversation Jade! Keep em coming 🤘🏾
Not the shape up getting brought up 😹😹😹 jade is a comedian
The conversation around dental dams. My god. I don’t think I have ever even seen one 🤣
"Strapped With No Purpose." A coming of age memoir.
Not Jade singing Tracy Chapman. THE BAYANG. This whole segment is taking me down. god I love us for real.
This low cut is life 🤩
Remembering the whiplash I had when Jade changed her Patreon pfp to the corporate pic 😂 Another great installment!
A bougie set AND Fiji water?? The production value is crazy
Same thing happened to me on the “coming out” story lol but it was my 2 lil sisters busting in the room, followed by my mom 😭🥲 Whew chileeee!
Really great interview very fun watching it.
Jade you are doing great with this by yourself.
Gotta be my favorite episode by far! 🤣
I’m not a picky eater I eat more than chicken tenders when I’m at home. but I have a really hard time making decisions so if chicken tenders are on the menu at the restaurant that’s probably what I’m eating 😒😂
“STFU!””😬” I felt that lol
TSA AGENTS 🤣🤣🤣
I love everything about this interview
You got a fast car pleaseeeeee 😩😭🤣
Oh I loveee these episodes
OHEMGEEEEEE LOVE YALL 🫶
This is a dope conversation 👍🏾👌🏾
This was awesome!
Thank you, I love this - just the set is soo unpersonal .. the way the plastic flowers are arranged in the background, the white room, the furniture, it somehow doesn't yet have the right vibe for these great, open, personal and inspiring conversations.
I’m with you! This is just what we’ve got to work with at the moment. Hopefully in the future, I can rent my OWN studio and set it up in a different way. Baby steps, yall ❤️
Love Mel!
Thanks for entertaining and getting us thirsty!
Yal convince me to go to Trader Joe’s for mangoes. They’re not ripe yet so I’ll get back to you on how they are lol
Laaaaaavin these !!
strap with intention sent me. truly.
Jadeeeee the haircut eats downnnn
I feel like when I go into a queer setting, the masc lesbian always want a compete and I am just looking for like-minded people to build a good friendship.
Loving this show!!!!!! 😍😍