Aaron, I just want to say Thankyou SO much for this video. I genuinely teared up when you said you’d be proud if I were your mom for how I handled the situation. You did an amazing job of explaining everything and I am so grateful. Thankyou again for looking out for people and calling out behavior like this. You’re truly doing great things!
Holy crap! I thought I recognized your name lol. I played as killer against you awhile back and had a good interaction after the game. DBD needs more kind hearted folks like you 🤟
I'm a middle-aged mom, and fears about toxic viewers attacking my appearance is what has kept me from starting channels on Twitch and UA-cam for years. I never considered another streamer coming after me. You handled this so well! I'm really glad your community stood up for you when this awful dude took it to Twitter. Hoolio in particular!
@@becm7026HONESTLY I feel objectified and dehumanized by it too especially when they're not also addressing guys as male or say female way too much. It just really doesn't feel like the guy is respectful or care that you're human and have feeling no matter the gender.
"she wears wayyy too much makeup, she must be insecure" yea, ill tell you as a female, and someone who can actually hold a real conversation with women. We wear makeup not because we're insecure of ourselves, but because its a fun thing to do that makes us feel better, its called 'Self Grooming'. Men do it when they want to style their hair, or brush up bits and pieces like eyebrows or even clothes. Its a healthy thing to want to make yourself more presentable or pleasing. the only thing this poor excuse of a man needs to fix is his ugly and sickly persanality.
Ah yes, the old classic - pretend it was just for attention and not that serious, say you were just trolling, accuse the women of getting too emotional. Ooof, that's just ticking all the common red flag boxes. Honestly shocked (but not that shocked) that there's only 1 female twitch streamer in top 100 :(
I am a female streamer and has a disability so that's an added challenge. Us female streamers definitely don't have it easy on Twitch. In my early years I was either called "ugly" or people would try to get me to flash the stream.
I'm sorry that happened, I hope things get better with your streams :(. I see dudes online all of the time that tell female streamers to "Jump" "Show us your top" Or "Can you touch your elbows together?" all an attempt to try and trick these girls into showing them their bodies, sick. It's the biggest reason I'm too scared to stream on Twitch :/
That's why i can't start streaming dbd. The toxicity in this community is just too much. Even though I try to be the friendly survivor and killer when I play killer. Thankfully there are also positive vibe, but those toxic survivors are just too much...
@@PossiblyRva have you thought that maybe those killers use those tactics because survivors are hella toxic to new killers? I've had more toxic survivors against me than toxic killers, and I'm a survivor main. So yeah, maybe survivors are making killers toxic and vice versa. It's a neverending circle and I do my own part to break it with my own gaming style.
a mother is on her twitch grind literally providing for her family while this weirdo is finding her twitter to go harrass her over a ROUND OF DEAD BY DAYLIGHT and then calls her pathetic LMAOOOO
Boys like that are just the reason why they’re twitch fails. I seen better men grow their twitch and they don’t need boobs and a vagina to grow their twitch. They literally have over a million followers
Hoolio is a really good friend of mine and I just want to say I’m so incredibly proud of how he handled the situation and stood up for tay. He’s an incredible friend and someone I aspire to be like. Much love to hool 🐉🖤
Watching your videos of these toxic twitch streamers really inspired me to be a much better person. I mean I am but before I used to have anger issues and if I lost a match, I would rage and text the killer something bad... It was that bad. But once I started watching your videos and playing with so many amazing wholesome people, I've become a much better person and I wasn't the guy I was 2 years ago. Now, I constantly spread love and positivity to anyone and everyone regardless if I win a match or lose! And watching these toxic streamers being rude and disrespectful to others really makes me sad to see. I never thought a game of dead by daylight could make anyone this mad to the point where they cuss them out and say any stupid and obnoxious words or slurs to them. Thanks so much for the video Aaron!! 🤗💖💖
congrats on the character ark!! I've been there, and my life improved a lot when I started being kinder to people. Things are going up for ya bud, great work!
Honestly same, i use to be very toxic when it came to dbd but seeing all these and Spooks videos ive changed how i see the game and that killer and survivor deserve respect
As both a small streamer and a female streamer, this kind of thing scares me... I feel like it's just inevitable that I'll run into someone like this one day. And while I hope it's no day soon, I hope I'll think back on this situation and remember that I don't have to brush it off and get pushed over, and that it'll work out in the end. Honestly, the creepiest part was the guy going onto her socials and stalking/mocking her.. ;-;
It is definitely inevitable sadly as a female in this industry. But I am SO HAPPY that this situation helped show you it is okay to stand up for yourself and defend yourself! It is okay to call people on their wrong doings🫶🏻 Stay strong out there and know that so many of us have fellow female streamers backs when things like this happen!☺️
You definitely don’t have to brush it off! It shouldn’t be your responsibility to deal with their bullshit, it should be their responsibility to do better
"Do I have Boobs? " Love it Aaron! I don't know why so many guys have such fragile masculinity. Women have the disadvantage and like you were showing by your data it shows, our boobs are definitely not helping us. One reason I can NEVER go into voice chat, no matter what game I play. The sh, I have to deal with any time I go into Voice chats is ridiculous. OMG as a Mother myself he loves stereotypes, probably would love his girl (if he ever had or has one) to be in the kitchen, make him sandwiches and never talk. Grrrr Thank you Aaron for speaking the truth! (Not like this dude)
It is sad that you don't use voice chat because of other peoples inability to act normal when hearing there is a woman in the voice chat, I have not encountered this when hearing a women in chat (from others in chat) but I have a lower sample size to work off of (or maybe the games I play are more "women-friendly" (not sure what to call it)), I hope the landscape improves, gamers should treat both sides the same and be able to handle and interact with the other genders the same as their own.
His stats prove boobs do work though number 1 woman streamer, amouranth lol 🤭 hate the simps, hate the woman who take advantage of them by wearing low cut gear also.
I feel your pain dealing with voice chats. It's so so sad that I have to stay muted when coms are needed because of the reaction we receive upon speaking at all.
As a transgender woman streamer it is not great for us on twitch, also being shy and having adhd doesnt help me much, i adore my fellow women streamers who can hit these goals that most of us dream of.
"I can't imagine being that sad" Can't imagine a grown man letting a video game destroy his mental state to the point where he has to blame a person's gender to disguise his insecurity and incompetence. But sure, the other player is the sad one.
I saw the whole vod and I was so disgusted by this guy Tayy is such a nice and incredible person and definitely didn't deserve any of that all that..over a video game smh Great video as always Aaron!!!!!
@@Seority About the "failing Twitch career" comment...I agree and theres no excuse for that...that being said..the difference here is I know Tayy can learn from her mistake, while the TTV clearly believes they are in the right..especially about their misogynistic/sexist views
A female streamer here, this happened once to me. But it was awhile ago, and the person came in saying shit to me, but then started saying that "Oh you're only getting views cause you're a female." I was shocked by that, and I tried to deescalate the problem, but the asshole decided to go after my friend (who I believe thought he was trans at the time, but I think he identifies as non-binary now, but likes being called he). So I started going off, I also started to cry. I was new to streaming at the time as well. But after awhile my friend banned him for me, since I wasn't able to at the time.
Yall can't even be successful without men getting butthurt because you are more successful than them. 🤣🤣🤣🙄 women can't catch a fucking break when it comes to the male ego
I'm sorry you had to deal with a prick like that. nobody deserves to deal with assholes who behave like that. don't let people like them get you down or get under your skin. the best thing to do in situations like that is to just ban them and move on with your life. ik it's easier said than done, especially if things get heated, but giving people like that a reaction is what they crave. give it to them and it empowers them to continue to harass you or decide to go and treat someone else the same way, like they did to your friend. I hope things have gotten better for the both of you since then
I feel you, it’s horrible how they act like that. Also you can report their account for sexism and stuff. Twitch WILL ban them. They aren’t lenient on them bullies.
The fact he contradicts himself saying he’s the least toxic person when he literally stalked another streamers socials, made sexist comments, called his teammates basically stupid, and said their useless. If that’s what not toxic is than I don’t know what is.
"You're streaming this aren't you? Yikes." Says the man child who can't stop embarrassing himself, criticizing someone's appearance & spewing sexism. I saw his twitter a while back & for someone who says they 'don't care', he sure tweets like he cares. All those threads are...salty af. The amount of times he contradicts himself is actually brain numbing. I digress, thanks for another great video Aaron! You always look at every side & bring some well thought out takes. I'm also gonna throw out the wholesome streamers known as CuppaPro & Poltaygeist, they're both so positive & have created a wonderful community for themselves.
@@jadenharris6560it’s probably intended to be a compliment but the way it plays out is that a nonzero amount of women feel policed on how they need to appear in public to everyone. Usually this phrase is said by a man who is a stranger and I personally am always a little on guard with not accidentally pissing that demographic off (don’t want to be followed home/yelled at/hit etc. on the off chance they’re unstable) Also in my experience, I’ve never heard a guy be told he would look so handsome if he smiled by a random woman, so it does seem to be a gendered thing where mostly women are told to smile by strangers in public. She could be having a terrible day and it shows on her face, and instead of it coming across as a compliment, it’s a nagging reminder of the expectations for women to be beautiful and presentable at all times, to be reminded that she is a spectacle to this man, an object to be admired/altered to his liking. Though I’m sure some women don’t associate the cultural baggage of femininity with this comment and do appreciate it as a compliment. At the end of the day, I personally wouldn’t say this to a woman I don’t know because it feels weirdly demanding. I would probably just tell her she’s pretty!
Sadly just dealt with something like this myself in a DBD Community group. Posting a photo of myself promoting I was live, a man went off about how only female streamers "wh0re" themselves out on the internet with their bewbs and that's the only reason I had any followers. I was incredibly grateful that atleast 100 people from the community lashed back and educated him on his sexist remarks. 🖤
Seen a situation similar on the dbd reddit, a woman posted a pic of an oni cosplay she did, and as you would guess, a bunch of insecure whoppers come along to insult and berate this woman bc her cos cosplay showed a bit of skin, irs honestly like men line up waiting in pure excitement to get a chance to berate a woman
Your takes are always so based. Literally everything you said about women being treated like shit on twitch had me agreeing, and I'm not even a streamer. I just see how these girls are treated and its horrible. Thank you for this!
as someone who blames myself for everything and can't bring myself to put blame on others, nothing pisses me off more than people who refuse to admit fault. how are you supposed to grow as a human being if you push all your blame on other people? it's beyond childish and pathetic 🙄
I wanna say it is hard. Pretty sure guys don't end up with stalkers, they probably don't get the same amount of sexual harassment(if they see that type of attention as such) and get sent unsolicited pp picks. I use to be webcam and now I'm scared to with what happened with in the first year of streaming. Even as a VTuber I still get sexually harassed. Twitch is a boys club.
personally took me awhile to learn this but once someone drops a line like "you cant tell me otherwise" just pack up and leave. you wont get a brick wall to turn around by asking enough times
I was one of the first people to come under Tay's post after seeing his post. I saw both sides of the story and said it's easy to just go to this guy's vod and see who's lying. In 5 minutes I provided time stamps and screenshotted proof for tay of him not only lying but also attacking Tay's friend Steph which made Tay go on the defense. They guy was so delusional aboht the situation. The worse thing he ever tweeted to me was "do your research" lmaooo thanks for making this video!
I wouldn't be surprised if he tries to take down this video and like every other rude TTVs who put the victory card in play, or this rude TTV streamer might try something else if this doesn't get taken down. If I ever seen him I'll do a favor for that female TTV streamer or any females who faced this TTV streamer
@@xorubychann if I ever face against him should be face camp him and all or no? For all the females or whoever has had a problem with this rude TTV streamer
I dont understand how people like this walk the earth and think that they're entitled to act this way to other people. 1 - it's a video game, get over it GG go next. 2 - You cant control how other people play, play the best YOU can so that you control the outcome. Better outcome = more wins = better teammates/higher rank. 3 - What kind of people do you think you're going to attract if all you do is throw pity parties and blame other people? 4 - What is your community going to be if you build it up from being toxic towards other people. Because they will turn on you at some point, they always do.
Stuff like this oddly makes me want to start streaming seeing such a wholesome community come around and help this person is really great and as someone who's bad at social skills and whatnot I've always had admiration for people who can make something like this work and hopefully one day I'll be well enough one day to start this on my own stay strong tay and I hope the kiddo is doing alright
14:45 you said it right as I thought it. It’s really sad that people can think the way this guy does and be oblivious to how ignorant it is. Thanks for finishing the video with some positive! Gonna go follow both! ❤
Props to Hoolio for defending his friend lol. I was playing with my friend once in a duo, and this other player in the match got mad at them and in the EGC said "Yeah we're all in a SWF and think you're bad" And I actually got so pissed off at that, I went off on the guy for lying lol. He should've been so embarrassed. Just imagine being that much of a baby, you're willing to lie to attack someone else's confidence.
That’s exactly why I said anything bc after I said GG i heard him going off on my friend steph. He attacked her first then me after I said GG. I’ll be damned if I’m gonna hear someone going off on my friend and my self and not defend us both. That makes for good friends🫶🏻☺️
^like Tay said, I'm not letting someone I know be attacked. I saw this person was trying to make her look bad, and had to step in. Hopefully people start having second thoughts before acting up like this
This extends to literally anything entertainment related. So many sub-par dudes complain that women can't be more talented than them and that people only want them for their looks. They don't realize that this idea also means that women have to try harder than men to get recognized for their talent, and the ones that aren't conventionally attractive get completely ignored.
I just picked up streaming and this is an underlying fear I have, that I'll encounter someone trying to bash on me..but then I remember I have a brain stem. Not a female but also not a toxic person. I like these breakdown videos because as I'm thinking of talking points you're saying everything and that is everything. ❤️
There was once a book on growing your Twitch stream I looked into for our library - and one of the "tips" was "you'll have an easier time if you're a woman." I clearly didn't get that book and was livid. It's such a hard field for women and enbies and anyone under the trans umbrella to really succeed in.
The book was probably written by an incel if that's one of the tips. Like, I don't see why it needs to be a tip, whether or not it's true (it's not) is irrelevant cuz it's literally just not a factor anyone can do anything about so why even bring it up. It's like writing a book on how to be a good goalie in soccer and putting "if you just so happen to be very big you'll have an easier time cuz you take more of the goal up!"
if anything, you have a harder time trying to be a Twitch streamer because you're a woman. most people would likely assume that you'll just try and use your body to lure people in, or if you're a gamer girl, they'll assume that you're garbage at the games you play and won't be interested in watching. whoever said that you'll have an easier time streaming as a woman clearly hasn't done their research
Sure people are more likely to click if they see a pretty women but they won't stay if they aren't engaged, everyone has to have a good entertainment value women or not. Not to mention the disturbing stalkers and harassment female streamers get...
Being a mom myself with two kids, this is absolutely outstanding. I'm a full time mom, carer for my son and yes guys, if you are unsure ask us, we be more happy to tell you its not been easy for us women on twitch. But instead of making up accusations which isn't clearly true just ask, I've already put my answer up!.. Females have more hard time on twitch and be successful and I've been on the platform for many years.. I follow more men than I do with females but that's about to change. If your a good female streamer and you got the vibes I'll drop by and say hello but and yes Aaron is 💯 correct that Twitch platform is Male sided. I have seen strength in huge female twitchers by lurking, hearing their stories how they become successful and it motivated me before I started to stream on the platform. Unfortunately because twitch drama on daily basis I quit twitch to take a long break and hoping my ideas will work this year and yes us females have ideas too believe it or not lol we all work hard to achieve our goals. But achieving those goals as a female we work twice as hard just like any other creator do. Can we stop being sexist just for once and open your eyes! We are like you! We're trying to grow not because this and that. Stop with the drama and the sexism but instead can we just support each other! Twitch will never change unless you make it change always support your fellow females and males no matter what sex they are 💞
i respect this video because you showed the facts and took the time to make your point valid and true. Also that you defending someone who is just trying to make it in high skill/demand platform. It should not matter if you have boobs or not ( and honestly who doesn't like boobs ) but attacking someone just based on that is sick. sadly even on twitch women get sexualized with certain genres and should never be that way. much love dukes
It is such a shame that BHVR has not done anything to address the toxicity in the community and tried to fix it. I have reported multiple people for telling me to off myself, that they hope I die or that they are going to dox me and I have checked their profiles and no action has been taken. This sucks because I do really enjoy the game itself and have been playing it for about two years but I cannot take the dreadful community. Fingers crossed that BHVR will eventually start taking the toxicity and reports seriously.
I miss these videos, I would be working and having this on in the background really helped make the shifts more bearable. Miss ya bro hope life treating ya right ❤
One of my best friends has come to me in tears because of some of the stuff guys have said to her as shes trying to grow her stream. I keep telling her that these trials will make her stronger in the long run.
kk So 2 things: 1) Thank you for managing to make me smile and laugh a bit with the "do i have boobs?!" comment. It's been a horrible day and it's the only thing that's put a semblance of a smile on my face. 2): I will vouch for what Aaron has said about women on twitch. I used to stream and I rarely used a face cam. Just my mic and gameplay. I'm a woman and i'm reminded of that monthly. I haven't been successful on twitch. I've got less than 400 followers and the stress was getting to be too much for me. I've had to delete one VoD because it was a jackbox stream and the randos that joined it kept making sexual remarks to me, including and I quote "loose enough to be a car hood ornament". I already had/have self esteem and self image issues.... That just destroyed me that day. The only reason I could keep going is because when streaming, i get in a customer service mode and that's the only reason i can go on.
First I wanna say, anywhere near 400 is not failing!🫶🏻 even 50 or less isn’t failing, that gets you affiliate☺️ to me, you aren’t failing unless you’re using your streaming platform to treat people badly. Whether you have 20 followers or 50K or whether you have 1 viewer or 100, if you’re creating a comfortable and safe space for people to hangout then you’re doing great! This people watching you are enjoying you☺️ as for the trolls, hit that ban button! The ban hammer is a streamers bestfriend. Their goal is to tear you down and take away your joy, I know it’s hard but don’t let them🖤 ban them and know that they aren’t even speaking truth. They’re lying just to get to you. I hope all the good things for you and your streaming!
@@XeraTheImp679 Nah, definitely not. Yerv says cringey stuff but he usually uses a goblin gamer voice while he does and it's never meant to be taken seriously
nothing but bliss and love to hoolio, who despite the very real danger of being called a simp in hopes of discrediting him, stood up to this idiot. thank you.
HOLY SHIT. I just lurked this guy's channel (spread no hate, not gonna name him). Dude TRIPLED down on the sexism by claiming that male gamers are better than female gamers. In 2023. What a piece of work!
I mean it depends on the context. The vast majority of pro players are men. Especially when it comes to worlds and stuff like that its a lot of times only men.
I loves that you broke down statistics. They are harder for people to argue with. XD It gets tiring having to defend myself because I am a girl. People get mad and just jump to insulting your looks, or people assume you got to where you are because bewbs. And oh just forget if you have a bad game and happen to be a girl. Shame people honestly think it is okay.
A couple of days ago, I had a conversation with a woman and she had heard of DBD but wasn't sure if she should get it. She didn't have a mic, and she was a woman, so she wondered if anyone would take her serious. I told her that she didn't have to fear that in DBD, a mic isn't necessary and usually people don't care. I mean, I'm AFAB and never had any trouble when talking to randoms. (One of my funniest interactions was, when I started playing with this one group and we spoke for about two hours on discord, and they eventually asked me my name, and they were really shocked like "OMG You are a queen???" xD) But of course, now a sexist streamer must come along xD Perfect timing xD
Ugh, I'm so disgusted with this person, being verbally abusive to women to fit a narrative he believe to be true and bringing people kids into it is not okay! As a mother myself all i seen was rage and as a female gamer its kinda annoying the crap we get just for being a female gamer.
How do you go from a DBD match, that didn’t go his way to attacking someone else? This guy is so mad and upset that he can’t grow his channel. I respect Tay for defending herself over this guy being very Toxic. Tay keep up the amazing work gamer! ❤
@@xitstayy7455 sorry you had to go threw that. This is my problem with this game, you have people like that. That can’t say ggs or move on, if I have match I’m not happy with, I still say Ggs if someone tells me ggs then I move on I don’t speak about it after.
Aaron, you're like an actual decent human being, I mean whoa, you broke down how things can be resolved in literally just seconds, great stuff, I hope to see more.
I'm sorry tay you had to go through that guy had no reason to attack you the way he did you're a good role model for your kids hope you and your family are having an awesome week also hope your channels continue to grow
Thankyou so much! This really means a lot to me, I appreciate the kind words🫶🏻 my family has had a rough week, but today was a light in that dark tunnel! So we’re doing a little better for sure. I hope you’re having a good week!
@@xitstayy7455 you're welcome I hope the light shines brighter and brighter with each day until the darkness is gone I'd like to follow and subscribe to your channel if that's ok
Actually one time i was streaming dbd to 100billion people when all of the sudden they all said "sorry a girl started streaming and they have booby so we hate you" and left
This man would absolutely have a whole physical breakdown and probably break his PC if he ever got into the matches I do. 😭 Like, it’s just a game. Not everyone’s mind works the same either.
I got my first salt in endgame yesterday, I am fully aware that I was the one that instigated it, it was a 2 man that I had faced earlier so I did a little tbags and smacking on hook (Ghostface) on RPD, and they said "Guess your parents didn't want you either," But this TTV is on another level.
I mean, I get little insults now and then cause sometimes you just arent sure if someone tbags or hits you on hook cause they know you, just dor fun or because they want to upset you. But these full on meltdowns? Yikes
As One Of Tay's Twitch squad members, Tay is one of the sweetest people you'll ever meet & it's extremely upsetting watching this situation & I'm so glad you & other people like Hoolio have documented and are spreading awareness of this situation and others like it. Thank you.
I’m so sick of men who immediately turn to sexism bc a woman is more successful than them. It’s enfuriating. Also, I agree with you as well about the follower/viewer shame. I may be petty af but even if this asshole said stuff like this to me I’d never stoop to that level. That’s not cool. Thanks for this video. Made my skin crawl 🫠
I actually follow Tay already! I found them on a twitch networking group where they post whenever they go live. Obviously they put in work to be found and it's not just by chance. The whole argument that women have it easy streaming just needs to be put to rest. Which, I think you did here. Very well said.
i feel the real reason why there arent alot of women on the platform is cause twitch was originally designed with gaming in mind, to which the females are a minority of in gaming as a whole, if anything while i dont watch many streamers myself i find that the fact twitch became a general streaming platform was a good thing as it allowed more diversity and other types of content that females more enjoy thats not just game like Art and music and more, while i would like there to be more girls who like gaming i feel the fact that the platform has evolved with equality is somthing thats good. everyone should be allowed to have a right to stream regardless of gender or sexual orientation. im glad aaron is making these kind of videos as it allows people to be aware of how one should not behave in an online world while keeping folks anonymous so there no 1 person receiving any directed hate, its just getting a lesson of what a good person should not be doing :)
Hey Aaron I missed ya. I hope you're doing well friend keep up the great work. Thank you for existing. BTW as a failed male streamer i wanna say I love women, women are smart, gentle, beautiful, and personally a women is my mental health counselor, she saved my life and I'll always love my counselor as the hero she is. Women are amazing and we need them in our lives.
Hey I don’t know what you consider a failed male streamer, but I bet you’re doing great! You have a good head on your shoulders as far as I can see based off of the positivity in this comment. To me, you’re only failing with streaming if you’re being rude and treating people like shit☺️ Again, I bet you’re doing great!
omg yes... someone standing up for it not being easy.. used to have a cam when i streamed.. but got a lot of shit for it calling me names and all that jazz to the point i dont use a cam anymore and i hardly stream anymore cuz of the attacks i have faced on twitch.
I myself do "rage" from time to time, could be from a bad day at work, stressful day or just one of THOSE days. but I take everything out on myself and never anyone else, it's just basic respect. People play or do things that they find easier/fun. no one knows what anyone has gone through before a match begins, if I get tunnelled or camped, oh well, ggs next. Sexism /homophobia/racism etc. Is NEVER acceptable. Ever btw found you only recently and have been going through some of your old videos and the subjects aren't uplifting, but I'm glad you choose to expose/reveal this type of behaviour and how it is not acceptable. Could possibly be changing others because of it
Aaron, I am surprised you didn't already know that any success any woman obtains on and off the internet is all because she has boobs? OR because she is sleeping with her boss. We don't have to work twice as hard, all the while maintaining an attractive image living up to impossible beauty standards such as needing to wear makeup BUT not too much (you know we must morph magically to make each individual male happy) . Nope that isn't something that we need to do at all. 😡
I'm on the fence bout this bc while he was being sexist and toxic and all id be surprised if they weren't biased since its a proven fact on twitch that females tend to gain far more views and money (when compared to males that is) which may have caused a bias and even if it had nothing to do with that I guarantee to yall that if it was two guys as in male toxic streamer being toxic to another dude nobody would care so its not like sexism doesn't go both ways and if you hate me for this, great have your own opinions but opinions mean less than facts and that is a fact lol
I think we CAN acknowledge that Women do have an easier time growing on Twitch. On average, they have higher retention rates, higher discovery, Twitch as a system does everything it can to boost women, and give them a leg-up on competition. My own numbers have been up by 500% since I came out about my transition. But we can acknowledge this reality without being massive douchebags like this TTV. He went way too far, way too quickly lmao. Edit: this is an average. You'll find far more men on both the highest end, and the lowest end of streaming. It's the bell curve at work.
There is no statistical evidence that shows that. There isn't a bell curve on Twitch as 200k channels out of 9 million average 10 viewers or more. 1 woman in the top 100 and 32 in the top 500. There are 4 million women on the platform, and out of 9 million total channels only a million are affiliated and average 3 or more viewers total.
@@teamashengaming Okay, anecdotally speaking, my viewer retention and my view numbers both grew when I came out as a trans woman. Literally just streaming, as a woman, made my numbers go up. So.
Thank you Aaron for this 🤍 Tayy is just such an awesome person who really didn't deserve any of this uncalled for hate OVER A GAME. Really glad this behavior is being exposed and brought up for everyone to see
Men like the sexist will say the most horrific shit about women and then still wonder why they're single. Thanks for calling it out Aaron, and huge props to Tayy for how she handled this.
This video is currently stuck in age restriction jail... Like if u cri evry tyme :(
I like cuz cri :(
I cri all the tyme but I cri more at this
I KNEW IT!!! YOUR A WOMAN!!! the beard never fooled me not once Aaron
lmfao aaron the same is happening to all youtubers now apparently and it is sad that this is happening
Bruh whyyy
Aaron, I just want to say Thankyou SO much for this video. I genuinely teared up when you said you’d be proud if I were your mom for how I handled the situation. You did an amazing job of explaining everything and I am so grateful. Thankyou again for looking out for people and calling out behavior like this. You’re truly doing great things!
Holy crap! I thought I recognized your name lol. I played as killer against you awhile back and had a good interaction after the game. DBD needs more kind hearted folks like you 🤟
Love you!! You’re amazing, don’t forget that.
@@FigNeutered ahhhh! What a small world, I love that! I’m so happy you had a good experience🥹 maybe we can meet eachother in the fog again!☺️
I'm a middle-aged mom, and fears about toxic viewers attacking my appearance is what has kept me from starting channels on Twitch and UA-cam for years. I never considered another streamer coming after me. You handled this so well!
I'm really glad your community stood up for you when this awful dude took it to Twitter. Hoolio in particular!
@@stephanierae7537 I love you too!🖤
Anyone who address a woman as "a female" unironically is like the most crimson of red flags.
THISSSS as a woman being called a "female" is so dehumanizing i actually hate it
@@becm7026 idk why but i just feel uncomfortable when someone says female it just sounds weird
@@becm7026HONESTLY I feel objectified and dehumanized by it too especially when they're not also addressing guys as male or say female way too much. It just really doesn't feel like the guy is respectful or care that you're human and have feeling no matter the gender.
How is it a red flag it's your gender not an insult unless there's context
People get offended at anything nowadays @@AlaricLovell
The fact he’s running the JRM fit while saying that stuff is so gross. How dare he slander the hole master himself.
Ikr it’s such a bad rep for him too
JRM would never
On god
and he also talks like yerv lol
Man wants to look cool like JRM so bad but with this shitty attitude he could never.
"she wears wayyy too much makeup, she must be insecure" yea, ill tell you as a female, and someone who can actually hold a real conversation with women. We wear makeup not because we're insecure of ourselves, but because its a fun thing to do that makes us feel better, its called 'Self Grooming'. Men do it when they want to style their hair, or brush up bits and pieces like eyebrows or even clothes. Its a healthy thing to want to make yourself more presentable or pleasing. the only thing this poor excuse of a man needs to fix is his ugly and sickly persanality.
True. What I gathered from your words is this TTV needs makeup to cover his disgusting personality. 👍/hj
Ah yes, the old classic - pretend it was just for attention and not that serious, say you were just trolling, accuse the women of getting too emotional. Ooof, that's just ticking all the common red flag boxes.
Honestly shocked (but not that shocked) that there's only 1 female twitch streamer in top 100 :(
It's honestly a real shame! A lot of very talented female streamers out there who just aren't getting the recognition they deserve
fr schrodinger's douchebag fits
I am a female streamer and has a disability so that's an added challenge. Us female streamers definitely don't have it easy on Twitch. In my early years I was either called "ugly" or people would try to get me to flash the stream.
Wtf that’s messed up, I hope your streams are way better now :(
@@cockatoogamer Oh yeah, they're definitely better than they used to be.
I'm sorry that happened, I hope things get better with your streams :(. I see dudes online all of the time that tell female streamers to "Jump" "Show us your top" Or "Can you touch your elbows together?" all an attempt to try and trick these girls into showing them their bodies, sick. It's the biggest reason I'm too scared to stream on Twitch :/
That's why i can't start streaming dbd. The toxicity in this community is just too much. Even though I try to be the friendly survivor and killer when I play killer. Thankfully there are also positive vibe, but those toxic survivors are just too much...
@@PossiblyRva have you thought that maybe those killers use those tactics because survivors are hella toxic to new killers? I've had more toxic survivors against me than toxic killers, and I'm a survivor main. So yeah, maybe survivors are making killers toxic and vice versa. It's a neverending circle and I do my own part to break it with my own gaming style.
a mother is on her twitch grind literally providing for her family while this weirdo is finding her twitter to go harrass her over a ROUND OF DEAD BY DAYLIGHT and then calls her pathetic LMAOOOO
Boys like that are just the reason why they’re twitch fails. I seen better men grow their twitch and they don’t need boobs and a vagina to grow their twitch. They literally have over a million followers
These freaks never have even a grain of self awareness lol they are embarrassing
Hoolio is a really good friend of mine and I just want to say I’m so incredibly proud of how he handled the situation and stood up for tay. He’s an incredible friend and someone I aspire to be like. Much love to hool 🐉🖤
Who turned up the heat?! My eyes are sweating like crazy right now 🤍🥹🤍
@@xHOOLIOx. You're the most precious of beans
@@xHOOLIOx. sup gamer
@@xHOOLIOx. Thank you for your service hoolio! THANK YOU!
@@xHOOLIOx. YOOOOO you dropped this homie 👑
Watching your videos of these toxic twitch streamers really inspired me to be a much better person. I mean I am but before I used to have anger issues and if I lost a match, I would rage and text the killer something bad... It was that bad. But once I started watching your videos and playing with so many amazing wholesome people, I've become a much better person and I wasn't the guy I was 2 years ago. Now, I constantly spread love and positivity to anyone and everyone regardless if I win a match or lose! And watching these toxic streamers being rude and disrespectful to others really makes me sad to see. I never thought a game of dead by daylight could make anyone this mad to the point where they cuss them out and say any stupid and obnoxious words or slurs to them. Thanks so much for the video Aaron!! 🤗💖💖
me too, but on the killer side. AAaron is so helpful
congrats on the character ark!! I've been there, and my life improved a lot when I started being kinder to people. Things are going up for ya bud, great work!
Honestly same, i use to be very toxic when it came to dbd but seeing all these and Spooks videos ive changed how i see the game and that killer and survivor deserve respect
@@Detective_asparagus Thank you!!! I really appreciate that!! 🥰
Me too on both sides
As both a small streamer and a female streamer, this kind of thing scares me... I feel like it's just inevitable that I'll run into someone like this one day. And while I hope it's no day soon, I hope I'll think back on this situation and remember that I don't have to brush it off and get pushed over, and that it'll work out in the end. Honestly, the creepiest part was the guy going onto her socials and stalking/mocking her.. ;-;
It is definitely inevitable sadly as a female in this industry. But I am SO HAPPY that this situation helped show you it is okay to stand up for yourself and defend yourself! It is okay to call people on their wrong doings🫶🏻 Stay strong out there and know that so many of us have fellow female streamers backs when things like this happen!☺️
You definitely don’t have to brush it off! It shouldn’t be your responsibility to deal with their bullshit, it should be their responsibility to do better
I feel honored to be apart of your video. Haha the Mikaela here 🤣 Tay is amazing! 🖤
My dyslexic ass thought the title said “sexiest streamer” not “sexist” lol
Great video btw! Awesome job as always.
Me too, lol.
I saw the title and said, sexiest streamer!?? I'll be the judge of that!
"Do I have Boobs? " Love it Aaron! I don't know why so many guys have such fragile masculinity. Women have the disadvantage and like you were showing by your data it shows, our boobs are definitely not helping us. One reason I can NEVER go into voice chat, no matter what game I play. The sh, I have to deal with any time I go into Voice chats is ridiculous. OMG as a Mother myself he loves stereotypes, probably would love his girl (if he ever had or has one) to be in the kitchen, make him sandwiches and never talk. Grrrr Thank you Aaron for speaking the truth! (Not like this dude)
Many simps disagree lol
It is sad that you don't use voice chat because of other peoples inability to act normal when hearing there is a woman in the voice chat, I have not encountered this when hearing a women in chat (from others in chat) but I have a lower sample size to work off of (or maybe the games I play are more "women-friendly" (not sure what to call it)), I hope the landscape improves, gamers should treat both sides the same and be able to handle and interact with the other genders the same as their own.
His stats prove boobs do work though number 1 woman streamer, amouranth lol 🤭 hate the simps, hate the woman who take advantage of them by wearing low cut gear also.
I feel your pain dealing with voice chats. It's so so sad that I have to stay muted when coms are needed because of the reaction we receive upon speaking at all.
As a transgender woman streamer it is not great for us on twitch, also being shy and having adhd doesnt help me much, i adore my fellow women streamers who can hit these goals that most of us dream of.
"I can't imagine being that sad" Can't imagine a grown man letting a video game destroy his mental state to the point where he has to blame a person's gender to disguise his insecurity and incompetence. But sure, the other player is the sad one.
As a woman I am at this point so used to the sexism online that it is sad.
I saw the whole vod and I was so disgusted by this guy
Tayy is such a nice and incredible person and definitely didn't deserve any of that
all that..over a video game smh
Great video as always Aaron!!!!!
You’re amazing JG😭🖤🫶🏻 So lucky to get to call you a friend!
Ngl, she was a lil toxic too
@@Seority About the "failing Twitch career" comment...I agree and theres no excuse for that...that being said..the difference here is I know Tayy can learn from her mistake, while the TTV clearly believes they are in the right..especially about their misogynistic/sexist views
@@xitstayy7455 All the love to youuuuuu!!!!! And SAMEEEE!!!!!!!!
@@Seority Who cares. Saying an offhand comment about someone’s channel is much better than being a flat out misogynist.
A female streamer here, this happened once to me. But it was awhile ago, and the person came in saying shit to me, but then started saying that "Oh you're only getting views cause you're a female." I was shocked by that, and I tried to deescalate the problem, but the asshole decided to go after my friend (who I believe thought he was trans at the time, but I think he identifies as non-binary now, but likes being called he). So I started going off, I also started to cry. I was new to streaming at the time as well. But after awhile my friend banned him for me, since I wasn't able to at the time.
Yall can't even be successful without men getting butthurt because you are more successful than them. 🤣🤣🤣🙄 women can't catch a fucking break when it comes to the male ego
I'm sorry you had to deal with a prick like that. nobody deserves to deal with assholes who behave like that. don't let people like them get you down or get under your skin. the best thing to do in situations like that is to just ban them and move on with your life. ik it's easier said than done, especially if things get heated, but giving people like that a reaction is what they crave. give it to them and it empowers them to continue to harass you or decide to go and treat someone else the same way, like they did to your friend. I hope things have gotten better for the both of you since then
@@WiFiDown37811 Yes! Everything has gotten better!!
I feel you, it’s horrible how they act like that. Also you can report their account for sexism and stuff. Twitch WILL ban them. They aren’t lenient on them bullies.
The fact he contradicts himself saying he’s the least toxic person when he literally stalked another streamers socials, made sexist comments, called his teammates basically stupid, and said their useless. If that’s what not toxic is than I don’t know what is.
"You're streaming this aren't you? Yikes." Says the man child who can't stop embarrassing himself, criticizing someone's appearance & spewing sexism. I saw his twitter a while back & for someone who says they 'don't care', he sure tweets like he cares. All those threads are...salty af. The amount of times he contradicts himself is actually brain numbing. I digress, thanks for another great video Aaron! You always look at every side & bring some well thought out takes. I'm also gonna throw out the wholesome streamers known as CuppaPro & Poltaygeist, they're both so positive & have created a wonderful community for themselves.
ok
@@primarch6788 ok
This guy sounds like the type of person to tell a woman she'd be prettier if she smiled more
That seems nice...? Is that not nice💀🙏
@@jadenharris6560it’s probably intended to be a compliment but the way it plays out is that a nonzero amount of women feel policed on how they need to appear in public to everyone. Usually this phrase is said by a man who is a stranger and I personally am always a little on guard with not accidentally pissing that demographic off (don’t want to be followed home/yelled at/hit etc. on the off chance they’re unstable) Also in my experience, I’ve never heard a guy be told he would look so handsome if he smiled by a random woman, so it does seem to be a gendered thing where mostly women are told to smile by strangers in public. She could be having a terrible day and it shows on her face, and instead of it coming across as a compliment, it’s a nagging reminder of the expectations for women to be beautiful and presentable at all times, to be reminded that she is a spectacle to this man, an object to be admired/altered to his liking.
Though I’m sure some women don’t associate the cultural baggage of femininity with this comment and do appreciate it as a compliment. At the end of the day, I personally wouldn’t say this to a woman I don’t know because it feels weirdly demanding. I would probably just tell her she’s pretty!
@@NinaBellaRoma ight
@@jadenharris6560 lol
Sadly just dealt with something like this myself in a DBD Community group. Posting a photo of myself promoting I was live, a man went off about how only female streamers "wh0re" themselves out on the internet with their bewbs and that's the only reason I had any followers. I was incredibly grateful that atleast 100 people from the community lashed back and educated him on his sexist remarks. 🖤
Seen a situation similar on the dbd reddit, a woman posted a pic of an oni cosplay she did, and as you would guess, a bunch of insecure whoppers come along to insult and berate this woman bc her cos cosplay showed a bit of skin, irs honestly like men line up waiting in pure excitement to get a chance to berate a woman
Your takes are always so based. Literally everything you said about women being treated like shit on twitch had me agreeing, and I'm not even a streamer. I just see how these girls are treated and its horrible. Thank you for this!
Off topic but I LOVE your name!
@@xitstayy7455 aww thank you so much!! I had a lot of fun making it 🤣💕💕
I love how with these people think they are never the problem
as someone who blames myself for everything and can't bring myself to put blame on others, nothing pisses me off more than people who refuse to admit fault. how are you supposed to grow as a human being if you push all your blame on other people? it's beyond childish and pathetic 🙄
I wanna say it is hard. Pretty sure guys don't end up with stalkers, they probably don't get the same amount of sexual harassment(if they see that type of attention as such) and get sent unsolicited pp picks. I use to be webcam and now I'm scared to with what happened with in the first year of streaming. Even as a VTuber I still get sexually harassed. Twitch is a boys club.
Stalkers are a problem for all genders.
personally took me awhile to learn this but once someone drops a line like "you cant tell me otherwise" just pack up and leave. you wont get a brick wall to turn around by asking enough times
I was one of the first people to come under Tay's post after seeing his post. I saw both sides of the story and said it's easy to just go to this guy's vod and see who's lying. In 5 minutes I provided time stamps and screenshotted proof for tay of him not only lying but also attacking Tay's friend Steph which made Tay go on the defense. They guy was so delusional aboht the situation. The worse thing he ever tweeted to me was "do your research" lmaooo thanks for making this video!
I wouldn't be surprised if he tries to take down this video and like every other rude TTVs who put the victory card in play, or this rude TTV streamer might try something else if this doesn't get taken down. If I ever seen him I'll do a favor for that female TTV streamer or any females who faced this TTV streamer
@@Slayer602ttv his tweets implied he wants the attention and views if anything he'll probably love that this video is up
@@xorubychann if I ever face against him should be face camp him and all or no? For all the females or whoever has had a problem with this rude TTV streamer
I dont understand how people like this walk the earth and think that they're entitled to act this way to other people.
1 - it's a video game, get over it GG go next.
2 - You cant control how other people play, play the best YOU can so that you control the outcome. Better outcome = more wins = better teammates/higher rank.
3 - What kind of people do you think you're going to attract if all you do is throw pity parties and blame other people?
4 - What is your community going to be if you build it up from being toxic towards other people. Because they will turn on you at some point, they always do.
Stuff like this oddly makes me want to start streaming seeing such a wholesome community come around and help this person is really great and as someone who's bad at social skills and whatnot I've always had admiration for people who can make something like this work and hopefully one day I'll be well enough one day to start this on my own stay strong tay and I hope the kiddo is doing alright
The cringiest thing to do in an argument is to bring up view, follower, or sub count when losing an argument like it means anything
14:45 you said it right as I thought it. It’s really sad that people can think the way this guy does and be oblivious to how ignorant it is. Thanks for finishing the video with some positive! Gonna go follow both! ❤
I appreciate you, Thankyou!🥹
Props to Hoolio for defending his friend lol.
I was playing with my friend once in a duo, and this other player in the match got mad at them and in the EGC said "Yeah we're all in a SWF and think you're bad"
And I actually got so pissed off at that, I went off on the guy for lying lol. He should've been so embarrassed. Just imagine being that much of a baby, you're willing to lie to attack someone else's confidence.
That’s exactly why I said anything bc after I said GG i heard him going off on my friend steph. He attacked her first then me after I said GG. I’ll be damned if I’m gonna hear someone going off on my friend and my self and not defend us both. That makes for good friends🫶🏻☺️
^like Tay said, I'm not letting someone I know be attacked. I saw this person was trying to make her look bad, and had to step in. Hopefully people start having second thoughts before acting up like this
Ever since he’s been called out he’s been acting all nice lol
Good, I really hope this whole situation has made a positive impact.
Who is he?
@@Dataisthetruth i rather not give this man any clout/a call out due to hime acting like a child
Does he get more views now because if he does seems like all of this worked out for him lol
This extends to literally anything entertainment related. So many sub-par dudes complain that women can't be more talented than them and that people only want them for their looks. They don't realize that this idea also means that women have to try harder than men to get recognized for their talent, and the ones that aren't conventionally attractive get completely ignored.
Aaron: "Sorry for Catfishing you guys"
Me: Spit-take.....*dies*
What a way to go 😂😂
@@AaronDukeYT *Spirit Phase-End noise* Eh, could've been worse. *Phases out*
Aaron your beard is just too smexy mate.
Guy seems like a mix of Ben Shapiro and Keemstar. A very troubling combination for anyone with any sense of integrity.
I just picked up streaming and this is an underlying fear I have, that I'll encounter someone trying to bash on me..but then I remember I have a brain stem. Not a female but also not a toxic person.
I like these breakdown videos because as I'm thinking of talking points you're saying everything and that is everything. ❤️
you are a very attractive "female" Aaron
Edit: "Do I have boobs?" was laughing for a good bit after that
There was once a book on growing your Twitch stream I looked into for our library - and one of the "tips" was "you'll have an easier time if you're a woman." I clearly didn't get that book and was livid. It's such a hard field for women and enbies and anyone under the trans umbrella to really succeed in.
Also, folks who wear makeup often do it because makeup is cool. XD I wish I had the energy to do my makeup more often.
The book was probably written by an incel if that's one of the tips. Like, I don't see why it needs to be a tip, whether or not it's true (it's not) is irrelevant cuz it's literally just not a factor anyone can do anything about so why even bring it up. It's like writing a book on how to be a good goalie in soccer and putting "if you just so happen to be very big you'll have an easier time cuz you take more of the goal up!"
if anything, you have a harder time trying to be a Twitch streamer because you're a woman. most people would likely assume that you'll just try and use your body to lure people in, or if you're a gamer girl, they'll assume that you're garbage at the games you play and won't be interested in watching. whoever said that you'll have an easier time streaming as a woman clearly hasn't done their research
Sure people are more likely to click if they see a pretty women but they won't stay if they aren't engaged, everyone has to have a good entertainment value women or not.
Not to mention the disturbing stalkers and harassment female streamers get...
If you're an attractive woman i do believe you will have an easier time growing on twitch
This dude went full elementary school where you pull the hair of the girl you like. Dude has never talked to a woman in real life
I would bet he hasn’t tbh
Imagine how fragile someone's mind has to be to do this shit to someone over a video game. Definitely just gave Tayy a follow, she seems awesome.
Thankyou for that follow! I really appreciate it🥹
It's like these DBD streamers go into, Npc mode when they get absolutely shredded/destroyed and i love it.
Being a mom myself with two kids, this is absolutely outstanding. I'm a full time mom, carer for my son and yes guys, if you are unsure ask us, we be more happy to tell you its not been easy for us women on twitch. But instead of making up accusations which isn't clearly true just ask, I've already put my answer up!.. Females have more hard time on twitch and be successful and I've been on the platform for many years.. I follow more men than I do with females but that's about to change. If your a good female streamer and you got the vibes I'll drop by and say hello but and yes Aaron is 💯 correct that Twitch platform is Male sided. I have seen strength in huge female twitchers by lurking, hearing their stories how they become successful and it motivated me before I started to stream on the platform. Unfortunately because twitch drama on daily basis I quit twitch to take a long break and hoping my ideas will work this year and yes us females have ideas too believe it or not lol we all work hard to achieve our goals. But achieving those goals as a female we work twice as hard just like any other creator do. Can we stop being sexist just for once and open your eyes! We are like you! We're trying to grow not because this and that. Stop with the drama and the sexism but instead can we just support each other! Twitch will never change unless you make it change always support your fellow females and males no matter what sex they are 💞
i respect this video because you showed the facts and took the time to make your point valid and true. Also that you defending someone who is just trying to make it in high skill/demand platform. It should not matter if you have boobs or not ( and honestly who doesn't like boobs ) but attacking someone just based on that is sick. sadly even on twitch women get sexualized with certain genres and should never be that way. much love dukes
He got so mad that he actually went onto her photos over a game, like wtf. 😐😐
It is such a shame that BHVR has not done anything to address the toxicity in the community and tried to fix it. I have reported multiple people for telling me to off myself, that they hope I die or that they are going to dox me and I have checked their profiles and no action has been taken. This sucks because I do really enjoy the game itself and have been playing it for about two years but I cannot take the dreadful community. Fingers crossed that BHVR will eventually start taking the toxicity and reports seriously.
I also wish there was a feature where it notified you if action was taken. I honestly have doubts they even look at reports tbh.
I miss these videos, I would be working and having this on in the background really helped make the shifts more bearable. Miss ya bro hope life treating ya right ❤
One of my best friends has come to me in tears because of some of the stuff guys have said to her as shes trying to grow her stream. I keep telling her that these trials will make her stronger in the long run.
Mysoginsts: toddlers masquerading around in full grown adult bodies pretending to be grown people. So sad.
I've had a lot of online hate on Twitch yet they are the same person who ask me for a face reveal since I haven't shown my face online for years.
😂😂 The irony of it all
kk So 2 things:
1) Thank you for managing to make me smile and laugh a bit with the "do i have boobs?!" comment. It's been a horrible day and it's the only thing that's put a semblance of a smile on my face.
2): I will vouch for what Aaron has said about women on twitch. I used to stream and I rarely used a face cam. Just my mic and gameplay. I'm a woman and i'm reminded of that monthly. I haven't been successful on twitch. I've got less than 400 followers and the stress was getting to be too much for me. I've had to delete one VoD because it was a jackbox stream and the randos that joined it kept making sexual remarks to me, including and I quote "loose enough to be a car hood ornament". I already had/have self esteem and self image issues.... That just destroyed me that day. The only reason I could keep going is because when streaming, i get in a customer service mode and that's the only reason i can go on.
First I wanna say, anywhere near 400 is not failing!🫶🏻 even 50 or less isn’t failing, that gets you affiliate☺️ to me, you aren’t failing unless you’re using your streaming platform to treat people badly. Whether you have 20 followers or 50K or whether you have 1 viewer or 100, if you’re creating a comfortable and safe space for people to hangout then you’re doing great! This people watching you are enjoying you☺️ as for the trolls, hit that ban button! The ban hammer is a streamers bestfriend. Their goal is to tear you down and take away your joy, I know it’s hard but don’t let them🖤 ban them and know that they aren’t even speaking truth. They’re lying just to get to you. I hope all the good things for you and your streaming!
@@xitstayy7455 Thank you!
Bruh why does he sound like Yerv 💀
Eh not high pitched enough and certainly lacking the vibe in his voice
My god I hope its not actually him😰
@@XeraTheImp679 Nah, definitely not. Yerv says cringey stuff but he usually uses a goblin gamer voice while he does and it's never meant to be taken seriously
nothing but bliss and love to hoolio, who despite the very real danger of being called a simp in hopes of discrediting him, stood up to this idiot. thank you.
HOLY SHIT. I just lurked this guy's channel (spread no hate, not gonna name him). Dude TRIPLED down on the sexism by claiming that male gamers are better than female gamers. In 2023. What a piece of work!
Yikes 😬
I mean it depends on the context. The vast majority of pro players are men. Especially when it comes to worlds and stuff like that its a lot of times only men.
Here we go
Wesker?!?
Choke me~
@@gostpatatos1633 7 minutes is all I can spare to chat with you.
@@albertwesker404 looks like it's over. Been 7 mins.
you know it's bad when ALBERT WESKER is involved
I loves that you broke down statistics. They are harder for people to argue with. XD It gets tiring having to defend myself because I am a girl. People get mad and just jump to insulting your looks, or people assume you got to where you are because bewbs.
And oh just forget if you have a bad game and happen to be a girl.
Shame people honestly think it is okay.
Please tell me Im not the only one who still has the "I cant imagine being as sad as you" tone stuck in my head
T-T a whole year later
A couple of days ago, I had a conversation with a woman and she had heard of DBD but wasn't sure if she should get it. She didn't have a mic, and she was a woman, so she wondered if anyone would take her serious.
I told her that she didn't have to fear that in DBD, a mic isn't necessary and usually people don't care. I mean, I'm AFAB and never had any trouble when talking to randoms. (One of my funniest interactions was, when I started playing with this one group and we spoke for about two hours on discord, and they eventually asked me my name, and they were really shocked like "OMG You are a queen???" xD)
But of course, now a sexist streamer must come along xD Perfect timing xD
Ugh, I'm so disgusted with this person, being verbally abusive to women to fit a narrative he believe to be true and bringing people kids into it is not okay! As a mother myself all i seen was rage and as a female gamer its kinda annoying the crap we get just for being a female gamer.
How do you go from a DBD match, that didn’t go his way to attacking someone else? This guy is so mad and upset that he can’t grow his channel. I respect Tay for defending herself over this guy being very Toxic. Tay keep up the amazing work gamer! ❤
Thankyou so much!🥹 I appreciate you!
@@xitstayy7455 sorry you had to go threw that. This is my problem with this game, you have people like that. That can’t say ggs or move on, if I have match I’m not happy with, I still say Ggs if someone tells me ggs then I move on I don’t speak about it after.
Aaron, you're like an actual decent human being, I mean whoa, you broke down how things can be resolved in literally just seconds, great stuff, I hope to see more.
I'm sorry tay you had to go through that guy had no reason to attack you the way he did you're a good role model for your kids hope you and your family are having an awesome week also hope your channels continue to grow
Thankyou so much! This really means a lot to me, I appreciate the kind words🫶🏻 my family has had a rough week, but today was a light in that dark tunnel! So we’re doing a little better for sure. I hope you’re having a good week!
@@xitstayy7455 you're welcome I hope the light shines brighter and brighter with each day until the darkness is gone I'd like to follow and subscribe to your channel if that's ok
Actually one time i was streaming dbd to 100billion people when all of the sudden they all said "sorry a girl started streaming and they have booby so we hate you" and left
So, do we call you Aaronia Duchess now? 🤣
NGl but every man who enters on Twitch he enters on Hot-Tub Twitch Streamers categary once in their life.
I'm close friends with Tayy and it pissed me off when this happened. Thanks for bringing light to this situation.
This man would absolutely have a whole physical breakdown and probably break his PC if he ever got into the matches I do. 😭 Like, it’s just a game. Not everyone’s mind works the same either.
I got my first salt in endgame yesterday, I am fully aware that I was the one that instigated it, it was a 2 man that I had faced earlier so I did a little tbags and smacking on hook (Ghostface) on RPD, and they said "Guess your parents didn't want you either," But this TTV is on another level.
I mean, I get little insults now and then cause sometimes you just arent sure if someone tbags or hits you on hook cause they know you, just dor fun or because they want to upset you.
But these full on meltdowns? Yikes
Aaron was my favorite in this one 😂 when he checked himself for boobs... And even more so when he said "I'm about to lose my mawbles" 😂😂 yesss
As One Of Tay's Twitch squad members, Tay is one of the sweetest people you'll ever meet & it's extremely upsetting watching this situation & I'm so glad you & other people like Hoolio have documented and are spreading awareness of this situation and others like it. Thank you.
I LOVE YOU!🫶🏻 Thankyou for being so amazing Ren!
You ever tryna go to bed but you just ain't tired but you don't wanna do anything else
Sometimes I smell the colour purple and then my mom barks at the moon
I’m so sick of men who immediately turn to sexism bc a woman is more successful than them. It’s enfuriating.
Also, I agree with you as well about the follower/viewer shame. I may be petty af but even if this asshole said stuff like this to me I’d never stoop to that level. That’s not cool.
Thanks for this video. Made my skin crawl 🫠
Anyone can be a streamer female or male it doesn't matter what gender people are and so on
thank u for standing up for women
Anytime!
"Im not toxic, Learn to play the game" damn, man is speedrunning hypocrisy
So sorry you had to experience this Tayy, keep being amazing.
Thankyou so much I appreciate you!🥹
I actually follow Tay already! I found them on a twitch networking group where they post whenever they go live. Obviously they put in work to be found and it's not just by chance. The whole argument that women have it easy streaming just needs to be put to rest. Which, I think you did here. Very well said.
Awh I appreciate you!🥹
14:51 Aaron casual dropped the hardest roast of 2023 and thought we wouldn't notice 🤣
I didn't notice
i feel the real reason why there arent alot of women on the platform is cause twitch was originally designed with gaming in mind, to which the females are a minority of in gaming as a whole, if anything while i dont watch many streamers myself i find that the fact twitch became a general streaming platform was a good thing as it allowed more diversity and other types of content that females more enjoy thats not just game like Art and music and more, while i would like there to be more girls who like gaming i feel the fact that the platform has evolved with equality is somthing thats good. everyone should be allowed to have a right to stream regardless of gender or sexual orientation. im glad aaron is making these kind of videos as it allows people to be aware of how one should not behave in an online world while keeping folks anonymous so there no 1 person receiving any directed hate, its just getting a lesson of what a good person should not be doing :)
Homie was PROJECTING
wow, watched this video in parts and got tot he part where you let him have it for like 5 mins straight. spot on. said incredibly well.
8.6k followers I believe she does know how to build a community.
as someone who wears makeup ALL the time, 90% of people who wear makeup aren’t insecure, they just find it fun to do
Hey Aaron I missed ya. I hope you're doing well friend keep up the great work. Thank you for existing. BTW as a failed male streamer i wanna say I love women, women are smart, gentle, beautiful, and personally a women is my mental health counselor, she saved my life and I'll always love my counselor as the hero she is. Women are amazing and we need them in our lives.
Hey I don’t know what you consider a failed male streamer, but I bet you’re doing great! You have a good head on your shoulders as far as I can see based off of the positivity in this comment. To me, you’re only failing with streaming if you’re being rude and treating people like shit☺️ Again, I bet you’re doing great!
@xItsTayy awe its nothing personal I legit had a great laugh seeing i haven't been active in a month. I appreciate the kind words I sincerely do :3
Bruh if he wanted them to get their traps off so badly he should've taken chase from them so they'd have a chance to get the traps off
i sit here every video and wonder when people will realize that the game is not that deep💀💀
omg yes... someone standing up for it not being easy.. used to have a cam when i streamed.. but got a lot of shit for it calling me names and all that jazz to the point i dont use a cam anymore and i hardly stream anymore cuz of the attacks i have faced on twitch.
The same type of dude who'll complain girls don't like nice guys like him
I myself do "rage" from time to time, could be from a bad day at work, stressful day or just one of THOSE days. but I take everything out on myself and never anyone else, it's just basic respect. People play or do things that they find easier/fun. no one knows what anyone has gone through before a match begins, if I get tunnelled or camped, oh well, ggs next. Sexism
/homophobia/racism etc. Is NEVER acceptable. Ever
btw found you only recently and have been going through some of your old videos and the subjects aren't uplifting, but I'm glad you choose to expose/reveal this type of behaviour and how it is not acceptable. Could possibly be changing others because of it
Aaron, I am surprised you didn't already know that any success any woman obtains on and off the internet is all because she has boobs? OR because she is sleeping with her boss. We don't have to work twice as hard, all the while maintaining an attractive image living up to impossible beauty standards such as needing to wear makeup BUT not too much (you know we must morph magically to make each individual male happy) . Nope that isn't something that we need to do at all. 😡
Dude sounds like a paid actor
I’ve never clicked on a video notification so fast 😅
Same
I'm on the fence bout this bc while he was being sexist and toxic and all id be surprised if they weren't biased since its a proven fact on twitch that females tend to gain far more views and money (when compared to males that is) which may have caused a bias and even if it had nothing to do with that I guarantee to yall that if it was two guys as in male toxic streamer being toxic to another dude nobody would care so its not like sexism doesn't go both ways and if you hate me for this, great have your own opinions but opinions mean less than facts and that is a fact lol
I was watching on my wife's screen. I loved this so much I had to find this video just to give you a like and add to your meager following.
Thank you!
I think we CAN acknowledge that Women do have an easier time growing on Twitch. On average, they have higher retention rates, higher discovery, Twitch as a system does everything it can to boost women, and give them a leg-up on competition.
My own numbers have been up by 500% since I came out about my transition.
But we can acknowledge this reality without being massive douchebags like this TTV. He went way too far, way too quickly lmao.
Edit: this is an average. You'll find far more men on both the highest end, and the lowest end of streaming. It's the bell curve at work.
There is no statistical evidence that shows that. There isn't a bell curve on Twitch as 200k channels out of 9 million average 10 viewers or more. 1 woman in the top 100 and 32 in the top 500. There are 4 million women on the platform, and out of 9 million total channels only a million are affiliated and average 3 or more viewers total.
@@teamashengaming Okay, anecdotally speaking, my viewer retention and my view numbers both grew when I came out as a trans woman. Literally just streaming, as a woman, made my numbers go up. So.
@@VoidstriderLucatiel Anecdotal observation isn't statistical evidence. Congrats on your numbers.
He’s the sad one😧😂😂
Thank you Aaron for this 🤍 Tayy is just such an awesome person who really didn't deserve any of this uncalled for hate OVER A GAME. Really glad this behavior is being exposed and brought up for everyone to see
For some reason I read it as “The Sexiest Streamer” LMAO
So many people have done that 😅
Men like the sexist will say the most horrific shit about women and then still wonder why they're single. Thanks for calling it out Aaron, and huge props to Tayy for how she handled this.
Thankyou, I appreciate you!🥹
Lol that smirk when saying “pretty sad when you think about it” 😂😂😂😂