She hasn’t had a relaxer in 15 weeks and her hair is shedding really bad

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  • @LoXena
    @LoXena 2 роки тому +387

    Natural hair is not a trend. It's the normal, regular thing that grows on our scalp. It's like saying dark skin is a trend.

    • @diofel3384
      @diofel3384 2 роки тому +37

      Thank you. Couldn't have say it better. My stylist said the same thing, but then she stopped relaxing her own hair and her daughter. Smh, I stopped going to her salon.

    • @journeytotransplant9297
      @journeytotransplant9297 2 роки тому +40

      like frfr smh we were born with natural hair 🙄

    • @practicewhatyoupreach79
      @practicewhatyoupreach79 2 роки тому +149

      Wearing natural hair was definitely a trend. It may have not been a trend for you individually but it was a movement for a number of years. Black women are largest number of consumers of weave and wigs - so let’s not act like all of us wearing our natural hair has been the norm

    • @amroark
      @amroark 2 роки тому +32

      @@practicewhatyoupreach79 Thank you!

    • @SippiGirl_256
      @SippiGirl_256 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed.

  • @SweetJoye
    @SweetJoye 2 роки тому +84

    Call me old school, but I think after a relaxer, roller sets are the best. Or a flat wrap.

    • @elainecampbell6134
      @elainecampbell6134 Рік тому +7

      It is the best! No hairdresser can't flat iron my after a relaxer

    • @SweetJoye
      @SweetJoye Рік тому

      @@elainecampbell6134 yep!

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 Рік тому +2

      @@elainecampbell6134 When I was relaxed I didn’t allow them to flat iron my hair either.

  • @thevinyllife5285
    @thevinyllife5285 Рік тому +23

    I feel like her hair wasn’t tangled at the ends, because it needed to be cut. When you were washing and scrunching her hair up and around in a circle….That is what made it tangle 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Cynthia-p1z
    @Cynthia-p1z 8 місяців тому +20

    Natural hair cannot ever be a trend, for it's GOD given, what we are born with, clean and free of chemicals♥️🤗

    • @EldeneFrans
      @EldeneFrans 3 місяці тому +2

      No but that's not entirely what she meant. She said that in the whole sentence of people think it's easier going natural when it requires just as much and sometimes very more than relaxed hair. And natural hair was a trend. Bc people felt obligated to go natural bc everybody doing it thinking relaxed hair is unhealthy.

  • @takiyahalexander862
    @takiyahalexander862 2 роки тому +59

    Oh how I remember these days..... I can literally feel the fancy free exuberance of a fresh relaxer! The water running through my freshly relaxed hair.... That cut and that mold then swiftly under the dryer! Those 90's cuts n curls were everything to me! This brings back such fond memories; thank you so very much🥰

  • @lmarie81
    @lmarie81 Рік тому +18

    The small comb detangling caused me anxiety. 😬 When you agitate the hair that way, of course it will tangle!

  • @sharonlee8552
    @sharonlee8552 2 роки тому +141

    Crystal not only are you a GREAT STYLIST, YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL SMILE!!!

    • @lindahines9380
      @lindahines9380 2 роки тому +4

      yes she does! And a nice personality

    • @brendarandle7535
      @brendarandle7535 2 роки тому +1

      Lflffflfllflffflflfflfflllflllfflflflflllllfllcllllllllllllflllllflllffclllllllflflflllflllllllllfllllllllfllllllllllllllllllf

    • @heavyheavysyrup
      @heavyheavysyrup 2 роки тому +3

      I know, her TEETH!

    • @DownDee
      @DownDee 2 роки тому +1

      Always the same style. The paige boy parted on the side with a few flips in it.

  • @THEREELLA
    @THEREELLA 2 роки тому +123

    I should have found you ten years ago! Everything you have said have happened to my hair when it was relaxed, and now I’m natural because it was thinning so bad. Your products are exceptional and your knowledge as well. Thank you.

    • @carmelchocolate45hall49
      @carmelchocolate45hall49 2 роки тому +5

      A black rinse

    • @tenaterrell3956
      @tenaterrell3956 2 роки тому +3

      Yeah

    • @varroz6926
      @varroz6926 2 роки тому

      It's going to shed regardless BECAUSE RELAXERS KILL AND DAMAGE YOUR HAIR !!! look at the chemical in relaxer ! They could literally give your skin 2nd - 3rd degree burns ! just get a silk press if you want your hair straight. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lavetteharris9574
      @lavetteharris9574 Рік тому

      Are you natural or relaxed

  • @kenyaford9771
    @kenyaford9771 2 роки тому +57

    You applied relaxer to your clients scalp from the start. That’s the reason most clients start to burn before the smoothing process has even begun. The proper way to apply Relaxer is 1/4 inches away from the scalp and Never to the hairline until the smoothing process has begun. And Yes you can apply Demi permanent haircolor to relaxed hair. As long as you maintain the Protein/Moisture balance your clients hair will be fine. AND NEVER EVER EVER COMB THROUGH RELAXED HAIR. The Disulfide bonds are already weakening so combing through it is causing more damage.

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +8

      Exactly

    • @memeblue6473
      @memeblue6473 2 роки тому +9

      amen
      I'm so glad I'm not the only one that know the stuff. good job girl

    • @carissabiddle6417
      @carissabiddle6417 2 роки тому +9

      She messed that lady hair up

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +3

      @@carissabiddle6417 I agree

    • @dancormom
      @dancormom 2 роки тому +2

      I agree but it did turn out cute!!

  • @elijahalcia7762
    @elijahalcia7762 2 роки тому +42

    That's right, one can wear the hair natural if one desires that look. Wear your hair however it pleases YOU...not what some narrative tries to manipulate. Your hair doesn't define your heart!!!

  • @tinalove8197
    @tinalove8197 2 роки тому +23

    Ladies for hair shedding use ONION JUICE mixed with tea tree oil and PEPERMINT OIL to mask the smell at least 2 x a week and rinse out. MIX the oil from the purple and yellow onion together. You can also take a little bit of mixture and use daily with oil on scalp.
    Another good thing is caffeine you can put caffeine water on scalp and wash out. OR make caffeine daily oil moisturizer.
    ONION JUICE AND CAFFEINE ON SCALP REALLY HELPED END MY BALD SPOTS.

  • @mizzmolly7649
    @mizzmolly7649 2 роки тому +33

    I started getting a touchup every 10 weeks instead of 8 and no longer use a flat iron but just do a blow out. Now my hair is down my back.

    • @jmiredd362
      @jmiredd362 2 роки тому +1

      :) I'd love to see what the flat iron would do to your hair at a lower temperature. ;)

    • @mizzmolly7649
      @mizzmolly7649 Рік тому

      ​@@jmiredd362A year later, my hair is even longer, but I'm really starting to be concerned about continuing to use a relaxer and the cancer risk.

  • @angelahagood3639
    @angelahagood3639 9 місяців тому +4

    Great job Crystal!!! Things that I was taught about hair in cosmetology used to not make a lot of sense until I began watching you. The curriculum is based almost entirely on white people’s hair. Even though I’m white, African-American hair amazes me! It is so versatile! I loved learning about relaxers, curl reformations, etc. All the clients I worked on were those little old ladies that wanted Bob Ross perms.😵‍💫 You truly are an artist and brilliant business woman and I enjoy every episode! Thank you for letting us watch and learn!🙌🏻🫶🏻

  • @mirandaa.walker4136
    @mirandaa.walker4136 2 роки тому +36

    Wearing your natural hair can never be a trend since its my hair it will never change. I totally disagree. Everyone can choose how to wear their hair. I was relaxed since age 7 to 32. Relaxers always burned my scalp no matter how I maintained, no scratching so I know its not for my scalp. Im loc'd now and my hair is free, its long and I don't manipulate it constantly.

    • @rubyrorie2898
      @rubyrorie2898 Рік тому

      My hair is Coarse and permanent colored what r the best product to get it loose an not so appy

    • @rubyrorie2898
      @rubyrorie2898 Рік тому

      Nappy real nappy my coarse hair help

    • @rubyrorie2898
      @rubyrorie2898 Рік тому +1

      Rightnow at application

    • @jacquijones6353
      @jacquijones6353 Рік тому

      She is correct be a natural right now is a trend and it is racially motivated because what has happened since the pandemic but yes you can be natural it's your choice some people like to be permed that's their choice but after a while like she said you get tired of being natural then you want a perm or if you are natural and you're not taking care of your natural hair it's still a problem

    • @zenacollins458
      @zenacollins458 11 місяців тому

      She meant "wearing your hair natural". Just like the afro was a trend.

  • @nataliemartin9619
    @nataliemartin9619 2 роки тому +31

    I love seeing a good trim. It makes the hair look ten times better!

  • @karthompson1280
    @karthompson1280 2 роки тому +36

    It was very difficult to watch the detangling process in the sink 😮

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 2 роки тому +21

    when i had a relaxer, the thing i hated the most was the mixed textures. when your hair is REALLY coarse and the relaxer makes your hair so straight, as soon as your scalp sweats a little the roots have already reverted. so if you comb at your roots, there's breakage where the line of demarcation is. and each time you get relaxer, they go over the hair that's already been relaxed. that makes the bonds weaker and leads to breakage, but if you stretch your relaxers, then you will have breakage from the stress on the straight hair when you are combing through the coarser textures. it's a lose-lose situation.

    • @TanyaScorpio
      @TanyaScorpio 2 роки тому +7

      I never experienced that but I do know if you get them too close there is more overlap. I just got a relaxer 2 days ago after 12 weeks.barely any hair loss.mind you I maintain my hair deep conditioners and keep it moisturized...but everyone has different hair grades too.. The stylist is key...

  • @jeremyjackson8196
    @jeremyjackson8196 2 роки тому +28

    I love watching professionals doing their craft regardless of what it is.

  • @maryjames5957
    @maryjames5957 2 роки тому +13

    I’m natural because of bad bad experience of relaxing. Everything you said about WHY things happen to relaxed hair is so true.

  • @janicecoleman2755
    @janicecoleman2755 2 роки тому +41

    I love watching Crystal work. It’s so calming and relaxing for me. You can see that she truly enjoys it. 🌹

  • @jacquelinecaldwell6879
    @jacquelinecaldwell6879 2 роки тому +12

    That client looks FANTASTIC!!! Her hair is perfect!! Excellent work!!

  • @gwene.4726
    @gwene.4726 2 роки тому +63

    It gave me nightmares watching you rip through her hair strands ( ends) with that fine tooth comb! Wow!

    • @Ash-ol3ji
      @Ash-ol3ji 2 роки тому +16

      It was the multiple passes with the flat iron for me 😬

    • @eristotle2380
      @eristotle2380 2 роки тому +10

      this is the comment i was looking for. thank you.

    • @GeeDeeyh
      @GeeDeeyh 2 роки тому +10

      This is the comment I was looking for...am in distress🥱

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +7

      And yet she’s giving advice😏🤔

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +4

      I’m almost 4 months and I’m not shedding yet she says pass 12 weeks your hair will shed

  • @politicsinplainenglish1791
    @politicsinplainenglish1791 2 роки тому +18

    Living in Vegas I haven't found any hair stylist here for black hair so I've viewed your videos to help grow my hair.
    First, I discovered black rice water is 10 times better than white rice (just like you said white rice can't stay on your hair long but I leave black rice water on for hours without any problems)
    Second, I use fenugreek as a daily (or couple times a week) oil it helps to stimulate my scalp and just between these two items it has grown my hair.
    Third, I wash my hair twice a week and I have added vinegar water in a bottle after rinsing out the shampoo (this is what my mother did for us kids growing up to grow our hair & I had the longest hair in class)
    Lastly, my hair has grown like crazy and I'm 68y/o I use the semi-color (non permanent) and I use vaseline (like my mother used on our hair growing up it seems to keep the hair from reverting back)
    Now I'm working on the rest of my body lol.

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 роки тому +5

      I had the longest hair in class…what an accomplishment 🤣

    • @maryjames5957
      @maryjames5957 2 роки тому +1

      I needed you before I went natural 4 years ago

    • @cathyburress8303
      @cathyburress8303 4 місяці тому

      😊

  • @valeriesmith7988
    @valeriesmith7988 2 роки тому +22

    Crystal, this is my second time watching you. I watched you the other day coloring a customer's hair that was completely all gray. She wanted to color her hair for her birthday and she had a lot of hair as well. You did cut/trim it. I wish you lived here in MD so I could get my hair done by you on a regular. I'm natural now but used to get a perm. You are so knowledgeable. I don't trust people with my hair and have no idea what to do with it.

  • @dorianmeyette8560
    @dorianmeyette8560 2 роки тому +29

    I don’t even have textured hair but I’m obsessed with watching your videos.

  • @karenmedearis6169
    @karenmedearis6169 2 роки тому +5

    before putting relaxer on the hair for virgin hair or a retouch. Its correct to base before applying the chemical of relaxer to the hair to protect the root of the hair and scalp
    .

  • @maryduff8831
    @maryduff8831 2 роки тому +14

    You nailed the cosmetology license and knowledge on the head. I haven’t been able to find anyone in close to 10 years that actually can perform the services I want; even when I have gone to the more than experienced operators I’ve left with botched hair cuts and perms that had breakage or I would have to walk them through how to wrap a perm fir long hair.
    You made a great point about the relaxers I wish you would go more in-depth about this and the proper “procedure” for doing a Jerry Curl. I’m no longer in the business but I want to know where a service went wrong when I was in school.

  • @gforceforever
    @gforceforever Рік тому +2

    I am addicted to your videos. Your level of expertise is so beyond anything I've seen so far. I don't care if your videos are hours long, because I gain so much knowledge and insight! Thank you for caring and sharing!! 💗

  • @mzrenee4273
    @mzrenee4273 2 роки тому +24

    Yep. I have a set schedule with my beautician/cosmetologist for my relaxers and she keeps up and won't change it unless absolutely necessary. And I am in rotation with her every 2 weeks.

    • @octaviawalker823
      @octaviawalker823 Рік тому +2

      Is your relaxed hair healthy though?

    • @tlbryant4077
      @tlbryant4077 Рік тому +5

      @@octaviawalker823 I have a set schedule also. I go every 2 wks for a wash. Every 8wks for a relaxer. Trim every other relaxer (every 4 months). My hair is long and healthy. Only 1 source of heat and that is the hair dryer for roller sets. That regimen is perfect for me.

  • @shannimarie1122
    @shannimarie1122 2 роки тому +46

    I love how you break things down and know you’re willing and wanting to educate people…. Love your videos!!! 🤤

    • @melthomas1017
      @melthomas1017 Рік тому +1

      Why would a article bag burn the hair off?

  • @lindabynum2496
    @lindabynum2496 2 роки тому +2

    Ms.Elite your level of hair knowledge is amazing. You remind me of old school beauticians.Thank you for a willingness to share.Thank you.

  • @officialsyddinpretty
    @officialsyddinpretty 2 роки тому +50

    amazing technique + explanation. The relaxed hair "gurus" on here can learn several things from this. They loveee to convince people to stretch 13-22 weeks

    • @cindychristian1700
      @cindychristian1700 2 роки тому +19

      Usually the extended relaxer stretching is for growth. But when I was relaxed I never went passed 12 weeks! Some people only relax their hair 2 to 3 times a year and dont have a lot of shedding because they do high maintenance with their hair.

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +2

      It depends on your hair texture I’m a 3c and can go 6 months but I do things most bw are against and it works for me

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha 2 роки тому +2

      @@sdanzey6962 same. 3c hair and I had my last relaxer in March I think. I dont even count the weeks/time. Just go to the stylist when jt gets too long.

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +1

      @@pickmeisha wow you go girl my last relaxer was in June we got this

    • @SWAKCouture
      @SWAKCouture 2 роки тому +2

      It depends on how you Care for your hair between touch-ups. My hair is considered "4b-4c" and when I used to get my hair relaxed, my touch-ups were every 3 months. However, I always deep conditioned my hair at every shampoo snd did routine protein treatments every month. I also did not use a lot of heat on my hair--typically just 1x a week. My hair was thick and long-- often people thought it was a wig. I am natural now and have been for many years. My hair is even thicker now of course and has grown even longer bc it is healthier in its natural state.

  • @meriellehenry5088
    @meriellehenry5088 3 місяці тому

    You are teaching ! My mom is a Cosmologist! And I remember when I was in high school helping her wash hair. I loved going to the hair shows with her and learned a lot then as well.
    Thank you Crystal! I’m learning a lot! 😊

  • @Cpre1111
    @Cpre1111 2 роки тому +33

    Sometimes the hair sheds, not b/c a touch up is needed, but b/c the hair needs protein, which relaxed hair lacks. I get mine relaxed every 3 months (12 weeks), trim then, protein treat with Aphogee (a lifesaver when I notice there's far too much shedding) & I use a lot of Olaplex #3 (olaplex conditioner & leave in, too). I only flat iron (use heat) once every 2 weeks (same as I wash my hair). When I notice my hair struggling to retain moisture, I steam it with Shea Butter Essentials coconut oil but I haven't had an issue with moisture in a long time. I swear by grease (Kuza Indian hemp), Jamaican Black Castor Oil & not overprocessing the hair (that's why I only dye it with a rinse when I'm relaxed). And I use a sulfate (stripping shampoo) biweekly b/c it strips my hair of all the dirt, oils, grease (& other products) I've used in that period. Just pay extremely close attention to your hair, be it relaxed or natural, and take cues from what your hair is doing & how it feels, to tell you how to treat it.

    • @anndeecosita3586
      @anndeecosita3586 Рік тому +2

      Scalp issues are common on my dad’s side. My scalp did so much better after I stopped relaxing. My cousin is like one of the last people in my family who still uses relaxers. None of my aunts or other cousins relax and my cousin said she thinks it’s the solution but she doesn’t want to go natural. She went to a dermatologist who convinced her to at least not relax as often. So now she does it 4 times a year or every 12 weeks and she said she had a lot of improvement in her scalp. Her hair looks thicker and better too. I gave her some Olaplex.

  • @1soFortunate
    @1soFortunate Рік тому

    You said a mouthful, when you said eventually your hair won't grow back! I'm here to testify the truth. I'm in my sixties, my hair stopped growing 6 years ago, and it's still not growing, and I've been natural for years. I don't have a bad relaxer story. But, i do have bad hair braiding services stories. Oh, I have hair but it has no length and breaks constantly. I believed that I would always have hair. I do not know what to do. My goal now is to not go completely bald. Thank you for giving us your message loud and clear, with plain and easy to understand lectures 👌

  • @doriecrouthers1519
    @doriecrouthers1519 9 місяців тому

    I am so proud of you… just because you are great at hair dose not mean that you cannot put your family and yourself first. I am new as of today to your channel but I am so glad to know you.

  • @womanofgod4510
    @womanofgod4510 2 роки тому +15

    Look how much hair came out her head and she didn't show her.... For me that's not a secret I need to know that.... That's why I always ask questions bc I know my hair better than they do

  • @hazelcruz4704
    @hazelcruz4704 2 роки тому +64

    I’m so glad you mentioned the fact that everyone can not maintain natural hairstyles. I bought into the whole hoopla. It has been so difficult to keep up. Needless to say this is the last month I will be dealing with the natural look.

    • @slimthickaz.
      @slimthickaz. 2 роки тому +27

      Strange comment because what would you do if these weren't invented?

    • @pink1237480
      @pink1237480 2 роки тому +15

      What's wrong with your natural hair that you think you need to relax it?

    • @prettyflowers9290
      @prettyflowers9290 2 роки тому +6

      @@slimthickaz. Exactly!!!

    • @iheartbeccaa4394
      @iheartbeccaa4394 2 роки тому +58

      To everyone above in the most respectful way... "It's not YOUR HAIR." Let her do what she thinks is best based on how she can handle it.

    • @user-vy3jy8he3q
      @user-vy3jy8he3q 2 роки тому +28

      @@pink1237480 what if there’s nothing wrong and she just wants to relax her hair because she can?

  • @sheliascott4273
    @sheliascott4273 2 роки тому +6

    That was not shedded hair. That was tangled hair in which it should have been carefully detangled by your fingers or a large comb with gentle patience and care.

  • @linda1679
    @linda1679 2 роки тому +4

    I commend you on your knowledge of black hair care. Most of the stylists I watch don’t ever go into the detail you do.

  • @anissa5261
    @anissa5261 2 роки тому +1

    I love every time you speak about relaxer and natural hair because also will never rock a natural look, it doesn't work for my lifestyle and i love my relaxers it helps me take care of my hair and see growth of it.

  • @imho5485
    @imho5485 10 місяців тому +1

    I just stumbled across this video tonight. I went 6 months between relaxers while debating whether or not to continuing putting a rinse on my hair. My hair was shedding all over the place. Thanks to this video, I’ll never go beyond 12 weeks again. I’ll start paying attention to hair loss / shedding to determine how I should time appointments.
    Btw, I’ve officially stopped coloring my hair. My hair dresser encouraged me to leave it alone since I’d gone so long. She added a purple shampoo to the wash and the grays and browns are playing much better together. The gray isn’t so stark against it.

  • @wot4922
    @wot4922 8 місяців тому +1

    All the posters in the comments section sound like experts themselves probably because they have this hair texture and have had the same issues. Bless you for trying to help others.🙏💖

  • @marciamariemccauley9879
    @marciamariemccauley9879 27 днів тому

    Absolutely righr. It is a trend. Hair must be taken care of properrly and consistently especially for children, teens and the whole family. Thank you Crystal.

  • @dawnsstar5918
    @dawnsstar5918 2 роки тому +2

    This girl knows what she's doing.
    Beautiful work.
    I am a mix of ...gee I think I'll say everything, but I had always struggled with my tons of fine very curly hair when I was young. Massive !!
    My mother really did not know how to handle it, so for years she'd comb the knots out (2 hours worth) and when she was done, she'd put that frizzy hair right into a tight ponytail....with a rubber band (ucccckkk)
    They would not relax my hair at the salon, and I was told it was too dry and would break off.
    So,
    I learned to love my hair, treat it well, condition i.t And being gentle
    At 60 it has less volume, not as curly, but I still consider it massive, And if the frizzies come, it's leave in conditioner. Works wonders.
    So love your hair treat it well, and be gentle.

  • @royaltreatment6415
    @royaltreatment6415 2 роки тому +9

    You are supposed to stay 1/2 inch off the scalp when applying a retouch to a client

  • @mamaronna6210
    @mamaronna6210 2 роки тому +2

    I'm not gonna lie watching you wash people hair makes me relax Luke I'm picturing me being in that chair it's the best part of all of it until your done and the person did a great job. I get super scared about people cutting my hair because it's really long and sometimes more than any that you tell them a trim Luke NO MORE than 2 inches and they cut it to much or they cut it croaked or something and I have tried different places many different places. How do I get over that fear

  • @tashaflugence9159
    @tashaflugence9159 2 роки тому +6

    Soo true like I always say the have stylist who can style hair but not all knows how to grow and take care of hair

  • @Tameka_White
    @Tameka_White 2 роки тому +8

    For a 15 week relaxer I would use the virgin relaxer instructions instead of a regular retouch instructions. Meaning I would go to mid strand of the new growth avoiding the line of demarcation and go back to the scalp area otherwise the scalp will process first from the body heat.

  • @ruthholiday5757
    @ruthholiday5757 2 роки тому +7

    I love your instructions . I attended Cosmetology college and I have learned more about hair since I watching you.Thank you so much ❤Ruth Holiday

  • @missg4238
    @missg4238 2 роки тому +5

    Unfortunately though you can’t speak for all relaxed women, because there is no one size fits all. I can’t relax every six/eight weeks or whatever. I have never relaxed less than every 12 weeks; I typically stretch for 16 weeks because over processing of hair is still a thing. My last stretch was 21 weeks, but it doesn’t mean I neglected my hair, no, I certainly did not, and my hair shedding is average noting unusual. My hair is long, thick, and healthy because I look after it very well. If relaxed more regularly than every 12 weeks, I know for a fact that my hair wouldn’t respond well with that.

  • @goldengirl5887
    @goldengirl5887 2 роки тому +20

    I went natural bc relaxers were breaking down my strands making them weak and fragile. I had no curl after a roller set and feared going bald.

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +4

      And I’m sure you were getting relaxers every 6 weeks

    • @freewithnature
      @freewithnature 2 місяці тому

      @@sdanzey6962I got my relaxers every 5 months or so for many many years till one year my hair started falling out.

  • @TPC_HWN2230
    @TPC_HWN2230 2 роки тому +8

    Firstly I love your channel. I'm aware there's a thousand ways to do things. I watched the entire video, some very good tips. I meant to convey my concern in the form of questions, but listening and typing, the questions are posed as comments and statements. Thanks in advance
    Why didn't you didn't base her scalp, nor protect her processed hair at the line of demarcation.
    Your hair doesn't break bcus you don't retouch. That's like saying that people can't go back natural from a relaxer. With proper care this can be done successfully without a lot of shedding.
    You mentioned fiber-guard, relaxers are fortified differently but at the end of the day, it's still a chemical that changes the bonds and the structural integrity of the hair permanently.
    Detangling wet hair at the bowl, the small tooth comb just ripped fragile hair that already has no elasticity. Detangling would have been less harsh working the knots from the ends towards the roots. Pulling thru makes the tangling worse in my opinion.
    You advise wearing a sew-in on top of a relaxer. Relaxed hair has no elasticity and will dry out and break badly if wearing a sew-in on relaxed hair. There should be at least 1 to 1 1/2 inches of new growth to minimize breakage
    You said hair oil is great for the scalp, topicals on the scalp usually clogs the follicles and counteracts the duty of the sebaceous glands. maybe oil as an oil treatment. The molecular structure of most oil is to large to penetrate the cuticle and just sits on top of the hair and does nothing anyway.
    You told one viewer, regarding her dry hair, that she needs to find the porosity of her hair. Porosity changes with simple styling, also hair porosity is different throughout the entire head, when you condition in the salon, the hair is cared for as a whole, testing for porosity isn't done before applying a conditioning treatment a visual assessment is.
    Since the 1st client wanted to keep her length, why not cut her split ends internally and shape her externally to maintain her length?
    styling the 1st client, So does everyone use plugin's for styling in your state? What happened to pressing combs and barrel irons? She has thick roots, untamed edges and partially straight hair. I'm just old school, I guess. Never-the-less, great channel, thanks for letting us have a voice and I love the product line, can I get the order information please. Thanks...

  • @pamhop5831
    @pamhop5831 2 роки тому +10

    Beautiful 🥰🥰 Have you heard of or experienced what’s called Shampoo Bowl Stroke? 😢during a extended sink bowl service the Blood flow is actually cut off at the neck and your client can have problems. Just wanted to share🥰🥰🙏🏿✝️

  • @kyra3617
    @kyra3617 2 роки тому +2

    Where is Ashley. I miss you and Ashley sister arguing. It makes my day. Thank you for your knowledge of great hair care my scalp is very sensitive and that's why I stopped relaxing my hair

  • @faith5703
    @faith5703 Рік тому +10

    I feel like im ready to open my salon after bingewatching all of Crystal's videos😊

  • @pagehardy4767
    @pagehardy4767 2 роки тому +1

    You are a maste hair stylist! I learn so much from washing your channel! You do such beautiful job with every client.

  • @donnielindon1015
    @donnielindon1015 2 роки тому +8

    Have a great day at work Crystal. Be safe out there.

  • @seasonedqueen6960
    @seasonedqueen6960 2 роки тому +8

    I remember when I was in high school I used to shed sooo much at the 3 month/12weeks period and the new growth was so thick cuz my natural hair is generally thick and coarse. New growth and the line of demarcation broke my hair. So I went natural after high school n relaxed again after 3 years of being natural.....and now, I will relax every 2 months max....or 6 weeks minimum. People with finer looser natural hair roots can stretch longer but people like me? nope

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому +1

      Yes I agree I’m a 3c and can go for every six months

    • @ricengravy5372
      @ricengravy5372 Рік тому

      I have 4b/4c combo hair and I only relax my hair 3x a year. I prevent breakage by spritzing a mixture of water and glycerin in the new growth. I just can't put any heat in the roots after applying the mixture, because the glycerin will fry my hair. Typically I'll roller set my hair during this time so the new growth doesn't look so bad. I just was the glycerin out a few days before the relaxer so it can straighten my hair properly.

    • @lizamimi
      @lizamimi Рік тому +1

      I agree, I have fine texture hair. I could only relax my hair 8 to 10 weeks.

  • @queenstatus3049
    @queenstatus3049 2 роки тому +39

    I haven’t had a relaxer in 10 years. I thought I wanted a relaxer. This video reminds me why I should not get one. 😊

    • @vanessawhetstone6439
      @vanessawhetstone6439 2 роки тому +4

      That’s you 😂 I had a relaxer all my life and my hair is beautiful and healthy 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @btl4life220
      @btl4life220 Рік тому +4

      For real girl to the people who say their hair is so long and beautiful and healthy with a relaxer I call BS. They think it gets past their shoulders and it’s long 🙄

    • @vanessawhetstone6439
      @vanessawhetstone6439 Рік тому +3

      Look lady, just because you couldn’t keep your hair healthy with one doesn’t mean others can’t. 🥴

    • @btl4life220
      @btl4life220 Рік тому

      @@vanessawhetstone6439 she never said it did 🙄

    • @vanessawhetstone6439
      @vanessawhetstone6439 Рік тому

      @@btl4life220 I’m talking to you 😒

  • @melbahilliard2837
    @melbahilliard2837 2 роки тому +11

    Thanks for explaining everything some of us may not ask for info but we need it bad. Wish I could come to you. 🤩

  • @staceybowden6574
    @staceybowden6574 2 роки тому +2

    I love that you do more than one and two passes. It just makes me feel better

  • @meredithholmes6315
    @meredithholmes6315 2 роки тому +2

    She looks beautiful! Her salt and pepper color looks so pretty.

  • @khulaniafrost8359
    @khulaniafrost8359 2 роки тому +12

    The relaxer that was peeping through, I would have thought it would have been taken care of with neutralizing shampoo. I guess that's only for box relaxers. When it turns pink to let you know relaxer is still there. If thats still a thing 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @VolumePerfection
      @VolumePerfection 2 роки тому +1

      It still is a thing even with Affirm (not boxed)

  • @nataliemartin9619
    @nataliemartin9619 2 роки тому +1

    This is my first time seeing any of your videos. I have learned so much about good hair care from this one video.

  • @lindabynum2496
    @lindabynum2496 2 роки тому

    Good Morning… I came across your hair videos about 3 weeks ago and I have thoroughly enjoyed them. I find you to display knowledge, care and professionalism. I’m glad I came across you. Be blessed.

  • @winnierodriguez3764
    @winnierodriguez3764 2 роки тому +3

    You're wonderful Crystal, I'll see you soon.

  • @AGNETHAFALTSK0G
    @AGNETHAFALTSK0G 2 роки тому +2

    I love your videos, my daughter hair was badly burned by a stylist because the cosmic press jammed and they could not release the presses on the section of hair, now it has broken off near her scalp.

  • @angelic9889
    @angelic9889 2 роки тому +85

    She walked out looking sharp like a deacon's wife on Easter! 😍 Go girl!

    • @staceybowden6574
      @staceybowden6574 2 роки тому +11

      "Like a Deacon's wife on Easter." That was hilarious to me but truth. It was gorgeous

    • @abigailgage2145
      @abigailgage2145 2 роки тому +3

      😆

  • @vivienehenry5617
    @vivienehenry5617 2 роки тому

    Hi dear! Am a 55yrs old woman, am natural right now, am just sorry your nt here in Jamaica, I would surely use you, I love how u wash n treat d hair!

  • @shanasplatt6582
    @shanasplatt6582 6 місяців тому

    I appreciate the final look. Her hair looks healthy and beautiful so I'm sure she loved her final results. With regards to some of the techniques applied, sometimes when we create habits, we don't easily see our flaws.
    This was a year ago, but it's new to me. Regardless, while I share similar concerns expressed by the others, it is my hope that it help you to further improve your brand.
    All the best

  • @rosabarconey4706
    @rosabarconey4706 6 місяців тому +1

    Good morning. I enjoy watching your program , even at 3 and 4 in the morning and a thumbs up 👍 is the first thing I do. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rachelhebert770
    @rachelhebert770 2 роки тому +6

    Mine was shedding bad when I went 15 weeks thanks for the video and the instructions

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому

      Maybe you needed a wash and deep conditioner

  • @charicedaniel467
    @charicedaniel467 2 роки тому +3

    56 years old always had long hair past mid-back. It's thinning. Don't know what to do. Great health, seen dermatologist said just age use mixodil. Reaching out to you. Please help. Never had any relaxers. Thank you

  • @lakedramiller9553
    @lakedramiller9553 Рік тому +1

    I haven’t had a relaxer since December. So now I understand why I’m shedding. I clipped my ends this month.

  • @someranthony2126
    @someranthony2126 2 роки тому +13

    Ladies (relaxed and curly) never ever everrrrrrrrr comb your hair with a small tooth comb like that. 😖😖😖😖ESPECIALLY when the hair is relaxed and wet. If the tangle is too small for a wide tooth comb, use your fingers and move SLOWLY from end to root. That wasn’t just shedding. It was breakage.

    • @RaeRoseM
      @RaeRoseM 11 місяців тому +4

      Honestly, this poor lady lost soooooo much hair. You did not do a good job on that at all. A lot of that matting could have been prevented…so sad. What you showed was not shading but breakage from the combing that was improperly done.

  • @Nicole-si3ck
    @Nicole-si3ck Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love my natural hair but my hair is manageable due to my mixed heritage! I know not all black women can relate so I’m team do whatever makes u happy

  • @sashavivan7744
    @sashavivan7744 2 роки тому

    I see you REALLY care about the client's hair & not just styling. You are "Awesome " at your God given talent. I wish you were in NY.

  • @carlettashorts9977
    @carlettashorts9977 2 роки тому +13

    I love Affirm relaxers. Also, I like to henna immediately after relaxing. Do you use henna products or have an opinion?

    • @pengting87
      @pengting87 2 роки тому

      What does using henna do?

    • @sdanzey6962
      @sdanzey6962 2 роки тому

      @@pengting87 strengthen

  • @cathymckay5970
    @cathymckay5970 9 місяців тому +1

    Crystal you’re best stylist better than my stylist I wish u were in Milwaukee

  • @lilmack1974
    @lilmack1974 2 роки тому +2

    Where is Ashley? I miss her. I love your channel, very educational

  • @cherylberry6118
    @cherylberry6118 2 роки тому +10

    I’m 56 years old and I’ve had a relaxer since I was 12. I went natural 8 years ago, I only stayed natural for about 2 years, before going back to the relaxer. I recently got my hair cut into a very short pixie cut because I started experiencing breakage. My question is, can my hair tolerance for a relaxer change due to my age. I’m experiencing more burning round my edges and I’m thinking about going natural again.

    • @mickeystodgetree337
      @mickeystodgetree337 2 роки тому +3

      I can say yes from experience. I am 53 and would not have hair if I kept relaxing. I saw the change in my hair from relaxers at 44 so I stopped then. I have long easy to manage full natural hair. I never had this much hair relaxed. I spend less time on my natural hair than I did when it is relaxed. I see too many sisters over 45 still trying to hold on to the relaxed look that have sparse/thin/balding hair. My hair was sparse and thin after my last relaxer and I just had enough. Good Luck.

    • @mommasgirl9428
      @mommasgirl9428 2 роки тому +2

      My mom had the same experience in her 40’s and 50’s. She stopped in her early 50’s and now in her 60’s it seems like her hair is finally recovering. I believe it was the relaxer too. I went natural and had locs. No relaxer since 2007.

    • @diofel3384
      @diofel3384 2 роки тому

      Our bodies change. My mother relaxed her hair until she was about 52yrs old and her hair finally started growing after she stopped relaxing and took the time to take good care of her hair with natural oils and herbs water. She has a full head no one bold spot and she's 59 now.

    • @obichi2u.
      @obichi2u. 2 роки тому +2

      I'm 56 & my mom is 78. Both of us have been relaxed many years (I started at 14). I relax both of our hair & mine is near my behind & hers is just past BSL. I've cut both of our hair as well for many years. Relaxed hair can still be long & healthy past 50.
      *EDIT : Yes, both of us are black through the ages. No mix, black hair grows & so can relaxed black hair - with care.

    • @vanessawhetstone6439
      @vanessawhetstone6439 2 роки тому

      @@mickeystodgetree337 I don’t know abt that I been relaxing since I was 20 I’m 50 now my hair is still down my back and healthy 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @virtuouslady5679
    @virtuouslady5679 2 роки тому +8

    Relax or not I do treat my own hair...to keep it healthy and from shedding and keep it greased. Smh

  • @rozchristopherson648
    @rozchristopherson648 2 роки тому +22

    My mom had some friends who had relaxers. They went with all the trends, including Jheri curls. Also dyeing the hair. Once these ladies got into their 60s, they had bald spots in the top of their heads. Chemicals will catch up with people eventually.

  • @womanofgod4510
    @womanofgod4510 2 роки тому +4

    Her back was wet up.... I despise that too.... And I ask them to wash the sink before I lean back on it too.....

  • @nanaakua7530
    @nanaakua7530 2 роки тому +3

    Rubbing that conditioner on ends causes tangles n breakage... and that small comb on the wet hair in the sink 😲 😱 but I just love her and her cutting skills

  • @taanykaterry5455
    @taanykaterry5455 2 роки тому +3

    Hello hello I was just wondering why you didn't add any base cream to the scalp and hairline? And also why didn't you comb the hair out before you put the relaxer on? That's why it got tangled!

  • @carriejohnson8203
    @carriejohnson8203 Рік тому

    I GOT ALL THE QUESTIONS RIGHT. I JUST STARTED WATCHING ,ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO. I LOVE TO WATCH HAIR GET DONE ALL STEPS.

  • @jadahill5216
    @jadahill5216 2 роки тому +8

    Crystal your skin is beautiful.

  • @bonniemoore3461
    @bonniemoore3461 Рік тому

    Her hair looks really pretty! Real Lovely ! Kudos Crystal!❤

  • @christie3738ify
    @christie3738ify Рік тому +1

    I don’t relax my hair anymore but I use semi coloring all the time it’s all I use for over 20yrs never had a problem with it I was born with silver light brown and blonde hair so I can use any semi color it works like a charm I am able to get really nice color from it🥰🥰🥰

  • @clarahill1655
    @clarahill1655 2 роки тому +1

    Lady... U ARE SO AMAZING...Doing what I SEE YOU do..KEEP DOING GREAT THINGS. GOD BLESS

  • @Adamz34
    @Adamz34 2 роки тому +6

    You do such beautiful work. I wish you could be my stylist. Mine passed away and I have been on my own. Thank you for sharing 😊

    • @TA-ob9le
      @TA-ob9le 2 роки тому +1

      Crystal accepts clients from all states. You can book your appointment with her at www.elitehaircareusa.com.

    • @Adamz34
      @Adamz34 2 роки тому

      Ok, Thank you, I will😁

  • @dianam4708
    @dianam4708 4 місяці тому

    To Michelle Burns: The key for braids and extensions is taking care of the hair. You can wash your hair with braids in it, but if that's all you do, your hair will eventually break off and develop an odor. Every time you wash and condition your braids, you should be rebraiding them, either with the same fiber, or freshly washed and conditioned fiber hair. And you shouldn't be going more than two weeks without washing and conditioning your braids.

  • @dianebradford4268
    @dianebradford4268 Рік тому +1

    Hi Crystal 🎉😂❤thanks for teaching the young how to do hair ! You are a Master Stylist enjoy your talks! I had COVID-19 2021toAugust of 2022 I was on Oxygen and my hair is just now growing back! Thanks for your tips!!!

  • @dorriswordlaw4180
    @dorriswordlaw4180 2 роки тому +1

    My name is Doris and I live in the North Georgia area so it's recently come to my attention that you are in the state of Florida so I wish I can book an appointment with you I am desperately looking for someone such as yourself a real cosmetologist who takes care of their clients needs on the healthcare within today's society so much is flim flame enough already and how can I get some of your products as well so starting today I am following you and thank you for showing me that they're real that there are some real cosmetologists out there

  • @marciamariemccauley9879
    @marciamariemccauley9879 27 днів тому

    Be prepared when going for a relaxer to be done. Dont irritate your scalp and it will not burn.

  • @riogrl324
    @riogrl324 2 роки тому +2

    So I’ve been relaxing my hair on and off for years. In the Dominican Republic they do this CRITICAL step of combing it through! That makes SUCH A DIFFERENCE!

    • @lizamimi
      @lizamimi Рік тому +1

      You should only comb through relaxers on virgin hair not on pre-relaxed hair. Dominican shops in the US are known for extreme heat when blow drying hair…one heat setting for all types of hair 🤷🏽‍♀️ and using straightening products in the shampoo and conditioners. 🤦🏾‍♀️.

  • @adaellis5908
    @adaellis5908 Рік тому +1

    Madam CJ Walker invented the pressing comb, women flocked to have the hair straightened, next the relaxer and Geri curl( perm), another trend was weaves and braids, the latest trend for women of color especially African American women is the wearing of the natural (virgin ) hair. The cosmetologist is correct.

  • @AliBusha-nu7ci
    @AliBusha-nu7ci 3 місяці тому

    You do an Amazing job on every client you have!
    Ali💕