I’m 33 years old and I just figured out I have ADHD this summer. Trying to get diagnosed has been frustratingly long and painful. I’ve hyper focusing for hours nearly every single day for 5 months, just researching. Reading articles, studies, statistics. Watching lectures, and how to’s… This video re-contextualized a lot of memories, for me, throughout my entire life. It’s 11:00 Wednesday night and I’m sitting in my backyard just…. crying. So much crying I get my diagnosis in about 2 weeks.
Our prayers are with you. We understand it helps to have a name to what you are experiencing, and while diagnoses can be helpful for getting the right treatment, remember also that you are not defined by your diagnoses.
You are not alone. I found once diagnosed I was a little down, but after reading all I could and learning how to manage it, I’ve excepted it. I now do the best I can, and work with it. We are not lazy, we are tired we work hard, we are smart we just do things differently. We need to be kind to ourselves.
Omg. You are so spot in to my life. I have a ADHD wife and son. It's so fucking hard man. I don't want to run away. To many men run from their problems. Im here cuz I just want to understand them better so that I can love them unconditionally and help them the best I can. I have to critical assess all the time for them. I do all the hard work in the home, even child care. I need a behavioral strategy. I constantly find myself struggling to keep patience with my family.
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@@robbytheartist3997 I was just datina a trauma therapist for 6 months. She owns her own therapy business. I thought I was extremely lucky to find someone like her and felt intimidated by her success.. Shit didn't hit the fan till I actually started spending alot of time with her. Now, she told me she stuff from Adhd, ocd, anxiety and depression. I didn't think adhd was this serious, so I just overlooked it,and figure I would just go along with it. Based off of her stories, it just seemed as if her ex boyfriends were just messed up. I learned that this woman is extremely difficult to be with. She could not listen to what I'm telling her. She hallucinate through then night so she gets no sleep. She create realities that dosent exist. Blames me for all of her frustrations. She expected me to talk about buying a house with her before six months of dating. Her entire family Is dysfunctional due to autism and adhd running through all of them. I tried to talk everything through with her. Till she just blocked her phone and won't even respond to text. Its like I don't exist anymore. It's fucked up. I have n o idea where I went wrong. After reading about adhd, this is pretty typical when being in a relationship with an adhd person. I rather she ghost me now than after a year of this madness. It was good in the beginning because I would only visit her for about an hour or so per week. Once I got close, I see some scary shit. She zones out at night. I though she was having a seizure the last night I saw her. She blamed me for awaking her and kicked me out. No idea what I did. she just turned on me and hated me out the blue. very scary!
@@Tcray430 in oh my goodness. My wife just has bad communication skills, however I am working through it with them. It sounds like you came out of it without kids so that is a plus. You don't have to worry to much about that. Just heal and keep going with your life. They aren't bad ppl, just difficult to live with. Overall, I love her and the kids.
I have been married to a person for 22 years with significant ADHD. We have had many good memories. Also deep painful ones also that seem to threaten our marriage almost monthly. Thank you for this video is very helpful.
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I am 52 and when you were telling Johnny's story I heard so much commonality to my own story except with more physical, verbal, and emotional negative components. It actually almost had me in tears hearing this after having lived it for so long.
I was married to a woman like Johnny for 3 years. I picked up the slack and cleaned, paid bills, took care of the pet, did my damn best to be affectionate and engaging, was responsible and showed up for her. My ex couldn’t bother to clean up the litter box once in those 3 years. Her ADHD ruined the trust I had on her. Eventually I stopped counting on her doing anything to help me and I grew bitter, resentful. Her constantly dropping the ball and asking me to help her with the most inane things drove me nuts. Eventually, her inattentiveness to our relationship and marriage pushed me away. I would beg for affection and she would be so hyper focused on whatever frilly thing came along that I would feel unappreciated and rejected. So while ADHD sufferers need support and consideration, I would also emphasize that people that are in relationships with ADHD sufferers don’t need to be in them. ADHD sufferers also need to be accountable for their behaviors.
The story of Johnny makes me want to cry. It hits me so hard. And I feel bad for this man's ex. While I understand his feelings, the inability to focus on what you need to do is terrible because it's not that you don't WANT to focus(really I don't want to call the vets office 3x in one week to be able to remember date and time to be there) it's so hard trying EVERYTHING you can to keep things straight and then having what sincerely feels like constant attacks on who you are because you can't focus on mundane things.(I am putting it as mundane things because ADHDers are fantastic in a crisis)
I'm taking a screenshot of your comment....being an adhd suffere,i need to hear this....but there is one thing you should know...we love you somuch...i mean adhders love their spouse somuch....we are wired like that.....to remember that we are affected with adhd every hour of the day is the only way for us to fight adhd...
I listened to this and I cried the entire way through. I have never felt understood and emphasized with on this level, and it really highlighted the challenges I feel in my everyday life. Especially when you talked about how the great mental effort for even basic focus is rarely seen. It has been a huge problem for my wife and I. Especially as we are busier and have more responsibilities in our life.
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I feel like sometimes it’s difficult for the person with ADHD to understand or more importantly admit all of the ways in which trying to do life with them can be very challenging at times. I feel like if you want me to understand and be patient, then you can’t forget and have to do the work, and be open to talk honestly about it.
I feel like the partner that does not have adhd is the most overlooked part of the adhd story. We actually suffer forms of abuse at the hands of an individual with this type of condition. To force a mental issue on another human and expect them to live like that is unrealistic.
Oh my gosh! It’s like you have been watching the story arc of my life, my inner thoughts, and took notes. Wow. Closest explanation of my life with ADHD I’ve ever heard. I took medication for a brief time as a child, and didn’t get back on it until a month ago (45 now). Now I’m trying to make up for lost time. Thank you for shedding light on this very real condition that still doesn’t get taken seriously enough.
I'm thanking God that he led me to this video I want to talk to my boyfriend sister he's got ADHD this explains everything I am going through and what he went through as a child thank you I liked and subscribed I have tears in my eyes thank you so much God bless you
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I’ve been Johnny all my life. To my surprise I’ve done very well but also I have to work ten times harder than everyone else. Lots of lost relationships because of it. 😢
Thank you for the work you are doing. My son at age 7 was diagnosed with ADHD. It was then when alarm bells started to ring. I'm a 42 year old male. Undiagnosed Adhd has led to me suffering child trauma and then contributing to BPD in adulthood. In my youth there was less awareness of this condition. Unfortunately it plagued my life to the extent that my marriage also broke down and i experienced multiple mental breakdowns. Thankfully i have now for the the 1st time in my life started to understand, accept and in turn manage my ADHD and am living my best life. Most importantly i can raise my child who also has this condition. Feeling'normal' feels like jubilation! Because it's unfamiliar territory. There is a way to live a fulfilling life with ADHD. If your experience is similar, you can do it.
I am in the UK and I found this video looking to understand what has happened to my marriage, your words have touched me deeply but as an adult that has recently been diagnosed it would appear the help has come to late for my wife. I wish I had found this a year ago when my journey began. 😢
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I’ve never related to anything more in my life. Remembering my childhood, seeing the same pattern and situations happening to my younger family members. I always thought I was the only one like this and that something has always been wrong with me. I didn’t know there were other people like me until recently and I am 28.
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All the beginning of the video describes me to a T. I was diagnosed combined type. In adulthood. Life was confusing before the diagnosis but after it was obviously more easier to understand myself. However all symptoms listed I agree with apart from. I've always took the relationship seriously. I hear ever sound every smell every memory everything said to a direct qoute. I forget everything else going on in life like appointments deadlines etc I do a million things all at the same time I cant sleep I'm up all hours going through my thoughts all 1000 of them. But I have a photographic memory for words things that have been said or done. I'm sure I'm not the only one with this trait of Adhd but none of the videos mention this the personality disorder I think in real terms is just us trying to fit in so we act one way but when we're exhausted we are our true self and haven't the energy or the care left for keeping up appearances. It's tuff for both sides. And we do already by adulthood have a strange view on ourselves because of all the negative misunderstanding of childhood in a neuro typical world. Thank God the children today have a better chance and the world a better understanding. 🙏💙
Lenne, I'm sure we have never met before. That was the most succinct unwrapping of my life that I have ever heard. It would be wonderful beyond measure if the counselors who had the most skill and ability in helping people, also had as deep an understanding of the challenges that our cohort faces every day, as you have exhibited in this video.......wow, wouldn't that be great?
ADHDers we must stop dating or being in relationships with neurotypicals. They do not care about our struggles with our disorders. I'd rather being in a relationship with a woman who has ADHD as well because she will an understanding of what I go through and not nag and complain everyday
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I honestly don't know if both partners in the relationship having ADHD makes it any easier. Both people searching for that dopamine can lead to problems when one goes inattentive because of other things.
I'm constantly apologizing to my wife for my behavior, she doesn't even want my apologies anymore..I've tried to show her info about ADHD and she shot me down...
I'm 30 years old and all my relationships have been long term of 3 to 10 years and all gave been narcissistic ppl and I pray that I can find help with me and my mind. I cant remember anything ever or where u put the most important things and believing in my choices are never good they always are wrong and all the trauma I've had my whole life have been emotionally hard but I dont ever have money to get help and it makes ppl like us struggle because no funds available and it's just hard
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We are not saying there is one necessarily. Dr. Hunt is talking about other issues and disorders that cause challenges in relationships. That said, there are many people who are mis-labeled as being narcissistic when in fact they are dealing with Asperger's, autism or ADHD.
@@drdavidbhawkins narcissm is entirely different...while adhders effect their life in negative way because of inattention to things that matter,narcissts on the other hand effect spouses life ina negative,disastrous way....
Is it me or do all adhd videos about how adhd affects relationships talk about anything but how adhd affects relationships. It’s like…. Someone with adhd made the video…
So is it also similar to sensory processing disorder auditory being overwhelmed.. maybe could you post videos of how loved ones can help in intimate relationships especially when alcohol issues.. how can we best help without causing conflict..
Hi!! I found this video because I trying to figure out my self, I'm 50 year old it's been very difficult and frustrating 😖😔 for me to understand myself my partner let me, it’s been so hard because I thought everything was my fault i blame myself for everything she blamed me that I never listen. She says that I had never paying attention to her. I'm Very frustrating, I love her so much I never meant to hurt her for any shape or form and I don't know how to Express me self it hurts inside 😢😢 I’m very depressed and trying to see what kind the symptoms I have, but you describe pretty much how I feel inside in the video and see if I have something because my head is going wild inside, I cannot handle no morei don't know what to do😢😢
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I’m 40 and just found out I have this weird ass shit, no wonder school has been impossible, even book I completely love I can barely finish, I’m going to start taking mushrooms 🍄 f it.
This video was definitely not made for people with ADHD who can't stay focused on one thing- the talking is SO slow, I don't have ADHD and I lost interest quick. I had to speed up the vid. Good information, but maybe speed up the talking and don't make it drag just to emphasize the empathy. Respectfully, lol
I’m 33 years old and I just figured out I have ADHD this summer. Trying to get diagnosed has been frustratingly long and painful. I’ve hyper focusing for hours nearly every single day for 5 months, just researching.
Reading articles, studies, statistics.
Watching lectures, and how to’s…
This video re-contextualized a lot of memories, for me, throughout my entire life.
It’s 11:00 Wednesday night and I’m sitting in my backyard just…. crying.
So much crying
I get my diagnosis in about 2 weeks.
Our prayers are with you. We understand it helps to have a name to what you are experiencing, and while diagnoses can be helpful for getting the right treatment, remember also that you are not defined by your diagnoses.
You are not alone. I found once diagnosed I was a little down, but after reading all I could and learning how to manage it, I’ve excepted it. I now do the best I can, and work with it. We are not lazy, we are tired we work hard, we are smart we just do things differently. We need to be kind to ourselves.
Omg. You are so spot in to my life. I have a ADHD wife and son. It's so fucking hard man. I don't want to run away. To many men run from their problems. Im here cuz I just want to understand them better so that I can love them unconditionally and help them the best I can. I have to critical assess all the time for them. I do all the hard work in the home, even child care. I need a behavioral strategy. I constantly find myself struggling to keep patience with my family.
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Im. sorry man.. I understand your pain.. its a serious condition!
@@Tcray430 Yeah man. Are you in the same situation?
@@robbytheartist3997 I was just datina a trauma therapist for 6 months. She owns her own therapy business. I thought I was extremely lucky to find someone like her and felt intimidated by her success.. Shit didn't hit the fan till I actually started spending alot of time with her. Now, she told me she stuff from Adhd, ocd, anxiety and depression. I didn't think adhd was this serious, so I just overlooked it,and figure I would just go along with it. Based off of her stories, it just seemed as if her ex boyfriends were just messed up. I learned that this woman is extremely difficult to be with. She could not listen to what I'm telling her. She hallucinate through then night so she gets no sleep. She create realities that dosent exist. Blames me for all of her frustrations. She expected me to talk about buying a house with her before six months of dating. Her entire family Is dysfunctional due to autism and adhd running through all of them. I tried to talk everything through with her. Till she just blocked her phone and won't even respond to text. Its like I don't exist anymore. It's fucked up. I have n o idea where I went wrong. After reading about adhd, this is pretty typical when being in a relationship with an adhd person. I rather she ghost me now than after a year of this madness. It was good in the beginning because I would only visit her for about an hour or so per week. Once I got close, I see some scary shit. She zones out at night. I though she was having a seizure the last night I saw her. She blamed me for awaking her and kicked me out. No idea what I did. she just turned on me and hated me out the blue. very scary!
@@Tcray430 in oh my goodness. My wife just has bad communication skills, however I am working through it with them. It sounds like you came out of it without kids so that is a plus. You don't have to worry to much about that. Just heal and keep going with your life. They aren't bad ppl, just difficult to live with. Overall, I love her and the kids.
I have been married to a person for 22 years with significant ADHD. We have had many good memories. Also deep painful ones also that seem to threaten our marriage almost monthly. Thank you for this video is very helpful.
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I am 52 and when you were telling Johnny's story I heard so much commonality to my own story except with more physical, verbal, and emotional negative components. It actually almost had me in tears hearing this after having lived it for so long.
I was married to a woman like Johnny for 3 years. I picked up the slack and cleaned, paid bills, took care of the pet, did my damn best to be affectionate and engaging, was responsible and showed up for her. My ex couldn’t bother to clean up the litter box once in those 3 years.
Her ADHD ruined the trust I had on her. Eventually I stopped counting on her doing anything to help me and I grew bitter, resentful. Her constantly dropping the ball and asking me to help her with the most inane things drove me nuts.
Eventually, her inattentiveness to our relationship and marriage pushed me away. I would beg for affection and she would be so hyper focused on whatever frilly thing came along that I would feel unappreciated and rejected.
So while ADHD sufferers need support and consideration, I would also emphasize that people that are in relationships with ADHD sufferers don’t need to be in them. ADHD sufferers also need to be accountable for their behaviors.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. The key is for each person to become more aware of their impact on the other, and the relationship.
@@drdavidbhawkins he cheated on her
The story of Johnny makes me want to cry. It hits me so hard. And I feel bad for this man's ex. While I understand his feelings, the inability to focus on what you need to do is terrible because it's not that you don't WANT to focus(really I don't want to call the vets office 3x in one week to be able to remember date and time to be there) it's so hard trying EVERYTHING you can to keep things straight and then having what sincerely feels like constant attacks on who you are because you can't focus on mundane things.(I am putting it as mundane things because ADHDers are fantastic in a crisis)
@@stormythomson9709 bro do t feel bad for he cheated on his ex
I'm taking a screenshot of your comment....being an adhd suffere,i need to hear this....but there is one thing you should know...we love you somuch...i mean adhders love their spouse somuch....we are wired like that.....to remember that we are affected with adhd every hour of the day is the only way for us to fight adhd...
I listened to this and I cried the entire way through. I have never felt understood and emphasized with on this level, and it really highlighted the challenges I feel in my everyday life. Especially when you talked about how the great mental effort for even basic focus is rarely seen.
It has been a huge problem for my wife and I. Especially as we are busier and have more responsibilities in our life.
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I feel like sometimes it’s difficult for the person with ADHD to understand or more importantly admit all of the ways in which trying to do life with them can be very challenging at times. I feel like if you want me to understand and be patient, then you can’t forget and have to do the work, and be open to talk honestly about it.
That is very true. Thanks for sharing.
I feel like the partner that does not have adhd is the most overlooked part of the adhd story. We actually suffer forms of abuse at the hands of an individual with this type of condition. To force a mental issue on another human and expect them to live like that is unrealistic.
@@kjthawriter it literally leaves you with abuse wounds but you don't feel right characterizing it that way cause it's not malicious
Oh my gosh! It’s like you have been watching the story arc of my life, my inner thoughts, and took notes. Wow. Closest explanation of my life with ADHD I’ve ever heard.
I took medication for a brief time as a child, and didn’t get back on it until a month ago (45 now). Now I’m trying to make up for lost time. Thank you for shedding light on this very real condition that still doesn’t get taken seriously enough.
Glad it was helpful and hope that you are getting the help and support you need.
This is so very accurate , well thought out and well expressed
I'm thanking God that he led me to this video I want to talk to my boyfriend sister he's got ADHD this explains everything I am going through and what he went through as a child thank you I liked and subscribed I have tears in my eyes thank you so much God bless you
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I’ve been Johnny all my life.
To my surprise I’ve done very well but also I have to work ten times harder than everyone else. Lots of lost relationships because of it. 😢
Story of my life. :_______( I have to say my wife is an angel. Love how you explain everything so clear. Thank you!
Glad you found this helpful!
I’m in tears watching this. All of this growing up and into now being 31😔
Thank you for the work you are doing.
My son at age 7 was diagnosed with ADHD. It was then when alarm bells started to ring.
I'm a 42 year old male.
Undiagnosed Adhd has led to me suffering child trauma and then contributing to BPD in adulthood. In my youth there was less awareness of this condition. Unfortunately it plagued my life to the extent that my marriage also broke down and i experienced multiple mental breakdowns.
Thankfully i have now for the the 1st time in my life started to understand, accept and in turn manage my ADHD and am living my best life.
Most importantly i can raise my child who also has this condition.
Feeling'normal' feels like jubilation! Because it's unfamiliar territory.
There is a way to live a fulfilling life with ADHD. If your experience is similar, you can do it.
How wonderful to hear that you are now doing well and can be a light to others who are experiencing similar struggles.
I am in the UK and I found this video looking to understand what has happened to my marriage, your words have touched me deeply but as an adult that has recently been diagnosed it would appear the help has come to late for my wife. I wish I had found this a year ago when my journey began. 😢
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I’ve never related to anything more in my life. Remembering my childhood, seeing the same pattern and situations happening to my younger family members. I always thought I was the only one like this and that something has always been wrong with me. I didn’t know there were other people like me until recently and I am 28.
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I’m 52. I lost my girlfriend because of my issues again. All my life I have lost because of this. Now I know. Sad.
Thank you for sharing this information. This is even helpful for me being able to better help my 10 year old son!
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All the beginning of the video describes me to a T.
I was diagnosed combined type.
In adulthood. Life was confusing before the diagnosis but after it was obviously more easier to understand myself.
However all symptoms listed I agree with apart from.
I've always took the relationship seriously. I hear ever sound every smell every memory everything said to a direct qoute. I forget everything else going on in life like appointments deadlines etc I do a million things all at the same time I cant sleep I'm up all hours going through my thoughts all 1000 of them.
But I have a photographic memory for words things that have been said or done.
I'm sure I'm not the only one with this trait of Adhd but none of the videos mention this the personality disorder I think in real terms is just us trying to fit in so we act one way but when we're exhausted we are our true self and haven't the energy or the care left for keeping up appearances. It's tuff for both sides. And we do already by adulthood have a strange view on ourselves because of all the negative misunderstanding of childhood in a neuro typical world.
Thank God the children today have a better chance and the world a better understanding. 🙏💙
Thanks for sharing and hope that you are getting the help you need to thrive despite the challenges. God Bless.
Lenne, I'm sure we have never met before. That was the most succinct unwrapping of my life that I have ever heard. It would be wonderful beyond measure if the counselors who had the most skill and ability in helping people, also had as deep an understanding of the challenges that our cohort faces every day, as you have exhibited in this video.......wow, wouldn't that be great?
Thank you for your feedback, and we hope that you are getting the help you need. God Bless.
ADHDers we must stop dating or being in relationships with neurotypicals. They do not care about our struggles with our disorders. I'd rather being in a relationship with a woman who has ADHD as well because she will an understanding of what I go through and not nag and complain everyday
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I honestly don't know if both partners in the relationship having ADHD makes it any easier. Both people searching for that dopamine can lead to problems when one goes inattentive because of other things.
As a woman with ADHD who's dating a man with ADHD I don't belive that to be true since its a spectrum.
I'm constantly apologizing to my wife for my behavior, she doesn't even want my apologies anymore..I've tried to show her info about ADHD and she shot me down...
People in neurodiverse relationships face unique challenges, you can seek help even if your wife does t want to.
I'm 30 years old and all my relationships have been long term of 3 to 10 years and all gave been narcissistic ppl and I pray that I can find help with me and my mind. I cant remember anything ever or where u put the most important things and believing in my choices are never good they always are wrong and all the trauma I've had my whole life have been emotionally hard but I dont ever have money to get help and it makes ppl like us struggle because no funds available and it's just hard
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One of the best !
What is the ADHD and narcissistic traits connection?
We are not saying there is one necessarily. Dr. Hunt is talking about other issues and disorders that cause challenges in relationships. That said, there are many people who are mis-labeled as being narcissistic when in fact they are dealing with Asperger's, autism or ADHD.
@@drdavidbhawkins narcissm is entirely different...while adhders effect their life in negative way because of inattention to things that matter,narcissts on the other hand effect spouses life ina negative,disastrous way....
Is it me or do all adhd videos about how adhd affects relationships talk about anything but how adhd affects relationships. It’s like…. Someone with adhd made the video…
So is it also similar to sensory processing disorder auditory being overwhelmed.. maybe could you post videos of how loved ones can help in intimate relationships especially when alcohol issues.. how can we best help without causing conflict..
Do people with adhd in relationships say very hurtful things then regret it later
Anyone that is dysregulated has a hard time controlling impulsive behaviors.
@@drdavidbhawkins how do we respond to it
Do they say hurtful things then regret it?
Hi!!
I found this video because I trying to figure out my self, I'm 50 year old it's been very difficult and frustrating 😖😔 for me to understand myself my partner let me, it’s been so hard because I thought everything was my fault i blame myself for everything she blamed me that I never listen. She says that I had never paying attention to her. I'm Very frustrating, I love her so much I never meant to hurt her for any shape or form and I don't know how to Express me self it hurts inside 😢😢 I’m very depressed and trying to see what kind the symptoms I have, but you describe pretty much how I feel inside in the video and see if I have something because my head is going wild inside, I cannot handle no morei don't know what to do😢😢
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I’m 40 and just found out I have this weird ass shit, no wonder school has been impossible, even book I completely love I can barely finish, I’m going to start taking mushrooms 🍄 f it.
Thays new school i was beaten for my behavior
This video was definitely not made for people with ADHD who can't stay focused on one thing- the talking is SO slow, I don't have ADHD and I lost interest quick. I had to speed up the vid. Good information, but maybe speed up the talking and don't make it drag just to emphasize the empathy. Respectfully, lol
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