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You’ve literally been helping my heart for the past couple months I wanna say thank you sincerely from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for doing what you do like I appreciate you wholeheartedly and I pray that you’re protected and at peace as well as your loved ones.
When she saids "I have a bf" the conversation comes to a complete halt. And she is Automatically in the friendzone. Gotta have RESPECT for yourself besides their as plenty of fish in the sea.
90% of '' I have a bf'' statement from most girls is a test of resilience! I have had girls tell me this; I withdraw only to have them chasing me and most end up denying ever saying that of faking a recent break up. Being in the friends zone is an opportunity to find out if this is an endurance test or a true state of affairs.
This is why you don't take relationship advice from women. As a man, you only deal with high interest women. No time lurking around in the name of friendzone and wishing her relationship fails so you take over. That's what losers do. You have to begin escalation right at the point of contact and move a step further anytime she complies till it hits the bedroom. When she does not comply you next her. It's that simple. I pity guys these days, always inviting drama into their lives
I am a woman and this is insane to me. Like seriously. This is crazy AF. That being said... watch out from the high interest woman. That simply translates to a woman with no self respect and boundaries. That could be the point of course....
@@ineedhoez No, a high interest woman can be manipulative or have a secret agenda, but she's NOT with no self respect and boundaries. Quite the contrary, she's an independent, mature, outgoing woman with high self respect who knows what she wants and makes an effort to make a man's life easier. If a woman in fact likes a man but shows low interest, it's a sign of OVERLY high or low self respect, which means she will always put her feelings first, not her man's feelings. The kind of "high interest woman" you need to avoid is the woman who shows high interest to a lot of men at the same time, which is the sign of zero self respect. Same advice goes to women when you meet high interest men
But we shouldnt be so selfish. Friendship is a form of a relationship and women appreciate a good friendship. I think we all need friendship. So when you cant date a girl, still respect and value her by being a good friend.
She make some very good points, but there's other reasons as well... For instance, just because she has a boyfriend.. It doesn't mean she's in love with him.... When a woman is in love with someone, she makes herself unapproachable.. She's not gonna flirt with another man or give him any ideas that he can have her... Another reason some women tell guy's they have a boyfriend is because she may feel that she's not good enough for you... She may feel that once you get to know her you won't be interested anymore.. Another reason a woman may tell a guy she has a boyfriend is because she's afraid of falling in love with you... And you might break her heart... So she rather sabotage the situation from the gate to avoid the pain of a broken heart.... ✌️
Goshhh, the first part of this response. I honestly don't get it with these girls. I'm in the present suituation and it's driving me nuts. You keep lowkey playing you have a boyfriend card, yet you put yourself available to me every goddam time. Like you're even texting me first and all. Agreeing to go on a date.. which I'm honestly now not getting excited for again. Giving all the green lights. Yet you keep subtle playing you have a boyfriend Card. I'm just frustrated. Why would you be so much open like this to someone else if you know you're not interested in them and you're in a relationship🤦 Girls! PS: You're not gaining any materialistic stuffs from me yet and she's not the type. Just confused honestly
@@theSami_A bro, I found myself in the same situation. This boyfriend card thing happened for a little over one year. Yet, she was still entertaining me. Why would you still have me around, knowing that you have a boyfriend, and that you don't see any future for me? Bro, I just advised myself and gradually walked away. Even till now, she still texts me (first). I just see the messages, respond, and go my way. No need to play hide and seek.
@@paakwame6822 🤣🤣🤣 This is literally the cap advice I need. Wasn't even expecting someone would respond to this 😂 At the end, everybody will be alright.
@@theSami_A you're not alone, bro. A lot of us have been in (or are having) similar situations. I don't like to make someone who "rejected" me my enemy, NO! Just remain "normal" friends with her, like you would with any other lady. When she texts first, respond like you with with any friend of yours. When you want to text her first, do so like you would with your regular friends. No need to hate. Everyone wins. You'll find another kind someday. And when it happens, you'll know it has happened. Cheers to the "I have a boyfriend" geng😂🎊
If she’s having a boyfriend, respect yourself just leave her be, so she focuses on her relationship. Why do something to someone that you wouldn’t like done to you🤷🏾??
I hear ya - Afotey! Great tips - by Jessica. And speaking of Test… Women will always test you until the day you die - so get used to it! Lol She’ll test you from the moment she meets you - until the relationship is over, and even after that, she’s going to find ways to keep on testing you. It’s your job as a man to never let her make you lose your composure - because the minute you do, she wins, and you lose! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Lol literally happened to me. But as a man don't try to make a girl like you if she don't especially if she has a man it's a waste just walk away bro. Great video man no hate to you
Hi Jessica, great advice. I am a regular viewer of your videos and believe that someone with your wealth of knowledge should have and/or enjoy the best marital relationship. You are doing an excellent job in assisting men globally. Keep it up.
Jess, if I want a woman, I don't really give a hoot if she has a hubby, much less a boyfriend. I will go for her and I will get her. The friend zone? Never! Once you are in that zone you will forever be there. I will never make a friend of a woman I was interested in romantically. Depending on how much I want the woman, I might as well just let go, because, the truth is that you can't have them all. So, some you let go, just like that.
Most women lie about having a man. She either wants to see how competitive you are, or she's not interested. But I feel that's childish, especially if she refusing the opportunity of us seeing each other again. We could've been meant to be, but she wanna make an impression, instead of receiving the Blessing
I'm a sharp looking dude at the age of 38. I work out for over 20 years. I never had problems with meeting and dating girls growing up. It was easy for me because girls are attracted to me all the times. I didn't have to do any leg work. Tonight, I decided to talk to this hispanic chick at my gym for the first time and asked for her number. She told me she has a bf!! I have never been rejected before when asking a girl's number. I asked for this girl's number at the bar for the first time, and she gave it to me! But this hispanic chick rejected me! My gym buddy told me she is single! I know she lied to me. I want to know if she is testing me or not interested in me. My ego is hurting right now! lol.
I am me. I don't need to convince any woman to like me. I really focus on what I do. If she likes me, she'll give me a signs/ green light. I don't chase! Don't get me wrong...
I don't know how this popped up on my feed but dear god. If she says she has BF walk away. She has a BF. She is not interested. If she is testing you, then walk away because who wants to deal with that type of crazy? For the love of god please do not follow this advice.
My adorable Jessica, personally if you tell me you have a boyfriend I am gone. I feel like that’s like snatching another man’s wife which will be unfair. Why would I try working too hard to convince someone who didn’t like me so much?
Tanx Jesse, currently am dealing with such a situation right now, the lady seems to give me all the attention I needed but still saying the boyfriend hasn't done anything for her to leave him for me... And she keep saying you are a oood man.. Tanx.. I will patient as you said.. 🙏
If she can't choose you today, I don't think you should wait for her. This is more like you're wishing for her to break up with that guy; it's not fair. She doesn't see you as someone worth leaving the boyfriend for, and so you should advise yourself accordingly
Personally I’m not into chasing after females that say they have a boyfriend I will be friends but that is as far as I will go with it and I usually would ask the question if she start flirting: Why are you flirting if you already have a man? That is one of those question that is ok to ask if you know how to play around with the way you ask it to keep her from getting offended by the question
hey Jessica how are you doing tonight.i caught your last viedo about the texting and you taught me something and she is a co worker and i have moved on from her thank you for showing me the light and also you are very actractive happy easter to you and your family
Great video,First, In my opinion don't make a move with this if you cannot take her to an overall better place than where she is now, Also avoid married women unless the man is having an affair with another woman. Secondly, You do not need to hang out with her as a friend if she is someone you see regularly at work, gym, neighborhood or college. When she is in your presence during purposeful conversations of work/school/gym etc, she has to see your masculine and leadership sides and at least you have shown your intention at least once to be romantic with her(get to know her further). Once you have these in place, your fun smooth communication(non-sexual) to her and having other women matter for it to work because the guy who has been sleeping with her no longer worries about smooth fun communication that much in 90% of the time.
But why will you want her to like you even though she has a boyfriend? What kind of likeness is that. As a man, I don't want my girl liking another man beyond basic friendship. Why would I wanna do that to another brother?
@@dwayneneal3342 Some people are plain stupid. however, it was up to her to respect her marriage and not give herself to them. She's the problem, not the guys despite their stupidity
I know if you say you have boy friend J , I would want it to be a test babe ,you do know that right . Honestly I wouldn't even know where to start just because I'm assuming you already seen and heard it all. So in terms of you ,a person really need to keep an open , spontaneous mind and still stay within the moral basics. It's a challenge ,but thinking deeply is how we expand our thoughts , so hope you have a great day Jess stay safe and it was nice seeing you again 🍯 .
Quite controversial video! A Blessing in disguise! If a girl is willling drop her current relationship chances are it wasn't working for both of them otherwise you wouldn't get any attention, so win-win. Also if a girl is willing to drop her boyfriend do you think the same won't happen to you? My advice is if she says she has a boyfriend you move on and look for other fish in the sea, there's plenty. Trust me. You want to build a relationship with a decent human being, not with someone who is willling to cheat or is too much of a coward to stick around when things aren't going as good waiting until next branch to hold appears.
Bro, please advice me I got along with this girl I like her alot but she loves money tooo much .. anytime I don't give her she's angry n will be giving attitude..one day I asked her if she has bought me recharge card ..she blocked me n unblocked again and sent plenty voice note telling me that all the relationship she's been taking care of her boyfriend n she get nothing in return so she wanted to try something new with me..at the point she was in debt n asked me to help her out I gave her.. after then she gave me attitude again..and asked for another money..I told her I don't have at that point I tried having sex..she refused meaning been paying her for the sex..texted her one weekend I'll be coming to her place she replied she's traveling when she's back she will call.. after a day I called twice no response n shut down I lost interest I moved on. After a week plus she called Early in the morning I refuse to pick till now.. she's calling now every minute n m tempted to respond I don't know what to do ..but I really like her
Pursuing a woman with BF is all fine and dandy until the next man snatches your chick. If she has BF and entertains you, she is cheating and cant be trusted. Remember, you lose them how you get them
Once a very beautiful girl I liked told me she had a boyfriend. So at 19, I was still young to understand.So I left her friendly. Turned out it was a test! A close friend of her hinted that to me, but it was rather late.
From my experience, the chances you get to hang out with the person you like being in the friendzone since the beginning is 10%. You may end up being the friend who's available all the time for her in the bad days so she can rely on you to have a miningful conversation, overtime you will become the best friend and then is game over!
Where have you been all of my life? Had to subscribe after stumbling upon your channel. I was like let me hear this sistas BS. Anyways you got me. Keep it 100
Jess, you should have let any potential 'flirter' know: 'My man, if you are determined NOT to look for someone unattached, keep this one thing in mind: if your flirting manages to kindle a relationship, know that down the road someone else will try the same tactic. If she was weak enough to give into your flirting, it can happen again. Be ready for that.'
I would have to dislike this video respectfully because honestly if I woman truly has respect for her boyfriend then she wouldn’t want to cheat or like another man. Why not just leave and not break a person’s heart? Ps on both sides it’s not right to cheat and that is clearly cheating which isn’t cool at all and I thought you were against cheating. Also when anybody says they have a boyfriend or girlfriend move on cause sabotaging somebody’s relationship just to get someone That’s taken to like you is messed up on so many levels.
I have this lady whom I'm dating and I love her so much and I really need to be with her for the rest of my life but the problem is she doesn't post me on social media whilst me I have been doing everything for her, now I seek your advise Jessica
Call her up for Conversation and know if she truly love you just as you do. Speak out your minds and let everything be Natural.. After the Conversation then you will know what and where your Relationship is going..
Was once here before bro. Firstly, she may not be committed to what yall have as you are, hence you do more than she is, secondly, dont overdo things, let a woman breathe and have a chance to do her part, dont do eveything, thirdly, let her be free to love you the way she wants, dont enforce your expectations on her as tho she should now do what you do. You gerrit?
@@felixappiah7547 That's true! Social media is the greatest issue in most relationships and people's lifestyles. Creating unnecessary attention and drama.
What about if she has a boyfriend but tells me “I don’t know what we are anymore”… is it ok to try and date her if her current relationship seems doomed?
I’m in love with my best female friend, I literally do everything for her but she said she doesn’t feel thesame way about me and she also has a boyfriend that she made clearly to me that she will always put him before me, and I’m always hurt knowing that she has a boyfriend and she doesn’t feel same way about me despite been the one doing her everything. I always think about her, I’m literally obsessed with her, My day will never be great if I didn’t talk to her, she’s someone that you can never see her without me in school which makes everyone think we are dating, she’s somebody I’m just too attach to but the pain I’m going through knowing that she has a boyfriend and doesn’t have feelings for me is unbearable, I can’t stand seeing her with that guy but she values him more than me, I try moving on it doesn’t work, I don’t see any other girls attractive. I so much love her and I don’t know what to do, and I don’t want to stop talking and relating with her because she’s my best friend already that literally knows everything about me. I’m so in pain and I need help. What should I do please?
Joseph, you need to move on for your own sanity. Begin to cut communication with her. You deserve someone that loves you with the same energy that you love.
While it’ll be hard at first, it’s best to try to wind down communication with her to a minimum if not cut it off. You should seek to cultivate relationships with other women (as many as possible so as to increase your chances & to develop an abundance mindset). While you should genuinely distance yourself from her for your own swell being, your being an intense emotional support for her while she knows about your feelings for her will only help her prop up any relationships she has that might otherwise fall apart without such external close male validation, & it incentivized her to treat you as an optional backup plan (given how she has you despite letting you know that she’d always put her boyfriend that probably came around after you chronologically before you). As a side benefit, it’s also good for her as a form of tough love. If she was sure that you weren’t attracted to her that’d be one thing, but since she knows that you have romantic feelings, it’s not right for her to use you for emotional support and external validation. So it’ll be an opportunity for each of you to grow
Women these days are so worldly conditioned and programmed it's sad. If a decent guy approaches you regardless of his status ,pay attention to the vibes and how he makes you feel at that moment. If she not able to recognize or appreciate authentic good energy from a God sent man, then I just smile to myself and thank God as I walk away. That would be her lost at a perfect man for HER, not the 🌎and God's way of telling me He has someone much better for me🙏🏾😇
said she has a boyfriend but still wants me to come around and see her at work?. so she might be a cheat or atlease someone i cant trust. why would i want any of this ? have you heard of self PRIDE?.
WHY WOULD YOU WANT A FEMALE THAT YOU CAN TALK OUT OF BEING WITH HER BOYFRIEND??BECAUSE IT'S A GOOD CHANCE SHE CAN DO THE SAME THING TO YOU...ONCE THE NEXT GUY COME ALONG...ALWAYS RESPECT A GIRL THAT SAIDS SHE'S IN A RELATIONSHIP...AND MOVE ON...IT'S TOMANY SINGLE FEMALES OUT HERE,TO PURSUE SOMEBODY THAT'S IN A RELATIONSHIP....AND KARMA IS REAL.
Based on a personal experience, if you truly had/have good intentions for a love interest, you’ll still care about him/her even though they are dating or choose to date someone else. It’s not necessarily a choice you’d make, however, you’ll always care enough to check on him/her, or find a way to be there when you feel you should. And whenever you do, you rarely remember you were once turned down. #ForeverLove
i am one of those men who no longer have time and energy to try to understand women... enough challenges in life...easier to pay for an escort , i resigned ! good luck guys !
If she liked you more than her current boyfriend, you would very probably never know/hear about him. And she finally would step aside from him in order to be together with you. If she tells you about her boyfriend without having anyone, then my apologies, SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU. In both the above mentioned cases any attempts to pursue her would completely destroy your self-esteem. NEVER DO IT.
Thanks, Jessica, I think I should visit your channel more often, and where possible, get the chance to either have a conversation or a chat with you. Thanks once again for this wonderful and enlightening video. Stay blessed in Jesus Christ's name amen!
why did she tell me she was in a relationship but she can leave whenever she wants.. and tell me she.wants me to be in my sons life and she'll drop the child support
Can someone tell me that what should I do in this situation? I go to gym and there is a girl who has been to the same time as I go for 2 months and most of the time she stare at me. I did not do anything or show any interest to her in these two months but after two months I went to her and ask for her number and she gave me her number but when I ask her do you have a boyfriend? She said yes and I did not get her number by my choice. Why she did that?
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Kindly iam asking for your email address iam address from Germany
thank you I love you Jessica may God keep blessing
Ok jessica
You’ve literally been helping my heart for the past couple months I wanna say thank you sincerely from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for doing what you do like I appreciate you wholeheartedly and I pray that you’re protected and at peace as well as your loved ones.
When she saids "I have a bf" the conversation comes to a complete halt. And she is Automatically in the friendzone. Gotta have RESPECT for yourself besides their as plenty of fish in the sea.
90% of '' I have a bf'' statement from most girls is a test of resilience! I have had girls tell me this; I withdraw only to have them chasing me and most end up denying ever saying that of faking a recent break up. Being in the friends zone is an opportunity to find out if this is an endurance test or a true state of affairs.
This is why you don't take relationship advice from women. As a man, you only deal with high interest women. No time lurking around in the name of friendzone and wishing her relationship fails so you take over. That's what losers do. You have to begin escalation right at the point of contact and move a step further anytime she complies till it hits the bedroom. When she does not comply you next her. It's that simple. I pity guys these days, always inviting drama into their lives
For Real, and if she leave her guy for me she'll eventually do me the Same.
@@jeromechung8221 exactly 😂😂
100% correct
I am a woman and this is insane to me. Like seriously. This is crazy AF.
That being said... watch out from the high interest woman. That simply translates to a woman with no self respect and boundaries. That could be the point of course....
@@ineedhoez No, a high interest woman can be manipulative or have a secret agenda, but she's NOT with no self respect and boundaries. Quite the contrary, she's an independent, mature, outgoing woman with high self respect who knows what she wants and makes an effort to make a man's life easier. If a woman in fact likes a man but shows low interest, it's a sign of OVERLY high or low self respect, which means she will always put her feelings first, not her man's feelings. The kind of "high interest woman" you need to avoid is the woman who shows high interest to a lot of men at the same time, which is the sign of zero self respect. Same advice goes to women when you meet high interest men
Jessica, I must admit that you are the best.
Very true
Real or true love, call it what you may, is patient, compassionate, and kind, regardless. 🙌❤️‼️
when she says “I have a boyfriend” I bring the whole conversation to an end
Exactly my brother I for me I dont want to interfare in peoples relationship👍
But we shouldnt be so selfish. Friendship is a form of a relationship and women appreciate a good friendship. I think we all need friendship. So when you cant date a girl, still respect and value her by being a good friend.
Just like that's it's that easy
Youre like me
Factz
She make some very good points, but there's other reasons as well... For instance, just because she has a boyfriend.. It doesn't mean she's in love with him.... When a woman is in love with someone, she makes herself unapproachable.. She's not gonna flirt with another man or give him any ideas that he can have her... Another reason some women tell guy's they have a boyfriend is because she may feel that she's not good enough for you... She may feel that once you get to know her you won't be interested anymore.. Another reason a woman may tell a guy she has a boyfriend is because she's afraid of falling in love with you... And you might break her heart... So she rather sabotage the situation from the gate to avoid the pain of a broken heart.... ✌️
Goshhh, the first part of this response. I honestly don't get it with these girls. I'm in the present suituation and it's driving me nuts.
You keep lowkey playing you have a boyfriend card, yet you put yourself available to me every goddam time. Like you're even texting me first and all. Agreeing to go on a date.. which I'm honestly now not getting excited for again.
Giving all the green lights. Yet you keep subtle playing you have a boyfriend Card.
I'm just frustrated.
Why would you be so much open like this to someone else if you know you're not interested in them and you're in a relationship🤦 Girls!
PS: You're not gaining any materialistic stuffs from me yet and she's not the type.
Just confused honestly
@@theSami_A bro, I found myself in the same situation. This boyfriend card thing happened for a little over one year. Yet, she was still entertaining me. Why would you still have me around, knowing that you have a boyfriend, and that you don't see any future for me? Bro, I just advised myself and gradually walked away. Even till now, she still texts me (first). I just see the messages, respond, and go my way. No need to play hide and seek.
@@paakwame6822 🤣🤣🤣 This is literally the cap advice I need. Wasn't even expecting someone would respond to this 😂
At the end, everybody will be alright.
@@theSami_A you're not alone, bro. A lot of us have been in (or are having) similar situations. I don't like to make someone who "rejected" me my enemy, NO! Just remain "normal" friends with her, like you would with any other lady. When she texts first, respond like you with with any friend of yours. When you want to text her first, do so like you would with your regular friends. No need to hate. Everyone wins. You'll find another kind someday. And when it happens, you'll know it has happened. Cheers to the "I have a boyfriend" geng😂🎊
@@paakwame6822 👍👍
Jessica be spitting facts back to back!!
If she’s having a boyfriend, respect yourself just leave her be, so she focuses on her relationship. Why do something to someone that you wouldn’t like done to you🤷🏾??
If you are scared of breaking people's relationships you will remain Single📌🚩🚩🤣🤣🤣
@@tuhafeni2000 😹😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣
@@madmax7965 True Brh🤣🤣🇳🇦
@@tuhafeni2000 gotta stop being soft
I hear ya - Afotey! Great tips - by Jessica. And speaking of Test…
Women will always test you until the day you die - so get used to it! Lol
She’ll test you from the moment she meets you - until the relationship is over, and even after that, she’s going to find ways to keep on testing you.
It’s your job as a man to never let her make you lose your composure - because the minute you do, she wins, and you lose!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
If she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you...
@@s.beccari4678 i am ready to be cheated
Lol literally happened to me. But as a man don't try to make a girl like you if she don't especially if she has a man it's a waste just walk away bro.
Great video man no hate to you
Hi Jessica, great advice. I am a regular viewer of your videos and believe that someone with your wealth of knowledge should have and/or enjoy the best marital relationship. You are doing an excellent job in assisting men globally. Keep it up.
I really love the last point "be patient"...🙌
Simp move on
Jess, if I want a woman, I don't really give a hoot if she has a hubby, much less a boyfriend. I will go for her and I will get her. The friend zone? Never! Once you are in that zone you will forever be there. I will never make a friend of a woman I was interested in romantically. Depending on how much I want the woman, I might as well just let go, because, the truth is that you can't have them all. So, some you let go, just like that.
Dear Men,
“So far as she doesn't have a ring on her finger, you still have a chance”
~Jessica Os~
@Aisha Abubakar Take your silliness elsewhere 🛑 ✋🙄
Cap 🧢 if she said she have a boyfriend keep shooting your shot loyal girl’s don’t respond 💯
Facts!!!
amen😂
Most women lie about having a man. She either wants to see how competitive you are, or she's not interested. But I feel that's childish, especially if she refusing the opportunity of us seeing each other again. We could've been meant to be, but she wanna make an impression, instead of receiving the Blessing
I'm a sharp looking dude at the age of 38. I work out for over 20 years. I never had problems with meeting and dating girls growing up. It was easy for me because girls are attracted to me all the times. I didn't have to do any leg work. Tonight, I decided to talk to this hispanic chick at my gym for the first time and asked for her number. She told me she has a bf!! I have never been rejected before when asking a girl's number. I asked for this girl's number at the bar for the first time, and she gave it to me! But this hispanic chick rejected me! My gym buddy told me she is single! I know she lied to me. I want to know if she is testing me or not interested in me. My ego is hurting right now! lol.
If she wants you to compete, she is crazy and you should run
Wow this comment was spot on im dealing with that now at the moment the girl ive talked to she has a bf but still shows alot of interest towards me.
I ask her number and she gave me when I ask her are you single ? She said no
I am me. I don't need to convince any woman to like me. I really focus on what I do. If she likes me, she'll give me a signs/ green light. I don't chase! Don't get me wrong...
I don't know how this popped up on my feed but dear god. If she says she has BF walk away. She has a BF. She is not interested. If she is testing you, then walk away because who wants to deal with that type of crazy? For the love of god please do not follow this advice.
Jessica! I am really enjoying your show. You really is a professional. God bless
Jessica Os you deserve an award well done Keep it up.
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@@JessicaOS Hello,Miss Jessica I have something to discuss with you🙏
My adorable Jessica, personally if you tell me you have a boyfriend I am gone. I feel like that’s like snatching another man’s wife which will be unfair. Why would I try working too hard to convince someone who didn’t like me so much?
Fight for what you want, the best things don't come easy, either that or settle for what you have and be miserable.
Nothing but the truth 💯💯*Venda Queen*💥💥💥
This was a nice one. I've so far made positive progresses from watching your videos.
Tanx Jesse, currently am dealing with such a situation right now, the lady seems to give me all the attention I needed but still saying the boyfriend hasn't done anything for her to leave him for me... And she keep saying you are a oood man.. Tanx.. I will patient as you said.. 🙏
If she can't choose you today, I don't think you should wait for her. This is more like you're wishing for her to break up with that guy; it's not fair. She doesn't see you as someone worth leaving the boyfriend for, and so you should advise yourself accordingly
When she says that I move on! That too me turns into chasing and I don't chase I replace
Very good point..lol
Wow...! Thanks for such a nice lesson....i really learn alot from your channel....that's so cool.😊
I love this blue top you have on. Good background lighting also.
Personally I’m not into chasing after females that say they have a boyfriend I will be friends but that is as far as I will go with it and I usually would ask the question if she start flirting: Why are you flirting if you already have a man? That is one of those question that is ok to ask if you know how to play around with the way you ask it to keep her from getting offended by the question
Beautiful woman with Beautiful speak's...it amazing and that's recently happen to me..
Jessica my favorite. I'll always watch your videos. From Kenya.
Jessica serious I’m learning so much about your comments and I don’t know how to thank you, thank you!!!👏👏👏👏
This topic is really ' how to steal Simone's girlfriend" 🤣😅
Good morning Jessica. One love Straight from Jamaica
I never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. She’s either married or not married. If you don’t see a ring, shoot your shot.
Jessica your videos really guild me a lot
hey Jessica how are you doing tonight.i caught your last viedo about the texting and you taught me something and she is a co worker and i have moved on from her thank you for showing me the light and also you are very actractive happy easter to you and your family
Great video,First, In my opinion don't make a move with this if you cannot take her to an overall better place than where she is now, Also avoid married women unless the man is having an affair with another woman.
Secondly, You do not need to hang out with her as a friend if she is someone you see regularly at work, gym, neighborhood or college. When she is in your presence during purposeful conversations of work/school/gym etc, she has to see your masculine and leadership sides and at least you have shown your intention at least once to be romantic with her(get to know her further). Once you have these in place, your fun smooth communication(non-sexual) to her and having other women matter for it to work because the guy who has been sleeping with her no longer worries about smooth fun communication that much in 90% of the time.
Kudos my Sister's, i av bn watching many of ur videos it s bn helpful for me!!!
But why will you want her to like you even though she has a boyfriend?
What kind of likeness is that.
As a man, I don't want my girl liking another man beyond basic friendship.
Why would I wanna do that to another brother?
I agree....
This advice is bad this time around❗
Either she want you or she don't. Males she want, she DON'T test nor play games with❗
No guy cared when they was doing my x wife,why should i
@@dwayneneal3342 Your xwife didn't tell them she had you.
She willingly let go.
No man can consensually have your woman if she ain't willing
@@tdemjayz no shit ,but some of them knew she was married
@@dwayneneal3342 Some people are plain stupid.
however, it was up to her to respect her marriage and not give herself to them.
She's the problem, not the guys despite their stupidity
I know if you say you have boy friend J , I would want it to be a test babe ,you do know that right . Honestly I wouldn't even know where to start just because I'm assuming you already seen and heard it all. So in terms of you ,a person really need to keep an open , spontaneous mind and still stay within the moral basics. It's a challenge ,but thinking deeply is how we expand our thoughts , so hope you have a great day Jess stay safe and it was nice seeing you again 🍯 .
Quite controversial video! A Blessing in disguise! If a girl is willling drop her current relationship chances are it wasn't working for both of them otherwise you wouldn't get any attention, so win-win. Also if a girl is willing to drop her boyfriend do you think the same won't happen to you?
My advice is if she says she has a boyfriend you move on and look for other fish in the sea, there's plenty. Trust me. You want to build a relationship with a decent human being, not with someone who is willling to cheat or is too much of a coward to stick around when things aren't going as good waiting until next branch to hold appears.
exactly my point
Bro, please advice me
I got along with this girl I like her alot but she loves money tooo much .. anytime I don't give her she's angry n will be giving attitude..one day I asked her if she has bought me recharge card ..she blocked me n unblocked again and sent plenty voice note telling me that all the relationship she's been taking care of her boyfriend n she get nothing in return so she wanted to try something new with me..at the point she was in debt n asked me to help her out I gave her.. after then she gave me attitude again..and asked for another money..I told her I don't have at that point I tried having sex..she refused meaning been paying her for the sex..texted her one weekend I'll be coming to her place she replied she's traveling when she's back she will call.. after a day I called twice no response n shut down I lost interest I moved on. After a week plus she called Early in the morning I refuse to pick till now.. she's calling now every minute n m tempted to respond I don't know what to do ..but I really like her
Solid advice
You've said it all
Pursuing a woman with BF is all fine and dandy until the next man snatches your chick. If she has BF and entertains you, she is cheating and cant be trusted.
Remember, you lose them how you get them
This is the video that i have been waiting for ❤️ thanks Jess for this video can’t wait for more ❤️❤️❤️
I love the way you talk. Crushhhing 😊
Love your set up...so beautiful. Hope I found love in your community
I hope so too!
This might be the channel i been looking for, i have been failing for a long time to get a lady, i hope this time I’ll get my first lady🥺
Once a very beautiful girl I liked told me she had a boyfriend. So at 19, I was still young to understand.So I left her friendly. Turned out it was a test! A close friend of her hinted that to me, but it was rather late.
I'd say you were lucky to escape such unnecessary drama, don't waste your time on such immature girls
What was such test supposed to mean?
From my experience, the chances you get to hang out with the person you like being in the friendzone since the beginning is 10%. You may end up being the friend who's available all the time for her in the bad days so she can rely on you to have a miningful conversation, overtime you will become the best friend and then is game over!
guys would you want someone doing any of this to your girl?. then why do this to another guy? 3.6 billon women in the world
Where have you been all of my life? Had to subscribe after stumbling upon your channel. I was like let me hear this sistas BS. Anyways you got me. Keep it 100
wow I'll continue i wanted to stop Thanks Jessica
Jess, you should have let any potential 'flirter' know: 'My man, if you are determined NOT to look for someone unattached, keep this one thing in mind: if your flirting manages to kindle a relationship, know that down the road someone else will try the same tactic. If she was weak enough to give into your flirting, it can happen again. Be ready for that.'
Wow I love this stuff keep up
I was once in that situation. She told me she have someone, but always ask me for money... I just stopped and distanced from her.!! Gold digger!?
I think.... probably... the best thing is to just move on
I would have to dislike this video respectfully because honestly if I woman truly has respect for her boyfriend then she wouldn’t want to cheat or like another man. Why not just leave and not break a person’s heart? Ps on both sides it’s not right to cheat and that is clearly cheating which isn’t cool at all and I thought you were against cheating. Also when anybody says they have a boyfriend or girlfriend move on cause sabotaging somebody’s relationship just to get someone That’s taken to like you is messed up on so many levels.
1:55.."women are interesting creatures "😂....every moment feels new with Jessica
It is very interesting dear i really enjoying your talk
Thank you for sharing this amazing info...I really do like it
You should have posted this yesterday 😂😂I was in that situation and I don't know if my response was any good
I have this lady whom I'm dating and I love her so much and I really need to be with her for the rest of my life but the problem is she doesn't post me on social media whilst me I have been doing everything for her, now I seek your advise Jessica
Why do you post here on social media in the first place. And everyday at that
Call her up for Conversation and know if she truly love you just as you do. Speak out your minds and let everything be Natural.. After the Conversation then you will know what and where your Relationship is going..
Yeah that's true
Was once here before bro. Firstly, she may not be committed to what yall have as you are, hence you do more than she is, secondly, dont overdo things, let a woman breathe and have a chance to do her part, dont do eveything, thirdly, let her be free to love you the way she wants, dont enforce your expectations on her as tho she should now do what you do. You gerrit?
@@felixappiah7547 That's true! Social media is the greatest issue in most relationships and people's lifestyles. Creating unnecessary attention and drama.
What about if she has a boyfriend but tells me “I don’t know what we are anymore”… is it ok to try and date her if her current relationship seems doomed?
Have patience. Be the best friend that you can be… such words of wisdom.
🏃🏽♀️📺 how to escape any friend zone. 😀
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Guys don’t be a simp but if you do these the facts you need
Interesting 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
My first time watching your content
Massive work goes into your videos, Great work....
I have subscribe
Thanks for the support
No man should wait on a woman ooo …for the sake of tomorrow
love your videos MS jessica 💪🏾💯
Well this girl is a friend Jess.. I screaming right now... Idk what to do..
i felt that.... sheeeeesh your good
I’m in love with my best female friend, I literally do everything for her but she said she doesn’t feel thesame way about me and she also has a boyfriend that she made clearly to me that she will always put him before me, and I’m always hurt knowing that she has a boyfriend and she doesn’t feel same way about me despite been the one doing her everything. I always think about her, I’m literally obsessed with her, My day will never be great if I didn’t talk to her, she’s someone that you can never see her without me in school which makes everyone think we are dating, she’s somebody I’m just too attach to but the pain I’m going through knowing that she has a boyfriend and doesn’t have feelings for me is unbearable, I can’t stand seeing her with that guy but she values him more than me, I try moving on it doesn’t work, I don’t see any other girls attractive. I so much love her and I don’t know what to do, and I don’t want to stop talking and relating with her because she’s my best friend already that literally knows everything about me. I’m so in pain and I need help. What should I do please?
Joseph, you need to move on for your own sanity. Begin to cut communication with her. You deserve someone that loves you with the same energy that you love.
While it’ll be hard at first, it’s best to try to wind down communication with her to a minimum if not cut it off. You should seek to cultivate relationships with other women (as many as possible so as to increase your chances & to develop an abundance mindset). While you should genuinely distance yourself from her for your own swell being, your being an intense emotional support for her while she knows about your feelings for her will only help her prop up any relationships she has that might otherwise fall apart without such external close male validation, & it incentivized her to treat you as an optional backup plan (given how she has you despite letting you know that she’d always put her boyfriend that probably came around after you chronologically before you). As a side benefit, it’s also good for her as a form of tough love. If she was sure that you weren’t attracted to her that’d be one thing, but since she knows that you have romantic feelings, it’s not right for her to use you for emotional support and external validation. So it’ll be an opportunity for each of you to grow
Once I hear that, I let you be!
Women these days are so worldly conditioned and programmed it's sad. If a decent guy approaches you regardless of his status ,pay attention to the vibes and how he makes you feel at that moment. If she not able to recognize or appreciate authentic good energy from a God sent man, then I just smile to myself and thank God as I walk away. That would be her lost at a perfect man for HER, not the 🌎and God's way of telling me He has someone much better for me🙏🏾😇
these tips are all great, until you are the boyfriend😂😂😂😂
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I've been the cheated on husband,nothing new
Hahaaha
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Aww, Jessica we miss you
Why would you want a girl who have a boyfriend..she’s leaving her boyfriend just because you like and talk to her..and expect her to be loyal to you??
always speaking facts thank you for all the valuable facts you dish out Love from Nigeria
You are so welcome
nah if someone wants to play hard to get let them play by themself. just trust the no and walk away.
Great lesson! Thanks, Jessica!
I hope you don't have a boyfriend yet.. 'cos me & the other guys are interested! Lol😊
If she leaves a man for you .. she will repeat that behavior and leave you for another man. Trust
said she has a boyfriend but still wants me to come around and see her at work?. so she might be a cheat or atlease someone i cant trust. why would i want any of this ? have you heard of self PRIDE?.
I tried this and it worked she actually likes but her boyfriend saw our conversations and i almost got my ass beat 😂 Thanks 😊
And what if she says I have bf and she doesn't have and she's from same gym how to deal with that?
WHY WOULD YOU WANT A FEMALE THAT YOU CAN TALK OUT OF BEING WITH HER BOYFRIEND??BECAUSE IT'S A GOOD CHANCE SHE CAN DO THE SAME THING TO YOU...ONCE THE NEXT GUY COME ALONG...ALWAYS RESPECT A GIRL THAT SAIDS SHE'S IN A RELATIONSHIP...AND MOVE ON...IT'S TOMANY SINGLE FEMALES OUT HERE,TO PURSUE SOMEBODY THAT'S IN A RELATIONSHIP....AND KARMA IS REAL.
Early bird here jessica a
You are top notch👍👍
You're a genius ☺️
Based on a personal experience, if you truly had/have good intentions for a love interest, you’ll still care about him/her even though they are dating or choose to date someone else.
It’s not necessarily a choice you’d make, however, you’ll always care enough to check on him/her, or find a way to be there when you feel you should. And whenever you do, you rarely remember you were once turned down.
#ForeverLove
This is why I’m not cool with partners talking we’re just friends. I know lingering energy and folks forming attachments with ulterior motives. Ick.
awesome talk
i am one of those men who no longer have time and energy to try to understand women... enough challenges in life...easier to pay for an escort , i resigned ! good luck guys !
Pump and dump
Why care for her, because she has a truth, get out from her. Because I don't have no energy for the game.
If she liked you more than her current boyfriend, you would very probably never know/hear about him. And she finally would step aside from him in order to be together with you.
If she tells you about her boyfriend without having anyone, then my apologies, SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU.
In both the above mentioned cases any attempts to pursue her would completely destroy your self-esteem. NEVER DO IT.
Yep! i Yes you Jessy.
Willing to join your private convo Madam Jessy 🙏🏿
Thanks, Jessica, I think I should visit your channel more often, and where possible, get the chance to either have a conversation or a chat with you.
Thanks once again for this wonderful and enlightening video. Stay blessed in Jesus Christ's name amen!
Same thing is happening. What should I do?
why did she tell me she was in a relationship but she can leave whenever she wants.. and tell me she.wants me to be in my sons life and she'll drop the child support
Can someone tell me that what should I do in this situation?
I go to gym and there is a girl who has been to the same time as I go for 2 months and most of the time she stare at me. I did not do anything or show any interest to her in these two months but after two months I went to her and ask for her number and she gave me her number but when I ask her do you have a boyfriend? She said yes and I did not get her number by my choice.
Why she did that?