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Actually, use all of these things when you know the date isn't going well or you're not interested in the person. They will eliminate themselves and you don't have to deal with the emotional toll of ending it, they will do that for you!
I warn one of my homie about this, but you know rookie to the thing u know what can I do, I mean! he did get the warning.. good thing the elder them teach we the thing from a long time in our development stage, but yeah Jes its good you doing those thing to help the younger Gen ..
Honestly just be yourself. If a woman change just because of your so called weaknesses she's not the one. If you can't tell a woman anything about you, then what's really the point?
"Never complain, Never explain." I remember hearing that quote some years back and have kept it as a reminder whenever I'd come across a situation in which it's best to to stay quiet (about 90% of the time). It has been a very useful technique in my experience. This video reminds me of that and does a great job of highlighting the way to go about dealing with situations you're better off not revealing. Thank you, Jessica.
Now remember she made a video about how women don't respect or like easy going guys...so not complaining might come off as weak. Just saying...in a way every video contradicts two other videos. Or maybe I'm just reading it wrong
No. Not contradicting. Though on the surface, it might look like that. Here, she says, don't REVEAL your FINANCIAL STRUGGLES (financially failed attempts or wasted efforts) too early. Speak on the next solution instead. In the video about finding love while broke, she meant, DON'T THINK, it's all about money to get your dream girl. A good frame of mind matters best. The ability to have a great frame of mind while broke will be charming.
1. No, I'm not on an interview. 2. I don't have time for this. 3. No, I'm not on an interview. 4. So basically lie. 5. None of her business. So basically don't tell her anything about you. Tell her anything she wants to hear even if it means lying. Nah I'm done peacocking for a females. At this point she has to impress me.
Basically, relationships are like business transactions. These are exact sales techniques we employ while dealing with promising leads and new customers.
This year, i met a wonderful girl. Everything started good. Somehow, she acted like a detective in most of our conversations. She asked a lot about my past. I loved her and wanted to build sth special with. I was true to her and shared my past, family history, career and everything. She left. While she used to be connected all day long on the phone, now not even a text message. I realized i shared too much about me, and i don’t know much about her. I regret that. But i wanted that relationship, i decided not to hide anything. I wish it good luck.
Its proven ,being to open and honest doesn't all help in most relationships even if years go by...i guess in most cases the advice it's to always to hold back. I'm in a relationship for over 4 years and starting to realize that i have been to open and too honest hopefully all this doesn't backfire on me.
@@dr.shycat71 I’ll pray for you bro. But what you did is a blunder n probability of her leaving, loosing interest, questioning your value, doubtful about future together are all high now. Hopefully she’s a mature woman and mentally healthy to handle your truths otherwise she’s gona leave like mine did. No matter how strong your bonding was for 4 years.
Its not your fault she left, it was her decision and you shouldn't take that on unless you abused her in some way. For whatever reason, she decided she didn't want to continue with you, and in the absence of an explanation, I'd say the issue is probably with her.
Sometimes all these love videos are confusing! All your responses are great. Not every man remembers all these lines! A woman meant for you will stay and would like to support!
@@Biggiemoore There is nothing to remember. Just keep your eyes peeled and your mouth shut. If you have to talk, say only things that are not sensitive in your life. A bit like dealing with an enemy that you necessarily have to keep close. How hard is that?
Flirting felt awkward, and I’d overthink everything. After using your advice and reading Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I’ve learned to relax, stay playful, and just have fun with it. Now flirting feels natural, and I’m seeing great results.
@@Jahblessena Not “too soon”. “Ever!” Even after you marry her, tell her a little thing and it will become her topic the next time you offend her. Women!!
If you truly want to be happy... Let her know everything in a balanced way and if she's open and understanding she's a keeper... And build with her, No manipulation or sales tactics to keep her.. Genuine love...
This is why I don’t actually try to date; but dates do happen. I don’t try to initiate conversation, but conversations happen. I find the less I care to date or meet; I still meet, but I’m not setting myself up for failure when I like someone. I met a women other day; she says she liked me, and our conversation is awesome, but I’m too nice. I was just having a conversation but somehow I’m too nice so she didn’t want to see me anymore. And I wasn’t being the normal nice guy; I was just having a good conversation I really thought we were connecting and we liked similar things. I did get excited finally met someone awesome. But I guess I showed her I like her to much
If I’d had this kind of insight years ago! It works both ways. I dated a girl for years who told me waaaaay too much about her previous boyfriend. She also had an unknown amount of credit card debt. Had collectors calling multiple times a day. I was cool about it but stated I was not going to marry into her college party debt and therefore be responsible for it. That was the beginning of the end. Girl had more red flags than a CCP parade. And if any future woman would ask me about it all I’m going to say is that I learned a lot from it and now it doesn’t matter because here I am with a fantastic woman living a life I love.
I messed up 1 bad. My last ex I asked her to please never ghost me, that if things aren't working out to just tell me as I have abandonment issues. "I promise baby I'd never do that to you" is what she told me. Well 6 months later guess what she did? Yup, ghosted me. Woke up one day and blocked me everywhere without saying a word. Women can be evil and devious. NEVER share your weaknesses, she will absolutely exploit them eventually when she feels you are no longer of use or aren't bending the knee to her.
I shared so much with this lady some while back, I was sooooo in love. now she doesn't text back, even when she does it turns out dry like I'm forcing a vibe or something. I've been hurting so much and it's not like did something wrong, I just revealed to her my greatest fear and insecurities. Once I heal I'm never looking back, ever!
On finances, in the same way that I would never ask how much she’s earning, I would also not reveal how much my business is making. That’s not the same as discussing who’s responsible for what financial responsibilities in a relationship.
Thank you. The information you have provided in this video is priceless. It has made me realize that my saying, "You cannot say the wrong thing to the right person," is an illusion. It is a lose, lose, lose situation 100% of the time. The fact that a man has to jump through all of these hoops to say the PERFECT THING to someone who says, "Love me as I am," is utterly ridiculous. The "Discrepancies" in a relationship are what kill a relationship whether it is from a man or a woman. The "Double Standards" that we have are what destroy a relationship like termites. I know your attempt is to educate and I definitely appreciate everything you have said in this video, but the fact that you are right in what you are saying, in my opinion, is the actual defeat. It's like going to the casino, the house always wins.
I always share the things you are saying i shouldn't.....i do it purposely....because i don't need people who want to hear only the best out of me but can be comfortable with my worst... I do it intentionally to let them go
Thank you @Mummy Jessica OS for ALWAYS looking out for us (your children) on this channel 🙏 as your advice and their worth cannot be quantified. Thank you for all that you do for us ma'am 🙏. God bless you and much love 💕 from Nigeria.
Vibed with this American girl on the first day , we both liked each other and she mentioned how she was sure she wanted to be my girl 5 minutes into our conversation and how we both liked literally the same thing, only for me to talk about marriage and stuff which I did out of excitement because she was literally everything I have ever dreamed in a woman, from taking her religion seriously , to not smoking partying and drinking type of girl and how like we both wanted the same thing, talked about marriage only for this girl to say I was love bombing her and that I wanted marriage cos of citizenship , I am lost for words. I said okay forget about everything because like really ?
Thank you. This is extremely valuable. I see the error of my ways. How do I heal and be strong? I feel like a lost cause. I don't blame her for being disappointed. How do I get out of this pit of despair? I feel exhausted and struggle almost daily with not giving up. I don't seem to know how not to be pathetic. I pretty much have nothing left to love. How do you not be a victim when you were and are? I love myself. I love my family, but they don't see me, they see what their toxicity brings out and they use it against me. I know what I want in life but how do I to aquire is the million dollar question. I need help. God doesn't want to fix me. Idk how to fix me. I want to be better. I want better things to say. I want to be loved. Those are very valid concerns you addressed and thank you truly. What do I do to overcome my defeated sensitive mentality? I feel damaged beyond repair which renders me loney, misjudged and misunderstood. I have many great values, but stability isn't one of them apparently 😪
I used to tell them about the number of people I had hit out with but realised it was a mistake because they would tell me not to reveal it to the next human being I would get entangled with
Thanks. I thought that you have to be truthful about certain things, mostly about the financial struggles to show your honesty but through this video I have been well edified
You are truly a Proverbs 31 woman/mother: God has provided for your son already a vital life coach in you!!! You should be on the board of Church Marriage Counselors
Jessica doesn't say you shouldn't share your struggles with your partner; you can, but timing is key. Women want to hear good things only, so stick to that until she reaches the point of no return.
Great video great content and awesome advice as everything coming from you is Jessica! Thank you once more and I am wishing you and all your loved ones very happy year end festivities and a most wonderful 2025!❤❤
This video is made for me.. I opened up to me ex,she was new in my life, I told her abt how my previous relationship before her was,not every detail though,and how we both were supporting each other, I thought I wasn’t being transparent & honest woth her abt certain stuffs,little did I know,she was analyzing a lot and questioning my loyalty and readiness to have a new life with her.. she felt unsafe and had a mixed feeling,she cut me off,ever since,she got to know,how much she has heard abt me and my previous ex. Never make an attempt to be an honest hero just because of being a nice,sincere or genuine person,just be ready to move on and concentrate only on the present and future.
Women come & go. just dont tell them your business. when u do, ppl usually just screw it up or just gossip abt u. some of these women use what they know abt u against u when they are madd
Nobody playing games fuck it be yourself if they stick around then you know. Relationships was never this difficult in the past our parents grew with each other along the way.
❤ your interlect and intelligent inspiration, one thing I would say is, don't mention pass relationships, just refer to them as chance's to learn and evolve. Great content Jess love and respect you've helped alot. Keep posting, wish to meet some day, best wishes for the your journey 🎉👌✌️👍
Like #9! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas my friend! 🎄 I was starting to get a little concerned since you usually respond to my comments and didn't on your last video. Great to see you are doing well and relieved as well. Great shout outs on some wonderful channels. Always love seeing those Angels! I also love those old 70's-early 80's shows! Nice Hulk Hogan card, but a "Thunder lips" card would have been sexier 🤣😂🤣 Nice Nadia card! The original 10! Love the Stooges as well and watch them whenever I catch them on television. Should have a YUK! sticker on that box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch box!!! Why change a good thing? They are great just the way they are 🤣 Enjoyed the watch as usual, thanks for sharing 👍👍until next time, have a very Merry Christmas with family and friends Rob and hopefully I can bring my ho! ho! ho's!, I mean my sexy collectibles to you soon. ✌out and stay warm my friend 🔥
Personally weaknesses should be shared in order to better understanding someone. But of cause, don't share literally every weaknesses. And if women who can't handle even one or two weaknesses in men, such women look for perfection and flawless soulmate and thus, not worth to even think about.
Guys. Theese all does not matter if one's not operating from the ego-I. If she does, why would you want it? If she doesn't (very rare), good to go. As long there is ANY expectation, next! You dont want a transactional based setup (97% of relationships).
as long as I can’t open up about my flaws… I don’t want that relationship. It’s fake, then I’m fake the man in her head she had about me, is all fake!!!
Great advice cause I checked out of the dating scene 23 years ago and was a too honest dude.. not sure if I will ever be involved again, that’s all in Gods plan but good tip regardless, if I find myself in a dating situation I will for sure keep these tips in mind
Those secrets are related to: relationship (only talk about those with experts in the dating field not her) Mentally, emotionally (mostly Psychologist and some spirituality people not her) Financially (only those qualified to talk about money and finance not her) Unless your woman is directly involved in those fields with a level of advance expertise to actually help you, don't waste your breath telling her all those things, she won't be able to do shit except doubting you.
Ok in your advice throughout you are talking about the analogue ladies of the last days LIABILITIES who made men loose hope in relationships when approaching a lady for a relationship was taking yourself to a market and opening an atm machine for the Redcross or feeding the needy
That the man has options if it doesn’t go anywhere, to only have one girl he is talking to he will be afraid to lose her but if he has options then it’s fine if they never speak again.
No, Damage has been done. One can never take that thing out of her head. You fckd this up n have to let her go when she wills. Coz when things goes side ways she’ll forever play out that scenario of why n how your ex cheated on you and find BS reasons to confirm- why you won’t be the right fit for her as well. N thaaat’s why she’d think you’re not a worthy man or the biggest better man on earth for her as well n will leave. Harshest truth - I know. But it is what it iss.
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Actually, use all of these things when you know the date isn't going well or you're not interested in the person. They will eliminate themselves and you don't have to deal with the emotional toll of ending it, they will do that for you!
How can you come back from this. She said that she values the truth but every time I tell her the truth it seems like she didn't want to hear it.
I warn one of my homie about this, but you know rookie to the thing u know what can I do, I mean! he did get the warning.. good thing the elder them teach we the thing from a long time in our development stage, but yeah Jes its good you doing those thing to help the younger Gen ..
@@JessicaOS just want to see you, that all .
Thanks for this, although to be honest nobody wants me, in that way nowadays.
Honestly just be yourself. If a woman change just because of your so called weaknesses she's not the one. If you can't tell a woman anything about you, then what's really the point?
Exactly like this .
I feel the same its just that the women is too busy telling me about her things and involved with herself
I want a woman who is supportive and not materialistic
That's just like saying to pretend to be something you're not ....and you don't wanna be telling her stuff she doesn't need to know.
TIMING BROS... Speaking from experience it's all about timing
I would argue that even when married, a man should not share certain secrets. She most often can (and will) use them against you.
indeed, when married Men should always stay mysterious.
True!!!
Yes there's no upside.
Maybe you think it'll bring you closer, but the opposite is more likely.
"Never complain, Never explain." I remember hearing that quote some years back and have kept it as a reminder whenever I'd come across a situation in which it's best to to stay quiet (about 90% of the time). It has been a very useful technique in my experience. This video reminds me of that and does a great job of highlighting the way to go about dealing with situations you're better off not revealing. Thank you, Jessica.
Now remember she made a video about how women don't respect or like easy going guys...so not complaining might come off as weak. Just saying...in a way every video contradicts two other videos. Or maybe I'm just reading it wrong
@@derrickb2871 yeah and now she has posted a video saying the best time to find love is when you are broke, that’s contradicting this video too lol
No. Not contradicting. Though on the surface, it might look like that.
Here, she says, don't REVEAL your FINANCIAL STRUGGLES (financially failed attempts or wasted efforts) too early. Speak on the next solution instead.
In the video about finding love while broke, she meant, DON'T THINK, it's all about money to get your dream girl. A good frame of mind matters best. The ability to have a great frame of mind while broke will be charming.
1. No, I'm not on an interview.
2. I don't have time for this.
3. No, I'm not on an interview.
4. So basically lie.
5. None of her business.
So basically don't tell her anything about you. Tell her anything she wants to hear even if it means lying.
Nah I'm done peacocking for a females. At this point she has to impress me.
@@jeezymay honestly bro i am done peacocking, @jesica Os should teach her how to get me
Lol, you lost the plot.
The most honest and red pilled woman on UA-cam. We must protect Jessica at all costs.
Another is: don't reveal your family secrets or struggles, especially negative ones.
@@HarvardTutorials Greatness is within you 💯
Basically, relationships are like business transactions. These are exact sales techniques we employ while dealing with promising leads and new customers.
@@hanzosiku 😄😄😄😄
Yea basically . Especially nowadays
Simply put,be honest and real,no woman that is yours will walk away because of your weakness,I’m speaking from experience
@@georgefrancis8255 yes ,this is 💯 true real one will be there nomatter the depest of insecurities you tell her about you
This year, i met a wonderful girl. Everything started good. Somehow, she acted like a detective in most of our conversations. She asked a lot about my past. I loved her and wanted to build sth special with. I was true to her and shared my past, family history, career and everything.
She left. While she used to be connected all day long on the phone, now not even a text message. I realized i shared too much about me, and i don’t know much about her. I regret that.
But i wanted that relationship, i decided not to hide anything. I wish it good luck.
Same here bro. Once a shared my complete truth after 5 years she left
Its proven ,being to open and honest doesn't all help in most relationships even if years go by...i guess in most cases the advice it's to always to hold back. I'm in a relationship for over 4 years and starting to realize that i have been to open and too honest hopefully all this doesn't backfire on me.
@@dr.shycat71 I’ll pray for you bro. But what you did is a blunder n probability of her leaving, loosing interest, questioning your value, doubtful about future together are all high now. Hopefully she’s a mature woman and mentally healthy to handle your truths otherwise she’s gona leave like mine did. No matter how strong your bonding was for 4 years.
Its not your fault she left, it was her decision and you shouldn't take that on unless you abused her in some way. For whatever reason, she decided she didn't want to continue with you, and in the absence of an explanation, I'd say the issue is probably with her.
@ what kind of issues would that be? From your human experience if you will
Sometimes all these love videos are confusing! All your responses are great. Not every man remembers all these lines! A woman meant for you will stay and would like to support!
Yeah this Is alot to remember
@@Biggiemoore There is nothing to remember. Just keep your eyes peeled and your mouth shut. If you have to talk, say only things that are not sensitive in your life. A bit like dealing with an enemy that you necessarily have to keep close. How hard is that?
Flirting felt awkward, and I’d overthink everything. After using your advice and reading Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I’ve learned to relax, stay playful, and just have fun with it.
Now flirting feels natural, and I’m seeing great results.
I've got the book now, and I really like what I've read so far. Tnx for recommending it
Gotta check out that book ASAP
If she leaves, she’s not the one.
Stay focused on your purpose.
@@Embelemokua Yup, yup
There is no "the one"
@@Embelemokua wake up!!!
Spot on "the financial struggles" cut me off my last relationship
Great video!! And to those saying be yourself and the right woman will stay. That right woman is only your biological mum.
Well done, Jes!
I think a man shouldn't reveal his family struggles or loopholes too soon.
Huge mistake I did n she left
@@Jahblessena Not “too soon”. “Ever!” Even after you marry her, tell her a little thing and it will become her topic the next time you offend her. Women!!
If you truly want to be happy... Let her know everything in a balanced way and if she's open and understanding she's a keeper... And build with her, No manipulation or sales tactics to keep her..
Genuine love...
Even if the relationship is established, it's better not to mention these things. This is why when someone asks a man how he's doing he says, "Fine".
This is why I don’t actually try to date; but dates do happen.
I don’t try to initiate conversation, but conversations happen.
I find the less I care to date or meet; I still meet, but I’m not setting myself up for failure when I like someone.
I met a women other day; she says she liked me, and our conversation is awesome, but I’m too nice.
I was just having a conversation but somehow I’m too nice so she didn’t want to see me anymore. And I wasn’t being the normal nice guy; I was just having a good conversation I really thought we were connecting and we liked similar things. I did get excited finally met someone awesome. But I guess I showed her I like her to much
If I’d had this kind of insight years ago! It works both ways. I dated a girl for years who told me waaaaay too much about her previous boyfriend. She also had an unknown amount of credit card debt. Had collectors calling multiple times a day. I was cool about it but stated I was not going to marry into her college party debt and therefore be responsible for it. That was the beginning of the end. Girl had more red flags than a CCP parade. And if any future woman would ask me about it all I’m going to say is that I learned a lot from it and now it doesn’t matter because here I am with a fantastic woman living a life I love.
I messed up 1 bad. My last ex I asked her to please never ghost me, that if things aren't working out to just tell me as I have abandonment issues. "I promise baby I'd never do that to you" is what she told me. Well 6 months later guess what she did? Yup, ghosted me. Woke up one day and blocked me everywhere without saying a word.
Women can be evil and devious. NEVER share your weaknesses, she will absolutely exploit them eventually when she feels you are no longer of use or aren't bending the knee to her.
@@LeeEverett1 u didn't mess one up then, u dodged a bullet. Good job!
I shared so much with this lady some while back, I was sooooo in love. now she doesn't text back, even when she does it turns out dry like I'm forcing a vibe or something. I've been hurting so much and it's not like did something wrong, I just revealed to her my greatest fear and insecurities.
Once I heal I'm never looking back, ever!
@@darylsherif4148 Listen bro, forget about her, focus on yourself. When the time is right she will see where she went wrong
I experienced something over.
She views me as having low self esteem. I had to leave.
@seunazeez3838 you would find your person soon
@@darylsherif4148 😊 With this kind of conviction, I guess you're a prophet. Amen. And thank you, sir. I wish you the same if you're in my shoes.
Always remain confident even in time of adversity keep that mystery
Jessica is simply the best,telling things how they should be
Much love n respect from Nairobi Kenya
Listen and Learn... Jessica has been doing this for over 20years and I tell you, she's giving you the best
This is a real life experience to me, I wish I knew this before 😮
*The right balance between openness and privacy keeps the relationship healthy - always protect your long-term goals and vulnerabilities.*
she's mature in the psychological sense, the way she talks, her ethereal eyes, oow man god bless her
On finances, in the same way that I would never ask how much she’s earning, I would also not reveal how much my business is making.
That’s not the same as discussing who’s responsible for what financial responsibilities in a relationship.
Never cry about an ex.
Thank you. The information you have provided in this video is priceless. It has made me realize that my saying, "You cannot say the wrong thing to the right person," is an illusion. It is a lose, lose, lose situation 100% of the time. The fact that a man has to jump through all of these hoops to say the PERFECT THING to someone who says, "Love me as I am," is utterly ridiculous. The "Discrepancies" in a relationship are what kill a relationship whether it is from a man or a woman. The "Double Standards" that we have are what destroy a relationship like termites. I know your attempt is to educate and I definitely appreciate everything you have said in this video, but the fact that you are right in what you are saying, in my opinion, is the actual defeat. It's like going to the casino, the house always wins.
I REALLY DON'T KNOW ABOUT U BUT TRUTHFULLY YOU SPOKE TO MY HEART. THANKS
U are the real deal.. wish I could have the specific info at hand within each situation secretly being delivered to my ear B4 I speak 🤣
So insightful and purposeful, this woman is national treasure!
I always share the things you are saying i shouldn't.....i do it purposely....because i don't need people who want to hear only the best out of me but can be comfortable with my worst... I do it intentionally to let them go
You are a jewel in what you do. I live in New York and had listened to relationship therapists, you are simply at the global level.
Wisdom is speaking
This is pure gold.i once whinged about my job and a girl cancelled me.
me too, "the financial struggles" cut me off my last relationship!
Good job Jes!
Thanks!
Appreciate you 🙏🏾
You're a wonderful Teacher, Empress!!
Thanks for your helpful advice and information!!!
Thank you for the kind words! 😊
Moral of the story; speak like a corporate executive.
Thank you @Mummy Jessica OS for ALWAYS looking out for us (your children) on this channel 🙏 as your advice and their worth cannot be quantified.
Thank you for all that you do for us ma'am 🙏.
God bless you and much love 💕 from Nigeria.
Vibed with this American girl on the first day , we both liked each other and she mentioned how she was sure she wanted to be my girl 5 minutes into our conversation and how we both liked literally the same thing, only for me to talk about marriage and stuff which I did out of excitement because she was literally everything I have ever dreamed in a woman, from taking her religion seriously , to not smoking partying and drinking type of girl and how like we both wanted the same thing, talked about marriage only for this girl to say I was love bombing her and that I wanted marriage cos of citizenship , I am lost for words. I said okay forget about everything because like really ?
Jessica, you're very inspirational, I must say
I enjoy the talk smart incentive you share on your platform. Heaven must be like this....
Thank you. This is extremely valuable. I see the error of my ways. How do I heal and be strong? I feel like a lost cause. I don't blame her for being disappointed. How do I get out of this pit of despair? I feel exhausted and struggle almost daily with not giving up. I don't seem to know how not to be pathetic. I pretty much have nothing left to love. How do you not be a victim when you were and are? I love myself. I love my family, but they don't see me, they see what their toxicity brings out and they use it against me. I know what I want in life but how do I to aquire is the million dollar question. I need help. God doesn't want to fix me. Idk how to fix me. I want to be better. I want better things to say. I want to be loved. Those are very valid concerns you addressed and thank you truly. What do I do to overcome my defeated sensitive mentality? I feel damaged beyond repair which renders me loney, misjudged and misunderstood. I have many great values, but stability isn't one of them apparently 😪
Great video, Jessica. You're good at what you do. Thank you for your insights over the years.
Fair list 😌! Similar for women as well.
I used to tell them about the number of people I had hit out with but realised it was a mistake because they would tell me not to reveal it to the next human being I would get entangled with
For me there's much stress with women and its not worth it most times.
Please channel the energy and strength to becoming successful in life
Thanks. I thought that you have to be truthful about certain things, mostly about the financial struggles to show your honesty but through this video I have been well edified
Glad I could help you see things differently! 😊
Jess always on point. Indeed you generational help of our time.
You are truly a Proverbs 31 woman/mother: God has provided for your son already a vital life coach in you!!!
You should be on the board of Church Marriage Counselors
Jessica doesn't say you shouldn't share your struggles with your partner; you can, but timing is key. Women want to hear good things only, so stick to that until she reaches the point of no return.
@@joneselmenda5809 so basically you set her up and lock her up with you?
All points makes sense well done
Great video great content and awesome advice as everything coming from you is Jessica! Thank you once more and I am wishing you and all your loved ones very happy year end festivities and a most wonderful 2025!❤❤
Great content 👍🏼
This video is made for me.. I opened up to me ex,she was new in my life, I told her abt how my previous relationship before her was,not every detail though,and how we both were supporting each other, I thought I wasn’t being transparent & honest woth her abt certain stuffs,little did I know,she was analyzing a lot and questioning my loyalty and readiness to have a new life with her.. she felt unsafe and had a mixed feeling,she cut me off,ever since,she got to know,how much she has heard abt me and my previous ex. Never make an attempt to be an honest hero just because of being a nice,sincere or genuine person,just be ready to move on and concentrate only on the present and future.
Thank you for sharing. I was close to making this mistake :/
Thank God have a good woman that knows everything about and choses to stay with me
You are a true legend. Nice one
Thanks, appreciate you!
Your videos are educative and They're eye openers
Thank you Soo much ❤❤❤😊
Women come & go. just dont tell them your business. when u do, ppl usually just screw it up or just gossip abt u. some of these women use what they know abt u against u when they are madd
@@vaughnalexander32 very true
Kudos to Jessica.. thank you for these great lessons
You're welcome! 😊
Well noted Jes thank you 🙏🏼 😊
Nobody playing games fuck it be yourself if they stick around then you know.
Relationships was never this difficult in the past our parents grew with each other along the way.
I wish I could like this video like a million times.
Basically this video is directed right to me.
❤ your interlect and intelligent inspiration, one thing I would say is, don't mention pass relationships, just refer to them as chance's to learn and evolve. Great content Jess love and respect you've helped alot. Keep posting, wish to meet some day, best wishes for the your journey 🎉👌✌️👍
Like #9! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas my friend! 🎄 I was starting to get a little concerned since you usually respond to my comments and didn't on your last video. Great to see you are doing well and relieved as well. Great shout outs on some wonderful channels. Always love seeing those Angels! I also love those old 70's-early 80's shows! Nice Hulk Hogan card, but a "Thunder lips" card would have been sexier 🤣😂🤣 Nice Nadia card! The original 10! Love the Stooges as well and watch them whenever I catch them on television. Should have a YUK! sticker on that box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch box!!! Why change a good thing? They are great just the way they are 🤣 Enjoyed the watch as usual, thanks for sharing 👍👍until next time, have a very Merry Christmas with family and friends Rob and hopefully I can bring my ho! ho! ho's!, I mean my sexy collectibles to you soon. ✌out and stay warm my friend 🔥
Personally weaknesses should be shared in order to better understanding someone. But of cause, don't share literally every weaknesses. And if women who can't handle even one or two weaknesses in men, such women look for perfection and flawless soulmate and thus, not worth to even think about.
Great advice! Thank you very much, Jessy!
Thank you so much J
Happy New Year 🎈
Jessica is soo smart!!
Guys. Theese all does not matter if one's not operating from the ego-I. If she does, why would you want it? If she doesn't (very rare), good to go. As long there is ANY expectation, next! You dont want a transactional based setup (97% of relationships).
Thank you Jessica
❤ I think listen and observation before explaining u feelings
as long as I can’t open up about my flaws… I don’t want that relationship. It’s fake, then I’m fake the man in her head she had about me, is all fake!!!
@@platinumheartaartist bookmark this. See you in a few years
Great advice cause I checked out of the dating scene 23 years ago and was a too honest dude.. not sure if I will ever be involved again, that’s all in Gods plan but good tip regardless, if I find myself in a dating situation I will for sure keep these tips in mind
Powerful revelations
Thank you Jessy ❤
I can tell everyone in class borrowed your notes before exam day back in school.
Those secrets are related to: relationship (only talk about those with experts in the dating field not her)
Mentally, emotionally (mostly Psychologist and some spirituality people not her)
Financially (only those qualified to talk about money and finance not her)
Unless your woman is directly involved in those fields with a level of advance expertise to actually help you, don't waste your breath telling her all those things, she won't be able to do shit except doubting you.
@@AlextsarDiary best comment thou 📍🎈
Yup 👍🏻
Excellent!
Financial struggles is a major turn off
Smh why does everything gotta be about money? Love comes from the heart, not the money. This generation of love now and days sucks.
Thank you Jessy, am glad you shared this. I got this. More❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm happy to hear it resonated with you!
Moral of the story, fellas:
1.) Avoid talking about yourself as much as possible.
2.) When you do have to talk, LIE.
God bless you sister❤
Thanks for the video.
As a man, always say less than necessary.
Ok in your advice throughout you are talking about the analogue ladies of the last days LIABILITIES who made men loose hope in relationships when approaching a lady for a relationship was taking yourself to a market and opening an atm machine for the Redcross or feeding the needy
Loved the video. informative and educational. Thank you Jessica 🙏
I'm so glad you found it useful!
That the man has options if it doesn’t go anywhere, to only have one girl he is talking to he will be afraid to lose her but if he has options then it’s fine if they never speak again.
My Ex had problems w the my past relationships but she had more
thank you J
No worries
Thanks for teaching us Sister 😊😊😊
Any time
Any time
Wow this is really educating
Yep they don’t want to hear about your money troubles bro, they want to BE your money troubles.
😂😂😂
Thank you so much
number 2 is so true lol
what if one has already made the mistake of sharing how your ex cheated on you.. can it be amended?
No, Damage has been done. One can never take that thing out of her head. You fckd this up n have to let her go when she wills. Coz when things goes side ways she’ll forever play out that scenario of why n how your ex cheated on you and find BS reasons to confirm- why you won’t be the right fit for her as well. N thaaat’s why she’d think you’re not a worthy man or the biggest better man on earth for her as well n will leave. Harshest truth - I know. But it is what it iss.
You're right.