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  • The pain that comes with rejection can be difficult to forget. However, Jessica shares secrets on how to escape any friend zone you may have been placed in. Do these to secure your rightful place.
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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +52

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    ua-cam.com/video/FuhpVDLO4fg/v-deo.html

    • @danielteyehuago1633
      @danielteyehuago1633 3 роки тому

      Wow... I will watch it after the other one...
      Thanks for sharing it with us

    • @gabrielgbayatv6208
      @gabrielgbayatv6208 3 роки тому

      Hmm true for just a few ladies.

    • @billlayochieng6596
      @billlayochieng6596 3 роки тому +1

      actually i met this girl and we became friends and she came out first about being interested in me ,,,i wanted to just have fun and leave but then there was a sudden change of heart out of nowhere on her side claiming she wasn't interested anymore then i realised that i too was in to her and had already fallen for her but was in denial......how do you handle such a situation???

    • @abuabrahamkamara426
      @abuabrahamkamara426 2 роки тому

      Holding all things constant, money is Very important in any relationship. No one should tell you that, you don't need Money to get someone you love.

    • @jivonstephen6677
      @jivonstephen6677 2 роки тому

      If you're not sure after the first encounter with whoever, prioritize when you are prioritized and mirror image their interest in you to whoever in the same way till relations get deeper. 🤔 Bread crumbs meh bredda.🇹🇹 Trini love in d house . Thank you 🌞🧘.

  • @elelolo1049
    @elelolo1049 2 роки тому +155

    Ignore them totally. Focus on something new, productive and more rewarding. Make new friends. If he or she shows new interest, ignore them further.

    • @sherifinusah852
      @sherifinusah852 2 роки тому +8

      Red pill 😌

    • @ZiqiHu
      @ZiqiHu 4 місяці тому

      hahahahahah

    • @creeyativwrld7633
      @creeyativwrld7633 9 днів тому

      @@sherifinusah852 hows that red pill i expirenced it i cant even go out with a girl cause of her countless excuses and she wanted to be my friend

  • @HarMageddo
    @HarMageddo 2 роки тому +25

    We've all been in the friend zone before. If you remove yourself at some point in time they will come looking for you

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... Рік тому +25

    When you are PUT in the friendzone, as opposed to putting yourself there, its because you were utterly unaware of the signals the woman was giving you that she was, in fact, attracted, and you didn't pick up on it. Then again, a woman should REALISE that the majority of men DON'T RECOGNISE ANY signals, and should make it damn obvious she likes him.

  • @MickeyAgyei
    @MickeyAgyei 3 роки тому +72

    All good point. But sometimes I feel if you are their type they will take you out of the friend zone themselves. I personally never believed in fighting for love. I went straight to where i was accepted and never looked back.

  • @mauriceoduor4126
    @mauriceoduor4126 3 роки тому +61

    The one about pulling back and making yourself less available actually works. I've tried it a few times. It's hard to do, but it gets easier the more you practice it. Just hang tough and be disciplined about saying No and making yourself less available.

  • @westpalmtom1143
    @westpalmtom1143 Рік тому +16

    I was in a relationship with a girl when she ghosted me. Instead of freaking out I went no contact. It worked and we reconciled after roughly 7 weeks. Two months later, she told me she was too busy and wanted to be friends. I told her I could not possibly be friends with her and that I had told her that from day one. Then she tried to tell me that she always thought we were just friends. Even though it killed me, I told her goodbye.

  • @mikelantern148
    @mikelantern148 2 роки тому +28

    Wise words. Loneliness can have you trying and trying knowing deep inside they're not into you. Save yourself abd move on.

  • @thc1859
    @thc1859 2 роки тому +61

    "absence makes the heart grow fonder" 🌹
    Her choice of words is like fine 🍷❤️

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... Рік тому +1

      Unless she doesn't care in the first place.

    • @TrapHausCreo
      @TrapHausCreo Рік тому +5

      “scarcity creates value”

    • @Treeshousepodcast
      @Treeshousepodcast Рік тому

      she is very smart with words

    • @widM_
      @widM_ 9 місяців тому

      you know that's an old saying, she didn't make this up

    • @thc1859
      @thc1859 9 місяців тому

      @@widM_ I didn't say she did, I just like that she chose to say it.

  • @LYIZA
    @LYIZA 3 роки тому +75

    Jessica's voice is so soothing and the accent is everything
    Much love

  • @carlosestrada51
    @carlosestrada51 2 роки тому +29

    I really enjoyed watching this video! It gives me hope for a successful relationship in the future. I’m 24 years old, still young, and I have autism. I’m on the high functioning part of the spectrum. I’m making an effort to putting myself out there so I can meet lots of people and continue making new friends. I recently joined a group for young adults at a church and I’m really enjoying it. I’ve already made some friends there. But I’m also hoping for more/other opportunities. I’m watching a lot videos on how to get out of the friend zone and I really liked this one as I’m hoping to one day find the right person to be with later on in life. I’m watching these also because I absolutely love myself and want to be successful in life! And I’ll NEVER give up or lose hope because I know there’s someone out there for everyone and everyone deserves true love. And I know someone will love me for who I am. I have absolutely no doubt about it.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 роки тому +7

      You will find her. ❤

  • @ericvalverderosado2046
    @ericvalverderosado2046 Рік тому +7

    Some time i tried transforming into someone really cold and distant as soon as i was friendzoned…saw the desperation in her eyes, but she gotta know she cannot underestimate your expectations and still believe she can have the benefits of your affection and attention…
    Some of my friends resorted to more chaotic tactics like going out to parties and taking selfies with many female friends hugging and shit…they posted that in Close Friends and the rest was done by the target's best friends…women get really itchy when they get attention from a man they ignore and suddenly that attention is given to another woman…they will say stupid things about the man, blame everything on him and really be moody about the situation…and thats when men should ignore any kind of indirect move from women until they get fed up enough to go straight to the point…

  • @Oyzatt
    @Oyzatt 3 роки тому +36

    Never sell yourself short people will take you for granted. Great tips jessica 💝

  • @africhoicetv6310
    @africhoicetv6310 3 роки тому +46

    She is my favorite UA-cam girl. Just so you know everybody!

  • @MrTheprince81
    @MrTheprince81 3 роки тому +5

    Very true 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾.. great advice... I am rather a straight forward man... straight in 🎯.. dont got time for all this and that... if you my woman then yr word is my command... if you not then, nothing, zero, zip, nada.. ALL OR NOTHING...

  • @JaksA_1
    @JaksA_1 Рік тому +5

    The way you have explained the first type of friend zone, that how exactly am going through right.. Thank you, this video has really touched and learnt something from it,..

  • @LoneWolf_fxTrader
    @LoneWolf_fxTrader 3 роки тому +2

    Exactly what I needed... thanks Jess

  • @vickymawutor5213
    @vickymawutor5213 3 роки тому +2

    Great content. Thanks Jess

  • @fortheculture5147
    @fortheculture5147 3 роки тому +2

    Jess with all the tips

  • @dmeads5663
    @dmeads5663 Рік тому

    You’re like the big sister I never had, thanks!

  • @theresesuirumarie2428
    @theresesuirumarie2428 3 роки тому +4

    Jessica your advice can change a lot of lives. Thanks so much

  • @katusabederrick5621
    @katusabederrick5621 2 роки тому +3

    Just what i wanted. points taken clearly. Thanks Jessica.

  • @victorygeorge6458
    @victorygeorge6458 3 роки тому +13

    Well spoken Jessica. You are incredibly inspiring.

  • @twumbronyah6111
    @twumbronyah6111 2 роки тому +3

    Jessica, you truly genius in relationship 💕

  • @TheBetslipMovie
    @TheBetslipMovie 3 роки тому +3

    Truth Lives here ... Jess said it all ❤
    Big ❤.

  • @bivoc5411
    @bivoc5411 Рік тому +4

    You've been of help to me 🙂, especially now that I'm fed up in 3yrs friend zone

  • @munashejmuteragombe6783
    @munashejmuteragombe6783 2 роки тому +2

    Greatly appreciate this it really worked out 🤗🤗🤗

  • @prayerchalet4748
    @prayerchalet4748 2 роки тому +1

    So wise Sis! I wish I knew all these tricks before! God bless you!

  • @rhemamensah6582
    @rhemamensah6582 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks Aunty Jess🥰

  • @khamispeterdaniel5201
    @khamispeterdaniel5201 3 роки тому +2

    I really love everything about you especially your wonderful voice it's soo clear

  • @nicksnic9641
    @nicksnic9641 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you very much,this is what I wanted jessica.am a victim of all this.i have learnt something and with immediate effect I have to apply this.

  • @danielteyehuago1633
    @danielteyehuago1633 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing it with us... I'm enjoying it

  • @abellungu9713
    @abellungu9713 3 роки тому +1

    I choose to watch ads to support you. Amazing.!

  • @munashejmuteragombe6783
    @munashejmuteragombe6783 2 роки тому +2

    You are one In a thousand your tips really works 💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @kennedymulinda1025
    @kennedymulinda1025 2 роки тому

    Good one Jessica

  • @RodriguezMiramontes-lv4th
    @RodriguezMiramontes-lv4th 9 місяців тому

    That really helps a lot.

  • @user-et9rk8mv9u
    @user-et9rk8mv9u 10 місяців тому

    This is a good advice, I have been doing that for a long time.Thanks for the advice🙏🙏🙏

  • @Andy_Best
    @Andy_Best 2 роки тому +3

    Jessica you have always been the light to my day, your voice and choice of words brings joy....
    The knowledge I acquire from you have made me stand out amongst my colleagues and am always happy to refer them to you.
    Thanks so much for being a blessing jess

  • @emmanuelchukwu8331
    @emmanuelchukwu8331 Рік тому

    Absence Make The Heart Go Fonder.

  • @tamerakennedy6893
    @tamerakennedy6893 2 роки тому

    Good advice

  • @steveopolot9114
    @steveopolot9114 2 роки тому

    Thank for advice God bless u

  • @Oshiko_Sam
    @Oshiko_Sam 3 роки тому +1

    Perfecto Jherss , your points are so solid and so true. Guys try it and thank Jherss forever. God bless you for your wisdom shared . Too mooorch African international you tuber

  • @vadisoncarneiro9488
    @vadisoncarneiro9488 3 роки тому +20

    I wish I could marry a woman like you 🙂 coz you’re definitely the model of the girl i want to get old with and have a family 🙏🏽👌🏽

  • @Sesflamez
    @Sesflamez 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 2 роки тому

    Thankyou Jessica you're my favourite u tuber
    Kevin xx

  • @Castanoswife
    @Castanoswife 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Jessica 😍
    See ya later

  • @austinboateng6971
    @austinboateng6971 3 роки тому +3

    The problem here may be due to a lack of personality or lack of reputation but regardless of... being trapped in ignorance is never a helpful place to be as life offers us many privileges yet not everyone is positioned to discern or grasp these opportunities and let them slip away. Some people have purposely tuned out of good tips and as a result, they’ve missed out on so many red flags.
    It's time to make a declaration that you “Deserve Better” and use this moment to create an environment where people will think highly of you. If you are someone in such a predicament and need professional help, well look no further. Jessica’s UA-cam channel is filled with PRO TIPS videos for your overall personal growth and development. She’s an expert worth listening to. Thank you, Jess our Psychology therapist.

  • @RDCFemmes
    @RDCFemmes 3 роки тому +1

    you have a captivating voice

  • @craigenglish60
    @craigenglish60 2 роки тому

    Awesome!...

  • @SHOWERSTVBIZ
    @SHOWERSTVBIZ 3 роки тому +1

    Learnt a lot. Keep them coming Jessy.

  • @debbiea_awurabena
    @debbiea_awurabena 2 роки тому +1

    😭😭😭😭 I don't know watching her makes me emotional..
    Like tears of Joy.
    I just love her from age 12 to age 24 and the lover is getting deeper.
    My daily inspiration
    My supa role model.
    Much love miss Jess.
    This is actually what wanted to hear ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marvinkalela3528
    @marvinkalela3528 Рік тому

    100% you have nailed it 😘😘💯

  • @Accordforex
    @Accordforex 4 місяці тому

    Your videos has really helped me in lot of ways 👏

  • @danielteyehuago1633
    @danielteyehuago1633 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing it with us

  • @SanniVictor
    @SanniVictor 3 роки тому

    This video here is another Banger! She nailed it.

  • @frederickattafuah8651
    @frederickattafuah8651 2 роки тому +1

    Gosh your voice and accent is top top

  • @ishanjones7433
    @ishanjones7433 2 роки тому

    Am from way in jamaica I love what u doing it's help me alot.

  • @djscratchghana
    @djscratchghana 3 роки тому +1

    Fantastic!

  • @ibrahimsamuelofficial4188
    @ibrahimsamuelofficial4188 3 роки тому +2

    CONGRATULATIONS on 70K subscribers

  • @Chakaaaa
    @Chakaaaa 3 роки тому +4

    Cool background

  • @raymondndlovu893
    @raymondndlovu893 2 роки тому

    Good one and very helpful 😉.

  • @knowledgeandmotivation37
    @knowledgeandmotivation37 3 роки тому +2

    Well said ma Biker girl👏👏

  • @frankwoode7885
    @frankwoode7885 3 роки тому

    This is apor kronkron!
    Cheers from Koftown Jess!

  • @isaacjohnson2754
    @isaacjohnson2754 3 роки тому

    Appreciate luv

  • @anythingstuff4605
    @anythingstuff4605 3 роки тому

    Great tips 💡

  • @PamphileJonathan
    @PamphileJonathan 3 роки тому +2

    You’re the best, girl. I’m glad I subscribed to you 😄.

  • @marie-anneditchfield1640
    @marie-anneditchfield1640 3 роки тому +1

    Splendid!
    You my mentor and admire you always
    Thanks Jess..😍

  • @khulanimabaso7835
    @khulanimabaso7835 2 роки тому

    GAME✊ the amount of game you have i on another level🔝

  • @ndaeyogeorge9475
    @ndaeyogeorge9475 2 роки тому

    Thanks my boss

  • @manallove1
    @manallove1 3 роки тому

    from your voice you deserves to be a journalist

  • @gustaviagivens1218
    @gustaviagivens1218 3 роки тому +10

    Hi Jessica I have been giving the same advice to my female and male friends who had been stu in the friend zone and it totally works I totally agree with you I like your UA-cam channel 👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @Necky.N
    @Necky.N 3 роки тому +1

    Interesting topic

    • @Necky.N
      @Necky.N 3 роки тому +1

      @ jessi check your IG and get back to me please

  • @paulbethel9813
    @paulbethel9813 Рік тому

    I personally get a kick out of keeping women in the friends zone. It gives me the desired freedom so I can walk away whenever I want. But, it will be splendid while it lasts

  • @itumelengmosailane1192
    @itumelengmosailane1192 3 роки тому

    This is red pill lessons I'm already in it

  • @kodakGEEKVERSE
    @kodakGEEKVERSE 2 роки тому

    C'mon Jessica you are the best 😙 I love you ❤️

  • @obaayaaasante9662
    @obaayaaasante9662 3 роки тому +1

    the background alone,...its just right for this Val's day😊😉

  • @paulonyango5252
    @paulonyango5252 3 роки тому +4

    I like the intelectuality in Jess you never dissapoint when it comes to contents

  • @one_man_no_chop
    @one_man_no_chop 2 роки тому

    i like listening to her she is good

  • @Uwa64
    @Uwa64 3 роки тому

    Jessica you're always hitting the nail on the right side akwaba

  • @westpalmtom1143
    @westpalmtom1143 Рік тому

    Enjoyed the video though.

  • @EngineerObed
    @EngineerObed Рік тому

    God bless you mum

  • @ravenhadassah1720
    @ravenhadassah1720 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks dear
    Love you

  • @zackmarvel8582
    @zackmarvel8582 3 роки тому +3

    Hey Jessica, please make a video on fitness for men 😭😭😭

  • @Wolf88888
    @Wolf88888 7 місяців тому

    I am a board certified therapist. The challenge with "escaping the friend zone" is that it is like conducting effective therapy--in other words, you are attempting to create a fundamental shift in a person's deep-seated thoughts and feelings. Just know, trying to do this verbally is destined to fail. In fact, talking will make things much worse. The change cannot happen at the level of the head; rather, it must occur in the heart. First, it's important to understand that the only reason a person might view you as "just a friend" is because they have placed you into that mental category. In order to get them to view you differently, you must provide them with often repeated experiences that powerfully contradict their preconceptions about you. The very tricky part about this is that those experiences must at least feel completely organic, so the person reaches the conclusion on their own that you are actually a very desirable potential mate.

  • @stephenterngu2265
    @stephenterngu2265 3 роки тому +2

    her eyes are like paradise that never dies

  • @wealthybabs
    @wealthybabs 3 роки тому +5

    Jessica to the world, How I wish I can collab with you and help my channel grow.

  • @ThePurplePillPerspective
    @ThePurplePillPerspective 3 роки тому +1

    Truthfully, most women who have befriended a guy will normally keep him there. But this was great advice Jessica. Cheers!!

  • @trevorhunte2545
    @trevorhunte2545 2 роки тому

    Hi Jessica I enjoyed your channel on u tube it's very informative I do follow you a lot

  • @sarahboakye7691
    @sarahboakye7691 3 роки тому +11

    Herhh this topic!!!!!!
    Especially for females, it's hard for us to take steps further when in that position... thanks for this video Jessy🙏❤️

  • @mohamednoor4290
    @mohamednoor4290 2 роки тому

    Ooh my dear i like your vídeo s like you also that is me when i see you i feel happy keep up

  • @kisskadri545
    @kisskadri545 2 роки тому

    Tnx you

  • @efeogheneojigho6283
    @efeogheneojigho6283 2 роки тому +1

    To all my bros out there... I know its hard ... when you stop talking to the one you really like... The heart aches alot... But bruh just do it.. i did this.. it hurts.. they never texted back or called.. i came back once in a while but eventually you'll heal

  • @williedrogers6046
    @williedrogers6046 2 роки тому

    You're growing on me like moss!!

  • @toughycampbel5330
    @toughycampbel5330 3 роки тому +3

    I love your voice. Friend zone is not as bad as people say. I have been in the friends zone a lot and things work out for me sometimes

  • @kwakuagyapong5074
    @kwakuagyapong5074 2 роки тому

    Really Jessica l can't stop watching your videos. Really appreciate you for your tips. Thanks a lot

  • @patrickannanashitey5593
    @patrickannanashitey5593 3 роки тому

    Hi Jessica, with all due respect l do like the way you speak, especially the accent of ur english,Wow!u are sooo wonderful. Thanks for great job doing, may the most High God guide nd protect you..Que tenga buenas noches, Adiós...

  • @Goldcoaststudios4
    @Goldcoaststudios4 3 роки тому +3

    You are talking about me miss jessica,all my life i have been friend zoned thank u for this video.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +1

      Glad to be of help

    • @Goldcoaststudios4
      @Goldcoaststudios4 3 роки тому

      @@JessicaOS It my first time on your channel and I did not think twice before subscribing and I got my first reply from a youtuber on the first day on her channel which is my first ever reply. Thank u very much 🙏

  • @olumuyiwaojo3532
    @olumuyiwaojo3532 3 роки тому +10

    Hearing your voice is enough for me. It makes the message sinks in, any time and any day. Keep the flag flying girl.

  • @Expensive-op6pn
    @Expensive-op6pn 3 роки тому +2

    The investment part is where I'm at. I need to get the guy to invest to be more common. Fingers crossed 🤞. Thanks for this. Just stumbled on your channel. Will definitely subscribe.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  3 роки тому +1

      Appreciate the support

  • @timewithbel
    @timewithbel 3 роки тому +2

    You are the MVP right now 👌 🤩🤩🤩