@@TheGhostofAbigailMillsYeah, but you know those kids are 100% sure that it is everyone else's fault. With parents like that, with behaviour like that.
@@keithklassen5320 Fair. Who you're raised by definitely influences your viewpoint. I hope they have some other positive role models in their life, because with parents like that, they need all the help they can get
Losing my mind because THAT'S NOT WHERE STORY #1 ENDS!!! There have been other updates and they're absolutely wild, the police have to get involved and everything!
Wait, there were a bunch more updates about the cabin when I read that story several weeks ago. The BILs break in, break the gate, get arrested, he pressed charges, etc.
I know a couple of guys like that, sadly, is something pretty common in my country (Argentina) although is not the only country with this problem of course.
The last story had one more update, last I checked. The husband's girlfriend reached out asking to meet, and OP did so out of morbid curiosity. Girlfriend gives some context to the affair, then ASKS OP WHEN SHE IS MOVING OUT. Turns out the husband told his girlfriend that OP was a former drug addict he rescued off the streets, their house was his, and he was generously allowing her to live in it until she found another place to live. OP had to show her a photo of herself as a child with her grandma at the house to prove it was hers, and even then the girlfriend didn't seem to fully believe her. Last I heard, husband and his girlfriend were living together in girlfriend's small apartment.
Wow stringing along the affair partner with outrageous lies about the OP… this husband already was a nightmare and apparently it wasn’t enough for him 😅
She didn’t believe her, she still believes she was a drug addict without a high school diploma making $16,000 a year😂😂 even after the first conversation! She told her she would pay her about $17,000 to move out by the end of the month.😂 I guess that piss op off, so she showed her all kinds of proof like the degrees and bachelor she earned, she even showed her how much money she makes a year and proof that the house is hers. Oh, and she gave her proof of a drug test.😂 then the ex husband finally admitted he was lying, he told his dumb little side piece that he only lied to her to make her feel better without sleeping with the married man. Because he didn’t want her feeling bad. It’s disgusting how he is homewrecker feelings matter more. Oh she was a virgin that’s why he caught his ex low value. Because he was someone first.😂😂
The last story: That woman is a Goddess. She has and does so much for such a minute appreciation. This woman is going above and beyond. She's truly legendary.
There's so much more to the story, turns out 'golf' wadlsnt 'golf' the ex husband had told his girlfriend who is pregnant that the house was his and that apparently he hadn't left her because she had a drug addiction that's why she still had the house, that's what he told the girlfriend, that last story is wild, it's the story that just kept giving
@@The_prophet_james_of_elia wait I need to find the update now. That was the most interesting story of the episode. I called my friend about it. That woman is a gem ✨💎 ✨
Now I remember this story. When he got to the part about her freshening up and stuff, that's when it clicked. Man, what an asshole that ex is, not only to oop, but the woman he impregnated. She sounded so naive, that it was sad!
There are like 8 updates to the first story! - sisters and brother in laws were renting out their vacation cabin without OP's knowledge - they were going broke and relied on that income, sold vehicles and jet skis - the brother in laws broke into vacation home and caused 4k in damage - lawyers and police involved - they paid for damage but now there were charges and restraining orders - charges dropped for restraining orders -Oldest sister and BIL filed for bankruptcy and divorce Now I can see why they're bitter. Dealing with these people
The last story ended so well for OP: She ended up with an uncontested divorced, a 40% raise, and a bunch of great roommates in her 5 bedroom 7-figure Victorian house. Now she's just experiencing the happy/calm single life she missed out on after college. Plus, her conscious is clear because she gave her ex's pregnant mistress all the documentation to prove her ex is a fraud.
Thinking your someone's soul mate dosnt mean you have to be sexualy intimate with them she could be confused they could be soul mates maybe bree thinks thus means she should be in love with him
The last story is EXACTLY why dating in todays world is so terrifying. You could be married for 10 years and all of a sudden, they turn out to be a totally different person. I’ve experienced this sort of thing so many times while dating. Few dates in and out of nowhere, a switch flips. But yeah last story had me quite literally out of my seat yelling at the screen.
That happened to me also. Thankfully the facade started to crack at year 2. I've heard of stories of people falling into that kind of relationship for far too long. It is terrifying to know that.
I had a friend who was a deist and very progressive, and less than a year later she had gone full crazy Catholic and pick-me incel. All because her ex mistreated her.
I remember that last story from when it first blew up. She had about "a million" marriage proposals from every corner of the internet. Gamer, cooks like an actual pro, isn't crazy materialistic, long distance runner, in great shape as a result, and banking 6 figures...that guy is a stone cold idiot.
He was clearly insecure. Some people need to feel they are superior to their partner. But, yeah, she had all that AND she loved him. She wanted it to work out.
Behind every hot girl is a guy who is sick of her bullshit. Just because she has some good qualities (according to her, you don't know if she is a liar) doesn't mean she isn't a nightmare to be around full time.
@@ramsfan515 Maybe so, but calling someone a low value woman because they weren’t a virgin when you met them - isn’t that gross??? Isn’t that fucking strange???
The last story also has more updates! They did get divorced and he had told his girlfriend a TON of lies about OP (that she was a high school dropout, that he owned the house and was 'giving her time' to vacate, that she was an addict, etc) that the OP sent her documentation to disprove. Girlfriend did believe her, but stayed with him anyway because she was pregnant and he'd convinced her that his lies were for the best or some bullshit.
I feel bad for "Amy", she is about to get royally screwed over through no real fault of her own, she's just young and inexperinced in life. I'd bet her wants her to be a SAHM, completely ruin her chances of advancing in her career all to leave her for a new model when shes considered "old". He will get his Karma but I don'tv think it'll be in a timely fashion
Gotta say the “low value woman” comment made my jaw drop. Was not expecting that at all, and good for her for standing her ground and living her best life.
@@workout4780 "How can others have different values from me?" It's not rocket science, bud. Most of us don't choose our values. They're just forced onto us. I'm not trying to justify what they're saying, but the whole system of valuing people based on their accomplishments is incredibly stupid.
I mean, relationships aren't transactions and people don't have a finite 'value,' BUT ALSO she pays half for bills and dates, her hobbies include cooking you dinner and staying in shape, and she likes to stay home and play with the computer SHE BOUGHT HERSELF without bothering you for spending your time out or getting insecure? Dude turbo-fumbled for no reason
I lost my goddamn mind hearing that. Never have I heard a story that made my boil before…another story has but that “low value woman” comment drove me up… A woman earning 100k a year, sounds like a dream, someone you praise, and telling her she’s low valued to me is like a guy shouting a racial slur in public, pure shock and awe at the AUDACITY!
… hmmmm. Here on April 1st. This whole video was about Marriages. It’s titles “You Won’t See This Coming” Hmmmmm. IM SO LOST THERES SO MUCH EVIDENCE THAT PROVES ITS REAL BUT SO MUCH THAT ALLUDES TO A PRANK
The last updates (not in this video) made me feral scream for real...... i can't.. ugh: Virgin gf got pregnant. He told her he has a vasectomy to avoid wearing protection. Told her it must be a miracle baby. Told her the ex wife was an addict, and graciously staying in HIS house until she could find a place. Ex and gf met and ex had to disprove all of that with proof.
@@mikmikDNA agreed. It honestly sounds like they've had a toxic "almost together just not all the way" kinda relationship from the beginning... after hearing how he's absolutely fine with all the ways she's been orienting her life around him (regardless of her poor fiance), it just doesn't add up that he'd be that careless.
WOW that couple at the end literally have the dream life bro that is INSANE. Im just baffled at how people with so much success and so much happiness if they were just CONTENT can just throw so much away, literally makes me speechless. As a man, we do not claim him. Insane
So, as soon as I heard that that woman's husband was all of a sudden bitching about her spending her money on herself, I knew it smelled of Tate. This is becoming a real phenomenon where men in healthy, normal relationships are ruining them because they're being told women are supposed to grovel at their feet and be personal servants and mothers to them rather than being a partner. I feel really bad for anyone married to a guy getting radicalized because it completely taints the entire marriage.
My whole body like shivered with rage 😵 The way the Tate cult is destroying so many relationships and radicalising men to the point where they turn into completely different people is so scary. Honestly there should be PSA's about warning signs to watch out for that a guy is being brainwashed.
@@Russelshackleford Misogynists and douchebags have always existed, but the term "low value woman" gives it away. That's why Courtney said he's been listening to the wrong podcasts when that word came up. That is manosphere speak.
Im so glad to see a story where the parents stick up for their kids. The pool story is a great example of "well if it isn't the consequences of my own actions". OP's sisters and their brat kids needed to learn they don't rule the world. EDIT: just listened to the second update WTF. Entitlement out the wahzoo.
And I bet you anything if he did start living with a woman who was very polished and glam, within a week he'd be complaining about how much time she took to get ready in the morning, how much money she spent on clothes and salon treatments, etc., etc.
Also type A and career orientated with interesting hobbies. Their hobbies are more interesting because they aren't using a bunch of their time to care of him.
@@ttintagelyes yes yes! That’s what these types do - complain about not enough makeup but also too much makeup, complain about women working and making as much or more than them but also about them staying home with the kids and relying on the husband’s income. This woman was doing it all and she still wasn’t good enough. But his mistress who think she stole him will be the one dealing with the karma when she’s the next low value woman.
Went on a spring break trip with a guy friend and a girl friend. She was very pretty and got a lot of attention. By the end of the trip, guy was so tired of waiting for her to do her beauty routines.
@@potatoman7594OP ended up meeting with the girlfriend who’s pregnant, and he also told the girlfriend a bunch of lies about OP including that OP’s house is actually his, and he’s just staying with her out of pity.
1:13:24 you can see the thoughts forming in Court's head, must throw something, then all of a sudden Trevor isn't even that surprised "I done lost me dang shoe"
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. With the reasons she gave why she picked her fiancé, OP for sure fulfills much of that. This feels like another side of the coin where some women go after married men because they have literal "proof" of being good husband material... (The truly goood ones keep being good husbands out of their grasp and the not so great ones they manage to destroy that illusion all by themselves).
Yeah, one that is ready-made, missing the perfect role for her to fill. It's kinda f'ed up, especially from the other guy's perspective. He was essentially left for another
theres a lot of red flags from B that indicate that she needs serious therapy, the idealization being one of them. Glad I'm not the only one who caught it. She has this fantasy in her head....
The last story has a few more updates as well. The husband’s gf is pregnant and was being lied to by the husband, who was telling her that OP was a high school drop out and drug addict. They got divorced and OP told the gf the truth about everything, but unfortunately she’s staying with him :( OP says she doing good now though
OP was always going to be fine. She's the BAMF in this relationship not him. Shame about the other girl. Hopefully she wises up some day an realizes she deserves better.
I know the updates were wild. The poor girlfriend is only 24. OP’s ex is her first boyfriend. She was a virgin and bows she’s pregnant by him. It’s so fucking sad she is being manipulated and one day she’s going to wake up and feel trapped (if she doesn’t feel trapped already).
So, for anyone wondering, the first story has A LOT more updates. From what I can remember, the BIL's drive up to the vacation home, break the locks, damage the property and are arrested (I think it also turned out one of them was secretly unemployed). OP starts looking into sueing them. The BIL's and sisters pay for only a portion of the damages as a way to get out of a lawsuit. OP gets new locks and hires a local in the town who does daily security checks of the properties. I think the whole family pretty much disowns the sisters as well and I think he is still sueing them?
I was reading that earlier- no lawsuit but a restraining order, but the restraining order might not keep one of them away because they declared bankruptcy AFTER draining their parents for every penny they could!
I can't tell you how much these talks about emotions, communication, and relationships are helping me. I'm on my own journey through therapy, trying to build my relationship with my wife to be better and stronger, as well as going no contact with my family. It's so great to hear you guys talk so calmly, thoroughly, and intelligently about emotions and relationships. Thank you.
In that second one, OP's friend consciously or subconsciously absolutely created that drama. She mentioned moving state because he needed rescuing after losing his wife. What's sinister is that even if unintentionally, she saw his vulnerability as an avenue for her own need to be rescued, because she saw a grieving friend as more likely to take her in. If she wanted to avoid bringing more drama into OP's life, she would have just called off the wedding without specifying why. She absolutely wanted a reason to end up at OP's house that night.
She also lied to her fiance as to what transpired during the face-to-face talk. The fiance said "steal her away", I suspect she told the fiance that OP made a move on her.
reading that story about Bree irks me because I feel she subconsciously wants to play mommy but does not want to put in any work and will just be the same flaky person. she is taking advantage of OP at his most vulnerable state and is trying to bring his daughter to her side. if I were OP I would cut ties with her and say go get some therapy and best of luck to you.
That last story was wild! I love that she was smart enough to come up with a plan that showed the husband's true colors without question. She's absolutely right: nothing she could have done would ever have been good enough for him, and the fact that she learned that right away saved her so much time. She sounds like an all-around awesome person who deserves so much better
The first story actually just recently got another update. OP hired a property manager to deal with the vacation house, installed cameras, the Brothers in Law broke into the house, got arrested, OP almost ended up suing them for damages but settled out of court so long as they agreed to pay for the damages and never come to the house again and it turns out the parents emptied their 401k to help the crap sisters with their money problems. It really escalated.
Why would B even bring OP up when breaking it off with her fiancé? Leave him out of it. She sounds like she enough reasons to break up without dragging her friend into it when he clearly didn’t reciprocate.
Yeah that’s what I thought too. I’m also suspicious because SHE told OP what she told her ex, but the ex behaved as if they were having an affair. I’d love to know what B actually told him.
yeah it seems dangerously manipulative? almost like she's pushing him subsconciously into the role of her boyfriend by telling her actual boyfriend she has feelings for him. that OP needs to cut her off immediately because she is clearly not an emotionally stable person at this time in her life, and his daughter needs emotional stability.
with the financial infidelity story i agree SO heavily with courtney’s point about not feeling forced to put in effort to your appearance at all times with your partner. I’m a goth and I love doing the full makeup and outfits but that’s a lot of work, so getting to dress down in a hoodie and shorts with NO makeup on when im just chilling with my partner is so nice, i can’t imagine not having that in my life.
Agreed, even leaving aside the roller coaster of ridiculous manosphere bullshit, he was essentially demanding that her money go towards pleasing him. Knowing how those jerks think, i suspect some of it was also concern that a woman who has enough money to drop on a full gaming setup is a woman who's not financially dependent (yes, 200K salary, but most of it went into their joint account) and couldn't be as easily controlled.
Story 2, he doesn’t say he isn’t interested in dating her, he keeps saying stuff like not right now/I’m not ready/etc., she has entrenched herself in his and his child’s life knowing that he’s not going to just kick her out of his child’s life.
I picked up on that language too, I think he is into her and is maybe too afraid to lock it in yet. Would not be surprised if as of the last update they were actually sleeping together and he just didn't mention it in the post
@@potatoman7594 I know and I'm saying I wouldn't be surprised if they had hooked up once or more since and he left that out, dating yeah I dont think they are
@@katmiaou Right, he enjoys her company and having someone around that he’s comfortable and familiar with but at this point knowing how she feels and not setting hard boundaries he’s breadcrumbing her, and it seems unintentionally intentional.
Yeah. I'm trying to put myself in the bride's POV and I just think, "Man, I'm going to be so sad whenever I look at those photos and remember that it's not even me in them." I'm so happy they postponed. She deserves a wedding she'll be able to remember fondly.
Read Jennette McCurdy’s autobiography “I’m Glad My Mom Died.” It is completely believable for a mom to view their children as their property, as dolls to manipulate and play with for their own enjoyment. And it often turns their children into broken people if they can’t escape that environment.
@@MrLegendofLP I did! Which was equally heartbreaking and so powerful. So many of us weren’t brought into this world with loving, healthy parents (card carrying member of that club).
My cousin and her (now) husband are both models so they are pretty naturally beautiful people. Weeks before their wedding, he had a bike accident where he basically face planted onto pavement. He spent half of the wedding in a neck brace and had scars on his face. They made it part of their vows that it was a reminder of valuing life and the time they had together, and how they loved and supported each other.
With Story 2, I remember seeing it on reddit and thinking "Oh yeah, B is completely in love with OP". Everything he described her saying or doing sounded like the actions of a woman waiting in the wings for the "Man of her dreams" to notice her. They drifted apart when he got a serious girlfriend (who wasn't her), I mean... She had a whole ass compromise fiance, made the decision to move to the city of the OP after his wife DIED to be in his life deliberately. She inserted herself directly into his life and basically started playing happy families with him. J being an ass or not (which he kinda was), what B did was not healthy and is honestly worse if it wasn't a conscious decision on her part. Especially after confessing soulmate type love to someone who does not reciprocate that romantic type of love. It's setting them all up for failure.
yeah... i had to check the reddit post to see if there were any more updates because it feels like there's gotta be more to all this. here's hoping things turn out okay
She mostly just finds a reason to side with the woman in any situation. Like there are plenty of situations in which the woman in a relationship is clearly NTA, but previously she's gone so far as to suggest a roommate was sexually harassing his roommate's girlfriend for sleeping in the nude in his private bedroom above the covers and exposing the girlfriend to that nudity when she (after repeatedly being told not to this, that it wasn't okay or consensual and that it was possible she'd end up seeing him naked because that's how he slept) rather than just saying that the girlfriend who kept randomly opening the door to her boyfriend's roommate's bedroom without so much as knocking knowing he slept naked might be to blame or even be sexually harassing him. I'm all for accuracy in discussing these things, but if you listen to Courtney I don't know if there has been a situation on this show where she hasn't found some way, no matter how convoluted to assign the blame to the man involved rather than the woman regardless of which is actually the one misbehaving. That's not emotional intelligence so much as sexism.
girl Courtney has SOME good moments idk most of her talking is just validating/repeating whats already been said which is highly disappointing seeing as though she does have good insights.
The wildest thing about the first story are there are nearly 8 updates to it with the latest being 7 days ago culminating in one of the families completely cleaning out their parents savings to keep their house and ultimately filing for Class 7 Bankruptcy.
I expected so. I didn't read the updates but the way these people were being described, my initial feeling was "Oh no, the parents are in danger. Take them with you and run far far away." as they are easier targets for manipulation and theft than OP.
@@akumayoxiruma Unfortunately the parents did it of their own volition (with a bunch of begging). To put a long story short the older brother and his family had been in dire straits financially for a while, but kept buying expensive things on loan and paying back the loans over time by renting out the vacation home, when they lost access to it they no longer had pretty much any income. They begged and pleaded to be let back in, when it didn't work they broke into the vacation house, got arrested, and used up the last of what they had to post bail and come to an agreement with OP, this meant they had nothing with which to pay their house loans and they nearly had to foreclose, so their mom after weeks of begging gave them the savings they had so the brother and his family wouldn't lose their home. The father kept refusing so as of the current moment there is now also tension between the parents.
The last story has more updates (as does the first one): new girlfriend showed up at the house. She's pregnant and if I remember correctly the affair had been going on for at least 6 months. And she's only 24. So she comes to the house and asks OP when she'll be moving out. She understands that ex has given OP a grace period to pack up and everything, but they need to get the place ready for the baby. Imagine the reaction when OP told her, it's her house.
There is another more updated version than that. She has finalized the divorce + she now has 40% increase in her salary for handling a high tier project + she now has great roommates in her 5 room victorian house. She's also doing much bettee financially, mentally and emotionally. She also got contacted by the girl again while offering $17k to buy so thar she would live but she offered receipts of everything. - Receipts of the house deeds + inheritance - Receipts of her clean drug test record for 5 yrs - Receipts of her college degree, master's degree, senior position + her salaries - Receipts that they are still in a 'healthy relationship' when the girl and hee ex husband are seeing eaxh other. The girl still chose to stay with him and foegive him. OP said it might be because she is almost due and she can't make major decisions at that time and this is the mosr convenient.
The last story threw me into such a rage!!! OMG!!! The husband is the worst person on earth!! 🤬🤬 Honestly he needs something similar to be done to him what he did to her. And to know she wasted 10 years of her life on this piece of trash! 🤦🏻♀️
She didn't waste 10 years with him. He wasted the rest of his life by throwing away everything they had and would've had together because a podcast or someone else in his line of work told him what he should have from a woman. She had good years until she seen the change in him then got out of there and unless he changed something inside of him he's going to do this again and again until there is no one left.
@@Wanttowrite a part of me wants to watch this unfold... Like I'll be a little birdy watching the girlfriend tell him that she's pregnant and thinking that the house is his and then him telling her that it's not... It's actually his ex wife's house and then watching her reaction 😂😂
"I was accused of financial infidelity" Lots of these stories involve loads of narcissism, like the first story, but damn... This dude just oozes with it... o_O
I have so much respect for smosh for going into such discussion on these, and not just passing them off as jokes. The deep cuts can really help people, eve if you don't realize. Thank you, Smosh.
People who expect their significant other to work and full time job and do everything at home as well astound me! So you work and get to go have hobbies, but your significant other has to work and do everything to cater to your wants? Absolutely not.
I'm not even done with the last story and it's blown my mind so badly, I stopped everything to just stare at my phone. I usually listen to these videos while gaming and legitimately stopped, saved my game, and turned off the console. This is insanity.
Not me yelling at the screen during the last story, even before the updates! I just kept yelling, NOPE, You're done, GET OUT. Glad she did! Also love seeing Courtney and Trevor's reactions during those updates - so great!!
being afraid to interact w adults was literally exactly me as a kid. my thought process was i dont even TALK to those people unless they talk to me first. it actually took a lot for me to grow out of and part of why my parents would always end up labelling me as "shy"
Courtney screaming into the mic during the last post was so real lmao. My reaction during that entire section. It's so weird hearing Shayne read stories I've read lol. I've pretty much come across all of these because I've been frequenting the Best of Reddit Updates subreddit for a little over a week. Highly recommend more posts from there for future episodes! (Also, there has been an update to the guy not wanting to be pushed into the pool saga. That one has been wild to follow.)
Everyone's mentioning that isn't how the first story ends... That isn't how the LAST story ends either!! There is so much more involving the husband's mistress!
@@JeonLife93 check u/LadySavings for the updates. Not counting the original post, they covered her "Update" and "Further Update", but didn't cover her "Additional Update", "Latest Update" and "Post-Divorce Update".
I remember the idiot husband from the last story and you’re telling me there was more? So happy this episode covered so many stories I’ve heard, because the comments just gave me some much needed updates.
@@JeonLife93basically his mistress is this young lady in the same program as him who was a virgin and was already knocked up and the husband turning on his wife like this was a desperate ploy to take finances from her and break it off with her because it was getting closer and closer to the baby being due. He has his mistress wrapped around his finger in lies. Told her he was infertile and she’s convinced this means the baby is a gift from God. He also told her that OP’s house is his and that OP was a drug addict, high school drop out that he rescued from the streets and is only temporarily letting her live in the house until she recovers from the divorce. The mistress contacted OP asking when she’d be leaving the house so she wouldn’t be raising her baby in a 1 bedroom apartment and wouldn’t believe OP when she exposed every lie. Eventually she gave the mistress documentation proving the house was hers, her degrees, and her high paying job, and the mistress believed her but is still staying with the ex husband.
As a man who is almost done going through a divorce, the last guy in todays episode makes me feel like I was a saint. For context, my (ex)wife and I just grew apart and we have had a very amicable breakup and divorce. This guy deserves to be taken for every single penny that his wife can get, and she was such a baller with the way that she handled herself.
As someone who isn't married but would like to be one day, the idea of married couples suddenly growing apart makes the whole idea a bit frightening...any advice on how to avoid a situation like that or how it happens in the first place?
I think the last story is literally about two people in a marriage growing apart, though. She's putting in less effort than they had seemed to have established together in their relationship at some point and he's starting to want to ask more than what had been previously agreed based on him feeling that's pushing them away from each other. That's two people moving away from the common arrangement they had at first into one who says she's doing less (which isn't bad, necessarily, but is a significant change) and one who's beginning to want more of his wife than was originally a part of the common agreement they had. That's drifting apart and has been the cause of divorces for god knows how long.
@@sym5340 Know what you want and be incredibly selective with the personality/values of a spouse - long term relationships simply can't rely on lust. Communicate openly and honestly to avoid/deal with resentment on all fronts. Look to emulate relationships you admire and ask for advice. Therapy for everyone.
@@nochannel1q2321 seems so on the surface… it is not. They missed the rest of the updates on the OP’s page. It’s more a story about a woman realizing she was married to a pathological liar.
My mouth is dry now because of the amount of gasping that last story had me doing. What kind of lunatic acts like that to someone they claim to have loved?
I have never watched Smosh after the classic era in my childhood. But I did randomly stumble upon the smosh pit and this show been my favorite ever since then. Shayne is an absolutely magnificent host and storyteller. His charisma singlehandedly attracted me to watching smosh again.
Wow that last story was WILD. My partner loves my cooking, and I know he gets sometimes neglected because of busy seasons in my business, but wow she went above and beyond. I have no words.
@@carolineben-ari2798 I just googled keywords with the word update. In the update the moderator left a link to another follow up that has 2 more updates I think.
The last story has way more updates!!! The mistress and wife meet and she's pregnant, its gets crazy! Find the extra update guys! Call Trevor and Courtney back!
I know that no one from this channel will probably ever see this, but just I'm case you do, I just want to say I've been with my mom to provide end of life care for the last 5 months, and watching these every daturday has been a nice little ray of sunshine for me. It also reminds me there's always someone who has it worse then me. I just want yall to know you really are making a difference in people's lives
oh dude absolutely! most of these red-pilled podcast ppl's real lives contradicts everything they say ON the podcasts! i fully believe most of them know how outrageous some of the things they say are & say shocking stuff bc they know ppl will lose it. grants them more attention
@@witchwhisperss yea like whats his name sneako or something a bunch of kids came up to him spewing shit they learned from his vids and he back tracked so quick with a face that said what have i done telling them not to say that
Man I can't wait for the last story guy to realize how unbelievably easy it's gonna be for his ex to find someone else. Early-30s, hot, good career that brings in good income, a gamer, owns a house that's paid off? She's gonna have a comittment the second she wants one. Not high value my ass.
Yeah! Actually laughed out loud when he said "low value". Like, obviously, you shouldn't call Anyone "Low Value", but a woman in her early 30s making 200k a year, having maxed out her 401(k) , with a house she's paid off.... how is that "Low Value?"😂😂 Oh yeah, I forgot, she wasn't a virgin when they met... and I'm sure this new woman he met at work Is a virgin 🤡🤡🤡
@JokerCrowe apparently she was a hotshot new hire, who he felt threatened by (which means Shayne et al were probably right Hubby wasn't doing as well as wife thought). She had graduated college way early and WAS a naive virgin. She had never had a boyfriend because they wanted casual sex and she wanted more. OPs hubby told her that OP had lots of issues (High school drop out, drug addict, jobless and she was just someone he was helping) and lies about himself (He owned OPs house, he'd had a vasectomy) and that he wanted to marry her.that commitment convinced her to have sex before marriage. This 23 year old (iirc) religious virgin ended up pregnant and he used her pregnancy to tie her to him in so many ways. Her pregnancy was a miracle (remember he claimed to have been surgically sterilized) so obviously God wanted them together. So she was 7 MONTHS pregnant when this story happened.
Last dude in the story had it all , and just threw it all away over pride and fragile ego , may he forever live in regret and a girlfriend who will bleed him dry of all his earnings
Like, the whole thing about women being domestic servants to men is weird and messed up, but if she’s the caretaker and he’s the breadwinner then I can sort of see why he’d say something so stupid. This woman was making just as much bread as him in a stable career. She was a breadwinner AND THE ONLY caretaker, and he was somehow blessing her with his mere presence. That whole “manosphere” bs is just entitled manchild indoctrination, and I can’t say I’m surprised someone from sales fumbled THIS hard because of it. Love and respect to self aware salespeople but the whole finance field is toxic garbage.
As I’m sick and dying, I seriously thank you three (and crew) for putting this out today. I’ve been feeling like total shit all week. This is a nice highlight. edit: much love for the likes. Been playing FF7 Remake to finally beat it in prep for buying Rebirth and this was nice to come back to. ❤️
Dude imagine growing up and learning that you falling into a pool as a kid is the straw that broke your family’s back
That's ALL I could think about. That's a lot of guilt and shame to put on a childhood mishap. All because their parents couldn't be responsible.
@@TheGhostofAbigailMillsYeah, but you know those kids are 100% sure that it is everyone else's fault. With parents like that, with behaviour like that.
@@keithklassen5320 Fair. Who you're raised by definitely influences your viewpoint. I hope they have some other positive role models in their life, because with parents like that, they need all the help they can get
Their parents shittyness broke their family. The pool thing was just the inciting incident.
Losing my mind because THAT'S NOT WHERE STORY #1 ENDS!!! There have been other updates and they're absolutely wild, the police have to get involved and everything!
Right?! I followed this last year and knew that wasn't all of it
Yes!!!!
Right? When Shayne said, no more updates, I literally screamed THERE’S MOREEEE!!!
Also, OP posted an update 7 days ago and it’s a doozy
Yeeeees!! I know the story and it gets wilder and wilder and I wanted to see their reactions!!!
Maybe it's a repost? The one in the video i mean. Idk if that's how reddit works tho.
Wait, there were a bunch more updates about the cabin when I read that story several weeks ago. The BILs break in, break the gate, get arrested, he pressed charges, etc.
OH MY GOD MORE DETAILS PLEASE
Thank you for adding more details! I'm guessing they didn't read it all due to how much time they had already spent on that story. 🤷♀️
and according to the latest update posted 7 days ago the oldest sister and BIL filed for bankruptcy.
well these are filmed in advance so it makes sense that they wouldn't be fully caught up
@s0ngbirble yeah for the last update. The first several were all there before January
"You made chili as a simple dinner" had me in tears, as it reminded me about how I haven't had chili in years because of my financial place.
Hope things get better for you
The last story BAFFLES me. The fact that there are guys out there like that is INSANE
The scariest part is that he clearly didn’t start out that way. He was brainwashed by the manosphere. I hope one day he comes to his senses.
Ikr
especially after TEN YEARS of marriage in a very modern, equal-sounding relationship??
There are also more updates to that story, which are wild too
I know a couple of guys like that, sadly, is something pretty common in my country (Argentina) although is not the only country with this problem of course.
glad to see trevor channeling his inner courtney and courtney channeling their inner little house on the praire
BAHAHH NOOOO
Yesss I love their skirt and hairdo today! The whole vibe is vibing
Not little house on the prairie at all.
@@marissastrickland515 Yeah, her skirt and hair looks great (which it honestly do most of the times)
@@Raevynwing it is just a lil bit
The last story had one more update, last I checked. The husband's girlfriend reached out asking to meet, and OP did so out of morbid curiosity. Girlfriend gives some context to the affair, then ASKS OP WHEN SHE IS MOVING OUT. Turns out the husband told his girlfriend that OP was a former drug addict he rescued off the streets, their house was his, and he was generously allowing her to live in it until she found another place to live. OP had to show her a photo of herself as a child with her grandma at the house to prove it was hers, and even then the girlfriend didn't seem to fully believe her. Last I heard, husband and his girlfriend were living together in girlfriend's small apartment.
WHAT!
Wow stringing along the affair partner with outrageous lies about the OP… this husband already was a nightmare and apparently it wasn’t enough for him 😅
Hoo boy, that one keeps getting crazier wth lol
She didn’t believe her, she still believes she was a drug addict without a high school diploma making $16,000 a year😂😂 even after the first conversation! She told her she would pay her about $17,000 to move out by the end of the month.😂 I guess that piss op off, so she showed her all kinds of proof like the degrees and bachelor she earned, she even showed her how much money she makes a year and proof that the house is hers. Oh, and she gave her proof of a drug test.😂 then the ex husband finally admitted he was lying, he told his dumb little side piece that he only lied to her to make her feel better without sleeping with the married man. Because he didn’t want her feeling bad. It’s disgusting how he is homewrecker feelings matter more. Oh she was a virgin that’s why he caught his ex low value. Because he was someone first.😂😂
He's gonna find out no woman wants to cater to his needs his entire life
Hearing Shayne and Courtney talk about weddings after April 1st really hits differently 🫶😂
Right?? I feel like they did a great job at hiding everything.
😂
Why?
@@wooders2206 they're married
@@destinycox458Oh wow, that’s crazy! I didn’t even know they were together!
The last story: That woman is a Goddess. She has and does so much for such a minute appreciation. This woman is going above and beyond. She's truly legendary.
There's so much more to the story, turns out 'golf' wadlsnt 'golf' the ex husband had told his girlfriend who is pregnant that the house was his and that apparently he hadn't left her because she had a drug addiction that's why she still had the house, that's what he told the girlfriend, that last story is wild, it's the story that just kept giving
@@The_prophet_james_of_elia wait I need to find the update now. That was the most interesting story of the episode. I called my friend about it. That woman is a gem ✨💎 ✨
@@The_prophet_james_of_eliaWhat in the world? He's like a prime example for what happens when your brain falls out of your ear
Now I remember this story. When he got to the part about her freshening up and stuff, that's when it clicked. Man, what an asshole that ex is, not only to oop, but the woman he impregnated. She sounded so naive, that it was sad!
The last story is too much that it's probably just fake. Using terms like "low value woman" to make people angry.
There are like 8 updates to the first story!
- sisters and brother in laws were renting out their vacation cabin without OP's knowledge
- they were going broke and relied on that income, sold vehicles and jet skis
- the brother in laws broke into vacation home and caused 4k in damage
- lawyers and police involved
- they paid for damage but now there were charges and restraining orders
- charges dropped for restraining orders
-Oldest sister and BIL filed for bankruptcy and divorce
Now I can see why they're bitter. Dealing with these people
Link link link
@@The-BananaStand UA-cam doesn't allow links. Google exists though
@@SailHatinSoapthey do allow links
@@isabelleeee7557 I'm not googling it for you. Don't be lazy
@SailHatinSoap you can link it
Story one: just waiting for Shayne to say “As a person who has fallen into a pool and drowned…”
he did what
@@highdefinition450 he drowned in a pool when he was a toddler. He’s talked about it multiple times on the channels over the years.
I was waiting for that too
He made a reference to it at 7:35 lol
@@towzuh I paused it to make the comment and then he said it lol. 😂
“How you doin?” “Good”
I still can’t believe that Courtney and Shane are married noooow! Gooosh. So happy for these two. 🥳
The last story ended so well for OP: She ended up with an uncontested divorced, a 40% raise, and a bunch of great roommates in her 5 bedroom 7-figure Victorian house. Now she's just experiencing the happy/calm single life she missed out on after college. Plus, her conscious is clear because she gave her ex's pregnant mistress all the documentation to prove her ex is a fraud.
thank you so much for the update because i really wanted to know what happened but i was too lazy to look for it myself 💀
It's like Shayne said: she's gonna be fine and sounds to me like she was way better off!
Daaamn, a Victorian house??? Wow
Thinking your someone's soul mate dosnt mean you have to be sexualy intimate with them she could be confused they could be soul mates maybe bree thinks thus means she should be in love with him
@@kellyrmcmahon7893wrong story
The last story is EXACTLY why dating in todays world is so terrifying. You could be married for 10 years and all of a sudden, they turn out to be a totally different person. I’ve experienced this sort of thing so many times while dating. Few dates in and out of nowhere, a switch flips. But yeah last story had me quite literally out of my seat yelling at the screen.
That happened to me also. Thankfully the facade started to crack at year 2. I've heard of stories of people falling into that kind of relationship for far too long. It is terrifying to know that.
Happened to me. Thirteen years in 🤦🏻♀️
Happened to me too 1.5 years in, happily divorced now tho!
I had a friend who was a deist and very progressive, and less than a year later she had gone full crazy Catholic and pick-me incel. All because her ex mistreated her.
Why would this be terrifying in today's world only? Couldn't something like that have happened at any point in time?
Cannot WAIT for shayne's "UPDATE" and the utter chaos that follows it each time
I neeeed the merch on this or “Moving on”
It's funny that Shane had Courtney on an episode that's called you didn't see this coming because they're married now and we did not see that coming
Scrolling just to find this comment!!
I remember that last story from when it first blew up. She had about "a million" marriage proposals from every corner of the internet. Gamer, cooks like an actual pro, isn't crazy materialistic, long distance runner, in great shape as a result, and banking 6 figures...that guy is a stone cold idiot.
You don’t say aha
He was clearly insecure. Some people need to feel they are superior to their partner.
But, yeah, she had all that AND she loved him. She wanted it to work out.
Fair, I too would propose
Behind every hot girl is a guy who is sick of her bullshit. Just because she has some good qualities (according to her, you don't know if she is a liar) doesn't mean she isn't a nightmare to be around full time.
@@ramsfan515
Maybe so, but calling someone a low value woman because they weren’t a virgin when you met them - isn’t that gross??? Isn’t that fucking strange???
“I’m getting goosebumps of rage” is the single best quote I’ve ever heard.
Rage bumps
The last story also has more updates! They did get divorced and he had told his girlfriend a TON of lies about OP (that she was a high school dropout, that he owned the house and was 'giving her time' to vacate, that she was an addict, etc) that the OP sent her documentation to disprove. Girlfriend did believe her, but stayed with him anyway because she was pregnant and he'd convinced her that his lies were for the best or some bullshit.
That story definitely aint true
@@janidu8799that’s what’s I’ve been saying! Sure shitty people exist but it’s just so dramatic that there is no way in hell that that happened
I feel bad for "Amy", she is about to get royally screwed over through no real fault of her own, she's just young and inexperinced in life. I'd bet her wants her to be a SAHM, completely ruin her chances of advancing in her career all to leave her for a new model when shes considered "old". He will get his Karma but I don'tv think it'll be in a timely fashion
Oh my god??? I hope they find the rest then and share on a later update 😮
@@janidu8799it is though. I know them
Anyone watching after Shayne and Courtney’s wedding reveal?
You’re welcome if this comment is how you found out lmaoo
I’m still not convinced it’s not a huge prank…
@@Sentient_Soup Damien confirmed it on stream, and People magazine did a story about the wedding! 100% real! So happy for them
We in fact, did not see that coming
@@eucamongI’m gonna hold out for a while because I genuinely wouldn’t put it past anyone at Smosh for this to be their most elaborate prank yet.
Gotta say the “low value woman” comment made my jaw drop. Was not expecting that at all, and good for her for standing her ground and living her best life.
Like how can a person definitely making at least $100,000 a year and cooks cleans and games be considered low value tf
@@workout4780 "How can others have different values from me?"
It's not rocket science, bud. Most of us don't choose our values. They're just forced onto us. I'm not trying to justify what they're saying, but the whole system of valuing people based on their accomplishments is incredibly stupid.
@@De_SelbyIt is scary that so many people lack the tools to look at the values forced on them and realize that those values are nonsensical.
I mean, relationships aren't transactions and people don't have a finite 'value,' BUT ALSO she pays half for bills and dates, her hobbies include cooking you dinner and staying in shape, and she likes to stay home and play with the computer SHE BOUGHT HERSELF without bothering you for spending your time out or getting insecure? Dude turbo-fumbled for no reason
I lost my goddamn mind hearing that. Never have I heard a story that made my boil before…another story has but that “low value woman” comment drove me up…
A woman earning 100k a year, sounds like a dream, someone you praise, and telling her she’s low valued to me is like a guy shouting a racial slur in public, pure shock and awe at the AUDACITY!
Never would I have guessed that “I avoided being pushed into the pool” turned to “my sisters have been lying and might lose everything”
The levels of domino reveals on that one! And people in the comments seem to be saying there are many more!
@@hernameispekka_Rebecca There's a couple B&E charges, vandalism, and now a bankruptcy. It's WILD
@@hernameispekka_Rebecca by god theres so much more
It keeps going, becomes “my BILs went to jail” and “my sisters family is bankrupt” 😂
There’s at least 5+ more updates. It’s been half a year 😳
Courtney and Trevor are giving off HUGE amounts of farmer energy. I love it
I think on the announcement post someone said they looked like a Mormon couple
me when i farmermaxx
@@WillBinge 😭
It's in honor of the Stardew Valley update
Farmers but fruity
… hmmmm. Here on April 1st.
This whole video was about Marriages.
It’s titles “You Won’t See This Coming”
Hmmmmm. IM SO LOST THERES SO MUCH EVIDENCE THAT PROVES ITS REAL BUT SO MUCH THAT ALLUDES TO A PRANK
and it's all about UPDATES
I'm going crazy
Yessss thank youuuuuu they even have pictures on their Instagram now of them kissing
1:12:34 Courtney's Feral Scream into the mic. Genuinely just thank you. It felt necessary. It felt collective.
absolutely! this was my favorite moment of the episode (followed by her throwing trevor’s shoe)
I missed that 😂
The last updates (not in this video) made me feral scream for real...... i can't.. ugh:
Virgin gf got pregnant.
He told her he has a vasectomy to avoid wearing protection.
Told her it must be a miracle baby.
Told her the ex wife was an addict, and graciously staying in HIS house until she could find a place.
Ex and gf met and ex had to disprove all of that with proof.
this story made my whole body cringe with every word. I would rather die alone than to deal with that as a partner. AAAAAAHHHH
Fr 😂 we were all feeling like that .. she just did it, with his dirt ball ass red pill logic
"I'm getting goosebumps of rage" same Courtney, same
The way Courtney was reactively flipping all over had me dying 😂
If you're going to be married just because 'you're not getting any younger', that's already a huge red flag.
Right... That whole story was just a mess. I feel like OP's therapist has no idea that "Auntie" B is staying over at his place indefinitely
@@nowitchisanisland I don't mean to disrespect the guy, but huge dumb move letting her in his home.
@@mikmikDNA agreed. It honestly sounds like they've had a toxic "almost together just not all the way" kinda relationship from the beginning... after hearing how he's absolutely fine with all the ways she's been orienting her life around him (regardless of her poor fiance), it just doesn't add up that he'd be that careless.
She sounds like sociopath engineering stuff as soon as she found out his wife died.
@@rickylukecage4215 YES. Very, very bad vibes.
WOW that couple at the end literally have the dream life bro that is INSANE.
Im just baffled at how people with so much success and so much happiness if they were just CONTENT can just throw so much away, literally makes me speechless. As a man, we do not claim him. Insane
So, as soon as I heard that that woman's husband was all of a sudden bitching about her spending her money on herself, I knew it smelled of Tate. This is becoming a real phenomenon where men in healthy, normal relationships are ruining them because they're being told women are supposed to grovel at their feet and be personal servants and mothers to them rather than being a partner. I feel really bad for anyone married to a guy getting radicalized because it completely taints the entire marriage.
My whole body like shivered with rage 😵 The way the Tate cult is destroying so many relationships and radicalising men to the point where they turn into completely different people is so scary. Honestly there should be PSA's about warning signs to watch out for that a guy is being brainwashed.
It’s getting as bad as Qanon. Completely upending relationships and families.
This dude is a financial bro, that’s been the culture in that world for decades, this guy probably doesn’t even know who tate is.
@@Russelshackleford Misogynists and douchebags have always existed, but the term "low value woman" gives it away. That's why Courtney said he's been listening to the wrong podcasts when that word came up. That is manosphere speak.
@@Russelshackleford He called her a "low value woman." That is very much a term invented by Reddit mano-sphere.
Im so glad to see a story where the parents stick up for their kids. The pool story is a great example of "well if it isn't the consequences of my own actions". OP's sisters and their brat kids needed to learn they don't rule the world. EDIT: just listened to the second update WTF. Entitlement out the wahzoo.
There are like six more updates on Reddit if you want to read more, don't know how they missed that. It gets absolutely crazy
@@RatOfTheWoods oh shittttt, gonna have to check that out. Thank you!!
@@RatOfTheWoodsthey didn't miss. Just videos are prefilmed.
Parents lowkey ended up getting screwed because of the oldest sister
1:04:52 NOBODY is "effortlessly" polished and glam! He just doesn't see the effort that goes into it because he doesn't live with them!
And I bet you anything if he did start living with a woman who was very polished and glam, within a week he'd be complaining about how much time she took to get ready in the morning, how much money she spent on clothes and salon treatments, etc., etc.
Also type A and career orientated with interesting hobbies. Their hobbies are more interesting because they aren't using a bunch of their time to care of him.
I work in beauty. Can confirm 😂
@@ttintagelyes yes yes! That’s what these types do - complain about not enough makeup but also too much makeup, complain about women working and making as much or more than them but also about them staying home with the kids and relying on the husband’s income. This woman was doing it all and she still wasn’t good enough. But his mistress who think she stole him will be the one dealing with the karma when she’s the next low value woman.
Went on a spring break trip with a guy friend and a girl friend. She was very pretty and got a lot of attention. By the end of the trip, guy was so tired of waiting for her to do her beauty routines.
they posted this knowing in just over a week they’d drop what is either the best april fools prank or a real marriage announcement
ITS A REAL MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENT GUYS
They NEED to do another episode for the first and last stories. There are further updates that are just INSANE
what happened in the last story?
@@potatoman7594OP ended up meeting with the girlfriend who’s pregnant, and he also told the girlfriend a bunch of lies about OP including that OP’s house is actually his, and he’s just staying with her out of pity.
@@katiedid dude literally just can't accept his reality das crazy. its gonna hit him in the face one day.
@@katiedid oh and thanks for replying!
Yeah for real these updates especially on the final story are old too… idk how they didn’t find the updates
1:13:24 you can see the thoughts forming in Court's head, must throw something, then all of a sudden Trevor isn't even that surprised "I done lost me dang shoe"
My favourite part
I love that Courtney had the train of thought "that comment pissed me off -> i need something to throw -> YES, TREVOR'S SHOE"
40:46 I think Auntie B saw what a great dad he is and latched on to the idea of an ideal family.
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. With the reasons she gave why she picked her fiancé, OP for sure fulfills much of that. This feels like another side of the coin where some women go after married men because they have literal "proof" of being good husband material... (The truly goood ones keep being good husbands out of their grasp and the not so great ones they manage to destroy that illusion all by themselves).
Yeah, one that is ready-made, missing the perfect role for her to fill. It's kinda f'ed up, especially from the other guy's perspective. He was essentially left for another
theres a lot of red flags from B that indicate that she needs serious therapy, the idealization being one of them. Glad I'm not the only one who caught it. She has this fantasy in her head....
@@rainestar82 Yeah, the “fantasy” is a great way to put it.
shourtney's thoughts on the last story are wonderful to see now that we know they're married
The last story has a few more updates as well. The husband’s gf is pregnant and was being lied to by the husband, who was telling her that OP was a high school drop out and drug addict. They got divorced and OP told the gf the truth about everything, but unfortunately she’s staying with him :(
OP says she doing good now though
OP was always going to be fine. She's the BAMF in this relationship not him. Shame about the other girl. Hopefully she wises up some day an realizes she deserves better.
I kept waiting for Shane to say, but that’s not the last update. Someone really dropped the ball on the research😂🤣
@@Janjones7735they film in advance so that update probably wasn’t out yet
I know the updates were wild. The poor girlfriend is only 24. OP’s ex is her first boyfriend. She was a virgin and bows she’s pregnant by him. It’s so fucking sad she is being manipulated and one day she’s going to wake up and feel trapped (if she doesn’t feel trapped already).
@@Janjones7735or nobody dropped the ball, this was just recorded before those additional updates
So, for anyone wondering, the first story has A LOT more updates. From what I can remember, the BIL's drive up to the vacation home, break the locks, damage the property and are arrested (I think it also turned out one of them was secretly unemployed). OP starts looking into sueing them. The BIL's and sisters pay for only a portion of the damages as a way to get out of a lawsuit. OP gets new locks and hires a local in the town who does daily security checks of the properties. I think the whole family pretty much disowns the sisters as well and I think he is still sueing them?
The last story does too 😭 I’m dying that they didn’t read them all!!
I was reading that earlier- no lawsuit but a restraining order, but the restraining order might not keep one of them away because they declared bankruptcy AFTER draining their parents for every penny they could!
New update dropped a few days ago. One sister filed for bankruptcy
He had the AUDACITY to accuse her of FINANCIAL INFIDELITY WHEN HE WAS OUT COMMITTING LITERAL INFIDELITY?! OH MY GOD I'M SO MAD
Apparently there's a thing where cheaters start finding faults in their wives/husbands to compensate for their own guilt.
The update after that is insane!!
Finance bros are the worst
There are more updates too
“I was gonna spend that money on my other wife!” Sir
I can't tell you how much these talks about emotions, communication, and relationships are helping me. I'm on my own journey through therapy, trying to build my relationship with my wife to be better and stronger, as well as going no contact with my family. It's so great to hear you guys talk so calmly, thoroughly, and intelligently about emotions and relationships. Thank you.
In that second one, OP's friend consciously or subconsciously absolutely created that drama. She mentioned moving state because he needed rescuing after losing his wife. What's sinister is that even if unintentionally, she saw his vulnerability as an avenue for her own need to be rescued, because she saw a grieving friend as more likely to take her in.
If she wanted to avoid bringing more drama into OP's life, she would have just called off the wedding without specifying why. She absolutely wanted a reason to end up at OP's house that night.
She also lied to her fiance as to what transpired during the face-to-face talk.
The fiance said "steal her away", I suspect she told the fiance that OP made a move on her.
I thought the exact same thing!!
Im so worried for that guy, he needs to remove himself and his daughter from that situation
reading that story about Bree irks me because I feel she subconsciously wants to play mommy but does not want to put in any work and will just be the same flaky person. she is taking advantage of OP at his most vulnerable state and is trying to bring his daughter to her side. if I were OP I would cut ties with her and say go get some therapy and best of luck to you.
EXACTLY
The first story is absolutely wild, but also a breath of fresh air to see the parents support the OP instead of becoming part of the problem.
There are like 8 total updates to that story culminating in two arrests and a bankruptcy. It’s absolutely wild.
That last story was wild! I love that she was smart enough to come up with a plan that showed the husband's true colors without question. She's absolutely right: nothing she could have done would ever have been good enough for him, and the fact that she learned that right away saved her so much time. She sounds like an all-around awesome person who deserves so much better
Watching every Shayne and Courtney interaction with new context
SAME 😂
To paraphrase Sam Reich:
They've been here the whole time!
The first story actually just recently got another update. OP hired a property manager to deal with the vacation house, installed cameras, the Brothers in Law broke into the house, got arrested, OP almost ended up suing them for damages but settled out of court so long as they agreed to pay for the damages and never come to the house again and it turns out the parents emptied their 401k to help the crap sisters with their money problems. It really escalated.
They should have never used their 401k make them work for each penny
I'm not from US so what is 401k?
Thanks in advance 😊
@@annevankampen6154 feature of a qualified profit-sharing plan that allows employees to contribute a portion of their wages to individual accounts
@@annevankampen6154I think it’s a retirement plan
@@annevankampen6154 pretty much your retirement fund thats set up from your employer
Why would B even bring OP up when breaking it off with her fiancé? Leave him out of it. She sounds like she enough reasons to break up without dragging her friend into it when he clearly didn’t reciprocate.
My thoughts exactly. She broke up with him bc she didn’t love him
Yeah that’s what I thought too. I’m also suspicious because SHE told OP what she told her ex, but the ex behaved as if they were having an affair. I’d love to know what B actually told him.
yeah it seems dangerously manipulative? almost like she's pushing him subsconciously into the role of her boyfriend by telling her actual boyfriend she has feelings for him. that OP needs to cut her off immediately because she is clearly not an emotionally stable person at this time in her life, and his daughter needs emotional stability.
SAME. That whole time I was thinking "B... wtf did you *actually* say?"@@83gemm
This!! I'm also so worried for the daughter.@@potatoman7594
What a sweet little family story time. I’m sure this will be wholesome and entirely unproblematic.
If they're actually married and this all wasn't a big April Fool's prank - genuine congrats to them 🥹 They're so sweet with each other
with the financial infidelity story i agree SO heavily with courtney’s point about not feeling forced to put in effort to your appearance at all times with your partner. I’m a goth and I love doing the full makeup and outfits but that’s a lot of work, so getting to dress down in a hoodie and shorts with NO makeup on when im just chilling with my partner is so nice, i can’t imagine not having that in my life.
Absolutely, it’s also not healthy for our skin to wear heavy makeup every single day😭
Agreed, even leaving aside the roller coaster of ridiculous manosphere bullshit, he was essentially demanding that her money go towards pleasing him. Knowing how those jerks think, i suspect some of it was also concern that a woman who has enough money to drop on a full gaming setup is a woman who's not financially dependent (yes, 200K salary, but most of it went into their joint account) and couldn't be as easily controlled.
Story 2, he doesn’t say he isn’t interested in dating her, he keeps saying stuff like not right now/I’m not ready/etc., she has entrenched herself in his and his child’s life knowing that he’s not going to just kick her out of his child’s life.
Yeah, I think if would have been kinder for him to be absolutely honest with her.
I picked up on that language too, I think he is into her and is maybe too afraid to lock it in yet. Would not be surprised if as of the last update they were actually sleeping together and he just didn't mention it in the post
@@OctopusWilsonnah he clarified they weren't dating.
@@potatoman7594 I know and I'm saying I wouldn't be surprised if they had hooked up once or more since and he left that out, dating yeah I dont think they are
@@katmiaou Right, he enjoys her company and having someone around that he’s comfortable and familiar with but at this point knowing how she feels and not setting hard boundaries he’s breadcrumbing her, and it seems unintentionally intentional.
Courtney’s angry ragdoll flopping during the “Financial Infidelity” story is all of us
Timestamp, please?
it was so good
@@RentHeadNN1:04:28
@@martina6700 thank you
Trevor's mimed vomiting was iconic as well
Couldn't be happier seeing the newlyweds doing reddit stories together! ❤ So wonderful that they adopted Trevor too, he needed a good home 😊
The story with the twins gave me anxiety. I’m horrified that the mom thinks her children are interchangeable.
Yeah. I'm trying to put myself in the bride's POV and I just think, "Man, I'm going to be so sad whenever I look at those photos and remember that it's not even me in them." I'm so happy they postponed. She deserves a wedding she'll be able to remember fondly.
I'm hoping it's fake. I just don't wanna live in a world where someone would actually propose that.
Read Jennette McCurdy’s autobiography “I’m Glad My Mom Died.” It is completely believable for a mom to view their children as their property, as dolls to manipulate and play with for their own enjoyment. And it often turns their children into broken people if they can’t escape that environment.
The sister asking would’ve been a weird request. From the mom behind her twins back is just heartbreaking
@@MrLegendofLP I did! Which was equally heartbreaking and so powerful. So many of us weren’t brought into this world with loving, healthy parents (card carrying member of that club).
My cousin and her (now) husband are both models so they are pretty naturally beautiful people. Weeks before their wedding, he had a bike accident where he basically face planted onto pavement. He spent half of the wedding in a neck brace and had scars on his face. They made it part of their vows that it was a reminder of valuing life and the time they had together, and how they loved and supported each other.
The last story made me drop my jaw multiple times in shock, that guy should never be in another relationship and that woman is an absolute boss
It gets worse than that, there’s two updates. R/LadySavings
Watching after Courtney and Shayne got married! Congrats you two❤❤❤
With Story 2, I remember seeing it on reddit and thinking "Oh yeah, B is completely in love with OP". Everything he described her saying or doing sounded like the actions of a woman waiting in the wings for the "Man of her dreams" to notice her. They drifted apart when he got a serious girlfriend (who wasn't her), I mean... She had a whole ass compromise fiance, made the decision to move to the city of the OP after his wife DIED to be in his life deliberately. She inserted herself directly into his life and basically started playing happy families with him. J being an ass or not (which he kinda was), what B did was not healthy and is honestly worse if it wasn't a conscious decision on her part. Especially after confessing soulmate type love to someone who does not reciprocate that romantic type of love. It's setting them all up for failure.
yeah... i had to check the reddit post to see if there were any more updates because it feels like there's gotta be more to all this. here's hoping things turn out okay
Maybe I've watched too many movies about crazy women but my mind goes right to "how did the wife die"...
Courtney and Trevor have perfect awkward sibling energy
I was looking for a way to describe them and this is perfect
That mom made them sit next to one another until they get along
yesss
Both got that homeschooled energy
Nooo theyre more distant. Its giving cousin vibes!!!! Lol
Trevor and Courtney being iconic together is the most fan service I've seen in awhile.
Idk, Courtney and Amanda as Doms felt like more fan service
@@psicoparkita i'm sorry what lol
@@highdefinition450smosh’s new music video lmao
@@psicoparkita LMAO
seeing how shayne and courtney got emotional and kinda affected by the twin wedding story makes me feel like their wedding is probably true
courtney has so much emotional intelligence it’s INSANE - her eps are my favorite because she brings so much insight to the conversation
She mostly just finds a reason to side with the woman in any situation. Like there are plenty of situations in which the woman in a relationship is clearly NTA, but previously she's gone so far as to suggest a roommate was sexually harassing his roommate's girlfriend for sleeping in the nude in his private bedroom above the covers and exposing the girlfriend to that nudity when she (after repeatedly being told not to this, that it wasn't okay or consensual and that it was possible she'd end up seeing him naked because that's how he slept) rather than just saying that the girlfriend who kept randomly opening the door to her boyfriend's roommate's bedroom without so much as knocking knowing he slept naked might be to blame or even be sexually harassing him.
I'm all for accuracy in discussing these things, but if you listen to Courtney I don't know if there has been a situation on this show where she hasn't found some way, no matter how convoluted to assign the blame to the man involved rather than the woman regardless of which is actually the one misbehaving. That's not emotional intelligence so much as sexism.
girl Courtney has SOME good moments idk most of her talking is just validating/repeating whats already been said which is highly disappointing seeing as though she does have good insights.
1:12:16 Courtney really embodying us all when she stood up and screamed into that mic.
And the flop over the couch - truly relatable 1:04:24
The wildest thing about the first story are there are nearly 8 updates to it with the latest being 7 days ago culminating in one of the families completely cleaning out their parents savings to keep their house and ultimately filing for Class 7 Bankruptcy.
Wait really?! How?!
wtf
I expected so. I didn't read the updates but the way these people were being described, my initial feeling was "Oh no, the parents are in danger. Take them with you and run far far away." as they are easier targets for manipulation and theft than OP.
@@akumayoxiruma Unfortunately the parents did it of their own volition (with a bunch of begging). To put a long story short the older brother and his family had been in dire straits financially for a while, but kept buying expensive things on loan and paying back the loans over time by renting out the vacation home, when they lost access to it they no longer had pretty much any income. They begged and pleaded to be let back in, when it didn't work they broke into the vacation house, got arrested, and used up the last of what they had to post bail and come to an agreement with OP, this meant they had nothing with which to pay their house loans and they nearly had to foreclose, so their mom after weeks of begging gave them the savings they had so the brother and his family wouldn't lose their home. The father kept refusing so as of the current moment there is now also tension between the parents.
There’s more?!
Courtney taking off and throwing TREVORS shoe absolutely killed me
The last story has more updates (as does the first one): new girlfriend showed up at the house. She's pregnant and if I remember correctly the affair had been going on for at least 6 months. And she's only 24.
So she comes to the house and asks OP when she'll be moving out. She understands that ex has given OP a grace period to pack up and everything, but they need to get the place ready for the baby.
Imagine the reaction when OP told her, it's her house.
I’ll have an aneurysm but if you have the link for the update I’ll read it
There is another more updated version than that. She has finalized the divorce + she now has 40% increase in her salary for handling a high tier project + she now has great roommates in her 5 room victorian house. She's also doing much bettee financially, mentally and emotionally.
She also got contacted by the girl again while offering $17k to buy so thar she would live but she offered receipts of everything.
- Receipts of the house deeds + inheritance
- Receipts of her clean drug test record for 5 yrs
- Receipts of her college degree, master's degree, senior position + her salaries
- Receipts that they are still in a 'healthy relationship' when the girl and hee ex husband are seeing eaxh other.
The girl still chose to stay with him and foegive him. OP said it might be because she is almost due and she can't make major decisions at that time and this is the mosr convenient.
@@lovehorsebacku/LadySavings
Holy shit.
Wauw...
What a "high value male" he is huh? (sarcasm)
me yelling “THAT’S NOT WHERE IT ENDS!!” after the first story 😭 i’m just glad other people are commenting it too! there’s around like seven updates
another banger by shayne from marrying courtney
The last story threw me into such a rage!!! OMG!!! The husband is the worst person on earth!! 🤬🤬 Honestly he needs something similar to be done to him what he did to her. And to know she wasted 10 years of her life on this piece of trash! 🤦🏻♀️
Courtney's reaction when she screamed into the boom was my exact reaction when I originally read this story
She didn't waste 10 years with him. He wasted the rest of his life by throwing away everything they had and would've had together because a podcast or someone else in his line of work told him what he should have from a woman. She had good years until she seen the change in him then got out of there and unless he changed something inside of him he's going to do this again and again until there is no one left.
When people are too comfortable, it appears they become too idle and start to rot
The last one gets even worse/better if you check the updates. The girlfriend is pregnant and thinks the house is his.
@@Wanttowrite a part of me wants to watch this unfold... Like I'll be a little birdy watching the girlfriend tell him that she's pregnant and thinking that the house is his and then him telling her that it's not... It's actually his ex wife's house and then watching her reaction 😂😂
21:34 i love these tiny moments between stories when they just genuinely enjoying each others company and having fun 😊
"I was accused of financial infidelity"
Lots of these stories involve loads of narcissism, like the first story, but damn... This dude just oozes with it... o_O
Guys the ring, the rinnnggg, THE RINGG
holy shit
Right???? It hit me that it's just right there, hanging out
The first story has several more updates, it gets insane. Wonder how smosh missed them.
!!!!
They film this in advance
This was film like...1 month ago
@@lucasstefano7374there's been more updates from way before that
@lucasstefano7374 Up until a week ago the most recent update was a whole three months ago,,
I have so much respect for smosh for going into such discussion on these, and not just passing them off as jokes. The deep cuts can really help people, eve if you don't realize. Thank you, Smosh.
And they're so mature in their responses, it's just a really nice discussion lol
Truly. The emotionally intelligent discourse led by Shayne is so great.
That last story actually INFURIATED me
Sad reality for a lot of relationships living in a post- Andrew Tate society😂
Seeing the Smoshs be serious and deep is eye opening. I can't believe they are all from the same family.
People who expect their significant other to work and full time job and do everything at home as well astound me!
So you work and get to go have hobbies, but your significant other has to work and do everything to cater to your wants? Absolutely not.
I'm not even done with the last story and it's blown my mind so badly, I stopped everything to just stare at my phone.
I usually listen to these videos while gaming and legitimately stopped, saved my game, and turned off the console. This is insanity.
Not me yelling at the screen during the last story, even before the updates! I just kept yelling, NOPE, You're done, GET OUT. Glad she did! Also love seeing Courtney and Trevor's reactions during those updates - so great!!
There are more updates!!!!! It’s on the r/bestofredditorupdates subreddit
being afraid to interact w adults was literally exactly me as a kid. my thought process was i dont even TALK to those people unless they talk to me first. it actually took a lot for me to grow out of and part of why my parents would always end up labelling me as "shy"
Courtney screaming into the mic during the last post was so real lmao. My reaction during that entire section.
It's so weird hearing Shayne read stories I've read lol. I've pretty much come across all of these because I've been frequenting the Best of Reddit Updates subreddit for a little over a week. Highly recommend more posts from there for future episodes! (Also, there has been an update to the guy not wanting to be pushed into the pool saga. That one has been wild to follow.)
Everyone's mentioning that isn't how the first story ends... That isn't how the LAST story ends either!! There is so much more involving the husband's mistress!
Waaat? I need this update 😂
@@JeonLife93 check u/LadySavings for the updates. Not counting the original post, they covered her "Update" and "Further Update", but didn't cover her "Additional Update", "Latest Update" and "Post-Divorce Update".
I remember the idiot husband from the last story and you’re telling me there was more? So happy this episode covered so many stories I’ve heard, because the comments just gave me some much needed updates.
@@JeonLife93basically his mistress is this young lady in the same program as him who was a virgin and was already knocked up and the husband turning on his wife like this was a desperate ploy to take finances from her and break it off with her because it was getting closer and closer to the baby being due.
He has his mistress wrapped around his finger in lies. Told her he was infertile and she’s convinced this means the baby is a gift from God. He also told her that OP’s house is his and that OP was a drug addict, high school drop out that he rescued from the streets and is only temporarily letting her live in the house until she recovers from the divorce.
The mistress contacted OP asking when she’d be leaving the house so she wouldn’t be raising her baby in a 1 bedroom apartment and wouldn’t believe OP when she exposed every lie. Eventually she gave the mistress documentation proving the house was hers, her degrees, and her high paying job, and the mistress believed her but is still staying with the ex husband.
@@Shoulderpads-mcgeeHUH??? This is wild
As a man who is almost done going through a divorce, the last guy in todays episode makes me feel like I was a saint. For context, my (ex)wife and I just grew apart and we have had a very amicable breakup and divorce. This guy deserves to be taken for every single penny that his wife can get, and she was such a baller with the way that she handled herself.
As someone who isn't married but would like to be one day, the idea of married couples suddenly growing apart makes the whole idea a bit frightening...any advice on how to avoid a situation like that or how it happens in the first place?
I think the last story is literally about two people in a marriage growing apart, though. She's putting in less effort than they had seemed to have established together in their relationship at some point and he's starting to want to ask more than what had been previously agreed based on him feeling that's pushing them away from each other. That's two people moving away from the common arrangement they had at first into one who says she's doing less (which isn't bad, necessarily, but is a significant change) and one who's beginning to want more of his wife than was originally a part of the common agreement they had. That's drifting apart and has been the cause of divorces for god knows how long.
@@sym5340 Know what you want and be incredibly selective with the personality/values of a spouse - long term relationships simply can't rely on lust. Communicate openly and honestly to avoid/deal with resentment on all fronts. Look to emulate relationships you admire and ask for advice. Therapy for everyone.
They didn’t even include the rest of the updates. It gets so much worse.
@@nochannel1q2321 seems so on the surface… it is not. They missed the rest of the updates on the OP’s page. It’s more a story about a woman realizing she was married to a pathological liar.
My mouth is dry now because of the amount of gasping that last story had me doing. What kind of lunatic acts like that to someone they claim to have loved?
I have never watched Smosh after the classic era in my childhood. But I did randomly stumble upon the smosh pit and this show been my favorite ever since then. Shayne is an absolutely magnificent host and storyteller. His charisma singlehandedly attracted me to watching smosh again.
Wow that last story was WILD. My partner loves my cooking, and I know he gets sometimes neglected because of busy seasons in my business, but wow she went above and beyond. I have no words.
I couldn't help myself to go on reddit and find more updates. It gets worse....
@@plaisirdelanglaislink, please?
@@carolineben-ari2798 I just googled keywords with the word update. In the update the moderator left a link to another follow up that has 2 more updates I think.
5:13 This makes sense since pools are canonically Shayne's Kryptonite
A Superman reference? I dunno, he seems more like a ... Deadpool guy to me
(ITS SO BAD I KNOW I'M SORRY)
@@JuniperDenn Bravo. That is one of the best jokes I've ever seen, particularly in reference to that event.
@@LevonBlueoak thank you random internet stranger !
Courtney screaming into the mic is everything, i really felt that
The rate at which I went from chilling to curled up in a ball screaming crying sobbing at that last story 😭😭
Omg Courtney just flailing on the last story just killed me. The feeling is mutual when I was hearing it 😂
The last story has way more updates!!! The mistress and wife meet and she's pregnant, its gets crazy! Find the extra update guys! Call Trevor and Courtney back!
I know that no one from this channel will probably ever see this, but just I'm case you do, I just want to say
I've been with my mom to provide end of life care for the last 5 months, and watching these every daturday has been a nice little ray of sunshine for me. It also reminds me there's always someone who has it worse then me. I just want yall to know you really are making a difference in people's lives
We need a second update episode because the first and last stories are faaaar from over
Spicy take: Andrew Tate doesn't believe his rhetoric at all, he just has a lot of stock in a bunch of law firms that specialize in divorce cases.
I have been shouting this from the rooftops since 2019:
But that's just a theory.. a Game Theory
@@Imjustkendalloh no he absolutely believes his bs!
oh dude absolutely! most of these red-pilled podcast ppl's real lives contradicts everything they say ON the podcasts! i fully believe most of them know how outrageous some of the things they say are & say shocking stuff bc they know ppl will lose it. grants them more attention
@@witchwhisperss yea like whats his name sneako or something a bunch of kids came up to him spewing shit they learned from his vids and he back tracked so quick with a face that said what have i done telling them not to say that
Man I can't wait for the last story guy to realize how unbelievably easy it's gonna be for his ex to find someone else. Early-30s, hot, good career that brings in good income, a gamer, owns a house that's paid off? She's gonna have a comittment the second she wants one. Not high value my ass.
Yeah!
Actually laughed out loud when he said "low value".
Like, obviously, you shouldn't call Anyone "Low Value", but a woman in her early 30s making 200k a year, having maxed out her 401(k) , with a house she's paid off.... how is that "Low Value?"😂😂
Oh yeah, I forgot, she wasn't a virgin when they met... and I'm sure this new woman he met at work Is a virgin 🤡🤡🤡
I’m pretty sure the comments were filled with proposals
@JokerCrowe apparently she was a hotshot new hire, who he felt threatened by (which means Shayne et al were probably right Hubby wasn't doing as well as wife thought). She had graduated college way early and WAS a naive virgin. She had never had a boyfriend because they wanted casual sex and she wanted more.
OPs hubby told her that OP had lots of issues (High school drop out, drug addict, jobless and she was just someone he was helping) and lies about himself (He owned OPs house, he'd had a vasectomy) and that he wanted to marry her.that commitment convinced her to have sex before marriage.
This 23 year old (iirc) religious virgin ended up pregnant and he used her pregnancy to tie her to him in so many ways. Her pregnancy was a miracle (remember he claimed to have been surgically sterilized) so obviously God wanted them together. So she was 7 MONTHS pregnant when this story happened.
Hilarious that there was a lot of wedding themed ones 🧐😂
Last dude in the story had it all , and just threw it all away over pride and fragile ego , may he forever live in regret and a girlfriend who will bleed him dry of all his earnings
dude andrew tate really red pilled a whole bunch of people
Like, the whole thing about women being domestic servants to men is weird and messed up, but if she’s the caretaker and he’s the breadwinner then I can sort of see why he’d say something so stupid.
This woman was making just as much bread as him in a stable career. She was a breadwinner AND THE ONLY caretaker, and he was somehow blessing her with his mere presence.
That whole “manosphere” bs is just entitled manchild indoctrination, and I can’t say I’m surprised someone from sales fumbled THIS hard because of it. Love and respect to self aware salespeople but the whole finance field is toxic garbage.
The last lady knows her worth! LETS FUCKING GO, YOU GO LADY! PLAY THAT SICK ASS GAMING SET UP!
I'm so jealous of her lol
Nothin like Courtney's interpretive dance for the money infidelity story update 😂
A visual representation of "so uncomfortable and angry I want to crawl out of my skin"!
Taking Trevor's shoe and throwing it was a particularly nice touch.
yalll peep that ring on courtney's left ring finger (post april 1st survivor)
Omg 😭
Fr there’s other videos with her with the ring and her looking at it. It’s crazy how I never noticed it before
@@cameronbender2005 omg what videos does she look at the ring?? 😭
@@argee5870 in the wavelength video at about 11:50
As I’m sick and dying, I seriously thank you three (and crew) for putting this out today. I’ve been feeling like total shit all week. This is a nice highlight.
edit: much love for the likes. Been playing FF7 Remake to finally beat it in prep for buying Rebirth and this was nice to come back to. ❤️
Feel better soon ❤❤
Don’t forget to drink water!
🙏🏼💖
Hope you get better❤❤❤
Same. Day 5 of the Rona for me. Feel stoned and gross.