Repairing the Stone of a Baby Boy

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  • @annebruecks7381
    @annebruecks7381 Рік тому +96

    They obviously loved their little boy, they certainly spent a literal fortune on his headstone. The fact that you came along to fix it 120 (!!) years later would make them very happy. I know I'm very somber and touched watching this unfold. What a remarkable thing to do.

  • @scottydwallace
    @scottydwallace 8 місяців тому +27

    As someone that had a very young son die, this filled my heart with joy. As a parent you never want people to forget what a great little person you had. You are a very nice man. Thank you.

  • @paulajarman9314
    @paulajarman9314 Рік тому +63

    What an amazing thing to do, As a Jewish person, one of the most selfless things is to do something for someone who can never repay it. This is wonderful. Thank you

  • @ARSENICKMUSIC
    @ARSENICKMUSIC Рік тому +36

    Man. I have the utmost RESPECT for you and what you stand for. It's easy to just let these gravestones crumble and waste. The respect you show for those who have passed is something truly inspiring and warms my heart. Restores a bit of my faith in humanity that there are people out there still willing to do something that does not benefit them just for the right reasons. You are a pure man and there are not many of those left. Cheers to you brother.

  • @michaelritter8248
    @michaelritter8248 Рік тому +19

    Thank you for what you're doing. I'm sure if the family were alive today, they'd thank you too. Very awesome, buddy.

  • @Canuckmom128
    @Canuckmom128 26 днів тому +2

    Wade - I read a comment that suggested your UA-cam name should say “Restorer” as opposed to Cleaner. I have to say I agree. I can’t help think that all these monuments of babies and children that you repair, become your “Angel Squad” as you continue this kind, selfless and important work. Blessings to you. 😇🙏🏻

  • @user-uv2pk2jx9s
    @user-uv2pk2jx9s 4 місяці тому +6

    I used to walk through grave yards because it’s very peaceful, one day my husband and I saw a baby’s grave that had a posted note on it. We read it and it broke my heart. It said, we love you Ashly! She was very little. I’m 70 now and have never forgot. I still walk through grave yards but now I walk alone. My husband passed away 30 odd years ago! I feel very sad when I see broken headstones. Thank you so very much for the work you do to restore them. God bless you always. I’ll never have a headstone, I plan to be cremated and my ashes placed ne’er my Mama and grandson in our privet family cemetery. Again, thank you ♥️

  • @moonbeam7702
    @moonbeam7702 Рік тому +13

    This video nearly made me cry. Restoring old gravestones to their original condition is such a beautiful thing. Don’t ever stop 😊❤️

  • @Morrisonsgirlfriendforever1971
    @Morrisonsgirlfriendforever1971 Рік тому +29

    I absolutely love your channel . I clean old forgotten graves and I see the beauty in your work and so does God. 😊

  • @stellarlight5626
    @stellarlight5626 Рік тому +12

    Tombstone restoration is interesting to watch.

  • @jeffb.2257
    @jeffb.2257 Рік тому +23

    I always learn something from your videos, thank you. I especially appreciate your explanations and the before, during and after reveals. Amazing. I wish I was able to do this restoration for my family.

  • @halleylujah247
    @halleylujah247 Рік тому +76

    I love what you are doing. In Catholicism this is a work of mercy included in burying the dead. I also pray for the people who have died.

  • @annpriddy7941
    @annpriddy7941 Рік тому +21

    What you do is truly a labor of love. 💙

  • @stevenbuck4090
    @stevenbuck4090 Рік тому +7

    This one nearly made me cry. Great job. I'm sure mum and dad would be very proud.

  • @vwgirlbeth
    @vwgirlbeth Рік тому +6

    Watching your work makes me smile. I'm a hospice nurse who can't work due to an injury. If I had the know how I would absolutely be doing something like you are.

  • @nothingtosee.942
    @nothingtosee.942 Рік тому +11

    I have seen you doing this wonderful work before and my daughter just text me this video, so I had to find you on social media and I DID 😊 now I can see you all the time. Keep going young man 🤗

  • @carolk5770
    @carolk5770 Рік тому +10

    I love that you do this wonderful work for those who have passed long ago..and for the families. God bless you. He sees what you do. 😇🙏♥️

  • @southsidekarl
    @southsidekarl Рік тому +9

    I love these clips, my wife thought I was crazy cleaning these markers but when I should her these, she saw me in a different light. Thanks for these . If you want to come to Orlando I have a crew who would be interested

    • @cemeteryrestoration5502
      @cemeteryrestoration5502 4 місяці тому

      Keep in mind that not all gravestones should be cleaned. Depending on the stone's material, you can do more damage than good. Please be careful and make sure you are trained by a professional before attempting to clean a headstone.

  • @hellynnwheels6819
    @hellynnwheels6819 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for the love and honor of these dear ones.❤

  • @MK-ti2oo
    @MK-ti2oo Рік тому +4

    Crazy to think it's quite likely that no one has been to visit this grave in a century. I've loved these old graves since I was a kid and did stone rubbings often as a teen, I still find them beautiful and my husband and I love to find the hidden little graveyards in the middle of nowhere when we're traveling and walk through them reading the stones. Like this one though, I often wonder if it'll be another hundred before anyone looks at it again, if ever.

  • @mareathabaker2607
    @mareathabaker2607 27 днів тому

    The church I belong to has a small cemetery with graves from the 1800s. Our Boy Scout troop has repair many of the headstones and do much of the upkeep. Thank you for your caring and work.

  • @lillypad9960
    @lillypad9960 Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for your kindness. Blessings from Michigan.

  • @debbiemichaels4632
    @debbiemichaels4632 Рік тому +3

    I am sure that little boy's parents and he are smiling from above

  • @cindyrissal3628
    @cindyrissal3628 10 місяців тому +3

    Bless you for what you're doing. So sad that the poor little guy didn't have a chance to live & grow & become. Hopefully there are relatives somewhere that will visit him...

  • @ginger_nosoul
    @ginger_nosoul Рік тому +6

    Im not religious but i still wish people have the baruel they want. Good work sir.

  • @chrispenix4918
    @chrispenix4918 Рік тому +6

    I really do appreciate and love what you do for these families loved ones that have passed. I know that baby passed away well over 100 years ago but if it had been my child and I knew that you had done this for my child it would move me in touch me profoundly. The dead deserve our respect, just as much as the living. If not more. Keep doing what you're doing. You're an inspiration and I really want to continue what you do up here in Michigan

  • @bret9741
    @bret9741 3 місяці тому +2

    I so appreciate what you’re doing. Life is very short even for those who live 100+. Most of us today will live well until we’re 54 50 and then see decline with a death between 65-85. A few seem to live a happy, wonderful life finding joy in every single day. My wife is that way and so are her parents (88, 87). I’ve been unhealthy and in pain since 42. I hope I don’t live to 90. Constant pain really wears a person out. But I think it’s more tied to the mind.. or soul. I’ve been an old soul from my youth. My teachers and church leaders were WW1-WW2 vets and my grandparents were born in 1880’s and 1890’s. I was raised on the family ranch and took in the mind set of the much older generation. Many graves you repair seem light years in the past to my grandkid. But for me, it was really only one generation past.

  • @scottemery4737
    @scottemery4737 Рік тому +5

    When you close the crack by putting epoxy or mortar into it, that also prevents water from just running into the center of the base and causing further problems.

    • @cemeteryrestoration5502
      @cemeteryrestoration5502 4 місяці тому

      Epoxy should never be used on a headstone when putting the sections together.

  • @cjbritish9264
    @cjbritish9264 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been watching your videos for quite some time now, and I just want to say you are truly a fantastic person for fixing graves.. you truly are Saint
    for doing that!

  • @arkansasboy45
    @arkansasboy45 Рік тому +3

    What a nice job on the little fellas headstone.
    Can you show how you connected your A-frame?

  • @cemeteryrestoration5502
    @cemeteryrestoration5502 4 місяці тому +2

    A floating foundation is the best way to go with headstones like this. They are very stable and prevent the frost heave.

  • @AnchorsAweighNarooma
    @AnchorsAweighNarooma Рік тому +2

    You are a good caring human being, thank you...for the insight and the detail of the person passed.

  • @lillypad9960
    @lillypad9960 Рік тому +7

    God bless what you're doing. Thank you.

  • @lesley.brennan10
    @lesley.brennan10 Рік тому +4

    I love watching your videos and you show so much respect to the graves you are a true blessing from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️ 💗

  • @jamesfrancismchalejr7944
    @jamesfrancismchalejr7944 Рік тому +4

    There are beautiful cemeterys all over the world 🌎! Beautiful places to visit. the history and art work is incredible and breathtaking. Some are well manicured & others in some cases in disarray! But i am always honored to be a passerby until my time comes

  • @dianeolsem8474
    @dianeolsem8474 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for what you do.

  • @cathyslaton9998
    @cathyslaton9998 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful work ! Thank you for restoring this headstone . I find it odd that the mother or father is not buried near their child 😢

  • @markwhitcombe8670
    @markwhitcombe8670 Місяць тому

    You have my up most respect for what you do to repair and replace fallen headstones you are amazing gentleman

  • @IrishAnnie
    @IrishAnnie Місяць тому

    God Bless you for restoring this stone. His parents in heaven are rejoicing!! That was a lot of work. Great job!

  • @thecottage4493
    @thecottage4493 Рік тому +5

    Great work! I see MonuGrid is made in Canada, where did you get it?

  • @jgeorgetx
    @jgeorgetx Рік тому +6

    About how long did this project take you? If it had required cleaning AND repair, would you have cleaned prior to putting the top part back onto the base?

  • @lisafrizzell1252
    @lisafrizzell1252 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful job you did

  • @Gretchen-vh9xt
    @Gretchen-vh9xt 8 місяців тому +1

    This was a lot of physical work. Thank you for all you do.

  • @beta1451
    @beta1451 Рік тому +4

    that tripod makes them stones look like they are made of
    foam

  • @marcusbuckner5582
    @marcusbuckner5582 Рік тому +3

    God bless and may He reward your efforts a hundredfold. We realize that you're doing it because it needs to be done.......Lord, send me.............

  • @daleromdenne
    @daleromdenne Рік тому +2

    I love doing this. ❤
    D/2 cleaning is good.
    I can’t do a as many as I would love to
    because I only can afford small amounts
    of the cleaner at a time.
    Thanks for sharing &
    Thanks for all your hard work.

  • @johnsuda8793
    @johnsuda8793 Рік тому +2

    You are so kind to people that died I will pray for you in my prayers 😊we love you

  • @stellafreeman7964
    @stellafreeman7964 Рік тому +2

    What a beautiful job you do

  • @laurarobben4584
    @laurarobben4584 Рік тому +3

    You are such a good guy, doing great things. It is appreciated.

  • @debishaw9355
    @debishaw9355 Місяць тому +1

    I just imagine the sadness that must have surrounded that very area he was working. But now, Angels rejoicing.

  • @dcarson7870
    @dcarson7870 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful work and beautiful human! 👑🙏🏼

  • @j.settle6448
    @j.settle6448 Рік тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @anitaludovici2859
    @anitaludovici2859 Рік тому +2

    Wow. That was amazing. Another wonderful job. God Bless you.

  • @sunflowersue9003
    @sunflowersue9003 11 місяців тому +4

    Oh how I wish there was an organization out of San Diego who are my eldest brother died as an infant. He was a born and died before I was born. Found his name and Family Bible one day. Mom did not want to talk about it. Didn't know how painful it was. Went on my own to find his burial site found he had a plain flat marker that was flaking damaged by perhaps lawn mowers total disrepair After mom passed talk to Dad about replacing it he didn't want to deal with it. When Dad passed talk to my brother about sharing cost. He told me that he didn't want to waste his inheritance money. Now I am disabled in a rehab hospital over a year desperately love to see that marker replaced is there a organization that can help?

  • @ravenmckinnon5526
    @ravenmckinnon5526 Рік тому

    One flower would have been a great final touch

  • @Midwest116
    @Midwest116 Рік тому +2

    Very touching. Great work

  • @aussietechie6625
    @aussietechie6625 Рік тому +3

    Respect your hard work!

  • @mygrammieis
    @mygrammieis 8 місяців тому +1

    Much appreciated and respect ✊🕊💯🤲So much research-And repairs and editing to produce each video💯🤲✊

  • @deborahsteele9185
    @deborahsteele9185 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful thank you god bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @lauralake7430
    @lauralake7430 Місяць тому

    Your lifting techniques are like geometry class brought to life. Along with your work being beautiful❤

  • @timothyshortnacy7550
    @timothyshortnacy7550 7 місяців тому +2

    I think you are just awesome.

  • @erinwalsh7124
    @erinwalsh7124 Рік тому +4

    Is this volunteer or do you get paid? Regardless, this is like watching landscaping videos for me. I am happy I found your channel

  • @williamfindspeople4341
    @williamfindspeople4341 19 днів тому

    I'm a professional genealogist and archivest and run into these issues all the time. Children who died very quickly the families were not prepared for a burial and put them were ever a plot was available. My great-grandfather had two families and everyone is buried all over North America.

  • @jimhigginbotham7974
    @jimhigginbotham7974 Рік тому +2

    I love what you are doing God bless you and your family

  • @suzanneadams9371
    @suzanneadams9371 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! On so, so, so many levels!!!!

  • @muhammadalivssonny
    @muhammadalivssonny Рік тому +2

    Fantastic work bud!

  • @j.settle6448
    @j.settle6448 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for what you do!

  • @petecharron3595
    @petecharron3595 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for your great work, it is very much appreciated.

  • @jerrycundiff8334
    @jerrycundiff8334 Місяць тому +1

    I lost a 5 year old daughter in 1990. I would like to think if her headstone was damaged someone would make repairs for her.

  • @juliashaw8268
    @juliashaw8268 Місяць тому

    You are doing a wonderful job. Such a giving thing to do. I hope as a bonus you are making great money too. I admire you.

  • @adriennenelson759
    @adriennenelson759 Рік тому +4

    I am curious where in Minnesota you are. This cemetery looks familiar.

    • @semperfi5861
      @semperfi5861 10 місяців тому +2

      I was going to ask him the same question. I also live in MN. I would like to help him and learn how to do this, and if there's a certification I could get for this. At least once every month I dig out and clean off gravestones.

  • @abderrazakmekhalfia8990
    @abderrazakmekhalfia8990 Рік тому +1

    Well done !!

  • @geraldblackburn4883
    @geraldblackburn4883 8 місяців тому

    subbed- I have too many, and only time to watch a few, but you did a great job, only thing I would have done different is drill a few holes in the base and added dowels and then used about 10 tubes of epoxy !

  • @mariarodriquez5622
    @mariarodriquez5622 Рік тому

    Thier is good spirits around you. They are looking at you work silently. Bkessings.Hola. maria and my spoiled doggie Tiny Land from Phoenix, Arizona.

  • @betsyskae4116
    @betsyskae4116 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful work ❤

  • @margemiller5503
    @margemiller5503 Рік тому +1

    God bless you❤

  • @user-iv5pi3cc7j
    @user-iv5pi3cc7j 11 місяців тому +1

    Where were you when I was young 🌱

  • @kathleendaugherty4218
    @kathleendaugherty4218 Рік тому +1

    Another awesome job. God bless you.

  • @alipeacock3685
    @alipeacock3685 Місяць тому

    Massive respect to you ❤

  • @jamieredmond9656
    @jamieredmond9656 Місяць тому

    this is awesome! you do beautiful work!

  • @cindimccollum6134
    @cindimccollum6134 Рік тому +2

    Where do you find these? Where is this.

  • @philipcecchini5474
    @philipcecchini5474 Місяць тому

    At first I was horrified that you were disturbing the grave sites of people you did not know. As I watched the video that shifted to admiration as I watched you honor a child’s memory for a family long gone.

  • @brianlanglois4086
    @brianlanglois4086 10 місяців тому

    My brother GOD is smiling down on you...

  • @justincase2281
    @justincase2281 Рік тому

    I think what you do is wonderful. Love your vids. I would like to get into this work. What would be the best way to begin, in your opinion?
    God bless that baby boy, and you for caring so much.🙏✝️❤️

  • @user-ok5xp3fv9g
    @user-ok5xp3fv9g 15 днів тому

    Jesus and the family are smiling.❤

  • @bevfrench3496
    @bevfrench3496 Рік тому +2

    is there a reason you can't put the epoxy on the top of the stone and then sit the upper one on top? must be a reason , right?

  • @relicrecoveryspecialist16
    @relicrecoveryspecialist16 2 дні тому

    Are you leaving the little lead pieces in place for good, like are they one time use only on the headstone or you pull them back out?

  • @beckysnead8914
    @beckysnead8914 Місяць тому

    Earned grace. What type and style of headstone would you purchase knowing what you know now?

  • @shelleywalker4893
    @shelleywalker4893 Рік тому +2

    Where do you find the cemeteries and headstones that you are allowed to go in and do the work you do? Here where I live in Florida this is against the law.

    • @rlewis1946
      @rlewis1946 4 місяці тому +1

      That is a sad State of Affairs.
      I believe you must get permission from the grave/plot owner, which can be very hard to do.
      “Grave/ Plot: A specific, identifiable, site within a cemetery designated to serve as the final resting place for casketed of cremated remains.”
      RL

  • @billbucktube
    @billbucktube 10 місяців тому

    We have several 6’ by 1.5’ by 8” thick stones in the family that need leveling. Do you have a video that shows various ways to lift (I like your tripod/coffin hoist!) and level wide in-ground stones? Or maybe another channel?

  • @relicrecoveryspecialist16
    @relicrecoveryspecialist16 8 днів тому

    What putty are you using there to join it. What’s the more liquid like 2 part one you use the spoons on too

  • @corvettelady58
    @corvettelady58 Рік тому +2

    What’s the best product to clean monuments? Went to cemetery Friday and nearly all my families needs cleaning!

    • @kimfleury
      @kimfleury 11 місяців тому

      There's another UA-cam channel run by a traditional gravestone carver and restorer. He's got some videos giving tips on cleaning them. I'm blanking on the name of the channel, but if you search for how to clean gravestones (or headstones, or grave markers) it should come up. You could also try searching for gravestone carver. There aren't too many of those.

    • @chag1pyk5
      @chag1pyk5 Місяць тому

      D2 is what many cemeteries use. Gets rid of the biological stuff like mold and is safe for the headstones

  • @b.2194
    @b.2194 Місяць тому

    Wow🎉wonderful🎉

  • @chelyzimmerman563
    @chelyzimmerman563 Рік тому +1

    💕

  • @gregb2830
    @gregb2830 2 місяці тому

    May I ask what putty you use, as I've tried Milliputty and not had good results

  • @shesforgivennfree
    @shesforgivennfree Місяць тому

    How long have you been doing this and how do you decide which headstones to repair😊

  • @carljones3515
    @carljones3515 Рік тому +3

    👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lisawilson4551
    @lisawilson4551 2 місяці тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @younglivingmargo
    @younglivingmargo 10 місяців тому +1

    Can i ask, is this your full time job? Do you get paid to do thos is do you do it all for the love of doing it? Im just curious . Thank you ❤

  • @behappy2435
    @behappy2435 Місяць тому

    💐