I had a crush on this guy for 4 years. Wen he started paying me attention I went about abit crazy I initiated contact via text 4 times and even bought his art work which in total cost £60. I even double texted him I didnt realise i was chasing him until after I bought his work n told him. I felt like i liked him way more and was giving him way more energy. So i told him i was taking a break from instagram. 😔 I'm so embarrassed.
Great advice Lanz. Love is about give and take and that doesn’t mean you give and he takes. It’s a shared loving experience and both need to feel they deserve each other.
I would be lying if I said I hadn't used these. I tend to feel more secure in my relationships when I look after myself first. Having something unique and individual to contribute to a relationship adds so much value.
YES!! People are too quick to define themselves by the different roles they play in the world, eg. "the wife," "the girlfriend," etc. When we focus on who we are as individuals, we won't feel that it's necessary to seek validation from others in order to determine our value.
I agree with everything but the sex quick thing. If he loses interest after that then he would lose interest two months or more after it happens. It means that was his primary interest in the first place. There’s people that get in relationships after that because they were on the same page regardless
That's a really good take on it!! I definitely see where you're coming from. I'm more so saying that you shouldn't feel pressured to jump into bed with someone in an effort to keep them around. In other words, allow yourself to form an intellectual and energetic connection with someone that's developed over time so that the physical aspect means so much more. Many people have regretted getting sexual too soon because they find out later that the person wasn't who they claimed to be (or simply that the mystery and exciting build up is gone, which is the most fun aspect of the talking stage). I see your point too (not all people have the same intentions of course) - thank you for commenting your opinion!
If and until we are real, good enough women, we should not prefer a stupid film to a live huMan being calljng. Unless we are gemming ourselves, we should not behave, pretend and demand being seen as a gem. That is not automatic, but has to be practised and/or transformed from what ever traumatized and poor upbringing we got. Please don't encourage bad female behaviour and attitudes, those destroy men's view of and treatment of us serious, real but struggling women.
Until I watch this video I was wondering why my relationships didn't work when i was so loving. Now i know why. You are a life saver. Thanks a lot
I had a crush on this guy for 4 years.
Wen he started paying me attention
I went about abit crazy
I initiated contact via text 4 times and even bought his art work which in total cost £60.
I even double texted him
I didnt realise i was chasing him until after I bought his work n told him.
I felt like i liked him way more and was giving him way more energy.
So i told him i was taking a break from instagram.
😔 I'm so embarrassed.
Great advice Lanz. Love is about give and take and that doesn’t mean you give and he takes. It’s a shared loving experience and both need to feel they deserve each other.
So beautifully said
Not one of these tactics helped me catch the man that stole my PS4. Imma stick to chasing
You have my blessing!
This applies in friendships and family relationships too-give- as much as you are getting
Amen!!
I would be lying if I said I hadn't used these. I tend to feel more secure in my relationships when I look after myself first. Having something unique and individual to contribute to a relationship adds so much value.
YES!! People are too quick to define themselves by the different roles they play in the world, eg. "the wife," "the girlfriend," etc. When we focus on who we are as individuals, we won't feel that it's necessary to seek validation from others in order to determine our value.
I agree with everything but the sex quick thing. If he loses interest after that then he would lose interest two months or more after it happens. It means that was his primary interest in the first place. There’s people that get in relationships after that because they were on the same page regardless
That's a really good take on it!! I definitely see where you're coming from. I'm more so saying that you shouldn't feel pressured to jump into bed with someone in an effort to keep them around. In other words, allow yourself to form an intellectual and energetic connection with someone that's developed over time so that the physical aspect means so much more.
Many people have regretted getting sexual too soon because they find out later that the person wasn't who they claimed to be (or simply that the mystery and exciting build up is gone, which is the most fun aspect of the talking stage). I see your point too (not all people have the same intentions of course) - thank you for commenting your opinion!
beautiful energy sis! and that roooom! 👌🏽
Thank you!!
How come you’re not in 1 million subscribers?? Your knowledgeable and everything you said were on point! 🙌🏻
Aw thank you so much!! That's the goal eventually 😂 More content to come soon, I'm glad you liked it ❤
STRAIGHT FACTS thank YOU
THANK YOU!
Take him off the pedestal and put yourself I'm fall in love with myself everyday 😍
Exactly!! :) So happy for you!
You got a new subscriber! I love your tapestry by the way.
Thank you so much for the support!! :)
@@lanzmacdonald You're welcome. I was feeling so down, and I found your videos. They really helped cheer me up. ✌🖤
great talk! hope you do more if you have time. much appreciated!!!!!!!!
Definitely more to come soon ❤
thanks i needed this
I'm glad you liked it!
This is so perfect
I'm glad you liked it :)
Spoken so well 👏🏼👏🏼... straight facts!!
Thank you so much! Can't wait to make more for you guys
so well spoken!!
I appreciate you!!
@@lanzmacdonald aweh thank u girl!!
The problem is I love him so much so refraining from giving my affection, i become restless. What do I do?
QUEEN.
Love and appreciate you!!
💯 such good advice !!!
i love you!
I love you too!!
If and until we are real, good enough women, we should not prefer a stupid film to a live huMan being calljng. Unless we are gemming ourselves, we should not behave, pretend and demand being seen as a gem. That is not automatic, but has to be practised and/or transformed from what ever traumatized and poor upbringing we got. Please don't encourage bad female behaviour and attitudes, those destroy men's view of and treatment of us serious, real but struggling women.
Lmaoooooo
Welcome Keegan!
Okay so what happens when you already made all the wrong moves?
I can't believe I am just stumbling into this right when I am in the talking stage 🙈
Perfect timing! :)
You speak so much sense😘
Thank you!! More to come soon :)
So glad I found your channel. You are so on point!!
Thank you so much! I'm glad my videos resonate with you :)