"Words are wind" is a personal mantra -- I only judge others based on actions I witness; not rumors or fantastical promises... that said, it's wise to keep track of the weather but not let it dictate your life.
Yes!! AND learning to take their actions as they are, not as you want them to be. I love the saying: "When people show themselves to you, believe them."
Thank you so much for sharing!!! Those are so true that i also had those experiences and at that time I believed wat those guys said 😢 even though I sometimes still suck in again now, but since I started to work on my own, recognizing the red flags quicker and be brave to walk away if the communication can’t work, this is so important for our mental health 🥹🧡
I love this video. I have never tried to change anyone. I am with these people who play me, I give them a chance to redeem themselves and they can't. I just leave mentally, emotionally and eventually physically
Hey Charlotte! It's important for you to be clear with the person (player) that your needs aren't being met - it's as simple as that. Oftentimes we try to complicate our exit or feel the need to justify it with 100 different reasons. Ultimately, it's not selfish to recognize that a relationship is not serving you or offering you stability and happiness. This can be communicated in a calm, articulate manner and if the person reacts in a hostile or defensive way, this is just further affirmation that you're making the correct decision for yourself. Best of luck and I'm always here if you need to talk!
"that person will let you know if you mean something to them" preach!!! I live for your wisdom
I appreciate you so much!! Lots more to come
"Words are wind" is a personal mantra -- I only judge others based on actions I witness; not rumors or fantastical promises... that said, it's wise to keep track of the weather but not let it dictate your life.
Yes!! AND learning to take their actions as they are, not as you want them to be. I love the saying: "When people show themselves to you, believe them."
I love that you are doing this!! This girl belongs in front of the camera, LOOK AT YOU
This means so much to me!! I'm so happy you like it! Love ya
The hard truth I wanted to hear. Thank you, sister.
You're so welcome! Wishing you the best ❤
Thank you so much for sharing!!! Those are so true that i also had those experiences and at that time I believed wat those guys said 😢 even though I sometimes still suck in again now, but since I started to work on my own, recognizing the red flags quicker and be brave to walk away if the communication can’t work, this is so important for our mental health 🥹🧡
You should be so proud of your growth! I'm so glad this resonated with you as well. More to come soon 😊
Going through a breakup, your videos really help girl :) love from India 💜
I'm so happy to hear that they're helping
I love this video. I have never tried to change anyone. I am with these people who play me, I give them a chance to redeem themselves and they can't. I just leave mentally, emotionally and eventually physically
Exactly! Never let a person show you that they don't want you twice
LANZ WISDOM is ALL I need
Always here for you
Thank you for making this video it was usufull for me
LANZ this is so well done, very proud
Thank you!!
How do you recommend shaking or getting rid of the players without being too aggressive?
Hey Charlotte! It's important for you to be clear with the person (player) that your needs aren't being met - it's as simple as that. Oftentimes we try to complicate our exit or feel the need to justify it with 100 different reasons. Ultimately, it's not selfish to recognize that a relationship is not serving you or offering you stability and happiness. This can be communicated in a calm, articulate manner and if the person reacts in a hostile or defensive way, this is just further affirmation that you're making the correct decision for yourself. Best of luck and I'm always here if you need to talk!
Being cheated on really does feel like surgery 😢
Smh you should not know this because how dare someone play you!!! P.S LOVE this sweater omg
We grow wiser and stronger from every experience I suppose! haha
Thanks for sharing❤️
I'm glad you liked it!
as if i didn’t idolize you enough😍
Sweetest compliment ever
You are fantastic
Thank you
Thank you so much! 💞
Nice advice
If he did it to her I’ll be the next. He is the one who don’t respect himself
Goooold 😂😂😂😂😂
Players are narcissist simply put