I'm just read that Gonzalo Lira died 3 days ago... I'm fell so sad. The man could be controversial, but at the same time so smart and sometimes to wise like in this video... R.i.P Coach, the best of you will remain
The sunk cost fallacy means that we are making irrational decisions that lead to suboptimal outcomes. We are focused on our past investments instead of present
Yes, that talented photographer saw value in that image, it wasn't a good example. The difference is more like to eat spoiled food because it was expensive... But you better throw it away.
This dude is so on point. I've been sunken into my "rut" for 20 years with a crappy wife thinking she'll change, and I have nothing to show for... except for a divorce rape that's coming like a 200 car train at 80mph. Listen to this guy boyz. Don't fucking wait!
I just broke up with my gf after 3 years... and this time i did it with not even a thought of coming back. I'm glad it only lasted 3 years, before i became a misreable 30 year old man who wasted his entire life away
He's absolutely correct. I married my high school sweetheart with that mindset. We had dated 9yrs - sophmore year onwards. In the end, i decided to marry her because i had her since a virgin and had so much time invested in her even though i knew her limitations and that we were not a good fit long term. We divorced 5yrs later. I then found someone much more suitable. A lot of time wasted on the first.
Breaking up is hard to do when one has invested time, emotions, money etc. But understanding female nature can make it a bit easier. Never let yourself get attached to any woman you can't walk away from. Never take that one last step in love. If you do, that is the moment the girl starts losing interest.
I don’t know if I believe that. I think you can keep that maximum level of “love” but there must be some payment required from the woman demanded by the man to keep it going. Almost like you control that “love” and she needs to keep doing a certain thing or acting a way to recoeve that reward. But you must be able to stop that trade of that feeling of “love” when the women doesn’t give something in return to deserve it. Once you’d start giving that amazing “feeling” of “true love” without anything in return and she can do literally anything, good or bad and you still give it to her that’s when she’s loses interest. Because she no longer has to produce anything to reiceve that amazing feeling.
Good advice, I was stuck for years in a bad marriage, and painfully, slowly worked my way out, and never looked back. My only regret is I was not strong enough to do it sooner. I think CRP told the story years ago of the guy walking 4 miles to the store for food, looked down at his phone half way there, and it said store closed today. So since you gone halfway, do you keep walking???? That story woke me up, I kept going thinking I had years in this marriage and all our worldly goods, but it was a fools errand.
I use to read comments but now its my turn to tell you .. breaking up with my toxic wife was the motherfuckin best decision i made in my entire motherfuckin gad damn life .. never ever give up on your self and your dreams .
..as a German Biologist - C G Jung tells such a story, when a desperate man asks for HELP to get rid of his Wife - which he cannot do himself. Jung applies his concept of “Arche Type” showing the man- he married a Woman who comes CLOSE to the Archetype Woman he carries in him . Close. So he gets stuck. It takes the Power to accept that and divorce and stay sober - until you find the real Archetype. Or stay single. It is this deep force of bond and connection, that makes it so difficult to let go. And so easy to fall for it. Most misery may be based on that...All Lawyers and Drug pushers thrive on that...
Persistence in "doing the same thing" is essential. It's called "grind". The difference is experience. You should think about what you're doing and get better at it. If you're somehow doing the right thing but you have no idea, it's just as bad as mindless labor...
True brother. I did this with my ex from 26-35 years old. on and off a dozen times. Finally let go and suffered over the loss (but not really a loss) for about a year. 5 years later, I dont even think about her anymore, even though we are still there in each others lives but WAY off in the distance.
Right on coach...Im going to send this to my gal pals too Im 61 and my 3 year pain no gain on off relationship Divorced after 30 years cost me millions but she cheated Didn't want a divorce however I pulled the trigger There's no bonding anymore as you've addressed However my 30 relationship did give me the experience to raise two amazing children but the cheating from a lady ...my wife with "daddy issues" fucked it all up Not sure if you have but with this dysfunctional environment perhaps do a video on mommy and daddy issues especially the daddy issues for your audience.... I know you've addressed it
I miss this guy...
How I miss CRP
I'm just read that Gonzalo Lira died 3 days ago... I'm fell so sad. The man could be controversial, but at the same time so smart and sometimes to wise like in this video... R.i.P Coach, the best of you will remain
What?? How did he pass away?
@@human_08Ukrainian prison, he tried to escape
@@sidmehere2964 and they shot him down or something?
@@human_08 nah they arrested him and tortured him in prison where he died of a “heart attack”
Wonderful legacy Gonzo!!🫡
RIP Sir
He is so fucking right I've wasted 10 years of my life doing the exact same thing
Same here man😂
The sunk cost fallacy means that we are making irrational decisions that lead to suboptimal outcomes. We are focused on our past investments instead of present
Yes, that talented photographer saw value in that image, it wasn't a good example.
The difference is more like to eat spoiled food because it was expensive... But you better throw it away.
Gonzalo it would be so easy to use your wisdom to criticize you but I’m going to refrain from doing so you’re a wonderful guy we miss you bon voyage😢
This dude is so on point. I've been sunken into my "rut" for 20 years with a crappy wife thinking she'll change, and I have nothing to show for... except for a divorce rape that's coming like a 200 car train at 80mph. Listen to this guy boyz. Don't fucking wait!
I just broke up with my gf after 3 years... and this time i did it with not even a thought of coming back. I'm glad it only lasted 3 years, before i became a misreable 30 year old man who wasted his entire life away
Breaking up is so hard because they are codependent with a narcissist partner/lover.
You learn something new every day... Thank you
Such an important video.
Thanks CRP.
The war in Ukraine is a sunk cost
He's absolutely correct. I married my high school sweetheart with that mindset. We had dated 9yrs - sophmore year onwards. In the end, i decided to marry her because i had her since a virgin and had so much time invested in her even though i knew her limitations and that we were not a good fit long term. We divorced 5yrs later. I then found someone much more suitable. A lot of time wasted on the first.
Congratulations, that you still made it out tho
Breaking up is hard to do when one has invested time, emotions, money etc. But understanding female nature can make it a bit easier. Never let yourself get attached to any woman you can't walk away from. Never take that one last step in love. If you do, that is the moment the girl starts losing interest.
I don’t know if I believe that. I think you can keep that maximum level of “love” but there must be some payment required from the woman demanded by the man to keep it going. Almost like you control that “love” and she needs to keep doing a certain thing or acting a way to recoeve that reward. But you must be able to stop that trade of that feeling of “love” when the women doesn’t give something in return to deserve it. Once you’d start giving that amazing “feeling” of “true love” without anything in return and she can do literally anything, good or bad and you still give it to her that’s when she’s loses interest. Because she no longer has to produce anything to reiceve that amazing feeling.
It's complicated
You are jenious
RIP COACH
Being boiled is a song by the Human League
Good advice, I was stuck for years in a bad marriage, and painfully, slowly worked my way out, and never looked back. My only regret is I was not strong enough to do it sooner. I think CRP told the story years ago of the guy walking 4 miles to the store for food, looked down at his phone half way there, and it said store closed today. So since you gone halfway, do you keep walking???? That story woke me up, I kept going thinking I had years in this marriage and all our worldly goods, but it was a fools errand.
Might as well walk back home. No reason to go into town, save yourself the extra trip
A fools errand bound for a victims future
If only he had followed his own advice and escaped Ukraine when he could have
I love you Gonzalo, rest in peace. I took your advice to heart, you were right,
Rip Coach every day i see your Videos and each time new advice
Powerful
Thanks boss.. I learned something new
I use to read comments but now its my turn to tell you .. breaking up with my toxic wife was the motherfuckin best decision i made in my entire motherfuckin gad damn life .. never ever give up on your self and your dreams .
..as a German Biologist - C G Jung tells such a story, when a desperate man asks for HELP to get rid of his Wife - which he cannot do himself. Jung applies his concept of “Arche Type” showing the man- he married a Woman who comes CLOSE to the Archetype Woman he carries in him . Close. So he gets stuck. It takes the Power to accept that and divorce and stay sober - until you find the real Archetype. Or stay single. It is this deep force of bond and connection, that makes it so difficult to let go. And so easy to fall for it. Most misery may be based on that...All Lawyers and Drug pushers thrive on that...
Don't hold on to a delusional life!!!
Persistence in "doing the same thing" is essential. It's called "grind".
The difference is experience. You should think about what you're doing and get better at it.
If you're somehow doing the right thing but you have no idea, it's just as bad as mindless labor...
True brother. I did this with my ex from 26-35 years old. on and off a dozen times. Finally let go and suffered over the loss (but not really a loss) for about a year. 5 years later, I dont even think about her anymore, even though we are still there in each others lives but WAY off in the distance.
Idk how to change this. He lives here now
Crutch that people remain on because of fear
Right on coach...Im going to send this to my gal pals too
Im 61 and my 3 year pain no gain on off relationship
Divorced after 30 years cost me millions but she cheated
Didn't want a divorce however I pulled the trigger
There's no bonding anymore as you've addressed
However my 30 relationship did give me the experience to raise two amazing children but the cheating from a lady ...my wife with "daddy issues" fucked it all up
Not sure if you have but with this dysfunctional environment perhaps do a video on mommy and daddy issues especially the daddy issues for your audience.... I know you've addressed it
Brilliant content
My ex said "men appreciate their own effort"
The cost of living has become too much, can't get out of it and now I'm 51
Sound advice.
Thank you
Do what you want and deal with it 😆
Well it's probably time to get more money
Borderlines do this. Narcs too
2024?
RAY DALIO
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