The GOOD the HARD about being a Woman, WIfe, MOM | Girl Chat

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  • Опубліковано 14 лип 2024
  • Its no secret that being a woman is such a joy but boy oh boy does it come with some hurdles that as women, have to learn through and be strengthened. This is typically a girl chat about our experiences as wives, women and moms, hoping to encourage each other and comfort to know that you are not alone.
    0:00 - Intro
    1:45 - Who has it easier? Men or Women?
    3:35 - Giving up yourself as a Mom
    10:53 - Mental load and sleep deprivation for women
    18:14 - Fear and being aware of your safety
    22:04 - Identity and being happy as Moms
    26: 40 - Finding time to spend time with your spouse
    29:26 - Periods and contraception
    33:03 - Society pressure, skincare, beauty and selfcare
    38:26 -

КОМЕНТАРІ • 49

  • @FatumahNalubega-ui6hw
    @FatumahNalubega-ui6hw 5 місяців тому +7

    You teach me a lot Lisa, you have revived my marriage and mother good journey. Am fatuma married for 11 years

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому +1

      Oh wow 🥹🥹🥹 this is humbling to hear! Thank you

  • @sheilawavamunno9372
    @sheilawavamunno9372 5 місяців тому +8

    I enjoyed this much much more than I thought I would🤗..
    Bambi married women do carry quite the load, eh!! Glad the grace is sufficient. Thank you both for your honesty and for such life-giving convos!!
    Thank you Lisa and Sarah ❤

  • @kihumuronash951
    @kihumuronash951 5 місяців тому +6

    Thanks Lisa and Sarah for the topic. Sarah good to see you.well I had to give up my job for my children 4 years ago.my first born had it with maids and for the boys we have walked the journey and I can't replace the experience for anything.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for sharing!! The best thing ever. Being fully present for the children 🥹

  • @marythuitai8608
    @marythuitai8608 3 місяці тому

    Wao I ❤your girl on girl conversation,I thought I was alone in so many stuff but thank Goodness you girls have normalized.Thankyou so so much just what I needed❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  3 місяці тому

      We are all going through the same

  • @MusamaliJane-jd6gu
    @MusamaliJane-jd6gu 5 місяців тому +3

    Nice episode🥰 banage Sarah the ka English❤ its on point.

  • @cindyjoymukama6640
    @cindyjoymukama6640 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much Lisa for this girl chat; at least as a single young lady-I’ve learned a lot and yes I’ll keep praying for grace to sail though each and every stage of womanhood

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      You are on the right track

  • @lifetalkwithDusie
    @lifetalkwithDusie 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Lisa for your inspiring content. I am a stay at home mum of one and it's the best decision ever. It's not easy living on one income lately but we have to make sacrifices and choose the best for our family. I will later in life. Go back to work, but children are young once, I chose not to have maids spoil their childhood

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому +1

      That’s so sweet! Nothing compares to being present for them Bambi

  • @jeannejk7912
    @jeannejk7912 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤😊😊😊 totally loved this candid conversation 10/10

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 5 місяців тому +3

    26:04 As a mom you don't have the luxury to switch off like that. Infact even if you go somewhere without the children, the emotional load of worrying and hoping they are okay is still on you because by design, it's only a MOTHER who knows her child best and is spiritually connected to them in that way 😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      I tell you ! May God give us grace and strength

  • @musiimentateska2707
    @musiimentateska2707 5 місяців тому

    All l can say is that l have been blessed ☺️. Thank you Lisa and Sarah

  • @monicnyangoma4188
    @monicnyangoma4188 5 місяців тому

    This is really beautiful thank you, ladies. I can understand the phone issue it usually helps me unwind as well after a long day. Hopefully, I can manage it when I get married😀.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      The distractions!! It gets me some as well. May God help us

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 5 місяців тому +1

    You’re glowing Lisa

  • @nakamatte.brenda.blessed
    @nakamatte.brenda.blessed 5 місяців тому +1

    Our identity being built on God, being found in him, having confidence that am fearfully and wonderfully made and being able to face the world knowing who I am in God👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому +1

      That’s the truth 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @najunaevelyne674
    @najunaevelyne674 5 місяців тому

    Also as mom, wife and employee, banange we forget about self-care. This year i marked self-care reminder monthly in the phone calender

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      That’s such a good tip🤗

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 5 місяців тому

    Such a good topic..God bless.women ❤

  • @nabukaluharriet3026
    @nabukaluharriet3026 5 місяців тому

    For me it's the exhaustion banange😂 and yet it's a beautiful journey

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      It really is! Such a confusing journey hahah

  • @hildaninsiima2506
    @hildaninsiima2506 5 місяців тому

    The biggest challenge I have ever had is being a mummy.you will never feel like your doing enough eeeeeh but God gives grace

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      Gods grace indeed. We take it one day at a time

  • @blessingsharindah6710
    @blessingsharindah6710 5 місяців тому +4

    Her lips,oh Lord 😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      Hahahah pardon?

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@LisaKusiima Banaye Lisa, you have heard. Her lips 💋 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Loool

  • @lydiaaenda7725
    @lydiaaenda7725 5 місяців тому +1

    Connected from Nairobi Kenya🇰🇪❤🇰🇪You are a blessing to us

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      Wow!!! Thank you for being here

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 5 місяців тому

    💕💞💗💓

  • @user-tz2we6kq3m
    @user-tz2we6kq3m 5 місяців тому

    Mameyaaaaa good babeeeee

  • @tumazirweadrine6050
    @tumazirweadrine6050 5 місяців тому

    Banaye me hre with no decision yet have 1 year kid now but its a struggle with work and maids 😢

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      It can be something 🥹. May God help you as you decide

  • @anthonykizza3418
    @anthonykizza3418 5 місяців тому

    but now what was the editor thinking to add that sweeping shot of the camera turning from one person to another

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 5 місяців тому

    Yep. I have only heard of " mom guilt" Never heard of dad guilt 😂. I have only heard of "mom shaming" never heard of "Dad shaming."

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 місяців тому

      Hahahhahahahhahaha . Maybe they feel it but don’t say it Bambi. It’s because women over share and talk more but I know some dads really feel bad when they constantly have to work

    • @itazajanet1172
      @itazajanet1172 5 місяців тому

      ❤​@@LisaKusiima