MUMS GATHER : Who Is Your Next Of Kin?| Mum vs Husband vs Children| Hakimi and Wife Divorce

[@bumploveug]

Fun Fact about your Next Of Kin responsibilities:
1. If you become incapacitated without a Will or health care directive, medical decisions will typically fall into the hands of the Next of Kin.
2. Next of Kin is responsible for distributing your assets. They will typically be named the Administrator if there is no contest over who to place in charge within the family.
3. They make funeral arrangements. Hopefully, this person has an idea of what their relative wanted (burial, cremation, etc.) and can follow their wishes accordingly.
What did you consider when choosing your Next Of Kin?
We can't wait to hear your view in the comment section!
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[@zionruby]

Put my follower Sister. First because am not legally married,second I don't have parents.
She is godly and principled and has fear of instructions. ,🤭

[@fk5371]

I don't know why you are surprised that Hakimi did what he did. Do some more reading on the relationship betweeen children and mothers in the Arab world or in Islam. "Who next your mother, who next your mother, who next your mother................"

[@abaineolivia6306]

This is super good
Well done ❤

[@lydiatumwebaze4959]

Angie is living in her own bubble she is far away from the realities of this world

[@muhammedwalugembe9195]

My next of kin has always been my wife. I am her next of kin too. I make it a point to ensure that both of us are included on documentation of every asset/investment.

[@zionruby]

I love how Pumla reads widely and prepares for these shows.
Hope people get the principles of inheritance.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love that you're here Onana. I truly love Bump Love mostly because in sharing knowledge, I'm also constantly learning. Generally...we are in this together. P

[@zionruby]

@@pumlanabachwa8668Absolutely. Happy Weekend.

[@julietneubert]

Angie, you have this rich aunt face. I don’t know, but even the way you talk gracefully (how you gracefully open your mouth to talk). It’s all in your eyes too. You’re a natural without trying.

[@nabiryeasia9091]

Mwanagwe I admire her soo much she's so soft spoken

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaa! She's a mumbejja please. Real royalty. P

[@kemiomeke1120]

Thanks doll☺️

[@rachaelnabukko4358]

After seeing what is happening at Hon.Kato Lubwama's vigil. I came back here to appreciate Ms.Nabacwa for what she mentioned
About having a person who puts emotions aside and execute the will. Apparently Hon. Nsereko is doing a great Job
Thanks for always sharing wisdom

[@celiakareithi8651]

This is a typical girlfriend group, all the different personalities give the show a more balanced worldview.
Love it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@nalaakimilly1702]

Pumla your intelligence and the way you prepare for these shows is extra ordinally keep it up
I always look up to your ideas

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm just happy to keep learning. Thank you.

[@robinanamagembe557]

As a Christian woman, i love Manuela's point of view. That is the right way to feel before getting married. And because we don't feel that way, the divorce rate in church is now very high.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

I feel you

[@EmyzMagnate]

And yet another educative episode. I keep telling people having a degree is not enough. You have to keep evolving, youtube has made it easy for us, now with a show like bump love ❤️ Ladies, may God keep giving you wisdom. So you can come and bless us with it too😅

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Emyz. Love that we are all here learning together. P

[@kirundazuena9219]

I once told a mature lady that I actually want to open an account were I save money for only problems. She said to me" never do it, that way, your only inviting endless problems in your life" Thank you for this ladies.
I and my girlfriend thought about it today that how about you invite a few of us that are big fans of the show to be watching you (ladies) live while discussing these topics please!!!

[@Flourish_today]

😂😂😂😂😂 what a funny response. That account is called an emergency account. But that woman, that your inviting problems. Everyone needs that account. Now, what if your washing machine breaks what do you do?

[@isaaclwanga4506]

Great idea it could be a whole talk show

[@kirundazuena9219]

@@Flourish_today my dear, a washing machine is a luxury to me as per now😌

[@roselloyd7500]

​@Kirunda Zuena I bet you Flourish lives in Noth America. They use that language of if your washing machine breaks, or your vehicle needs new tires. It's why people have emergency accounts for such emergencies. Also, take it as a blessing. She has assumed you already have it.😊

[@kirundazuena9219]

@@roselloyd7500 ohhh okay. I tap on the blessings God!!

[@AmutuhaireIryn-om7my]

I love the show soooo much and especially @nabacwaPumla's ideas and @Rosette's calmness

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for being here Iryn

[@kirabozeridahsarah]

The Sign-if-i-can't, I love this wisdom

[@esthernorberts3793]

Then I learnt the true meaning of SIGNIFCANT..sign if I can’t…Thank u Mrs MULondo

[@atwiineannah5628]

The shaking and praying over the signature from Manuela is so emotional bkz imagine signing away all yo sweat

[@gonzafilda9814]

As we are hustling saving and investing
Man this show today is a reality

[@estherauma9353]

Pumla is going to be those old women with too much knowledge whom everyone wants to be around😂😂... Intriguing conversation ladies💯

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaaaawwww atte when we're old we need people around us. I receive this blessing Esther. Thank you. P

[@estherauma9353]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 right gango for old age.🥰.

[@doreenhumura]

Pumla onkolera! You expressed women's reasons in the most logical way for me.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I hope I continue to do so. Thank you Humura. Kyoka I have a boda guy who has failed to say Pumla. He calls me Humura 🤣

[@jariatnakitende3393]

Pumla is so intelligent 🥰

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Nakitende of Lugave. Such a weighted statement. I receive ❤. P

[@kasubojustine795]

I would like to thank God for your lives bump love family. Have been waiting for you through the week

[@lucyfnakiyegawamala7892]

Angie, I love how you introduced this episode& how you closed it off. Thank you ladies. This found me at a time when I'm reflecting on when to start writing a will, but I kept getting cold feet. This show has made it easy to start. I've added it on my 2023 goals.

[@kirabozeridahsarah]

When Pumla said I take off one hour to fear men... I felt that in my bones

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I think I need two now 😅. P

[@leahnakabugo3226]

Great conversation.
Pumla you're bold and with great wisdom!
Thank you Ladies.

[@hildaninsiima2506]

Always learning something on bumplove ❤thank you ladies.also you all look radiant 😊😊

[@patriciakamara8906]

When Pumla and Manuela said, “ Bambi Angie” 😂 that was hilarious

[@nabiryeasia9091]

This really needs a continuation with probably a lawyer coz it's deep even the men's version is needed

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Lawyer needed for sure. We'll have one soon. P

[@ayiyowinne4715]

Nze kantuule ku bump love, I learn things,nsirike🤫🤩.much love beautiful ladies.

[@aishanamusaazi]

Angi was the last part real neccessary with love from us too thank u for putting a smile on our faces

[@elizabethnakayiza8276]

The yellow💛💛💛💛 I love it. Manuela didn’t get the memo😂 Meanwhile Rosette you’re giving rich auntie vibes I love your dress😊
Thanks for the show ladies ❤❤❤❤

[@Fattahssesanga9747]

❤

[@dorahkainew5238]

Rosette should be my stylist kubanga her and I share the same fashion sense

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Even if I got the memo, would I wear yellow? 😂😂😂😂

[@mumczrobyn2424]

Ilove bump love but looooovvvvveeeeee these ladies more😢

[@ckks0nyoutube]

This needs a part 2 with preferably an estate planning lawyer present, very beneficial discussion
Part 2 can possibly address what to do when beneficiaries have spouses and suddenly they want their share of the ‘mall’ so they can go to the abroad for example

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

True. We do need a lawyer on the show for part 2. P

[@mabanjafridah2272]

Oooh Lord😮😮😮 i need to make a will asap..u guys have made see things from a different perspective .Thank u bump love.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Glad to be of service

[@mayamariam256]

I didn't want this conversation to end

[@joanitahnalubwama905]

God bless the ladies of bump love,for me whenever am watching an episode of bump love,I learn something.

[@joeriagwokyalya4708]

I keep learning new things ladies "SIGNIFICANT". Thank you for this insightful episode. ❣❣❣❣❣

[@zionruby]

Rosette is such a storyteller;so catchy and hilarious.

[@shantaOzi]

And sounds like aki spoilt (in a good way)adult baby

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! I always tell her how I miss her stories. P

[@Fattahssesanga9747]

😅😅 Am getting them back

[@sherrywilliams3691]

True ...i love the
Way she roles her eyes...

[@Fattahssesanga9747]

@@shantaOzi lol 😀

[@theerinahshow2077]

Nice space. Makes the show look great

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

I love how Pumla invests in this show. Like she surely makes research 🥰🥰 thx gal💙 lol u all

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks Cecilia. Bump Love deserves all the investment in the world.

[@ceciliamwebaza9377]

I appreciate u all, I get to learn alot from this show🥰

[@bryanaruho8279]

When queen Pumla is talking i must be attentive and smiling,lots of love .P 🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Such confidence. I receive and ofcourse I'll keep giving. Lots of love

[@bryanaruho8279]

@@pumlanabachwa8668Thanks you dear

[@nalubugaketra]

Ooh wow.. Bless you Ladies I appreciate you ❤..Hey Pumla you’re such a Goal🥰.. When my Mommy died she left all her properties in our names( me & my 2 siblings) Surprisingly my dad knew about it 😂 thou he was doubting it till the will was read and am glad he didn’t give us hard time he accepted it and moved on..

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Ketra. May your mommy continue resting peacefully. Glad that there were no quarrels. P

[@nalubugaketra]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 Amen 🙏.. Thank you 😊..

[@joyanena]

For Manuela (hi OG!!!! 🙂) and those in similar boat of "calling on your vows," while you may not be leaving 100% to your beneficiary - unless of course, the asset is fully owned by you, the above ensures that "your share" goes to the right beneficiaries and you can sleep easy i.e., (1) in the event of death, your SO's new partner can only influence his share but yours is squarely in your beneficiaries' inheritance, (2) in the event of disagreement/dissolution of marriage for the living, division of physical and financial assets is simplified. It's a tough convo to have but when you are getting into joint ownership with a partner, have these conversations and ratify them with a partnership agreement (e.g., let's do 50-50 for love or I bring 25m and you bring 75m so ownership is 25-75). Love does not have to be completely blind 🙂

[@remmyndagire3632]

This episode really took me to a new school and it's very timely because my mum's vigil is in 2months from now and her will is about to be read.Thank you so much ladies and the entire bumplove team

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Sorry about your mom Ndagire. May she rest peacefully 🙏🏾

[@josephineayebare2315]

Ladies the background is so on point. The set up reminds me of The Real!

[@kristinem1431]

But bump love. Children rivalry!!!! You promised. Me waiting

[@judithnyangatum7282]

Wow ladies thanks for the amazing show,am still student but I love bump love so much, am learning alot,may God bless n protect your ladies

[@harrietevelyn]

Signs that someone is loved is Angie. Wow. Thank you ladies for the discussion

[@komugisharitah4088]

Thank you bump love, I always transfer this knowledge to my parents

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

The way Pumla is loving as Manuela is putting her vowel

[@shamimkagere]

Very important conversation, well detailed

[@maryteka9915]

Angie's world seems to be so perfect,from a complete home to a happy marriage,to wonderful kids,to a great business....to me seems like a fairytale kind of life....not comparing but from this is the opposite is way too far...

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

Angie grew up from a rich family got married to a rich husband so she had a soft lifestyle her entire life

[@DuncanAllanByamukama]

learning is in effect.
Today I have learnt so many things from Pumla's story. Things are now beginning to make sense now

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Learning is in effect 👍🏾

[@yvonne76156]

This new set up and background is amazing!! Y’all look great😍

[@doreengift458]

Bumplove! Bumplove! You ladies are amazing,the knowledge that flows here is unmatched. See how i thought next of kin is anyone i want,hmmmm. Let the change start. The shock about spouses is real, i recently was doing something with mine and we both were asked for individual next if kin. Guesss my shock when he rushed to call his cousin for her details while i provided funds for the process. Maybe its something about trust,its well. Let's look out for ourselves and be better as my mother's child Pumla says.❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Wabula the shock in marriage is just so funny. Haha! Mubutuufu...let's do better.

[@Jackie.Mpengo]

Am here for the wisdom.... The dramatic touch to the presentation of the wisdom is everything 😂😂 Manuela 😂😂😂😂

[@sophymaeba989]

A dollar for every time Pumla says"The natural progression of life" will make you a billionaire. 😂

[@lisperbwarigesimba2723]

watching from kenya. you let me floating with kiganda wish you could interpret after😂

[@ckmatovu]

Thank you ladies. This session was so worth my data. I don't regret one bit. I love the honesty from Manuela ahaaa....remember to send FIRE too to accompany the signature. Great points about the will and am embarking on making amendments to mine yesterday.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Happy to hear this 👍🏾.

[@evelynkabahuma7035]

Very wise conversation indeed thank you so much ladies!! 👏👏👏

[@vee3581]

A very insightful and educative topic. I love how you all even up your contributions on set. Very well done ladies

[@margaretdhabangi9595]

😅😅😅You gals... The way I love you..... This topic has been a great eye opener.......Thank you so so so much!!!!

[@MistyEE21]

Manuela you really cracked me up about Mr. Mulondo🤣🤣🤣

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Glad to bring you joy

[@nampewolydia]

I just love Pumla's submissions. Eeeh girl you're a gem. Great conversations girls.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks Lydia. Here for the learning journey like the rest of you 😊. P

[@nampewolydia]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 You're far better 👌👌👌 girl

[@Jackie.Mpengo]

I wish I could understand whatever was said in Luganda.... Great show watching from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We'll do better with this. Subtitles! P

[@anonnona6433]

Sometimes it's hard to translate each and every word and expression 😭some words only make sense in the local language and the meaning is lost in translation.

[@DoreenNitusiima]

I dont speak Luganda though Ugandans.Subtitles will do❤

[@marizaofficial7585]

Pumla.
I love 😊you so much
Manuela.......just fierce and calls it out although she's been blessed with a good husband..she understands.
Rosette and kemi....cool . collected and calm.
Thanks ladies....

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for being here Mariza.

[@MistyEE21]

Pumla you leave me breathless - thank you for sharing your personal story ❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Glad to share if it helps someone. Thanks Eunice.

[@the_Nakuru_Vlogger]

Very insightful! As we fight for equality we need to brace ourselves for the challenges men face as well

[@JMBM8822]

New subscriber. Learning a lot🇰🇪

[@anyangoveronica8804]

Thanks ladies I was listening to you pipo with my elder sis who was really struggling with the same thing but thanks to you she made the ryt decision basing on the talk🙏

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This is so impactful. Thanks Veronica for sharing ❤.

[@briankibuule9439]

good show, mature and knowledgeable discussion

[@user-pd6xf5wm2o]

Lets appreciate manuella for always pushing the story but on the negative side

[@hanifahnamuli947]

Great show, quite awakening,thanks ladies

[@Flourish_today]

Im surprised a prenup was not part of the marriage in this case.

[@Journeyjunckies]

Deeeeeeeeeeeppppppppp!!!! Thank you ladies ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thurayassitakange1098]

This topic has changed my mindset so much👌
Where will I be without U amazing ladies😢Bless Uuuuuuuuuuu our ladies

[@nabiryeasia9091]

Forsure

[@bridgetdamba1]

Ehhhhh banage the wisdom Pumla carries eeehh she is literally knowledgeable about everything in depth. I love you ladies you are making me check and better myself everyday. God bless you

[@bumploveug]

God bless you ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Bridget ❤. Thanks for the vote of confidence. We're all bettering ourselves together. Glad that you're here. P

[@geoffreykasanya2030]

Uganda ladies so natural authentic...and intelligent buana....hakuna maringi😂

[@christinebirungi7168]

How about sitting as a couple and discussing these fears you both have. Then choose to put both your properties in Ur children’s names. And then name each as the executors or managers or support behind the kids and the assets. Both of you have to communicate the fear of the possible future spouse. Maintain the trust and love for each other.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

For shuwa we must be able to sit down and have these conversations with our spouses. P

[@annetnansumba9082]

Is it me alone who responds to that ka last bye signal even when iam I know these aren't seeing me😂 like the moment I hear with love from bump love and then the ka bye, my dear self also responds with the ka bye😊😊thank you ladies for always enlightening my Friday

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaaaa! DEAD! We'll now add even more energy in the bye 😂.

[@christinenakazzi280]

But must life be this hard with all that paperwork 😢! thank you ladies i am always learning it was fun watching this.

[@FayKay348]

Just a note, inheritance is not considered joint property, and therefore when mom goes, he gets all his money back, and the wife has no claims to it since its an inheritance

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Under which law? Please share

[@tusiimechristine]

Eye-opening conversation here. Thumbs up ladies👍

[@iamthemessagegrace4568]

Manuela with kumanyilanyo facial expression😂😂

[@Daizy_Natukunda]

I love you ladies ❤❤❤❤
Mature and honest talks

[@lucynagawa8675]

Let me also write a will in protection of my daughter. Kakazi katu, I don't want anyone stealing her bu small things I plan to leave behind

[@bumploveug]

Smart move ❤

[@fk5371]

And pray that the executer is honest.

[@rachelnaigaga6634]

Next of kin issue is serious and something to ponder about!

[@zionruby]

Manuela preaching submission!
Amen

[@misslilly2833]

I am really glad we..Ugandans are starting to talk about death openely. Embracing and planning for the innevitable makes life easier for the ones you leave.🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Totally agree

[@donjb6829]

Wow, that was very educative and entertainment.

[@fatumaqasim6341]

Naye bannange Manuella is soo comic😂.
Thank you ladies for not leaving such a sensitive topic slide with Hakimi. And allow me appreciate the fact that Pumla’s knowledge is doing us a great service. Shout out to you Nabacwa🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Happy that you're here Fatuma. And even happier to serve. Mwebale kusiima.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-jc4ld7rf2u]

Ohh my ladies I love u
so much.i learnt alot of things since I started following u

[@NEC73B]

I am in the 9% though i detailed to him how my children should benefit. It also goes back to how he has treated me and the family..

[@queenluigi]

The example is Princess Diana. She left her divorce settlement to her two sons and it is what Prince Harry is surviving on. Charles on the other hand married his mistress and now Camilla’s grandchildren are taking centre stage at the coronation while Charles’ own grandchildren (Archie, Lili) won’t attend. It couldn’t happen the other way around. When Charles dies, 100% he will leave his money to Camilla not his sons.

[@peshcadipearl]

This comment made me both happy and sad!

[@Viola_ug]

Beautiful episode ladies. PUMLA, keep this insights coming in. we love you all..

[@nambasadeborah7708]

Banage ladies when using lawyers you use a company and not individual lawyers because how about the lawyers dies before me?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Are there individual lawyers? I thought they're all attached to firms.

[@ottilienhinda5124]

I love you soo much ladies.... From Namibia

[@Tessnymoh]

Today's topic was very insightful......

[@mbabazidenizy256]

I'm married to a Kenyan
When someone dies they first take the body to the mortuary so usually the whole burial process takes upto 2 weeks which I find financially draining
I've told my husband if I ever die before you my body shouldn't go for more than 3 days
I should be buried I soon as possible

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Write. It Down.

[@peacetumushabe2315]

Kati mbu we say no one missed Rachel's calmness?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! We missed it for sure

[@rachaelmwine611]

😂😂😂😂😂😂I missed the ladies for sure..

[@kemiomeke1120]

Calmness alone? How about her hair, her eyes. Her aura! Bagyenzi😊

[@Letters7]

I did she balances the opion

[@sarahmagoola7948]

I wanted some one to address this topic from the side of a mom who has a daughter and whether they would want a hakimi for them.
I think it was more of a morals thing but we seem to be ignoring it. An issue of maybe a genuine love betrayed instead of assuming Habib was a go getter otherwise she wouldn't be that naive pakalast.

[@kemiomeke1120]

Totally agree! It’s unfortunate it went the way it did.

[@kambaeunice]

Hey bump love, i wish we get an episode where bump lovers can be educated about the different ownerships that marrieds can have to protect each other, i.e joint ownershisp viza viz tenancy in a common. A legal practitioner in land law would be a blessing.❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Definitely need to have a lawyer here for this conversation. Thanks Eunice. P

[@naturindablessing5330]

Wisdom here.. Am co _compare comparing how my dad did his will... To both the wife and his first child... Now for this show. I now know what I do with time

[@nazziwavanessa606]

This topic takes me back to Teddy Bujingo mukazi watu. Just wen life was becoming better,she's kicked out of it.

[@namusaazijuliet8831]

Surprisingly, you find fathers who tell their daughters to guard themselves financially. Myself, my dad always tells me to protect my financials from my would be husband in the future

[@nellymakode8724]

He knows his gender 😮