Ghosting became socially acceptable. Treating people, especially men, like objects that are here only to entertain or boost self-esteem when needed, then just discard without saying anything or taking responsibility for human interaction... Honestly, we went bad road as a society.
@@RandyBaumery-s4i Most women (Modern Western Women, but women in General) should A - Become subject to SHAMING, for all their Crap they do and all they crap they say, Mostly for what THEY DO (Or do not) B - Do NOT Give them more, give them less, Except Space. Less resources , time, money, so on so forth UNTIL PROVEN that it will NOT go to their shitty little heads
Purpose achieved sadly smh. It was personally insane working at a place in the Guinness book of World records here in Atlanta. Between 2008-2012 when smart phones starting proliferating. Every year more new young people who were less friendly and spent every spare minute on their phones started working there.
If you meet online, try to meet within a few days. Accept reasonable excuses for delays, eg my now-gf's mother had flown in to the country and was keeping her busy :D
*The way to combat this is "Indifference". U have to master this. If she calls/text back cool. If she doesn't cool. Keep it moving like U did before U met her.*
@@goranvuletic8873 If she is not attracted to you in the first place it is not worth your time anyway. You could be persistent, but you need to ask yourself is it worth it. So indifference is the best method to keep your emotion and heart secure.
Exactly! Never get to the point of inviting the law into your life through marriage or co-habitation. Marriage rates show we're paying attention: down from 40 men out a 1000 to 3.6 out of a 1000 (mostly newcomers with more sustainable traditions).
If she isn't giving you the good stuff, she's nothing of yours. No attachment, no feelings, no chasing. Flirt a little if you like but then pull back and ignore her until she chases you and proves she's willing to give you the goods. If she never does, never give her a thought again. Works a treat and saves you from wasting your time for nothing👌🏻👍🏻
They want constant attention. If you don't give it, they think you're not interested in them. If you do give it, they find you easy and they get bored of you. They're just fcked up.
The wisest advice I ever received (about women) from another man was this. Don’t marry a woman you love. Marry a woman who loves you. Find out why she loves you and never lose that.
Thing is, about a woman who loves you. Thing is, take out the probabilities of just being an nucleus accumbens thing. If it really desiring you in a s3xually way then you gotta realize some things. Women are nowadays desperate as well, meaning they have too much men giving her attention but also they feel when they don't have and what them do is to chase away the attention for themselves, meaning she will flirt with you just for the sake she could fill her void of being desired. Once she really have you in the bed, she will decide what happens next not you, if you want a relationship it is gonna be up to her to accept or not and that's most problem for the men it gets. It is not difficult to sleep with those girls, not difficult at all. It all comes to intimacy and once you realized, you are cornered between the love position you have for her ane the friendzone position she had you for her after. Meaning, women nowadays are also desperate because are gaving up quite easily than usual. That's an issue women are not allowing to happen, they want to be circled around men as much as it is possible to one point she might choose the best of them all after get a piece of them all. That's the type men are facing today and for what is worse, no men are safe texting to any girls. Texting is equally death sentence when it comes to it.
So most women love you for your money. Your advice is don't lose the money? But you need to have money to start worrying to lose it. Your advice is just another piece that has nothing to do with the solution but has to do with sounding intellectual
I agree with Wheat Waffles you should only focus on the girls who give you S-Tier choosing signals. So if she goes silent for a week she is a bad investment of your energy, dump her and look for a better prospect. I don't recommend juggling a large number of low quality prospects; focus on the rare girl who is actually really into you.
If she says "I won't be able to talk much for a week as I'm going up the Amazon/assaulting Fallujah/into orbit" or somesuch, that's different (if at all plausible) :) Or if she gets back after a week with profuse apology & story of some huge disaster, it''s a red flag but use discretion.
My son says he doesn't play ganes , ifthe girl looses interest he justcuts then off and block them he says no second chance , I try and tell him to be more easy going but he says I do t have time for tbis shit
@lloydenque thank you, he says he's not a simp what ever that means , he says mom this isn't the days when you AND Dad got married this isn't 49 Yeats ago
Your son is a realist. Modern womanhood is almost always unreliable and totally self centered. Such beings are not worth spending your time, effort, and resources on.
What about how my gym crush deserted me? We met in the gym, and we had great chemistry initially. We did not meet outside the gym. Two weeks later, she refused to talk to me or even look at me. She gave no warning. It was a totally abrupt change of heart. I did not chase her. It's been more than 2 years now, and she has not come back to me. We still act like total strangers, or maybe even enemies. I guess that I need to move on.
She was not interested in you but was only being polite. She knew you wanted more, so she had to cut it off. Most women will not tell you to your face they are not interested.
@@maurotolari9215 It's probably the case that I did not show enough interest. I kept being platonic, now that I think about it. At the time, I did not know how to escalate the flirting and romance. Anyways, I now want to get revenger on her the best way that there is: by attracting another woman at my gym, and making my first gym crush utterly jealous.
Clever video - very true, even with a wife, Also, over communicating via phone kills attraction, men make more mistakes over the phone, kills chemistry and magnetism l - phone just for swapping info and setting meet ups
Be consumed in yourself that you got no time to waste. Last week, I tried talking to this girl, she ignored me. Within three seconds of being ignored, my attention shifted to my phone and totally forgot about her. Seconds after that she had literally come back to me asking if I needed help. I told her I just wanted to talk to her, then she ignores me and leaves me again. I was so shocked on the level of detachment I have grown into.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
So you’re saying that disappearing for a week is a test to see if that will rattle his emotions? If she disappears for a week I refuse to take her seriously again. It’s not a test, it’s rude and immature behavior that should be called out but in reality if she’s that far gone you can’t help her so don’t waste your energy. You can either just ignore or continue to hookup but never take her seriously after that
Why would you ever take a woman seriously in the first place? Your comment reeks of low value behavior. A secure man is indifferent either way, no need to “refuse” or “call out”, that’s the weak beta male behavior a woman will sniff out a mile away.
02:45 so in this timeline she wasn't just testing you, and she wasn't ultra bussy, she was hooking up with someone else meanwhile. By the time she come back you simultainously passed the test, now what happens, she is more drowned to you, but now I'M TURNED OF, beacause I know the truth. So WTF should I do, just ignore this fact and continue as nothing happened? No thanks
This happened 4 times to me last year.... They disappeared, I continued my life, and I'm currently sitting here watching footy and happy as a pig in 💩!!!
A sane woman wouldn't go off the radar if she genuinely likes you. This means she has other options or simply doesn't like you. Do NOT waste your time, move on, do NOT reply when she tries to seek your attention again. When they do this disappearing "test", the guys who "pass" this are either the ones who don't really care about her, or she's settling for you. You can guess what happens next in either scenario, and the cycle repeats.
I am so uninterested in dating at this point that I don't know why this is in my feed. I've lived my life and while it would have been easier having someone for any kind of support I didn't have that and became successful without it. Now there are women who I no longer want who want me because I'm not an option for them and I tell them to go get a job instead. It's in man's nature to take care of people he's collected but if you aren't allowed to do that then take care of yourself instead.
Yeah, but what AM i supposed to do. I don't double text and I dont even mention her "disappearing" when this happens, and yet it just keeps happening. Hell, there's a girl that, after talking to me once on the phone (phone call) started getting weird with text replies and now she responds once or twice and then vanishes until I text her again later.
In my opinion, if a woman pulls back and does'nt respond or seek contact for 7 days or more in a row, then you are a goner for sure. If she really values you, she won't let you go for such a long period with the risk of losing you to another woman.
As an introvert I am acting very disconnected. They play that disappearing act only to find something a little unpleasant for them. Which is something that usually characterizes me: I don't care about people that much. I never did, which makes me wonder if I am even capable of that. Doesn't seem to be a problem in the modern world tho. 2 weeks relationships are perfectly fine nowadays. They seem to suit my psychological profile.
Hi Chris! I have been following up your videos as those are the real relationship tutorials.. Whatever you explain is hundred percent correct by experience I have faced.. You are the king in this universe of relationship coaching.. Thanks..
I experienced this last week. I asked a girl out on a date and she immediately said yes. The next day over text she straight up asked how much money I make and if I own a house. Of course when the day of our date arrived she ghosted. I asked her what happened and she made up some excuse but then blocked me the next day. Soon after I was blocked I got a follow request from some random account. I'm guessing it's her using a fake account to try keeping tabs on me for some reason.
I have been in no contact for 8 weeks. This girl used to frequently watch my stories on Instagram, but after New Year's, she decided to mute them. Am I on the right track? I feel like it bothers her to see me doing new activities and making progress at the gym.
8 weeks is nothing, some women come after 3 months, 6 months sometimes, and sometimes they don't come back. It doesn't matter, you always have to show strength and ability to walk away. She try to play with your mind to make you contact here, no way. She comes back, she submit, or you're done with her. If you contact her, you will show weakness and she'll look down on you naturally. So stay strong !
8 weeks is nothing, some women come after 3 months, 6 months sometimes, and sometimes they don't come back. It doesn't matter, you always have to show strength and ability to walk away. She try to play with your mind to make you contact here, no way. She comes back, she submit, or you're done with her. If you contact her, you will show weakness and she'll look down on you naturally. A woman have to know you have the ability to walk away to respect you. So stay strong !
Women can pick up in desperation.. if you barely posted when you were dating and now you’re posting all the time.. she can tell you’re only posting things for her to see. You haven’t gone silent.. you need to go ghost and make her wonder about you.
the key is to show an interest, put the offer on the table as mentioned in the video; but not to have any attachment to any outcome. Whether you get rejected or not should be irrelevant, if she ignores you for a week, doesn't text back, who cares? you gotta just shoot your shot without caring about where it leads. That's the confidence women look for, a man who wants them but doesn't necessarily need them
lol i usually just take that as a no and not even be bothered.. like, go F around somewhere else cuz i ain't got time for this. to put it simply, if a video just keeps buffering, there's a lot of other videos to watch instead.
Thank you for your book Chris 🙏🏽 I’m listening to it for the 3rd time as I move about in my day. I highly recommend it and really appreciate the depths you’ve gone to.
"Unworthy" meaning as compared to her long lost of wants, that change in order and degree moment by moment, only to be all set aside if he is really hawt.
I have been helping my freind (60) on how to respond and manage his interactions,said women were taking the piss out of him.He does alot better now, and in the flesh, as me and my girl have pointed out his unnatractive behaviour and clothes sense!
Inmature behavior. When there s genuine interest there a no time for bull shit test. The funny is most women fail choosing the “right one” doing this shit tests.
It's important to not get rattled by the tests and over-pursue but you still need to pursue. You will find yourself losing women if you just ghost when she pulls back.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
My gf broke up with me last year December.last week she said she wants space to heal.she will message me when shes ready What do i do regarding this situation?we were dating for 9 months and its really killing me
Ask her to talk things through. If she says no then just leave. If she says no she’s an avoidant and you’ll never go far with an avoidant. If she can’t sit down and talk with you about problems why even bother with her? In a good relationship you’ll be able to talk to her about anything, even problems.
Ghosting became socially acceptable. Treating people, especially men, like objects that are here only to entertain or boost self-esteem when needed, then just discard without saying anything or taking responsibility for human interaction... Honestly, we went bad road as a society.
Well, cousin, office jobs and office phones were the start of giving women other options in men plus the time to entangle with them.
Facts
@@RandyBaumery-s4i Most women (Modern Western Women, but women in General) should
A - Become subject to SHAMING, for all their Crap they do and all they crap they say, Mostly for what THEY DO (Or do not)
B - Do NOT Give them more, give them less, Except Space. Less resources , time, money, so on so forth
UNTIL PROVEN that it will NOT go to their shitty little heads
The lesson for men is dont put all your energy to courting one woman. Court several until the best one reveals herself.
I tried doing that, but I find it's best to focus on one. Just be ready to move on to the next!
Good luck
Dating multiple people at once used to be the norm before the dating culture changed for the worse.
@@GenerationX1984 Not in my country (UK) but yes I've seen lots of US-ians treat it as normal.
I don't even have the energy for one, f that
The phone is like a portal to another dimension for women away from reality.
😂😂😂😂😂
The problem is that an army of men have done that - sending them between the stars.
Story of Lilith
So so true
Yes
Cell phones as a whole has ruined society.
Purpose achieved sadly smh. It was personally insane working at a place in the Guinness book of World records here in Atlanta. Between 2008-2012 when smart phones starting proliferating.
Every year more new young people who were less friendly and spent every spare minute on their phones started working there.
@@4literv6I bet. It really changed fast in that span after BlackBerrys gave way to iPhone.
Absolutely correct
I highly recommend talking over texting. Keep both to a minimum. Texting has been a death sentence for me.
Yes. When I meet in person it goes great. But dating on apps starts with messaging then getting a number and then texting. Hate it.
Voice messages and videos >> texting
Don't communicate by phone period a woman is not your friend. She has to see you in person
If you meet online, try to meet within a few days. Accept reasonable excuses for delays, eg my now-gf's mother had flown in to the country and was keeping her busy :D
@@meme-zv7kw A teeny bit of phone is ok but move to in person meeting asap. Edit: I don't talk to my friends by phone either. Phone is for family!
*The way to combat this is "Indifference". U have to master this. If she calls/text back cool. If she doesn't cool. Keep it moving like U did before U met her.*
Only works if you are really attractive and she has a hard time to resist you.
@@goranvuletic8873 it's not a one size fit all situation. Each is different
@@goranvuletic8873 If she is not attracted to you in the first place it is not worth your time anyway. You could be persistent, but you need to ask yourself is it worth it. So indifference is the best method to keep your emotion and heart secure.
Just don't get attached. Never ever
none of us have ever thought of that.
any more nuggets of knowledge oh great wise one?
Exactly! Never get to the point of inviting the law into your life through marriage or co-habitation. Marriage rates show we're paying attention: down from 40 men out a 1000 to 3.6 out of a 1000 (mostly newcomers with more sustainable traditions).
@@kidgruesome407 Pointing out the obvious or what else is missing from the video is the point of comment section.
If she isn't giving you the good stuff, she's nothing of yours. No attachment, no feelings, no chasing. Flirt a little if you like but then pull back and ignore her until she chases you and proves she's willing to give you the goods. If she never does, never give her a thought again. Works a treat and saves you from wasting your time for nothing👌🏻👍🏻
This.
Oh yeah best advice in this comment section. If she isn't texting you first it's a wrap.
Use the phone only to set dates and you won’t have this problem.
They want constant attention. If you don't give it, they think you're not interested in them. If you do give it, they find you easy and they get bored of you. They're just fcked up.
CCW
In today's world better to have chats and texts as they may act as evidence in future in case a other partner happens to be a maniac.
The wisest advice I ever received (about women) from another man was this.
Don’t marry a woman you love. Marry a woman who loves you. Find out why she loves you and never lose that.
Thing is, about a woman who loves you. Thing is, take out the probabilities of just being an nucleus accumbens thing. If it really desiring you in a s3xually way then you gotta realize some things.
Women are nowadays desperate as well, meaning they have too much men giving her attention but also they feel when they don't have and what them do is to chase away the attention for themselves, meaning she will flirt with you just for the sake she could fill her void of being desired. Once she really have you in the bed, she will decide what happens next not you, if you want a relationship it is gonna be up to her to accept or not and that's most problem for the men it gets.
It is not difficult to sleep with those girls, not difficult at all. It all comes to intimacy and once you realized, you are cornered between the love position you have for her ane the friendzone position she had you for her after.
Meaning, women nowadays are also desperate because are gaving up quite easily than usual. That's an issue women are not allowing to happen, they want to be circled around men as much as it is possible to one point she might choose the best of them all after get a piece of them all.
That's the type men are facing today and for what is worse, no men are safe texting to any girls. Texting is equally death sentence when it comes to it.
So most women love you for your money. Your advice is don't lose the money? But you need to have money to start worrying to lose it.
Your advice is just another piece that has nothing to do with the solution but has to do with sounding intellectual
Here’s one man that won’t get eliminated. I refuse to recognize their existence.
Haha 😂
COPE
Good luck man. Think it is the best option in the longrun.
Weak avoidant behavior
@@ayebo15 COPE with your wife stealing half of your assets.
I hate this world and the social structure hope it all goes under.
The phone is for setting up dates not for endless chatter
I agree with Wheat Waffles you should only focus on the girls who give you S-Tier choosing signals. So if she goes silent for a week she is a bad investment of your energy, dump her and look for a better prospect. I don't recommend juggling a large number of low quality prospects; focus on the rare girl who is actually really into you.
If she says "I won't be able to talk much for a week as I'm going up the Amazon/assaulting Fallujah/into orbit" or somesuch, that's different (if at all plausible) :) Or if she gets back after a week with profuse apology & story of some huge disaster, it''s a red flag but use discretion.
My son says he doesn't play ganes , ifthe girl looses interest he justcuts then off and block them he says no second chance , I try and tell him to be more easy going but he says I do t have time for tbis shit
Your son is smart and wise
smart
@lloydenque thank you, he says he's not a simp what ever that means , he says mom this isn't the days when you AND Dad got married this isn't 49 Yeats ago
Your son understands VERY WELL to go to Lowe's if he wants TOOLS. THAT'S the ATTITUDE! 👍
Your son is a realist. Modern womanhood is almost always unreliable and totally self centered. Such beings are not worth spending your time, effort, and resources on.
What about how my gym crush deserted me? We met in the gym, and we had great chemistry initially. We did not meet outside the gym. Two weeks later, she refused to talk to me or even look at me. She gave no warning. It was a totally abrupt change of heart. I did not chase her. It's been more than 2 years now, and she has not come back to me. We still act like total strangers, or maybe even enemies. I guess that I need to move on.
You talked to her for two weeks and it's been two years. Yes, you do need to move on.
Probably another dude got in a picture.
She was not interested in you but was only being polite. She knew you wanted more, so she had to cut it off. Most women will not tell you to your face they are not interested.
@@maurotolari9215 It's probably the case that I did not show enough interest. I kept being platonic, now that I think about it. At the time, I did not know how to escalate the flirting and romance. Anyways, I now want to get revenger on her the best way that there is: by attracting another woman at my gym, and making my first gym crush utterly jealous.
theres's hottie at my gym who does this to every guy there lmao
Clever video - very true, even with a wife, Also, over communicating via phone kills attraction, men make more mistakes over the phone, kills chemistry and magnetism l - phone just for swapping info and setting meet ups
Yeah I have several times lost attraction for a woman during a phone 'date" - which can be more like an interview!
Be consumed in yourself that you got no time to waste.
Last week, I tried talking to this girl, she ignored me. Within three seconds of being ignored, my attention shifted to my phone and totally forgot about her. Seconds after that she had literally come back to me asking if I needed help. I told her I just wanted to talk to her, then she ignores me and leaves me again. I was so shocked on the level of detachment I have grown into.
My girlfriend broke up with me because she found 10 online guys who would pay to talk to her, and i REFUSED to pay her money to be in a relationship
Make a persona and catfish her, make an irresistible man and let her get stood up by him over and over, play her like a fiddle until her strings break
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
The spiritual counselor is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.
So you’re saying that disappearing for a week is a test to see if that will rattle his emotions? If she disappears for a week I refuse to take her seriously again. It’s not a test, it’s rude and immature behavior that should be called out but in reality if she’s that far gone you can’t help her so don’t waste your energy. You can either just ignore or continue to hookup but never take her seriously after that
Why would you ever take a woman seriously in the first place? Your comment reeks of low value behavior. A secure man is indifferent either way, no need to “refuse” or “call out”, that’s the weak beta male behavior a woman will sniff out a mile away.
it put hypergamy into astronomical overdrive
02:45 so in this timeline she wasn't just testing you, and she wasn't ultra bussy, she was hooking up with someone else meanwhile. By the time she come back you simultainously passed the test, now what happens, she is more drowned to you, but now I'M TURNED OF, beacause I know the truth. So WTF should I do, just ignore this fact and continue as nothing happened? No thanks
This happened 4 times to me last year.... They disappeared, I continued my life, and I'm currently sitting here watching footy and happy as a pig in 💩!!!
too busy watching dumb dumb ball.
Reciprocity - works in diplomacy and many other relations.
A sane woman wouldn't go off the radar if she genuinely likes you. This means she has other options or simply doesn't like you. Do NOT waste your time, move on, do NOT reply when she tries to seek your attention again. When they do this disappearing "test", the guys who "pass" this are either the ones who don't really care about her, or she's settling for you. You can guess what happens next in either scenario, and the cycle repeats.
I am so uninterested in dating at this point that I don't know why this is in my feed. I've lived my life and while it would have been easier having someone for any kind of support I didn't have that and became successful without it. Now there are women who I no longer want who want me because I'm not an option for them and I tell them to go get a job instead. It's in man's nature to take care of people he's collected but if you aren't allowed to do that then take care of yourself instead.
Yeah, but what AM i supposed to do. I don't double text and I dont even mention her "disappearing" when this happens, and yet it just keeps happening. Hell, there's a girl that, after talking to me once on the phone (phone call) started getting weird with text replies and now she responds once or twice and then vanishes until I text her again later.
Thanks!
Thanks, I appreciate that!
If she doesn’t reciprocate then I don’t participate
Moral of the story
Find someone who likes you
In my opinion, if a woman pulls back and does'nt respond or seek contact for 7 days or more in a row, then you are a goner for sure. If she really values you, she won't let you go for such a long period with the risk of losing you to another woman.
As an introvert I am acting very disconnected. They play that disappearing act only to find something a little unpleasant for them. Which is something that usually characterizes me: I don't care about people that much. I never did, which makes me wonder if I am even capable of that. Doesn't seem to be a problem in the modern world tho. 2 weeks relationships are perfectly fine nowadays. They seem to suit my psychological profile.
Hi Chris! I have been following up your videos as those are the real relationship tutorials.. Whatever you explain is hundred percent correct by experience I have faced.. You are the king in this universe of relationship coaching.. Thanks..
What if we stopped using the phone ? 👀
I experienced this last week. I asked a girl out on a date and she immediately said yes. The next day over text she straight up asked how much money I make and if I own a house. Of course when the day of our date arrived she ghosted. I asked her what happened and she made up some excuse but then blocked me the next day. Soon after I was blocked I got a follow request from some random account. I'm guessing it's her using a fake account to try keeping tabs on me for some reason.
Great informational video,keep it up.
I have been in no contact for 8 weeks. This girl used to frequently watch my stories on Instagram, but after New Year's, she decided to mute them. Am I on the right track? I feel like it bothers her to see me doing new activities and making progress at the gym.
8 weeks is nothing, some women come after 3 months, 6 months sometimes, and sometimes they don't come back. It doesn't matter, you always have to show strength and ability to walk away. She try to play with your mind to make you contact here, no way. She comes back, she submit, or you're done with her. If you contact her, you will show weakness and she'll look down on you naturally. So stay strong !
8 weeks is nothing, some women come after 3 months, 6 months sometimes, and sometimes they don't come back. It doesn't matter, you always have to show strength and ability to walk away. She try to play with your mind to make you contact here, no way. She comes back, she submit, or you're done with her. If you contact her, you will show weakness and she'll look down on you naturally. A woman have to know you have the ability to walk away to respect you. So stay strong !
Move on
Women can pick up in desperation.. if you barely posted when you were dating and now you’re posting all the time.. she can tell you’re only posting things for her to see. You haven’t gone silent.. you need to go ghost and make her wonder about you.
You counting the weeks? You care too much, dude. Good luck out there, you are going to need it...
I learned that it is not good to double text or chase too much over the phone, if she is interested she will reply back, if not just leave it
the key is to show an interest, put the offer on the table as mentioned in the video; but not to have any attachment to any outcome. Whether you get rejected or not should be irrelevant, if she ignores you for a week, doesn't text back, who cares? you gotta just shoot your shot without caring about where it leads. That's the confidence women look for, a man who wants them but doesn't necessarily need them
This is a well spoken video!
I like the video before even watching. I know we’re always about to be taken to church 🙏
💯% always spot on
lol i usually just take that as a no and not even be bothered.. like, go F around somewhere else cuz i ain't got time for this. to put it simply, if a video just keeps buffering, there's a lot of other videos to watch instead.
Thank you for your book Chris 🙏🏽 I’m listening to it for the 3rd time as I move about in my day. I highly recommend it and really appreciate the depths you’ve gone to.
If I call the go route and she don’t run the go, then imma live with an overthrow
Don't take them seriously. She's not your woman, it's just your turn.
Brilliant.
You can put just a little efford in a woman to show your interest in her. But if she turns you down 2-3 times. Then let her go. Dont waste your time.
They call me ghost and i still do not know why 😎
I’ve experienced this. Good video. Good advice.
"Unworthy" meaning as compared to her long lost of wants, that change in order and degree moment by moment, only to be all set aside if he is really hawt.
I have been helping my freind (60) on how to respond and manage his interactions,said women were taking the piss out of him.He does alot better now, and in the flesh, as me and my girl have pointed out his unnatractive behaviour and clothes sense!
Inmature behavior. When there s genuine interest there a no time for bull shit test. The funny is most women fail choosing the “right one” doing this shit tests.
It's important to not get rattled by the tests and over-pursue but you still need to pursue. You will find yourself losing women if you just ghost when she pulls back.
One way to hold a Woman's respect IS to stand on WHAT you say.
The art of "Not giving a fuck", is sometjing I wish I mastered as a teenager, so much time lost.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Good information
I doubt any advanced society will survive being blindsided social media.
And what does not getting emotional show a woman? You have more options ( even if you don’t)
@@Tyler-wl8kq Nope, not that
lol it now 95/5 rule so just don't worry about it gentlemen
Nailed it
Very very true
My gf broke up with me last year December.last week she said she wants space to heal.she will message me when shes ready
What do i do regarding this situation?we were dating for 9 months and its really killing me
You're simping like you never ever seen a woman and don't have self respect.
leave her 4ver.... it will not be worth it, even if she comes back...
Just leave her. The relationship is over
She's riding another chad's... when she dumped she'll coming back to you. Just leave, it's over.
Ask her to talk things through. If she says no then just leave. If she says no she’s an avoidant and you’ll never go far with an avoidant. If she can’t sit down and talk with you about problems why even bother with her? In a good relationship you’ll be able to talk to her about anything, even problems.
DONT GIVE UP!!!
If she disappears because she doesn't want you, then you already failed
I'm an unworthy man. I love it when women ghost me. Sayonara!
1:47 not to brag or anything like that I just realized I’ve done this to women 😅😅😅
When a man loves a woman, he should only love his own mother or daughter. Grandmothers also do apply ❤
Women don't seem to like a lot of things these days.
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Maybe removing international tax on headsets for women?
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They just need ur moneys
I thought she was on her period