I feel once you get good at this, saying no to others is a lot easier. Once it's abundantly clear in your mind what is good for you (through practiced repetition), it's much easier to deny others without explanation
@@oniichan5153 for real tho 🤣 it's a phrase me and my mates say when were messing about 🤣 "sorry for punching u I had to assert my dominance" stuff like that lol
Thanks hamza, you saved me back in 2022 from suicide. This is the first video I've watched of you after a long time, I'm glad you still make long form videos and give genuine, heartfelt advice
Hamza, thanks for turning my life upside down. You motivated me start training seriously and now Im going towards mastering calisthenics and other stuff. I even started a YT channel to teach other guys stuff like you do. I hope this comment boost this video!
damn that video comes at a great time ive been really struggling with just telling people no especially at work to do overtime or other stuff i dont really want to do.
*Now i get the phrase: Trust the process. Not for this specific video but all the hamza"s videos. Do not be scare of feeling no process, keep going. Shut the f*ck up and trust the process. Keep going... A BIG reward is waiting for you.
Here's a story of me if anyone interested to read When I was 16-17 yrs old I decided to go all out on one examination (JEE ADV ). I actually searched for hostels nearby and somehow got a room. Next day I showed up this room to my parents and at night had a discussion about it. My parents knew that I would just fail on what I said cause I was just a little kid or maybe just get depressed and quit. They were ready to provide me with every comfort and just wanted me to study at home or from the shitty coaching classes. But I let my inner comfort get over me and didn't fight enough to live alone. Within next few days everything came back to normal, it looked like everything is okay and I was just being stupid. Today I fear this feeling the most, Now I am 18, I cleared the examination, I got a decent rank but I always wonder what if I just ignored my comfort, what if I just died trying. Did I actually had the courage to keep fighting, did I actually would ignore what others thought, when there was this mountain of self doubt Did I actually had what it takes, but sadly I never found out and sadly got back to the same routine
This is so true, @joshuabridges1597 I started watching hamza in 2022, i was 11-12 years old, this has been the craziest 3-2.5 years of my life. Im grateful af that I started watching hamza. To the point that hamzas videos from 2022 are getting nostalgic ❤
Bro I don't know how you always post what I'm looking for. I'm reading the book Essentialism by Greg Mckeown and here you are with a video on social essentialism :)
Hamza thank you for this video. Can you please make a video on how to talk to everyone you see like in your email? Thanks. I find myself trying to say something and then just being too nervous or not able to follow my thoughts commands.
Boys help me with this decision. My buddy asked me if I wanted to go to an anime convention. I am decent buds with him and I know I would have a good time. However I wanted to focus more on increasing my income and my business. I know I can schedule videos for those days and that I can work early in the morning for my biz when I'm there. My friend is a Jeffery, doesn't take my advice, and once did not help me when in need. I'm not into anime as much as I used to be I was going to go originally just to be a good pal. But remembering my goals and our previous history makes me not want to go. I've told him no already, but I'm having second thoughts since I'm still young.
Hamza, I don't want to live a life like how my parents are living now at all, but my parents have some really useful life skills I won't be able to learn on my own, like cooking barbecue, fixing a vehicle, maintaining a clean and stable house, and dealing with dangerous people. Where am I supposed to learn these skills from without them? A book? UA-cam? I don't know. Anyone have any advice?
how to look better in photos, ik i need to work on the body and get my test levels up as i still have a baby face and not much facial hair at 19 but i can’t always put my finger on the problem, any general advice? clothing, skincare, beard, physique? i’m generally talking full body photos
Yo guys I need some help. I usually never comment and shit but I have nobody good to talk to. Everything and everyone pisses me off and I shit at school and lots of other things. The only things that I am genuinely really good art and music. I never had proper lessons or mentors for either of those things but I just ended up excelling in those 2 subjects. That’s all I was ever known for but it don’t make shit money. Everyone asks what do I want to do when I grow up and I don’t know how to respond because I know they will all think I’m retarded if I say musician or whatever. They just say oh it’s okay you have so much time to decide your path but I know that’s complete bullshit. I’m half way through high school and I still even remember graduating 3rd grade. There’s no way I have all the in the world to decide so please help for the sake of fuck. I have no clue what do with my life. I’ve been an independent artist and musician my whole life, which is the only thing people remember about me, but at the same time it makes me feel stupid af because im shit at so many other things that are expected of me in school. What should I do?
The most important thing to never do in your life, is to give up. I challenged myself 6 months ago to do training, go to the gym and improve myself, and now I have a girlfriend, am beginning to make money at the age of 13 and I feel much better. Just don't give up and follow your dreams. I am sure that if you keep on doing what you love you will be a great artist/musician. Good luck with life bro 🔥 you got it
don't give up, and don't think about what others would think. I'd say get a mentor one way or the other though, mentors are extremely important for career and personal growth. Lastly, I'd say try out posting your work on youtube, soundcloud and whatever you can get your hands on. If you wanna be a musician, work towards being one now. Your journey doesn't have to wait till you graduate, if you think otherwise - you'll end up wasting your time and live in a lot of stress and uncertainty Lastly, have faith in your goal. If you're dedicating your life to that thing, you better treat it like you're ready to give anything up for it. Because there's no reason to have a goal and not be proud of it and happy about it. Take pride in your goal, hell yeah you wanna be musician, no one can take that from you, no matter what they say, if they do - you didn't stick to it hard enough
Men , I eat very healthy food ( organic butter , organic milk , meat . etc but i never lose nor gain fat and since I have no gym around me I do pushups every day , the problem here is , I want to lose fat without loosing size . ANY GUIDANCE ?
God damn I miss you bro Btw why do my life usually suck when you not posting is this like I have to have a guidance or something will I ever break from this?
Good Evening Everyone, You can refer to me as Joe and I'm 15. I've watched Hamza's video's recently and I'm am on a journey to improve my physical fitness and clean up my dirty mindset. Some of the simple things that you can do to feel proud of yourself and set a positive mindset is something simple as not going on your phone for a certain amount of time or sparking up a big conversation with multiple people. Also don't just view the comments, watch the whole video too.
im commenting to just put my hand up and say that there are people who, through introspection and consuming this type of content, came to the conclusion that a certain university course, in a certain city and all the connections that come with the location, is truly the best option for their goals. Never blindly walk into university because it's "what you do", but I dont think hamza wants to specifically deliver the message that university must be avoided at all costs.
8:02 I think you missed the point there Hamza. In the way you're saying this we could think we have nothing to learn from our parents but : okay if they don't manage a business they couldn't give us advices on entrepeneurship but what about building a durable relationship in marriage, assertiveness, moral values. I think we can learn theses things from them
Moral values ok, but most parents are bluepilled and their relationships arent even that great, who knows if they still stayed together if they didnt have kids they are both responsible for
The parents who would force you to go to university are the kind of parents who would crtiticize you if you got anything less than excellent (while being less than excellent themeselves) and in the case of you getting perfect grades, they would slander you for not being happy, or for having few friends, or for having no girlfriend, or for having a girlfriend they don't like... it's endless, though i find that lying to them is not a good way to deal with it, at that point just tell them straight up and make them deal with it, you're an adult at that point and you can find a way out, even if it's hard.
Hey Hamza just need a little help i have spent all of my life i'm 18 being skinny and with diseases i have thelesemia i catch stomach infections and jaundice like you catch fever , have spent most of my lfe with limited diet and medicines waiting for my time to be fit to participate in sports properly and to become attractive and assert a bit dominance but all in vain im 5'5 ,also i never lost after that i even did proper medications with my doctor excersie for 2 years and diet properly but it only gave my sweat 0.5 reult out of 100 after all of this whenever i see myself ,body ,life and yes i have childhood trama and it affected mt till 17 years i feel like i have been fucked by god himself because no matter how had i try i get zero should i give up and start livning like foooder man i was great and academics but all this is finnnaly caught up nd now i dont feel like studing properly as if i have accepted defeate at the hand offate (mrcus arulius said to accept fate should )what should i do .
Hey dude, there's never a perfect time to start anything. That could be a job or training. You don't have to go 100% percent immediately day 1, just like the gym. You don't max out the barbell your first day in, you progressively work your way up to that point. Start slow and easy, such as making your bed and or brushing your teeth before going to bed. Take out bad habits such as late nights and any bad foods you may eat. Do a simple 5 minute cardio session every other day. Most people give up before they even try. You're unfortunate, of course, but not helpless. The only limits you have are the ones you choose to believe. If you believe you are too weak to get strong, then you will stay weak. If you believe you can get strong, then you will. Remember my dude, never give up. Day after day, the results will come💪
say No especially when you don't feel like it 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
no
😂😂😂
0:18 "now I say the N word all the time" 💀
💀
Lmao
Well hamza is of a darker skin
Me asf (I don't know how to say no)
@@astariaj4520 If hes dark, then Im A absolute -Nigga
I feel the hardest no is the one to yourself
No fucking way
Excactly
I want to wank my little wee-wee
No.
I feel once you get good at this, saying no to others is a lot easier. Once it's abundantly clear in your mind what is good for you (through practiced repetition), it's much easier to deny others without explanation
Sounds deep but probly not true
No is the strongest word, you can ever use to assert dominance.
thats such a cringe way to put it
@@oniichan5153 for real tho 🤣 it's a phrase me and my mates say when were messing about 🤣 "sorry for punching u I had to assert my dominance" stuff like that lol
@@oniichan5153every insecure guys have a weird obsession with "asserting dominance" like bro chill just be confident in yourself
"How To Say No To People"
someone said "no" in the comments
No
This is Hormozi-level value, and he's dropping it again and again.
What a legend.
thanks for saving my 7 minutes bro I’ve been living like this without noticing it
Thank u Hamza for being the big brother we needed. Respect
Thank you for changing my life. My habits absolutely changed, you're amazing at your work
Thanks hamza, you saved me back in 2022 from suicide. This is the first video I've watched of you after a long time, I'm glad you still make long form videos and give genuine, heartfelt advice
I Did Not Realize How Needed This Video Was Until I Read The Title, Truly Helpful Thank you.
Hamza we need more mental health videos specifically anxiety related
Confidence is competence, this quote guided me in developing confidence
Man I needed this video like 3 years ago
No
Hamza, thanks for turning my life upside down. You motivated me start training seriously and now Im going towards mastering calisthenics and other stuff. I even started a YT channel to teach other guys stuff like you do. I hope this comment boost this video!
damn that video comes at a great time ive been really struggling with just telling people no especially at work to do overtime or other stuff i dont really want to do.
Bro, i just enjoyed the way you roasted a whole bunch of parents out here, including mine, with facts, lol
Good stuff 💯
Commenting for the algorithm because you’ve changed my life.
👍
Thank you Hamza for the great videos! There's something really inspiring in your videos!
*Now i get the phrase: Trust the process. Not for this specific video but all the hamza"s videos. Do not be scare of feeling no process, keep going. Shut the f*ck up and trust the process. Keep going... A BIG reward is waiting for you.
Loved your twist to this, based on the first video of Alex Hormozi about this! Keep up the good work Hamza
Crazzzyy, this video came at the perfect time. I needed this
this is so perfect timing you have no idea lol
Same, about to dropout from uni
frr I didnt really know how to reject a girl
No!
@janshans653 hows ur day been..?
same starting uni soon gotta be prepared to ignore the night life and acc get where i wanna go
Here's a story of me if anyone interested to read
When I was 16-17 yrs old I decided to go all out on one examination (JEE ADV ). I actually searched for hostels nearby and somehow got a room. Next day I showed up this room to my parents and at night had a discussion about it. My parents knew that I would just fail on what I said cause I was just a little kid or maybe just get depressed and quit. They were ready to provide me with every comfort and just wanted me to study at home or from the shitty coaching classes. But I let my inner comfort get over me and didn't fight enough to live alone. Within next few days everything came back to normal, it looked like everything is okay and I was just being stupid. Today I fear this feeling the most, Now I am 18, I cleared the examination, I got a decent rank but I always wonder what if I just ignored my comfort, what if I just died trying. Did I actually had the courage to keep fighting, did I actually would ignore what others thought, when there was this mountain of self doubt Did I actually had what it takes, but sadly I never found out and sadly got back to the same routine
Thank you Hamza
Appreciate you Hamza!!👍🏽👍🏽
No
"If someone messages you, it's an invitation to reply them, not an obligation"
Well said
bro's voice is amazing !
no
You deserve a comment to boost this video man. Great stuff 😇
Hamza can you please make a guide on being more patient
Awesome video Hamza thanks for your knowledge 🙏🙏
I really needed to hear this video.
I’m turning 14 tomorrow and I’m glad I discovered you this year. My life has improved a lot!
I discovered him when I was 15. I’m 17 now and it’s been the craziest two and a half years.
This is so true, @joshuabridges1597 I started watching hamza in 2022, i was 11-12 years old, this has been the craziest 3-2.5 years of my life. Im grateful af that I started watching hamza. To the point that hamzas videos from 2022 are getting nostalgic ❤
Hamza you should remake the mental health guide but like you do now with slides. Kind of like you did with the aesthetic body guide
Thank you ❤
Bro is slowly transforming into an ottoman prince.
thank you hamza
boy you look like freddie mercury
No.
No
No
Bro I don't know how you always post what I'm looking for. I'm reading the book Essentialism by Greg Mckeown and here you are with a video on social essentialism :)
4:34 Bro Just Violated Our Parents
This video is perfect timing for me.
Bro, you're the best.
Couldn't have come at a better time brother
This video helped me a lot tho. saving it to my legendary videos youtube playlist right now!
No means no. Stay Uncommon!
needed this bro, i always feel bad saying no. any extra tips?
That was an amazing intro. Respect.
Hamza thank you for this video. Can you please make a video on how to talk to everyone you see like in your email? Thanks. I find myself trying to say something and then just being too nervous or not able to follow my thoughts commands.
THX bro!
Boys help me with this decision.
My buddy asked me if I wanted to go to an anime convention. I am decent buds with him and I know I would have a good time.
However I wanted to focus more on increasing my income and my business.
I know I can schedule videos for those days and that I can work early in the morning for my biz when I'm there.
My friend is a Jeffery, doesn't take my advice, and once did not help me when in need. I'm not into anime as much as I used to be I was going to go originally just to be a good pal.
But remembering my goals and our previous history makes me not want to go. I've told him no already, but I'm having second thoughts since I'm still young.
Hamza, could you make us a video on foods that keep you lethargic, preventing you from reaching your potential. Input = output.
Great video but how does he make the floting webcam and using it on slides?
Hamza, I don't want to live a life like how my parents are living now at all, but my parents have some really useful life skills I won't be able to learn on my own, like cooking barbecue, fixing a vehicle, maintaining a clean and stable house, and dealing with dangerous people. Where am I supposed to learn these skills from without them? A book? UA-cam? I don't know. Anyone have any advice?
Hamza Ahmed, Very funny video!
Fucking high value content right here. Love it!
Thanks hamza.
When are you writing a self improvement book Hamza?
Please make your camera bigger for us with phones.
brother woke up feeling funny 🤠
I neeeeed this!!!!!
Thank's
weird timing. literally was berating myself for this exact issue earlier and vowed to change things
There‘s a typo in the description
„Enrol“ instead of „Enroll“
Came in clutch
frrr
After all the intro’s of these guides, I have enough respect from Hamza to level up in runescape (never played it)
how to look better in photos, ik i need to work on the body and get my test levels up as i still have a baby face and not much facial hair at 19 but i can’t always put my finger on the problem, any general advice? clothing, skincare, beard, physique?
i’m generally talking full body photos
Yo guys I need some help. I usually never comment and shit but I have nobody good to talk to. Everything and everyone pisses me off and I shit at school and lots of other things. The only things that I am genuinely really good art and music. I never had proper lessons or mentors for either of those things but I just ended up excelling in those 2 subjects. That’s all I was ever known for but it don’t make shit money. Everyone asks what do I want to do when I grow up and I don’t know how to respond because I know they will all think I’m retarded if I say musician or whatever. They just say oh it’s okay you have so much time to decide your path but I know that’s complete bullshit. I’m half way through high school and I still even remember graduating 3rd grade. There’s no way I have all the in the world to decide so please help for the sake of fuck. I have no clue what do with my life. I’ve been an independent artist and musician my whole life, which is the only thing people remember about me, but at the same time it makes me feel stupid af because im shit at so many other things that are expected of me in school. What should I do?
The most important thing to never do in your life, is to give up. I challenged myself 6 months ago to do training, go to the gym and improve myself, and now I have a girlfriend, am beginning to make money at the age of 13 and I feel much better. Just don't give up and follow your dreams. I am sure that if you keep on doing what you love you will be a great artist/musician. Good luck with life bro 🔥 you got it
don't give up, and don't think about what others would think. I'd say get a mentor one way or the other though, mentors are extremely important for career and personal growth. Lastly, I'd say try out posting your work on youtube, soundcloud and whatever you can get your hands on.
If you wanna be a musician, work towards being one now. Your journey doesn't have to wait till you graduate, if you think otherwise - you'll end up wasting your time and live in a lot of stress and uncertainty
Lastly, have faith in your goal. If you're dedicating your life to that thing, you better treat it like you're ready to give anything up for it. Because there's no reason to have a goal and not be proud of it and happy about it. Take pride in your goal, hell yeah you wanna be musician, no one can take that from you, no matter what they say, if they do - you didn't stick to it hard enough
Despite the fact that people say Hamza has changed, I truly think that Hamza has changed in a net positive way.
Very inspiring.
Yes!
I was in need of this video
bro change that profile picture idolize yourself
@@pavellyulin5470 damn i never thought about that
Its past my bed time bro
What if my parents regrets the thing that they have done and giving me advise to not do this
Men , I eat very healthy food ( organic butter , organic milk , meat . etc but i never lose nor gain fat and since I have no gym around me I do pushups every day , the problem here is , I want to lose fat without loosing size . ANY GUIDANCE ?
bro, tbh i miss very much jefre and adonis films bro
LETS GOOO Hamza finally dropped a full N word guide
any advice on people who don’t text me first, no one texts me first, and I HATE always reaching out, but otherwise i wouldn’t have friendships
There’s no link in the description .
no
😂😂😂
lol
God damn I miss you bro
Btw why do my life usually suck when you not posting is this like I have to have a guidance or something will I ever break from this?
26:00 Bro took off his shirt and his voice got 10x deeper
Great advice Hamza, thank you!
please make a guide for college
Good Evening Everyone, You can refer to me as Joe and I'm 15. I've watched Hamza's video's recently and I'm am on a journey to improve my physical fitness and clean up my dirty mindset. Some of the simple things that you can do to feel proud of yourself and set a positive mindset is something simple as not going on your phone for a certain amount of time or sparking up a big conversation with multiple people. Also don't just view the comments, watch the whole video too.
22:40 I would hope you would be saying no to that 😂
im commenting to just put my hand up and say that there are people who, through introspection and consuming this type of content, came to the conclusion that a certain university course, in a certain city and all the connections that come with the location, is truly the best option for their goals. Never blindly walk into university because it's "what you do", but I dont think hamza wants to specifically deliver the message that university must be avoided at all costs.
8:02 I think you missed the point there Hamza. In the way you're saying this we could think we have nothing to learn from our parents but : okay if they don't manage a business they couldn't give us advices on entrepeneurship but what about building a durable relationship in marriage, assertiveness, moral values. I think we can learn theses things from them
Moral values ok, but most parents are bluepilled and their relationships arent even that great, who knows if they still stayed together if they didnt have kids they are both responsible for
guys guys
Will you go out with me tomorrow??
Where's the link for emails?
How did you get this deep and attractive vocal ???🎉🎉🎉
Neck training will help with that, especially neck curls
The parents who would force you to go to university are the kind of parents who would crtiticize you if you got anything less than excellent (while being less than excellent themeselves) and in the case of you getting perfect grades, they would slander you for not being happy, or for having few friends, or for having no girlfriend, or for having a girlfriend they don't like... it's endless, though i find that lying to them is not a good way to deal with it, at that point just tell them straight up and make them deal with it, you're an adult at that point and you can find a way out, even if it's hard.
No
The first video I stumbled across was the How to destroy your lizard brain. Thank you brother Hamza 💪🏼☯️☮️🧘💯
Hamza just edited his skin
Theres a Word its called "No" if you say it you dont have to Do what other people say
My father is very financially successful, so I’ll definitely listen to some of his advice because I have no intention of being a trust fund baby.
30 seconds in, bro.
Hey Hamza just need a little help i have spent all of my life i'm 18 being skinny and with diseases i have thelesemia i catch stomach infections and jaundice like you catch fever , have spent most of my lfe with limited diet and medicines waiting for my time to be fit to participate in sports properly and to become attractive and assert a bit dominance but all in vain im 5'5 ,also i never lost after that i even did proper medications with my doctor excersie for 2 years and diet properly but it only gave my sweat 0.5 reult out of 100 after all of this whenever i see myself ,body ,life and yes i have childhood trama and it affected mt till 17 years i feel like i have been fucked by god himself because no matter how had i try i get zero should i give up and start livning like foooder man i was great and academics but all this is finnnaly caught up nd now i dont feel like studing properly as if i have accepted defeate at the hand offate (mrcus arulius said to accept fate should )what should i do .
Why do zoomers post an entire wall of text as one single sentence?
you asked if you should give up? broo
Hey dude, there's never a perfect time to start anything. That could be a job or training. You don't have to go 100% percent immediately day 1, just like the gym. You don't max out the barbell your first day in, you progressively work your way up to that point. Start slow and easy, such as making your bed and or brushing your teeth before going to bed. Take out bad habits such as late nights and any bad foods you may eat. Do a simple 5 minute cardio session every other day. Most people give up before they even try. You're unfortunate, of course, but not helpless. The only limits you have are the ones you choose to believe. If you believe you are too weak to get strong, then you will stay weak. If you believe you can get strong, then you will. Remember my dude, never give up. Day after day, the results will come💪
I know this is gonna be a good video
Incredibly based real sigma
GM
Judt say no