Theres something so dystopian about recording strangers having meltdowns. Like if someone were to jump off a building, why is someones first response to record the whole thing. Thats scary and honestly disgusts me.
There's a Syrian show that makes fun of society basically, and in one episode a guy was filming another guy who was attempting and kept saying things like "don't do it" while being live and when he convinced him, he still kicked him to d€ath so that he could get more views. When I saw the episode at first, I thought it was a bit exaggerated, but now I think it's becoming more and more accurate.
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I think filming anyone other than yourself or for a long period (more than a couple of sets) should be banned - but people do need to have the option to 1) check their form 2) for education/instruction
I don't think this should end with TikTok, we need stricter laws for public recording, and for displaying children on videos. At least on a local and state level. I have zero faith that the US federal government will do anything about the US companies who have been doing the same things as TikTok.
@@LocalK5000 lmao the fact you're saying that when you're on UA-cam is hilarious 😂 also, you think just because SOME UA-camrs are full time UA-camrs means they don't depend on the government? Ok... Also there's some like me who cannot work AT ALL. It's not that I don't want to
I think people tend to blame apps and the internet, when it’s really society. People have gotten too comfortable and feel as though everything has to be uploaded now. We lack communication and social skills, as well as being empathetic to others
@@evaphillips2102 speak on it constantly and call people out to check them/help them wake up. get together w like minded folks and converse and create change starting with our own families and friends. just because we’re not politicians or celebrities doesn’t mean we still can’t fight in our own way. we may not be able to influence hundreds and thousands of people but we can help one or a handful of people. that’s a lot better than nothing. every single person counts.
The amount of horrible takes and topics that I’ve seen come off that platform please make it go away. Instagram and Twitter next because the comments on Instagram reels are the reason society is failing.
This!!! I always see reels about a family or friends making a fun appropriate videos of them dancing or singing etc and people in the comments always write “so cringy” “ so corny” “ 🤢” and other mean words it also has come to a point where it takes too far. The other topic is racism. Racism is a huge problem of reels because comments always be saying the n word which is so embarrassing bc when I clicked there pfp there either Hispanic, white, Asian. The other topic is disrespecting other religions. It also comes to a point where others disrespect each other religions because they comment on a religion post and say hurtful words to the religion. Society is becoming normalized this a lot which comes to a point where they don’t know how to keep there mouth shut as well because if you don’t have nothing nice to say then just don’t say it because it can hurt the other persons feelings but of course they don’t care. This is why social medias needs to be deleted
yall are so right bc tiktok used to be the home to awfully disrespectfully vulgar harsh comments at first and now instagram has taken that crown i can see that tiktok is dying out now and its like all of the awful people has moved into instagram and i am now terrified of making an account in fear of getting bullied off the platform its like we went backwards what happened to cyberbullying actually being seen as a serious thing? its like school taught us nothing these days kids cant read but they can type an entire essay on how "ugly" someone is honestly were doomed
@angelzcake938 fr!! This is why my account is private on Instagram and I don't post myself bc I'm scared of the people in the internet brutally making fun of me. Your so right what happened to cyberbullying being an issue? They taught us this back in elementary. Gen alpha has taken over tiktok now
Instagram comments are so disgusting and stupid. And people actually think it's "funny" people are getting dumber and dumber. There's a difference between a "joke" and just being straight up disrespectful and weird. Seeing the things ppl have said when behind a screen makes me lose trust in people. Sometimes I click on their profile and im shocked to see its a parent or young kid.
I actually had a similar experience on a plane quite recently. Someone was having a very obvious psychotic episode and people were taking out their phones n shit?? Like this man is not physically harming anyone, he's just having a serious mental breakdown and your first thought is to RECORD it??? speaks volumes to those people's sense of morality.
Omg... as someone who has experienced such a thing in public, the thought of me being recorded and plastered all over social media seems so terrifying. Like... why would that be someone's initial reaction? So weird, I feel bad for this poor man.
@@nicole757 I agree. I did notice that the flight attendant started filming and she was completely in her right to do so. The man in question was yelling aggressively at her, and I think it was correct of her to have collected that evidence in case something went south. The problem lies with the people who had no reason to film it!
Exactly, TikTok is just as toxic as any other app. It’s not better or worse, it’s just different. The issue is that there are so many issues going on especially right now and people lash out on the Internet, no matter what the platform is.
People publicly outraged over "Quiet on Set" but only silently side-eye Mommy vloggers. IMO, mommy vloggers are WORSE because there's literally zero laws to try to protect minors in social media content. The fact that child stars experienced that level of abu$e WITH legal protections should highlight just how problematic the *lack* of laws for minors on social media is. It seems by the time the law does get involved, it's only after irreversible trauma and extreme abuse gets exposed....
And a lot of kids who’ve grown up from these vloggers go onto explain for tramuatizing it is for a random stranger to go up to them in public and being able to name every single private thing about them. Christ
Almost all of the minor accounts posting adult type sexual content always has "managed by mommy" in their bio. It disgusts me from the bottom of my heart.
I can't understand how the reasoning is "TikTok should be banned because of security risks due to it being a Chinese app" but they don't care how short form social media content in general affects the population negatively. Wish all the short form content would be banned. Remove the reels from Instagram, remove the shorts from UA-cam and ban TikTok. Why everything has to be about money? What about mental health?
@AntiHAESyour own Gov has been doing it for the longest time. China are not the reason for your failure; China just wants to make a shitload of money.
I agree, the negative mental effects on especially the young generation is devastating. Everybody knows that SM is addictive and TikTok took it to the maximum.
The girl talking about her broke boyfriend is just yapping at this point. She should’ve just stopped recording because it’s embarrassing. Like girl go figure out what u are supposed to do. Idk how ppl are comfortable pressing record, propping up a camera, rambling about her financially unstable relationship.
She pretty much answered her own question saying about her previous boyfriend that paid for everything but was a total asshole and then money didn’t make her happy. Also maybe don’t take trips that you can’t even afford and blame him for it. 🤦♀️
Right? All this girl is saying is that he's the perfect boyfriend except he don't got money that she can flaunt. Real Relationships aren't built off how much change you have and I can tell you that. He's a good boyfriend to you then if he's having trouble financially then support him. I'm not saying to ba y him or whatever but just show him that you're there for him and help him to that next level. That's what partners are for. Have you even talked about how you feel about this whole money situation with him before blurting to the internet? This is between you two, not you, him and the entirety of tik tok if they even care to watch.
In germany it's not allowed to publish a photo or video with a stranger in it without their permission. So when someone is doing Street opinion polls the people in it have to sign a paper that they are okay with it. If someone publishes it anyway, you can go to court and they will have to take it down.
@@se2664 Yes it does. People just don't do it. People could easily sue or report these content creators and platforms for posting videos of them without their permission. Surprised there haven't been tons of lawsuits yet.
I support the TikTok banned because of 1. Lack of privacy. People literally go out of their way harassing and recording people for CONTENT. Pranksters, those annoying positivity channels, bullying, clout chasing by rage baiting or being inappropriate in public, doxxing because someone on TikTok is a “victim”, scamming for money ofc, people literally spilling too much of their business online; unnecessary. 2. Misinformation being shared online. 3. The influences to be a degenerate for the sake of becoming a content creator similar as them. Because negative attention is positive attention. Especially when it’s advocated to leave your current job just to be a TikTok creator. 3. Short time span. I will admit I like TikTok because it has videos that’s straight to the point however it does affect people and children time span where they can’t sit and listen to long videos because of the time length. And lastly 4. Other countries banned it or their content platform is different from the US platform. Why in china it’s promoted to be educated, well mannered, and whatever that brings a positive influence to the people of china to improve their economy but yet America is the complete opposite. Please good bye
I deleted tiktok a year or two ago and my attention span is way better now. It was so bad (I was also an underclass man high schooler ) I had issues with doing my school work
Privacy? Every app etc. Has your data and sells it. The reason they are pressed is because this is a foreign company so the greedy corporate Americans in power cant control it. Thats why they said it could stay if they sold it to an American company 😂
If you are recording someone for 15 minutes without their permission you deserve to be mocked and side eyed. As far as I am concerned it is entirely the fault of the influencer.
not to mention she looked to be a young adult while the two girls looked to be high school/early college age. to expect maturity from a child as an adult is the definition of stupidity.
I am so baffled that people are calling the girls mean over this. They have a man filming them. This isn't an uncommon experience for women and I've flipped off my fair share of people who film me. Yeah, it's legal to film in public in some jurisdictions, but you don't get to expect everyone to play willing background characters while you profit off of making them uncomfortable. I support girls rights to flip off men who film them. Support these boss babes who were being bullied by an influencer (aka business) for not submitting to unpaid and nonconsensual content.
Look I'm so fucking tired of us acting like its okay to record in public with other people in the shot WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT and then when they "make fun" of you for doing it, you don't get to be angry. I'd make fun of you too if you took a video and I'm in it without my consent because I'm going to make you as uncomfortable as you are making me. Period. Because the influencers that do this shit know exactly what they're doing. And I'm so fucking tired of it being normalised. I don't have to politely tell you to not record me without my consent because the polite thing to do is NOT DO IT.
exactly. you get what you give out and the influencer can’t be mad over their lack of respect when clearly she didn’t give a damn about respecting them in the first place.
Thank you!!!! Not to mention how hard it is to say "no" to men in general, they chose to show their discomfort which he and the influencer ignored for their own benefit. People who are trying to villanize teenage girls for not just letting a man film them is absolutely wild. They are not mean girls, theyre teenagers dealing with an adult man violating their comfort. And an adult woman crying on TikTok because they didn't submit to them. The influencer is disgusting.
If you're bold enough to be a bitch, then you're bold enough to just politely confront the recorder and tell them to stop and if they don't then go ahead and cuss them out, whatever. Don't just jump on the mean girl train, have some couf.
Thank god you made this video bc sometimes I feel like I’m the last person on earth who doesn’t think recording someone’s mental illness, arrest, etc and posting it online for MILLIONS is a NORMAL THING TO DO.
Recording strangers period is not a normal thing to do. I do not want to be in a strangers video. They should be required to blur people out of videos and photos but I guess that will mess up the “aesthetic “
This is exactly what I thought about. Imagine you’re forced to move and hide from an abvser and your location is exposed bc some tiktoker wants to stick a mic in your face and include the clip of you saying you want no parts, for the whole internet to see
I think the influencer (and Cardi B) were bullying them. They used their platform to shame kids who were uncomfortable with a man standing in front of them and filming them without their consent. I've flipped off my fair share of men, too. Luckily none of them had entitled influencer wives, so I'm in creeps' phones, but not getting doxxed 🥲
Also what if there’s people who are in a kind of witness protection or have a stalker. People just film in public with no disregard of the issues this causes. Schools need permission to take and post pictures of these children but what if they go somewhere after school and are in the background of a strangers video showing location and everything. It’s crazy!
I'm from the class of Scott county high School 2009 graduate, in my sophomore year in 2005 we had to start in my sophomore year in 2005 this is the first year that you had to sign an agreement as a student to allow yourself to be filmed or taking pictures of for things like the newspaper or other events that we're going on in the school, prior to that as far as I know there was no such thing and there was no consent paper or if there was it wasn't as commonplace because most people were not bringing camcorders and big old 80s VHS cameras to high school.
@@SCORPION89199fair enough. I live in Australia and was in kindergarten in 2004, I only know from my experience and others around me. But they’ve always had to do it at the schools I went to. I also asked around and relatives older than me had to at their schools and we all live in different parts of the country. Either way it seems like something that really needs to be done nowadays.
I think it's beyond TikTok and on all social media platforms. People treat UA-cam as if it's reality TV. The vlog channels are strange. No one needs to see other making groceries, going to the gym, cleaning their room, etc. Social media in general has become a huge problem and violation of our personal space and privacy.
I’m sorry, what an invasion of privacy with all these people recording lengthy videos in public places. It’s really inconsiderate and potentially dangerous
It’s not “sounds or like”. It IS solely to have complete control over a main international media outlet. America owns ALL the other main international media apps. Tiktok was the only one that challenged America’s flow control of information
It’s not about TikTok being Chinese, that’s the narrative they use. It’s about regaining more control over people. Since TikTok people all over the world inspired and supported each other to stand up against their governments. Yes this was also happening before TikTok on Instagram, Facebook etc. However not in such a big way and so frequently as on TikTok. Since Facebook and Instagram are owned by U.S company the government can use the data collected from citizens by these companies.
Yes America is upset that so many people have become millionaires through TikTok without the middle man. America does not allow that kind of freedom here.
There is the widely known censorship issue at play, but let's be real and balanced: If it's not banned over here, the U.S. wouldn't have allowed it to exist to this day. Tik Tok is intentionally designed to be a non-Chinese only version of Douyin to comply with U.S. security standards by putting its servers in Singapore and making sure there's no overlapping of Chinese censorship and U.S. national security "jurisdictions." And again it still baffles me why it's specifically African American UA-camrs that are getting way more keen on banning Tik Tok and cancelling China these days (and white republicans are stereotypically like that so that's out of the conversation) -- maybe it's the algorithm for me ...
@yiningfan4642 I'm not sure why you're mentioning African Americans specifically because there are people of all races in the US who want Tiktok banned. Just look at the comment section profiles. It probably is your algorithm.
I just want to make it clear but if you’re like taking a video/a picture of yourself in public and people do happen to be in the background it’s fine because you can’t move everyone out of the way just for a photo/video, but if you focus your video on someone behind you in particular then it’s not okay. like for example taking a picture in Disney, people are obviously going to be behind you and you can’t just tell everyone to move out of the way. hope this makes sense
Yes, it does, but since everyone are such great editors, they should blur their faces. This alone, would deter many people because it would mess up the “aesthetic” of their content. We didn’t have this to worry about when there were printed photos because they were personal and wouldn’t be seen by millions of people.
As far as the baseball video goes, WHY WERE THE BACKGROUND GIRLS BEING VIDEOTAPED WITHOUT CONSENT??? They didn’t want to be apart of the show, and made it known. If you film in public then you run the risk of your videos not coming out perfect.
exactly. the influencer was the true aggressor here but made herself the victim and ruined these girls’ lives. they should’ve been more mature in how they reacted and maybe the video never would have been posted if they had a genuine talk after the cameras went off but ultimately, you can’t just film strangers in public and expect not to get flack for it. it’s ignorant and reeks of entitlement to think that you just do that to other people without any negative consequences. play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. the influencer also seems to be a couple years older than them which makes her look even more ridiculous for letting two teenage girls get to her and making a spectacle out of it bc she wanted the attention of being a victim.
I don’t like being recorded without consent even by people I know closely, never mind a stranger. I think they were immature for making fun of her, but I still think the girl recording was even more wrong before she even posted the video.
@@nxzeerxhit's immature because they're teenagers. Saying no to an adult man who is already aware that you're not comfortable isn't easy even for adult women. They're allowed to be immature.
I think it’s weird that no one considered that maybe those girls were uncomfortable with the girl recording them. Like okay she was recording herself AND everyone around her including them! There is a difference between recording your own face and your surroundings. Those girls are better than me because i would have got up and broke that phone period. Them calling her lame is very high school it’s not the worst insult so who really cares they reacted better than most would have. TikTok has turned the world into a sensitive place with nasty traits and no accountability. The girl recording was in the wrong! And sitting there looking like an idiot for several Minutes instead of just stopping the video is actually passive aggressive behavior. Needless to say I’m happy it’s getting banned let’s see what scraps of people we will be left with when it’s gone.
Not to mention the influencer looked to be a grown woman while the two girls looked to be of high school age. to expect a child to be the bigger person as an adult is just dumb as hell.
So glad to have some reasonable takes! Like are we really going to support an influencer (aka business) who cries about teenagers being uncomfortable with an adult man standing there filming them for profit? I'll flip her off all day every day. It's way too common for men to film us for creep reasons, so it's not suddenly fine because it's for TikTok instead. The influencer was a bully who leveraged her platform against kids because she's a main character with no public awareness.
Yeah, recording at someone have an episode and laughing is just sick and disgusting. They can delete Tik Tok at this point because people no longer don’t know how to be human.
I really think it should be illegal to record people without their consent, I know it’s public spaces blah blah, but that should be changed! I mean with how all the AI is going and youre trying to keep yourself off the internet and then random strangers can just display your face all over the place! Imagine someone was a victim of domestic violence and had fled their abuser and was in hiding and then some influencer posts a video with them in the background and that abuser is able to find them!
The only reason I’m not fully on board with that is because sometimes you can potentially record people without their consent and catch them committing a crime or some other type of heinous act that should be exposed.
@@p.hearting9992right, but that should be used for evidence, not content. If you need to film to protect yourself, it should go in an affidavit, not on social media.
I would say I agree with you to a point, however..... I think it's inevitable that in some way even if it's the back part of your head you are going to be recorded and put on the internet maybe not necessarily in public but of course if you're at a rock concert or a hip hop concert someone's going to film you something's going to film you it might be the TV crew but it could be the girl or boy behind you, so maybe there should be a law where you're not allowed to film someone who's going through a mental breakdown or someone that's acting crazy (unless you're filming it to say show to your pastor or to your family and then you guys are going to pray over that person that God gives them peace but you never actually posted on the internet) what's the score unless you're filming a crime going on so you can show it to the police so that you can prove who did the crime or who stole or who shot somebody other than that yes maybe there should be a law that you shouldn't film anybody if they're in distress like that or having a mental breakdown or some kind of bipolar episode or a seizure.
The girls didn’t react too well in the baseball video BUT it’s extremely uncomfortable to be recorded and you don’t want to be. Try your best to get people out of the shot. It’s weird and an Invasion of privacy.
It is truly weird to record yourself in public and we only have accepted it now because it’s so common. There’s genuinely something wrong with us if we think we’re important enough to record every second of our days. The girls were a bit mean, but if people feel like they have a right to record others in public without their permission, then others should have the right to say what they want about it. It would have been much smarter to simply say “please don’t record me,” but I also understand getting fed up with self-absorbed influencers acting like they’re the only person around and having a less than stellar reaction.
I feel so sorry for gen z, they can’t even make mistakes and learn from it without loosing everything. That’s not how life is. You are supposed to make mistakes and grow from there to do better. It’s rather sad. It’s almost like we are in the age of perfection.
I loathe filming at the gym so much I think it should be illegal. The gym is such a vulnerable place for so many people, regardless of their fitness level. If I had an ED, if I had body dysmorphia, if I was trying to lose weight and feeling incredibly self conscious, the last thing I would want would be to be part of some wanna be influencer’s gym video and then plastered on the internet.
Honestly me too. As a teen, my peers have been so negatively affected by social media but tiktok in general. I feel like the only actual pro of tiktok was small businesses getting to promote their products. My peers are obsessed with this app, and I used to beg my parents to let me have it but they always said no. I'm honestly happy they said no.
Me too. I’m tired of them allowing racism, misogyny and other forms of violent hate but policing marginalized groups over fake community guidelines violations
As someone who had a mental breakdown in a bus years ago, I can't even imagine a video of myself, taken at that moment, being on the internet. It was my first time taking the bus after being hospitalised for a mental disorder for a month. I was isolated and started being scared of being in public. I was so vulnerable. It is beyond me that some folks would just record strangers in such situations. We don't even ask for your help, just basic respect and dignity
17:40 yes! i've seen this a lot, especially with narcissistic or abusive relationships. the abuser will push the victim/survivor to the point of reacting out in various ways and then the abuser will record it, calling them "psychotic" or something similar. i've seen it on tiktok more frequently than anywhere online.
I hate being in the background of someone's live/videos/pics... this is why I always have sunglasses when out in public and I'm usually wearing them in crowds... I don’t blame the women tbh 🤷🏾♀️
to me, TikTok should be banned. Maybe that will help yall reduce the overconsumption, oversharing, mean behavior and rude activity and put yall back into reality.
I was in my car at a drive through with my friends when I accidentally hit the curb to the drive through. I was embarrassed and I looked into my side mirror to see a whole ass grown adults recording me and laughing and pointing at what just happened. I was stuck for like 2 minutes.
The babies for views is the most disgusting thing to me. People are so unoriginal and boring that they just have a kid to secure them with 18 years MINIMUM of content. And then a lot of these turn into full blown family channels and I think we all know where that goes… ♦️
Unfortunately TT probably won’t get banned. But I agree, it should be deleted. And even if it is, like other commenters said, people will just go to another app and be toxic. I am the person who thinks we should do away with social media altogether 🤓☝️
I agreeeee. Social media apps enforce crazy standards that make me want to ram my head into a wall but if i dont use social media then i also wont get to discover amazing creators. Love the good creators, hate the toxicity❤
I agree. It’s too much toxicity and or people being controlling and manipulative. I deleted my social medias two weeks ago and I am proud of myself. Don’t know if I will return. But it needs to be done all of them and get back to going out and meeting new people. Instead of in a room all day with a bright and hot ring light on. If not charge to use it. People sometimes respect things that they pay for.
Moms can share their experiences without exploiting or using their children for content. There is absolutely no excuse to use children in content. They always use the “raising awareness” or “so others can relate” but lets be real, it’s for clout and a bag, the child’s well being is not in the equation.
I agree, the Chinese government is not ENTIRELY the best one (no offense). Children are literally dressing up like teenagers, swearing a being so rude because of the lack of real life human interaction. People spend their time online for 5 hours a day and doing non-online things for 2 hours, which is really bad 😮! If TikTok gets banned the tiktokers can move to UA-cam shorts, where they will maybe get some more views. And national security is very serious, and some people don’t understand that.
It's a slippery slope tbh. I grew up on UA-cam the way Gen Z and Gen A grew up on TikTok, and trust me, UA-cam promoted the same thing and had the same content. The cinnamon challenge, hold your breath challenge, dead gf/bf pranks, etc. It was the wild wild west in these UA-cam streets back in the day, worse than TikTok. Since TikTok is based on an algorithm, what you like is what gets presented to you. If you watch useless garbage, your fyp will be useless garbage. I personally, have learned a lot from TikTok, and do not get a lot of crazy videos on my feed. If we ban TikTok, it'll just open the doors to banning anything just because they want to keep censoring people's opinions and voice.
I get your concern, but the problem is not just TikTok, it’s social media in general. TikTok is portrayed as the most problematic because US does not own it and thus it’s out of its control. I see a huuuge problem on IG and FB too, it has been censoring my community for the past 7 months because we are speaking up on massive violent unaliving process of a certain nation in a certain area in the Middle East. We are being censored like crazy and that’s just because we want to speak up on a very urgent issue.
34:42 but let’s be for real. These mommy contents are not the real example of mothers. Tiktok offer them a large check. You don’t have a lot of mothers dealing with this
I have been waiting for someone to say this. I only have IG that I barely use. I have severed myself from social media. After learning the severe difference between Chinese tiktok and ours, and the mass data collecting. I chose not to participate. I know some people with legit tik tok addictions.
I don’t always agree with you, but I whole heartedly agree with everything in this video. I thought i was truly alone. I’ve been avoiding social media bc I’m tired of seeing people being made fun of. Thanks for making this video, Toni. ♥️
One thing that I know for sure is that my demographic will definitely take the biggest hit from the death of TikTok. Teens make up the bulk of TikTok users.
I honestly didn’t know😂 it wasn’t on my list at all, but I kept accidentally called her Nala. I did have the name Nola on it though 😂 Some names I wanted were Moon, Luna, Snow, and Fancy
The two girls at the baseball game purposely put themselves in *her* video, *POSED FOR THE CAMERA,* laughed, smiled, gave middle fingers, and all. She wasn’t recording them without their permission. In most cases when bullies and Karens are recorded they’re very proud of their behavior and do exactly what these girls did in this video which is to pull out their phone and record their victim back. They don’t actually have a problem with the recording until the video goes viral because they didn’t think it would. The onus is on each of us to behave properly in publicly, not the people documenting our behavior.
This is the reason I still wear a mask. People these days don’t know what is is to be respectful . Everything is a viral moment . I really don’t want to be apart of it bc I have rbf and my thoughts be all over .
8:51 I am actually kinda on the girls’ being called bullies side some because I don’t like being recorded by strangers and I’m not moving seats. They could’ve asked her to turn the camera off rather than just doing that extra shit. I just don’t believe that influencer was made as self conscious by them as she made it out to be in the video she posted cause you are LITERALLY recording yourself in ‘public’ to put out to a more public platform…. Which she still decided to post even after “feeling insecure”. Doxxing home addresses needs to be a federal offense.
I had a colic baby, I could have NEVER filmed like that mom did 💀 I was so exhausted, depressed, not looking as good as her that’s for sure lol. We had NO time to set up a camera or anything, that baby was SCREAMING AND CRYING. So recording it was definitely the last thing in our minds. Props to her for doing it and spreading the word but I literally think: how.
highly agree with the recording strangers in public, a special mention is those users filming their new crushes in public, i dont get why they think its necessary to film them instead of striking up a conversation or greeting them like a proper human being ://
All they have to do now is get rid of the rest of social media platforms, i despise them, i literally use UA-cam every now and then... I deleted my social media a few months ago and my mental health and sleep has improved
This is why east asia is so so so so ahead of US i am sorry if i offended anyone but it is what it is.People never film in crowded places because they don’t want to make others uncomfortable and even if they do they always and always blurr out their faces so as to respect their privacy
If I wasn’t black I’d live in one of the countries over there fr 🫤 You don’t hear any instances of people being pushed onto the tracks, shootings happening every SINGLE goddamn day, they’re 10x more sanitary than America will ever be, etc.
@@Cynical-kl3wyidk I still would rather live in America bc as horrible as the justice system for sxually assalted women is here, it’s damn near nonexistent over there. it’s become a topic of humor almost bc it happens so often to every girl yet society/their government doesn’t bat an eye at all. their self unalive rates are also at an all time high compared to the US for middle/high school/college students bc if you don’t pass one test w near perfect scores, you will be reduced to the lowest classes in society and will never be able to do any other job outside of the ones assigned to your class/status. that’s what happens to the majority of kids who go to school there. they are very superficial people as well and it’s the social norm to treat people based on their money/looks/education/social status. looks very shiny on the outside but is rotten in its core.
@@Cynical-kl3wyJapan is also known for having one of the highest rates for unaliving yourself and people walking into tracks/falling off buildings is like seeing a McDonald’s to them. it’s a very harsh and unforgiving society that Japan has tried to cover and propagandize about through anime and manga.
I was at work when a random teenage girl filmed me for some reason; I guess she and her friends were just being annoying and hyping each other up, but I did go to her and asked her to delete the video and she did. I felt horrible for having to ask but I was so mad and annoyed. (context: I was working at a restaurant at the register, which, I guess was sooooo funny to the teens?)
You shouldn’t be able to upload videos of people online without their consent, including children. It should be illegal. If someone’s doing something inappropriate and you film it bring it to the police not TikTok.
a lot of these ppl who do that are essentially sadists and/or fall into symptoms of antisocial personality disorder which is what most serial killers/school shooters have been diagnosed with. it’s terrifying to see how normalized this apathetic and anti-human behavior is on social media.
It's time for society period to do away with social media i feel like if all social media was deleted people will be back outside looking happy and healthier
If you think about it, people have watched other people being humiliated or even executed in public and that was considered entertainment as well. We look back into the past and ask ourselves how people could be so cruel. The legislation has changed, but not us as humans. People like to feel better than others, if somebody acts out, it basically affirms our sense of superiority.
Even here in South Africa,it’s insane how people use TikTok,I’d say here the most common thing is South Africans being bullies in the comment sections😭I don’t wanna mention which group in terms of the language since South Africa is diverse because I’ll be called out for “tribalism” but jeez they are so rude especially to international people in the comments ,they even swear at them in a language they can’t understand😔💔.
20:51 when they record strangers who are homeless and record themselves “helping them” for clout the homeless person has no choice other than to starve or take humiliation and food/money.
10:13 yesss… inconveniencing other people while trying to film in public is a huge no… i get it: get the vlog footage. But not at the discomfort of others. I vlog in bookstores, library etc etc. but I make sure to not make other uncomfortable. If it’s busy - I don’t film. I wait until people clear out the area I’m in etc etc
A lot of these people don’t have real jobs and make the majority of their income or their only income off TikTok and other Social Media apps. This app is their lifeline😂😂. Plus this app gotta go based off the toxic relationship advice people share, the bad bitch aesthetic that gets promoted, how it’s destroyed the quality and soul of music and how it makes the stupidest people famous
Wouldn't it be nice if people could just put their phones down and live life? It's practically the zombie apocalypse. Like people today can't seem to do the smallest thing without documenting it... If you absolutely insist on documenting every minute detail of your day, at least have some respect for those out in public who have no choice but to be around you. Like for myself I want to be able to go to the gym or go shopping or go to an event without having some stranger recording me for their socials. Also you really need to do some work on yourself if your self-esteem is so low that you have to set up cameras at the gym and hope somebody will look at you for more than a millisecond so you can show everyone that you're so hot people stare at you... I'm just so glad I got to grow up before everyone became add/i/cted to social media and their phones. The worst part is some people can't even manage to drive from point a to point B without being on the phone. Like who cares about everyone else's life right?. 🙄
Also, you have to be a really rotten individual to film someone who is clearly going through a mental health crisis. You need to get off your high horse. Just because you don't deal with mental health issues now doesn't mean you never will. How would you like to be filmed and mocked that way? Starting to wonder if some people in this new generation have no soul....
Hey Toni. Your voice is exactly what I needed to hear when I got home from work. This could be a symptom of schizophrenia, but I live like I am being recorded 24/7 anyway...lol... Idk about anywhere else, but people don't be goin to the clubs where I live cuz all the shootings and whatnot...it's always refreshing to hear your perspective. I don't have kids so I can't really speak on the last part of this episode, but whenever I do have kids, I will strive to give them their best life! So the mean girls at the beginning was just a "photo bomb" gone wrong, I suppose...tho that does not excuse their behavior...I love you for eternity, Toni! Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise! If you don't believe me, check out the "Information Paradox" about Celestial Black Holes! I love you and all your sisters for eternity!
28:28 yesssss… girl you hitting all the points on this topic in this video. We are SO for passed the over sharing at this point…. I don’t get it. There are so many instances I’m like “you could’ve kept that to yourself”. Social media is fun and interactive - but we don’t need to over share to enjoy the enjoyable parts of social media. I’m so overrrrrrrr the “I’m sharing my story for others/so others can learn from my mistakes/because I know other people can relate”. Privacy is no longer a thing at all anymore. & willingly lol not everything is for the internet. Not every moment needs to be broadcasted on the internet… not everything is a reaching moment for the internet world. And not everyone is in the position to be giving advice on the internet. Like baaaaabeeeesssssssss omg 😂😭
This has to be rhetorical right? Ppl have been over sharing, recording other ppl and posting it YEARS before tiktok on Facebook, MySpace, Reddit, Instagram, UA-cam etc. It’s not a TikTok issue, it’s a user issue. Unless I’m missing something.
The bottom line is people dont look at eachother as people anymore. People that do this see themselves as people, and everyone else as things to use or misuse
People also don’t think about safety. I wouldn’t want to be filmed because I have a crazy ex who has threatened to kill me multiple times, and I have moved and changed my phone number and done many things to make sure he can’t find me. Someone could record me and post me on social media and people will know exactly where I am within seconds and it’s all ruined. It’s ridiculous. People only think about themselves.
28:59 I think the original idea behind that was to show not everyone it’s perfect with edited skin and happy all the time….. but it just turned into WILD oversharing
7:02 no need to be mean but also like why would you put other people in your video as if they cannot tell it’s so awkward like maybe they don’t want to be recorded?
I think they do need to be "mean" though if an adult man is continuing to film them after they've made it clear that they're uncomfortable with it. They're teenagers, so they're going to fuck with him instead of being like "hi sir, I know you're legally allowed to film us in public, but we're asking you out of personal respect to please stop filming us." Saying no to men isn't safe, but messing up their shot is better than submitting. I support them being "mean".
This girl in my yoga class would always set her mat up in front of mine and then would record the whole yoga session , I would slide my mat back I’m not sure if i showed up in her videos but it definitely made me uncomfortable.
I'm surprised the women did not sue her filming them. A stadium is technically private property. It's not public property. Also if you film someone and accuse them of something (ie monkeypox), they can sue you for defamation as well as the platform. I'm surprised all these content creators as well as Tik Tok hasn't been brought down quickly by lawsuits. This is likely one of the many reasons Tik Tok is going to be banned. It's not well regulated.
the thing about these “oversharing” videos, is a lot of that stuff is fake. they just do it to go viral and which again, BRING BACK SHAME. why are you THAT desperate for internet virality that you would post stuff like this, fake or not. it’s just so lame. go to work, talk to your friends, take your kids to the park!!!!! its actually so irritating lol.
also just assuming these vids are real, do they not care if the subjects of the videos see it😭😭😭😭 like wouldnt that make it worse if you’re ranting about your broke bf or being pregnant by your brother in law like!?!
Theres something so dystopian about recording strangers having meltdowns. Like if someone were to jump off a building, why is someones first response to record the whole thing. Thats scary and honestly disgusts me.
Watch the anime called psycho-pass it very much covers society taking this kind of turn
Yuuuup. Especially when you hear people snickering or laughing. It honestly makes me nauseous.
@@cameoh.1771is it on Crunchyroll?
There's a Syrian show that makes fun of society basically, and in one episode a guy was filming another guy who was attempting and kept saying things like "don't do it" while being live and when he convinced him, he still kicked him to d€ath so that he could get more views.
When I saw the episode at first, I thought it was a bit exaggerated, but now I think it's becoming more and more accurate.
@@cameoh.1771 Hi! So I don’t know if you need to hear this but if you are struggling right now just know that there is always someone looking out for you. His name is Jesus Christ who died on the cross for your sins! No matter how hard you have been broken, hurt, or cheated he will never leave you or forsake you. I know times can be tough, so how about we make a deal? Put your trust on Him for one week, and pray. See what happens! You would be pleasantly surprised. He helped me in hard and he will help you too:).
I think filming at the gym should be banned.
Amen 🙏
Preach
I think filming anyone other than yourself or for a long period (more than a couple of sets) should be banned - but people do need to have the option to 1) check their form 2) for education/instruction
I've never been to the gym, as I work out in other ways. But yes, per the videos I see on social media, I agree. Filming in gyms should be banned!
I like the idea. I don’t know how to use most of the machines so I watch videos….filmed in the gym…
I don't think this should end with TikTok, we need stricter laws for public recording, and for displaying children on videos. At least on a local and state level. I have zero faith that the US federal government will do anything about the US companies who have been doing the same things as TikTok.
yeah, they only want to do this because it's China. They don't care about mental health or safety. Seems like neither party get it.
Doesn’t Japan have a law against
Publicly recording without consent?
Ban UA-cam too. Everyone should work in a cubicle and depend on the government!
Well they've started creating laws for using children online in one state (can't remember which one) last year
@@LocalK5000 lmao the fact you're saying that when you're on UA-cam is hilarious 😂 also, you think just because SOME UA-camrs are full time UA-camrs means they don't depend on the government? Ok... Also there's some like me who cannot work AT ALL. It's not that I don't want to
I think people tend to blame apps and the internet, when it’s really society. People have gotten too comfortable and feel as though everything has to be uploaded now. We lack communication and social skills, as well as being empathetic to others
Everyone wants to go viral now. What happened to having morals and respect…PRIVACY?
Yea but what can you actionably do about that
@@evaphillips2102 speak on it constantly and call people out to check them/help them wake up. get together w like minded folks and converse and create change starting with our own families and friends. just because we’re not politicians or celebrities doesn’t mean we still can’t fight in our own way. we may not be able to influence hundreds and thousands of people but we can help one or a handful of people. that’s a lot better than nothing. every single person counts.
That part
exactly
The amount of horrible takes and topics that I’ve seen come off that platform please make it go away. Instagram and Twitter next because the comments on Instagram reels are the reason society is failing.
This!!! I always see reels about a family or friends making a fun appropriate videos of them dancing or singing etc and people in the comments always write “so cringy” “ so corny” “ 🤢” and other mean words it also has come to a point where it takes too far. The other topic is racism. Racism is a huge problem of reels because comments always be saying the n word which is so embarrassing bc when I clicked there pfp there either Hispanic, white, Asian. The other topic is disrespecting other religions. It also comes to a point where others disrespect each other religions because they comment on a religion post and say hurtful words to the religion. Society is becoming normalized this a lot which comes to a point where they don’t know how to keep there mouth shut as well because if you don’t have nothing nice to say then just don’t say it because it can hurt the other persons feelings but of course they don’t care. This is why social medias needs to be deleted
@@mawdonkoryesss there is a curse on instagram reel comments im convinced at this point
yall are so right bc tiktok used to be the home to awfully disrespectfully vulgar harsh comments at first and now instagram has taken that crown i can see that tiktok is dying out now and its like all of the awful people has moved into instagram and i am now terrified of making an account in fear of getting bullied off the platform its like we went backwards what happened to cyberbullying actually being seen as a serious thing? its like school taught us nothing these days kids cant read but they can type an entire essay on how "ugly" someone is honestly were doomed
@angelzcake938 fr!! This is why my account is private on Instagram and I don't post myself bc I'm scared of the people in the internet brutally making fun of me. Your so right what happened to cyberbullying being an issue? They taught us this back in elementary. Gen alpha has taken over tiktok now
Instagram comments are so disgusting and stupid. And people actually think it's "funny" people are getting dumber and dumber. There's a difference between a "joke" and just being straight up disrespectful and weird. Seeing the things ppl have said when behind a screen makes me lose trust in people. Sometimes I click on their profile and im shocked to see its a parent or young kid.
I actually had a similar experience on a plane quite recently. Someone was having a very obvious psychotic episode and people were taking out their phones n shit?? Like this man is not physically harming anyone, he's just having a serious mental breakdown and your first thought is to RECORD it??? speaks volumes to those people's sense of morality.
Omg... as someone who has experienced such a thing in public, the thought of me being recorded and plastered all over social media seems so terrifying. Like... why would that be someone's initial reaction? So weird, I feel bad for this poor man.
@@ramonaa.47 my thoughts exactly!
@@haleyfowler193 Yeah, social media is totally to blame here for making people think like that. It's gross.
i think recording is useful in some situations. witness statements are notoriously unreliable, especially in high stress situations
@@nicole757 I agree. I did notice that the flight attendant started filming and she was completely in her right to do so. The man in question was yelling aggressively at her, and I think it was correct of her to have collected that evidence in case something went south. The problem lies with the people who had no reason to film it!
Sad part is if tiktok does get banned. The people of tiktok will just flock to another app. And still do dangerous toxic stuff.
That’s how you know it’s more to the ban. They don’t care about dangerous activities
@@eboniescottexactly
Yep.
It’s a start still because it’s the biggest platform
Exactly, TikTok is just as toxic as any other app. It’s not better or worse, it’s just different. The issue is that there are so many issues going on especially right now and people lash out on the Internet, no matter what the platform is.
People publicly outraged over "Quiet on Set" but only silently side-eye Mommy vloggers. IMO, mommy vloggers are WORSE because there's literally zero laws to try to protect minors in social media content. The fact that child stars experienced that level of abu$e WITH legal protections should highlight just how problematic the *lack* of laws for minors on social media is. It seems by the time the law does get involved, it's only after irreversible trauma and extreme abuse gets exposed....
And a lot of kids who’ve grown up from these vloggers go onto explain for tramuatizing it is for a random stranger to go up to them in public and being able to name every single private thing about them.
Christ
Making false equivalency is why people don't take you seriously.
Almost all of the minor accounts posting adult type sexual content always has "managed by mommy" in their bio. It disgusts me from the bottom of my heart.
The mommy vloggers literally show their kids in the shower. Talking about shower time with my 4 yr old. Smh.
Also it breeds narcissism. Everyone thinks they’re a celebrity and the ‘main character’
Yes exactly, that's why I wish apps such as Facebook and Instagram never existed in the first place
YOU ARE THE MAIN CHARACTER TO YOUR LIFE. BLESS 🤍🤍💯
it was a good point.
I can't understand how the reasoning is "TikTok should be banned because of security risks due to it being a Chinese app" but they don't care how short form social media content in general affects the population negatively. Wish all the short form content would be banned. Remove the reels from Instagram, remove the shorts from UA-cam and ban TikTok. Why everything has to be about money? What about mental health?
National security is why
@AntiHAESyour own Gov has been doing it for the longest time. China are not the reason for your failure; China just wants to make a shitload of money.
@@zerotoanime3953its not
Money affects everyone
I agree, the negative mental effects on especially the young generation is devastating. Everybody knows that SM is addictive and TikTok took it to the maximum.
The girl talking about her broke boyfriend is just yapping at this point. She should’ve just stopped recording because it’s embarrassing. Like girl go figure out what u are supposed to do. Idk how ppl are comfortable pressing record, propping up a camera, rambling about her financially unstable relationship.
She's so weird, smh
She sounds very materialistic. She’s just dumb.
She pretty much answered her own question saying about her previous boyfriend that paid for everything but was a total asshole and then money didn’t make her happy. Also maybe don’t take trips that you can’t even afford and blame him for it. 🤦♀️
Right? All this girl is saying is that he's the perfect boyfriend except he don't got money that she can flaunt. Real Relationships aren't built off how much change you have and I can tell you that. He's a good boyfriend to you then if he's having trouble financially then support him. I'm not saying to ba y him or whatever but just show him that you're there for him and help him to that next level. That's what partners are for. Have you even talked about how you feel about this whole money situation with him before blurting to the internet? This is between you two, not you, him and the entirety of tik tok if they even care to watch.
In germany it's not allowed to publish a photo or video with a stranger in it without their permission. So when someone is doing Street opinion polls the people in it have to sign a paper that they are okay with it. If someone publishes it anyway, you can go to court and they will have to take it down.
Yeah I don’t think that exists in the U.S
@@se2664 Yes it does. People just don't do it. People could easily sue or report these content creators and platforms for posting videos of them without their permission. Surprised there haven't been tons of lawsuits yet.
I support the TikTok banned because of
1. Lack of privacy. People literally go out of their way harassing and recording people for CONTENT. Pranksters, those annoying positivity channels, bullying, clout chasing by rage baiting or being inappropriate in public, doxxing because someone on TikTok is a “victim”, scamming for money ofc, people literally spilling too much of their business online; unnecessary.
2. Misinformation being shared online.
3. The influences to be a degenerate for the sake of becoming a content creator similar as them. Because negative attention is positive attention. Especially when it’s advocated to leave your current job just to be a TikTok creator.
3. Short time span. I will admit I like TikTok because it has videos that’s straight to the point however it does affect people and children time span where they can’t sit and listen to long videos because of the time length.
And lastly 4. Other countries banned it or their content platform is different from the US platform. Why in china it’s promoted to be educated, well mannered, and whatever that brings a positive influence to the people of china to improve their economy but yet America is the complete opposite. Please good bye
Great points. It’s 3 for me that just makes me dislike the app altogether 🥴
I love how people are like
TikTok:🙄😭🤬🤢
UA-cam:❤❤😊😂
I deleted tiktok a year or two ago and my attention span is way better now. It was so bad (I was also an underclass man high schooler ) I had issues with doing my school work
@@JesusisliterallyHimI’m mean, yeah, it’s kinda the best out there
Privacy? Every app etc. Has your data and sells it. The reason they are pressed is because this is a foreign company so the greedy corporate Americans in power cant control it. Thats why they said it could stay if they sold it to an American company 😂
If you are recording someone for 15 minutes without their permission you deserve to be mocked and side eyed. As far as I am concerned it is entirely the fault of the influencer.
not to mention she looked to be a young adult while the two girls looked to be high school/early college age. to expect maturity from a child as an adult is the definition of stupidity.
I am so baffled that people are calling the girls mean over this. They have a man filming them. This isn't an uncommon experience for women and I've flipped off my fair share of people who film me. Yeah, it's legal to film in public in some jurisdictions, but you don't get to expect everyone to play willing background characters while you profit off of making them uncomfortable. I support girls rights to flip off men who film them. Support these boss babes who were being bullied by an influencer (aka business) for not submitting to unpaid and nonconsensual content.
@@Stinkeroniandcheese🙌🏻
Please. Tiktok has ruined my generation lol
I wish tiktok, Facebook, snapchat, and Instagram never existed in the first place
Look I'm so fucking tired of us acting like its okay to record in public with other people in the shot WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT and then when they "make fun" of you for doing it, you don't get to be angry. I'd make fun of you too if you took a video and I'm in it without my consent because I'm going to make you as uncomfortable as you are making me. Period. Because the influencers that do this shit know exactly what they're doing. And I'm so fucking tired of it being normalised. I don't have to politely tell you to not record me without my consent because the polite thing to do is NOT DO IT.
I cover my face every time...i hate it
exactly. you get what you give out and the influencer can’t be mad over their lack of respect when clearly she didn’t give a damn about respecting them in the first place.
Thank you!!!! Not to mention how hard it is to say "no" to men in general, they chose to show their discomfort which he and the influencer ignored for their own benefit. People who are trying to villanize teenage girls for not just letting a man film them is absolutely wild. They are not mean girls, theyre teenagers dealing with an adult man violating their comfort. And an adult woman crying on TikTok because they didn't submit to them. The influencer is disgusting.
If you're bold enough to be a bitch, then you're bold enough to just politely confront the recorder and tell them to stop and if they don't then go ahead and cuss them out, whatever. Don't just jump on the mean girl train, have some couf.
You're being recorded everywhere ALL THE TIME, what world do yall live in?
Thank god you made this video bc sometimes I feel like I’m the last person on earth who doesn’t think recording someone’s mental illness, arrest, etc and posting it online for MILLIONS is a NORMAL THING TO DO.
Recording strangers period is not a normal thing to do. I do not want to be in a strangers video. They should be required to blur people out of videos and photos but I guess that will mess up the “aesthetic “
The over sharing and the child exploitation on TikTok needs to stop
Well tell the parents that!
I feel bad for people who are hiding from stalkers and victims of dv being shown their location
This is exactly what I thought about. Imagine you’re forced to move and hide from an abvser and your location is exposed bc some tiktoker wants to stick a mic in your face and include the clip of you saying you want no parts, for the whole internet to see
I must be a b*tch too, because i don't think they were bullying her. Making fun of her, yes. Being rude, yes. But not bullying.
I think the influencer (and Cardi B) were bullying them. They used their platform to shame kids who were uncomfortable with a man standing in front of them and filming them without their consent. I've flipped off my fair share of men, too. Luckily none of them had entitled influencer wives, so I'm in creeps' phones, but not getting doxxed 🥲
Also what if there’s people who are in a kind of witness protection or have a stalker. People just film in public with no disregard of the issues this causes. Schools need permission to take and post pictures of these children but what if they go somewhere after school and are in the background of a strangers video showing location and everything. It’s crazy!
Teachers film in class too so...
@@namwhhand they shouldn’t be filming either
I'm from the class of Scott county high School 2009 graduate, in my sophomore year in 2005 we had to start in my sophomore year in 2005 this is the first year that you had to sign an agreement as a student to allow yourself to be filmed or taking pictures of for things like the newspaper or other events that we're going on in the school, prior to that as far as I know there was no such thing and there was no consent paper or if there was it wasn't as commonplace because most people were not bringing camcorders and big old 80s VHS cameras to high school.
@@SCORPION89199fair enough. I live in Australia and was in kindergarten in 2004, I only know from my experience and others around me. But they’ve always had to do it at the schools I went to. I also asked around and relatives older than me had to at their schools and we all live in different parts of the country. Either way it seems like something that really needs to be done nowadays.
I think it's beyond TikTok and on all social media platforms. People treat UA-cam as if it's reality TV. The vlog channels are strange. No one needs to see other making groceries, going to the gym, cleaning their room, etc. Social media in general has become a huge problem and violation of our personal space and privacy.
I’m sorry, what an invasion of privacy with all these people recording lengthy videos in public places. It’s really inconsiderate and potentially dangerous
The nerve of them though to tell a Chinese company to sell TikTok to an American company or else. Sounds like an ulterior motive to me.
It’s not “sounds or like”. It IS solely to have complete control over a main international media outlet. America owns ALL the other main international media apps. Tiktok was the only one that challenged America’s flow control of information
The Chinese government does the same thing 😂 in their country all big governments do the same things.
It’s not about TikTok being Chinese, that’s the narrative they use. It’s about regaining more control over people. Since TikTok people all over the world inspired and supported each other to stand up against their governments. Yes this was also happening before TikTok on Instagram, Facebook etc. However not in such a big way and so frequently as on TikTok. Since Facebook and Instagram are owned by U.S company the government can use the data collected from citizens by these companies.
Yes America is upset that so many people have become millionaires through TikTok without the middle man. America does not allow that kind of freedom here.
Not really they’re in operating in America. We have jurisdiction. It’s not free for all. There discussing the American portion of the app
I am so grateful I never download that app. So much toxicity from Tik Tok🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I wish tiktok, snapchat, Facebook and Instagram never existed in the first place, I never had tiktok either and I never will
The fact that TikTok is banned in CHINA speaks for itself. Like HELLO! I’ll be glad to wave it goodbye. It’s the bottom of the barrel app!
Really?? I thought it was just called by another name, douyin. Is it banned omg😅
@@lillanie125yea they have douyin which is just Chinese TikTok LOL
@@lillanie125 It's not banned😭 As the other person said, the identical version is widely available in China
There is the widely known censorship issue at play, but let's be real and balanced: If it's not banned over here, the U.S. wouldn't have allowed it to exist to this day. Tik Tok is intentionally designed to be a non-Chinese only version of Douyin to comply with U.S. security standards by putting its servers in Singapore and making sure there's no overlapping of Chinese censorship and U.S. national security "jurisdictions."
And again it still baffles me why it's specifically African American UA-camrs that are getting way more keen on banning Tik Tok and cancelling China these days (and white republicans are stereotypically like that so that's out of the conversation) -- maybe it's the algorithm for me ...
@yiningfan4642 I'm not sure why you're mentioning African Americans specifically because there are people of all races in the US who want Tiktok banned. Just look at the comment section profiles. It probably is your algorithm.
I just want to make it clear but if you’re like taking a video/a picture of yourself in public and people do happen to be in the background it’s fine because you can’t move everyone out of the way just for a photo/video, but if you focus your video on someone behind you in particular then it’s not okay. like for example taking a picture in Disney, people are obviously going to be behind you and you can’t just tell everyone to move out of the way. hope this makes sense
Yes, it does, but since everyone are such great editors, they should blur their faces. This alone, would deter many people because it would mess up the “aesthetic” of their content. We didn’t have this to worry about when there were printed photos because they were personal and wouldn’t be seen by millions of people.
As far as the baseball video goes, WHY WERE THE BACKGROUND GIRLS BEING VIDEOTAPED WITHOUT CONSENT??? They didn’t want to be apart of the show, and made it known. If you film in public then you run the risk of your videos not coming out perfect.
they just made it known and they were like " if you record me like that I will ruin it" but they became bullies? it's really bad
exactly. the influencer was the true aggressor here but made herself the victim and ruined these girls’ lives. they should’ve been more mature in how they reacted and maybe the video never would have been posted if they had a genuine talk after the cameras went off but ultimately, you can’t just film strangers in public and expect not to get flack for it. it’s ignorant and reeks of entitlement to think that you just do that to other people without any negative consequences. play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. the influencer also seems to be a couple years older than them which makes her look even more ridiculous for letting two teenage girls get to her and making a spectacle out of it bc she wanted the attention of being a victim.
I don’t like being recorded without consent even by people I know closely, never mind a stranger. I think they were immature for making fun of her, but I still think the girl recording was even more wrong before she even posted the video.
@@nxzeerxhit's immature because they're teenagers. Saying no to an adult man who is already aware that you're not comfortable isn't easy even for adult women. They're allowed to be immature.
A BASEBALL STADIUM IS NOT PRIVATE! Theres a literal jumbotron!
I think it’s weird that no one considered that maybe those girls were uncomfortable with the girl recording them. Like okay she was recording herself AND everyone around her including them! There is a difference between recording your own face and your surroundings. Those girls are better than me because i would have got up and broke that phone period. Them calling her lame is very high school it’s not the worst insult so who really cares they reacted better than most would have. TikTok has turned the world into a sensitive place with nasty traits and no accountability. The girl recording was in the wrong! And sitting there looking like an idiot for several
Minutes instead of just stopping the video is actually passive aggressive behavior. Needless to say I’m happy it’s getting banned let’s see what scraps of people we will be left with when it’s gone.
Not to mention the influencer looked to be a grown woman while the two girls looked to be of high school age. to expect a child to be the bigger person as an adult is just dumb as hell.
@@suncrestt4839 yes lmfaoooo she was literally bullying them and playing victim very strange
So glad to have some reasonable takes! Like are we really going to support an influencer (aka business) who cries about teenagers being uncomfortable with an adult man standing there filming them for profit? I'll flip her off all day every day. It's way too common for men to film us for creep reasons, so it's not suddenly fine because it's for TikTok instead. The influencer was a bully who leveraged her platform against kids because she's a main character with no public awareness.
@@Stinkeroniandcheese yess I couldn’t have said it better myself!
DO YOU THINK PEOPLE ON THE JUMBOTRON "ask for consent"?! Its a baseball stadium! yall are so weird!
Yeah, recording at someone have an episode and laughing is just sick and disgusting. They can delete Tik Tok at this point because people no longer don’t know how to be human.
I really think it should be illegal to record people without their consent, I know it’s public spaces blah blah, but that should be changed! I mean with how all the AI is going and youre trying to keep yourself off the internet and then random strangers can just display your face all over the place! Imagine someone was a victim of domestic violence and had fled their abuser and was in hiding and then some influencer posts a video with them in the background and that abuser is able to find them!
The only reason I’m not fully on board with that is because sometimes you can potentially record people without their consent and catch them committing a crime or some other type of heinous act that should be exposed.
@@p.hearting9992right, but that should be used for evidence, not content. If you need to film to protect yourself, it should go in an affidavit, not on social media.
I would say I agree with you to a point, however..... I think it's inevitable that in some way even if it's the back part of your head you are going to be recorded and put on the internet maybe not necessarily in public but of course if you're at a rock concert or a hip hop concert someone's going to film you something's going to film you it might be the TV crew but it could be the girl or boy behind you, so maybe there should be a law where you're not allowed to film someone who's going through a mental breakdown or someone that's acting crazy (unless you're filming it to say show to your pastor or to your family and then you guys are going to pray over that person that God gives them peace but you never actually posted on the internet) what's the score unless you're filming a crime going on so you can show it to the police so that you can prove who did the crime or who stole or who shot somebody other than that yes maybe there should be a law that you shouldn't film anybody if they're in distress like that or having a mental breakdown or some kind of bipolar episode or a seizure.
DO YOU THINK PEOPLE ON THE JUMBOTRON "ask for consent"?! Its a baseball stadium! yall are so weird!
The next DSM will definitely have a whole new class of mental illnesses associated with social media
The girls didn’t react too well in the baseball video BUT it’s extremely uncomfortable to be recorded and you don’t want to be. Try your best to get people out of the shot. It’s weird and an Invasion of privacy.
It is truly weird to record yourself in public and we only have accepted it now because it’s so common. There’s genuinely something wrong with us if we think we’re important enough to record every second of our days. The girls were a bit mean, but if people feel like they have a right to record others in public without their permission, then others should have the right to say what they want about it. It would have been much smarter to simply say “please don’t record me,” but I also understand getting fed up with self-absorbed influencers acting like they’re the only person around and having a less than stellar reaction.
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@@jackiedaytona2434you seem to be the one to grow thick skin. The influencer was well within her rights
I feel so sorry for gen z, they can’t even make mistakes and learn from it without loosing everything. That’s not how life is. You are supposed to make mistakes and grow from there to do better. It’s rather sad. It’s almost like we are in the age of perfection.
I loathe filming at the gym so much I think it should be illegal. The gym is such a vulnerable place for so many people, regardless of their fitness level. If I had an ED, if I had body dysmorphia, if I was trying to lose weight and feeling incredibly self conscious, the last thing I would want would be to be part of some wanna be influencer’s gym video and then plastered on the internet.
Honestly me too. As a teen, my peers have been so negatively affected by social media but tiktok in general. I feel like the only actual pro of tiktok was small businesses getting to promote their products. My peers are obsessed with this app, and I used to beg my parents to let me have it but they always said no. I'm honestly happy they said no.
I love that you just said bring back shame. Ive been saying people need to bring back the right kind of shame for how we act, its insane.
Me too. I’m tired of them allowing racism, misogyny and other forms of violent hate but policing marginalized groups over fake community guidelines violations
As someone who had a mental breakdown in a bus years ago, I can't even imagine a video of myself, taken at that moment, being on the internet. It was my first time taking the bus after being hospitalised for a mental disorder for a month. I was isolated and started being scared of being in public. I was so vulnerable. It is beyond me that some folks would just record strangers in such situations. We don't even ask for your help, just basic respect and dignity
17:40 yes! i've seen this a lot, especially with narcissistic or abusive relationships. the abuser will push the victim/survivor to the point of reacting out in various ways and then the abuser will record it, calling them "psychotic" or something similar. i've seen it on tiktok more frequently than anywhere online.
I hate being in the background of someone's live/videos/pics... this is why I always have sunglasses when out in public and I'm usually wearing them in crowds... I don’t blame the women tbh 🤷🏾♀️
to me, TikTok should be banned. Maybe that will help yall reduce the overconsumption, oversharing, mean behavior and rude activity and put yall back into reality.
Thank you for talking about the “mommy vloggers” they need to be stopped! 🛑
I was in my car at a drive through with my friends when I accidentally hit the curb to the drive through. I was embarrassed and I looked into my side mirror to see a whole ass grown adults recording me and laughing and pointing at what just happened. I was stuck for like 2 minutes.
The babies for views is the most disgusting thing to me. People are so unoriginal and boring that they just have a kid to secure them with 18 years MINIMUM of content.
And then a lot of these turn into full blown family channels and I think we all know where that goes… ♦️
cough cough r*by fr*nke
Unfortunately TT probably won’t get banned. But I agree, it should be deleted. And even if it is, like other commenters said, people will just go to another app and be toxic. I am the person who thinks we should do away with social media altogether 🤓☝️
I agreeeee. Social media apps enforce crazy standards that make me want to ram my head into a wall but if i dont use social media then i also wont get to discover amazing creators. Love the good creators, hate the toxicity❤
I agree. It’s too much toxicity and or people being controlling and manipulative. I deleted my social medias two weeks ago and I am proud of myself. Don’t know if I will return. But it needs to be done all of them and get back to going out and meeting new people. Instead of in a room all day with a bright and hot ring light on. If not charge to use it. People sometimes respect things that they pay for.
I wish tiktok, snapchat, Facebook and Instagram never existed in the first place
Public shame posting has become the new self defense system because people are too scared to defend themselves.
Moms can share their experiences without exploiting or using their children for content. There is absolutely no excuse to use children in content.
They always use the “raising awareness” or “so others can relate” but lets be real, it’s for clout and a bag, the child’s well being is not in the equation.
I agree, the Chinese government is not ENTIRELY the best one (no offense). Children are literally dressing up like teenagers, swearing a being so rude because of the lack of real life human interaction. People spend their time online for 5 hours a day and doing non-online things for 2 hours, which is really bad 😮! If TikTok gets banned the tiktokers can move to UA-cam shorts, where they will maybe get some more views. And national security is very serious, and some people don’t understand that.
and twitter is being banned from brasil, i love it
It's a slippery slope tbh. I grew up on UA-cam the way Gen Z and Gen A grew up on TikTok, and trust me, UA-cam promoted the same thing and had the same content. The cinnamon challenge, hold your breath challenge, dead gf/bf pranks, etc. It was the wild wild west in these UA-cam streets back in the day, worse than TikTok. Since TikTok is based on an algorithm, what you like is what gets presented to you. If you watch useless garbage, your fyp will be useless garbage. I personally, have learned a lot from TikTok, and do not get a lot of crazy videos on my feed. If we ban TikTok, it'll just open the doors to banning anything just because they want to keep censoring people's opinions and voice.
TikTok creates a place for people who have no one to relate to.
that's interesting but can't be true because if no one could relate, it wouldn't be so popular and engaging
@@drnstjhnmeaning they don’t have anyone to relate to in real life when they “log off” . Not millions of strangers who really don’t know them at all.
@@staciegreene2262 no they actually are talking about relating to strangers. i misread the comment a bit. therefore i agree with the original person
This is exactly why I’m not on the clock app lol
I’m inclined to think ole girl talking about she pregnant by her BIL was just playing cause that crying at the end took me out😂😂😂
I agree it should be deleted too!!
Watch the video fully first
Also what about ppl’s businesses
@Janaya102 I was talking abt ppl who r promoting their businesses on there…and I think u talking about content creators..content creating is a job
I’m sick of it, delete that shit!! 😂
I get your concern, but the problem is not just TikTok, it’s social media in general. TikTok is portrayed as the most problematic because US does not own it and thus it’s out of its control. I see a huuuge problem on IG and FB too, it has been censoring my community for the past 7 months because we are speaking up on massive violent unaliving process of a certain nation in a certain area in the Middle East. We are being censored like crazy and that’s just because we want to speak up on a very urgent issue.
34:42 but let’s be for real. These mommy contents are not the real example of mothers. Tiktok offer them a large check. You don’t have a lot of mothers dealing with this
i support the ban too. ban all these apps, they do more good than bad imo
I have been waiting for someone to say this. I only have IG that I barely use. I have severed myself from social media. After learning the severe difference between Chinese tiktok and ours, and the mass data collecting. I chose not to participate. I know some people with legit tik tok addictions.
I don’t always agree with you, but I whole heartedly agree with everything in this video. I thought i was truly alone. I’ve been avoiding social media bc I’m tired of seeing people being made fun of. Thanks for making this video, Toni. ♥️
One thing that I know for sure is that my demographic will definitely take the biggest hit from the death of TikTok. Teens make up the bulk of TikTok users.
Nala is a typical cat lol
Is that her cats name? We had a dog named Nala growing up. She was the best dog ever 😔
@@kristin122 I'm pretty sure that it is. I miss having a dog. I got 4 cats now lol
I honestly didn’t know😂 it wasn’t on my list at all, but I kept accidentally called her Nala. I did have the name Nola on it though 😂 Some names I wanted were Moon, Luna, Snow, and Fancy
Yes that’s her name lol. I love the name!
@@ToniBryanneTV that happened with all my cats. Whatever felt right
The two girls at the baseball game purposely put themselves in *her* video, *POSED FOR THE CAMERA,* laughed, smiled, gave middle fingers, and all. She wasn’t recording them without their permission. In most cases when bullies and Karens are recorded they’re very proud of their behavior and do exactly what these girls did in this video which is to pull out their phone and record their victim back.
They don’t actually have a problem with the recording until the video goes viral because they didn’t think it would. The onus is on each of us to behave properly in publicly, not the people documenting our behavior.
I DIDN’T KNOW YOU HAD SUCH A CUTE CAT. also your takes never miss 🙌
I already deleted tiktok
23:20 this lady’s storytime was exposed as a fake story
This is the reason I still wear a mask. People these days don’t know what is is to be respectful . Everything is a viral moment . I really don’t want to be apart of it bc I have rbf and my thoughts be all over .
8:51 I am actually kinda on the girls’ being called bullies side some because I don’t like being recorded by strangers and I’m not moving seats. They could’ve asked her to turn the camera off rather than just doing that extra shit. I just don’t believe that influencer was made as self conscious by them as she made it out to be in the video she posted cause you are LITERALLY recording yourself in ‘public’ to put out to a more public platform…. Which she still decided to post even after “feeling insecure”. Doxxing home addresses needs to be a federal offense.
Do you think if they were on the jumbotron theyd be mad?? Its a baseball stadium! yall are so weird!
I love how you start each video with a Bible verse! It’s refreshing to see someone of the younger generation showing TMH love and appreciation ❤❤❤
Thank you so much 🤗
I had a colic baby, I could have NEVER filmed like that mom did 💀 I was so exhausted, depressed, not looking as good as her that’s for sure lol. We had NO time to set up a camera or anything, that baby was SCREAMING AND CRYING. So recording it was definitely the last thing in our minds. Props to her for doing it and spreading the word but I literally think: how.
highly agree with the recording strangers in public, a special mention is those users filming their new crushes in public, i dont get why they think its necessary to film them instead of striking up a conversation or greeting them like a proper human being
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All they have to do now is get rid of the rest of social media platforms, i despise them, i literally use UA-cam every now and then... I deleted my social media a few months ago and my mental health and sleep has improved
This is why east asia is so so so so ahead of US i am sorry if i offended anyone but it is what it is.People never film in crowded places because they don’t want to make others uncomfortable and even if they do they always and always blurr out their faces so as to respect their privacy
If I wasn’t black I’d live in one of the countries over there fr 🫤
You don’t hear any instances of people being pushed onto the tracks, shootings happening every SINGLE goddamn day, they’re 10x more sanitary than America will ever be, etc.
Now I’m not saying they don’t have their issues, but compared to the blatant up in your face crimes?? Jesus
@@Cynical-kl3wyidk I still would rather live in America bc as horrible as the justice system for sxually assalted women is here, it’s damn near nonexistent over there. it’s become a topic of humor almost bc it happens so often to every girl yet society/their government doesn’t bat an eye at all. their self unalive rates are also at an all time high compared to the US for middle/high school/college students bc if you don’t pass one test w near perfect scores, you will be reduced to the lowest classes in society and will never be able to do any other job outside of the ones assigned to your class/status. that’s what happens to the majority of kids who go to school there. they are very superficial people as well and it’s the social norm to treat people based on their money/looks/education/social status. looks very shiny on the outside but is rotten in its core.
@@Cynical-kl3wyJapan is also known for having one of the highest rates for unaliving yourself and people walking into tracks/falling off buildings is like seeing a McDonald’s to them. it’s a very harsh and unforgiving society that Japan has tried to cover and propagandize about through anime and manga.
I was at work when a random teenage girl filmed me for some reason; I guess she and her friends were just being annoying and hyping each other up, but I did go to her and asked her to delete the video and she did. I felt horrible for having to ask but I was so mad and annoyed. (context: I was working at a restaurant at the register, which, I guess was sooooo funny to the teens?)
You shouldn’t be able to upload videos of people online without their consent, including children. It should be illegal. If someone’s doing something inappropriate and you film it bring it to the police not TikTok.
The things people do to/how they treat other people they know/don't know for content is CRAZY. Disturbing.
a lot of these ppl who do that are essentially sadists and/or fall into symptoms of antisocial personality disorder which is what most serial killers/school shooters have been diagnosed with. it’s terrifying to see how normalized this apathetic and anti-human behavior is on social media.
It's time for society period to do away with social media i feel like if all social media was deleted people will be back outside looking happy and healthier
Imagine filming I'm feeling like you're about to cry because children behind you are laughing....
If you think about it, people have watched other people being humiliated or even executed in public and that was considered entertainment as well. We look back into the past and ask ourselves how people could be so cruel.
The legislation has changed, but not us as humans.
People like to feel better than others, if somebody acts out, it basically affirms our sense of superiority.
Even here in South Africa,it’s insane how people use TikTok,I’d say here the most common thing is South Africans being bullies in the comment sections😭I don’t wanna mention which group in terms of the language since South Africa is diverse because I’ll be called out for “tribalism” but jeez they are so rude especially to international people in the comments ,they even swear at them in a language they can’t understand😔💔.
20:51 when they record strangers who are homeless and record themselves “helping them” for clout the homeless person has no choice other than to starve or take humiliation and food/money.
10:13 yesss… inconveniencing other people while trying to film in public is a huge no… i get it: get the vlog footage. But not at the discomfort of others. I vlog in bookstores, library etc etc. but I make sure to not make other uncomfortable. If it’s busy - I don’t film. I wait until people clear out the area I’m in etc etc
Imagine being in witness protection and someone films you
I hope they ban UA-cam next because there is not difference. These clout chasing UA-cam pages and podcast are out of control as well .
I love how the cat immediately comes into the cameras view when the video start
A lot of these people don’t have real jobs and make the majority of their income or their only income off TikTok and other Social Media apps. This app is their lifeline😂😂. Plus this app gotta go based off the toxic relationship advice people share, the bad bitch aesthetic that gets promoted, how it’s destroyed the quality and soul of music and how it makes the stupidest people famous
Wouldn't it be nice if people could just put their phones down and live life?
It's practically the zombie apocalypse.
Like people today can't seem to do the smallest thing without documenting it...
If you absolutely insist on documenting every minute detail of your day, at least have some respect for those out in public who have no choice but to be around you. Like for myself I want to be able to go to the gym or go shopping or go to an event without having some stranger recording me for their socials.
Also you really need to do some work on yourself if your self-esteem is so low that you have to set up cameras at the gym and hope somebody will look at you for more than a millisecond so you can show everyone that you're so hot people stare at you...
I'm just so glad I got to grow up before everyone became add/i/cted to social media and their phones.
The worst part is some people can't even manage to drive from point a to point B without being on the phone. Like who cares about everyone else's life right?. 🙄
Also, you have to be a really rotten individual to film someone who is clearly going through a mental health crisis. You need to get off your high horse. Just because you don't deal with mental health issues now doesn't mean you never will. How would you like to be filmed and mocked that way? Starting to wonder if some people in this new generation have no soul....
Hey Toni. Your voice is exactly what I needed to hear when I got home from work. This could be a symptom of schizophrenia, but I live like I am being recorded 24/7 anyway...lol... Idk about anywhere else, but people don't be goin to the clubs where I live cuz all the shootings and whatnot...it's always refreshing to hear your perspective. I don't have kids so I can't really speak on the last part of this episode, but whenever I do have kids, I will strive to give them their best life! So the mean girls at the beginning was just a "photo bomb" gone wrong, I suppose...tho that does not excuse their behavior...I love you for eternity, Toni! Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise! If you don't believe me, check out the "Information Paradox" about Celestial Black Holes! I love you and all your sisters for eternity!
28:28 yesssss… girl you hitting all the points on this topic in this video. We are SO for passed the over sharing at this point…. I don’t get it. There are so many instances I’m like “you could’ve kept that to yourself”. Social media is fun and interactive - but we don’t need to over share to enjoy the enjoyable parts of social media. I’m so overrrrrrrr the “I’m sharing my story for others/so others can learn from my mistakes/because I know other people can relate”. Privacy is no longer a thing at all anymore. & willingly lol not everything is for the internet. Not every moment needs to be broadcasted on the internet… not everything is a reaching moment for the internet world. And not everyone is in the position to be giving advice on the internet. Like baaaaabeeeesssssssss omg 😂😭
This has to be rhetorical right? Ppl have been over sharing, recording other ppl and posting it YEARS before tiktok on Facebook, MySpace, Reddit, Instagram, UA-cam etc. It’s not a TikTok issue, it’s a user issue. Unless I’m missing something.
I think it should be gone its as toxic as a website can get.
The bottom line is people dont look at eachother as people anymore. People that do this see themselves as people, and everyone else as things to use or misuse
People also don’t think about safety. I wouldn’t want to be filmed because I have a crazy ex who has threatened to kill me multiple times, and I have moved and changed my phone number and done many things to make sure he can’t find me. Someone could record me and post me on social media and people will know exactly where I am within seconds and it’s all ruined. It’s ridiculous. People only think about themselves.
7:10 okay but she is recording herself in a public place and recording ppl without their permission. Excuse you we don't want to be in your videos!
28:59 I think the original idea behind that was to show not everyone it’s perfect with edited skin and happy all the time….. but it just turned into WILD oversharing
7:02 no need to be mean but also like why would you put other people in your video as if they cannot tell it’s so awkward like maybe they don’t want to be recorded?
Right. If I’m at a game, I just wanna enjoy the game. I don’t wanna be in someone’s video. It’s weird
@@Ryan-yw8iz it’s just obnoxious I don’t know why people think it’s OK and genuinely I don’t know how they aren’t embarrassed
I think they do need to be "mean" though if an adult man is continuing to film them after they've made it clear that they're uncomfortable with it. They're teenagers, so they're going to fuck with him instead of being like "hi sir, I know you're legally allowed to film us in public, but we're asking you out of personal respect to please stop filming us." Saying no to men isn't safe, but messing up their shot is better than submitting. I support them being "mean".
They have the right not to be filmed
This girl in my yoga class would always set her mat up in front of mine and then would record the whole yoga session , I would slide my mat back I’m not sure if i showed up in her videos but it definitely made me uncomfortable.
I'm surprised the women did not sue her filming them. A stadium is technically private property. It's not public property.
Also if you film someone and accuse them of something (ie monkeypox), they can sue you for defamation as well as the platform.
I'm surprised all these content creators as well as Tik Tok hasn't been brought down quickly by lawsuits.
This is likely one of the many reasons Tik Tok is going to be banned. It's not well regulated.
the thing about these “oversharing” videos, is a lot of that stuff is fake. they just do it to go viral and which again, BRING BACK SHAME. why are you THAT desperate for internet virality that you would post stuff like this, fake or not. it’s just so lame. go to work, talk to your friends, take your kids to the park!!!!! its actually so irritating lol.
also just assuming these vids are real, do they not care if the subjects of the videos see it😭😭😭😭 like wouldnt that make it worse if you’re ranting about your broke bf or being pregnant by your brother in law like!?!